With shows like these... We will grow up to be a better generation, one without judgment but compassion, and who is well informed. Such things should be taught in schools. Great work Relebogile!! 🙏❤️
"You come across with God created Adam and Eve, there I am with both genitalia. So you can't come with religion, if you get what I'm saying". I felt that deep
This individual was not born with both genitalia they admitted their genitalia was ambiguous. Ambiguous genitalia doesn’t develop into a penis or a vagina which is why it’s ambiguous.
There is an explanation for this. Just like being born blind just like being born death just like being born with the pindages missing just like being born attached to your twin. There are all Kinds of types of admiralities that happen in uteral. But in spite of that these are still living human beings.
Why mess things by putting up a competition? All we need is Love and respect for each other as best in its place! Competition has always been evil.... please don't spoil this beautiful, excellent, highly Informative interview.
Your Oscar is still doing push up's wherever it is Relebogile👏👌 your work is exceptional and i hope South Africa and the rest of the world gives you your flowers when you can still smell them 💥 thats includes your team as well.
Choice of words is very crucial. As a child adults make a choice to protect the child but later it Bemis hard to accept you. The information is really crucial and extremely important for individuals 👏 🙌
I feel like crying listening to Dimakatso. Warm hearted person and able to forgive. I grew up knowing that there are people called "Trasie" having both genitals. How I wished to see how they looked like. Today my eyes are opened and I do understand 100% what is intersex. Thanks Relebogile for topics such as this. We are the same in the eyes of God.
I wish I could see what they look Like and if they have the the both gender what will be their sexual relationship if they have sex with both male and female
Such discussions shed more light on why religion should play far from issues of sex, sexual orientation, gender and identity as well as sexuality in general. They butcher it and harm lots of people in the process.
I think sex and sexuality are a religious forte because of the deep impact they have on the soul. Biological phenomena however is a different story. The sooner we can separate biological Intersexuality from the act or practice of sexuality and see it for what it is a legitimate biological condition the clearer the role is for religion in this dialogue. Spiritual insight is important here too. Dimakatso knows her God and its her and her parent's faith in The God Of Jacob that has brought her to this depth of Ministry and Activism- That's what she said. So we definitely can't disregard the importance of religious perspective however controversial it might be. Inclusion of the wholeself is important in these matters.
@@tshepozindela4618 by "impact on the soul" you mean psyche? The church chose a domain they should have no business in and monopolized lies about a subject or subjects they have zero knowledge in.
I’m actually addicted to these podcasts. Ground breaking! dialogues🙌🏾. I love how you dissect topics and respect your guests. Upwards and forward to you Relebogile ❤️👌🏾
I don’t think I’ve watched a show much educational such as this one!. It compels you to be open-minded; not to mention Relebogile’s stellar interviewing skills❤️.
It’s not educational because ambiguous genitalia is neither male or female meaning they don’t have both a penis and a vagina. The genitalia failed to develop which is why it’s ambiguous it doesn’t fit into male or female.
😭😭😭😭my uncle and aunt destroyed my cousin, i wish they can listen to this, she/ he was born with both and they decided that she/ he was a boy, now that she/he is grown,she/ he is more on the female side, it is exactly what Dimakatso explained🙏
There is no such thing as an infant being born with both a vagina and penis, the genitalia was more likely ambiguous meaning. it didn’t develop into a penis or vagina. Many intersex would still fit into binary categories as male or female those with ambiguous genitalia didn’t develop into male or female which is why it’s referred to as ambiguous. It’s neither male or female.
There is no such thing as an infant being born with both a vagina and penis, the genitalia was more likely ambiguous meaning. it didn’t develop into a penis or vagina. Many intersex would still fit into binary categories as male or female those with ambiguous genitalia didn’t develop into male or female which is why it’s referred to as ambiguous. It’s neither male or female genitalia because it didn’t’ develop.
