10 Disturbing Details of Dad Who Allegedly Drugged Daughter's Friend's Smoothies
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- Опубликовано: 1 май 2024
- Michael Meyden, 57, faces multiple charges in Oregon after police say he put benzodiazepine in mango smoothies that he insisted his daughter’s friends drink during a sleepover at his home. One of the girls was able to text friends and family, asking to be rescued. Now, Meyden’s former co-workers are recounting odd interactions with him that seem creepy in retrospect. Law&Crime’s Jesse Weber goes through the chilling affidavit against Meyden with personal injury and sex abuse attorney David Ring.
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Went to the site. Seems SUPER sketchy to me. I do not recommend putting your info in.
I think many of us have used it but in order to participate it requires an investigation of your browsing history. I think that's as invasive as what Google did. In fact, I stopped using Google search because I felt I was being targeted because of my faith and political views and they were clearly lying with their search results. I just don't trust companies anymore. I don't think I could agree to this stipulation.
@@Rex_Manning- yeah I agree it didn't look legit
If your kids are at a sleepover, KEEP YOUR RINGER ON HIGH!
Kids should never be sleeping in someone else’s house. I’m not sure why American’s allow this. Even churches in America do sleep over events. They call them “lock-ins”. That is weird. Sleepovers are weird. Allowing your children to go sleep in someone else’s house is not very smart.
@@codechartreuse 🙄 That’s obviously not what I’m saying.
@@codechartreuse the comment I posted was meant to be helpful without shitting all over the parents who didn’t wake up to the messages from their daughter. It is not a crime to not have their ringer on, but it is wise to do so.
Absolutely! My kids always knew they could call us no matter what at any time and we would come get them. I’m sure these parents are relieved their daughter got ahold of them and will do that always in the future.
I have 2 adult daughters, so my phone stays on high all hours😄
They should have swept the house for cameras. Sprinklers, hot tub, showers, spa night? What kind of activities are those for a grown man to be directing girls to do?
Exactly!!
Yup that's what I'm thinking, he was recording their every move.-thats what it seems like
I agree totally
Where is the mom ?!
That is all protocol, there's no doubt a csi team swept the house and any further evidence is likely being held for a trial if that's where this goes, but the affidavit from the victims is more than enough....now because there aren't any other charges filed I'm gonna say nothing of actual consequence was found in the home, no doubt any devices were forensically evaluated as well
Bravo for the girl that continued to find a ride home, AND for the parent(s) who refused to leave the other girl(s) there.
She is very sharp
It wasn’t a parent that picked the girl up but a family friend. The girl’s parents were asleep as it was late at night.
@@stancexpunks But the parents returned with her to get the other girls if you watch the whole video
she really ought not have left the rest of them alone if she kne there was a security issue...'?
@@toericabaker She is a young girl and it was amazing she was able to save herself and after that the friends. Also difficult to ask a family friend to demand to take home girls they do not know
It’s guys like this that make it weird for dads to be dads. Absolutely shameful and abhorrent behavior.
Totally agree. It makes it weird for dad’s to be involved in their daughter’s life to the point sometimes they don’t try and then that raises a whole new bunch of problems for the girl.
Its men
For real. My girl is 4 so all of the situations I wouldn’t even want to be in in the future like parties and whatever are already uncomfortable.
Exactly brother, I ask my friends how their kids are doing all the time.
Sad dude, sad
If you think all men are like this guy, and not that 99% of us would erase him before the law could be involved you have some learning to do@@thatsokay1701
A man living in a $1.2M home is out on a $50K bond after being accused of drugging little girls? Gee, the judge must not be taking this case very seriously. And, according to the NY Post, the dude is chilling in Vancouver while out on bail. Isn't one of the conditions of bail that you aren't supposed to leave the state?
Well…they’re very close, but I do agree. Should be on house arrest in a shack.
Different system entirely for those with means.
If it was my daughter the man wouldn't be able to leave his bed from the full body cast he'd be wearing
Never been inside the house but let your child stay the night? This is wild to me. Parents, we are the first line of defense. Do your due diligence!
My parent would not have let me stay the night
How would going into their house have prevented this from happening?
