I think that photo is totally demeaning to women and it’s so disappointing to me that any women at this point in time would participate in something like that. I agree - why don’t we turn it around and make the guy take the submissive position.
Makes me think about when I was managing a clothing boutique and this guy would come in to promote a club he would harass my sales associates fooling around and grabbing them so I decided to grab his “ you know what “ and he freaked out . never did he walk in to my boutique again 👅👅👅
I totally agree. Personally and as a certified life coach who works exclusively with women I find it demeaning and I do not see the artistic relevance of it. It’s a step back for sure.
The picture saddened me. I am a Spanish American in my sixties, and when I was a little girl my great aunts, who spoke no English, taught me that women no longer had to submit to such disrespect. They taught me to respect myself by not letting others demean me.
I would have to say that picture is far more than disrespect. It is an ad that advocates for sexual abuse -- right in the open. I am sorry. All those involved with its creation should be shoved out the door of the industry. These images are part of rape culture. This is not just submission. I just read about the rape culture at the South Pole in the news. I'd like to think that people who would endure those harsh conditions in the name of science would be different, but the private corporations involved are doing the same old dance of firing the women who are raped for coming forward.
The more I thought about the picture shown in the video, as well as the other pictures in the photo shoot I viewed on line, the more disgusted I became. When I taught high school in a predominantly Latino and Black community, the faculty and administration worked diligently to combat the machismo attitude that was quite prevalent that females were property not people.
That photo....cringe worthy. Felt it was to show that a woman, no matter what her age , must be submissive. I love how you tell us to put makeup/concealer that suits us as an individual. I never understood why I should do my face they way they do. And a lot of times the "beauty experts" seem to go overboard with concealer/contouring and almost demanding I must wear it their way. I want a simple, fresh look, that suits me and my personality. Thank you for your expert advice.
The photo is so disturbing, especially the vacant look on her face. Creeped me out immediately. I agree, let's reverse it and see how men receive it! As you said, are we beyond this?? Feels very violating to me.
As a women with inherited dark under eyes, I appreciate your words that we need to do what's best for our own situation & "any way we want"! I struggle to find the right way, as too many women telling us we need to do it this way. THANK YOU!!!!!! PS: I don't like that photo, at all! Totally inappropriate, period.
I loved this video. I'm 70 and I love wearing makeup. It made me feel good about myself and want to try all Nikol products. Applying my concealer has always been an issue for me. A big thank you!
I agree with you Nikol. I was offended to see a photo like this taken as though we should all think that it’s okay. What year are we in now? Haven’t we grown in mutual respect (men and women). Why should there be ANY photo where anyone is portrayed in a submissive way? That’s true equality. ❤
I TOTALLY AGREE !!! Are we going backwards ???? I would NOT buy what ever this add is selling in fact I would probably personally boycott what ever it is!!! Please for my granddaughters sake LET’S NOT REVERSE HOW FAR WE HAVE COME !!!
How in the name of everything politically correct, in any country, was this picture an acceptable representation of women. Speaking of political correctness: we have to think so carefully to be sure not to offend any group, yet a major publication, aimed at women, uses this image, which is offensive, demeaning, and depicts a woman in a subservient role. Thank you for the concealer tutorial. I struggle with the best way to lighten the under eye area and the “less is more” approach doesn’t work for me. I’ve learned so much from your videos and experimented so much more with my makeup routines to my overall benefit. Please keep on advocating for women of any age. When I look back on what American girls were exposed to in the 1950s, 60s, even into the 80s, it’s truly sad. Thank you!
I thought we were going to higher places and then I saw this just disappointed. Great news that I have been able to help you with your makeup routines! 😘😘
Back in the late 70’s, there was a fashion magazine ad for White Shoulders perfume. The beautiful brunette was laying down, breast was covered with a man’s head. It was shocking to me. I find this the same-actually demeaning.
I also saw the photo this week and was…..taken aback. I can only think that the photo was taken to draw attention to their magazine. I found it hard to understand why the model allowed herself to be a part of it. The headless man standing in for all men and their control over women and the model remaining passive. SMH
I was actually shocked that Paulina agreed to this photo shoot?! No, just no. We need a positive artistic vision! Yes, how would it be for the roles to be reversed? Then we would hear ALL about it! Thanks, always, Nikol.❤️🌹
Lots of photos in role reversal exist, with dominant women grabbing sexy men's chests. That's not the issue. The issue is a 57-year-old woman desperately trying to prove she's still hot. Don't be fooled by her wrinkles. She works hard at keeping her body and hair sexy. Very smart strategy! But I prefer elegance at this stage of life.
Agree with you totally on the picture. Wonder if the power play was convincing her to do the picture by offering a lot of money, or was she under contract to use her likeness for shock purposes? Eeew is right.
Ladies, if you have not used the face primer you are missing the smoothness it brings after you apply your makeup. I am 77 and still learning! The creamy concealer is awesome! I love all the products! Can’t wait for the BB cream to launch! Thanks Nikol for all the amazing tutorials, keep them coming!❤️
The photo is complete trash. I don't follow makeup/fashion trends & the bait they use to lure people in to line their pockets. I use, do, wear & THINK what I want. Thank you for being here with us !
