Her Crush Killed Her Over A Pregnancy Scare: The Murder Of Ole Miss Student Ally Kostial
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So a hypothetical baby would ruin his life but he didn’t think spending his life behind bars would? 🤔 poor Ally she deserved so much better than this doorknob
That’s an insult to doorknobs. At least they are helpful
he probably didn't think he'd get caught. statistically speaking most murders go unsolved.
Kind of like those who kill their spouse as opposed to getting divorced. Aren’t us humans just the most random and illogical beings….
He likely thought he wouldn’t get caught. He was erasing his problem and would get to move on to a charmed life. Narcissists think they are too smart and good and beloved to be suspected or accused or convicted of the heinous things they do.
@Andreamom001 that's true but he also said "I'm either going to prison or I'm going to die" so he was probably just a nutcase
The fact that he was concerned about how life-ending a pregnancy would be for him and not murdering another person….
Right! There are so many examples of this mindset in murder cases and I can never understand it!
@@babydollyaldi like they think it’s just gonna go away and then they can live happily ever after?
Came here to say this! So heartbreaking.
@@babydollyaldiㅔㅔ
And he didn't even have a plan to get away with it evil and stupid what a winning combination
So murdering her and not raising a baby was easier than serving life in prison? Is he dumb?????? What a weirdo.
He thought he'd get away with it.
But like Kendall says, he was probably just evil, a lost cause, and if it wasn't this poor girl it would have been another for another equally stupid reason.
He's evil.
@@dante6985I think no one would be able to get through to that evil villainous boy.
"He was a ladies man" ( * shows picture of uncooked chicken breast * )
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I have submitted my cousin Brittani's case to you a couple of times. She was strangled to death by her soon to be ex-husband on May 27, 2023 and he still has not been arrested. My family is really struggling with her loss, especially since it is coming up on the one year anniversary without even a hint of justice. We would be so grateful if you could bring attention to her case.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Twenty years is a long time to wait for justice!
I think there is a separate place on the community page to get Kendal to see this stand out.
I think she meant to say 2023 not 2003
I’m sorry for you loss . I’m commenting and liking to raise the chance of Kendall and her team seeing this . However, I would suggest you becoming a member and submitting the members’ request form instead . In one of her videos, she says that her regular request form became very saturated with about a 9K submissions . Members’ forms are a lot more secluded and selective . Good luck
I am so sorry for your loss💔….i can imagine how beyond frustrating it must be to have received no justice at this point! Sometimes I just do not understand where LE and prosecutors are coming from in these domestic violence cases…..I truly hope that Brittani, you and all of her family members and friends do receive the justice that is so badly needed in her case! God bless you💐
The “TAK3IT” license plate tells me everything I need to know about this little dude.
What does this mean?
That's what I said. Smdh
I am going to say it means Take It
Agreed. When I heard that I knew. 'hello Im a self-absorbed pos'
my exact thought
One of the kindest people who I went to school with!! Thank you for covering her story🩷
What a devastating loss. The entire world lost a highlight of society. My heart BLEEEDS for her family & friends.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Brandon is horrible.
@@Anabee3same
As soon as I seen his picture I thought to myself, that’s a “my daddy will buy me out of this” type of dude 🙄
Agreed. He literally screams that in his photos. What a douche
@@kellikloepfer1338 extremely douche 😐
True he does look like one 😅
@@v.r.m.891 riiite 😅
Many of us have wasted so much time on someone that wasn't worth it. She deserved to live to learn that lesson. He deserves to live the rest of his life in prison.
She DID live long enough to learn that. Barely.
@traybern that's true. It's sad at that point it was too late to do anything about it.
Very well said
Amen.
Wow … I just left a very toxic relationship of two years where I almost lost myself over him. I’m so mad Aly didn’t live to find the love she deserved .
She wasn't good enough for him to announce in public, but good enough to hookup with in private. I feel sad that she gave her heart and body to a leech like him.
That’s exactly what happened with the genetic father of my son and it ended horribly. He’s not even Liam’s dad anymore. Atleast I have our son and he didn’t get everything he wanted
@@Hxperiment666. So YOU CHOSE a TOTAL LOSER. I blame YOU!!!!!!!
“They all look the same in the dark.”
That's most men who don't like you enough, don't force yourselves on such men, he did make it clear he wasn't into her at all ,she kept throwing herself at him and faking a pregnancy to trap dude,she didn't deserve death but when someone shows you who they are, believe them
@@aselyne5631literally they said she wasn’t pregnant at that time, she could have had a miscarriage. Like..?
As a mississippi girl myself, my love goes out to the family affected.
but a side note - it gave me absolute chills when kendall said that two people could engage in the same type of relationship but both view it completely different. that deeply resonates probably for a lot of people with big hearts.
The fact that you made your background pink for her and described her so thoughtfully is…it’s really special. Gone but not forgotten. It’s clear her legacy lives on. ❤
Guys, if you don't want kids, either don't have sex or use protection. This isn't rocket science, and women do not get pregnant by themselves. It takes two. Use condoms at the bare minimum, and talk to your partner about birth control pills, IUDs, or whatever. And do this BEFORE you have sex with them. I'm so sick of seeing women get the blame for something that we can not do on our own.