Yeah, that's absolutely insane to me. Thank goodness this child had the wherewithal to understand exactly what was going on and took appropriate action. Had it not been for her actions, he definitely would have taken advantage of them somehow, that's not me speculating, that's me speaking from the experience of being molested by a man like this as a 12 year old child. I am a 42 year old mom of two now and I have dealt with severe PTSD my entire adult life because of it. I have struggled with depression, anxiety and drug and alcohol addiction (before I was diagnosed and felt the need to "self-medicate", I have 9 years sober today). As a mom, my daughter has only been to one sleepover that wasn't with trusted family members and that was only after several times of meeting the parents and then getting a tour of the house she would be staying in, as well as where they would be sleeping. The mom sent me text messages with pictures updating me the whole way through the sleepover because she understood, lol. It was great. But yeah, parents definitely need to stop being too trusting when it comes to their kids.
Exactly I never let my kids stay over somones house more then 2 hours. thats it.
@@genericamerican7574What they mean is knowing and becoming familiar with the parents of any friend they’d spend time there or at their own house. My friends parents and mine would talk like friends eventually. No you can’t prevent 100% of cases like this but what you don’t do as parents is let your child sleep anywhere you yourself haven’t even been to yet smh. Might as well drop them off anywhere.
I'm a retired RN. Another danger of giving meds to someone without knowing their medical history, is the risk of one of them having allergies to what he gave them. One of them could have died immediately from anaphylaxis. This man is sick. I hope he never has access to his daughter again.
Exactly, which is why he shouldn't be out on bond.
Correct. I have a lot of sensitivities to certain meds and foods and when it comes to meds I have to be like a bulldog. Once in the hospital without looking at my chart a nurse was about to give me a shot that I had bad sensitivities to and was charted not to have, thank goodness I woke and started questioning her, she got mad that I refused the shot but to bad, I don’t want to have my throat swell shut .
now the case just became attempted murder
I understand the concern byt there's only 50 or so reported cases of anaphylaxis as a result of benzodiazepines. It's really really rare to have an allergy to that.
@@aydolette4665 I sure wouldn't risk it, would you? Besides the fact that it is a crime to give prescription drugs to others, also there is a dosage issue.
Back in the 70s, 80s and most of the 90s, children didn't have cell phones to reach out for help. So glad that little girl had her cell phone with her and took action.
So true!! But the fact that the little girls parents were uncontactable when she was staying at someone else's house??
@@sarahwales6276 and not just one set of parents, but two or three sets! Absolutely insane
@@sarahwales6276
That’s what I was thinking…
Yeah very concerning
Folks had home phones…. It’s not like there were absolutely no means of communication except birds. They had phones just not cell phones.
So proud of the young girl who continued to text and call people until she got help. She saved them all. Glad the wife left him and she must have taken the daughter, too. Hope they make sure the daughter is ok.
Hes going to prison no need to take daughter, police will be taking him
No way she lets him get away with this if she was there, so unfortunate.
His wife got smoothie? how she did not ask him what he is doing in the basement?
It took me a minute to understand the different colored straw thing … he wanted to track which girl drank the most of her smoothie. He did it so he could remember which girl had which color and drank how much. That way he knew which girl would be the most drugged and asleep. This is truly horrifying. I hope his daughter was never a victim.
Ohhh i didn't realize that either
Woah.... sharp eye 👁🗨 This guy a creep
Did he drug his daughter, too? That seems to be a question nobody is asking.
I thought he was concerned they could overdose. Leave it to me to think something altruistic when in actuality it's much much darker.
Probably to keep track of the dosage to keep from getting a murder charge.
I would not be surprised if he had had hidden cameras in the shower to record them.
Right
You think JUST like him 😮
from experience?
Yes they have those very small ones that he could just remove after he used them
@@michael5654 the report said that he made them take showers after the hot tub.
Thank goodness this girl text her mom and stopped what ever was going to happen!!
Her instict helped her survive..she's a very smart one
I sure hope his own daughter was questioned as well. Has he been molesting and drugging her all along? The young lady that called her parents kudos to her , she must of been so scared, she is so brave and saved her friends as well. Where was this man's wife? Did he drug her as well to keep her out of the way?
Just thinking the same thing. I really hope someone helps her.
If i remember correctly from back in March when I first heard of this story, the mother was out of town... maybe for work, but dont quote me on that. I turn 44 this month, and my old lady brain may be failing me😂 I do feel like i vaguely remember it being said the mother was out of town.
