Advice For Your Twenties

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • This video is dedicated to the participants and organizers of Access 2022 hosted by IACES LC Cairo, I miss you all
    Special thanks to Artemis, Noemi, Robin, Dagmar, Eirini, Simos, Elisa, Catarina, Ibrahim, Oyku, Giorgos, Kostas, Periklis, Gnostotheridis, Lama, Jan, Youssef, Rui, Konstantina and many more for allowing me to film them.
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    🔰Advice For Your Twenties by illneas
    You know, you are not as weird as you think
    Also, you are not as sophisticated
    But if you can make someone happy
    It doesn't matter
    I know the wounds don't fade as quickly as you wished but someone will love you regardless
    If you feel unable to open up wait till you meet that person
    You will be ok
    Brush your teeth every morning while you try to step on her toes
    I know the bitterness still echoes and you are unable to hide it
    Remember that you can forgive them and still hold them accountable
    Watch her breathe silently
    Watch her shadow touch the walls of your room
    Sometimes you have to get outside of your head to leave room for healthier thoughts
    It will take time to understand yourself
    But If people feel loved around you
    then one day you will love yourself as well
    Hold on to the carelessness for a little longer
    Let novelty linger for a while
    Don't let them take it away from you
    Ask stupid questions
    Cry to cliche romantic movies
    Don't take yourself too seriously
    Outsmart the paradox of the human condition
    I wish you could see your eyes when you spoke your truth
    Enjoy the time you spend alone
    You will be your only friend sometimes
    Explore ideas and ridicule the concept of our finite existence
    Pause,
    And listen to the sounds around you
    Stay still,
    And observe the colors making patterns
    This world has a certain rhyme beneath the chaos
    This absurd little planet has room even for you
    It was here before you
    And it will continue to orbit the sun long after you are gone
    And trust me,
    It's beautiful

Комментарии • 427

  • @illneas
    @illneas  Год назад +37

    Also on music platforms open.spotify.com/track/2cWVgDoGyQf0BbOxNFhvOm?si=68a4e3e1675340af

  • @divinelyh
    @divinelyh Год назад +783

    "Remember you can forgive them and still hold them accountable "
    "You will be your only friend sometime "
    It's beautiful ❤️

  • @priyanshisoni5856
    @priyanshisoni5856 Год назад +329

    "If people feel loved around you,
    Then one day you'll love yourself as well." Loved this one✨

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +7

      I'm glad you liked it

    • @alvinatahir8215
      @alvinatahir8215 Год назад +1

      But no one feel loved arround me 😭

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Год назад +326

    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, then it's not the end." Thank you so much for this video, we all really needed to hear it today.

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +6

      Thank you so much for checking it out

    • @samarpan9382
      @samarpan9382 Год назад +3

      John lenon probably

  • @dinkyooh4334
    @dinkyooh4334 Год назад +117

    It's weird how I didn't want this video to ever end

  • @alifewithpoetry
    @alifewithpoetry Год назад +1232

    “Sometimes, you have to get outside of your head, to leave room for healthier thoughts.” Ohhh this poem, voiceover, music and overall video is so very lovely and uplifting. You just made my life brighter. Thank you❤️

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +21

      Aww thank you so so much T

    • @harshuzu
      @harshuzu Год назад +5

      But no one says how to

    • @fireworks3418
      @fireworks3418 Год назад +1

      @@harshuzu maybe cause everyone have their own way

    • @harshuzu
      @harshuzu 11 месяцев назад

      @@fireworks3418 yea I have made it too! Weird ways they are. But u think someday it might stop working

  • @medha7176
    @medha7176 Год назад +15

    I turn 20 this year ,I'll look back at this video , when my 20's are over , i will try to cherish this stage of my life ,Cheers!

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      If you remember it till then I'll be surprised

  • @dandelion8567
    @dandelion8567 Год назад +125

    Was having an awful time from mental health and stress. And I'm listening to this now. I am literally tearing up. Love your work. Full of life and hope. Helps people admire things and inspire themselves. keep it up!

