Im not really unhappy with who i am, i sometimes am confident but i wish i looked different. No one really tells me that im ugly/fat/... but no one is really interested in me and that doesnt necessarily make me sad it just makes me wish i looked like someone that people could love 🤔
malou g I think you're better off without those people. you dont want people that love you just for your looks. Also everyone is their own type of beautiful and one day you'll find someone who's interested in not only your pesonality, but also your type of beauty. 💕
malou g be with your family and friends and have a nice time with them. You deserve it. They love u and u deserve that. Or just take a piece of paper and a pen and write down your strengths. You deserve to feel good and I wish you the very best for everything you want to do
For the past 3 years I've been wearing baggy clothes to hide my body. This year I joined swim team. A thing I've wanted to do since I was little. Now not only do I have to unmask my body and wear a bathing suit, but I also have to wear a bathing suit in front of my crush. First practice is tomorrow. Wish me luck.
TaylorIsMy NAMEE my first practice was great. My crush is a really good swimmer and he said I did really good so yay! Then today we had practice and I swear I talked to him for like 3 hours. We have a class together, then I rode the bus with him, then we got a ride to swim together. The only thing that sucks is he has a girlfriend. But he thinks I could be really good at fly so I'm super excited to get into it.
Hey I know this comment is so old but I’m kinda going through the same thing, I really want to join the swim team but I’m really self conscious about my body and it’s holding me back. How did things go for you when you joined the team?
I think this is what we need more of from our parents. It's sad to me to see how many people are here and need those words to hear from some strangers on the internet yet our parents that we know for a long time and are one of the most important persons in our lives are not providing such support. Is it just me ?
damn I had just my right headphones in and I listened to that background music the whole time and i was trying to figure out why their lips were moving
This made me cry ....this video means so much to me as I suffer with depression and anxiety disorder and with me only being 13 most of my friends don't understand it or what I'm putting up with
ellie jane if you want to talk, im here.. i know how hard it is to have panic attacks, anxiety, depression and stuff like that.. but keep in mind that there are people on this strange world that will help you through this. I'll pray for you babe!
If I could go back in time, I would have appreciated my body more. I can't believe I ever hated my body, my healthy, strong body. I was diagnosed with cancer last year and nearly lost my life. My body is not as strong as it used to be. Part of my intestine is on the outside of my stomach due to chemo complications. I look at old pictures of myself and think, "How dare I called myself fat. How dare I disrespected or didn't give enough love to the body I was in. How dare I hate the beautiful body I was in." Because now, I WISH I could go back to the body I once picked apart. Admire someone else's beauty without questioning your own. Stop hating yourself for everything that you aren't and start loving yourself for everything that you are. You don't realize how good you really have it. And to pick apart your "thunder thighs" when some people wish they had your legs to walk with but they can't because they are permanently in wheel chairs or to hate the hair on your head for whatever reason if you wish it were curly, straight, etc when people like me have lost their hair because of chemo. Even with the damage that was done to my body from cancer, I am slowly (because it is a process people) learning to love every part of me. Because inner beauty is far more important in this life than outer beauty despite what the media may brainwash you to believe. Be thankful for everything you have because one day in can be taken from you in a blink of an eye. Self love is so important. There is only one you. And it should be your number one priority to love yourself. Happiness is a noticeable glow.
Ali Rieman thanks so much u really made me realize how unnecessary it is to complain about my body and comparing myself. hope you made it through cancer. i don’t know you but i think you are a great person. & thanks for making my day
Wow I was just brought back to this post from 3 years ago!! So I actually got better and then relapsed with cancer and had to go through it all over again!! But I am now a 2x survivor, thank you for the sweet comments 💜 I’m on Instagram if you want to see parts of my journey @alirieman Much love!! 💜
I wish I could just look in the mirror, tell myself I'm pretty and lovely and just become more confident, become pretty and lovely. Sadly it's not that easy
"people say I march to the beat of my own drum, I love that compliment" who is that guy? he seems very sweet, if he has a channel I would love to subscribe!:)
Hey. I was just watching this video again because I was feeling down on myself today. I saw this comment and just wanted to say thanks for commenting. Much love 🙏🏼 P.s sorry for being 3 months late
just watched all 3 videos & subscribed as soon as i saw this (i'm a week late, for some reason my laptop signed me out & i just now noticed). so excited to watch more of your videos in the future!
thanks andrea. i really loved this video, the more i got into it the better it was. i can't explain how great this was, especially hearing so many stories from so many people. i'm looking forward to other great projects of yours :)
im not sad but im not happy either, its like you have nothing to complain about but you have nothing to be happy for either, every day is just the same routine and you start feeling numb, numb to emotion and numb towards others. its really hard to explain
Honestly now I'm over my looks... I just dislike my personality. I'm very boring and uninteresting and dull and I have nothing to say and cannot have a normal human interaction... I'm insanely awkward and I just cannot make friends and it sucks.
God, I hate myself so much. I try my hardest to portray myself to others as confident and happy, but in truth, I don't love anything about me and I don't think I ever will. Regardless, this video is inspiring and without a doubt helped a lot of people. Bless you all
you are so beautiful I'm so sure about it. you should really love yourself. I know it is hard for you. but do you! please, love yourself. you need to know your worth, you are special. you are you. I hope and pray you understand your beauty one day.❤❤ stay strong and stay positive about yourself. always here if you need to talk x
paige bond hey, I've been there too. And more people are there right keep than you will ever be able to perceive. But trust me, it will get better. Treat yourself as your own best friend. Compliment yourself. Love yourself. Accept your flaws wholly and embrace your strengths. You are human and meant to be imperfect. But that's exactly what makes you so unique and wonderful. Love xx
Although I appreciate the video and happy that you all learned how to fall in love with yourself and is helping others learn how too, it just doesn't convince me anymore. I fall way under what society calls a beautiful person and I can't learn to deal with it bc when I say "Okay, you're beautiful" someone treats me as if I'm not even human. I've been living in a 10 year cycle of "okay, everything will be okay, you will look different in a couple years" but nothing ever changes. However, I am still strong and will continue to push and wait for better days
Mh! You need to love yourself as you are TODAY and not how you ''hope you will be in the future''. Everyone has their own qualities and flaws. What you need to do is start by appreciating what makes you a beautiful person inside and out (I know it can be hard sometimes but trust me we all have something positive in ourselves). So start with one thing you like and then find something else everyday! And who cares if what you like about yourself is not what society tells you is ''beautiful'' or ''better than something else''! (You also need to accept your flaws and work with them because we also all have some and its what makes us who we are right?) Don't lose hope. Hope this helps xx
The hardest part (for me) learning to love myself is comparing myself to EVERY girl. I've hated myself for so long that its become a habit I can't shake, I see a girl in the street and think "omg she has a great ___ .. i wish I had that" or "wow I wish I was as pretty as her". And Instagram really really does not help. So many beautiful models on there and the Kardashians, the Jenners, they're everywhere looking flawless in EVERY picture. Always promoting tea that makes them skinny, always promoting teeth whitening kits to keep their teeth white af, they just always look beautiful and I will never ever look like that and it sucks. And then I think "i bet my boyfriend finds them pretty... I NEED TO BE PRETTY LIKE THEM!!!!!!!" So I go to every length to try and look as beautiful as they do. Its just a viscous cycle and I'm so so tired.
FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE WHO GOES THROUGH THE SAME STRUGGLE AS I DO. I literally had to delete the Instagram and Twitter app because it got so bad. :( It's really hard when they're are so many pretty girls like Gabby Epstein, Kylie, and Alexis Ren it's like ugh I would kill to look as good as them and have a body like they do. It really sucks. :( 😞
I almost cried. I want to share this message to everyone everyday of my live and I got it to make other people which where depressed to make them happy again. I also think everyone should live life and don't give a f*ck abbaut what others think. Hey you, ... yea u ... you are amazing, beautiful and unique so smile and do what you want .
إن الله لم يخلقنا بمظهر بشع بل جملنا ورزقنا من كل نعمه وخلقنا لنعبده وحده ولا نشرك به --- قال الله تعالى( وما خلقت الجن والإنس إلا ليعبدون) صدق الله العظيم -- لكم دينكم ولي دين ( انا مسلمه واحترم جميع من له دين غير الاسلام) انا لا اتحدث الانجليزيه بإمتياز الترجمه God did not create us look ugly but also beautify and bless us all the grace and created us to worship Him alone and not involve him --- God said (I created the jinn and mankind except to worship) the great truth of God - your religion for me my religion (I am a Muslim and I respect all of his religion is Islam) I do not speak English with Distinction
غزل God didnt create us with a hideous figure, in fact he made us beautiful and granted us with a lot of blessings.. he created us to worship him and only him .. as he said in the Quran (And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)). You do your religion and ill do mine (as in you do you and ill do me) .. I am a Muslim and I respect whoever has a religion other than Islam Hope my translation is closest to right My comment which is irrelative to the video- you doing something as simple as removing a tiny rock out of the way so that others dont get hurt is considered worshipping to God.. its that easy..
If you feel comfortable with your body,your pimples or other imperfections do not care about what people say,even if your family tell that,just live, be freedom and happy. But,if you don't like something about you,you can change it,you have the key.You can choose.Big hug
I've been told my entire life that I'm "that pretty girl." but doesn't mean I felt pretty or I saw the potential they saw, but now I'm obsessed with myself but it took me years to get to this point. just because you see someone as attractive doesn't mean they see themselves as attractive. "flaws" and insecurities are different for everyone and make even the most fucking attractive people feel worthless. so don't ever make someone feel invalid for how they see themselves because insecurities are so fucking difficult to overcome and they're entitled to feel how they feel even if you don't understand.
laura niatopsky I'm not saying their insecurities are invalid my gosh don't be so defensive.I'm not trying to demean them,I think this is a beautiful video with a beautiful message.But from the place I come from,these people would be worshipped as Gods and would get the best treatment from everyone for what they look like so forgive me if I find this weird.These people have literally tens and thousands of people telling them everyday of how beautiful they are.The guy with the awesome eyes has fucking 1000000 wattpad stories written about him.Just how much validation would somebody need?
I was looking through the comments searching for something like this & this is the only one I found. Seriously all of these people are gorgeous can we not pick people with some real scars or deformities or acne??? How about we pick the people that cover up with makeup & would hate if they had to be on camera because they're so insecure.
Those "extremely attractive people" happen to go through insecurities too. Theres not just some specific type or group of people who go through insecurities, its everyone.
personally I look way better on my instagram and snapchat and i'm meeting this guy this friday and i'm so fucking insecure about like my face (i know that it sounds weird) but like idk he is so fucking hot and he has been beginning me to meet him but i'm so insecure idk what to do :|
Alexandra Chrzanowska I feel the same with a new guy I'm dating. Sometimes we can't see the beauty of ourselves because we see ones self every day. If he gives you his time. Then he sees worth in you. Start accepting it and own it.
Don't listen to them. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and the important people see us that way :) the bad stuff never lasts as long as we think it will x
Time heals all wounds. You will learn to love who you are, the universe will put things into perspective for you someday. Live your life the way you see fitting, do not let others define you & do not define yourself as one thing. When you look in the mirror, look past your physical body & like into your mind & your soul and take into account that you are more than just a body.
Oh my god so i usually only listen with my right earbud in so I spent the first 30 seconds of the video wondering what the hell was wrong with the audio
I've always struggled with my weight and I've never liked that I'm bigger then girls in my school, I never liked how I don't feel comfortable putting my hair up because I hate my baby hairs and neck. I hate smiling because of my teeth and I hate wearing shorts because I hate my thighs. But after watching this I noticed that it doesn't really matter, every one has their flaws and insecurities and I promise myself to love myself and be happy.
PerlaAna wear whatever the fuck u want to wear, do ur hair the way u want to do ur hair, screw what other people think. no one, i mean no one, has the right to tell u that u can't wear something or do ur hair some way. do whatever the fuck it is you want to do, the way u look shouldn't change that for u. love yourself, because u ARE beautiful. love yourself for who u are, & other will too x
My boyfriend of 2 years just told me he didn't love me and he didn't want me anymore. I though it was me. Because I'm fat or I'm ugly. And I'm here thinking he could do better or he's in love with someone else..I need this so much
STYLES honey, no. My heart just broke for you. Never ever think that way. I feel you though, and I feel like I'm being hypocritical by saying not to feel like that. But don't. Never think "if I were skinnier or if I were prettier maybe he would still love me and want me" no. If he didn't want you because of appearance, you don't want to be with a guy like that anyways. (: I'm sure you're a great person and you're going to find the right person.
If someone doesn't love you anymore they never loved you to begin with and as sad as that sounds if someone really loved you they wouldn't stop , you are so much more and he doesn't define who you are. Stay strong love and put a smile on your face because you're beautiful and worth it that guy didn't know what he lost.
I have massive dark circles, i hate them. I don't want to wear makeup because I'm young it will ruin my skin. But I can't because I'm so insecure of my dark circles....
+Goda Tkacenkaite don't worry too much about your'e dark circles, I have the same problem I'm 16 (17 soon) I do use Concealer under my eyes because it makes me look less tired but you don't have to. Just make sure to sleep good, drink enough water that's it ♡ I bet your beautiful
Ari thank you so much for these nice words❤️ but everyday I tell myself, today I'll go to school without makeup, but when I look at myself in the mirror I see those horrible dark circles, and I just can't stand them. And that's how i never went to school without any makeup on.
+Goda Tkacenkaite wearing make up isn't a bad thing, just do it if it makes you feel good but NEVER do it for someone else, never listen to other people who are trying to bring you down. Just do whatever feels right x
I love this video so much, I really wish at the end though that Andrea would have said, "your smile* looks amazing today" rather than hair because some people don't have hair and so I wish it was something that could relate to everyone, not a physical feature like that. But still awesome message, beautiful video
one more thing, even if im just an average, cis, white girl with no popularity and quite insecure myself, i just wanted to tell you what i say to myself everytime i feel depressed, like nothings worth it and the whole worlds caving around me, i say: *''This current situation is not my final destination.''* i may not know any of you, i may just be an average stranger, but i wanted to let you know this and i want you to remember it, because i really do care about you and i want you to love yourself for who you are and what you are, because you cant change that. no matter how much harmful plastic you shove into your body or how little or more food you give yourself, you will always be *you*.