@@emoliver80 😂 stooop it! 44 is not "old lady brain."😂😂
@@emoliver80 I just turned 40 😢that comment hurt my soul 😂
I think all minors are assigned a victims advocate in these cases. This is actually what my daughter is studying in college.
He crossed the line when he insisted they take showers!!!! I've never had a dad tell me to take a shower when having a sleep over !! ❤Tammy C.
He wanted his meal fresh… he was prepping them for later activities he had in his mind
That’s not the weird part. It’s pretty common knowledge that you should shower after being in the hot tub to wash off the chemicals in hot tubs. It’s really not that weird. It’s all the other stuff that’s not just weird but criminally weird. Insisting they drink his drugged smoothies and coming into their rooms and touching them!
That is why he made them go in the hot-tub. Pretext to wash the chlorine off. He is just phking disgusting. Now his daughter has to go to school and she will be ostrasized.
This predator's daughter is the biggest victim. Poor girl.
so true. poor child!!
She has to go to school with everyone knowing that her father is a sicko. She will be ostracized.
@@justanotherguy469they are wealthier than most. She'll have more options than most children as a result.
@@y2ksurvivor No matter where she goes, no matter how long she lives, she will always know that her father is a sicko.
Shout out to the girl who used her intuition and called her parents.
The news in Seattle said the wife was on a work trip or out of town for some reason. Thankfully his wife did the right thing by divorcing him within 2 months of his arrest and protecting her own children. Too many times we see women stay with their SA husband and place their own children in danger.
Thing that bothers me. The other girls must have been unconscious and alone with him for a fair amount of time before they were picked up.
That’s what I was thinking! One left but the others stayed??
Thank you! Nobody is talking about that and he was alone with them for probably at least an hour and the fact that he told the mother at the door that he would "check on them" makes me wonder if he was quickly "putting things back the way they should be" and I'll just leave it at that. Especially since the one he seemed to have his eye on was now sleeping in the couch bed alone without the protection of the girl who was picked up. There are four young victims here whose lives have been forever changed and they'll be traumatized for life. 😢 I know if I were one of the girls who was heavily drugged, I would always worry that things were done to me and I'll never know what. So very sad. For the parents too.
That first girl texting her family and even looking after her friend putting her arm around her did exactly the right thing and she should be proud. What a star. Scary experience her. She might have saved them all from worse. I feel for his daughter as well.
To be a fly on the wall when mom went back and demanded the rest of the girls. What a queen.
You don’t place your finger under someone’s nose to check if they’re asleep, you do it to check if they’re breathing.
Yeah
Exactly
What was the difference between the drinks? There had to be a reason for the different colored straws.
Exactly.
@@biolife3274 Probably varying levels of the drug, maybe by weight or something?
Parents: if your kids are out overnight PLEASE have your phones on and at your bedside! Why were all the parents unreachable?!😮Unbelievable!
I know
I can't sleep without my phone beside my bed in case one of my kids need me.
Youre a great mommy ♡@Jess4mab
I am guilty of this. My ringer turns off after 830 and I forgot to turn it back on when my daughter had a sleepover.
Absolutely. Agree 100% with you. I do exactly that. My phone is always with me and charged. Even when I'm asleep. I always tell my son to call me anytime, anywhere no questions asked and I will be there ASAP. And he's 23.
Better interview the daughter. She may have more creepy stories. Ugh
Sure she doesn’t want to be more attached to this situation than she already is.
I’m sure they did!
@@JoshuaKerwoodthat’s no longer her choice. Her dad destroyed her childhood for her. What a disaster for her. Really really disturbing. This is why we don’t do sleepovers.
@@JoshuaKerwood the police need to interview her..not that she needs to do an interview to the public
Lol. Like they havent already?
The "directing them" to play in the sprinklers, get in the hot tub, and take showers. Dude had cameras throughout his house, I guarantee it. Also, he looks like a slimy weasel in every one of his photos.
Well said!
I bet he did. I pray this pervert is locked up for the rest of his life
@@askquestions1236 and is placed in general population,
Why didnt they charge him with that then?
@@kenw2225because to search a home they need a warrant
I was a divorced dad with custody of my kids. When my daughter had friends spend the night, I stayed as far away from them as I could. A couple time I set up parties for them at a local park, and had my ex come and be the hostess. I can't imagine any normal dad wanting to be involved in a 12 year-old girls' party.