Ally deserved so much better.
Women can’t get pregnant on their own, but they also allow their bodies to be entered by the man. More women should be pushing for birth control and decline sex if their partners don’t wanna wear condoms. It’s not just a man’s problem. It’s everyone’s problem.
Yes both should recieve the blame because both are capable of using birth control or practicing abstinence. Especially if a man tells me he doesn't want kids then I would take him serious and either use bc every time or just not sleep with him.
@t.elizabeth7846 He was the one who didn't want kids. It was up to him to make sure he wouldn't have any. And condoms are going to be easier and cheaper to get ahold of than the pill or an IUD.
@@LilyRose8959 Are you kidding me? It's still up to both men and women to use birth control. And women can tell men "wear a condom or no sex" too. Most women don't tho because women don't like using condoms either. This isn't the blame game but if you want it to be, both sexes are responsible for preventing pregnancy equally.
@@solene2014 Vous avez posté sur le commentaire de quelqu'un. Kendall ne le verra pas
it's a situationship -- for three years, that toxic dynamic must have wrecked her self esteem. RIP ALLY ❤
situationship - a situation to one person and nothing to the other
so true but always so fkn sad -- even if it doesn't end like it did for Ally, i wish more women knew how toxic situationships are and that they don't come to anything good. @@stayrigo
Girls, my Mom made me watch Unsolved Mysteries as a kid and was very clear with me that you have to beware of people. The number of times I’ve seen murders regarding pregnancies, divorce, affairs or custody is insane. The monsters are not under your bed, they are outside your window. Please be careful with your choices, who you get involved with and your trust should be earned. Do not make permanent decisions for temporary emotions. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Great advice!
Sometimes they are not outside the window, sometimes they are in your house, eating at your table, sleeping in your bed
A murderer birthed me (well.. an attempted murderer..)
My friend you are seriously such a light in this world! What you have been able to do for so many families by getting their stories out there, is truly incredible!
Hi Kathleen!! We love you and Kendall!’
So true❤
Insane to think a kid will ruin your life but not cold blooded murder.
Narcisist thinking.
I really think he thought his dad’s money could get him out of this like it had before for other things. Just IMO.
He did not snap. He was all about himself. The problem is even if she was pregnant it’s not the end of the world. I believe he was a very selfish young man
He’s selfish and sick. He’s a monster. She was murdered brutally by him. She was the sweetest person with always a huge smile ❤❤❤❤
Beautiful, smart, hardworking girl, token away too soon, by a selfish, boorish, unfeeling man
The "TAK3IT" license plate really just says it all.
@Andys11275 definitely calculated and not a "snap"
I believe she was actually pregnant. Which to me, should’ve gave him the death sentence.
She sent him a photo of her stomach enlarged and said something about it being harder to hide.
Ladies! if a man acts like that when you tell him you’re pregnant or maybe pregnant… leave him alone! They are now killing women to avoid being a father! You can’t force theses types of men to be a father. If you choose to get rid of the pregnancy ok, learn from the situation and never do it again, if you choose to go through with the pregnancy, except that you’re choosing to raise a baby by yourself as a single mother. It’s sad but what’s sadder is losing your life because a loser! Got you pregnant.
this is why no one should ever be desperate to stay with someone who doesn’t want them and treats them horribly, because of how dangerous the situation can become, and what that person can possibly do to you. RIP ALLY
Knowing that she wasn't actually ever pregnant (because I don't buy the miscarriage theory; she would have told him) and drinking heavily suggests that her life wasn't all rainbows and butterflies. It sounds as though she was the victim of a narcissist and she really fell for him hard. To take someone who was so optimistic, so full of joy, and to turn them into a desperate young woman prepared to throw her heart away on someone who didn't even reply to her texts is a tragedy. He ruined her even before he carried out his plan to kill her. Thank goodness he was thick as well as cruel because at least there was some justice. Rest peacefully Ally, and I hope your gentle and joyful heart is what is remembered.
As someone who was RAISED by a narcissist, I can’t imagine falling in love with her. 💔 She must have felt so alone…
I don't think we can "know" she wasn't ever pregnant. But I totally agree that she was a victim of a narcissist. I've been on that rollercoaster with a guy tearing you down and keeping you hooked at the same time. It makes you doubt who you are and puts you in a constant state of anxiety. The fact he thought he could just discard sombody after treating them like that just shows his inability to empathize or take accountability for his actions. I'm glad everyone can see what he is now.
It sounds like she was using a fake pregnancy in an attempt to get Brandon’s attention. She knew she wasn’t pregnant. The heavy drinking suggests this. I mean, she was at the bar the night she died, before she met with him. You’re telling me she actually thought she was pregnant, but was out drinking? And wouldn’t consider termination? I don’t buy that. She didn’t deserve what happened to her at all, but let’s not act like she wasn’t lying & manipulating him with a fake pregnancy. She knew 100% she wasn’t pregnant imo. Just being realistic.
@@buffalokay in the end we genuinely won’t know, the only thing we do know is that this man ruthlessly took her life. Whether she was pregnant or not, it should have never happened, and even (just tossing this in) if she was faking it then he still could have just left, or even if she was, fathers leave their children all the time.