I won’t leave this page without saying you’re beautiful and perfect the way you are. The world has standards but we don’t have to maintain it, we can set a standard of kindness and peace instead
Because you have nothing better to cry about. Look at this shit. It's sweet and all but it's not what life is about. I don't need someone to tell me I'm beautiful/handsome. There is more to life than being "self confident". My Generation is going down the drain if this is their primary concern
Lol, then what is life about? You seem to have it all figured out so i would love to know your answer. Self-confidence is extremely important to excel in other things in life that you want to do. This is a video that will bring smiles to hundreds of thousands of people and there is still gonna be hate. Typical.
27 non physical complements: 1. You’re empowering 2. I like your voice 3. You’re strong 4. I think your ideas/beliefs matter 5. I’m so happy you exist 6. More people should be listening to what you have to say 7. You’re a very warm hearted person 8. It’s nice seeing such kidness 9. You’re very down to earth 10. You have a beautiful soul 11. You inspire me to become a better person 12. Our conversation brings me a lot of joy 13. It’s good to see someone care so much 14. You’re so understanding 15. You matter a lot of me 16. You’re important even if you don’t think so 17. You’re intelligent 18. Your passion is contagious 19. Your confidence is refreshing 20. You restore my faith in humanity 21. You’re great at being creative 22. You’re so talented at ____ 23. I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people 24. You have great taste in _____ 25. I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you 26. I wish more people were like you 27. You’re so good at loving people
This was amazing. It reminds me of the song priceless by for King and country. It talks about how we are all priceless and our worth isn't in what other think of us
This was a beautiful and amazing video, one of the best RUclips videos I've seen in a while. :) I cried tears of happiness while watching this video. :) This is something I wish I would've had back when I was in middle school and high school, for when I was bullied and made fun of fir how I look. :( Thank you to you and to everyone who made this video. :) This video will help, it's helping me. :) I hope everyone sees this and I'm going to share it on my Facebook and Twitter. :) Have you beautiful day you wonderful humans, I love you all. :)
Ivy Gilkes dont you ever let anyone bully you, even if it is because of your hair. It may not seem a big deal but that will live a scar, and you have to stand and say "No more, its my hair I do the fuck I want with my hair and you dont have an opinion on this subject" they will stop eventually but you have to stand up because noone will do it for you and make them respect you like you respect yourself. they have to know that its not okay to bully you.
I think I am legit falling in love with myself......I just got butterflies and got that dizzy feeling ya get when your in love, just thinking about myself......its not big headed though......Im mentally ill....its kinda weird.......yeah just a bit lol.
This made me cry. It's so beautiful. I'm 24, & I've been diagnosed with severe anxiety, depression & chronological headaches. From it all, I have become very antisocial from who I used to be & I've become less confident in myself as a person. I am still trying to find my purpose in life & trying to love myself through it all. I have a job, both parents, etc... gotta keep going!
I just want to point out that Alissa has been someone that has influenced me to be my weird and real self,when Alissa showed up i screamed.Thank you for this video lmao
Watching a video about loving yourself entirely and completely inside out and been given advice by someone who demonstrates the exact opposite? THAT makes no sense. In my opinion its kind of hypocritical and doesn't seem as genuine to me. She obviously isn't in the position to be giving advice that she herself cannot follow or do as example- she's altering her own features and portraying herself someone she simply isn't. She's hiding her real true eye colour. I have brown eyes, does that mean I too should wear contacts? whats do bad about brown eyes that they should be covered by something so different and unrealistic? Does that mean blue eyes are better? Its all THIS bullshit that doesn't make sense. you're obviously blinded by your devotion i guess to her and her channel that probably you don't notice that this is what she's as well as many other idols and role models are portraying. Not the message of loving yourself in its totality but merely loving yourself half way or deluding yourself and creating the illusion that that is what loving yourself is. I feel like in doing that it just brings about more insecurities in the long run. People will adopt the way of thinking that this is what is encouraged: to change what you look like, that you need such things to make you feel good about yourself or to love yourself to the dangerous point where that is your source of self confidence and worth- everything on the outside; what you put on and wear, and not what you say do or who you truly are. So I don't think my comment didn't make sense, i think it made complete sense and i'll stick with my opinion. I just don't agree with the method she chose and I can only hope that she too realises what she's doing/ what she can do and that she can one day say what she said in this video genuinely, without doubt and with complete certainty that she is content and fully in love with herself.
Bro so I had my right earphone on the whole damn time wondering why everyone could hear and I could just hear music I went through the WHOLE video just listening to the music but then I saw a comment quoting what someone had said and I was like tf so I rewinded and still couldn't hear shit till I thought about putting my left earphone on LMAO
Tiffany Onwudinanti What I love about myself is that I live the life I want, I'm able to do the things I need to do to accomplish my goals. I love my smile, even tho I don't have the perfect teeth. I love that I don't really care about what others say about my appareance. ❤
A great time to see this video. For a long time now I've been in an on & off relationship for about 6-7 years now. This person has made be feel so low about myself. I gave this person all my love for him to treat me horrible, making me feel like I was nothing, like I was never good enough. I felt so low about self i didn't even want to be in this world anymore. Of course I still love him & I have a daughter with him which makes it hard. I tried to change be a better person, but no mater what I do, it's never enough for him & im always the bad person in his head. Even if I find out from friends that he's doing bad things & I ask him. He blames me & gets mad at me for even asking. He messages me for a couple weeks & stops. I'm finally learning to know that I don't need someone like that in life. I'm starting to finally love myself enough to not let him treat me like a toy anymore. This video helps a lot. I've been looking at so many videos on how to love myself , I'm glad Andrea uploaded this! Thank you!
Tania Ramirez You are such a beautiful person! Maybe I don't know you and maybe I never will, but i just got to tell you, be strong girl! You got this, you do you, love yourself! You are beautiful no matter what!❤️
Tania Ramirez I saw something about that and that is pretty much mental abuse, if he is putting the blame on everything you do and weighing you down with everything that is wrong, he is not right for you. You should always feel happy about yourself no matter who you are with. If anyone makes you feel unhappy or not like yourself you should try to just move on from them and just look for the positives.❤️
Olivia Marie yeah you are right. I'm finally starting to see that. He made me believe everything was my fault, even because he left he said it was my fault. Even to this day he said he left because of me. Yet I've done everything to try to change & still he thinks I'm the problem. It's horrible. But I'm learning now I don't need someone like that.
