Hi brother Allen, hope you are well. I am so grateful for you and your ministry. I have a question. What constitutes biblical marriage? Does making vows in a church without parent's knowledge, consent or blessing acceptable to God as marriage? Does marriage without Government signing papers consudered as marriage in God's eyes? Please respond. Thanks
You all are the sweetest couple (you all are much younger than I am, that is why I feel it’s ok to use the word, sweetest). Thank you for your ministry.
Allen thank you for doing this series!!! So awesome that you and your wife can come together to help us married and single folk because I can speak for all of us when I say, WE NEED IT!!!😊
You're such a big hypocrite how to do scriptures yet ur wife wears tights pants just like worldy pple. Why can't u put ur house in order. Wear modesty. Ur not fit to teach if u can't follow wat u teach
I’m 49 and have never been married. I’ve gained sooo much knowledge about dating and marriage within the last five years than in my early 20s. I now know it would’ve been disastrous to enter into a marriage prior to now.
You both are the first married couple I’ve heard share real solid advice on how to date as Christians, & how to know if someone is “The One”. I pray this series continues! God bless you both!
So, good! Jennifer point on a man who submits to authority. I didn't think this was that important in my past relationships. It's not worth the frustration and isolation! Nothing worse than a man who can't listen to anyone!
This is so wise! I love how Jennifer said one of the things she was looking for was a man who submits to authority. It’s so important to have accountability and even goes to church. Hearing that made me realize that people who do not congregate themselves is because they may have a submission issue.
Very true, I've had a problem with the way some people translated the Bible for their own personal gain, I realised the reason I was annoyed at that verse was because the people I saw misquoting it were untrustworthy and had self serving traits, it's not God's word that's wrong. A couple of days it came to me, does he submit to God, his word too and listen to advice and guidance of godly people?
Gotta say, it's really reassuring hearing you say you were 40. I just turned 40 a few months ago and am still searching for whomever she is, and it kinda sucks and is frustrating at times, lol. You have moments where you have fight the urge to want to just settle on those lingering nights. Me anyway. Can't speak for anybody else. 🤷🏾♂️
I always knew I never wanted children, so marriage was never a priority. I’m single and have a few platonic relationships but I haven’t had the desire to have someone in my life 24/7. Kudos to all who have found God’s chosen partner if marriage is you heart’s desire.
I’m 34 and I’ve heard countless videos from Christians talking about singleness and dating so much so it’s become something I’m done hearing. However I’ve stumbled across this series and it’s really good!
You are a totally delightful, God honoring couple. I wish this video was out 28 years ago when I got married. I like how you have fun together, laugh together, and work through issues together. Your God focused marriage is truly a delight. Richest blessings! :)
God bless you brother and sister. Thanks for doing this series. I’m learning soooo much. I am 36 and still single. It’s nice to hear that there’s still hope for people up there in their 40’s!!! Praying for God to continue working on my character in order to be ready when/if he blesses me with a wife.
Have no sinful habit in your life. Become the man God wants you to be, before you meet someone. Work with God to break all strongholds, if there are any. Otherwise youll be bring them into a relationship, and they will cause marital problems.
@@livelife5890 just be obedient. It's easier without strongholds however that's not how it works in relationships or marriages. There's room for growth somewhere
Same here. But I am always assured that God is faithful to see me through. My Boaz is on the way. Keep the faith and trust God to see you through. God bless you!
@@livelife5890 im a bit confused on what you mean. we all sin, and sin won't stop once we marry. are you saying that you should never sin before marrying or that you shouldn't have any specific sins that you hold onto?
When she said that the reception and wedding is for other people......WOW! I didn't even look at it that way. It makes so much sense how you explained it by also saying don't get caught up in planning the event that you aren't working on building the relationship still. That's a piece yo the puzzle I don't think anyone ever considered that way. For example "bridezillas"
Please let this series be ongoing and please GO DEEP ! Lol People need to understand marriage is very serious. It’s not some fun idea people partake in. It’s so important that we let God ordain our purpose partners and the prayers can’t stop after marriage they have to increase exponentially. The enemy hates marriage so he will do everything to destroy it ! I love this series and I’ve learnt so much from the both of you. God bless you both
The important thing is that if a wife stays at home to support the family base, it is of the upmost importance that the husband makes her feel valued in that role. Yes especially when children are young it is difficult to maintain a balance between career and home life. As the children get older and more independent the mother will have the opportunity to pursue other interests, hobby’s but of course the first priority is the Lord and the home. Even the woman of Proverbs 31 had her own “business” so to speak. I just know some women who have dedicated so much to build up their families and husbands and when they are older they feel a lack of validation. I know we must look to the Lord for our ultimate validation, but just know appreciation is key for a wife to keep the household running, and running well.