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +11

      Hope you improve mentally, wishing you all the best

    • @dandelion8567
      @dandelion8567 Год назад +5

      @@illneas thank you so much !! sending you good wishes as well!!😇😇

    • @dandelion8567
      @dandelion8567 Год назад +2

      @Anton. well im fine rn. but i am just in need of therapy. because im always stressed out and numb in the back of my head. thank you so much for asking. means a lot:)))

    • @dandelion8567
      @dandelion8567 Год назад +2

      @Anton. no i have not yet received any kind of therapy. i have self diagnosed stuff..and i'm pretty sure i diagnosed it accurate enough. glad you're doing better. please take care and always seek help whenever needed. sending positivity

  • @vishwasangamitrasaramitra7679
    @vishwasangamitrasaramitra7679 Год назад +76

    "you'll be your only friend sometimes" is my favorite line, well done illy, loved this video! ❤

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +2

      Take care fren ❤️

  • @flamingaish
    @flamingaish Год назад +101

    «» “watch her shadow touch the walls of your room”
    «» “i wish you could see your eyes when you spoke the truth”
    «» “this world has a certain rythm beneath the chaos”
    loved every inch of it, the music was so dreamy! ly illneas

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +3

      Awwwwwww thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @somikavishwas
    @somikavishwas Год назад +18

    For the longest time I hadn't come to terms with some issues, and statements like 'forgive and forget' seemed completely insane. But the message in this video "forgive and still hold them accountable", brought so much peace to me. Thank you so much for this lovely and thoughtful video!!

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +2

      This line cuts deeply for me as well

  • @sabishiikarasu4158
    @sabishiikarasu4158 Год назад +34

    Others words really do help when put together just right . Truly 🖤 and 🙏🏼 for what you bring to us all …

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +6

      Damn thank you so much for the super comment, it helps a lot

  • @רוןגורליק-ה5ע
    @רוןגורליק-ה5ע Год назад +12

    This is absolutely beautiful…I have a friend who in a couple of months is turning 20, and it’s everything she needs to hear, all I want to say to her, so….I’ll send her this on her 20 birthday

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      That's so cool, tell her happy bday when the day comes

  • @mehditate
    @mehditate Год назад +1

    I'm 28 and life hit me pretty hard. I used to live in Miami being around street violence, guns, death, and I even used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on RUclips to help others who need it the most 🙏🏽

  • @abisheklimboo2823
    @abisheklimboo2823 Год назад +9

    Trust me this was all I needed to hear after a long and a hard year.

  • @sashadideeda9825
    @sashadideeda9825 Год назад +14

    This is beautiful… and it inspires me to wait just that little bit longer to open up to the one that really belongs in my life… the one who’s presence I always feel, but not touched yet.
    Thank you for making me believe it’s ok to forgive, but guard myself to not be subjected to the wrongs of the past.
    Thank you….❤️✌️

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +4

      Forgiveness and growth is a journey that I'm trying to understand as well

    • @sashadideeda9825
      @sashadideeda9825 Год назад

      @@illneas Good luck with that🤞

  • @VibhutiBigtime
    @VibhutiBigtime Год назад +1

    This is like the cool corner that I come to hangout every time I’m feeling worthless :)

  • @stonie3216
    @stonie3216 Год назад +3

    This might be the best video I’ve ever seen. The last couple years I’ve really tried to slow down and appreciate the moment and my surroundings . I’ve found I’ve become a lot happier since then. Thank you

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Damn thank you so much

  • @suit-1443
    @suit-1443 Год назад +6

    As usual illneas you have made me cry from happiness and went straight to my core. I love your work!

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Awww ❤️❤️❤️

  • @quillistolitch925
    @quillistolitch925 Год назад +10

    You inspire me so much everyday illy, thank you for what you're doing and what you are to us

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Such an honor 💕 thank you for accepting my work

  • @ranyamohammed3872
    @ranyamohammed3872 Год назад +4

    Omg Illy! Thank you for this amazing video that brings so much warmth to my heart

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Thank you once again for the support R

  • @eulaliacampelo
    @eulaliacampelo Год назад +2

    I guess Youtune knew more than myself that I needed to listen to this. Thank you, illneas, really, thank you. Every single word, image, color, tone... I loved it.

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      aww I'm glad you liked it ^^

  • @afnaspeaking2093
    @afnaspeaking2093 Год назад

    A much needed one ..... Spend some time for ourself,feed our soul....hear the voice of our heart... everything will feel so different..... 😍

  • @veraishani4702
    @veraishani4702 Год назад

    Hope, wisdom, and strength. Beautiful. This helps me believe that my grandson will have a good future. I love this channel and I continue to pray for your precious generations. Thank you.