Agree 100% and have said it for literally YEARS … reverse the ads to show men being groped and see where THAT goes. I think we all know the answer to that 🤨
Nikol, I always appreciate your videos and your perspective. Over and again your content empowers women no matter their age or stage in life, and I so appreciate that. I wanted to let you know that I've finally found a wonderful trick to cover my very dark circles under my eyes (inherited from both parents). I have used your Eye Primer not only on my eyelids, but also under my eyes, and it works as my concealer without settling into wrinkles. It is magic! Thanks so much for this fantastic product.
You are not too far. It’s just too much. There is no reason for that pose or picture. Your comparison to a woman holding a man’s privates is perfect. Ick! I love this tutorial. Very natural and thanks for giving us “permission” to use our make up the way we feel is best. Yay! I love to learn new tips and tricks, but sometimes I know what works best for my problem areas. Thank you for telling us not to follow the rules of the internet!
I think you nailed it - do what is best for you in terms of your makeup at any age. I have rejected most of what I learned about ‘rules for over 40 in terms of makeup and clothes’ and remain in charge of myself. I look for tips from makeup artists like you and then make my own decisions. Most of this is basic common sense. As you age, I’ve found that less is more. Your face does not look younger by applying more makeup. But it is helpful to understand how you can still utilize makeup to enhance your looks at ANY age. At 67, I still enjoy learning about and trying skincare and cosmetics products. You Tube is a great source of information and your channel is one of my favorites. ❤
Nikol, yes, that absolutely did look like a power move, and it creeped me out. A man and woman facing each other, with hands on body parts could be construed as artistic. This was just "I can do what I want with you," and I'm not okay with it.
I totally agree with you about the photo. It’s all about power. Regarding the concealer issue, I have dark circles that run into hyperpigmentation on my cheeks. No way putting concealer in the corners is going to be of any use. I’m still working on making it work.
I like what you said. I have a round face. Every RUclipsr I follow has an oval shaped face. Where they put their bronzer, blush, contour, etc does not work for me. I’m 66 yo and have been working on what placement is flattering for my round face. Love your videos!
Totally agree on what you say about the picture. With concealer, BB cream it foundation, even after moisturizer, my skin looks way worse and wrinkly. Without makeup, I have some dark places but none of my wrinkles show. With makeup, I look like my skin has aged 20 years. So I seldom use anything after my sunscreen. I'm sure I'm doing things wrong, but there it is.
As a survivor of SA, that photo made me incredibly uncomfortable. I agree with your switch-I would like to see the reaction to a man in the submissive position.
I completely agree with you, demeaning yes! Why in this day and age does someone think that picture is remotely acceptable? I also like your idea of turning the photo around, putting the woman in the position of power.
Maybe they are trying to say an older woman is still desirable and sexy. IMHO I think it is tasteless and, sadly, a sign of the times we are living in.
I think you said it perfectly: Ew. What a wretched photo. I'm new to your channel and I'm really appreciating the tips that I've seen so far. Definitely subscribing, because dealing with aging skin feels like it's suddenly a thing I really have to manage.
I like wearing makeup and have tried the silly suggestions how to conceal undereyes which dont cover my puffiness. I apply concealer to cover the whole area. Thanks for reminding me that using a peach corrector first will minimise the shadow. I just love your easy makeup tips. You're a beautiful woman inside & out.
That picture made me feel icky, I had trouble understanding what the point was, just ick. I’m loving all of your new products, I love putting on makeup again!
Wow! Thank you so much for saying that as a makeup artist you think we should apply concealer however we need to according to our needs. I have significant dark circles under my eyes, and have tried and tried to apply it the “right” way, as recommended by almost all of the Influencers. I have become obsessed with trying to perfect the less is more technique because it seems to look good on them. But I can’t get it to work!! I have bought many concealers thinking maybe I just don’t have the right one, and now have quite the collection. I DESPISE having my picture taken because of my dark circles. Thank you!
I'm agreeing with everyone here regarding that 'cringe worthy' photo...and with you regarding the concealer! SO wish your products were available here in Spain!
Yes! My initial emotion upon seeing this photo was concern. Concern for the “Woman”. The “Woman” that represents all us and her requirements to dim her overstanding of self-worth and power, that “She” is not victim. Thank you for speaking out.
That photo is demeaning…disgusting! Why put that message out there. Really? I’m going to try your makeup application techniques. I love all the attention to details you give us. You are AMAZING Nikol! Thank you!
Men are rarely exploited like that. Why did she allow this? If women in the public eye are being demeaned, why do they allow it? This has been a question of mine since wayy back in the day. I agree totally with you... turn it around and make men the sex object if this is such a "meaningful" message to send!!
Up early, enjoying a blustery storm and feeling comforted by another one of Your fabulous videos... Thank You so very much for looking out for Us and our beauty and sense of Self. Love from, the Oregon North Coast.
@@NikolJohnson thank you so much for this! I’ve always had the “allergy shiner” and it has been the one thing that has always bothered me. Your videos and pointers are so great! I like how you say to do what works for you! I’m on the BB cream waitlist and can’t wait! Thank you.