I Love how you handle every interview with so much grace! You're amazing at what you do. We're constantly unlearning and learning. Thank you Aus' Lebo. ❤️
Wow very impressive, big ups to you Relebogile and your team for the outstanding and extensive work you guys do and continue doing, well thought through topics and research done. What makes it more outstanding it’s your focus on ordinary people (not celebrities/icons) and cover all types and kinds of thorny and sensitive issues that exists within our society. I must say that indeed this show is educational, I wish it can get more and more publicity. These are conversations that should be openly held in our societies. Also a big thanks to your brave and bold guests/interviewees who come forward and share so much with us. 👌🏽👌🏽👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽
Wow what a discussion, God is good. I don't want to offend anyone. Born and raised in America for so long Race, Sex, Genders, Gentrification, Love, Marriage and Christianity. I have looked at and tried to study these subjects every since I was a teenager trying to find my own sexuality. In many foreign countries most people they can't afford the physicians, psychiatrist and surgery. I am told they go on to live their lives happily and healthy as possible. Having Marriages, Spouses, Children and Families that understand and support them.
Relebogile I like how you talk less and let your guests speak more. No interjection and no making the interview about you. And how you respect your guests and boundaries, yet you are able to retrieve desired answers. You are a gem and a marvel to watch and listen. Well done sesi👌🏽👌🏽❤️🙏🏽
I love this channel, It’s unboxing societal standards. We are slowly unlearning the limited information that was given to us to fit “the world standard”. We grow up so limited but with conversations like these, we have hope for freedom. May God continue reveal.
I once heard Dima's interview with Bishop Maphonga, I love his confidence and may God grant me the senerity to accept things I can not change like Dimakatso...
I think these kind of surgeries mustn't be done on babies or kids... The individual would have to do that themselves when they reach a certain age to give consent.
I love you Dimakatso you're such a beautiful soul pumpkin and yes you're SPECIAL.By accepting and loving yourself you're a star in my sky.I wish you all the best in life
Nope, they only spoke colonisers language,that's not exactly being well spoken to me. Know your own then we can see the true you, not this rehearsed nonsense.
This was deep,yoh, i disnt know much about intersex. I feel Dimakatso, i hear Dimakatso loud and clear. Thank you for educating us as i let it sink, sommer post part 2 Lebo
Wow there is a great deal to learn in life. The beautiful lesson is accepting the way that God has made us and choose to be who you are and not what people want you to be. Powerful message. Thank you for airing this conversation sis.
I had shared the link with my colleagues in the health fraternity as the experiment experiences messed up with me in an unbelievable manner. The things we do unintentionally thinking that we are helping yet we are causing such a devastating damage.
Dimakatso is not happy about how things turned around, even how Dimakatso says the parents chose what they wanted annoys Dimakatso, for a while I didn't understand this binary classification, but listening to Dimakatso I can tell it really affect many in a long run and in silence. I am learning alot and thank you Lebo for these opportunities.
For a good part of my pregnancy with him, it was believed that my son was intersexed and I recall medical staff telling us that we can "have it taken care of" shortly after birth. I remember thinking WTF - I'm not going to rush - why would we cut off/sew up before we know what they want?! As it turned out he was born with all male genitalia/XY but it was upside down and the urinary opening not on the penis- surgery was required for functioning, but nothing was added/removed (except a urethra which was too short to urinate healthily). I applaud this broadcast because I think the medical community and the law needs to prohibit/ban these elective surgeries on intersexed infants.
My cousin gave birth to 4 children with the both genitals, the doctors could identify which one is more active and they should make the other one not to function,
I'm always looking forward to this time of a weekday. I always learn a thing or two here, Aus Lebo: we appreciate you and this channel, and of course the guests that are always sharing a part of themselves with us.❤🙏
Wow!! I just found this channel last week and subscribed. I have never really thought about this topic, but I'm sure l would've thought people want to be either or. You guys have certainly made me think and l thank you for educating me. Really informative, well put together and a very good watch! 👌🏾
Super proud of Katso. I love the fact that you continue to share your story. You are touching alot people. Growing up near you really really taught us alot.
Pls note I'm not for the LGBT whatever I'm just fully aware that some persons Are born that way. For the other I leave you to the most high. I'll give an example of someone I knew on her death bed constantly cried prayed and pleaded to God to forgive her for the life she chose to live. Now like I said that's between her and the Most High.
Greetings from the UK - Thank you for creating and sharing this video - this was so interesting, educational, fascinating and eye - opening. I definitely learnt something new today.
