Don't Overlay YOUR Reality vs ACTUAL Reality - Jocko Willink

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
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    Excerpt from JOCKOPODCAST 60

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  • @MegaMan-bs3oy
    @MegaMan-bs3oy 4 года назад +113

    "When you believe you have a future, you think in terms of generations and years. When you do not, you live not just by the day - but by the minute". -Iris Chang

    • @southernboy7791
      @southernboy7791 4 года назад +11

      That's not where her note stopped. She also added: "It is far better that you remember me as I was-in my heyday as a best-selling author-than the wild-eyed wreck who returned from Louisville. ... Each breath is becoming difficult for me to take-the anxiety can be compared to drowning in an open sea. I know that my actions will transfer some of this pain to others, indeed those who love me the most. Please forgive me." If you quote someone, please make sure to include the WHOLE quote so the whole spirit of the message is truly reflected. When you read the note in its entirety you then realise that the author was deeply in pain and there was no coming back from her choice. RIP Iris Chang.

    • @thatomofolo452
      @thatomofolo452 3 дня назад

      Hard facts 💯

  • @thewaywardgrape3838
    @thewaywardgrape3838 4 года назад +89

    After I left the forces, I really struggled to overcome my own negative character. I'd become hollowed out over the years, that I ended up severely distorting my ability to feel. I couldn't even smile or laugh, had no empathy towards anyone - including myself. It took 8 years to come overcome the defences I'd put up to deal with life. I remember crying for the first time at my mates grave, it was such an overwhelming experience I suddenly realised I'd been suffocating all these years. It felt like I'd started seeing the world in colour again, like I could taste and smell.

    • @ForeverYoungKickboxer
      @ForeverYoungKickboxer 4 года назад +4

      Glad to hear it worked out brother

    • @nerminc.1713
      @nerminc.1713 4 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing, man.

    • @Noah-qx4kf
      @Noah-qx4kf 4 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, I‘m glad it worked out

    • @ashtonduda9971
      @ashtonduda9971 4 года назад +1

      And how are you doing now, I hope better.

    • @thewaywardgrape3838
      @thewaywardgrape3838 4 года назад +1

      ​@@ashtonduda9971 I developed Schizoaffective disorder triggered by PTSD which resulted in me being sectioned. Even after all that and to this day, I still haven't had the support required, just let out on the streets. I manage myself as I find the average person incompetent with helping. If you met me, you'd have no idea, it's just a constant, unrelenting battle to stay alive. The sad part is that I should be scared by that sentence alone, yet that's the irony isn't it...it's become normal to me.

  • @hoyavp2236
    @hoyavp2236 4 года назад +10

    Dude, I’m in that miserable dark place now. I don’t see any bubbles or family and friends to tell me which way is up. Loneliness compounds my depression tremendously. Thanks, Shipmate lol. Listening to you helps. Pray for me and keep these videos coming, dude. You make more of a difference than you may know.

    • @mikecude4167
      @mikecude4167 4 года назад +3

      I'm sitting here in my home, praying for you now.

    • @KingEtonimor
      @KingEtonimor 4 года назад

      Best of luck to you, remember that your reality isn’t actual reality. If the sun is out enjoy it, if not, enjoy it. There’s oxygen in the air, and your heart is pumping blood. It’s just a phase. You got it

    • @kellyannearcher968
      @kellyannearcher968 4 года назад

      I know a guy who performs exorcisms. I can go you his number!

  • @sublimechimp
    @sublimechimp 4 года назад +16

    "Which way is up" is extremely helpful. I just realized I can't tell. I'm figuring out what "bubbles" are in my psychological space. I appreciate you men.

    • @sublimechimp
      @sublimechimp 4 года назад +2

      @CVA Outdoors The fact that you have to work a bit to understand it doesn't make it poor. Just think about it on your own and act.

  • @coleg5578
    @coleg5578 4 года назад +116

    The 1 person who disliked this video confused their reality with actual reality...

    • @thelistener1268
      @thelistener1268 4 года назад +1

      Yikes, two did now.

    • @fanjerry8100
      @fanjerry8100 4 года назад +3

      I think sometimes people use thumb down tell youtube to lessen recommendation of similar videos

    • @viralloop647
      @viralloop647 4 года назад +1

      Good oke

    • @Yetipfote
      @Yetipfote 4 года назад +5

      @@fanjerry8100 who in their right mind would do that with Jocko podcast videos? They must confuse reality.