I agree with you 100%! This photo sets women back. Not understanding what this has to do with anything. Ridiculous. Thank you for this video. Love the bronzer idea for shadow. 👏🏼
So totally agree, as a mature woman, mind you, I’m of the hippie free love generation 😂, who the H do they think they are catering to?? Women of all ages, aren’t we way past this garbage of men treating us as objects?? Come on!! Seriously!! I will not get all political, but I’d like to… are we handmaidens again? Please, our bodies need to be respected, just as men’s need to be respected, enough said. As for concealer, those on general utube aren’t trained! I put concealer where I need it. I have very dark blue area on inner eye near nose and it’s so difficult to get that area light enough. Of course I’m 73, so what can I expect. Oh well, some days I look better than others. However, I adore Nikol’s products, they never cause me to itch or break out in hives, they are all fantastic, love love love the new formulations, can’t wait for the rest of them!! You go girl, your are so gorgeous Nikol!💖🥰
Hi Nikol, Thank you for your tips, advice, and support. As for the photo from Vogue, what is point of the man holding the model’s breast? It confuses me and it makes me cringe. 🙅♀️ 🤷♀️ I think it was a waste of time and resources. 🤦♀️
Total waste of time it’s been done before nothing new and we have moved past this “art” in 2023. If I am not mistaken women have been asking for more? This photo doesn’t represent that mindset.
That photo is degrading. I'm like you, haven't we came further than this. A womans body goes through so much. Please show it respect. I enjoy your channel. You're one more beautiful and classy lady.❤
I have only recently discovered your channel and I love it; you are so refreshing and down-to-earth. As for your suggestion for inverting the roles in the photo, that would be a good idea; the only trouble would be that most men would enjoy it!
Hi Nikol, I get so frustrated when I do my under eye area. I'm 73 so I have all the tiny lines & bigger ones out to the side . It doesn't matter which concealer or which method I use it turns cakey looking even with primer or a light lotion. I use it very sparingly with or without powder to set it. Can you help me? I also have a bag under one eye. Oh, I did not care for whatever was being advertised in the photograph.
I will tell you as far as that photo, my mom would say, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I agree with you, what the heck was that for??? I appreciate you letting women know that they themselves have to figure out what works on their face. One day to the next, it is not always the same. Depending on sleep, stress, what we ate or drank. We just need to be able to do what makes us feel great and then that projects onto our day and who we come in contact with. If we feel good then we do not worry about how we look and can concentrate on being present in the moment with whoever we are interacting with.
Nikol-I love the new eye primer formula. Also, I agree with you about the photo. I'm surprised that Paulina shot the photo because she has been very vocal about women's social issues.
Hi, . Lovely blush creamy blush colors. I always need to move my concealer around my dark circles moving upward. I use different concealer colors to cover up those circles, then blend well. TYFS. xo
Loved the look. Especially the lip color. As for the photo. It is purely an attempt to grab attention to the ad. The product being advertised is a footnote. As long as women pose for these pictures, our image will not change. There are so many ways sensuality can be used. Think Catherine Deneuve in the Chanel #5 ads.
NIKOL…thank you for teaching this 52 year old so much about all things important to being a woman. I just LOVE your content, explanations and the education you offer while not assuming your followers already know xyz. You’ve been invaluable at teaching me how to do so many things better as I’m going through perimenopause and needing to make changes to my self care routines. I just love all you do!!❤
Hi Nikol, thank you for the tutorial. I agree that we shouldn't limit ourselves in our makeup application. I have learned a lot from you and your channel and appreciate your straight talk. I also appreciate your invitation to comment about my thoughts on the Paulina photo. This is my first time commenting so I hope I can offer some thoughtful insights. I just wanted to bring a different perspective. I read some of the comments about the Paulina photo. A lot of commenters are disappointed in it, and that is ok, people can like and dislike what they want. And as you said, this style of photography has probably been done to death. I also understand that first impressions last and that most people will react to what they are seeing without finding out any context. However, I noticed in many of the comments this implication that the image is some sort of slight on women by men, as if they were somehow responsible for it and its message, and that men should be objectified in return as punishment. I wanted to find out more about the photo before I made up my mind as I don't really know anything about Vogue or editorial fashion photography, so I found a webpage that showed the other photos from the same shoot. The article gave a bit of Paulina's backstory; and I also looked up who the creative team was for the shoot. Paulina's shoot was very provocative and racy showing images of her clothed and partially naked in decadent settings both with and without a younger man, giving wealthy cougar vibes. I don't believe the intention of the shoot in it's entirety was to suggest any aggression against women, but perhaps could have been a flip on the "sugar daddy" trope, suggesting the roles everyone wanted reversed in the comments in fact already were. There were 15 people on the creative team, only five of them were men, two photgraphers, a hair stylist and two makeup artists. Everyone else was female, including the Editor-in-Chief, who had ultimate control over the look, feel, and message of each photograph. The male model with Paulina in some of the photographs was not even named. If the hand on the breast was set a little softer it may have came across more as a caress and therefore more intimate, but everyone lost their mind because it looks a bit more like a squeeze. The thing with power is you have to look at who has it in each situation to work out if there is a power issue. In this situation, Paulina is looking relaxed and elegant, leaning back onto the models chest, it suggests she is commanding as if she is the Queen and he is just doing what she told him to like a good boy. I am just saying art is about ideas and if there are ideas to be had here, then the photo needs to be thought about more and it's not just a case of first impressions. If the vibe is off for people, I don't think they should blame men about it or suggest that men should be objectified as a response. The responsibility of that vibe is the editors and she was a female. But its also down to what people get triggered by and thats on every person to check themselves and make sure they aren't just getting political for no reason. I think the whole shoot was quite good in a Manet's "Olympia" scandal kind of way, which I am totally ok with. I would do beautiful photos like that myself given half a chance. The article said Paulina had a challenging upbringing, spent a lifetime of caring for others, and encountered some sadness in her life, so she is like just about everybody. It also described how she was proud of her body, enjoys traditional activities like knitting and baking, and opposes ageism, refusing to have her wrinkles photoshopped and supporting the right of women to age how they want. This is very empowering in context, showing women can live a full life doing all sorts of things in both traditional and contemporary spheres as they wish, from being a hot nanna knitting a sweater to lolling around on the beach with a handsome toyboy.
