How to KNOW If Someone is “The One" GUARANTEED! | Part 2
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- You meet someone and fall in love, but now you’re asking the question, “how do I know if this person is the one?” This is a question that Jennifer and I get on a regular basis. In this video, we will give you some tangible ways to tell whether or not you should marry someone and exactly what you should do after you decide you want to get married.
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TIME STAMPS
00:00 - Opening Remarks
01:16 - What Was On Jennifer's "list?"
04:00 - What Was On Allen's "list?"
06:54 - A Few More Things On Jennifer's "list"
10:32 - The Final Thing On Allen's "list"
13:57 - Tips For The Engagement Process
17:00 - Essential Conversations To Have When Engaged
24:47 - Preview Of Final Video
Hey family! I hope you enjoy this video. If so, be sure to go back and watch part 1 here - ruclips.net/video/7KRZkskXmdQ/видео.html
Hi brother Allen, hope you are well. I am so grateful for you and your ministry. I have a question.
What constitutes biblical marriage?
Does making vows in a church without parent's knowledge, consent or blessing acceptable to God as marriage?
Does marriage without Government signing papers consudered as marriage in God's eyes?
Please respond.
Thanks
You all are the sweetest couple (you all are much younger than I am, that is why I feel it’s ok to use the word, sweetest). Thank you for your ministry.
Allen thank you for doing this series!!! So awesome that you and your wife can come together to help us married and single folk because I can speak for all of us when I say, WE NEED IT!!!😊
You're such a big hypocrite how to do scriptures yet ur wife wears tights pants just like worldy pple. Why can't u put ur house in order. Wear modesty. Ur not fit to teach if u can't follow wat u teach
it's not about all the scripture they know but how well are they living it out . love this line
I'm 49 and never been married.
So cool to find someone to share life with.
Anything is possible with God.
God is probably protecting you from many tears
I’m 49 and have never been married. I’ve gained sooo much knowledge about dating and marriage within the last five years than in my early 20s. I now know it would’ve been disastrous to enter into a marriage prior to now.
Amen 🙏🙌
@@elizaphanmnjama11 I don't think so.
Lord will keep you safe to the right woman into your life.
His wife is so classy and beautiful. She captures the look of a wife .😍
You both are the first married couple I’ve heard share real solid advice on how to date as Christians, & how to know if someone is “The One”. I pray this series continues! God bless you both!
Jerry and Tanisha Flowers of RedefinedTV
So, good!
Jennifer point on a man who submits to authority. I didn't think this was that important in my past relationships. It's not worth the frustration and isolation! Nothing worse than a man who can't listen to anyone!
I will never forget Voddie Baucham "My kids asked me 'dad how did you know mom was the one, one, one' 'uh she said yes.'
" XD
😂😂I know what you did there…the one..one..one
Many single women are “chasing careers” because we have to support ourselves while we wait for our spouse . And, in this economy, that’s a lot 😅
Ok. We want to be Well established
Hi, thank you for sharing.
Yes and education is important for women, I think there is nothing wrong with a woman having a career if the couple themselves can work out the logistics and have an intentional plan.
Which is what one of the main objectives of the feminist movement was. Women have chosen independence over being a helpmeet to a husband. Like it or not a choice was made.
Biblically women are not supposed to support themselves. That is the job of the husband.
@@jamooree I’m not in support of the feminist movement. However, unmarried women do not yet have the support of a spouse and must work to provide for themselves.
I always knew I never wanted children, so marriage was never a priority. I’m single and have a few platonic relationships but I haven’t had the desire to have someone in my life 24/7. Kudos to all who have found God’s chosen partner if marriage is you heart’s desire.
Gotta say, it's really reassuring hearing you say you were 40. I just turned 40 a few months ago and am still searching for whomever she is, and it kinda sucks and is frustrating at times, lol. You have moments where you have fight the urge to want to just settle on those lingering nights. Me anyway. Can't speak for anybody else. 🤷🏾♂️
More grace bro. I'll be 32 this year and it has not been easy. I dig you. I know those nights
Oh man it must be rough. Youll get there in no time👍
This is so wise! I love how Jennifer said one of the things she was looking for was a man who submits to authority. It’s so important to have accountability and even goes to church. Hearing that made me realize that people who do not congregate themselves is because they may have a submission issue.