The thing I hate about videos like these are the comments. Don't even have to look at to know that people are saying "but I look like a potato". Just fishing for compliments.
but what if some ppl actually do feel they look like that and just stating not fishing for compliments when i say something negative about myself to a friend or someone i genuenly feel like that, my mind is made on thinking that and someone denying that wont make my mind chnge thats how bad some of our self esteem is so with ppl like me theres no fishing for compliments coz we already know it wont make a differance to how we feel we say it as a fact that our mind says is true and weve believed it most ppl will understand what im saying
This actually made me cry at the end, for someone who suffers with confidence and loving themselves i think this message is great and something i look back on whenever i feel like nothing or don't love myself enough.
I watched this at 3 in the morning so I probably don't look my best right now but thank you for the compliment anyways xD self confidence is something I struggle with a lot, not just when it comes to my body but my personality too. I'm very awkward and introverted which doesn't usually get me far in the friendship or any other department for that matter... I've grown to embrace my weirdness though, which I guess is a step in the right direction... It only took me the entirety of primary school.
My left ear really enjoyed this. One day I hope my right ear will be able to hear the same words.
HAHA same.
LOL OKAY ME TOO OMG
i thought my headphones broke
Anton Eliasson I thought it was muted at first lmao
Why does it do that
Im not really unhappy with who i am, i sometimes am confident but i wish i looked different. No one really tells me that im ugly/fat/... but no one is really interested in me and that doesnt necessarily make me sad it just makes me wish i looked like someone that people could love 🤔
malou g basically me
malou g I think you're better off without those people. you dont want people that love you just for your looks. Also everyone is their own type of beautiful and one day you'll find someone who's interested in not only your pesonality, but also your type of beauty. 💕
malou g be with your family and friends and have a nice time with them. You deserve it. They love u and u deserve that. Or just take a piece of paper and a pen and write down your strengths. You deserve to feel good and I wish you the very best for everything you want to do
malou g no like u literally put everything i feel into actual words
Deep.
I really needed this right now. thank you.
me three
Me too
I really needed to hear this through my right ear lmao
For the past 3 years I've been wearing baggy clothes to hide my body. This year I joined swim team. A thing I've wanted to do since I was little. Now not only do I have to unmask my body and wear a bathing suit, but I also have to wear a bathing suit in front of my crush. First practice is tomorrow. Wish me luck.
How was your first practice? Also no need to cover up your body, you're gorgeous & beautiful!
TaylorIsMy NAMEE my first practice was great. My crush is a really good swimmer and he said I did really good so yay! Then today we had practice and I swear I talked to him for like 3 hours. We have a class together, then I rode the bus with him, then we got a ride to swim together. The only thing that sucks is he has a girlfriend. But he thinks I could be really good at fly so I'm super excited to get into it.
+Super Ali Update? I hope everything was and has been amazing. 💗 you're beautiful.
Hey I know this comment is so old but I’m kinda going through the same thing, I really want to join the swim team but I’m really self conscious about my body and it’s holding me back. How did things go for you when you joined the team?
Cinthia lol I’m faded af rn and found this funny
I have zit cream on my face and bed head and when Andrea said you're beautiful and your hair looks amazing I'm like hahaha okay Andrea
Elizabeth Laraque SAME! Hahaha
ME TOO GIRL
same situation, zit cream and everything
LOL! My hair was a crazy mess, I was like, girl please.
Elizabeth Laraque OMG ACTUALLY SAME
This was absolutely beautiful
Be my Daddy your right😍
This is what we need more of on RUclips
ILY Andrea💖💖
Queen Rebecca yesss I totally agree :)
I think this is what we need more of from our parents. It's sad to me to see how many people are here and need those words to hear from some strangers on the internet yet our parents that we know for a long time and are one of the most important persons in our lives are not providing such support. Is it just me ?
damn I had just my right headphones in and I listened to that background music the whole time and i was trying to figure out why their lips were moving
This made me cry ....this video means so much to me as I suffer with depression and anxiety disorder and with me only being 13 most of my friends don't understand it or what I'm putting up with
ellie jane if you want to talk, im here.. i know how hard it is to have panic attacks, anxiety, depression and stuff like that.. but keep in mind that there are people on this strange world that will help you through this. I'll pray for you babe!
ellie jane I'm on the same page as you, don't worry you will find people and if you don't I'm always here since we can relate❤️
Wow thank you means a lot to know that people are there 💭
ellie jane AY you can get through This💖
ellie jane me too ugh the struggle 😩😫
who is the guy who said "he loved it when his friend said he had a beautiful mind"? His eyes are gorgeous
Natalie W his name is sean o'donnell
Sean O'Donnell!
What's the girls name who talks second about her thighs?
Kelsey Stewart Megan Batoon
Natalie W I was just about to comment that same😂😂 he's eyes are so beautiful omfg😍😍😍😍😍
was I the only one who thought that this was gonna be a sarcastic video. And was completely caught off guard when it was serious 😂😂
But this was very uplifting ❤️❤️
yeah me too!
If I could go back in time, I would have appreciated my body more. I can't believe I ever hated my body, my healthy, strong body. I was diagnosed with cancer last year and nearly lost my life. My body is not as strong as it used to be. Part of my intestine is on the outside of my stomach due to chemo complications. I look at old pictures of myself and think, "How dare I called myself fat. How dare I disrespected or didn't give enough love to the body I was in. How dare I hate the beautiful body I was in." Because now, I WISH I could go back to the body I once picked apart. Admire someone else's beauty without questioning your own. Stop hating yourself for everything that you aren't and start loving yourself for everything that you are. You don't realize how good you really have it. And to pick apart your "thunder thighs" when some people wish they had your legs to walk with but they can't because they are permanently in wheel chairs or to hate the hair on your head for whatever reason if you wish it were curly, straight, etc when people like me have lost their hair because of chemo. Even with the damage that was done to my body from cancer, I am slowly (because it is a process people) learning to love every part of me. Because inner beauty is far more important in this life than outer beauty despite what the media may brainwash you to believe. Be thankful for everything you have because one day in can be taken from you in a blink of an eye. Self love is so important. There is only one you. And it should be your number one priority to love yourself. Happiness is a noticeable glow.
Alison Rieman This comment has 1 year i hope you beat the cancer and are well now! 🙏✌
How are you now?
Self love is essential! I hope you completely beat cancer!
Ali Rieman thanks so much u really made me realize how unnecessary it is to complain about my body and comparing myself. hope you made it through cancer. i don’t know you but i think you are a great person. & thanks for making my day
Wow I was just brought back to this post from 3 years ago!! So I actually got better and then relapsed with cancer and had to go through it all over again!! But I am now a 2x survivor, thank you for the sweet comments 💜 I’m on Instagram if you want to see parts of my journey @alirieman Much love!! 💜
Ricky Dillon love you ricky
Ricky Dillon your part was amazing
I wish I could just look in the mirror, tell myself I'm pretty and lovely and just become more confident, become pretty and lovely. Sadly it's not that easy
goldskiesgarrix you're beautiful
goldskiesgarrix it truly does take time. Appreciate little things about yourself and follow the path you want to follow regardless of what others say
goldskiesgarrix I get you
goldskiesgarrix tell urself in the mirror everyday even if u don't believe it u will convince urself it works 💕💕💕
Abigail Lawerence thx
I have to love myself because no on else does except for maybe my mom 😂
Same tho ahha
Daniel Mezquita same 😂😂
Daniel Mezquita same 😂
Everyone does love me but my mom and dad :( That's what's hard for me. I love myself but it's hard being hated by family. :/
Daniel Mezquita I love you ☺️💖
Why can I only hear them in my left earphone????😭😭
sarah Osmani you're not alone
Yeah same. What's going on?