  • @meursaultscourtroom8886
    @meursaultscourtroom8886 Год назад +1

    You have a gift both of the literary and visual. Thank you for being brave enough to share it.

  • @irsdyl
    @irsdyl Год назад +1

    I'm in my 19ties I can feel these words touching my soul
    Love you illneas

  • @kirsch-d
    @kirsch-d 9 месяцев назад

    oh my what a goosebump that was. truly a beautiful piece. kudos!

  • @aqibshahid5457
    @aqibshahid5457 Год назад +2

    Considering how emotional I am, this hit me hard. Thankyou for the affirmation

  • @inlovewiththegame2504
    @inlovewiththegame2504 Год назад

    Your words are comforting thank you for we feel lost only to realize we only need a little love

  • @cs2d20
    @cs2d20 Год назад

    I’m on the verge of crying. The last 2 months have been hell for me. Girlfriend of 4 years left me and I found out two days ago she’s falling for someone else. She told me they’ve been talking for about a month meaning she moved on a couple weeks from when she left me. I’m in so much pain. This month is going to be so hard because we always made sure to celebrate the holidays to most of our abilities. I miss her so much yet she doesn’t at all. I’m so hurt I’m on the verge of giving up.

  • @lorifromtemeculaca426
    @lorifromtemeculaca426 Год назад +3

    You sir, are touching SO many hearts! I hope to always see your creativity here. Never stop!
    P.S. nice to see alot of yourself in this video too, you look happy! ;-)

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +2

      I was happy during my trip indeed

  • @sumansahu4414
    @sumansahu4414 Год назад

    I come back to this video whenever I feel like I'm losing hope in my future. I come back to feel all the complex feelings this video makes me feel. I end up leaving with a heavy heart for my past and with hope for my future. This video's got power since it's doing a good job at helping me get through the breakup of a 7 year old relationship.

  • @fay2684
    @fay2684 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much. I needed this. ❤️

  • @anniwithacam
    @anniwithacam Год назад

    Oh my goodness. I was not expecting to cry when I clicked on this video. Absolutely beautifully spoken and filmed. Thank you for creating!!

  • @ampersand1552
    @ampersand1552 Год назад

    So glad that I come across with this video. It just happens that all words that I need to hear at this moment is here. Life is beautiful indeed. Thank you very much for this. I am jumping now with joy, happiness, gladness and understanding that the situation where I am right now just temporary and just like what I wrote on my journal earlier today, 'embrace and feel the pain because surely this too will pass".

  • @_shorrtstacks4979
    @_shorrtstacks4979 Год назад +1

    Wow this video was posted on my birthday 10/29 I turned 23yrs old 😮‍💨 it hits deep

  • @mihai_chindris
    @mihai_chindris Год назад +1

    "Enjoy the time you spend alone"
    "You will be your only friend sometimes"
    so true 🥲
    I'm so glad that I found your channel recently, your videos are bringing back to me the inner peace and joy that I thought I would never be able to experience again on such a deep level.

  • @duktrilfromsouthafrica
    @duktrilfromsouthafrica Год назад

    as a tree that sheds it’s leaves in the autumn, i too have shed my past self
    yet, unlike the tree, that takes up the nutrients from it’s past life to bloom once again,
    i feel naked, dead and ugly. stuck with my past at my feet, my bark has begun to rot away to bare bone and so, i stand empty, i die empty.

  • @orownik
    @orownik Год назад +1

    i absolutely adore this composition, guitar chord progression is lovely with these words spoken

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @greyy_.
    @greyy_. Год назад

    its beautiful. 😭😭😭😭
    Thankyou for making this illneas.
    thankyou.❤
    I needed this.

  • @umadey8493
    @umadey8493 Год назад +2

    Omg! This was so beautiful and heart touching. Its now in my saved playlist.

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @artrip
    @artrip Год назад

    This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. The words, the music, the visuals, it touched me. Thank you so much for making me feel this ❤️

  • @jeng.l
    @jeng.l Год назад

    This feels like a warm hug. Thank you! 😭

  • @archykhn4513
    @archykhn4513 7 месяцев назад

    An absolute masterpiece.. illneas an absolute legend

  • @elizabethterrien5582
    @elizabethterrien5582 Год назад

    one of the most incredible, inspiring, calming and grounding videos I have ever seen. Absolutely incredible, please continue what you are doing because we want to see it!