This can absolutely be an issue with submission to authority.
Well said
Very true, I've had a problem with the way some people translated the Bible for their own personal gain, I realised the reason I was annoyed at that verse was because the people I saw misquoting it were untrustworthy and had self serving traits, it's not God's word that's wrong.
A couple of days it came to me, does he submit to God, his word too and listen to advice and guidance of godly people?
I could listen to Jennifer Parr the whooooole day. She's like that Sister you never had. God Bless!
Wow! Off topic but Jennifer is absolutely gorgeous! I love her hairstyle. You’re a blessed man pastor Allen and I’m sure she’s blessed to lol
You are a totally delightful, God honoring couple. I wish this video was out 28 years ago when I got married. I like how you have fun together, laugh together, and work through issues together. Your God focused marriage is truly a delight. Richest blessings! :)
God bless you brother and sister. Thanks for doing this series. I’m learning soooo much. I am 36 and still single. It’s nice to hear that there’s still hope for people up there in their 40’s!!! Praying for God to continue working on my character in order to be ready when/if he blesses me with a wife.
Have no sinful habit in your life. Become the man God wants you to be, before you meet someone. Work with God to break all strongholds, if there are any. Otherwise youll be bring them into a relationship, and they will cause marital problems.
@@livelife5890 just be obedient. It's easier without strongholds however that's not how it works in relationships or marriages. There's room for growth somewhere
Same here. But I am always assured that God is faithful to see me through. My Boaz is on the way. Keep the faith and trust God to see you through. God bless you!
@@livelife5890 im a bit confused on what you mean. we all sin, and sin won't stop once we marry. are you saying that you should never sin before marrying or that you shouldn't have any specific sins that you hold onto?
@@tarchelleenglish4374 Amen sister! God Bless you as well! 🙏
Mr. Parr got him a 9ja babe! ❤❤❤ love it!
So happy for him!! 😁 😊 🥰👌🏿💕💗🤗
The important thing is that if a wife stays at home
to support the family base, it is of the upmost importance that the husband makes her feel valued in that role. Yes especially when children are young it is difficult to maintain a balance between career and home life. As the children get older and more independent the mother will have the opportunity to pursue other interests, hobby’s but of course the first priority is the Lord and the home. Even the woman of Proverbs 31 had her own “business” so to speak. I just know some women who have dedicated so much to build up their families and husbands and when they are older they feel a lack of validation. I know we must look to the Lord for our ultimate validation, but just know appreciation is key for a wife to keep the household running, and running well.
so true !!
I’m 34 and I’ve heard countless videos from Christians talking about singleness and dating so much so it’s become something I’m done hearing. However I’ve stumbled across this series and it’s really good!
its really a different one. this one is deeeep
A serving spirit is one of the most beautiful things
Amen to that, Josh!
Please let this series be ongoing and please GO DEEP ! Lol People need to understand marriage is very serious. It’s not some fun idea people partake in. It’s so important that we let God ordain our purpose partners and the prayers can’t stop after marriage they have to increase exponentially. The enemy hates marriage so he will do everything to destroy it ! I love this series and I’ve learnt so much from the both of you. God bless you both
Keep me in your prayers guys ❤️ say a prayer for me if you’re seeing this 🥺🙏🏾
I just prayed for you!
Pray sent up fi you. No matter what you are ģoing thru in this 🌎, remebr God promise to never leave us or forsake us. 😊😊
I don’t have a list anymore. Now I’m older and things that were on my list 20 years ago don’t apply!😰 Now it’s more about so many other things that aren’t even ideal but practical like not still paying on student loans!!!😂😂😂
She is extremely beautiful, I love you phenomenal woman of God
Thank you for this video. Some people are on this kick of rushing into marriage. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but the best relationships and marriages are made when two people truly get to know each other.