@@buffalokayAnd you are *EXACTLY the kind of people that Kendall was talking about. 🙄 We have * NO proof whatsoever that Ali *WASN'T pregnant. And I personally do *NOT believe that she would have told him about the miscarriage if that is truly what happened. I believe she would have been too afraid to tell him that, knowing that he would *DEFINITELY end up leaving her if he found that out. I believe her pregnancy was what she was truly hoping would eventually bring him around, and had he found out that she had miscarried, he would have run for the hills imimmediately, knowing that he had dodged a huge bullet, and I believe that was one of her biggest fears that he would do just that if he had any inkling that she had actually miscarried. Those are just my own personal conclusions, but I am just as clueless as any & everybody else is!!! *NONE of us know what really happened, and whether she was ever truly pregnant or not. But the fact that you would even have the audacity to publicly shame her & try to suggest that Ali in *ANY way is *ANYTHING other than the *VICTIM. !!! Shame on you!!! And may you rest in eternal peace, Ali. 🙏🏽🕊 I am so sorry for what happened to you. You were a beautiful young woman with your whole life still ahead of you, & that p.o.s. robbed you of all of that. You deserved sooo much better 😢💔.
kendall i cried when you said the lawyer was taking on Jessica’s case pro bono. you are so incredible 😭💞
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Same!!!!!!!
I am so happy to hear this too ❤
I truly appreciate when cold cases are supported! No one should be forgotten & justice should always be done 💯
God bless everyone fighting for Jessica!
I THINK WE ALL CRIED, THIS EPISODE WAS REALLY SAD, IT REALLY TOUCH ME TO THE CORE 😢😢😢😢
It’s scary to me how many men I knew that acted exactly like him when I was dating…
Brandon comes off as a kid that never got told "no," never suffered any consequences, etc. I think he thought that his "daddy's money" would protect him if he got caught for the murder. Judging by all of this and the way he treated women. . .I think his parents failed him in more ways than one. Brandon probably could've told his parents what was going on but he just thought that he was above everyone else and that consequences don't apply to him so he could take care of the situation on his own without anyone ever finding out. Thank goodness he was so delusional and got caught quickly. I'm happy that he got a long sentence and that Ally's loved ones got to see justice served. I hope Brandon feels scared everyday he's in prison.
that’s a CRAZY amount of assuming and psychoanalysis to put on 3 people you don’t even know, based on an extremely small amount of information. youtube is a weird ass place.
@@jerraddennis2225 30:35 did you not watch the video?? those closest to him said basically the same things, soooooo not really an assumption so much as a conclusion reached by observing his behaviors and attitude? 🥴 I would agree that his parents failed pretty f*cking epically given how he treated women and the fact that he literally killed somebody.
Unbelievable. This is the third murder I've heard of in the last few years where the woman told the man she was pregnant to make him stay, only to be killed for it. Ladies, PLEASE don't do this, don't try to make someone stay who doesn't want to. And I say that as someone who spent 10 years in that kind of relationship - it doesn't ever work out. Realize your worth and move on.
A little 14 year old brandy Hutchins from Clarksville Arkansas area ask her dad to take her to a birthday party that was supposed to be for her , and he dropped her off at an abandoned house in coal hill Arkansas, she told her dad that she was going to tell her boyfriend that she was pregnant , she was found murdered in the basement of that house , autopsy showed she wasn’t pregnant , brandy and her girl friend both took home pregnancy test and the other girl rest showed she was pregnant and exchange her test with brandy with out brandy knowing her friend had changed the positive test , and her murder has not been solved to this day .
Glad that he was arrested, and at least some justice for Alley , rest in peace beautiful Ally, Brandon should never have a free day for the rest of his life,
It is not her fault that he was a horrible and violent person. A potential pregnancy is not a reason to hurt or kill anyone
@@JordanSpitzerbut uhm manipulating someone by saying you’re killing yourself with alcohol is also bad and she did do that too… not saying she deserved to die but it sounded like two toxic people.
@@JordanSpitzerit sounds like she was harassing him with suicidal thoughts and false pregnancy. Not saying she deserved to be killed.
Dang. I remember also being so desperate for a dude that didn't treat me right when I were younger. I feel for Ally, I really do. I do honestly believe she knew she weren't pregnant but told him that out of sheer desperation. He was clearly a psychopathic narcissist. I wish she had more self-esteem and self-awareness. RIP ALLY ❤
I agree bc she definitely wouldn't have thought she was "possibly pregnant" from April til August. She would have absolutely known by then
i've never been that obsessed with a guy (i'm not into relationships in general), but i've known some girls who were. it's always painful to see someone you care about that torn over someone who doesn't deserve it. i can't even begin to imagine the amount of guilt her friends and family must feel.
Thank you for saying this. I agree 💯
exactly, I feel like she knew and was desperate and lead him to believe it too. I wish she had more love for herself so she didn't clinch to this pos
I agree. And when I saw the picture of her stomach,, and hear the text she sent with I, I felt sick to my stomach. She didn’t know just how dangerous the situation was 😔
As a mom of a girl i will always make it clear to her how dangerous this world is and that no matter what she does her dad and i will always be there for her so she doesn't find herself in this situation hopefully. As parents we need to do better to prepare our children for the world they are entering.