    • @coleg5578
      @coleg5578 4 года назад +3

      @Bruce S I am one of those height supremacists lol, but wtf does height have to do with this? Jocko is also 220lbs lean and a skilled fighter, so I wouldn’t consider him average by any means.

  • @f0rumrr
    @f0rumrr 4 года назад +16

    At the end of the day we just have to stay positive, its how we overcome hardship that defines us. Nothing is easy in this world. I love it, follow the bubbles and you will find the light, great analogy.
    It takes a monster to defeat a monster. Sometimes you gotta go to the darkside, but you cant let it corrupt you and never find the light again.

  • @skunk12
    @skunk12 4 года назад +11

    There is only REALITY and TRUTH.
    Never say things like MY REALITY or MY TRUTH. What you should say instead is MY PERCEPTION.

    • @canowupaz4486
      @canowupaz4486 3 года назад

      i agree, truth and reality are subjective

    • @skunk12
      @skunk12 3 года назад

      @@canowupaz4486 that is an objective statement.
      Congratulations!
      You disproved your own idiodic assertion while making it.

  • @conantheseptuagenarian3824
    @conantheseptuagenarian3824 4 года назад +37

    man, i just looked up iris chang's story and i can really really personally relate. glad you mentioned it in passing.

  • @Benjamenho
    @Benjamenho 4 года назад +2

    "you need to know the dark to embrace the good", really like that one 👍🏻

    • @kimberlieweaver2624
      @kimberlieweaver2624 4 года назад +1

      Duality...ying and yang

    • @Benjamenho
      @Benjamenho 4 года назад

      @@kimberlieweaver2624 I strongly believe that's what dichtonomy is about

  • @amishshark3549
    @amishshark3549 4 года назад +71

    “Reality is often disappointing.”

    • @SneakyBadness
      @SneakyBadness 4 года назад +4

      It is if you expect too much of reality

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 4 года назад +1

      But now it can be anything you want?

    • @ForgottenKnight1
      @ForgottenKnight1 4 года назад +1

      That's why we invented meaning. So we lie to ourselves that whatever happens actually matters.

    • @courtneydelongis9902
      @courtneydelongis9902 4 года назад +1

      Check out the Matrix deciphered by Robert Duncan get the pdf download free CIA mind control programs going on now

    • @superpussycat6648
      @superpussycat6648 4 года назад

      It is.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 Год назад

    All true Warriors acknowledge the Spirit of Truth.

  • @mufeeda5607
    @mufeeda5607 4 года назад +2

    I cant believe, how Jocko speaks about topics I've always needed help with, thank you so much Jocko

  • @chrisfavre6216
    @chrisfavre6216 4 года назад +4

    I needed to hear this today. Very timely... thank you.

  • @adams6545
    @adams6545 4 года назад +21

    Echo: You ever have a real bad flu and fever
    Jocko: NO

  • @jerryhablitzel3333
    @jerryhablitzel3333 4 года назад

    You guys are obviously very physically tough but I like that you discuss mental toughness. That can’t be achieved without admitting that as humans we have vulnerabilities. That’s reality. But another reality is our ability to mentally overcome them. As war fighters you learn to exploit human vulnerability in your enemies but the more you understand it the more you realize that you can also become a victim of it. There in lies the importance of perspective.I had a suicidal mother and lost a son to heroin addiction so I’ve seen the darkness. It’s taken some serious effort to not be consumed as well. I fight the war in my head every day but I’ve learned to survive. It’s like a wound but in my mind not my body. It heals but you can feel the scars.

  • @JacobMachineM4CH1N3
    @JacobMachineM4CH1N3 4 года назад

    Ya'll doing great things out there for folks. Keep up the great work!

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 Год назад +1

    Dreams without goals, are just dreams and they ultimately fuel disappointment.

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 3 дня назад

    Bring it on 🏋️🏋️🏋️💯💫

  • @jimmypelletier2355
    @jimmypelletier2355 4 года назад

    On the other hand from darkness comes light!!!! Jocko you are the man!!!!

  • @wowguywhy
    @wowguywhy 4 года назад

    you men hit the nail right on the head
    THANK YOU

  • @topnotch4564
    @topnotch4564 4 года назад +1

    I love This Channel, Soo Much.