Great video. I do everything 'my way'. Open to learning new things, but usually take into account, clothing & climate. Love from Australia, the pic. was demeaning to women.
after cataract surgery my normal concealer no longer works have had to switch to mac radiant rose and am trying your triangular approach because of how my undereye has changed
I totally agree with you concerning this photo. Women can be their own worst enemies when they allow something like this to happen, or just accept it. As far as the concealer issue is concerned I agree that you should use your concealer however it works best for you. Over the years I have tried so many different color correctors and concealers for dark circles, but now my problem is lines under my eye area. I use a good hydrating primer, but still deal with the lines on a daily basis. I don't think there is any solution to this problem, and I just need to live with it. Your choice of blush and lipstick colors in this video were very nice. You look great!
Totally agree with your perspective of that photo…totally demeaning to women….in reference to this video felt you nailed it about the makeup application mainly concealer…thank you for a great video
Hi Nikol I couldn't agree with you more after watching you put your concealer on as you did in this video I am gonna do me and put my concealer on the way I feel is my best instead of what "I Should be doing"...Thanks for this video beautiful lady!..❤ Ps. I love your fashion shorts with the awesome music you add to them 😉
Watching this wonderful video (as they all are‼️) regarding the concealer- it occurred to me that I may not want to keep doing this. I’m 82 years old and have VERY heavy under eye bags but not darkness. Am I emphasizing my bags by adding concealer? I’m very fair so would either your green or peach color neutralizer be better to recede them? Thank goodness I wear glasses so the bags are somewhat hidden. Thanks for your wonderful videos I just love watching you.
The thing I do not understand is why women keep supporting magazines, products, clothing that is demeaning to women. Our wallets speak volumes. This photo is sickening and as my grand daughter flips through Instagram I feel sorry for her and for my daughter that have to navigate these conversations on a daily basis. Your message speaks volumes Nikol. Keep it coming!
Nikol you crack me up! I agree! Let’s reverse that position! 😆 Also, thank you for the concealer information. I agree, do what works for you. Most of these influencers I see giving makeup advice no nothing. Half of the time they do a terrible job applying their own makeup. Why on earth would I take their advice seriously??
That Vogue pic disturbed me. After fighting for and winning women's rights in the 1960's and 1970's, it's painful to see how far we have slid back into such sexist portrayals. Thanks, Nikol, for the guidance to develop our unique cosmetic applications based on your basic instructions and encouragement.
I think that photo is totally demeaning to women and it’s so disappointing to me that any women at this point in time would participate in something like that. I agree - why don’t we turn it around and make the guy take the submissive position.
I totally agree. I agree with Nikol, let’s reverse it.
Cheapens the Photo , whatever it’s representing ?
Makes me think about when I was managing a clothing boutique and this guy would come in to promote a club he would harass my sales associates fooling around and grabbing them so I decided to grab his “ you know what “ and he freaked out . never did he walk in to my boutique again 👅👅👅
Paulina forgot her thinking cap on this one! Disappointing to say the least
Low key I'd love to see a guy kind of in a submissive BDSM setting on a fashion cover ❤️ 😳
I totally agree. Personally and as a certified life coach who works exclusively with women I find it demeaning and I do not see the artistic relevance of it. It’s a step back for sure.
The picture saddened me. I am a Spanish American in my sixties, and when I was a little girl my great aunts, who spoke no English, taught me that women no longer had to submit to such disrespect. They taught me to respect myself by not letting others demean me.
Disrespect is one message I get from the photo
I would have to say that picture is far more than disrespect. It is an ad that advocates for sexual abuse -- right in the open. I am sorry. All those involved with its creation should be shoved out the door of the industry. These images are part of rape culture. This is not just submission. I just read about the rape culture at the South Pole in the news. I'd like to think that people who would endure those harsh conditions in the name of science would be different, but the private corporations involved are doing the same old dance of firing the women who are raped for coming forward.
The more I thought about the picture shown in the video, as well as the other pictures in the photo shoot I viewed on line, the more disgusted I became.
When I taught high school in a predominantly Latino and Black community, the faculty and administration worked diligently to combat the machismo attitude that was quite prevalent that females were property not people.
I felt disgust and betrayed when I viewed this photo. Thought we were making progress, need a similar photo using males.
Pure shock value and it’s disgusting.
That photo....cringe worthy. Felt it was to show that a woman, no matter what her age , must be submissive. I love how you tell us to put makeup/concealer that suits us as an individual. I never understood why I should do my face they way they do. And a lot of times the "beauty experts" seem to go overboard with concealer/contouring and almost demanding I must wear it their way. I want a simple, fresh look, that suits me and my personality. Thank you for your expert advice.
Yes do what is right for you!
The photo is so disturbing, especially the vacant look on her face. Creeped me out immediately. I agree, let's reverse it and see how men receive it! As you said, are we beyond this?? Feels very violating to me.
It is a violation that’s the point I am assuming
Yes!...the vacant look...hollow and without personality.