She had to know she wasnt pregnant, but yet she kept making him think she was. So sad she felt that desparate to hang onto this monster
The fact that he used the word "baby" to describe the gun he was planning to use to kill (what he believed at the time was) his baby growing inside Ally. It's disgusting. So senseless.
He is a mon$ter.
As I was driving home and I got to the part in the beginning about how she loved pink and sunsets, i drove over a hill and saw the most beautiful pink/purple sunset. It practically matched the lighting in your background. May she rest in peace ❤
Her beautiful soul was shining through ❤
of course he had that license plate. what a little creep.
Ladies we need to practice more self love and move away from a person who doesn't want us
We were all young once. I can clearly recall that pit-falling, brain spinning, terror inducing, sheer desperation in my life. You’re very fortunate if you have never felt that universe shattering agony. Poor girl. Bless her heart. He’s a vile creature!
the love desperation mindset is so dangerous. it really is such a painful feeling. in some situations the worst they treat you the more desperate you get for their attention. unfortunately it sounds like that was the case for her. i wish she had had the strength to cut him off before any of this tragedy ever happened.
Well said!
A boy broke my heart so bad I thought I was going to die
We’ve all been played by bastards… no way you could ever know someone would do something so unthinkable. RIP to ally
He is worse than just a bastard
Choose a MAN, NOT a guy with big PENIS!!!
Sorry - faking a pregnancy for months is crazy. You can just tell they were young and ignorant. She definitely would have KNOWN she was pregnant in the passage of time. Pregnancy test aren't ambiguous for months. They were just very toxic to one another and unfortunately she cared a lot more than he did. Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want a child with you. Accept whatever outcome comes from it and move on. I really wish she had just focused on herself and finishing school. He wasn't worth all of this.
Your remarks are SO IGNORANT!!! Nobody deserves to die like this no matter the reason. Use some empathy for the family
You have no proof she faked a pregnancy either
So between April and August, wouldn't she know if she was actually pregnant??
Exactly.
It doesn’t matter if the pregnancy was wishful thinking or a miscarriage, she didn’t deserve to be murdered. And he did it believing he was murdering his own baby as well as a woman who loved him.
To hear how much she was struggling (drinking a lot or exaggerating how much she was drinking) just makes it worse. Instead of offering her support and compassion, he riddled her with bullets and drove off and left her to rot.
Life in prison means he will never get to harm another woman again. Ally’s death saved all the future women he would have dated later on.
It always baffles me that people choose murder to “solve a problem”. Unfortunately, I don’t believe she was ever pregnant. I think she used it as a tool to hopefully bring them closer together. Unfortunately, it did the exact opposite. Rip to her. She and her family didn’t deserve this
BOY, she was DUMB!!!
Agreed. Brandon is evil.
It should be mandatory that kids in school be taught how to identify a narcissist.
And that homicide is the number one cause of death for young pregnant women, & that men in the US murder the women that they claim to “love” at the rate of more than 3 per day.
Agreed 💯
And antisocial personalities and find ways to fund the counseling these kids need
My mom can be the example lol
@@Echokeres We could swap stories
I grew up with this kid, have vivid memories playing with him and his brother. They lived in Nacogdoches, TX before his parents spilt and his dad took him and his brother to Dallas. His dad had and still has a pretty nasty reputation as a unfaithful womanizer in Nac. This is so sad, but given his father, I’m no where near surprised.
I feel so bad for Allie. I was once in her shoes, same type of “relationship” this case really hit home. May you rest in paradise precious Allie 😢
I’m so tired of society at this point.
I know . I want out so bad.
@@Lena-so2lq I hope that you don't leave 🥺 you guys are probably the best thing about society to someone else and may not even realize it. ❤
I agree, I am so jaded with society but we need to pull the strength to keep on going. There is still a lot of good in our world.
I don’t think she was ever pregnant and she probably thought that if she was pregnant she would be able to get his attention. She probably wanted to be pregnant but unfortunately it doesn’t seem like he’s the kind of guy this would work on and that’s why it backfired. It’s all just so sad
Agree. I think that’s why she was drinking cause she wasn’t pregnant but she was trauma bonded to this guy.
Exactly what I was thinking, it’s so sad how it backfired and she didn’t deserve what happened to her just by that.
On a separate note: Why are women drinking so much that they aren’t cognizant of their surroundings and leaving bars alone late at night? Why is this not drilled into them by their sororities not to do?
Why is getting wasted encouraged in young men as a normal part of college life? Alcohol has ruined so many lives. Alcohol ads and availability at campus events should be banned just like cigarette ads are banned.
Parents of boys should totally do better. What a disgrace to treat another human this way.
Can't generalize
@@limeonthecoconutbut why is it always the boys who are the cause of all this?
Parents of girls should also do better.
We are treated the way we allow people to treat us .
@@thatswhatshesaid6326 oh so she deserved it or brought it on herself…Interesting. 🧐
No. Parents need to do better at raising their children. Whether it be boys or girls. Do better.