🙏🫶💝💞🩷💕💖🌺🪻🌹💐🌷 okay, say it again. he's a known freak, once I rang the bell and saw it was just him I'd take my daughter and drive away. he probably also set it up when the mom was at work or out for the night,
Thankyou. A normal man. I'm starting to lose hope, all I seem to hear about are filthy sleazebags who are obsessed with teenaged children. Nice to know there's at least one normal man out there!
@@nme.00104 I don't have a daughter, but ZERO chance I'd let my daughter go to a sleepover where just the dad was going to be home. There have even been stories where women helped enable that type of behavior so it's questionable whether I'd allow it even if the wife was home.
thank u for protecting those girls
My dad would dress up as our butler for tea parties 😂😂 there are normal ways to show your daughter love and support..... Just not by drugging and messing with kids while they sleep..
those pics of him smiling make him look medicated AF himself
Looks like Ned shneebly
And really you must be on drugs to drug some 12 year old girls
for real, i think its just his resting creeper face (RCF)
He smokes medical gas.
@@_TheDarkHalf😂😂😂😂
The girls were brave to call for help!
It was just 1 girl
This guy just looks weird, smug and sleazy.
Smug n sleazy lol
the kind of man to have an asian wife because he is obsessed with anime culture and you are a SA
I have two teenage daughters. My husband has never directed our girls' sleepover activities. They pretty much stay in their rooms, and if they go downstairs to eat or watch tv, he comes upstairs with me because they're too noisy. Being that involved in sleepovers with your daughter is not normal dad behavior.
It’s so sad that a dad wanting to be involved is a red flag but unfortunately you’re right, it’s just not normal behavior.
The poor kids are lucky none of them had an allergic or adverse reaction.
Yeah..... that's why they're lucky
@@michael5654 OP didn't say that's the ONLY reason they're lucky. plus they're right. they could've died, so it's a valid point to make
looks like he's taking his own smoothies by the look of those pics lol
I am so proud of that little girl for being so alert, because you’re right..most kids are too naive and trusting of adults to think they will harm them. I know as a young girl that I would have just let it be, I thought adults were all holy. so kudos to the kid and her parents for getting up and going to get the others as well. Warmed my heart.
I was thinking the same thing. My 12 year old self would’ve probably second guessed what I was seeing and pretended to be asleep. Who knows what would’ve happened. So proud of that brave little girl.
I mean him insisting I drink the smoothie would be weird enough. It would feel like something was up.
I wouldn't be surprised if the sleepover idea came from the dad...What a creep!
They should look through his computer, strip the house down for hidden cameras and check his browser history and social media. They will find something for sure.
I agree. They should have searched his house for hidden cameras. I'm sure there are some hidden in the bathroom.
Just say no to sleepovers. Have friends over for dinner, play and take them home. See you tomorrow!
The scary thing is i wouldn't be surprised if he had made those smoothies with a little bit of alcohol to help those benzos take effect faster. He obviously was trying to make sure they ingested the amount he wanted without overdosing.
It’s extremely difficult to overdose on benzodiazepines.
It would come up in the urine drug screen
Imagine being the daughter. This has got to be so humiliating. He was probably touching her too 😭😭😭😭
Girls do not take showers at sleep overs! NO!
Especially at the request of a dad wtf
This part 🤢 I’m guessing he either had cameras and wanted footage of them in the hot tub, sprinklers, and shower or he was using the sprinklers and hot tub as an excuse to get those girls to shower in his house.
Actual heinous behavior
@@BabyBoy_Milo sadly I think you're absolutely right. It's going to come out that he had cameras 💯 men like this are true evil
Hot tubs are filled with chemicals and potentially bacteria. You really should take a shower after using a hot tub and a parent who owns a hot tub would probably know that. It’s not as weird and crazy as one might think. Obviously, the drugging and touching the girls in any way shape or form while they’re sleeping *is* crazy and sick. No adult should even be in the room with sleeping minors.
They do have to urinate, though. This guy is just a stinking filth.
That smirk is disgusting. Thriw the book at him-- glad the wife divorced and took charge of the child.
he should be given the same time as r.kelly and placed in general population,
YES ❤
A big soft marshmallow like him? He would probably get turned out by the AB within the first 48 hrs
I couldn’t have said it better my damn self!
Wait, do you mean Bill Cosby? I thought rKelly just peed on people.