The woman looks frozen in fear.
That hollow look: perhaps she is dissociating - in her fall from grace, from self-respect. Sad and embarrassing!
Unfortunately, I think unless you had the man’s privates in a vicious death grip, they would see it as a turn on.🙄😳
Thank you Nikol! Thank you for letting us know, we must do what is right for us!
I am completely disgusted with the photo.
As a women with inherited dark under eyes, I appreciate your words that we need to do what's best for our own situation & "any way we want"! I struggle to find the right way, as too many women telling us we need to do it this way. THANK YOU!!!!!!
PS: I don't like that photo, at all! Totally inappropriate, period.
I loved this video. I'm 70 and I love wearing makeup. It made me feel good about myself and want to try all Nikol products. Applying my concealer has always been an issue for me. A big thank you!
I agree with you Nikol. I was offended to see a photo like this taken as though we should all think that it’s okay. What year are we in now? Haven’t we grown in mutual respect (men and women). Why should there be ANY photo where anyone is portrayed in a submissive way? That’s true equality. ❤
I TOTALLY AGREE !!! Are we going backwards ???? I would NOT buy what ever this add is selling in fact I would probably personally boycott what ever it is!!! Please for my granddaughters sake LET’S NOT REVERSE HOW FAR WE HAVE COME !!!
How in the name of everything politically correct, in any country, was this picture an acceptable representation of women. Speaking of political correctness: we have to think so carefully to be sure not to offend any group, yet a major publication, aimed at women, uses this image, which is offensive, demeaning, and depicts a woman in a subservient role.
Thank you for the concealer tutorial. I struggle with the best way to lighten the under eye area and the “less is more” approach doesn’t work for me. I’ve learned so much from your videos and experimented so much more with my makeup routines to my overall benefit.
Please keep on advocating for women of any age. When I look back on what American girls were exposed to in the 1950s, 60s, even into the 80s, it’s truly sad. Thank you!
I thought we were going to higher places and then I saw this just disappointed. Great news that I have been able to help you with your makeup routines! 😘😘
I would love for you to do a video teaching when it’s best to use concealer vs color correction. I’m so confused! 😉
Eww is exactly what my reaction was. Women being portrayed as playthings is something highly damaging to both women and men
Back in the late 70’s, there was a fashion magazine ad for White Shoulders perfume. The beautiful brunette was laying down, breast was covered with a man’s head. It was shocking to me. I find this the same-actually demeaning.
I also saw the photo this week and was…..taken aback. I can only think that the photo was taken to draw attention to their magazine. I found it hard to understand why the model allowed herself to be a part of it. The headless man standing in for all men and their control over women and the model remaining passive. SMH
I was actually shocked that Paulina agreed to this photo shoot?! No, just no. We need a positive artistic vision! Yes, how would it be for the roles to be reversed? Then we would hear ALL about it! Thanks, always, Nikol.❤️🌹
I thought Paulina was trying to establish herself as a voice for empowerment while aging. I guess not.
The "model" ISN'T a ROLE model in any way shape or form😢she looked uncomfortable to me😢😢
Totally agree with what the photo conveys. I LOVE that you flipped it, to highlight the gender difference in treatment.
Yes I would love to see women doing this type of role reversal I can guarantee you that it would not be well received
Lots of photos in role reversal exist, with dominant women grabbing sexy men's chests. That's not the issue. The issue is a 57-year-old woman desperately trying to prove she's still hot. Don't be fooled by her wrinkles. She works hard at keeping her body and hair sexy. Very smart strategy! But I prefer elegance at this stage of life.
Agree with you totally on the picture. Wonder if the power play was convincing her to do the picture by offering a lot of money, or was she under contract to use her likeness for shock purposes? Eeew is right.
Ladies, if you have not used the face primer you are missing the smoothness it brings after you apply your makeup. I am 77 and still learning! The creamy concealer is awesome! I love all the products! Can’t wait for the BB cream to launch! Thanks Nikol for all the amazing tutorials, keep them coming!❤️
Agree 💯 with you Nikol 🙏 I find it submissive and actually belittling 🤬
The photo is complete trash. I don't follow makeup/fashion trends & the bait they use to lure people in to line their pockets. I use, do, wear & THINK what I want.
Thank you for being here with us !
The photo made me feel degraded. I love your channel ❤
Agree 100% and have said it for literally YEARS … reverse the ads to show men being groped and see where THAT goes. I think we all know the answer to that 🤨
Nikol, I always appreciate your videos and your perspective. Over and again your content empowers women no matter their age or stage in life, and I so appreciate that. I wanted to let you know that I've finally found a wonderful trick to cover my very dark circles under my eyes (inherited from both parents). I have used your Eye Primer not only on my eyelids, but also under my eyes, and it works as my concealer without settling into wrinkles. It is magic! Thanks so much for this fantastic product.
You are not too far. It’s just too much. There is no reason for that pose or picture. Your comparison to a woman holding a man’s privates is perfect. Ick! I love this tutorial. Very natural and thanks for giving us “permission” to use our make up the way we feel is best. Yay! I love to learn new tips and tricks, but sometimes I know what works best for my problem areas. Thank you for telling us not to follow the rules of the internet!