My son was born 7/24/19 and I find it super sad that as his life was beginning, hers had just ended. I will remember her as I celebrate my son.
That’s a lovely thought ❤
Look at you guys making a huge difference in Jessica’s case!!!! I’m literally tearing up, I’m so proud to be part of this community
I would rather die than raise a child but I wouldn’t chose to take someone’s else’s life, would take my own. Taking someone’s life is not your choice to make.
Samee 💀
Legit 😅 loads of people don’t want to be parents but don’t think murder is the solution
Could have just dipped out like most normal people do if they don’t want to be parents but noooo. Horrible
My ex got his college fwb pregnant TWICE, she apparently had the kid the second time around but he’s never inquired about it or cared. It’s messed up imo and part of why we broke up but that’s better than killing someone tbh
@@jojobunny02it’s definitely a horrible situation for the other parent and the child, but also a child deserves a parent that cares and loves them. Not just being part of their life cause they feel they have to. If they’re unable to prioritise and love their child then maybe they should stay away
i was in a relationship like that for 6 years, he was hooking up with everyone & anyone but i waited around bc i wouldve done anything for him, he knew the hold he had over me and manipulated tf out of me, brandon was definitely just feeding her what she wanted to hear so she’d always be wrapped around his finger and it’s absolutely disgusting to think of the lack of humanity & remorse of some people
What made you finally end it? Just curious.
@@melanie62954i second this question
Y'all weren't asking me but I'll answer:
You know when enough is enough. You will go from upset to disgusted and angry. Research Narcissistic tactics. Address any trauma. Don't look back.
Yes he's a narcissist. And when you have that trauma bond with someone, it is so freaking hard to leave!
I hope you the next time you see a bad person, you focus on their bad days and not the good ones
I hope if you ever meet a decent guy, focus on his good days and not his bad onrs
If you don't know which is which, ask people. I just hope you grew out of that phase because I hate when narcs have the power over someone.
As soon as you said blocks her and unblocks her that’s all my sisters “relationships” in college right now 🤦♀️
I hope they quickly learn that someone who clearly doesn't want you is not worth fighting for.
Block them and never unblock.
The fact this absolutely scumbag didn’t even really try to cover up this awful murder just shows how arrogant and privileged he was. I’m so glad proper justice was served ❤️
I wish she had loved herself enough to stay away from him. Poor sweet naive girl.
this is especially heartbreaking because i think a lot of women have gone through similar situations in terms of being manipulated or mistreated by men, but we luckily got out of them with our lives, and brandon just couldn’t let ally be one of those girls 😢
Yep! I was in the same position , pursuing a man who didn’t want me for 7 years. I got pregnant and miscarried. I shudder to think what would have happened if he was as narcissistic as this guy.
Not being snarky
.... but wouldn't it be manipulating too to tell somebody your pregnant when it's quite clear she knew she wasn't lol
@@laceyb5139 It wasn’t clear at all whether she was pregnant or not, and it honestly doesn’t matter either way. All he had to do was treat her with basic human decency and talk about the issue with her like an adult not murder her?!?!?
He was so worried about her pregnancy ruining his life! He ruined his life himself it's just crazy ... he's such a psychopath
There’s something about him that just gives me the chills. I can’t put my finger on exactly what it is, but he definitely reminds me of my abuser. It’s so scary that people like this exist in our everyday lives without our knowledge.
I think it’s pretty obvious that she was lying about the pregnancy, just like she was lying about the alcohol consumption for attention from him. It’s clear that She was a kind person, that doesn’t mean she isn’t simultaneously a liar. I’m a good person, but I’ve lied to guys when I’ve been desperate for their attention.
I know several women who spent years chasing after a guy who wasn't interested...all of them are now married to the guy. It is a strategy that I don't understand and can't support, but one that happens and seems to work. No matter how you feel about it, it never gives a guy a right to kill a woman. It's unbelievable that Brandon thought it was even close to a good decision. He could have done what a billion other men do and just pretend they don't have a kid (if she actually had been pregnant). It's insane that he thought killing her was the way to go. Truly baffling and I don't think being young even partially explains any of it...mature or not, most people don't even think of killing another person.
Thank you for sharing so much about Ally’s life and personality so we can remember her for more than what happened to her. I always appreciate that from your coverage.
What a psychopath, why not just walk away. I am sure she would have plenty of support and help. So sad such a beautiful young life gone. Prayers for her family and friends 🙏
Your statement about people leaving really nasty comments really resonates with me. As soon as you started talking about this young girl and just all the kind things you were saying all I could think about is how if I was this girls mom I would be absolutely in tears. You are such a kind person and the way you talk about these victims just warms my heart because people can be cruel but you just talk about them so positively and I just really love that about your channel and you as a person!
I went to school with her and her brother and remember when this happened. I was so shocked and horrified. Thank you for sharing❤
Are you from St.Louis as well?
@@CaseyMarie11-11 yes. Went to lindbergh
@@CaseyMarie11-11why did you ask? Did you think this person was lying?
Rudeeee!