Thank you for this video. Some people are on this kick of rushing into marriage. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but the best relationships and marriages are made when two people truly get to know each other.
I'm a 32 year old single woman (no kids). Your video gives me hope because one day I do want to get married and become a mother. I appreciate your transparency. May God continue to use both of you to teach the masses.
HOW TO KNOW IF THEY'RE THE "ONE" Jennifer's List: • Vision & Purpose =/= rich -->DIRECTION • Character over chemistry • Godly man = He submits to God; Leads you to God instead of himself • Accountability/Submits to authority ☆Look at how he treats other people; does he serve? Allen's List: • Spiritual Connection = Relationship w/God & Living out the scripture • Emotional Connection = Friendship, Fun, and Great Conversation • Physical Connection (self-explanatory lol) • Supportive woman = Considerate, encouraging ☆Look at how she treats other people; does she serve? PSA: I hope this helps, but still watch the whole video y'all lol. Some really great stuff in there!!
I'm not gonna to lie you guys did a great job ... Usually I don't take dating advice from couples let alone from the church. But I trusted brother Allan on this because he is a very sound man. Most of the times I ask for dating advice from couples it's always the gaslighting stuff "she'll find you", "you'll find the woman of your dreams soon", "be the man she wants you to be she'll find you" ... (And the church isn't any better) Not giving me actual proper advice, this is why I turn on into RUclips for dating advice ... But yeah God bless you Allan and Jennifer you guys rock!!!🔥🔥🔥
What is that? Bc I hear Christians say that yet it isn't no where to be found in alot of so called Christian marriages. Bible under the arm but carnality ruling life. Why do we have to go into ministry to find a Godly man potentially
Amen! Thats 1st on my list also. Having a godly spouse is the foundation that everything else will flow from. If the man is after the heart of Christ, he is trustworthy to lead - or at least he should be.
This is awesome you guys!! Allen, I love that you said you were 40 when you got married. I'm older too and dated a lot when I was younger but never felt ready. God's done incredible things in my life over the past several years and it would be great to find a healthy, grounded Christian man. Thanks again!!
I don’t have a list anymore. Now I’m older and things that were on my list 20 years ago don’t apply!😰 Now it’s more about so many other things that aren’t even ideal but practical like not still paying on student loans!!!😂😂😂
Great video! Very practical. Many couples get engaged but are not really "engaged' & don't really discuss important matters prior to or during engagement. Good to see both sides. Can see & feel your love, joy , chemistry AND character. Lol. I am sharing this video with my friends. Thanking God for you & praying for your family.
Wow. Never knew Allen's wife is a Nigerian by heritage. So you are our inlaw like we say in Nigeria. Love your channel an your wisdom. Watch u a lot.. From a Nigerian brother 🇳🇬
Praise God for this beautiful union! Thank you guys for sharing your tips!! I like this point about submitting to authority/accountability! I never thought of that!! A Godly man, having a spiritual emotional and physical connection, a man with vision and purpose, a man who submits to authority/accountability, a supportive partner
This video brings me peace, my love recently went home to God, and he had all of these things thatJennifer spoke about. He is the reason, I got saved. I’m so thankful for him and whenever I start dating again I’m so glad I know what to look for. Fly high MLCJ✈️✈️ and I thank God that I was blessed to be able to experience him.
This is awesome! A lot of people should benefit from this Parr couple. Because so many people go into the wrong relationship nowadays without understanding the value and necessary prerequisite for success in finding “the one” they operate on emotions but don’t look for key core values in their relationships. For years I’ve dated non Christian men which has caused so much heartache for me. I’ve decided to stop dating altogether, become celibate so that I can focus on my spiritual growth and accumulate clarity on what I really want in life whilst being obedient in my walk. I have to say what a game changer that is for me! I know now what to look for should if God willing in his plan for me to be in a new relationship in the future. A godly man with core values and purpose is a must on my list. Great video Mr. And Mrs. Parr! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
As a 41 year old woman who has dated men I can count with one hand that almost led to marriage...twice, it is delightful to know that my list, which is an interesting mix of Allen and Jennifer's list, is on point. Sometimes I wonder as the years go by if I am being unrealistic in my expectations (especially as two of my exes are married with children) but after listening to you both, I am reaffirmed that I am NOT alone in having godly standards. Thanks guys! (and Jennifer, you were born in my country? yeyyyy! You should come visit soon!)