It’s surround sound
Samee
Lmao I was so confused with only my right ear bud in
never been so early to a beautiful video
Johnny Appleseed ok smooth
Johnny Appleseed really smooth man, sadly enough not true 😂
RUclipsfan Sweden oh you are soo funny
when i saw Arden I was like yessssssss
and ricky Dillion! btw great message :) ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELVES PPL
"people say I march to the beat of my own drum, I love that compliment" who is that guy? he seems very sweet, if he has a channel I would love to subscribe!:)
I know he said Steve but does anyone know his last name?
his channels called Mr Steve:)
laur saltmarsh thanks so much!
Hey. I was just watching this video again because I was feeling down on myself today. I saw this comment and just wanted to say thanks for commenting. Much love 🙏🏼
P.s sorry for being 3 months late
just watched all 3 videos & subscribed as soon as i saw this (i'm a week late, for some reason my laptop signed me out & i just now noticed). so excited to watch more of your videos in the future!
thanks andrea. i really loved this video, the more i got into it the better it was. i can't explain how great this was, especially hearing so many stories from so many people. i'm looking forward to other great projects of yours :)
Megan Evans i
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Absolutely beautiful. Thanks for letting me be apart.
Jordan Doww i saw this right when you came on lmao
im not sad but im not happy either, its like you have nothing to complain about but you have nothing to be happy for either, every day is just the same routine and you start feeling numb, numb to emotion and numb towards others. its really hard to explain
i feel ya
Sonia Reynoso yess exactly how I feel
Sonia Reynoso I relate so hard to this
Sonia Reynoso i relate :/
Sonia Reynoso i feel you
Honestly now I'm over my looks... I just dislike my personality. I'm very boring and uninteresting and dull and I have nothing to say and cannot have a normal human interaction... I'm insanely awkward and I just cannot make friends and it sucks.
omg I feel exactly the same!!
Alice barker actually me
can I just say u have a beautiful name and embrace ur awkwardness and that u r wonderfully and uniquely made :)
oh my god ive never seen anyone else feel like i do before but thats exactly me
Alice barker same...
God, I hate myself so much. I try my hardest to portray myself to others as confident and happy, but in truth, I don't love anything about me and I don't think I ever will. Regardless, this video is inspiring and without a doubt helped a lot of people. Bless you all
Fandom Freak This comment is me. :/
you are so beautiful I'm so sure about it. you should really love yourself. I know it is hard for you. but do you! please, love yourself. you need to know your worth, you are special. you are you. I hope and pray you understand your beauty one day.❤❤ stay strong and stay positive about yourself. always here if you need to talk x
paige bond hey, I've been there too. And more people are there right keep than you will ever be able to perceive. But trust me, it will get better. Treat yourself as your own best friend. Compliment yourself. Love yourself. Accept your flaws wholly and embrace your strengths. You are human and meant to be imperfect. But that's exactly what makes you so unique and wonderful. Love xx
Although I appreciate the video and happy that you all learned how to fall in love with yourself and is helping others learn how too, it just doesn't convince me anymore. I fall way under what society calls a beautiful person and I can't learn to deal with it bc when I say "Okay, you're beautiful" someone treats me as if I'm not even human. I've been living in a 10 year cycle of "okay, everything will be okay, you will look different in a couple years" but nothing ever changes. However, I am still strong and will continue to push and wait for better days
Mh! You need to love yourself as you are TODAY and not how you ''hope you will be in the future''. Everyone has their own qualities and flaws. What you need to do is start by appreciating what makes you a beautiful person inside and out (I know it can be hard sometimes but trust me we all have something positive in ourselves). So start with one thing you like and then find something else everyday! And who cares if what you like about yourself is not what society tells you is ''beautiful'' or ''better than something else''!
(You also need to accept your flaws and work with them because we also all have some and its what makes us who we are right?)
Don't lose hope. Hope this helps xx
xo
Nia G hey, if you want to talk about it to someone you can always send me a insta dm @roos_houtenbos ❤️
+Unicorn Roos Thank you ❤️
The hardest part (for me) learning to love myself is comparing myself to EVERY girl. I've hated myself for so long that its become a habit I can't shake, I see a girl in the street and think "omg she has a great ___ .. i wish I had that" or "wow I wish I was as pretty as her". And Instagram really really does not help. So many beautiful models on there and the Kardashians, the Jenners, they're everywhere looking flawless in EVERY picture. Always promoting tea that makes them skinny, always promoting teeth whitening kits to keep their teeth white af, they just always look beautiful and I will never ever look like that and it sucks. And then I think "i bet my boyfriend finds them pretty... I NEED TO BE PRETTY LIKE THEM!!!!!!!" So I go to every length to try and look as beautiful as they do. Its just a viscous cycle and I'm so so tired.
FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE WHO GOES THROUGH THE SAME STRUGGLE AS I DO. I literally had to delete the Instagram and Twitter app because it got so bad. :( It's really hard when they're are so many pretty girls like Gabby Epstein, Kylie, and Alexis Ren it's like ugh I would kill to look as good as them and have a body like they do. It really sucks. :( 😞
thats exactly how i feel ...its like they all are so pretty and there's me who is so ugly
Samantha Kitty omg you put it into words 😭
exactly how I feel every day
it kind of makes you feel a little better knowing your not alone.
my left ear felt loved.
Right, wtf is with that?
i thought my earphones broke 😂
Brian use headphones
i thought my laptop was fucking up
Same I only use 1 ear bud for my left lol
Awe, I love this! So beautiful!
You are such a beautiful soul 💗🙌🏼✨ what a wonderful video!
i'd love to see more videos like this! :) definitely one of my favorites of your videos
I almost cried. I want to share this message to everyone everyday of my live and I got it to make other people which where depressed to make them happy again. I also think everyone should live life and don't give a f*ck abbaut what others think. Hey you, ... yea u ... you are amazing, beautiful and unique so smile and do what you want .
About* hahaha this is so funny
this really helped me❤️thank you so much:)i had the worst day i till now
untill*
Kesha P same
I was too and the ending was great
this is beautiful those 182 people have no heart for disliking this video. those are the people in this word who bring this world down
i hope everyone is having a amazing day
Monique Pezzano true, those people that disliked just really don’t love themselves .. :( we all need some love ❤️
Monique Pezzano the ratio between like and dislike is actually amazing on this video compare to others video
Really 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤩🤩😂
the boy with blue eyes, you're gorgeous
They are all gorgeus to me :)
Julia Liudkevich his eyes were amazing,, everyone in this video I'd absolutely beautiful
Julia Liudkevich Sean o'donell
Yuliya Liudkevich omg yas
exactly! 💖
This was uploaded on a day I need to hear this the most ❤️
SydneyKate same
SydneyKate same
SydneyKate SAME
SydneyKate Agreed
sameee
my left ear enjoyed it a lot
Pug Life at first I only had my earphone in my right ear and didn't know why they weren't speaking 😂
Christi Frierson same 😂😂😂
Pug Life AHAHAHAH SAME
Pug Life omg I am not even joking but my headphone was actually in my left ear
Pug Life same lol
Ok but did this make anyone else cry or was it just me?