HE ASKED FOR FORGIVENESSS what a narcissist he just took away someone’s daughter sibling cousin etc away from them 😡😡
I haven't finished watching the video, but my instincts tell me the pregnancy scare was fabricated in hopes of connecting with Brandon and when that fell apart she moved on to other ways to try and get his attention/sympathy. I wish more young women understood their worth
I didn't watch true crime for a while. It became too much. So sad to watch. She was a beautiful young soul. You always convey messages so well. Thank you for the kindness you show towards victims and advocating for them 🌸
That update for Jessica is just awesome awesome news I’m so happy. Her family deserves answers finally!
100% so happy for the family they’ve definitely got a chance of getting justice now
One thing I really LOVE about you and your channel is that you take these cases seriously and personal. I had to stay away from certain creators because of the constant joking and talking about these deaths as if it's just a casual situation. As someone who has lost people in my life, the last thing I would want is a RUclipsr using their story to make jokes and be famous. Thank you for your genuine concern and tone with these cases!
I agree I’ve been turned off from other creators because of this too
Always so impressed at how you center the victim and actually take action Kendall!
He definitely pre-meditated this.
I think what is the hardest about this story is that so many of us have been Ally. We all know how it feels to be in her shoes. Wishing the best to Allys friends and family, she was a beautiful woman and shined so bright.
When you explained how he killed her I was absolutely shocked, what a despicable human
I am just a few years older than Allie was and I can say with utmost confidence that at 21 years old I didn’t know anything about the real world, especially in relationships. The amount of red flags I ignored is frankly astonishing looking back. My heart goes out to her family and friends as they grieve her loss.
First off, thank you KendaIl for all that you do. You don't just sit in front of your camera and tell us about true crimes. You get involved, you let the victims family have a voice on your channel. Also, you and your husband do much more off camera to help victims and their families. You are a true gem, and we need more people in this world like you.
It is so true what Brandon's mother said about letting your kids know they can always go to their parents. I raised my kid, letting them know they can always come to me and their dad and that we will always listen, never judge, and help if we can. Heck, my son came to me the day before he knew he was going to have sex the first time and asked me to go to the store and help him figure out which was the best condoms to get. He was 18, and I told him this was a big step, and he needed to ensure he was ready. He said he was, so I took him to the store.
The case I will mention is very old (mid-1970s). My best friend's older brother (19M) was at a lake hanging out and swimming with some friends and people he did not know well. He got into a physical altercation with one of the guys he didn't know well. The guy was angry at my friend's brother because he was at the lake, the guy's ex-girlfriend, even though there was nothinggoing on between them. The others at the lake broke up the fight, and everything was fine for the next, couple of hour until everyone left. However, her brother never came home that night. The following morning, a woman was walking her dog at the lake and ran home to call the police because she saw something floating in the water, but she didn't know if it was a person or a mannequin. The police got there, and it was my friend's brother, and he had drowned. When they interviewed all the kids at the lake the day before, they said he seemed fine. A few of them did mention the fight he and the other guy got into, but they did not know anything else. Once the investigation was completed, they determined that he was swimming by himself, and he may have gotten a cramp or caught on some underbrush in the lake and ended up drowning.
Now, here is the issue with that initial conclusion. The brother's wet bathing suit was in his truck, and when he was pulled out of the lake, he was in his jeans and a t-shirt, but no shoes, and even had money in his pocket. Yet they determined it was an accidental drowning. Also, his family found out that the guy he got into the fight with was the nephew of the Sheriff. The family tried to fight when the Sheriff's department called it an accidental drowning, and after they pointed out he was fully clothed and would not go swimming like that, mainly because his swimsuit was in the car, the Sheriff and medical examiners "reviewed" the evidence again changed the cause of death from accidental drowning to suicide, and they closed the case.
His family took all the evidence to the state police and even to the state attninerney general, but none of them did a thing. They all agreed with the Sheriff's conclusion that it was a suicide. When the new Sheriff was elected nine years later, my friend went to him about the case. He seemed interested in it and agreed it made no sense, so he told her he would pull the evidence and files to look at it. The Sheriff called my friend to his office about a week later and was very upset. He could not find the evidence or any files, and when he reached out to the former sheriff, he told the new Sheriff, "I am not sure; the information may have gotten damaged and discarded after that big flood we had three years ago. We lost a lot of files because of that flood(no digital copies in the 70s)." Unfortunately, what my friend had wasn't enough to build a case. It has been 50 years, and her brother nor the family has ever gotten justice. However, the guy they suspected is 69 and is 40 years into his life sentence without the possibility of parole or mercy release (they will sometimes release a prisoner on mercy when they turn 75) he received when he took the life of his wife and mother-in-law. Of course, my friends and her family were outraged because they felt his wife and MIL would have been safe had the death of her brother not been swept away and hidden. But they do feel relief that he has been in prison for 40 years and will never be free again. The Sheriff who tried to help her retired about five years ago, and he was a no-nonsense man who kept his deputies in check. He never tolerated any kind of misconduct or maliciousness from any of his deputies. As a matter of fact, our county has had no complaints of police brutality, misconduct, or any other kind of corruption for nearly 30 years. Yes, there was still a bit of crime here and there and, sadly, a couple of other life-ending situations, but the Sheriff held his deputies to a high standard. I cannot say the same thing for our new Sheriff, but that's a different story.😂
He is an aweful person. Not insane. Just evil and vile. My heart goes out to all of her family and friends. 😢
We as women need to come together to warn the young ladies of these types of men. When i was 19 my bff was killed by her bf over pregnancy, drugs and possessiveness.