In Xhosa we call them ITALASI I stand to be corrected though as growing up we knew that intersex people they exist amongst us but was a topic never touched at all. Well-done for this education 👏🙌👌
Ooh, they're soo right because there was nothing wrong with having both genetalia being there if that's how you were born as. To operate without understanding what's actually going to eventually come out. I'm encouraged by the courage that this guy has❤. You are such a gem. Bless you!💗
Knowledge we don't think is necessarily needed........ I've come to learn to respect people's journeys for what they are Just because I haven't lived your life doesn't mean now because it's different from mine I should have something to say about it being wrong or how I think it should be...... N I've gotten to really understand the fundament of acceptance 🕯️🕯️🕯️such light
I’m grateful for this channel, so informative and I love how Rele deals with these topics. Bringing these unpopular opinions to the forefront. I really am really learning a lot. Thank you❤️
Wow what a topic 🤔. Growing up in Ga Molepo we used to hear the term sekgalamatome but we didn't quite understand it. Now I am 45 yrs old and it is making sense when I connect the dots about the people who "were" actually intersex and I grew up together with them without ever understanding
This show is incredible including the host on how she unpack her questions. Being open-minded gives you a room to learn a lot of things without judging/expectations.
This is our natural form millions of years ago when we were as the physical representation of the Divine Female & Male as 1 being. In the astral we are discussing if we should return to such a state or remain separated as we ascend & return to a higher frequencies. Glad to see the conversation has reached so quickly. Shows it is being taken seriously. There is also a group that was asking to return to our Seahorse style of reproduction. I like being able to experience another being myself. This is why it’s important to recall your dreams😇 You actually go somewhere and do things.
This has me thinking about permissions..like operating to remove the genitalia, or even a foreskin, or extra fingers or toes..the baby can't make a choice whether to keep it or have it removed. It doesn't seem fair
I think in the same way that parents should be careful to not make such irreversible decisions hastily, we should appreciate that they probably also do it because they think it'll make the child's life easier. It's usually easier to want to look for someone to blame for our suffering, but sometimes there isn't necessarily anyone to blame.
@@khutjodiphofe2245 While I agree, I want to add that there is stigma attached to being different. Perhaps we as a society could learn something about differences and to accept them, if stories like this have a platform. There are also practical concerns, especially in the case of extra toes, like possibly struggling to find shoes that fit..anyways, thanks for your perspective
An eye opener bcs I was raised to be that having two genitals was taboo but deep down I tot it was mith😪great full to the show for opening my mind and trully going deeper on the issue and raising my awareness ❤Thank you so much
Thank you Lebo this show is so interesting. I have learnt a lot, especially with the LGBTQIA+ community. We would be very happy to learn about the other sexualities such as queer and asexulity, please.
Thank you Relebogile, you are blessed with the gift of communication. I love tge way you ask questions and unpack everything.Your show deserves an Oscar 👏🏾👏🏾
💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛 Sending love to both Garfield and Crystal. Thank you Kelebogile and the team for an amazing work with your show. To many more untold stories✊
Dimakatso is a strong person and ur parents were right when they say u r so special.i love the fact that u love ur self conditionally. May the Lord be with u my dear.im so touched
This is the best podcast, I'll keep on coming. Please, some constructive criticism, please talk a little less and let the interviewee talk more. That would take it from 9/10 to 10/10!
That is an insult! Oprah doesn't do a good job, just got a headstart by white women who supported her only because she was a black woman. She also interrupts her guests too much and pretty rude!
I have learned so much from this channel and this interview is so necessary Lebo. I thank you and am grateful for the information you share with us. I always look forward to the updates and new episodes. 🙌🙌 I wish all the best to both Dimakatso and Crystal. Dimakatso's story is touching. 💐
I know uKatso. Our families are very close, I consider katso's siblings my sisters. I never knew ukhuthi they were born like this. Funny because I never considered them male or female while growing up. I thought they was lesbian. Their story is inspiring. Hope you see my comment. I miss you.
You are heroes Dimakatso and Chrystal sent here by God to show the world how to be strong resilient and have self love above everything else and I take my hat off to you. Stay strong 🎩💪❤️👍
I really appreciate this episode Sis Relebogile❤. I was also born intersex. #EndIntersexSurgery🇿🇦💜💛💜💛💜💛. and I really wish to meet both Garfield and Christel😍
It must be hard dealing with things of such magnitude. I was born as a woman with every body parts in working conditions however I cannot carry any children. Pregnant several times but my body was not meant to carry a baby. Am I bitter ? Sure I do to this day. The sad part is that I did want kids and now my body is going into menopause which is the natural process of aging. Life sucks real bad.
