HOW TO BE A BETTER FRIEND
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- I’m know we’re all trying our best to be the best friend we can be, but there’s always room for improvement! In this video I go over a few ways we can be a better friend to show those we love that we really care.
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1. don't turn the conversation towards yourself.
2. don't try to fix their problem/ don't offer advise if they don't ask for it.
3. check up on your friend
4. don't stay on your phone/device.
5. be honest.
6. ask questions.
I do 2 a lot
I do all of them... 🤠 But the biggest problem is the 5. I'm a very honest person & my friends HATES for me being that honest... I have no clue how to fix that tho...
@@lazydxy_z756 why do they hate you being honest? What did you do?
Don't put rules above friendship
@@velvetstorm4563 I think 2 is wrong. Isn't friends supposed to help each other? I do a lot of this, I mean my friends just tell me their problems without asking help and I just give advises.
I’m trying to be a better friend cause I feel like I’m too annoying
Same 😭😭😭
People would talk about me behind my back and call me stupid, annoying and too loud. I am trying to become more considerate of others and more peaceful 🥰
@@littlehamham4251 Stop hanging around those people. Be a better friend, sure. But first, learn to love yourself. Do yourself a favor and surround yourself with people who love you and then be a better friend to the people who actually care about you. Because if your "friends" are talking behind your back, they aren't actually your friends. Give your energy to people who want it, and deserve it. Believe me, I used to be you.
Thank you so much xxx I will try all of this 🥰
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I have a friend that hates me so l thought of playing the video and it really helped me. Thank u
Glad this video helped, hope you can make amends with your friend!
same.
they arent you're friend if they hate you
I am sorry for that
Same
Wow this actually helped me, I was doing about like 3 mistakes with all my friends and this help me realize what I’m doing wrong so thank you
Glad you found this video helpful!! 😀
Rely on your feelings in times of indecisiveness
1. Ask about them
2. Don't turn the conversation about you
3. Listen, don't always try to fix their problem. Be empathetic
4. Check up on your friends (whenever you think about them)
5. Give undivided attention
6. Give honest feedback, but be empathetic
1:05 It's actually reverse for me. My friend says that I never talk about myself and this makes her think that I don't think of them as a friend, which is definitely not the case. The 2nd one is something I need to work on, cause I always try to help when someone tells me about a problem they have.
I have the he same situation, it's so hard to be a friend sometimes..
#2 don’t offer up your advise or a solution.
This is where I have a problem. I think I have the answer and it wouldn’t be cool not to help them. But sometimes I come on a little to strong and even my son says let me finish. So the message I got was slow your role and don’t react right away. Digest it and then calmly encourage them and ask .... “tell me more” instead of flipping it back to you”.
Love the advise. Thanks
Thank you I’m struggling right now and my ‘friends’ keep just pushing me away and not talking to me. I will try your tips thank you
I feel that way too
Not your friends
@@fruityloop2143 yes those are fake friends
I'm actually here because I am trying to get my friend out of an abusive relationship. Like really extremely emotionally abusive. I trying to help her get out of that I was watching RUclips to find d signs and I related to many of them in the sense that I had been emotionally abused my best friend. Me and her have been friends for three years and it hasn't always been like this. I used to be a great friend but recently I've been a terrible. I don't think it's fixable between me and her.. she doesn't even realize I'm doing it but I do. I want to change and be able to be a good friend one day. Sorry this was ranty. I just needed to get this off my chest. ♡
Hey, you deserve better! Don't be afraid to cut someone off if you're being mistreated
@@escapethisfate but I was the one showing toxic traits. it wasn't purposeful. we're no longer friends. I do wish the best for her but I wasn't a good friend :(
I wish i had friend like you ❤
Hehe I was trying to be a good friend for my online one, I didn’t realise I was doing something wrong, thank you for this video
Wow only 150 likes? Your lighting and the way you act in front of the camera is SO professional. I love your confidence in front of the camera. You seem very friendly and approachable! You just got another subscriber :) ❤️
I’ve never had friends and now I think I finally found a friend now. We only recently started talking but it’s working out. I want to be the best friend I can for him. I know he had a hard time before. I don’t want to seem clingy but want to show that I care. I’m kinda scared I’ll mess it up since I never did have a real friend.