I am Nigeria, i totally got the part of traditional wedding. I from the yoruba part. Its take a year to plan oh. But thank you Jennifer for the info on the list. I learnt with you and Allen.
all of this married talk making me feel sad because I am decibel I can't walk or talk but I understand everything and what makes me sad is o. K. I am in love with a married man and I have been in love with him since I was 11 I pray so hard for God to give me him. I fall in love with him before he got married but I know it's sin but I can't stop loving him. He is my love.
Consult with people who have been married for 20 plus years and seek advice...It's not easy but I found that serving each other and rid yourselves of all selfishness and put God first worked for us..
You guys look so beautiful together. We can tell how you are radical and unapologetic about our Lord and that you love him wholeheartedly. It is an honor to have genuine Christian people like you guys honoring and glorifying God together. Thank you for being ambassadors for the kingdom. Also, so good to see your wife in more of your videos keep it up. She is literally a ball of sunshine so passionate about the Lord, love her perspective. May God bless your union and ministry even more keep up the great work! 💛 🙏
TRUTHS can't be hidden, can't be changed or converted into lies and deceptions, so, there's no point in arguing, debating, fighting, and insulting each other.......simply face and accept all TRUTHS. THE TRUTH ABOUT ATHEISM, AGNOSTICISM, and RELIGIOUS FANATICISM Atheists, Agnostics, Christians, JWs, Catholics, SDAs, Mormons, Baptists, Born Agains, Methodists, Pentecostals, Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Evangelicals, fanatics of all Religions know the TRUTH about themselves. They KNOW that they are the great, superior, and powerful human beings on earth who - 1. don't honor and respect the Creator as the Most High and Sovereign God 2. don't submit to the authority of Jesus Christ as the One given by the Creator all authority in heaven and on earth 3. don't believe the teachings of Jesus Christ about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead" THE TRUTH ABOUT THE CREATOR The loving, kind, and merciful Creator knows the TRUTH about himself. He KNOWS that he will honor and reward with Eternal Life and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and deaths all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who submit to the authority of his Christ and believe his teachings about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead". THE TRUTH ABOUT JESUS CHRIST The loving, kind, and merciful Jesus Christ knows the TRUTH about himself. He KNOWS that in the Creator's own right time, he will resurrect back to life all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who died even thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, King David, his believers, and many others so they can live and exist again on a safe and peaceful earth and fully enjoy his and the Creator's eternal love, kindness, goodness, generosities, compassions, favors, and blessings for eternity as submissive and obedient citizens of the "Kingdom of God" under his loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection as the Creator's Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth.
Yes and education is important for women, I think there is nothing wrong with a woman having a career if the couple themselves can work out the logistics and have an intentional plan.
Which is what one of the main objectives of the feminist movement was. Women have chosen independence over being a helpmeet to a husband. Like it or not a choice was made. Biblically women are not supposed to support themselves. That is the job of the husband.
@@jamooree I’m not in support of the feminist movement. However, unmarried women do not yet have the support of a spouse and must work to provide for themselves.
This was an excellent video for young people who want to get married. The two of you are blessed to have each other and you both are a gorgeous King and Queen. 👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤
Just want to say to anyone reading; please, turn to God with whatever you are struggling with. Not for an instant quick-fix, but deliverance from that thing and guidance out of dark places by the hand of God, whether, it is sin or something else that you cannot control (like circumstances.) There is still hope, and that hope is in Jesus. You can take practical steps to help yourself in whatever is going wrong, sure, but in ALL that you do, praise and thank the Lord, seek Him, and he will give you rest. Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. - Matthew 11:28 With that being said I will watch your video now Allen. 😆 Thanks for what you do
TRUTHS can't be hidden, can't be changed or converted into lies and deceptions, so, there's no point in arguing, debating, fighting, and insulting each other.......simply face and accept all TRUTHS. THE TRUTH ABOUT ATHEISM, AGNOSTICISM, and RELIGIOUS FANATICISM Atheists, Agnostics, Christians, JWs, Catholics, SDAs, Mormons, Baptists, Born Agains, Methodists, Pentecostals, Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Evangelicals, fanatics of all Religions know the TRUTH about themselves. They KNOW that they are the great, superior, and powerful human beings on earth who - 1. don't honor and respect the Creator as the Most High and Sovereign God 2. don't submit to the authority of Jesus Christ as the One given by the Creator all authority in heaven and on earth 3. don't believe the teachings of Jesus Christ about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead" THE TRUTH ABOUT THE CREATOR The loving, kind, and merciful Creator knows the TRUTH about himself. He KNOWS that he will honor and reward with Eternal Life and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and deaths all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who submit to the authority of his Christ and believe his teachings about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead". THE TRUTH ABOUT JESUS CHRIST The loving, kind, and merciful Jesus Christ knows the TRUTH about himself. He KNOWS that in the Creator's own right time, he will resurrect back to life all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who died even thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, King David, his believers, and many others so they can live and exist again on a safe and peaceful earth and fully enjoy his and the Creator's eternal love, kindness, goodness, generosities, compassions, favors, and blessings for eternity as submissive and obedient citizens of the "Kingdom of God" under his loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection as the Creator's Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth.