@@JPSurratt1986R.Kelly went to jail for having young girls as s3x slaves, paying off parents, and a whole lot more. You should watch surviving R.Kelly
I can’t imagine the anger these parents must feel towards this man what he could have done to their daughters is beyond sick
What he already did was heinous
BIG KUDOS to the girl that contacted her parents AND her parents for getting the other girls out of there!
I know understand why my parents did not allow me to go to sleepovers. Luckily, we had a house full of games, pool and basketball goal. Your children missing out on sleepovers isn’t going to kill them!! Protect your kids!
100%
I was 12 and spent the night at a neighbor's house. I was given a drink. I awoke to two adult men creeping to where I was sleeping. I was SA'd. I ran home in terror in the middle of the night. My mom didn't believe me
So I think his plan was SA
I'm so sorry that happened to you, and that your Mom didn't believe you. 😢
@@kellyfitzgerald2035 thank you.
I'm very sorry to hear that and how your mom didn't believe you, 😥😥🙏
I'm truly sorry you experienced that and that you weren't believed. I hope you've found healing 🫂
I believe you. I'm sorry you weren't believed before when it mattered and by who it mattered from. I believe you and I'm so sorry
not only did that brave little girl try everything to get in touch with someone but she also put her arm back around her friend to protect her.
Only $50K bail. WTF.
Exactly
Bidens America guys 😂
If the mom drugged boys she would've had no bond.
@@Mewsfinder these judges were the same garbage even before
Whoever granted him such a low bail amount is probably just like him
The only reason this creep would’ve put his finger across the bottom of this kid’s nose was to see if she was still breathing!
Yeah, this seems like he was testing dose and making sure, as you said, she was still breathing. This could’ve been a trial run.
Yeah but I mean that could have been for anything. To make sure she didn’t die…to make sure she’s asleep for whatever reason. Maybe he just wanted them in bed cuz they wouldn’t go to sleep who knows. It’s weird either way.
What a heroic young lady,that is some amazing natural instincts.
Well which one is it? Is she a hero or was she just following her instincts 😂
@@michael5654 both
Did his daughter wake up and all of her friends were gone? I feel bad for her too. I’m glad the mom divorced him and protected her children.
when my daughter asks why she cant go to sleep overs, i tell her about this creeper.
Check that mans computer guaranteed there is tonnes of cheese pizza on it.
💯 I wouldn’t be surprised if he made some himself by the sounds of this story
My phone ringer was always on high when my kids were at a sleepover, which wasn't often. That young girl must've been in so much panic not being able to reach her parents. Her instincts were on point and she did everything right.
How frustrating and naive of the parents. What's the point of giving your child a mobile. The one time she needed it. 😢
My mom was always weary of sleepovers if there was a father or older brothers in the home. You just don’t know. All of my sleepovers were allowed if I brought the girls to my house, my mom was a school official as well and well known in the community so parents always felt safe.
Very sickening! The ultimate betrayal.
He was targeting someone. He got upset when two of the girls had switched straws .
I don't think this is his first time. If you think about it he would have tried it on someone else (daughter possible) then to find out how it worked then try it on the other girls.there is no defending this man, he had plans and we all know what they were. I just hope they got the daughter away from him.
Man, I don’t think I would have been brave enough to call to go home at that age. I think I would have just stayed awake and pretended to sleep.
Same. Also the fact that I wouldn’t have had a cell phone when I was a kid either, due to the fact they weren’t as common yet. To go home at a sleep over I would have had to ask the parents lol.
@@tysonk-t2130 that too! I didn’t get a cell phone until I was close to graduating high school 🤣
I had a bad feeling about a sleepover that turned out to be mother's intuition. I asked the parents who would be home...just mom and teen son...only to go over at midnight and there were at least 5 men. Took my kid home ASAP.
This is exactly what I always rant about. There is no way of controlling who's in the house. Sickos need access, that's it.
That girl is going to be bullied now for having a creeper dad and I can't even begin to imagine how the mom is feeling.
He looks so slimy 🤢
Well, he just pretty much ruined his daughter's life. What a creepy and selfish a-hole.
That little girl is a hero! I can’t imagine the fear she must have been going through trying to get a hold of her mom and dad at almost 2 in the morning.
This is officially the last Sleepover in human history! He’s ruined it for all of mankind.
Id be searching for cameras in the bathroom, etc.
Exactly! Its weird he insisted on them all having to shower at his house. And if hes willing to drug them, he'd definitely be willing to record them in the shower. F'ing creepy!