this video was so good. Just today I was thinking why i have a hard time connecting with people and the thought of”maybe I’m not that good of a friend” came up so i genuinely wanted to know how i can be one. & everything you touched up on is what i was doing, like the ”me too” interruptions & always trying to give good advice even when i don’t know what I’m talking about 😅. It’s all in good heart but I can understand now how that can push them away or not feel comfortable when talking to me. 🥲thank uuu!🌸
great info. I was found 3/5 of these. No wonder they don't stick around a lot. lol. Thanks!
Thanks for watching! Hope this video helps you be a better friend. 💛
I absolutely love your channel and the advice you give. You deserve much more recognition and more people need listen and take your advice. I know your channel will sprout and help thousands of people one day. Thank you for these wonderful messages
Izabella thank you! I’m so glad you enjoy my channel. 💛 thank you for the kind words, hope you have a great day!
Thank you for helping me realise that I do turn the conversation to myself all the time, sometimes being in the centre. I mostly always tell my friends more what they want to hear, not what they need to. I do as well try to always give advice as much as I can instead of fixing their problems and coming up with an 'ideal solution', because in reality, there is no perfect result to any scenario.
So thank you, Carly Burr!
I hope I’m a good best friend 🥺
FANTASTIC ESP the last one asking them directly!! Gonna do this!!
You’ll have to let me know how it goes! 💛
You're lovely and seem easy to talk to. Anyways, thanks for the tips.
Thank you so much!!!!
Its weird but the people who seem to have a crap ton of friends are extremely narcissistic, always interrupt and talk endlessly. Why is that? I do all of this with my friends but they never do this back for me and I end up not really enjoying my friends or feeling alone.
I feel like i made ourselves distant. I moved to another city, but i was afraid to share the info so i just mentioned before i actually did. we were on good terms even that happened, but in the last 1-2 Years we became more distant, i did not enjoy going to the pub anymore. I did not enjoy going to the club, but i went together. Sometimes i feel like i am alone and i screwed up a friendship, even if we have a lot of different ways of thinking. Honestly i miss talking long hours but lately if meet only for 1 hour. I do understand we are on different paths now. I feel guilty of making a friend distant. Friend has renewed frinedships, I also have some new, but i do not feel like I have so many to hang out with or more importantly to talk about problems, thoughts. I feel like i might need to upgrade myself to make them stay.
I'm going through a rough patch with my friend right now and this helped me a lot. Thank you.
Great advice but just make sure that when you're being honest not to be rude or mean about it. if they ask for your opinion try to be honest but kind and supportive as the truth can sting sometimes. Also, it's best not to mention something they can't change in a few minutes (acne, weight, personality trait, etc.) everyone wants to feel happy and supported. I hope this was helpful and I hope all of you are having a great day/night! :)
I typed this, because I want to have better friendships. Something is blocking this and I think I found some answers. Helpful! Thank you! 💕
I like fixing their problems and if the are conversing i won't only me to talk u have helped me i will change
Excellent!!! Was just writing on this EXACT topic today. I love it keep up the great videos!!! 💜💜💜
How great! What are your thoughts on how to be a better friend? Thanks for the kind comment! Hope you’re having a great day. 💛
Thank you for sharing this message 🌷
Thanks Carly! Great video, you radiate positivity
I'm really thankful to you ❤💛♥...for giving great advice 🙏🏼❤
I certainly have been doing some mistakes....but now I got to know that where I'm wrong and now I will be a better friend to my bestii.....I hurted her by my words 😔💔 that I wasn't aware of...I'm so sad ...hope she will talk to me nicely and give me 2nd chance....although it's nit been a year to our friendship but still if she didn't came school I miss her the most
😔😢😪🤧♥
Ok so like I’ve been awful best friend and I always say sorry and she always forgives me but I never forgive myself cuz ik she might still feel bad because of ME and I can just never forgive myself and she doesn’t trust me anymore and I honestly feel like she doesn’t feel safe around me and sorry is not gonna help anymore and she says she’s fine but I’m she’s not and I’m so mad at myself rn (Shes a Internet best friend so I can’t do some of the things but I’ll try the ones I can do) and I really don’t know how I’m gonna be able to talk to her without having that feeling that she hates me so if anyone has anyone sees this and has advice please help🥺
Forgive yourself
This video really helped ❤️❤️
im so confused as to why there is only 9 comments
I'm tryna be a real friend✊
This helped me a lot. My friends have really started to hate me, so thank you.