  • @shein3285
    @shein3285 Год назад +1

    I'm so happy I found this channel thankyou🥰

  • @lin3537
    @lin3537 Год назад

    I turned 20 last week nd thats exactly what i needed to hear , thank u for giving me hope

  • @razinhokazinho3092
    @razinhokazinho3092 11 месяцев назад

    Beautiful! Thank you Ido!

  • @syd5831
    @syd5831 Год назад +1

    I love this 🥺🙏🏽✨❤️❤️❤️

  • @DanteVid1719
    @DanteVid1719 Год назад

    Im crying right now, just... thank you

  • @pliersss7871
    @pliersss7871 Год назад

    Your channel is really a breath of life.
    Love it. Absolutely stunning.
    This brought a conforting warmness to my heart.

  • @SonderIV
    @SonderIV Год назад

    I really needed this, thank you so much

  • @aristaaisha9945
    @aristaaisha9945 Год назад +2

    "You can forgive them and still hold them accountable".❤❤❤❤❤

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi Год назад +1

    This was so well done it felt like a full length film!! ❤

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Aww I'm blushing

  • @akankshatekam8692
    @akankshatekam8692 Год назад

    I like this video and i am grateful that i found you channel they are healing for me
    For a very long time i was stucked in my thoughts but now i am not
    Thanks to this video
    Great editing
    And music
    good work 👍

  • @adoonnie6866
    @adoonnie6866 Год назад

    Seems like RUclips reads my mind. I really needed this

  • @MrChillPusatVideoSeru
    @MrChillPusatVideoSeru Год назад

    why it so perfect n match with my feelings, the sounds, the voice the happiness that feel classic and missed

  • @ilka3900
    @ilka3900 Год назад

    not in my twenties but still relatable in some kind of way :)…i really really enjoy your videos and your poems and you just never fail to make me and so many others feel heard and comforted. not everyone can do that 🤍btw the little cats were the best parts of the video

  • @Hahaha-dc9ro
    @Hahaha-dc9ro Год назад

    Happiness is a feeling that you have worth which comes from contribution to the world

  • @congruentcrib
    @congruentcrib Год назад

    “Enjoy the time you sped alone; you will be your only friend sometimes”

  • @jhernan594
    @jhernan594 25 дней назад

    Thank you!!!🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @ZaraKhan-hl3re
    @ZaraKhan-hl3re Год назад +1

    This made my day. And I can't even describe how much.

  • @iread6318
    @iread6318 Год назад +1

    So calming, Thank you.

  • @Histra_Tyr
    @Histra_Tyr Год назад +1

    thank you for this. i was looking forward to this one as i share a similar name to Cairo- you captured it's beauty nicely. lovely :)

  • @charmidattani9620
    @charmidattani9620 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video. This video just instantly made feel happy and at peace❤

  • @zoona3752
    @zoona3752 Год назад

    loving the energy of the video

  • @DropsteRyt
    @DropsteRyt Год назад

    I love this so much❤

  • @Saturns48
    @Saturns48 Год назад

    This is just magical and so beautiful...this had a very different feel...and it is beautiful ❤❤ this is happiness words, sound, and image. This made my heart lift.😊

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +1

      Thank you Carolyn ❣️

  • @anesuemmanuelchagadama
    @anesuemmanuelchagadama Год назад

    I love this, I'll show this to MT some day

  • @elizabeth2557
    @elizabeth2557 Год назад

    this is literally beautiful

  • @pritibag6805
    @pritibag6805 Год назад +2

    Me crying for 3 mins straight for no reason. I will be okay💖

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +1

      You will be fine fren

  • @sarawagdy64
    @sarawagdy64 Год назад

    My city, Its great work of Art. Thank you for making this healing video, I feel like if it were sent just for me. ))

  • @akritakaur
    @akritakaur Год назад

    Soothing in every which way ❤

  • @sumaiyaafrojshimu588
    @sumaiyaafrojshimu588 Год назад

    Ahh I needed this right now . Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @greengables1382
    @greengables1382 Год назад

    I am turning 20 this month and this helps a lot thank you so much

  • @snowieplays
    @snowieplays Год назад

    What a calm and soothing voice to listen to before going to bed😌❤

  • @Selin14.03
    @Selin14.03 Год назад

    Wow! Beautiful Video!😍🙏🏻❤️

  • @veronicasimone6204
    @veronicasimone6204 Год назад

    MOREEE CLIPSSS OF YOUUUU. LOVE IT

  • @bluebird669
    @bluebird669 Год назад +2

    This is so beautiful ✨✨✨✨

  • @vlachyna
    @vlachyna 5 месяцев назад

    Refreshing….. I really hole young people will get this…
    I am not that young one….
    But this is it! This is what young people need to know….

