I Waited for My White Fiancé My Whole Life - Now I'm 103 and Still a Virgin

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • Meet Mariam, a 103-year-old woman who kept her promise and stayed a virgin, waiting for her white fiancé who never returned.
    Despite a life full of hardships and suitors, she held onto hope and love for a century.
    Discover her incredible story of love, loss, and unwavering faith.
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Комментарии • 2,6 тыс.

  • @lovemeyouall
    @lovemeyouall 2 месяца назад +5234

    At 103 years old she is walking around without wheelchair or cane. Eyesight amazing as well. Wow!

    • @KawaMargarita-zw9ic
      @KawaMargarita-zw9ic 2 месяца назад +107

      God's grace.

    • @skhoemalele9715
      @skhoemalele9715 2 месяца назад +299

      I think this sex thing is the one that finishes us all😂

    • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
      @SasaSasa-wy9wu 2 месяца назад +159

      @@skhoemalele9715pretty much- kids and drama from men

    • @GodsChild-1331
      @GodsChild-1331 2 месяца назад +20

      Yes...That is a Blessing....

    • @faylambert6475
      @faylambert6475 2 месяца назад +10

      you can say that again

  • @jillanejames4590
    @jillanejames4590 Месяц назад +2406

    After listening to this story, I hope it never happens to another person.

    • @beatricekayiya9270
      @beatricekayiya9270 Месяц назад +48

      You can say that again. What could be so urgent that he could not spare a ln hour or 30 minutes to communicate. If there were no cellphones, he would have gone to ssy goodbye

    • @gakbar7225
      @gakbar7225 Месяц назад +12

      Me too 😢

    • @stephandalton2390
      @stephandalton2390 Месяц назад +19

      Nothing "happened" to anyone. She made a choice.

    • @d.h4421
      @d.h4421 Месяц назад

      You’re next

    • @MrFirebomb969
      @MrFirebomb969 Месяц назад +11

      @@stephandalton2390She had a boyfriend who left or disappeared without saying anything. She didn't have to wait, but if he left her on purpose without saying anything, he could have said something. If he didn't leave on purpose and something happened to him, that's still sad to have occurred.

  • @Princesskia94
    @Princesskia94 Месяц назад +971

    The original ghoster! Being ghosted 83 years ago is crazy. John, I know you’ve probably passed on and can’t hear me, and you damn sure didn’t know that this poor beautiful lady was still waiting for you but YOU AINT SH!T!!!! 😭😭😭

    • @johanna5688
      @johanna5688 26 дней назад +67

      He certainly knows this, from beyond the grave. He was a bastard & sure enough, he got his just desserts over yonder. I'm sure she will meet him one day in spirit when he will apologise profusely. It's a thing with young men, and esp European ones, to ghost women. They just play the field, then run away.😢😮

    • @ThePrryns
      @ThePrryns 26 дней назад +56

      For all you know, he could have been murdered in the night and buried before sunrise. No one would have known.

    • @kgkg4118
      @kgkg4118 21 день назад +4

      If she doesn't speak English, how did she communicate with John?

    • @Princesskia94
      @Princesskia94 20 дней назад +20

      @@kgkg4118 John was a missionary he most likely spoke their language or had an interpreter

    • @imanifields807
      @imanifields807 19 дней назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Akim35425
    @Akim35425 Месяц назад +965

    Her beauty didn't fade 😮 she's 103 and looks 75! Amazing

    • @18lison
      @18lison 10 дней назад +3

      Yh that's perfect only 75

    • @crypton_8l87
      @crypton_8l87 9 дней назад +4

      she's probably 75

    • @notknown6605
      @notknown6605 3 дня назад

      She looks 87 at least

  • @samayaafrica2137
    @samayaafrica2137 2 месяца назад +3447

    Never wait for a man or woman that left without saying goodbye. Life is too short to the waiting for ghost

  • @nadiastar6264
    @nadiastar6264 2 месяца назад +6459

    Never waste your life waiting for a man.

  • @TheGreaterBenefic
    @TheGreaterBenefic Месяц назад +1479

    Moral of a story: NEVER wait for anybody, especially a man.

    • @zitaabdullah9665
      @zitaabdullah9665 Месяц назад +28

      That's right I agree a men love is not through

    • @lonelyberg1808
      @lonelyberg1808 Месяц назад +12

      I don't agree with you, I think it depends on the situation.