I love this show so much! It's now officially my favourite show of all time. I learn so much from each episode. Garfield's energy is so amazing! Thank you Rele and team for consistently creating such interesting, educational, and mind opening content. You are the best! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
This podcast deserves Oscar award shem. I mean it leaves no stone unturned where social issues are concerned. And it has been nothing but informative.
I can’t stress this enough .
Ei dude. It's serving
I swear...
I agree!!! Presenting skills are on point. She literally asks the questions that I am thinking of while watching.
@@Ximatsatsa1 she is very smart
Oprah walked so Relebogile could run❤️
😒😒
One thing about this show, it needs you to be open minded.
Or it will FORCE one to be open minded.
In just two months,this show has spoken about everything there is to talk about
And she is not done yet, I am loving her work
Yho this show follows no blueprint. I am in awe of the topics they touch on.
You can say that again
I get goosebumps
Is this 2 months only uh?
With shows like these... We will grow up to be a better generation, one without judgment but compassion, and who is well informed. Such things should be taught in schools. Great work Relebogile!! 🙏❤️
Hey 👏
They are taught at school, via L.O classes
We've always known but in the 80's they were referred to as hermaphrodites which is the technical term for Intersex animals. 😔🤦🏾♀️
So true Mpume her shows are so educational we're learning a lot Sisi Rele keep up the good work we're behind you mbokodo
"You come across with God created Adam and Eve, there I am with both genitalia. So you can't come with religion, if you get what I'm saying". I felt that deep
This individual was not born with both genitalia they admitted their genitalia was ambiguous. Ambiguous genitalia doesn’t develop into a penis or a vagina which is why it’s ambiguous.
No religion can explain this anatomy ... I love how Dimakatso explained
& which is true
Every community should be informed 🙏
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There is an explanation for this. Just like being born blind just like being born death just like being born with the pindages missing just like being born attached to your twin. There are all Kinds of types of admiralities that happen in uteral. But in spite of that these are still living human beings.
There is in ancient African spirituality and in Nigerian orrisa ifa system....
This is honestly better than Oprah. Rele has such a beautiful communication gift.
I thought so too. She hardly ever speaks when someone is talking which is a huge difference from how Miss Oprah conducts her interviews.
@@iamlenhle6628 right she not condescending or imposing her own beliefs. Just so pure and i feel like I can talk to her too. Such talent and grace
She is really gifted in COMMUNICATION
Why mess things by putting up a competition? All we need is Love and respect for each other as best in its place! Competition has always been evil.... please don't spoil this beautiful, excellent, highly Informative interview.
Do you really have to bring in comparison?
Your Oscar is still doing push up's wherever it is Relebogile👏👌 your work is exceptional and i hope South Africa and the rest of the world gives you your flowers when you can still smell them 💥 thats includes your team as well.
Facts
Choice of words is very crucial. As a child adults make a choice to protect the child but later it Bemis hard to accept you.
The information is really crucial and extremely important for individuals 👏 🙌
I hope you recieve some sort of award Relebogile Sisi because these topics are exactly what we need to learn about as a society!
I feel like crying listening to Dimakatso. Warm hearted person and able to forgive. I grew up knowing that there are people called "Trasie" having both genitals. How I wished to see how they looked like. Today my eyes are opened and I do understand 100% what is intersex. Thanks Relebogile for topics such as this. We are the same in the eyes of God.
I wish I could see what they look Like and if they have the the both gender what will be their sexual relationship if they have sex with both male and female
Children born in polygamous marriage never want to be in one… we need to hear their side. Topic consideration
Really? They all don't ?
@@bonganiyasharahla8488 Yes. It’s the pits.
You are right, I'd rather be single than be in that mess
It's official. I'm addicted to your podcasts. Your future is tooo bright 🔥🔥 Lebo! And Dimakatso's humility just won me over! Such a sweet human being!
Yes very humble.
@@suzannaandrea4306 xppp.}
Dimakatso's story touched me. I wish THEY had a choice to decide for THEMSELVES at birth. Society kills us.💔
I suspect even medically it’s perceived as biological mistake that’s why they opt for correction
Societal pressure is the worst.