This video has helped me a lot on how to interact with my friends, i appreciate the time you spent to show us, thank you. 😊
I’m trying to bring me and my best friends together and become sisters...I feel like I don’t have any friends because I’m not very close and I would like to be, I’m always there for them, let them finish but it’s been 5 years and we’re still not very close
I don’t think we are supposed to be friends, I feel like I’m to ugly for everyone I feel like nobody wants to be my friend and everyone is annoyed with me. I feel like I’m just not a good friend..🥺🥺
Because when we are picking partners they always go for the other people, one of my friends that I have known since kindergarten looked so annoyed when she had to pick me. I’m in a group of 5 and two of them we just met this year and I feel like I’m not good enough for them, they love my other two friends but I feel like I’m the outcast. My other friend that I’ve known since kindergarten, my mom says I need to be careful with her. My neighbors are amazing they are my only friends that I think actually like me and want to build our friendship closer
First be there for yourself and make yourself your first priority and you'll see how people will want to be your friend
My friends hate me so bad. Maybe one day they will appreciate me.
I love this video💓
My friend always ignores me and blatantly lies to me and I think it’s my fault so I hope this video helps 🤞
Edit: it didn’t
If you need a shoulder to cry on im here. You are amazing. Heres a trophy🏆
I love this!! So well said :) also I love your voice haha so gentle and lovely!
I recommend going through this video and writing these tips on a sticky note, and hang them up to see everyday to improve.
Yesssuh
Thank you so much she finely said hi to me lol
Thank you
I wish my friends where better friends to me…
It’s always a one way street over here
These are also great tips for your significant other
I really need this because my friend is depressed and she wishes to die this year..i really gotta look out for her so thanks!
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I did a fuck up thing and I regret it. I ran my mouth about her and I have falsely accuse her of something she didn’t do and now I regret it 😔😔😔😔
Thank you for your help 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
My freinds hate me because I brag about my cat to much so I’m watching this 😢
Thank you! This is a great idea for a video!
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Thank u sooo much for this video ✨
My friend looks like she hates me so I'm gonna try those hacks tommorow
thank you for your advice
Nice!
One thing I just don't know is: Is friendship just setting up to your friends intrest even if you are not intrested about for example motorbikes you just pretend being intrested motorbikes. This is the question I want to the answer.
No u just have to accept there interest but it doesn't mean that you need to be part of it forcefully put your opinion too
great videooo
i want to make my friend happy cus she just asked if she could vent to me about sh, wich triggers me quite a lot. i just want her to be happy
Not me watching the video with no friends😀
Thanks for this. ❤️
Be wise
Let them finish…I need to work on this
I am honestly brutal and my friend know it. 😀
I am trying to be a good friend but turn out to be bad friend and having my best friends hate me
The way u said u r trying to be a good friend it says alot that how u are a great friend
I really needed to hear that!!!