I think you nailed it - do what is best for you in terms of your makeup at any age. I have rejected most of what I learned about ‘rules for over 40 in terms of makeup and clothes’ and remain in charge of myself. I look for tips from makeup artists like you and then make my own decisions. Most of this is basic common sense. As you age, I’ve found that less is more. Your face does not look younger by applying more makeup. But it is helpful to understand how you can still utilize makeup to enhance your looks at ANY age. At 67, I still enjoy learning about and trying skincare and cosmetics products. You Tube is a great source of information and your channel is one of my favorites. ❤
Oh and the photo? Paulina, like Janet before her, uses social media for whatever she is promoting. It works.
Thank you so much for all you bring to the Beauty community
Nikol, yes, that absolutely did look like a power move, and it creeped me out. A man and woman facing each other, with hands on body parts could be construed as artistic. This was just "I can do what I want with you," and I'm not okay with it.
I totally agree with you about the photo. It’s all about power.
Regarding the concealer issue, I have dark circles that run into hyperpigmentation on my cheeks. No way putting concealer in the corners is going to be of any use. I’m still working on making it work.
I am 70 and have “canals” plus bags. It has taken me years to figure out what I like to be able to accept that as part of what is me.
I like what you said. I have a round face. Every RUclipsr I follow has an oval shaped face. Where they put their bronzer, blush, contour, etc does not work for me. I’m 66 yo and have been working on what placement is flattering for my round face. Love your videos!
I agree. This photo is demeaning. Thank you for speaking your mind.
Totally agree on what you say about the picture.
With concealer, BB cream it foundation, even after moisturizer, my skin looks way worse and wrinkly. Without makeup, I have some dark places but none of my wrinkles show. With makeup, I look like my skin has aged 20 years. So I seldom use anything after my sunscreen. I'm sure I'm doing things wrong, but there it is.
As a survivor of SA, that photo made me incredibly uncomfortable. I agree with your switch-I would like to see the reaction to a man in the submissive position.
Completely agree, can't believe anyone could think that image a good idea. Not good at all.
I completely agree with you, demeaning yes! Why in this day and age does someone think that picture is remotely acceptable? I also like your idea of turning the photo around, putting the woman in the position of power.
Maybe they are trying to say an older woman is still desirable and sexy. IMHO I think it is tasteless and, sadly, a sign of the times we are living in.
I think you said it perfectly: Ew. What a wretched photo.
I'm new to your channel and I'm really appreciating the tips that I've seen so far. Definitely subscribing, because dealing with aging skin feels like it's suddenly a thing I really have to manage.
agree...feels like a "dominance" move,, yes it's disgusting
Dom for sure
I like wearing makeup and have tried the silly suggestions how to conceal undereyes which dont cover my puffiness. I apply concealer to cover the whole area. Thanks for reminding me that using a peach corrector first will minimise the shadow. I just love your easy makeup tips. You're a beautiful woman inside & out.
I thank you so much for this tutorial...I'm so tired of being told not to use concealer under my puffiness
That picture made me feel icky, I had trouble understanding what the point was, just ick.
I’m loving all of your new products, I love putting on makeup again!
So excited that you are loving my new NiKOL Beauty line. Makes me so happy 😀
I to, didn’t understand what they were going for with the photo. Just didn’t make sense, but I just didn’t need to see it. You are on parr!
I love that you let us know we don’t have to conform to any one way I have used my fingers for foundation I make sure I wash my hands so thanks Nik
Wow! Thank you so much for saying that as a makeup artist you think we should apply concealer however we need to according to our needs. I have significant dark circles under my eyes, and have tried and tried to apply it the “right” way, as recommended by almost all of the Influencers. I have become obsessed with trying to perfect the less is more technique because it seems to look good on them. But I can’t get it to work!! I have bought many concealers thinking maybe I just don’t have the right one, and now have quite the collection. I DESPISE having my picture taken because of my dark circles. Thank you!
I'm agreeing with everyone here regarding that 'cringe worthy' photo...and with you regarding the concealer! SO wish your products were available here in Spain!
Yes! My initial emotion upon seeing this photo was concern. Concern for the “Woman”. The “Woman” that represents all us and her requirements to dim her overstanding of self-worth and power, that “She” is not victim. Thank you for speaking out.
Well said, it's a woman's body as a possession, an image of asserting ownership.
That photo is demeaning…disgusting! Why put that message out there. Really?
I’m going to try your makeup application techniques. I love all the attention to details you give us. You are AMAZING Nikol! Thank you!
Thank you for this video on concealer application! It is helpful ❤ That photo was repulsive in my opinion! 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
So true whatever works for you 👍🏽 and it’s nice that a professional like yourself guides us 👏🏽👏🏽
I just love your earrings! Do you recommend a site for something similar that’s affordable 😊?
I really enjoy following you and learning each time I do. Bravo!
I totally agree with you! There is no need for those sort of photos!
Men are rarely exploited like that. Why did she allow this? If women in the public eye are being demeaned, why do they allow it? This has been a question of mine since wayy back in the day. I agree totally with you... turn it around and make men the sex object if this is such a "meaningful" message to send!!
Agree with you 100percent. You always look amazing. Thank you for standing up for women’s rights!😊
Up early, enjoying a blustery storm and feeling comforted by another one of Your fabulous videos... Thank You so very much for looking out for Us and our beauty and sense of Self. Love from, the Oregon North Coast.
Good morning!
@@NikolJohnson thank you so much for this! I’ve always had the “allergy shiner” and it has been the one thing that has always bothered me. Your videos and pointers are so great! I like how you say to do what works for you! I’m on the BB cream waitlist and can’t wait! Thank you.