إن الله لم يخلقنا بمظهر بشع بل جملنا ورزقنا من كل نعمه وخلقنا لنعبده وحده ولا نشرك به --- قال الله تعالى( وما خلقت الجن والإنس إلا ليعبدون) صدق الله العظيم -- لكم دينكم ولي دين ( انا مسلمه واحترم جميع من له دين غير الاسلام) انا لا اتحدث الانجليزيه بإمتياز
الترجمه
God did not create us look ugly but also beautify and bless us all the grace and created us to worship Him alone and not involve him --- God said (I created the jinn and mankind except to worship) the great truth of God - your religion for me my religion (I am a Muslim and I respect all of his religion is Islam) I do not speak English with Distinction
غزل 💙
غزل God didnt create us with a hideous figure, in fact he made us beautiful and granted us with a lot of blessings.. he created us to worship him and only him .. as he said in the Quran (And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)). You do your religion and ill do mine (as in you do you and ill do me) .. I am a Muslim and I respect whoever has a religion other than Islam
Hope my translation is closest to right
My comment which is irrelative to the video-
you doing something as simple as removing a tiny rock out of the way so that others dont get hurt is considered worshipping to God.. its that easy..
the worst thing about my self is that my family are the ones who say I am ugly and fat
same
If you feel comfortable with your body,your pimples or other imperfections do not care about what people say,even if your family tell that,just live, be freedom and happy. But,if you don't like something about you,you can change it,you have the key.You can choose.Big hug
Alicia Desamais I feel it
Alicia Desamais they're trying to bring u down. Don't let them
Sorry be happy your beautiful
FUCK MY LEFT EARBUD DOESNT WORK SO I CANT HEAR THIS
or i could just take my earbuds off whyamisostupid
sarah me omg me
sarah Lmao this is something that would happen to me
sarah SAME
literally same
omg hearing their story is so heartbreaking :( i hate how mean some people can be
Dang choosing extremely attractive people to love themselves same as usual.
Weaveable Destiny I'm really really ashamed to say that I kinda agree with you haha
I've been told my entire life that I'm "that pretty girl." but doesn't mean I felt pretty or I saw the potential they saw, but now I'm obsessed with myself but it took me years to get to this point. just because you see someone as attractive doesn't mean they see themselves as attractive. "flaws" and insecurities are different for everyone and make even the most fucking attractive people feel worthless. so don't ever make someone feel invalid for how they see themselves because insecurities are so fucking difficult to overcome and they're entitled to feel how they feel even if you don't understand.
laura niatopsky I'm not saying their insecurities are invalid my gosh don't be so defensive.I'm not trying to demean them,I think this is a beautiful video with a beautiful message.But from the place I come from,these people would be worshipped as Gods and would get the best treatment from everyone for what they look like so forgive me if I find this weird.These people have literally tens and thousands of people telling them everyday of how beautiful they are.The guy with the awesome eyes has fucking 1000000 wattpad stories written about him.Just how much validation would somebody need?
I was looking through the comments searching for something like this & this is the only one I found. Seriously all of these people are gorgeous can we not pick people with some real scars or deformities or acne??? How about we pick the people that cover up with makeup & would hate if they had to be on camera because they're so insecure.
Those "extremely attractive people" happen to go through insecurities too. Theres not just some specific type or group of people who go through insecurities, its everyone.
personally I look way better on my instagram and snapchat and i'm meeting this guy this friday and i'm so fucking insecure about like my face (i know that it sounds weird) but like idk he is so fucking hot and he has been beginning me to meet him but i'm so insecure idk what to do :|
It may sound kinda creepy, but I watched one of your videos and you are a really, really pretty girl. If I was u I'd meet him x
O jejku, a ty z Polski!
It's true. You're super pretty. But if a guy doesn't like you just because you don't look like a model, hes not worth it anyway
Alexandra Chrzanowska I feel the same with a new guy I'm dating. Sometimes we can't see the beauty of ourselves because we see ones self every day. If he gives you his time. Then he sees worth in you. Start accepting it and own it.
JUST BE YOU
people tell me in ugly and fat multiple time a day and I try and shake it off... I do shake it off but its still there.
Chloe Coutts fuck them. Fat isn't a bad word. Love your beauty. Redefine beauty
Chloe Coutts you're gorgeous, superstar
Don't listen to them. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and the important people see us that way :) the bad stuff never lasts as long as we think it will x
Chloe Coutts they just hate themselves. Brush it off & keep Slaying Bbg 💕
Time heals all wounds. You will learn to love who you are, the universe will put things into perspective for you someday. Live your life the way you see fitting, do not let others define you & do not define yourself as one thing. When you look in the mirror, look past your physical body & like into your mind & your soul and take into account that you are more than just a body.
Oh my god so i usually only listen with my right earbud in so I spent the first 30 seconds of the video wondering what the hell was wrong with the audio
Eli omg I was like wth is wrong with the audio and I saw your comment and was like omggg finally so thank you for this
saaaaaame
I've always struggled with my weight and I've never liked that I'm bigger then girls in my school, I never liked how I don't feel comfortable putting my hair up because I hate my baby hairs and neck. I hate smiling because of my teeth and I hate wearing shorts because I hate my thighs. But after watching this I noticed that it doesn't really matter, every one has their flaws and insecurities and I promise myself to love myself and be happy.
PerlaAna You are beautiful! No matter what girl! Be strong!:) ❤️
PerlaAna You are beautiful and very strong. Love your self and be happy!❤️
Same. You go girl. Do you because those couple of sentences you just said inspired me.
PerlaAna you are absolutely perfect just the way you are! We all accept you, even if none of those jerks at your school do.💕
PerlaAna wear whatever the fuck u want to wear, do ur hair the way u want to do ur hair, screw what other people think. no one, i mean no one, has the right to tell u that u can't wear something or do ur hair some way. do whatever the fuck it is you want to do, the way u look shouldn't change that for u. love yourself, because u ARE beautiful. love yourself for who u are, & other will too x
am i the only one crying right now ??
no I'm crying a lot but in a good way 💙
My boyfriend of 2 years just told me he didn't love me and he didn't want me anymore. I though it was me. Because I'm fat or I'm ugly. And I'm here thinking he could do better or he's in love with someone else..I need this so much
STYLES I'm sorry to hear that. Just know it's gonna be okay❤️
STYLES
STYLES he's not worth it honey I promise. I am dealing with the same thing. just block him out of your life. you, yourself need to be your biggest fan
STYLES honey, no. My heart just broke for you. Never ever think that way. I feel you though, and I feel like I'm being hypocritical by saying not to feel like that. But don't. Never think "if I were skinnier or if I were prettier maybe he would still love me and want me" no. If he didn't want you because of appearance, you don't want to be with a guy like that anyways. (: I'm sure you're a great person and you're going to find the right person.