    • @Chubbbbyyyyyy
      @Chubbbbyyyyyy Месяц назад +20

      You can wait for that "Special someone" but don't wait forever. Action speaks louder than words. Disappearing without saying a word or even leaving a letter of explanation, should tell her "Don't wait for John".

    • @victoriathawbroi3116
      @victoriathawbroi3116 28 дней назад

      Really that's true

    • @user-dv8dt3mw7w
      @user-dv8dt3mw7w 28 дней назад +5

      To wait or not to depends on my circumstances. I'll just take logical decision, as I think I should myself and people around me.

  • @Essykimz_1
    @Essykimz_1 Месяц назад +441

    The minute he left without good bye would have been the day I forgot about him. This should be made to a movie

    • @Truffles563
      @Truffles563 Месяц назад +28

      Exactly. I would be long ago with another date the next day or so.

    • @ChadliteOG
      @ChadliteOG 10 дней назад

      ​@@Truffles563304 cat lady

    • @midghiro734
      @midghiro734 9 дней назад

      Because you dont have values or caracter 🤫

    • @rrrealqueen
      @rrrealqueen 9 дней назад +6

      Out of sight out of mind 😂

    • @jessicaroch5782
      @jessicaroch5782 8 дней назад

      ​@@rrrealqueen yep 🙏🏻🤭

  • @jessrowe1
    @jessrowe1 2 месяца назад +2134

    He really lost the most wonderful woman he would ever know

    • @GodsChild-1331
      @GodsChild-1331 2 месяца назад +36

      Yes...

    • @slaitracy7
      @slaitracy7 Месяц назад +80

      Why blaming him if u don’t know what happened. Why he left and reason he never came back

    • @jessrowe1
      @jessrowe1 Месяц назад +126

      @@slaitracy7 You are right. I should not be making assumptions. However, in my head, I was thinking that no matter the reason he left (aside from being murdered) he missed out. I really just wanted to comment on what an amazing woman she is and most men are looking for that kind of loyalty. Seems like she would have stuck by him through thick and thin. She could be making things up, but let’s say we believe everything she is saying……seems suspicious on his part kind of. I hope he didn’t get hurt. 😞

    • @RodneyKimbangu
      @RodneyKimbangu Месяц назад +21

      @@slaitracy7 innocent until proven guilty attitude. You are a rare breed!

    • @rebeccabanda1605
      @rebeccabanda1605 Месяц назад +15

      That's if his alive😢

  • @jovianamuddu1384
    @jovianamuddu1384 Месяц назад +2166

    She is a true definition of "Patience is not always a virtue"

    • @Zaitoon55
      @Zaitoon55 Месяц назад +92

      Impatient me would wait only 2 weeks before moving on😅🤓. I'd prepare a good explanation in case he returned. With a few crocodile tears.

    • @blessed7645
      @blessed7645 Месяц назад +19

      ​@@Zaitoon55😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kristelangels6700
      @kristelangels6700 Месяц назад +2

      😢

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +5

      Yes, you are 💯 % correct 👏

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +3

      @@Zaitoon55 😆 😂

  • @JetsettersRus
    @JetsettersRus Месяц назад +392

    Well, she basically cheated herself out of TRULY living life & having life's experiences. LADIES, don't make this same mistake and waste your life away!!!

    • @debralondon2402
      @debralondon2402 Месяц назад +5

      True

    • @kgkg4118
      @kgkg4118 21 день назад +5

      So many women in the US do this....they are waiting for the perfect man that's never coming. They waste their life away waiting for perfection, then later regret passing on decent guys because they didn't have the latest car or enough status to impress their friends/family

    • @kgkg4118
      @kgkg4118 21 день назад +18

      I will say this though, the sad part is most men WISH they could find a woman THIS loyal...and the one guy who did find one didn't even care. That's life for ya

    • @JetsettersRus
      @JetsettersRus 20 дней назад

      @@kgkg4118 AGREED!!! 💯👍🏽

    • @ryokohonda4619
      @ryokohonda4619 12 дней назад +1

      Doubt nobody would wait 80 years for a man.

  • @JP2GiannaT
    @JP2GiannaT 18 дней назад +142

    I know she got cheated...but there's something hopelessly romantic and noble about that kind of loyalty.