  • @UmB0ng0
    @UmB0ng0 4 года назад +1

    Man this is wonderful advice from both of you guys

  • @goofistmcnutty3280
    @goofistmcnutty3280 4 года назад +1

    I struggle with psychosis, which makes reality a difficult thing for me. One of the smartest people I know told me eyes work both ways, they don't just take in, but project out, and both are a different reality. The reality that your eyes take in is the shared reality, the one everyone experiences, but the one that projects outward is your reality. You have to learn to tell the difference, or your reality will consume you. What Jocko experienced with the water is pretty much my every day life when my mental health dips lol.

  • @BaiLong45
    @BaiLong45 4 года назад +1

    I know about Iris Chang. Read her book The Chinese In America which definitely helped me to understand Asian-American history. And definitely know about what happened to her. In any case, needed to listen to this today. Thanks Jocko.

  • @frankmigliore9240
    @frankmigliore9240 4 года назад +1

    This video can make some people extremely grateful if they took time to listen....
    An extremely dark event in somebody’s past that changes their entire perception on life, value, and meaning can make you drown. But that’s it- nothing else will. The world is a beautiful place. Many people don’t realize that.

  • @hopswordusmc6973
    @hopswordusmc6973 4 года назад +1

    Knowing the monster is the only way to defeat it. So many lessons can be cite;Carl Jung, Jocko, Dr. Peterson, Aurelius, Alexander, Sun Tzu...We are monsters and we are Heroes. Keeping ourselves in touch is most important.

  • @MarktheMartian
    @MarktheMartian 4 года назад +7

    Attitude - the orientation of an aircraft or spacecraft, relative to it's direction of travel. Maintain your attitude.

  • @cristianmartanov4736
    @cristianmartanov4736 4 года назад +20

    Best book on this topic is: Release your brakes by Jim Newman. There is a free pdf

    • @drool3696
      @drool3696 4 года назад

      Google

    • @cristianmartanov4736
      @cristianmartanov4736 4 года назад +1

      @nhothi can you stop being lazy?

    •  4 года назад

      Can you stop creating more work for others?

    • @cristianmartanov4736
      @cristianmartanov4736 4 года назад

      @ excuse me for recommending a book. MEATHEAD

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 4 года назад

    I really liked this one. Perception is reality, Indeed.

  • @MiddleAgeManiac
    @MiddleAgeManiac 4 года назад

    GREAT TOPIC, and ideally timed.

  • @jakeizlove
    @jakeizlove 4 года назад

    Very helpful. Thanks!

  • @joeconnelly3161
    @joeconnelly3161 4 года назад

    Thank you Jocko, you’re a champion

  • @Thesniper420bam
    @Thesniper420bam 4 года назад +1

    GET SOME!!!!

  • @cjhall7798
    @cjhall7798 4 года назад

    Always great content

  • @truth6851
    @truth6851 4 года назад +1

    If you stare into the abyss long enough, it will begin to stare back

  • @BA-rx8tl
    @BA-rx8tl 4 года назад +1

    I always catch myself worrying about my grades (Currently a college student) and then that worry if I’m doing a good enough bleeds into my training and work. Then I get my grades and I always tell myself why am I being so hard on myself for? You’re a hard worker and the results will show is what I tell myself all the time. Then I get some relief but the cycle continues. I definitely have to put things in perspective sometimes and realize my situation is never as bad as it seems.

  • @aronneal
    @aronneal 4 года назад

    Best podcast period ...

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 4 года назад +1

    AWESOME podcast!

  • @spinalhaven
    @spinalhaven 4 года назад

    thank you

  • @drhall4599
    @drhall4599 4 года назад

    What we believe to be true can effect us more dramatically than what is actually true.

  • @robinmaze2188
    @robinmaze2188 4 года назад

    I love your analogies, Jocko. 😜

  • @bearsensei4774
    @bearsensei4774 4 года назад +1

    im still running to bed after i turn off lights 🤣😭

    • @HumbleServantInstrumentals
      @HumbleServantInstrumentals 4 года назад

      Bruh I sleep with the lights on cause of my schizophrenia if I don't shut them off, it gets scary quick things start moving and all kinds of strange things happen

  • @Tactical_DZ
    @Tactical_DZ 4 года назад

    Dope message

  • @Wade8769
    @Wade8769 4 года назад

    Very good video thank you

  • @Fatfit2
    @Fatfit2 4 года назад

    With all the troubles going on in our country today, this was a good reminder. Darkness isn't every where... there's always a light...look for the bubbles