His wife is so pretty! That skin!
I'm a 32 year old single woman (no kids). Your video gives me hope because one day I do want to get married and become a mother. I appreciate your transparency. May God continue to use both of you to teach the masses.
Hi Siboocy, am 32, young men living in DC, I met the Lord in 2018 . How are you doing please ? Thanks
@@elfidel6755 I'm fine thanks 👍
@@siboocy75 very good to hear that.
@@siboocy75 i appreciate your comment talking about hope ( hope in the Lord, of course) .without hope there is really nothing to live for.
Have grace for each other and be kind to each other!
YEEEEAHHHH!!! PART 2 IS OUT!! GONNA ENJOY THIS ONE!!
Yey! Been waiting. ❤️❤️❤️ Appreciate this topic so much.
I've been waiting for this one!
Love your ministry Allen. Thank you and Jennifer for this video. God bless you both. Been a fan for a long time.
This is GOOD!!! And I commend you for the excellence you have with executing these videos. The background, the audio, the lighting is all superb!👏🏼👏🏼
Oohhh, how I wish this video was longer... I had a blast listening to it. God bless you two! Can't wait for Part 3!
Y’all are the best! Really enjoyed watching this! I remember being y’all’s nurse when y’all had your first and second child❤
Love seeing you two have fun and discuss the hot topics🔥
Thanks for this word guys! Also, so close to *1MIL* 🎉🎉🎉 congrats.
This is SO good! Thank you Parr family for all this great info!
Keep going with this series, this is so good you guys!,
@ 7:50 the humility in a man that isn’t self centred hit SO HARD! 🔥
Good day to you both and keep up the good work. I can't wait until part three is uploaded or posted. Enjoy your day and weekend. Be blessed. 🙂👍🙏🏾
I needed this thank you!
A man who can submit to authority is really important! So glad that point was brought up!
Thank you two so much for doing these videos, it helps those of us so much who are still waiting 😊😌.
You two are just too cute together! Great advice! Thank you for being so open and genuine!
Thanks again Precious Parrs for your transparency and togetherness...awesome union and ministry! 🙂
Great video! Very practical. Many couples get engaged but are not really "engaged' & don't really discuss important matters prior to or during engagement. Good to see both sides. Can see & feel your love, joy , chemistry AND character. Lol. I am sharing this video with my friends. Thanking God for you & praying for your family.
We planned a wedding in 4 months! Yes, it can be done. When we knew, we knew and didn't want to wait!
I'm loving this series 🥰
Great content!! Blessings to you both!! ❤️
This is so much wisdom ❤
She’s so lovely! I love these series. Thank u. May God bless u both!
Guys, you're a blessing for my generation.
Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Awesome video lady and gentleman. Fantastic wisdom.
This was soooo good. Keep up these types of videos. They are helpful and God-glorifying. You both are such gifted communicators.
Hey!! Awesome videos!! You should make more videos like this!! Your wife is doing amazing!
This is such great advice! I’ll be a minister for my friends in a few months and these are some great pieces of advice to pass along
Really great video, great information, and to good examples in you both.
Hey, guys I really appreciate how you both share your lives with us. I love the conversation!!
I really needed this, thank you. May God bless you🙏
This was actually pretty good!! Thank you!
Thank You Parr family!
I am watching from Namibia and I am enjoying your authenticity & frankness. Keep teaching us
I love them and they are like this also when they teach. They are such a blessing. A brother and sister where you can see the fruits of the Spirit.
Thank you for sharing! Your good counsel is invaluable - I'm learning so much (emotional conviction) all the way from South Africa and it is so enriching to hear this WORD.
I also love the intentional conversations!
Y’all are dropping some divine goodness ✝️🤍🕊️
Love your story great job.
God bless the Parrs. I love this series. It is God Centred and helpful!
You too really match each other. And I must say, you guys got style!