Thank you so much for sharing such wisdom. As a single person, I appreciate it. 🙏🏽💖 And I am the exact same way about gender roles for the exact same reasons as Sister Jennifer. 🤗
I'm a female single (been single my whole life - 23 years old), unmarried and taking notes 🖋️🖋️🖋️. But wooow! Marriage seems tough, why do so many people want to get married. I'm inspired, but it seems as though single life is the way to go!! By the way, your wife is gorgeous 🤍
My list changed 10yrs ago. 1st she has to be already a church goer, Reads the Bible on a regular basis and Follows Gods word daily as best as she can. I’m still single.
I don’t think any woman chases a career in hopes that it will impress a man… when you’re single in this day and age you need to have a career to support yourself. I also think that in certain spaces you have more chances to meet certain calibres of men.
Hey family! I hope you enjoy this video. If so, be sure to go back and watch part 1 here - ruclips.net/video/7KRZkskXmdQ/видео.html
Hi brother Allen, hope you are well. I am so grateful for you and your ministry. I have a question.
What constitutes biblical marriage?
Does making vows in a church without parent's knowledge, consent or blessing acceptable to God as marriage?
Does marriage without Government signing papers consudered as marriage in God's eyes?
Please respond.
Thanks
You all are the sweetest couple (you all are much younger than I am, that is why I feel it’s ok to use the word, sweetest). Thank you for your ministry.
Allen thank you for doing this series!!! So awesome that you and your wife can come together to help us married and single folk because I can speak for all of us when I say, WE NEED IT!!!😊
You're such a big hypocrite how to do scriptures yet ur wife wears tights pants just like worldy pple. Why can't u put ur house in order. Wear modesty. Ur not fit to teach if u can't follow wat u teach
"You led me closer to God than yourself" that's beautiful 😭❤
it's not about all the scripture they know but how well are they living it out . love this line
I'm 49 and never been married.
So cool to find someone to share life with.
Anything is possible with God.
God is probably protecting you from many tears
I’m 49 and have never been married. I’ve gained sooo much knowledge about dating and marriage within the last five years than in my early 20s. I now know it would’ve been disastrous to enter into a marriage prior to now.
Amen 🙏🙌
@@elizaphanmnjama11 I don't think so.
Lord will keep you safe to the right woman into your life.
You both are the first married couple I’ve heard share real solid advice on how to date as Christians, & how to know if someone is “The One”. I pray this series continues! God bless you both!
Jerry and Tanisha Flowers of RedefinedTV
So, good!
Jennifer point on a man who submits to authority. I didn't think this was that important in my past relationships. It's not worth the frustration and isolation! Nothing worse than a man who can't listen to anyone!
For those of us who don’t have parents or relatives that we can go to to ask these questions, you guys putting this out really means a lot!
This is so wise! I love how Jennifer said one of the things she was looking for was a man who submits to authority. It’s so important to have accountability and even goes to church. Hearing that made me realize that people who do not congregate themselves is because they may have a submission issue.
This can absolutely be an issue with submission to authority.
Well said
Very true, I've had a problem with the way some people translated the Bible for their own personal gain, I realised the reason I was annoyed at that verse was because the people I saw misquoting it were untrustworthy and had self serving traits, it's not God's word that's wrong.
A couple of days it came to me, does he submit to God, his word too and listen to advice and guidance of godly people?
I could listen to Jennifer Parr the whooooole day. She's like that Sister you never had. God Bless!
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A serving spirit is one of the most beautiful things
Amen to that, Josh!
Wow! Off topic but Jennifer is absolutely gorgeous! I love her hairstyle. You’re a blessed man pastor Allen and I’m sure she’s blessed to lol
Gotta say, it's really reassuring hearing you say you were 40. I just turned 40 a few months ago and am still searching for whomever she is, and it kinda sucks and is frustrating at times, lol. You have moments where you have fight the urge to want to just settle on those lingering nights. Me anyway. Can't speak for anybody else. 🤷🏾♂️
More grace bro. I'll be 32 this year and it has not been easy. I dig you. I know those nights
Oh man it must be rough. Youll get there in no time👍
I always knew I never wanted children, so marriage was never a priority. I’m single and have a few platonic relationships but I haven’t had the desire to have someone in my life 24/7. Kudos to all who have found God’s chosen partner if marriage is you heart’s desire.