I agree with you 100%! This photo sets women back. Not understanding what this has to do with anything. Ridiculous. Thank you for this video. Love the bronzer idea for shadow. 👏🏼
Your dark chocolate and navy eye pencils are the best of all eye pencils i have ever tried over the years
About the photo.. It makes me feel so sad. How is this possible. Let this be the last one. It's embarrassing.
Love your attitude Nikol 👊😍. Brigitte 🌷
I totally agree! Reverse it like u said
Completely agree re: the photo
So totally agree, as a mature woman, mind you, I’m of the hippie free love generation 😂, who the H do they think they are catering to?? Women of all ages, aren’t we way past this garbage of men treating us as objects?? Come on!! Seriously!! I will not get all political, but I’d like to… are we handmaidens again? Please, our bodies need to be respected, just as men’s need to be respected, enough said. As for concealer, those on general utube aren’t trained! I put concealer where I need it. I have very dark blue area on inner eye near nose and it’s so difficult to get that area light enough. Of course I’m 73, so what can I expect. Oh well, some days I look better than others. However, I adore Nikol’s products, they never cause me to itch or break out in hives, they are all fantastic, love love love the new formulations, can’t wait for the rest of them!! You go girl, your are so gorgeous Nikol!💖🥰
That photo made me angry! Why would Paulina do this? Thank you for this video, Nikol.
I agree with everyone on that photo. It's too casual of an expression on her face as tho this is an everyday occurrence 😢
Hi Nikol,
Thank you for your tips, advice, and support.
As for the photo from Vogue, what is point of the man holding the model’s breast? It confuses me and it makes me cringe. 🙅♀️ 🤷♀️ I think it was a waste of time and resources. 🤦♀️
Total waste of time it’s been done before nothing new and we have moved past this “art” in 2023. If I am not mistaken women have been asking for more? This photo doesn’t represent that mindset.
Rock on N! Thanks for empowering women of all ages, but especially the mature sector ;)
Rock on!
That photo is degrading. I'm like you, haven't we came further than this. A womans body goes through so much. Please show it respect.
I enjoy your channel. You're one more beautiful and classy lady.❤
I agree, Nikol. And I like
Your “turn around” suggestion. But that will NEVER happen.
You're spot on--Power, dominance, equals demeaning. How would this image play in US market?
You're absolutely on par and love you and your channel❣ BTW, happy belated birthday 10/13... and I'm a born and raised Napan👐👍🍇🍷🍾
I have only recently discovered your channel and I love it; you are so refreshing and down-to-earth. As for your suggestion for inverting the roles in the photo, that would be a good idea; the only trouble would be that most men would enjoy it!
Hi Nikol, I get so frustrated when I do my under eye area. I'm 73 so I have all the tiny lines & bigger ones out to the side . It doesn't matter which concealer or which method I use it turns cakey looking even with primer or a light lotion. I use it very sparingly with or without powder to set it. Can you help me? I also have a bag under one eye. Oh, I did not care for whatever was being advertised in the photograph.
I will tell you as far as that photo, my mom would say, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I agree with you, what the heck was that for??? I appreciate you letting women know that they themselves have to figure out what works on their face. One day to the next, it is not always the same. Depending on sleep, stress, what we ate or drank. We just need to be able to do what makes us feel great and then that projects onto our day and who we come in contact with. If we feel good then we do not worry about how we look and can concentrate on being present in the moment with whoever we are interacting with.
Nikol-I love the new eye primer formula. Also, I agree with you about the photo. I'm surprised that Paulina shot the photo because she has been very vocal about women's social issues.
Hi, . Lovely blush creamy blush colors. I always need to move my concealer around my dark circles moving upward. I use different concealer colors to cover up those circles, then blend well. TYFS. xo
Loved the look. Especially the lip color. As for the photo. It is purely an attempt to grab attention to the ad. The product being advertised is a footnote. As long as women pose for these pictures, our image will not change. There are so many ways sensuality can be used. Think Catherine Deneuve in the Chanel #5 ads.
Yes, let's get this photo shoot started! Just how would an image like that be received? I agree 100% with everything you said.
NIKOL…thank you for teaching this 52 year old so much about all things important to being a woman. I just LOVE your content, explanations and the education you offer while not assuming your followers already know xyz. You’ve been invaluable at teaching me how to do so many things better as I’m going through perimenopause and needing to make changes to my self care routines. I just love all you do!!❤
You are so welcome
Hi Nikol, thank you for the tutorial. I agree that we shouldn't limit ourselves in our makeup application. I have learned a lot from you and your channel and appreciate your straight talk. I also appreciate your invitation to comment about my thoughts on the Paulina photo. This is my first time commenting so I hope I can offer some thoughtful insights. I just wanted to bring a different perspective.
I read some of the comments about the Paulina photo. A lot of commenters are disappointed in it, and that is ok, people can like and dislike what they want. And as you said, this style of photography has probably been done to death. I also understand that first impressions last and that most people will react to what they are seeing without finding out any context. However, I noticed in many of the comments this implication that the image is some sort of slight on women by men, as if they were somehow responsible for it and its message, and that men should be objectified in return as punishment. I wanted to find out more about the photo before I made up my mind as I don't really know anything about Vogue or editorial fashion photography, so I found a webpage that showed the other photos from the same shoot. The article gave a bit of Paulina's backstory; and I also looked up who the creative team was for the shoot.