  • @eternalkhajiit6388
    @eternalkhajiit6388 4 года назад

    Incredible

  • @playinggames7856
    @playinggames7856 4 года назад

    Damn good message

  • @mkm2124
    @mkm2124 4 года назад

    Good evening Jocko Willink, I hope this message finds you in good health and prosperity. I just wanted to ask you how one can feel secure in the sense that his or her surroundings are not a threat. For example, how can one balance situational awareness if hypervigilance is in ones nature. I hope you can assist me in this regard.
    Nothing but respect for you and i salute you

  • @ICONICFREEDOM
    @ICONICFREEDOM 4 года назад +1

    consider: reality is that which you observe without emotion.
    you are pulled out of reality the moment emotion takes hold of you.
    emotions, energy in motion, are indicators to the body, thus the consciousness, to pay attention to something. when such energy in motion is overwhelming, it's usually due to unresolved ability to manage one's self. again, an indicator of something to pay attention to.

    • @dlwsport250
      @dlwsport250 4 года назад +1

      Beautifully written. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @jakenicholaides3214
    @jakenicholaides3214 4 года назад

    I think having a positive or productive attitude is a habit which takes practice. Its also the reverse when stuck with a dark mindset which can take a lot of charecter to snap out of. Some realistic perspectives need to be in place to allow you to see why life usually isn't so bad. In some cases life may be that bad in which case it would take extreme fortitude to still be positive

  • @Magus_Union
    @Magus_Union 4 года назад

    6:01 - "Oops".

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 4 года назад +3

    Saw title.....drop everything....LISTEN DAVIE

  • @masteroogway8655
    @masteroogway8655 4 года назад +2

    Jocko doesn’t carry groceries, the groceries carry him.

  • @DriftWander770
    @DriftWander770 9 месяцев назад

    Been detached lately, even a bit bitter on certain subjects. But thank you for this different perspective.

  • @theemichael1
    @theemichael1 4 года назад

    Hey Jocko,
    Great content I am wondering where I send my story for you to review if it is podcast worthy

  • @andrabook8758
    @andrabook8758 4 года назад +2

    speaking of drugs and going sideways: the mental drug industry needs to be a lot better regulated. Something that can definitely be worked on

  • @joshzach89
    @joshzach89 4 года назад

    This man sees the world through diamond eyes

  • @codec2123
    @codec2123 4 года назад

    People always, always, overlay their reality. You cannot do otherwise.

  • @powerofwords7622
    @powerofwords7622 4 года назад +2

    Think about it...

  • @DriftWander770
    @DriftWander770 2 месяца назад

    Get Oriented, even in your mind. You got to come back

  • @stephengalindo6340
    @stephengalindo6340 4 года назад

    Woah..... The turned the lights on

  • @epiclevelcraft
    @epiclevelcraft 4 года назад

    "This is the way"

  • @asherray4969
    @asherray4969 4 года назад +1

    What is the full episode that this excerpt is from

  • @sheneedsyrruup
    @sheneedsyrruup 4 года назад

    Bro that thumbnail is cold

  • @dxdy-gz6xq
    @dxdy-gz6xq 4 года назад

    Love

  • @tonytony6912
    @tonytony6912 4 года назад

    Such simple info... But sage-like like at the same time

  • @hughjones4049
    @hughjones4049 4 года назад

    3:20 NOT PANICKING is also important. If you're a pilot, and you can't see which way is up, your instruments will tell you. But you forget that if you're panicking. EDIT 3:40 Ah, he mentions "check your control panel". And yes, if you're diving, which way are the bubbles going? Exactly.

  • @jaxd109
    @jaxd109 4 года назад +9

    Anyone know why Jocko removed The Thread? Are we getting any more episodes of that? Is it canceled?

    • @debbiemartin3509
      @debbiemartin3509 4 года назад +2

      It will be reloaded under a different name. Apparently there was already something with that title.

  • @rabbychan
    @rabbychan 4 года назад +9

    Have you ever questioned the nature of your reality?

    • @jacquelinegibbs9483
      @jacquelinegibbs9483 4 года назад

      No, not beyond realizing don't have a choice being born.