This is why my children don't get to go to friends homes. Grandparents for over nights only. What a sick world we live in. 🙏 for the family and girls harmed. He shouldn't have been able to bail out
I host my granddaughters sleep overs. One of the main selling points is it's just me in the house. I know that puts the parents of young girls at ease. It's a sad reality but you can't be too careful.
It's actually statistically more likely it will be a family member or close friend instead of a stranger...I understand why you don't want your kids with strangers
As someone with a close friend whose father was the perpetrator to his grandchildren, not even that is neccesarily safe.
That’s a little intense. Can’t shelter them lol. This is like a 1 in a billion odd. When was the last time you even saw something like this on the news. Gotta live
I was assaulted at a sleepover by a family member. My parents never thought about him being there. You don't know who else may be in the house.
That young lady should be really proud of herself she's saved her friends from a bad situation!!!! This guy is an absolute dirt ball!!!
What a disgusting creep.
This disturbed man has probably put a creepy scare into these poor kids that may follow them throughout their lives!
Somebody had better do something about this creep before he does even more harm to some innocent child!
As Jesse was reading the details, my heart started racing. I’m a 31 year old woman. What he did might not have broken laws but just the fear of KNOWING he was going to was probably so f’ing scary for that little girl. Ugh. I feel awful for them ):
As a Gen Xer who had lots of sleepovers…my parents always had to know the family.
It was usually team mates, neighbors or girls I’d known at school (catholic school).
I remember dads and moms that were drunk, and dad’s ‘accidentally’ walking into the living room in their underpants, and hanging out with the party TOO LONG.
My own dad wore pjs and my mom didn’t drink, so I always felt uncomfortable. I usually told my parents about the parties the next day…and there were a few friends I never got to stay over at again, like the 2 underwear dads houses. 🤮
I wound up not letting my daughter stay over more than one or two of her friends houses, and I was friends with the moms and dads. I was open and honest with my kiddo about creepy parents, and that she could text me with a red heart (our code for danger), and I would immediately come get her.
I usually didn’t sleep well those nights, bc I was hoping she’d be ok.
I always trued to be the sleep over house, or afterschool fun house, so I could monitor and keep the kids safe.
Sorry…but when a kid has a mom and dad, it is weird for the dad to be involved in their daughter’s sleepover. Period.
okay, say it again. even if they are separated or divorced, I wouldn't allow it at all.
Exactly !
As a father of two daughters, I couldn’t agree more! Total craziness!
Sleep overs are a hard NO!! They could have been heavly drugged and they would have remembered nothing. This stuff happens more than we know. Take care of your kids trust no one!!
no it is not.
I’m in my 70s and clearly remember creepy adult men that I would not be near at family gatherings or stay at their homes with friends or cousins. Without cell phones I doubt we could have called for help in the night like the hero of this story. I hope his daughter is safe.
Well, he messed up his child's dad memories. Gross.
I have my daughter trained with a safe word that will get her out of any situation she feels is even slightly off. I was so glad these parents wouldn’t leave without the caring for the other girls 🙏🦋
Should never have been given bail.
So glad that young girl trusted her instincts and pretended to be asleep, texted as many people as she could and got herself and her friends to safety. My heart is sad for the creepy dad’s daughter 😔 I just hope her friends don’t blame her in any way. I hope he gets a heck of a long time in prison.
Has anyone thought about if he did this to his Dtr’s friends. What has he done to his dtr
Yeah, literally everyone is thinking about that. I have no doubt that his daughter was questioned by LE and any other professionals to make her feel comfortable talking. Theres no way they didnt ask his own daughter if anything has ever happened. I feel awful for all the girls, but especially the guys daughter bc that must be humiliating for her and she must feel somewhat responsible even though its obvs not her fault that her dad is a creep.
I feel so bad for all the girls, but imagine being in that situation, knowing something is _very_ wrong and you can't get a hold of your parents?! That's terrifying!
Wow, the poor daughter. Hope her friends don't shun her and are there to support her as well. This is going to ruin her life also.
My parents never let me go to sleepovers as a kid. Always picked me up in the evening before bed. I used to get mad but now I understand. As a parent I don’t think I’ll be allowing it either
Seriously, this girl was raised right. She had the knowledge to understand something wasnt right. we are so easily swayed and timid at that age that it wouldve been easier to convince yourself that nothing was wrong. this girl is a hero and her parents should be proud 👏👏👏👏 she is what we hope our kids are!