    • @DontLikeCubes
      @DontLikeCubes 8 дней назад +2

      How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

    • @vanilla0012
      @vanilla0012 7 дней назад +2

      He left without even saying goodbye ​@@DontLikeCubes

    • @Carolina-cb6hp
      @Carolina-cb6hp 7 дней назад

      I think is dumb, but I agree with you at the same time... Haha

    • @Zeth-x8q
      @Zeth-x8q 4 дня назад +2

      ​@@vanilla0012 Maybe because he *knew* she wont let him go. So he chose to broke her heart and doesnt give her any hope becaue he will die soon.
      But yeah, true love never dies. That girl is real personificatom of true love.

  • @DrRose-wm8xl
    @DrRose-wm8xl Месяц назад +3938

    John went back home after his VACATION, got married, had kids, grandkids, and great grandchildren then passed away decades ago…….

    • @veronicaharry7581
      @veronicaharry7581 Месяц назад +284

      It could be the case

    • @Zaitoon55
      @Zaitoon55 Месяц назад +740

      Most likely so!! Reason he left without saying goodbye, He knew she was deeply attached to him and couldn't look her in the eyes to say goodbye. It was easier for him to just disappear in thin air.

    • @lailaalanna315
      @lailaalanna315 Месяц назад +452

      ​@@Zaitoon55this is very possible. He was also likely already engaged or had a betrothed back home 😢

    • @BRKS627
      @BRKS627 Месяц назад +167

      Well said 😆 I said the same thing. She was just somebody to sleep with while he was over there.

    • @lydianartey6150
      @lydianartey6150 Месяц назад

      He didn't sleep with her, the woman is still a virgin​@@BRKS627

  • @LiLisLounge
    @LiLisLounge Месяц назад +1549

    The depth of her love for him is deep. But I think the lesson in here is clear: at some point it is time to move on, heal, and be open to finding a new love.

    • @mukisaqueen2566
      @mukisaqueen2566 Месяц назад +20

      Honestly with this strong i gat to move on😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +12

      Amen, you said it 💯 % right! 😢

    • @Saffire2023
      @Saffire2023 Месяц назад +7

      I agree.

    • @user-ib9hy9fz7d
      @user-ib9hy9fz7d Месяц назад +7

      Honestly nobody could not advice this grandmother plan B

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse Месяц назад +4

      So true ❤❤❤❤

  • @moonlightpaw5868
    @moonlightpaw5868 Месяц назад +115

    Never wait for people who ghosted you. But again, she did not know better. You can’t blame her

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Месяц назад +24

      Finally somebody that understands. She lived in the rural areas, so she did not understand the ways of Europeans, the ways men act, and many other things. So sad

    • @DontLikeCubes
      @DontLikeCubes 8 дней назад +1

      How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

    • @DontLikeCubes
      @DontLikeCubes 8 дней назад +2

      ​@@pureone8350How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

    • @moonlightpaw5868
      @moonlightpaw5868 2 дня назад

      @@DontLikeCubes You don’t wait for dead people. That is common sense

  • @pattyhansen7563
    @pattyhansen7563 Месяц назад +126

    very sad. She looked to him to 'rescue' her & he looked to her as an 'escape' & that is NOT true love. He inhabited a world where he could NEVER take her back as a bride. And he was looking at her 'world' as a vacation from the hustle & bustle. I am sure he looked at it as a fling that could never be carried back home & 'forgot' about her & moved on. She, naively, thought he would come back & banked on the wrong guy.

    • @dollhouseq1530
      @dollhouseq1530 Месяц назад +23

      I agree with everything except her love not being real. She rejected other proposals for him. Her love has lasted decades

    • @ashleykindheartministries
      @ashleykindheartministries 23 дня назад +4

      I went to India alone and got married to a man, then we found out that he couldn’t automatically get a visa to come to the United States. So we are stuck in India, four children and seven years later!

    • @manasac3102
      @manasac3102 9 дней назад +1

      ​​​@@ashleykindheartministriesthat beats his purpose lol coz he probably wanted to marry you for the citizenship and also for your color. Atleast you gave him one, so maybe your marriage will last.

    • @suhazareer1950
      @suhazareer1950 8 дней назад +1

      @@ashleykindheartministries Are you happy?