Thank you so much for sharing such wisdom. As a single person, I appreciate it. 🙏🏽💖 And I am the exact same way about gender roles for the exact same reasons as Sister Jennifer. 🤗
I just love you Mr. and Mrs. Parr. You make me love being a Christian. 😍
Aww Mr.Parr seem like such a patient and nice husband! Beautiful couple! Thank you for this information! Looking forward to the next video!
Wow thank you so much needed …. Love it 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
Thank you for these videos I really appreciate it for someone who will be getting engaged soon they are really helpful
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
His grace and mercy be upon you all and your loved ones 🕊️🥛🍯
Finally. Been looking for this part two since the first day I watched the part 1. God bless u pastor and Mrs. Parr
I know right
Yesss! Thank you! Very insightful and not surface level!
Thanks pastor alen and sis Jennifer.. God bless you and thanks for staying on Truth!!! Blessings from Nigeria .
I'm so blessed! Thank you Mr and Mrs Parr! ❤️🙌
I'm patiently waiting on part #3 please☺️
This is awesome you guys!! Allen, I love that you said you were 40 when you got married. I'm older too and dated a lot when I was younger but never felt ready. God's done incredible things in my life over the past several years and it would be great to find a healthy, grounded Christian man. Thanks again!!
I felt this comment, and I’m turning 40 this year. Halleluia!!! 💃🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
@@Kari_Michele ❤❤😊😊
This video was a blessing bro and it was really funny too haha! God bless you guys!!
Mr. And mrs. Parr thank you so much for these videos. I know a lot of people have been talking about yalls transparency and that is amazing.
I heard someone describe marraige like a marathon, where at first when you get married its super exciting everyone is there at the wedding and there is so much hype. But then afterwards its just you, your spouse, and God and thTs it. Yall this person who stated this was like its not a race, but a marathon (slow and steady).
I'm not gonna to lie you guys did a great job ...
Usually I don't take dating advice from couples let alone from the church. But I trusted brother Allan on this because he is a very sound man.
Most of the times I ask for dating advice from couples it's always the gaslighting stuff "she'll find you", "you'll find the woman of your dreams soon", "be the man she wants you to be she'll find you" ... (And the church isn't any better) Not giving me actual proper advice, this is why I turn on into RUclips for dating advice ... But yeah God bless you Allan and Jennifer you guys rock!!!🔥🔥🔥
Great video! 🔥 🔥 🔥
GODBLESS YOU ALLEN🙏
This Video is a huge Blessing to me. Thanks Pst/Mrs. Allen.🙏
Wow, such a beautiful couple! I enjoyed this video!!💕
Absolutely educative. Thank you for sharing
Loooved this!!! Thanks so much. I’ll share with my daughter
This is awesome! A lot of people should benefit from this Parr couple. Because so many people go into the wrong relationship nowadays without understanding the value and necessary prerequisite for success in finding “the one” they operate on emotions but don’t look for key core values in their relationships. For years I’ve dated non Christian men which has caused so much heartache for me. I’ve decided to stop dating altogether, become celibate so that I can focus on my spiritual growth and accumulate clarity on what I really want in life whilst being obedient in my walk. I have to say what a game changer that is for me! I know now what to look for should if God willing in his plan for me to be in a new relationship in the future. A godly man with core values and purpose is a must on my list. Great video Mr. And Mrs. Parr! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love ❤️ this ministry! Vision and purpose.
This is Just Heavenly Made Couple, I love watching you Together, I always feel the spirit of God while listening to you guys, There ia alot of wisdom in What you say
You guys are literally beautiful lol I love how you guys compliment eachother ❤️
Amazing talk with you two
You guys are my favourite couples, thank you for the wisdom
This is great guys!! ❤❤👌🏼👌🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏽
Such valuable practical wisdom.
WOW!!! That was insightful ❤️
wow! It's feels so refreshing listening to you guys🤩; I'm really learning a lot
God bless you for this vision
Thumbs up👍
Great video! That gas tank thing is legit! Like how do I know when I'm not in that car? 😂