What a narcissist FEARS the most and 4 things to do about it
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- Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024
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If only I had access to education about narcissists in the 80’s!!!!
You can say that again. Me too!!
Stop Reacting. No response. And when they tell you how you feel say I disagree.
The ONLY thing you can do is LEAVE. 🍒
Exit strategy should include:
Analysis of finances, shared custody laws, new emotional support system, counseling.
Question:
Are narcissists codependent?
Narcissists are dependent on others for narcissistic supply otherwise they are stuck with themselves.
Yes I have often felt the control was the driver.
He is so right I have started not to play into the drama. I was always asked what I would do with the drama and whatever issue it is she would keep up the drama for about an hour. What was interesting was when we ignored her about the problem and she finally said was she the only one that saw the problem as she saw it:) Everyone have a Merry Christmas!!!
Not being dramatic is generally good advice in all applications of life
Absolutely brilliant video. ❤
I just found out hubby of 40 years is a covert narcissist and I’ve been trauma bonded for that long. Is there hope for me?
Yes Sondra, there is hope for you and for me - for us all who’ve broken free, or are breaking free. I hope you’re staying safe & formulating an exit strategy (perhaps staying with a relative or trusted friend / moving your belongings to a safe space incrementally whilst transferring your life’s savings into a new account to prevent financial abuse). Prayers for everyone who’s scared, for there will be divine peace + protection whilst you regain sense of self after leaving.
And if you can’t leave, use grey rock for minimal & preferably non-emotional, succinct conversations. Keep things brief, friendly and non-confrontational so you’ll avoid the narc’s reactive abuse. Be good to yourself now, everything’s going to be okay. I promise, you’re not alone. This safe space is where we all journeying to reclaim our freedom & independence from toxic/unhealthy abusers. Lots of love and a reassuring hug, dear one.💞🫶 Don’t give up.
Hi great vid . Keep it up !
Thanks, will do!
I stopped playing the game and instead of reacting he just rages more. Is that normal for them to do when you stop?
Yes that’s normal. Often won’t stop. That’s why ppl have to go no contact.
I tried to “grey rock”’as well and I got the longest worst rages of a 20 year relationship. Not reacting (as much as I could) made him insanely mad and he kept freaking out till I finally left with my kids while he was at work. It was terrifying
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Though knowing more is helpful, most critical is in all circumstances, is submission to and following Christ Jesus . His salvation and Presence are transformational. Forgiveness and gentleness and perseverance for Truth all support living fully even in difficult and relational strain.
I dated one
It Is Possible To Not Only Be Healed IN The RelationShip, It Is Possible To Stay And Thrive And Live With Joy
But Only If It Is A Calling 😊
I stayed 45 years n have been trusting God but now out abuse one cannot live in or you get destroyed physically n other ways also.mine filed divorce 4 yrs ago n is still trying to cause much suffering n also in my family. But GOD made a way out of that tortured home, I say run before ur destroyed
How?!!!
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