I don't want children either
His wife is so classy and beautiful. She captures the look of a wife .😍
I’m 34 and I’ve heard countless videos from Christians talking about singleness and dating so much so it’s become something I’m done hearing. However I’ve stumbled across this series and it’s really good!
its really a different one. this one is deeeep
You are a totally delightful, God honoring couple. I wish this video was out 28 years ago when I got married. I like how you have fun together, laugh together, and work through issues together. Your God focused marriage is truly a delight. Richest blessings! :)
God bless you brother and sister. Thanks for doing this series. I’m learning soooo much. I am 36 and still single. It’s nice to hear that there’s still hope for people up there in their 40’s!!! Praying for God to continue working on my character in order to be ready when/if he blesses me with a wife.
Have no sinful habit in your life. Become the man God wants you to be, before you meet someone. Work with God to break all strongholds, if there are any. Otherwise youll be bring them into a relationship, and they will cause marital problems.
@@livelife5890 just be obedient. It's easier without strongholds however that's not how it works in relationships or marriages. There's room for growth somewhere
Same here. But I am always assured that God is faithful to see me through. My Boaz is on the way. Keep the faith and trust God to see you through. God bless you!
@@livelife5890 im a bit confused on what you mean. we all sin, and sin won't stop once we marry. are you saying that you should never sin before marrying or that you shouldn't have any specific sins that you hold onto?
@@tarchelleenglish4374 Amen sister! God Bless you as well! 🙏
When she said that the reception and wedding is for other people......WOW! I didn't even look at it that way. It makes so much sense how you explained it by also saying don't get caught up in planning the event that you aren't working on building the relationship still. That's a piece yo the puzzle I don't think anyone ever considered that way. For example "bridezillas"
We planned a wedding in 4 months! Yes, it can be done. When we knew, we knew and didn't want to wait!
Please let this series be ongoing and please GO DEEP ! Lol People need to understand marriage is very serious. It’s not some fun idea people partake in. It’s so important that we let God ordain our purpose partners and the prayers can’t stop after marriage they have to increase exponentially. The enemy hates marriage so he will do everything to destroy it ! I love this series and I’ve learnt so much from the both of you. God bless you both
Mr. Parr got him a 9ja babe! ❤❤❤ love it!
So happy for him!! 😁 😊 🥰👌🏿💕💗🤗
The important thing is that if a wife stays at home
to support the family base, it is of the upmost importance that the husband makes her feel valued in that role. Yes especially when children are young it is difficult to maintain a balance between career and home life. As the children get older and more independent the mother will have the opportunity to pursue other interests, hobby’s but of course the first priority is the Lord and the home. Even the woman of Proverbs 31 had her own “business” so to speak. I just know some women who have dedicated so much to build up their families and husbands and when they are older they feel a lack of validation. I know we must look to the Lord for our ultimate validation, but just know appreciation is key for a wife to keep the household running, and running well.
so true !!
Him leading you closer to God is so beautiful ❤️
A man who can submit to authority is really important! So glad that point was brought up!
Thank you for this video. Some people are on this kick of rushing into marriage. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but the best relationships and marriages are made when two people truly get to know each other.
Love your ministry Allen. Thank you and Jennifer for this video. God bless you both. Been a fan for a long time.
@ 7:50 the humility in a man that isn’t self centred hit SO HARD! 🔥
You two are just too cute together! Great advice! Thank you for being so open and genuine!
I'm a 32 year old single woman (no kids). Your video gives me hope because one day I do want to get married and become a mother. I appreciate your transparency. May God continue to use both of you to teach the masses.
Hi Siboocy, am 32, young men living in DC, I met the Lord in 2018 . How are you doing please ? Thanks
@@elfidel6755 I'm fine thanks 👍
@@siboocy75 very good to hear that.
@@siboocy75 i appreciate your comment talking about hope ( hope in the Lord, of course) .without hope there is really nothing to live for.
Have grace for each other and be kind to each other!
HOW TO KNOW IF THEY'RE THE "ONE"
Jennifer's List:
• Vision & Purpose =/= rich -->DIRECTION
• Character over chemistry
• Godly man = He submits to God; Leads you to God instead of himself
• Accountability/Submits to authority
☆Look at how he treats other people; does he serve?
Allen's List:
• Spiritual Connection = Relationship w/God & Living out the scripture
• Emotional Connection = Friendship, Fun, and Great Conversation
• Physical Connection (self-explanatory lol)
• Supportive woman = Considerate, encouraging
☆Look at how she treats other people; does she serve?
PSA: I hope this helps, but still watch the whole video y'all lol. Some really great stuff in there!!
I'm not gonna to lie you guys did a great job ...