I would love to be apart of some sort of organization for safe spaces for young women exiting or seeking councling from adusive relationships.
I had a relationship like this too when I was a similar age. I think a lot of girls this age are at high risk for this. I wish I could go back and find a way to teach my teenage self how to value myself. I just wish there was a way to really show young girls how much better life is when you love yourself first. But I can recall first hand how nothing anyone could do would make me believe it 😢
They don’t care though. You can lead the horse to the water but the horse won’t drink the water. Especially when still a teen who thinks they have it all worked out, guidance doesn’t work. They do need support when it all turns to shit though.. but many keep going back to the same situations and never learn how to love or be loved properly
Did he OFF her because she wouldn’t get pregnant???
@@traybernDid you not watch the video? They believe he killed her because she was supposedly pregnant.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤🙏🏽
Never let someone tell you twice that they don't want you. You shouldn't want to be with someone who has shown you they don't want you. I really hope a lot of people, especially young people getting in their first relationships, can learn from these kind of cases. :( RIP Ally.
I deeply feel sorry for Ashley, but please to the young ladies out there let this be a message that no matter how hard you may try to have that person you love so dearly in your life sometimes they are just not ready. Learn to let go and always hold yourself up. Much love to the family and friends who lost a girl that shined so brightly.
How could he even GET a lot of women?? Yuck. Oh Ally, I had the same dynamic with a man. I wish I could have talked to you and told you how it was 😢 you deserved better
Manipulation
SAME? So YOU also EXTREMELY STUPID. GOOD to KNOW!
@@user56gghtfvery much
Coddled frat boy kills his friend with benefits in his mind. This is absolutely awful but sadly going to college and being in Greek Life, i have seen characters exactly like him pass through and do awful things to people. At the end of the day, if he just had a conversation with Ally in April, this would have probably not happened. I know we are young and stupid, but as a college student there are some things that you just need to handle as an adult.
These young women MUST STOP seeing this behavior as flattering!!
Ally was literally radiant in every single picture of her. I’m only 10 min into this and I know I’m gonna be sad 😞
I've heard of this case, it's horrifying. Sending all my thoughts and prayers to her loved ones. Thank you for covering this, Kendall.
The news about Jessica is AMAZING!!! Thank you to that lawyer ❤❤ what a sad world we live in, when to only able to lock up your child’s murderer with $$ 😢
Ally was so desperate for this man that she (possibly) lied about a pregnancy & used manipulative tactics to keep him around by telling him she's drinking lethal amounts of alcohol. I wish so badly she couldve simply moved on and gave her time to a man who loved her. May she rest in peace and he rot in prison!
I wish she knew she was better than him and deserved better than him. I'm sorry her family do not have their priceless girl here with them. x
The fact he went partying & showing off the weapon he had just murdered someone with is all I need to know!
Kendall you're an amazing story teller! Nobody goes above and beyond like you do!
Well, yes she does but so do other people on youtube too.
@@catoxford7603It is very common to use the term “story” when talking about someone’s life even if that includes the way they were tragically murdered. The word story literally means “a description, either true or imagined, of a connected series of events”, according to Cambridge Dictionary. That’s all. There’s no need to correct the use of the word.
@@abbyn6973well said!
@@catoxford7603 You should learn the definition of words before you attempt to correct them xx
@@catoxford7603 Don't overreact, no one said you were being nasty, lol xxx
Omg what an awful story!! And the fact she wasn’t even pregnant in the end😢 we all know what it’s like to long after someone who doesn’t even like us, parents please try and teach your daughters and sons that they’re worth is so much better than that❤
“no you can’t have this baby it’ll ruin *my* life” oh but a murder charge won’t? what a selfish idiot
I can tell looking in Allys eyes she was such a pure soul. I can remember how ignorant about men I was at her age-how much disrespect I’d tolerate, how I thought I was in love… this could very well be any of us. Rest in peace Ally.
This story is so so sad. That poor girl, so young and with her whole life ahead of her. Changing the background to pink was so sweet of you. Wonderful video as always. You always bring awareness and spread the stories of the people you cover. Thank you.
This dude thought a possible baby would ruin his life, so his solution was to unalive her instead of being an adult and sitting down with her and having a conversation. What a senseless catastrophic loss. This guy belongs underneath the jail. To her family and friends, I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏🏽 🕊
She was pregnant and drinking to that extent? I know that once someone dies and becomes a victim, all their flaws get erased. But there’s so many lessons learned here (manipulation, accountability, toxicity on both ends, narcissistic psychology, etc.) What a disgusting outcome.
It's not that "all their flaws get erased" and what a silly statement that is. Of course they still have flaws, but why would people choose to remember all the painful memories rather than the good ones? When you're grieving, it helps ease the pain to remember the good things.