    • @ashleykindheartministries
      @ashleykindheartministries 8 дней назад +3

      @@suhazareer1950 Yes😊❤️ We are expecting our fifth soon.

  • @imanilukellalovehopefaith1355
    @imanilukellalovehopefaith1355 Месяц назад +958

    she looks great at 103 she's blessed

  • @xx-lk3bx
    @xx-lk3bx Месяц назад +4441

    She is 103, lived a stress free life from men and kids. It could be the secret to longevity, ladies.

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +324

      Her life was not stress free. It was riddled with pain and worry. She brought this upon herself, and she is very stubborn. 😣 Part of the reason is because she wanted so much to be the special one who married a white man. She knew that she would never get that chance again... Do you know how rare that was in those days?

    • @AFRICAN-TALES.3447
      @AFRICAN-TALES.3447 Месяц назад +30

      😂😂😂

    • @Adaobilinda123
      @Adaobilinda123 Месяц назад +18

      😂😂😂

    • @JCB671
      @JCB671 Месяц назад +119

      I agree! And she's still beautiful, and doesn't need any walking assistance. That's amazing !
      I'm 45 , and started my celibate journey a few yrs ago, I do find myself looking better and younger since.

    • @alaabukhari6506
      @alaabukhari6506 Месяц назад +28

      Objectively, the possibility of a woman developing uterine cance is higher if she never had children.

  • @TessaBriggs-t7e
    @TessaBriggs-t7e Месяц назад +55

    A man will let you down, you don't live your life for them you live your life for God.

  • @Dinaya23
    @Dinaya23 Месяц назад +41

    The smile on her face while talking about John, pure love!

  • @Seaotters.and.smiles
    @Seaotters.and.smiles Месяц назад +733

    This poor woman is the true definition of naive hopeless love. I hope her end days are well and good. I hope she finds closure on this in her heart before she closes her eyes too.

    • @baishnavi3309
      @baishnavi3309 Месяц назад

      Are you an indian?

    • @Seaotters.and.smiles
      @Seaotters.and.smiles Месяц назад +25

      @@baishnavi3309 AND. What does that have to do with anything? 🤔

    • @DontLikeCubes
      @DontLikeCubes 8 дней назад +2

      How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

    • @Seaotters.and.smiles
      @Seaotters.and.smiles 8 дней назад +8

      @@DontLikeCubes Nobody is jumping to conclusions. Whether or not this man passed away or just continued living his life. The fact is she never saw or heard from him again but hung on to the hope he would return to be with her. That is very naive. And not calling it for what it is, is also quite naive.

    • @DontLikeCubes
      @DontLikeCubes 8 дней назад

      @@Seaotters.and.smiles Are you an indian?

  • @simplelife4019
    @simplelife4019 2 месяца назад +972

    And this is how she survived until 103 years...hope is a strong force..

    • @Bethkaranjatbx
      @Bethkaranjatbx Месяц назад +4

      Hahaha 😆 😂 😆

    • @sir_tt_maths
      @sir_tt_maths Месяц назад +1

      For real 🤞🏾

    • @user-xb2qd6ik6d
      @user-xb2qd6ik6d Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 Месяц назад +9

      Yes, it is hopefully someone watch this video
      knew about John and so Mariam Hussein is going
      to have a closure of what happen of his beloved John.

    • @Menagerie_K
      @Menagerie_K Месяц назад

      This I what happens when you choose the bear. You survive

  • @vannhantran547
    @vannhantran547 Месяц назад +160

    Her purity level is beyond this lustful world

    • @lijohnyoutube101
      @lijohnyoutube101 22 дня назад +7

      It’s just sad, poor woman

    • @lenkamuhammadova1463
      @lenkamuhammadova1463 16 дней назад +1

      ​@@lijohnyoutube101
      Why sorry for her,she was delusional and didn't appreciate men who would love her .

    • @lijohnyoutube101
      @lijohnyoutube101 16 дней назад +1

      @@lenkamuhammadova1463 because she deserved a better life.

    • @elsa2885
      @elsa2885 9 дней назад +4

      ​@@lenkamuhammadova1463 bcoz she was in love with only one man and stayed loyal for her whole life why would she see another man when she already has one man in her mind . Not everyone can have 4 partners and marry them altogether some are dedicated to only one whole life .
      Don't blame her u can't imagine the dept for her love . If she didn't choose any other man than how is supposed to appreciate another man for whom she don't have any feelings.