Usually I don't take dating advice from couples let alone from the church. But I trusted brother Allan on this because he is a very sound man.
Most of the times I ask for dating advice from couples it's always the gaslighting stuff "she'll find you", "you'll find the woman of your dreams soon", "be the man she wants you to be she'll find you" ... (And the church isn't any better) Not giving me actual proper advice, this is why I turn on into RUclips for dating advice ... But yeah God bless you Allan and Jennifer you guys rock!!!🔥🔥🔥
God bless your union. A man of God is at the top of my list. Everything else revolves around that.
What is that? Bc I hear Christians say that yet it isn't no where to be found in alot of so called Christian marriages. Bible under the arm but carnality ruling life. Why do we have to go into ministry to find a Godly man potentially
Amen! Thats 1st on my list also. Having a godly spouse is the foundation that everything else will flow from. If the man is after the heart of Christ, he is trustworthy to lead - or at least he should be.
@@artforchrist5065Yes! Being equally yoked. Blessings! 🙏🏾☺
This is awesome you guys!! Allen, I love that you said you were 40 when you got married. I'm older too and dated a lot when I was younger but never felt ready. God's done incredible things in my life over the past several years and it would be great to find a healthy, grounded Christian man. Thanks again!!
I felt this comment, and I’m turning 40 this year. Halleluia!!! 💃🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
@@Kari_Michele ❤❤😊😊
I will never forget Voddie Baucham "My kids asked me 'dad how did you know mom was the one, one, one' 'uh she said yes.'
" XD
😂😂I know what you did there…the one..one..one
She is extremely beautiful, I love you phenomenal woman of God
Finally. Been looking for this part two since the first day I watched the part 1. God bless u pastor and Mrs. Parr
I know right
I just love you Mr. and Mrs. Parr. You make me love being a Christian. 😍
She’s so Classy and you two are so prefect for each other
Aww Mr.Parr seem like such a patient and nice husband! Beautiful couple! Thank you for this information! Looking forward to the next video!
Beautiful, beautiful couple. Praise the Lord.
Your wife is stunning! So beautiful! God bless you both and your ministry ❤ love from MA
I don’t have a list anymore. Now I’m older and things that were on my list 20 years ago don’t apply!😰 Now it’s more about so many other things that aren’t even ideal but practical like not still paying on student loans!!!😂😂😂
Great video! Very practical. Many couples get engaged but are not really "engaged' & don't really discuss important matters prior to or during engagement. Good to see both sides. Can see & feel your love, joy , chemistry AND character. Lol. I am sharing this video with my friends. Thanking God for you & praying for your family.
Wow. Never knew Allen's wife is a Nigerian by heritage. So you are our inlaw like we say in Nigeria. Love your channel an your wisdom. Watch u a lot.. From a Nigerian brother 🇳🇬
Praise God for this beautiful union! Thank you guys for sharing your tips!!
I like this point about submitting to authority/accountability! I never thought of that!! A Godly man, having a spiritual emotional and physical connection, a man with vision and purpose, a man who submits to authority/accountability, a supportive partner
before/during engagement: discussion sex, finances, and communciation. have those intentional convos on the front end!
She is beautiful...ya'll are a beautiful couple...May God continue to bless you, your family, and the ministry 🙏
Oohhh, how I wish this video was longer... I had a blast listening to it. God bless you two! Can't wait for Part 3!
Keep going with this series, this is so good you guys!,
This video brings me peace, my love recently went home to God, and he had all of these things thatJennifer spoke about. He is the reason, I got saved. I’m so thankful for him and whenever I start dating again I’m so glad I know what to look for. Fly high MLCJ✈️✈️ and I thank God that I was blessed to be able to experience him.
Y’all are the best! Really enjoyed watching this! I remember being y’all’s nurse when y’all had your first and second child❤
This is awesome! A lot of people should benefit from this Parr couple. Because so many people go into the wrong relationship nowadays without understanding the value and necessary prerequisite for success in finding “the one” they operate on emotions but don’t look for key core values in their relationships. For years I’ve dated non Christian men which has caused so much heartache for me. I’ve decided to stop dating altogether, become celibate so that I can focus on my spiritual growth and accumulate clarity on what I really want in life whilst being obedient in my walk. I have to say what a game changer that is for me! I know now what to look for should if God willing in his plan for me to be in a new relationship in the future. A godly man with core values and purpose is a must on my list. Great video Mr. And Mrs. Parr! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Excellent! Excellent! Excellent! God bless both of you. Thank you!
Keep me in your prayers guys ❤️ say a prayer for me if you’re seeing this 🥺🙏🏾
I just prayed for you!