Help, How do I be a better friend for a girl bf that is getting depressed because she lost her dad a year ago and she goes so quiet on me and I don't know what to do, she's hurting and closing up, I'm gonna cry, I really want to get through to her but without being annoying making things worst. Idk help
Check on her always and just be there for her
I asked how I could be a better friend to my friends and they said “go find out on ur own” , I didn’t know what to say to them , what are your thoughts on this?
I think I'll become better person now
I feel like sooner or later since my best friend has a lil sis we aren’t gonna be best friends not even friends r frenemies
At this point I don’t think I’m the problem anymore, I’m getting sick and tired of her. Everytime I talk about how I’m upset all she responds with is “wow” “o” “okay” I know it’s not her job to make me feel better but I thought that she would atleast try to since everytime she’s upset I always do my best to make her happy instead of responding with the same letters. Literally once I was so upset and all she cared about was how she got something in a game. Then she calls me manipulative but then starts talking about how she loves me and wants to kiss me? She makes me so confused and she ignores me for hours until her other friends are busy and she has nothing better to do so she talks to me
I came here because I'm wondering was I a bad friend because my friends never talk or contact me anymore.
Really helpful😍🙏
Thank you so much today 3 of my best friends blocked me on my texting app I'm so hurt sore
I always stay on my phone 😢
😭my best friend think that im jealous of her but im really not that kind of person . i love her too much . how can i show that 😭. help me its mentally hurt me lot.
Sorry for my bad engilsh . good luck
I'm hanging out with this girl tomorrow at the mall and it's just us two, kinda nervous (I'm gay but she's not and I don't want to give off the wrong impression)
my name is carly too -
First i need to find some
Ty for this video i have my bestie and i think she hate me
watching this because my 2 real friends left me because i am a toxic friend and i really need to change...i need help badly im so damaged i need help
I'm going to try to have a better animated face and try not look like a robot so people would not be scared to approach me
There's no better face than a smiling one which makes u a human😊
I have a freind taht used ti be my Best freind but he dont waktu ti be my freind becouse im to "dramay"yes i dont know what it is but i hope this video helps
Sory terendah much typ0o in here
See
Typos
Im here cos i want to know how to deal with my chubby friend?
Am i the only one who searched this up?😔
No I did too I feel like I’m not a good friend
When she talks about the nice text-messenges, all i can think of is me and my friend arguing becouse i say that anime ist cringe and he gets all mad
i think im a bad freindd
Looked up this video after my friend got a boyfriend. We're all online friends, so this happened over discord and whatsapp.
Basically, Mark had a guy over at his house, and they were together while we (William, Mark and I) were playing dbd, and so I started talking a lot of garbage to Mark because he shouldn't be playing games with his friends while he as a date over, right? Being a wingman.
I, a lot of the times, prefer calling people names that aren't cuss words just to keep the atmosphere lighter, and recently, I've been using the word "doente" (sick) to refer to people when I'm cussing them out, and Lucas (Mark's new bf) heard me and started questioning Mark about his physical health, as we are in a pandemic. And so, without missing a beat, William and I started *very obviously* joking about Mark's health, saying he had a bunch of STD's and the Coronavirus itself, and it was pretty funny, and a very obvious joke, since Mark is completely healthy, and we were making fun of him for being gross and unsanitary, even though he isn't.
But the problem started when Lucas *believed* the jokes to be truthful and got mad at Mark, thinking that he actually had transmissible infections and not telling him about them before they got intimate.
But like... It was so clear that we were making stuff up on the spot, we even mentioned the spanish flu-
Anyway, they started dating yesterday even though Lucas has some serious trust issues.
Earlier today, Mark sent us an audio clip of Lucas talking about how he (lucas) doesn't want William and I to "insult him like that" or "mistreat him" even though were such good friends that we are comfortable with jokingly insulting each other like that from time to time...
Looked this video up to see if I'm wrong in this situation.
be a better friend to who?💀
Nice forhead
I have just disappointed my best fam