If someone doesn't love you anymore they never loved you to begin with and as sad as that sounds if someone really loved you they wouldn't stop , you are so much more and he doesn't define who you are. Stay strong love and put a smile on your face because you're beautiful and worth it that guy didn't know what he lost.
I have massive dark circles, i hate them. I don't want to wear makeup because I'm young it will ruin my skin. But I can't because I'm so insecure of my dark circles....
hey, how old are you ?
Ari I'm 15 soon 16
+Goda Tkacenkaite don't worry too much about your'e dark circles, I have the same problem I'm 16 (17 soon) I do use Concealer under my eyes because it makes me look less tired but you don't have to. Just make sure to sleep good, drink enough water that's it ♡ I bet your beautiful
Ari thank you so much for these nice words❤️ but everyday I tell myself, today I'll go to school without makeup, but when I look at myself in the mirror I see those horrible dark circles, and I just can't stand them. And that's how i never went to school without any makeup on.
+Goda Tkacenkaite wearing make up isn't a bad thing, just do it if it makes you feel good but NEVER do it for someone else, never listen to other people who are trying to bring you down. Just do whatever feels right x
I love this video so much, I really wish at the end though that Andrea would have said, "your smile* looks amazing today" rather than hair because some people don't have hair and so I wish it was something that could relate to everyone, not a physical feature like that. But still awesome message, beautiful video
Well, not everyone can smile. For example my friend who have a muscle disease.
I didn't expect to cry, but Andreas message at the end made me tear up💜💜
same
Ava same
Ava I did too☺️ beautiful and meaningful video!
Ava sameeee
same here, i broke down at the end.
one more thing, even if im just an average, cis, white girl with no popularity and quite insecure myself, i just wanted to tell you what i say to myself everytime i feel depressed, like nothings worth it and the whole worlds caving around me, i say:
*''This current situation is not my final destination.''*
i may not know any of you, i may just be an average stranger, but i wanted to let you know this and i want you to remember it, because i really do care about you and i want you to love yourself for who you are and what you are, because you cant change that. no matter how much harmful plastic you shove into your body or how little or more food you give yourself, you will always be *you*.
i dont knwo what im doing please dont hurt me thank you for this.
you're a star
this is truly beautiful
I love you thank you :)
I won’t leave this page without saying you’re beautiful and perfect the way you are. The world has standards but we don’t have to maintain it, we can set a standard of kindness and peace instead
They all have beautiful skin when the camera zoomed in to their face... unlike me... *sigh*
"Best compliment I've ever received" wow that's actually a great question I have no idea
Why did this make me cry so much
Because you have nothing better to cry about. Look at this shit. It's sweet and all but it's not what life is about. I don't need someone to tell me I'm beautiful/handsome. There is more to life than being "self confident". My Generation is going down the drain if this is their primary concern
Lol, then what is life about? You seem to have it all figured out so i would love to know your answer. Self-confidence is extremely important to excel in other things in life that you want to do. This is a video that will bring smiles to hundreds of thousands of people and there is still gonna be hate. Typical.
Meghan Kelly I like his answer. It was tough love and that's what people need to get by.
27 non physical complements:
1. You’re empowering
2. I like your voice
3. You’re strong
4. I think your ideas/beliefs matter
5. I’m so happy you exist
6. More people should be listening to what you have to say
7. You’re a very warm hearted person
8. It’s nice seeing such kidness
9. You’re very down to earth
10. You have a beautiful soul
11. You inspire me to become a better person
12. Our conversation brings me a lot of joy
13. It’s good to see someone care so much
14. You’re so understanding
15. You matter a lot of me
16. You’re important even if you don’t think so
17. You’re intelligent
18. Your passion is contagious
19. Your confidence is refreshing
20. You restore my faith in humanity
21. You’re great at being creative
22. You’re so talented at ____
23. I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people
24. You have great taste in _____
25. I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you
26. I wish more people were like you
27. You’re so good at loving people
not bashing this video AT ALL but this made me me feel even more like shit
I thought my right ear phone was broken from this video but then I realized that it wasn't and it was just how the video was made 😂🤔
JOanna NIcole SAME OH GOD
JOanna NIcole saaame
JOanna NIcole I had to come check the comments I thought it was just me.
Omg same. I was like shit I just got this new headphones like why😂
Fkn sameeee
Why does Arden remind me so much of Jessica day?! Just me??
OMG yes!!! i thought the same thing!
Thanks for doing this Queen Andrea!!!! 💖
His eyes at 2:51 😍😍😍😍😭😭
This was amazing. It reminds me of the song priceless by for King and country. It talks about how we are all priceless and our worth isn't in what other think of us
If you haven't heard the song I would highly suggest it
Jase Anderson I love that song :)
THIS is what youtube is for THIS is gold
This was a beautiful and amazing video, one of the best RUclips videos I've seen in a while. :) I cried tears of happiness while watching this video. :) This is something I wish I would've had back when I was in middle school and high school, for when I was bullied and made fun of fir how I look. :( Thank you to you and to everyone who made this video. :) This video will help, it's helping me. :) I hope everyone sees this and I'm going to share it on my Facebook and Twitter. :) Have you beautiful day you wonderful humans, I love you all. :)
You made my cry , that is my favorite video, thank you so much andrea.
I can only hear it in my left ear lmao
Haha samee
Use both ears. The left is the voice and the right is the music
this helped me because people bully me about my hair and this helped me get over them alittle more😊
Ivy Gilkes I got bullied for my hair too, don't worry it gets better! I'm living proof.
Ivy Gilkes your hair looks beautiful! rock those curls girl ❤
Ivy Gilkes dont you ever let anyone bully you, even if it is because of your hair. It may not seem a big deal but that will live a scar, and you have to stand and say "No more, its my hair I do the fuck I want with my hair and you dont have an opinion on this subject" they will stop eventually but you have to stand up because noone will do it for you and make them respect you like you respect yourself. they have to know that its not okay to bully you.
Your gorgeous
I think I am legit falling in love with myself......I just got butterflies and got that dizzy feeling ya get when your in love, just thinking about myself......its not big headed though......Im mentally ill....its kinda weird.......yeah just a bit lol.
this is why I love Andrea ❤️
This made me cry. It's so beautiful. I'm 24, & I've been diagnosed with severe anxiety, depression & chronological headaches. From it all, I have become very antisocial from who I used to be & I've become less confident in myself as a person. I am still trying to find my purpose in life & trying to love myself through it all. I have a job, both parents, etc... gotta keep going!