Pray sent up fi you. No matter what you are ģoing thru in this 🌎, remebr God promise to never leave us or forsake us. 😊😊
Oohh I didn’t know Jennifer was Nigerian!! So glad to know that she’s Nigerian too.🥰🥰🇳🇬🇳🇬
what I never made the denzel washington connection but after Jennifer mentioned it I can't unsee it hahaha!
As a 41 year old woman who has dated men I can count with one hand that almost led to marriage...twice, it is delightful to know that my list, which is an interesting mix of Allen and Jennifer's list, is on point. Sometimes I wonder as the years go by if I am being unrealistic in my expectations (especially as two of my exes are married with children) but after listening to you both, I am reaffirmed that I am NOT alone in having godly standards. Thanks guys! (and Jennifer, you were born in my country? yeyyyy! You should come visit soon!)
I am Nigeria, i totally got the part of traditional wedding. I from the yoruba part. Its take a year to plan oh. But thank you Jennifer for the info on the list. I learnt with you and Allen.
ANOTHER AMAZING PART! This time around... 3:33 - 3:45 has the best reaction. BEAUTIFUL!!! 🤣🤣🤣
all of this married talk making me feel sad because I am decibel I can't walk or talk but I understand everything and what makes me sad is o. K. I am in love with a married man and I have been in love with him since I was 11 I pray so hard for God to give me him. I fall in love with him before he got married but I know it's sin but I can't stop loving him. He is my love.
You guys look like a match in every way
His wife is so pretty! That skin!
Consult with people who have been married for 20 plus years and seek advice...It's not easy but I found that serving each other and rid yourselves of all selfishness and put God first worked for us..
You guys look so beautiful together. We can tell how you are radical and unapologetic about our Lord and that you love him wholeheartedly. It is an honor to have genuine Christian people like you guys honoring and glorifying God together. Thank you for being ambassadors for the kingdom. Also, so good to see your wife in more of your videos keep it up. She is literally a ball of sunshine so passionate about the Lord, love her perspective. May God bless your union and ministry even more keep up the great work! 💛 🙏
TRUTHS can't be hidden, can't be changed or converted into lies and deceptions,
so, there's no point in arguing, debating, fighting, and insulting each other.......simply face and accept all TRUTHS.
THE TRUTH ABOUT ATHEISM, AGNOSTICISM, and RELIGIOUS FANATICISM
Atheists, Agnostics, Christians, JWs, Catholics, SDAs, Mormons, Baptists, Born Agains, Methodists, Pentecostals, Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Evangelicals, fanatics of all Religions know the TRUTH about themselves.
They KNOW that they are the great, superior, and powerful human beings on earth who -
1. don't honor and respect the Creator as the Most High and Sovereign God
2. don't submit to the authority of Jesus Christ as the One given by the Creator all authority in heaven and on earth
3. don't believe the teachings of Jesus Christ about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead"
THE TRUTH ABOUT THE CREATOR
The loving, kind, and merciful Creator knows the TRUTH about himself.
He KNOWS that he will honor and reward with Eternal Life and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and deaths all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who submit to the authority of his Christ and believe his teachings about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead".
THE TRUTH ABOUT JESUS CHRIST
The loving, kind, and merciful Jesus Christ knows the TRUTH about himself.
He KNOWS that in the Creator's own right time, he will resurrect back to life all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who died even thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, King David, his believers, and many others so they can live and exist again on a safe and peaceful earth and fully enjoy his and the Creator's eternal love, kindness, goodness, generosities, compassions, favors, and blessings for eternity as submissive and obedient citizens of the "Kingdom of God" under his loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection as the Creator's Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth.
Guys, you're a blessing for my generation.
Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Great video!! ❤️
Could you do a video on single mothers and dating??
Many single women are “chasing careers” because we have to support ourselves while we wait for our spouse . And, in this economy, that’s a lot 😅
Ok. We want to be Well established
Hi, thank you for sharing.
Yes and education is important for women, I think there is nothing wrong with a woman having a career if the couple themselves can work out the logistics and have an intentional plan.
Which is what one of the main objectives of the feminist movement was. Women have chosen independence over being a helpmeet to a husband. Like it or not a choice was made.
Biblically women are not supposed to support themselves. That is the job of the husband.
@@jamooree I’m not in support of the feminist movement. However, unmarried women do not yet have the support of a spouse and must work to provide for themselves.
Loooved this!!! Thanks so much. I’ll share with my daughter
This was an excellent video for young people who want to get married. The two of you are blessed to have each other and you both are a gorgeous King and Queen.
👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤👍❤
YEEEEAHHHH!!! PART 2 IS OUT!! GONNA ENJOY THIS ONE!!