I wish they didn't do surgery on these babies and wait until puberty and let the families decide what they want to do at that point.
How I love Dimakatso's honesty and vulnerability. They are so beautiful to watch and listen to.
Such discussions shed more light on why religion should play far from issues of sex, sexual orientation, gender and identity as well as sexuality in general. They butcher it and harm lots of people in the process.
I think sex and sexuality are a religious forte because of the deep impact they have on the soul. Biological phenomena however is a different story. The sooner we can separate biological Intersexuality from the act or practice of sexuality and see it for what it is a legitimate biological condition the clearer the role is for religion in this dialogue. Spiritual insight is important here too. Dimakatso knows her God and its her and her parent's faith in The God Of Jacob that has brought her to this depth of Ministry and Activism- That's what she said. So we definitely can't disregard the importance of religious perspective however controversial it might be. Inclusion of the wholeself is important in these matters.
@@tshepozindela4618 Interestingly, on the spiritual level we chose our sexual orientation
@@tshepozindela4618 by "impact on the soul" you mean psyche? The church chose a domain they should have no business in and monopolized lies about a subject or subjects they have zero knowledge in.
@@bonganihadebe2422 Explain your hypothesis
Hey Jerome. Good to meet you in these streets☺
Nice work Lebo♥️🔥. Next I’d like to see you interview parents of convicted killers… kinda like a “I gave birth to a killer” episode
Would be interesting
Seconded...
hope she consider this, it would be interesting to watch
That's sends shivers to my spine
I would like that too
Wow I grew up knowing and going to church with Katso! Love how she is educating our community on being Intersex. Keep going dear!
Why do u guys feel such a need to learn about other people's sex drive?😂 you're sick!
I’m actually addicted to these podcasts. Ground breaking! dialogues🙌🏾. I love how you dissect topics and respect your guests. Upwards and forward to you Relebogile ❤️👌🏾
I don’t think I’ve watched a show much educational such as this one!. It compels you to be open-minded; not to mention Relebogile’s stellar interviewing skills❤️.
It’s not educational because ambiguous genitalia is neither male or female meaning they don’t have both a penis and a vagina. The genitalia failed to develop which is why it’s ambiguous it doesn’t fit into male or female.
😭😭😭😭my uncle and aunt destroyed my cousin, i wish they can listen to this, she/ he was born with both and they decided that she/ he was a boy, now that she/he is grown,she/ he is more on the female side, it is exactly what Dimakatso explained🙏
I think 🤔 we need to leave the child like that and decide later on which is more functional 🤔🤷
I think it's best to kill an abomination at birth,beforenit even growns to cause disgust and confusion.
There is no such thing as an infant being born with both a vagina and penis, the genitalia was more likely ambiguous meaning. it didn’t develop into a penis or vagina. Many intersex would still fit into binary categories as male or female those with ambiguous genitalia didn’t develop into male or female which is why it’s referred to as ambiguous. It’s neither male or female.
There is no such thing as an infant being born with both a vagina and penis, the genitalia was more likely ambiguous meaning. it didn’t develop into a penis or vagina. Many intersex would still fit into binary categories as male or female those with ambiguous genitalia didn’t develop into male or female which is why it’s referred to as ambiguous. It’s neither male or female genitalia because it didn’t’ develop.
with an open mind it was my first time hearing about this and i got educated on this matter
Love from Botswana.. Love how informative this show is ♥🙏🏾
I Love how you handle every interview with so much grace! You're amazing at what you do. We're constantly unlearning and learning. Thank you Aus' Lebo. ❤️
Wow very impressive, big ups to you Relebogile and your team for the outstanding and extensive work you guys do and continue doing, well thought through topics and research done. What makes it more outstanding it’s your focus on ordinary people (not celebrities/icons) and cover all types and kinds of thorny and sensitive issues that exists within our society. I must say that indeed this show is educational, I wish it can get more and more publicity. These are conversations that should be openly held in our societies. Also a big thanks to your brave and bold guests/interviewees who come forward and share so much with us. 👌🏽👌🏽👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽
Wow what a discussion, God is good. I don't want to offend anyone. Born and raised in America for so long Race, Sex, Genders, Gentrification, Love, Marriage and Christianity. I have looked at and tried to study these subjects every since I was a teenager trying to find my own sexuality. In many foreign countries most people they can't afford the physicians, psychiatrist and surgery. I am told they go on to live their lives happily and healthy as possible. Having Marriages, Spouses, Children and Families that understand and support them.