Not going to comment on the armchair psychology here, but certainly even Kendall acknowledged that Ally was a flawed individual who was trying to navigate the world as best she could with such a young mindset and all the naivete that comes with youth. Unfortunately young people think that drinking soothes the pain, but it never does. Unfortunately some people never learn that, no matter how old they get.
@@candice_ecidnacIts not a silly statement at all. None of the people commenting know her or are grieving her to "make it easy to greave". They are doing exactly what you are denying. There is only 3 possible scenarios here. 1. She had a miscarriage before she went drinking. 2. She knew she was pregnant and still dranked that heavily and 3. She fake the pregnancy. 1 is the most unlikely and 3 is the most likely considering she was pretending to be pregnant till the end. That is a major issue. She was a bad person for doing that and being "young" does not excuse any of it just like it does not excuse his behaviour.
But people refuse to acknowledge it and just brush it aside as if it was nothing just because she was murdered.
Obviously, she did not deserve it. But being a victim of a something more evil, should not clear you of your misdoings. But I get why Kendall does not want it. Most people are too stupid to understand nuances.
@@Ntnt11 I don't even know what your point is and your spelling is atrocious. I'm just gonna mute this thread and not bother reading that grammatical hail storm.
I too was in a toxic/manupulitive "relationship" as her and I UNDERSTAND 100% how she felt and the rollercoaster of emotions she went through. You always hope they will change and love you the way you love them, saddly, its never like that. You are blinded very deeply by these sort of people, they know your weak spot, they know how to control you and know how to easily break you.
My heart goes to her, I wouldve wanted to hold her and protect her from a monster like him.
Does not really seem like a manipulation. The guy just wanted sex, she had feelings and the guy seems to have tried to make it clear he was not looking for anything more, she just could not take no for an answer due to her feelings. She could not take the hint and kept persisting. Creepy and manipulative from HER part to not take the hint that he was not interested and pretend to be pregnant. She just did not realise she was messing with an even bigger POS who was not above murder just for his convenience. Both of them do not sound like good people.
I don't think she was pregnant at all, I think she just did whatever she could to get his attention
I agree. She sent him that picture of her belly days before her murder. If she miscarried there would definitely be evidence of that during the autopsy. She was never pregnant and was trying to trap him to see her in person to try get a relationship out of it. SHE ABSOLUTELY DID NOT DESERVE TO DIE bc of that. He was stringing her along giving her hope and that’s narcissistic behavior to the core.
I agree, she was trying everything possible to get him to commit, I think he just got tired of her and wanted her to go away but she kept texting him. If a guy just wants you for a bootie call, he’s not into you and not worth pursuing! She was such a beautiful girl, she could have done so much better than him. This is incredibly sad.
@@lauralee7281I totally agree, especially in a relationship involving “love bombing” it just ruins your perception on how to receive attention from the one you care about, and you’ll do all the means to get their attention again to feel their love. 100% she did not deserve that and I think if she knew what would come of this, she would have never tried.
Which is really sad, she was blind by her love for him.
As a parent who has lost a child….. going on and being strong is about the only option you have. We’re not given a choice😔😔😔 RIP sweet Ally. May your legacy live on
Jesus she knew she wasnt pregnant and was leading him to believe she was even after he said he wouldnt help and didnt want it. That shortly after a miscarriage the coroner wouldve been able to tell...i dont believe she was pregnant. Ladies if a man doesnt value you or support you, see your self worth and move on. 😢 she deserved so much better than that monster.
Yes and also men don't kill women? I don't think your comment is very helpful babe. Most of us have fallen for a guy who has treated us like crap in the past.
We’ve all been young and completely blind and dumb about a boy. Generally around that age. Definitely in my case I was that age. And but for the grace of God I didn’t end up pregnant with his baby or worse, murdered. Ugh, being a mom of a daughter now… knowing you can do everything right and this can still happen, shakes me to my core… RIP to her. She deserved soo much more. 😢
If he never wanted to have children, he should have used protection. Every. Single. Time. PERIOD. Or not being sexually active. Apparently something failed in his head during childhood, and he grew up to be a selfish, unstable person. I wish Ally was more open about her relationship struggles with her parents. They might explain to her, that the boy was not worth it. But we know how it works with abusers. They isolate you from everybody, and they aim for people who are loving, caring and emphatic, which, sadly, makes them vulnerable to abuse. :-( RIP Ally
This is nothing against Ally but just letting people know, do not try to get someone back by saying you’re pregnant, especially if that someone doesn’t want it. I feel like she lied about being pregnant because she wanted him to want her. And be careful ladies, it’s not worth it. That being said Ally did not deserve any of this! She was a young beautiful woman with her whole life ahead of her. RIP
I had that exact same longchamp bag when I was in college and also heartbroken over someone who didn’t treat me well.
This is so sad. We all go through this when we’re young, wanting love and care from someone who won’t treat us that way. This poor girl was murdered and robbed of the opportunity to learn, and grow into herself, and find her own path, and find someone to treat her with love and respect. I was able to find my career, new friends, and my husband, and we have three children. This murderer was evil in what he stole.