  • @willmorgan7393
    @willmorgan7393 4 года назад +2

    JOCKO

  • @RIDDLEUSMC
    @RIDDLEUSMC 4 года назад +6

    Standby by to get some!!

  • @williamlewis3982
    @williamlewis3982 4 года назад +2

    Battle not with monsters, lest you become one

    • @zac3392
      @zac3392 4 года назад +2

      If that’s Nietzsche, it’s misquoted...

  • @crazymacedonianboi
    @crazymacedonianboi 4 года назад

    told ya I’m really a magician who juggles big kettlebells 😜😂abracadabra!

  • @AshishChauhan-rf5pg
    @AshishChauhan-rf5pg 4 года назад +2

    Check

  • @reservordawg
    @reservordawg 4 года назад +3

    Honestly there are terrible things that happen in the world- some stories do not end well. Thus things do not necessarily work out. That is negative but that really is true.

  • @stryk3r
    @stryk3r 4 года назад

    this entire exchange sparked an anxiety attack on my way to work. palms sweating, heavy breathing. sounded like you guys were in an echo chamber. still gonna get after it tho.

  • @thomasreiter2367
    @thomasreiter2367 4 года назад +2

    It looks like Jocko is well prepared for the crisis. Looks relaxed.

    • @JC-nu5zt
      @JC-nu5zt 4 года назад

      The stress that guy dealt with for his job would literally kill most people

  • @johannwartington6681
    @johannwartington6681 4 года назад

    Please interview Jason Mark Everman!

  • @louiscritchie
    @louiscritchie 4 года назад +13

    44 seconds in and I still dont know what Echo is on about. love you guy but damn what are you talking about

  • @gb8641
    @gb8641 4 года назад

    Put The Thread back up!!!!!

  • @Mechanic618
    @Mechanic618 4 года назад +45

    Your perception may not be reality.

    • @noone8418
      @noone8418 4 года назад +2

      Perception isn’t reality. Perception is your brain interpreting what little information your senses give you. We know there’s a lot our senses can’t perceive with our senses. Look at X-rays. We can’t see X-rays, but we found a way to turn X-rays into something we can see.

  • @kmd12327
    @kmd12327 4 года назад

    How do you send him a question?

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 Год назад

    6:40 And the reason it's part of human history is what happen in the book that Genesis chapter 3 tells about.

  • @chateroakfirearmschannel2137
    @chateroakfirearmschannel2137 4 года назад +2

    Jocko 2024 I'd love to drink a gallon of liquor with that guy

  • @mikeearls126
    @mikeearls126 4 года назад

    I'm not high or drunk...just putting that out there. But I don't have any idea what these guys are talking about this morning.

  • @Pepe__7
    @Pepe__7 4 года назад +2

    But Jocko, how do I know which reality is real 😨

  • @daybuttons7541
    @daybuttons7541 4 года назад

    Edgy brah... I'm going to look into it

  • @PerfectlyNormalBeast
    @PerfectlyNormalBeast 4 года назад

    Try to observe events as they are, not as how the relate to you

  • @Blake953
    @Blake953 4 года назад +1

    I wan not familiar with the Iris Chang storey. Very sad.

  • @PoppaStreet
    @PoppaStreet 4 года назад

    Why did the thread get deleted?

  • @kingaha3657
    @kingaha3657 4 года назад

    Wow

  • @BHappyLoveLead
    @BHappyLoveLead 3 года назад

    LMFAO the water ... chemical warfare haha

  • @dcraexon
    @dcraexon 4 года назад

    Most people don’t know how many neurotoxins they have absorbed and are led astray by their thoughts and feelings of contentment and security even with the frequencies transmitted all around them.

  • @MastaSmack
    @MastaSmack 4 года назад

    Let the darkness consume you!

  • @brendanmcpike184
    @brendanmcpike184 4 года назад

    Instead of careful; maybe mindful

  • @ecc-qe2wh
    @ecc-qe2wh 4 года назад

    Bubbles lead the way.

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 3 дня назад

    🤯🤯🤯

  • @BradPitbull
    @BradPitbull 4 года назад

    My REALITY...
    My body is beautiful and strong
    Actual REALITY...
    I has SKINNY KNEES

  • @anshugupta835
    @anshugupta835 4 года назад

    Who is the host

  • @andrabook8758
    @andrabook8758 4 года назад

    I don;t know this Iris story? what happened to her??