This was probably a test run. Or they got super lucky he didn’t assault them.
Ya that what I was thinking. He was testing the waters. May have just rubbed one out when he was standing at bed and girl was naive to it
@@traviswalker4126 yep exactly what I was thinking. He kept touching her and moving her arm because he wasn’t sure if it was working or not. Probably trying to work out his dosing so he didn’t kill them. This dude is calculating.
The different color straws and drinks probably had to do with dosage. A bigger or heavier person would need a little more drug to render her helpless, and of course, he didn't want them to remember what happened to them either.
Vice versa: if the smaller child got a heavier dose she could have died from an overdose....then he would be a murderer.
@@sharonouellette4546 oh I’m sure he used that to make sure each girl got the correct dose. This dude planned this out for awhile I bet.
We hope he didn't assault the two who remained. He was alone with them after she was picked up by the family friend and before her mother returned to collect the other two girls so it was probably at least an hour. He could've done a lot in that time unfortunately.
I was never allowed to go to sleepovers or any friends house. Thanks mom!
She was smart. I went to a lot of girl sleepovers in my teenage years and was messed with by a couple of older brothers
I now understand why my parents never let me go to sleepovers, as a child it made me so mad but as an adult I'm forever grateful for having protective parents! Keep your kids close to you. It's scary out here.
Maybe the wife was drugged too....?
She wasn't in the house.
Out of town
Nobody in video mentioned the daughter's well-being. She is the ultimate victim in this case.
Omg, that poor little girl texting her mom. I would be so devastated if I missed that text. My daughter knows to call me to wake me up. It's because of sick f'ers like this that there are only 4 friends I let my daughter do sleepovers with. It was only two, but I recently expanded because she is almost 16.
You're doing great dont take your eyes off her! ♡
I think it's pretty clear what his plan was. Thank goodness the one girl didn't drink hers and was able to protect her friends.
Oh man I had forgotten about this one. I hope the victims are doing okay.
They are mangokay
I would love to be on that jury!!!! What a creep! His poor daughter!
I guarantee this creep, of all creeps, had hidden cameras everywhere 🤨 His poor daughter & wife 😕
Imagine the shame his daughter is going through. Poor girl.
I really love how the one girl listened to her gut instincts about this freaky weirdo. Also the girl who would not be pressured to drink the drink. *So powerful and so important.*
Brave girl and she acted quickly. She’s very smart to say she has a family emergency and slamming the door to try and wake up her friends.
She saved her self and friends.
The bear! Also I love that we're still trying to pin this on the closest woman to him even though she's not married to him anymore and he had custody of the child at the time and did this all on his own.
This is one man of millions who would even think of doing this. Don’t forget that we have women TEACHERS preying on kids too, but they don’t get jail time. They get a slap on the wrist. Your comment is hurtful and you should really seek therapy. I pray that you don’t have any children, because with your mindset, they are doomed.
I thought they got divorced after the sleepover incident.
I don't think she should be blamed automatically, but I get what you're saying. I think theres a tendancy for people to assume that women should always intuitively "know" when someone is dangerous and prevent harm from happening. Jumping to blame her because, "how could she NOT have known this about her husband!?"
Her story is important to the case, though. For example do we know if she was there or if the parents believed she was to be present at the sleepover? If so, who's to say he didn't drug her, too?
I wonder if other victims will come forward, or other incidents come to light.
They got divorced after the sleepover
We all choose the bear.
@@duangerous Go ahead, no one’s crying about it. We’ll see articles about how women are dying alone in about 30-40 years
LEAVE KIDS ALONE, DAMMIT! 😡🤬
I also think he might have even done this before including his daughter in the past 😡
Whether this is a case of a goofy control freak or a P file, it doesn't really matter. The fact that he drugged these girls is enough to label the guy as a danger to society.
My late husband would never even drive any of my daughters' friends home unless my daughter or I was in the car. Also there was no sleep overs unless I was home.
Always believe your kids when they tell you something is wrong.
Imagine how hard it’s gonna be for his daughter to make and keep friends now. SMH so sick
read after the divorce, the mom moved them to another city.
ANOTHER REASON TO STOP SHARING PHOTOS OF YOUR CHILD ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Before he committed the crime, he was liking photos of one of the girls on Facebook.