We need to talk more about this topic so people can understand why people are the way they are as Gay, straight, bisexual, intersexual.
I really love how both guests represented themselves. This was very educative🙏🏾
Dimakatso I admire your Peace ❤️ you are in such a healthy state of mind…
Such a positive and forgiving and greatful spirit.You are an evolved person.Definitely next level
Relebogile I like how you talk less and let your guests speak more. No interjection and no making the interview about you. And how you respect your guests and boundaries, yet you are able to retrieve desired answers. You are a gem and a marvel to watch and listen. Well done sesi👌🏽👌🏽❤️🙏🏽
I love this channel, It’s unboxing societal standards. We are slowly unlearning the limited information that was given to us to fit “the world standard”. We grow up so limited but with conversations like these, we have hope for freedom. May God continue reveal.
I once heard Dima's interview with Bishop Maphonga, I love his confidence and may God grant me the senerity to accept things I can not change like Dimakatso...
Remove 'his'
Their confidence, Dimakatso does not identify as a man or woman, they explained that.
I'd like to see this interview, GPS?
@@Sound.Mind.840 search for Bishop Maphonga and intersex talk
@@ntandomtshali6661 thanks, I found it
I think these kind of surgeries mustn't be done on babies or kids... The individual would have to do that themselves when they reach a certain age to give consent.
My daughter was also born intersexed god bless you and your strength but my daughter also struggles with a life threatening medical condition
I wish I could meet Dimakatso, what an amazing human being!
Well spoken.
@@Yvonne7220 yes biden blk ppl can be well spoken too. Shocked huh
I love you Dimakatso you're such a beautiful soul pumpkin and yes you're SPECIAL.By accepting and loving yourself you're a star in my sky.I wish you all the best in life
Nope, they only spoke colonisers language,that's not exactly being well spoken to me. Know your own then we can see the true you, not this rehearsed nonsense.
This was deep,yoh, i disnt know much about intersex. I feel Dimakatso, i hear Dimakatso loud and clear. Thank you for educating us as i let it sink, sommer post part 2 Lebo
This is so educational! Didn’t realise you could be intersex and not know it!
Wow there is a great deal to learn in life. The beautiful lesson is accepting the way that God has made us and choose to be who you are and not what people want you to be. Powerful message. Thank you for airing this conversation sis.
You're amazing Rele, the world needs to see your interviews, there's so much to learn. Thank you♥️
This show was very informative. I learned how to be kind and sensitive towards others feelings. Thank you 🙏🏿
Hey Katso, we went to the same school and class, nice seeing how you've grown hun and wish you nothing but the best, I am super proud of you ❤️😍❤️
I agree, this podcast deserves an AWARD. thanks for educating us.
Dimakatso.... I love you! I see God in you, and in you I see what peace look and sound like. Namaste 🙏🏾
I had shared the link with my colleagues in the health fraternity as the experiment experiences messed up with me in an unbelievable manner. The things we do unintentionally thinking that we are helping yet we are causing such a devastating damage.
Dimakatso is not happy about how things turned around, even how Dimakatso says the parents chose what they wanted annoys Dimakatso, for a while I didn't understand this binary classification, but listening to Dimakatso I can tell it really affect many in a long run and in silence.
I am learning alot and thank you Lebo for these opportunities.
For a good part of my pregnancy with him, it was believed that my son was intersexed and I recall medical staff telling us that we can "have it taken care of" shortly after birth. I remember thinking WTF - I'm not going to rush - why would we cut off/sew up before we know what they want?! As it turned out he was born with all male genitalia/XY but it was upside down and the urinary opening not on the penis- surgery was required for functioning, but nothing was added/removed (except a urethra which was too short to urinate healthily).
I applaud this broadcast because I think the medical community and the law needs to prohibit/ban these elective surgeries on intersexed infants.