Paulina's shoot was very provocative and racy showing images of her clothed and partially naked in decadent settings both with and without a younger man, giving wealthy cougar vibes. I don't believe the intention of the shoot in it's entirety was to suggest any aggression against women, but perhaps could have been a flip on the "sugar daddy" trope, suggesting the roles everyone wanted reversed in the comments in fact already were. There were 15 people on the creative team, only five of them were men, two photgraphers, a hair stylist and two makeup artists. Everyone else was female, including the Editor-in-Chief, who had ultimate control over the look, feel, and message of each photograph. The male model with Paulina in some of the photographs was not even named.
If the hand on the breast was set a little softer it may have came across more as a caress and therefore more intimate, but everyone lost their mind because it looks a bit more like a squeeze. The thing with power is you have to look at who has it in each situation to work out if there is a power issue. In this situation, Paulina is looking relaxed and elegant, leaning back onto the models chest, it suggests she is commanding as if she is the Queen and he is just doing what she told him to like a good boy.
I am just saying art is about ideas and if there are ideas to be had here, then the photo needs to be thought about more and it's not just a case of first impressions. If the vibe is off for people, I don't think they should blame men about it or suggest that men should be objectified as a response. The responsibility of that vibe is the editors and she was a female. But its also down to what people get triggered by and thats on every person to check themselves and make sure they aren't just getting political for no reason.
I think the whole shoot was quite good in a Manet's "Olympia" scandal kind of way, which I am totally ok with. I would do beautiful photos like that myself given half a chance. The article said Paulina had a challenging upbringing, spent a lifetime of caring for others, and encountered some sadness in her life, so she is like just about everybody. It also described how she was proud of her body, enjoys traditional activities like knitting and baking, and opposes ageism, refusing to have her wrinkles photoshopped and supporting the right of women to age how they want. This is very empowering in context, showing women can live a full life doing all sorts of things in both traditional and contemporary spheres as they wish, from being a hot nanna knitting a sweater to lolling around on the beach with a handsome toyboy.
Great video. I do everything 'my way'. Open to learning new things, but usually take into
account, clothing & climate. Love from Australia, the pic. was demeaning to women.
Nikol, I don’t think you are being dramatic about the photo. It also gives me a negative feeling. It just seems wrong. Love your videos and you. ❤
Stunning Nikol please please please start selling in the UK I'd buy all you products ❤
I love the concealer help. My circles are so dark I need to try this method and pray it works. ❤
after cataract surgery my normal concealer no longer works have had to switch to mac radiant rose and am trying your triangular approach because of how my undereye has changed
I am so instantly repulsed by that photo . It would take me 1000 words to express all my thoughts.
I think I am now at 100,000 words lol
I totally agree with you concerning this photo. Women can be their own worst enemies when they allow something like this to happen, or just accept it. As far as the concealer issue is concerned I agree that you should use your concealer however it works best for you. Over the years I have tried so many different color correctors and concealers for dark circles, but now my problem is lines under my eye area. I use a good hydrating primer, but still deal with the lines on a daily basis. I don't think there is any solution to this problem, and I just need to live with it. Your choice of blush and lipstick colors in this video were very nice. You look great!
Totally agree with your perspective of that photo…totally demeaning to women….in reference to this video felt you nailed it about the makeup application mainly concealer…thank you for a great video
Hi Nikol I couldn't agree with you more after watching you put your concealer on as you did in this video I am gonna do me and put my concealer on the way I feel is my best instead of what "I Should be doing"...Thanks for this video beautiful lady!..❤
Ps. I love your fashion shorts with the awesome music you add to them 😉
Totally agree on the photo. Thanks for doing what you do.
I love you idea. Lets reverse the situation and see what happens. She’s so beautiful she does not need this kind of publicity
These photos are upsetting, and yes flip the Switch, 💯💯💯
Watching this wonderful video (as they all are‼️) regarding the concealer- it occurred to me that I may not want to keep doing this. I’m 82 years old and have VERY heavy under eye bags but not darkness. Am I emphasizing my bags by adding concealer? I’m very fair so would either your green or peach color neutralizer be better to recede them? Thank goodness I wear glasses so the bags are somewhat hidden. Thanks for your wonderful videos I just love watching you.
The thing I do not understand is why women keep supporting magazines, products, clothing that is demeaning to women. Our wallets speak volumes. This photo is sickening and as my grand daughter flips through Instagram I feel sorry for her and for my daughter that have to navigate these conversations on a daily basis. Your message speaks volumes Nikol. Keep it coming!
Nikol you crack me up! I agree! Let’s reverse that position! 😆
Also, thank you for the concealer information. I agree, do what works for you. Most of these influencers I see giving makeup advice no nothing. Half of the time they do a terrible job applying their own makeup. Why on earth would I take their advice seriously??
That Vogue pic disturbed me. After fighting for and winning women's rights in the 1960's and 1970's, it's painful to see how far we have slid back into such sexist portrayals. Thanks, Nikol, for the guidance to develop our unique cosmetic applications based on your basic instructions and encouragement.
I agree with you on the video EWWW! I love that you encourage us to try things to see what works for each of us.
Great video as per usual! Being 48, fine lines and dry under eyes, concealer is the most important makeup that I use!
OK, who makes your blouse?
I love all the positivity in your videos!