I am watching from Namibia and I am enjoying your authenticity & frankness. Keep teaching us
Just want to say to anyone reading; please, turn to God with whatever you are struggling with. Not for an instant quick-fix, but deliverance from that thing and guidance out of dark places by the hand of God, whether, it is sin or something else that you cannot control (like circumstances.) There is still hope, and that hope is in Jesus. You can take practical steps to help yourself in whatever is going wrong, sure, but in ALL that you do, praise and thank the Lord, seek Him, and he will give you rest.
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. - Matthew 11:28
With that being said I will watch your video now Allen. 😆 Thanks for what you do
TRUTHS can't be hidden, can't be changed or converted into lies and deceptions,
so, there's no point in arguing, debating, fighting, and insulting each other.......simply face and accept all TRUTHS.
THE TRUTH ABOUT ATHEISM, AGNOSTICISM, and RELIGIOUS FANATICISM
Atheists, Agnostics, Christians, JWs, Catholics, SDAs, Mormons, Baptists, Born Agains, Methodists, Pentecostals, Buddhists, Muslims, Hindus, Evangelicals, fanatics of all Religions know the TRUTH about themselves.
They KNOW that they are the great, superior, and powerful human beings on earth who -
1. don't honor and respect the Creator as the Most High and Sovereign God
2. don't submit to the authority of Jesus Christ as the One given by the Creator all authority in heaven and on earth
3. don't believe the teachings of Jesus Christ about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead"
THE TRUTH ABOUT THE CREATOR
The loving, kind, and merciful Creator knows the TRUTH about himself.
He KNOWS that he will honor and reward with Eternal Life and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and deaths all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who submit to the authority of his Christ and believe his teachings about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead".
THE TRUTH ABOUT JESUS CHRIST
The loving, kind, and merciful Jesus Christ knows the TRUTH about himself.
He KNOWS that in the Creator's own right time, he will resurrect back to life all lowly, kind, and submissive human beings who died even thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, King David, his believers, and many others so they can live and exist again on a safe and peaceful earth and fully enjoy his and the Creator's eternal love, kindness, goodness, generosities, compassions, favors, and blessings for eternity as submissive and obedient citizens of the "Kingdom of God" under his loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection as the Creator's Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth.
Thanks for your comment.
You two should do more videos together. You're funny.
You guys are literally beautiful lol I love how you guys compliment eachother ❤️
Wooow!! Your wife is Nigerian sir? Awesome. Praise God. Thank you for the lessons taught here
This is GOOD!!! And I commend you for the excellence you have with executing these videos. The background, the audio, the lighting is all superb!👏🏼👏🏼
Very beautiful and encouraging story ❤
Thank you so much for sharing such wisdom. As a single person, I appreciate it. 🙏🏽💖 And I am the exact same way about gender roles for the exact same reasons as Sister Jennifer. 🤗
I'm loving this series 🥰
Y’all are dropping some divine goodness ✝️🤍🕊️
I also love the intentional conversations!
You too really match each other. And I must say, you guys got style!
Such a BEAUTIFUL couple!!
I really needed this, thank you. May God bless you🙏
Love seeing you two have fun and discuss the hot topics🔥
My God continue making you guys a Blessing 🇿🇦
Thank You Parr family!
I'm a female single (been single my whole life - 23 years old), unmarried and taking notes 🖋️🖋️🖋️. But wooow! Marriage seems tough, why do so many people want to get married. I'm inspired, but it seems as though single life is the way to go!! By the way, your wife is gorgeous 🤍
This Video is a huge Blessing to me. Thanks Pst/Mrs. Allen.🙏
My list changed 10yrs ago. 1st she has to be already a church goer, Reads the Bible on a regular basis and Follows Gods word daily as best as she can.
I’m still single.
Thanks for this word guys! Also, so close to *1MIL* 🎉🎉🎉 congrats.
Wish i would have seen this before i got married and divorced. Great advice. My next one will be my last one. Love yaw
Can you post pictures and/or videos and pictures of your Nigerian wedding? I want to see them❤️
Importance of Discipleship.
I love them and they are like this also when they teach. They are such a blessing. A brother and sister where you can see the fruits of the Spirit.
Wow, such a beautiful couple! I enjoyed this video!!💕
I don’t think any woman chases a career in hopes that it will impress a man… when you’re single in this day and age you need to have a career to support yourself. I also think that in certain spaces you have more chances to meet certain calibres of men.
Mrs Parr favors Tika Sumpter 💝
I just want to say that i love you guys
Good day to you both and keep up the good work. I can't wait until part three is uploaded or posted. Enjoy your day and weekend. Be blessed. 🙂👍🙏🏾