My cousin gave birth to 4 children with the both genitals, the doctors could identify which one is more active and they should make the other one not to function,
Wow Dimakatso is full of positivity and full of wisdom such a brilliant human being
"Doctors were fixing something which wasn't broken"
Exactly
I'm always looking forward to this time of a weekday. I always learn a thing or two here, Aus Lebo: we appreciate you and this channel, and of course the guests that are always sharing a part of themselves with us.❤🙏
Wow!! I just found this channel last week and subscribed.
I have never really thought about this topic, but I'm sure l would've thought people want to be either or. You guys have certainly made me think and l thank you for educating me.
Really informative, well put together and a very good watch! 👌🏾
Super proud of Katso.
I love the fact that you continue to share your story.
You are touching alot people.
Growing up near you really really taught us alot.
I would like to meet and hug Dimakatso, we share the same surname and both come from Diepkloof.
Love the fact they're explaining the medical aspect.
Pls note I'm not for the LGBT whatever I'm just fully aware that some persons Are born that way. For the other I leave you to the most high. I'll give an example of someone I knew on her death bed constantly cried prayed and pleaded to God to forgive her for the life she chose to live. Now like I said that's between her and the Most High.
Greetings from the UK - Thank you for creating and sharing this video - this was so interesting, educational, fascinating and eye - opening. I definitely learnt something new today.
In Xhosa we call them ITALASI I stand to be corrected though as growing up we knew that intersex people they exist amongst us but was a topic never touched at all. Well-done for this education 👏🙌👌
True sisi
mna i thought sasiqhathwa nje until i listened to this video and we used to joke about it
Thank you for this beautiful, thorough interview. This was so eye opening!
I always look forward to these episodes everytime
Ooh, they're soo right because there was nothing wrong with having both genetalia being there if that's how you were born as. To operate without understanding what's actually going to eventually come out. I'm encouraged by the courage that this guy has❤. You are such a gem. Bless you!💗
Knowledge we don't think is necessarily needed........ I've come to learn to respect people's journeys for what they are Just because I haven't lived your life doesn't mean now because it's different from mine I should have something to say about it being wrong or how I think it should be...... N I've gotten to really understand the fundament of acceptance 🕯️🕯️🕯️such light
This show is so informative and should be on bigger platforms , more people will be open minded and less ignorant.
Thank you Relebogile, your topics are so relevant and informative.
Your work deserves an Oscar 💖
I’m grateful for this channel, so informative and I love how Rele deals with these topics. Bringing these unpopular opinions to the forefront. I really am really learning a lot. Thank you❤️
Wow what a topic 🤔. Growing up in Ga Molepo we used to hear the term sekgalamatome but we didn't quite understand it. Now I am 45 yrs old and it is making sense when I connect the dots about the people who "were" actually intersex and I grew up together with them without ever understanding
This channel needs more subscribers. Great content 😍
Wow, quite an educational episode this was. I've learned a lot from this. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me too
We’re learning so much 🤌🏽🥺
Personally I don’t believe we should be ignorant
I love this channel 🔥
I love this channel too😩🔥
Very interesting, very informative and very educational. Excellent work aus' Relebogile and team❤
I love the openness. Very transparent program that help us to come to terms with our situations. Thanks Kelly.
This show is incredible including the host on how she unpack her questions. Being open-minded gives you a room to learn a lot of things without judging/expectations.
🕯️For God to continue working on our understanding and being open minded
This is so painful I feel her/his pain.But the God fearing is so touching I’m all tears
This is our natural form millions of years ago when we were as the physical representation of the Divine Female & Male as 1 being. In the astral we are discussing if we should return to such a state or remain separated as we ascend & return to a higher frequencies. Glad to see the conversation has reached so quickly. Shows it is being taken seriously. There is also a group that was asking to return to our Seahorse style of reproduction. I like being able to experience another being myself.
This is why it’s important to recall your dreams😇 You actually go somewhere and do things.
You're wonderfully and perfectly made ❤, grateful for your stories, very eye opening 🙏🏼
This has me thinking about permissions..like operating to remove the genitalia, or even a foreskin, or extra fingers or toes..the baby can't make a choice whether to keep it or have it removed. It doesn't seem fair
I think in the same way that parents should be careful to not make such irreversible decisions hastily, we should appreciate that they probably also do it because they think it'll make the child's life easier. It's usually easier to want to look for someone to blame for our suffering, but sometimes there isn't necessarily anyone to blame.