This's amazing
I'm crying
I just want to point out that Alissa has been someone that has influenced me to be my weird and real self,when Alissa showed up i screamed.Thank you for this video lmao
lol at teala giving a message about loving yourself for who you are while wearing blue contacts. well done. 🤔🤔
I think she meant loving who you are as a person
Rose Anna Patrice oh so just because she likes to wear contacts it means she doesn't love herself? lmao pls you make no sense
Watching a video about loving yourself entirely and completely inside out and been given advice by someone who demonstrates the exact opposite? THAT makes no sense. In my opinion its kind of hypocritical and doesn't seem as genuine to me. She obviously isn't in the position to be giving advice that she herself cannot follow or do as example- she's altering her own features and portraying herself someone she simply isn't. She's hiding her real true eye colour. I have brown eyes, does that mean I too should wear contacts? whats do bad about brown eyes that they should be covered by something so different and unrealistic? Does that mean blue eyes are better? Its all THIS bullshit that doesn't make sense. you're obviously blinded by your devotion i guess to her and her channel that probably you don't notice that this is what she's as well as many other idols and role models are portraying. Not the message of loving yourself in its totality but merely loving yourself half way or deluding yourself and creating the illusion that that is what loving yourself is. I feel like in doing that it just brings about more insecurities in the long run. People will adopt the way of thinking that this is what is encouraged: to change what you look like, that you need such things to make you feel good about yourself or to love yourself to the dangerous point where that is your source of self confidence and worth- everything on the outside; what you put on and wear, and not what you say do or who you truly are. So I don't think my comment didn't make sense, i think it made complete sense and i'll stick with my opinion. I just don't agree with the method she chose and I can only hope that she too realises what she's doing/ what she can do and that she can one day say what she said in this video genuinely, without doubt and with complete certainty that she is content and fully in love with herself.
i HA m8 sit down everyone's entitled to their own opinion
Lol some people wear them for fun, what's the issue?
Watching this while touching my double chin. 😂
Bro so I had my right earphone on the whole damn time wondering why everyone could hear and I could just hear music I went through the WHOLE video just listening to the music but then I saw a comment quoting what someone had said and I was like tf so I rewinded and still couldn't hear shit till I thought about putting my left earphone on LMAO
Londraa Babyy HSHAHAHAHHAAHAHA SAME
SAMEEE
Omg same till I saw this
SAMMER
Londraa Babyy sameeee
I’m actually in love with myself I feel like I’m the partner of myself
This should be a series, in my opinion. It's extremely comforting you're not going through life alone.
If your reading this, below list things you loooove about yourself! :)
For Me:
-my smile
-laughing 24/7
-my defined collarbone
Tiffany Onwudinanti I think my taste in music is pretty great (keep it going)
Nichole Miller i love love love music :)
Tiffany Onwudinanti What I love about myself is that I live the life I want, I'm able to do the things I need to do to accomplish my goals. I love my smile, even tho I don't have the perfect teeth. I love that I don't really care about what others say about my appareance. ❤
Tiffany Onwudinanti i think that my body is very nice
what i love about myself
A great time to see this video. For a long time now I've been in an on & off relationship for about 6-7 years now. This person has made be feel so low about myself. I gave this person all my love for him to treat me horrible, making me feel like I was nothing, like I was never good enough. I felt so low about self i didn't even want to be in this world anymore. Of course I still love him & I have a daughter with him which makes it hard. I tried to change be a better person, but no mater what I do, it's never enough for him & im always the bad person in his head. Even if I find out from friends that he's doing bad things & I ask him. He blames me & gets mad at me for even asking. He messages me for a couple weeks & stops. I'm finally learning to know that I don't need someone like that in life. I'm starting to finally love myself enough to not let him treat me like a toy anymore. This video helps a lot. I've been looking at so many videos on how to love myself , I'm glad Andrea uploaded this! Thank you!
Tania Ramirez You are such a beautiful person! Maybe I don't know you and maybe I never will, but i just got to tell you, be strong girl! You got this, you do you, love yourself! You are beautiful no matter what!❤️
Teodora G thank you!! Means alot(: same to you!!
Tania Ramirez Girl he isn't worth it
Tania Ramirez I saw something about that and that is pretty much mental abuse, if he is putting the blame on everything you do and weighing you down with everything that is wrong, he is not right for you. You should always feel happy about yourself no matter who you are with. If anyone makes you feel unhappy or not like yourself you should try to just move on from them and just look for the positives.❤️
Olivia Marie yeah you are right. I'm finally starting to see that. He made me believe everything was my fault, even because he left he said it was my fault. Even to this day he said he left because of me. Yet I've done everything to try to change & still he thinks I'm the problem. It's horrible. But I'm learning now I don't need someone like that.
Alissa💜
Diana Cosy yess
my hair is oily and in a bun but thanks A
Is the girl in the red crop top trans? Not that I have a problem with it or anything, she is beautiful just wondering
Jana Briel yes
Jana Briel omg i really didn't even realized.. she is so beautiful!!
Just the voice gives it away, but she looks like a cis women
THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL I REALLY NEEDED THIS
this touched me
I really needed this video, thank you. I ALSO CRIED FUCK
I really needed this thank you for being you andrea 😘
I realized I have a left ear hearing problem
Beautiful video though with beautiful people
me too and yes the video was indeed beautiful
is it bad i started to cry
Lina no, of course not
Lina I
do they talk in the video ? i only hear music
Maz wear both earbuds
thannnnks
Maz 😂you have to put in both earbuds
Maz wait nevermind 😂
I love you & everyone that was involved with this video 💞 omg your final words touched my heart 😩💞
Ashley Cervantes
I cried and I don't know why xP
This is absolutely KILLER! I love the concept and I can't wait to see the effect of this on everyone
The thing I hate about videos like these are the comments. Don't even have to look at to know that people are saying "but I look like a potato". Just fishing for compliments.
but what if some ppl actually do feel they look like that and just stating not fishing for compliments
when i say something negative about myself to a friend or someone i genuenly feel like that, my mind is made on thinking that and someone denying that wont make my mind chnge thats how bad some of our self esteem is so with ppl like me theres no fishing for compliments coz we already know it wont make a differance to how we feel we say it as a fact that our mind says is true and weve believed it most ppl will understand what im saying
Madelyn Downs You look beautiful. There does that feel better? If someone is fishing for compliments, why not give them some love?
This actually made me cry at the end, for someone who suffers with confidence and loving themselves i think this message is great and something i look back on whenever i feel like nothing or don't love myself enough.
man all of these people have amazing eye colors thats so fascinating
At 2:44 is that Alissa violet
Angeline 123 yup
this just made me realize how much i really hate myself
They're all such beautiful people 😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭
All I can say is: wow
I seriously have no words. Inspiring as FUCK.
I wish this video wasn't comprised of ONLY actually attractive people.
NEEd and I Am Falling in LOVE myself. SEXY, HAPPY, CHarming and FUNNY. Friendly and smiling
I watched this at 3 in the morning so I probably don't look my best right now but thank you for the compliment anyways xD
self confidence is something I struggle with a lot, not just when it comes to my body but my personality too. I'm very awkward and introverted which doesn't usually get me far in the friendship or any other department for that matter... I've grown to embrace my weirdness though, which I guess is a step in the right direction... It only took me the entirety of primary school.