  • @yyaa2539
    @yyaa2539 Год назад +2

    1:39
    ....enjoy the time you spend alone ...you will be your only friend (sometimes)...

    • @sashadideeda9825
      @sashadideeda9825 Год назад

      Although it’s not what one ideally hope for… it sometimes is the only way to find oneself again.
      “ Your vision will only become clear when you look into your own heart… who looks outside dreams … who looks inside awakens”
      It’s just sad that sometimes when you want to share special moments with the one’s that was once closest to you… you find them gone…again.
      Might be that they also are searching 🤷‍♀️… who knows??

  • @seljan9075
    @seljan9075 Год назад

    It's beautiful. Thank you so much!❤️

  • @muhammadzizo7586
    @muhammadzizo7586 Год назад +2

    Bruh, My eyes just full of tears now for these memories, I hope we bring it back again! ❤😭

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Hope we meet again mate

  • @rashiktak.chavhan3394
    @rashiktak.chavhan3394 Год назад +1

    I love it!! ❤️❤️ You got a new subscriber 😁

  • @CELEBRANDOELEVANGELIO
    @CELEBRANDOELEVANGELIO Год назад

    en verdad no entendi ni la mitad el mensaje, pero sie to que s increíble y de lo que entendí me transmitió un sentimiento increíble, todo gracias a que estoy con la presencia del espíritu santo, Gracias

  • @chetanbawaskar6371
    @chetanbawaskar6371 Год назад

    This filled me up with Hope💎👏 Amazing work

  • @feyselserbela-ye3yu
    @feyselserbela-ye3yu Год назад

    the best thing I ever come across in youtube ..just magenficent it is like u know what I am feeling

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад +1

      im glad you liked it

  • @karimdoma6200
    @karimdoma6200 Год назад

    Literally a masterpiece!! Magnificent everything is just perfect !!😍😍😍😍

  • @estebanduenass
    @estebanduenass Год назад

    This is so beautiful. Amazing video. Keep up with the good work 💪🏽

  • @komalsharma9249
    @komalsharma9249 Год назад

    It's my daily morning doze from last three days it gives me a positive and real vibe thanku so much your voice awww ☺️☺️☺️💕

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Aww I'm glad u like it

  • @ankit_s
    @ankit_s Год назад

    i m going to enter in my twenties tomorrow thanks for the advice , u r awesome

  • @sakshamsharma6947
    @sakshamsharma6947 Год назад

    loving every bit of it...

  • @krishnapriyab8510
    @krishnapriyab8510 Год назад

    Thank You for this beautiful creation

  • @dafiruz912
    @dafiruz912 Год назад

    "Outsmart the paradox of the human condition" wow, raison d'etrê

  • @AthanCarpediem
    @AthanCarpediem Год назад

    Wonderfulbwarmful as always, God blesses your light and all of you ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🙏

  • @lizmoss
    @lizmoss Год назад

    i love this. thank you for your words ❤️

  • @minalove6582
    @minalove6582 Год назад

    I love my 20s. I hope to love all of my ages and stages as I evolve. ❤️

  • @dmtdreamz7706
    @dmtdreamz7706 Год назад

    You can literally hallucinate objects and beings into existence because what's happening is you're tapping into that pure abstract creative potential of mind. That's exactly what you want. Of course it can be kind of freaky but a psychedelic is that times a thousand. See so again the point is not to achieve some blissful state or to see some cool colors or to travel to some new dimension you can do all those things. That's nice, that's fun. The point is the lessons the insights you get and the meta understanding of how this entire process works because as you're exploring all your different domains you're learning about your own mind. How the mind of God is generating reality and why it's generating it.

  • @Heart_Health_and_Soul_by_Anika

    So beautiful! Thank you! ❤

    • @illneas
      @illneas  Год назад

      Glad you like it!

  • @devrim-oguz
    @devrim-oguz Год назад

    Thank you.