@@khutjodiphofe2245 While I agree, I want to add that there is stigma attached to being different. Perhaps we as a society could learn something about differences and to accept them, if stories like this have a platform. There are also practical concerns, especially in the case of extra toes, like possibly struggling to find shoes that fit..anyways, thanks for your perspective
An eye opener bcs I was raised to be that having two genitals was taboo but deep down I tot it was mith😪great full to the show for opening my mind and trully going deeper on the issue and raising my awareness ❤Thank you so much
This was very interesting and informative.
Extremely well done.
I'm gonna be looking at more of your videos!!
Thanks for this!
Thank you Lebo this show is so interesting. I have learnt a lot, especially with the LGBTQIA+ community. We would be very happy to learn about the other sexualities such as queer and asexulity, please.
Thank you Relebogile, you are blessed with the gift of communication. I love tge way you ask questions and unpack everything.Your show deserves an Oscar 👏🏾👏🏾
This is definitely one topic to be unpacked! Can't wait to watch 👏
There is a need for us to communicate better with our kids. Just be open. And also not be ashamed of things we cannot change.
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Sending love to both Garfield and Crystal.
Thank you Kelebogile and the team for an amazing work with your show. To many more untold stories✊
Me, being an intersex, is my normality and my reality. It is who I am and who I want to be. Thank God for you Dimakatso I Love you ❤️
Dimakatso is a strong person and ur parents were right when they say u r so special.i love the fact that u love ur self conditionally. May the Lord be with u my dear.im so touched
Part 2 plz can't wait
Most interesting topic we here to learn ...
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I am new to the channel and binge watching all the episodes. You are doing sterler job Lebo. Keep up the good work.
Thank you for this necessary and very informative chat ❤️❤️
This is the best podcast, I'll keep on coming. Please, some constructive criticism, please talk a little less and let the interviewee talk more. That would take it from 9/10 to 10/10!
Gosh, you are Oprah in the making👸 they way you handle your show it's magical I could listen to you the whole day.
She's better than Oprah!
That is an insult! Oprah doesn't do a good job, just got a headstart by white women who supported her only because she was a black woman. She also interrupts her guests too much and pretty rude!
I have learned so much from this channel and this interview is so necessary Lebo. I thank you and am grateful for the information you share with us. I always look forward to the updates and new episodes. 🙌🙌 I wish all the best to both Dimakatso and Crystal. Dimakatso's story is touching. 💐
Wow Relebogile, I love this channel. Such amazing content and discussions. I am learning so much from these episodes. Well done sisi. Great work 👏👏👏
I know uKatso. Our families are very close, I consider katso's siblings my sisters. I never knew ukhuthi they were born like this. Funny because I never considered them male or female while growing up. I thought they was lesbian. Their story is inspiring. Hope you see my comment. I miss you.
What a sweet comment.
An eye opener. Thank you
I hope some of my questions will be answered in part 2. A fitting name for a person like 'them', Dimakatso. ❤️
You are heroes Dimakatso and Chrystal sent here by God to show the world how to be strong resilient and have self love above everything else and I take my hat off to you. Stay strong 🎩💪❤️👍
I really appreciate this episode Sis Relebogile❤. I was also born intersex. #EndIntersexSurgery🇿🇦💜💛💜💛💜💛.
and I really wish to meet both Garfield and Christel😍
i love Dima oh my gosh...talk about acceptance at its best
Thanks for these Uploads 💯It's Encouraging for the 1.7%of the population who might Feel Alone in their Afflictions and Intersex Journey 🇧🇴💯
Having a God’s fearing parents 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dimakatso what an amazing soul.Thanks for teaching us to reflect on our bi
I just love this and what you are doing in this community!!!! You are amazing and gurl you are killing the looks always looking on point
It must be hard dealing with things of such magnitude. I was born as a woman with every body parts in working conditions however I cannot carry any children. Pregnant several times but my body was not meant to carry a baby.
Am I bitter ? Sure I do to this day. The sad part is that I did want kids and now my body is going into menopause which is the natural process of aging. Life sucks real bad.
I love this show so much! It's now officially my favourite show of all time. I learn so much from each episode.
Garfield's energy is so amazing!
Thank you Rele and team for consistently creating such interesting, educational, and mind opening content.
You are the best!
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