  • @dlina
    @dlina 27 дней назад +26

    She never lost her beauty.. her eyes say it all… that spark… sadly her story is a tragedy. I think he died in the war. May they meet in the life after and mariam get the answers she waited all her life for. She deserves it all.
    I’m sorry it had to go this way mariam🖤 i think you were too good for any man on this world. You deserved much more and you will get it. I promise🖤

    • @colinbrown9044
      @colinbrown9044 5 минут назад

      I think he died in the war aswell. And Im certiain there love was true.

    • @colinbrown9044
      @colinbrown9044 3 минуты назад

      I have a beautiful African women Im apart from. So I understand, and I know he saw her value. And the love went both ways.

  • @StoryAnimatedSM-ct7tf
    @StoryAnimatedSM-ct7tf Месяц назад +1222

    Oh, mama, he really captured your heart. His memories still bring a smile to your face whenever you talk about him. Have you ever had a special connection with someone or something that left such lasting, joyful memories?

    • @MonikaBatham-mq1po
      @MonikaBatham-mq1po Месяц назад +7

      Yes

    • @iidentifyasjeffbezos
      @iidentifyasjeffbezos Месяц назад

      This woman was just thirsty for a white man, I 100% believe seeing John made her less attracted to black men which is why she turned them down,
      and I believe even more that if another white man asked her out, she would have said yes & followed him to Europe, she was tranced by his colored 'sparkling' eyes & colored hair.
      John was never serious about her.

    • @87Breeezy
      @87Breeezy Месяц назад +2

      It was real and I was there…

    • @jennyrosa553
      @jennyrosa553 Месяц назад +15

      Yes! and is so sad and annoying! This type of live is never reciprocated 😢ohhhhhh
      I wish to no body

    • @caomailan1986
      @caomailan1986 12 дней назад +3

      or he may be killed at her village because he disappeared without a word.

  • @Dream_more_age_less
    @Dream_more_age_less 2 месяца назад +1256

    My intuition tells me that John died in WW2; because of her age...He probably received news of the war and was drafted upon his return to Europe.

    • @nicolasmith6334
      @nicolasmith6334 Месяц назад +212

      I think he died too

    • @nadiastar6264
      @nadiastar6264 Месяц назад +104

      I think he was kidnapped and killed

    • @Dream_more_age_less
      @Dream_more_age_less Месяц назад +210

      @@nadiastar6264 Could be that some locals became envious of him...But he sounded too invested in the village, to just leave and never return.

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Месяц назад +117

      ​@@Dream_more_age_less The guy like lots of white men taking advantage of african women just left her behind

    • @whoistayah
      @whoistayah Месяц назад +56

      @@Dream_more_age_lessCIA does that when they are planted in Africa. Convinced the whole village. That’s how they operate

  • @RedFeather11
    @RedFeather11 Месяц назад +24

    Moral of the story: Be single, live long.

    • @giovannigiorgio2262
      @giovannigiorgio2262 Месяц назад +1

      +

    • @royaibrahimi6382
      @royaibrahimi6382 2 дня назад +1

      😂👏

    • @ChristinaWoodard-m5x
      @ChristinaWoodard-m5x 12 минут назад

      I could never support this type of lifestyle. Being a virgin ones entire life is not desired and I don't condone it unless it's that person's personal choice.

  • @firaca100
    @firaca100 Месяц назад +153

    She is 103??? If i didn't read the title, i would have guessed that she is around 60s. She look healthy

    • @learnersguide13
      @learnersguide13 Месяц назад +21

      70's tbh

    • @firaca100
      @firaca100 Месяц назад +6

      @@learnersguide13 okay then, 70s

    • @miapia7229
      @miapia7229 5 дней назад

      Because she’s had not had…

    • @notknown6605
      @notknown6605 3 дня назад

      You can’t be serious. She looks very old. At least over 85

  • @ChristySofia
    @ChristySofia Месяц назад +366

    Even her hair is not that white,this woman is blessed. Please God help me not to wait like this for that one I have always Loved.

    • @lilyvlogs214
      @lilyvlogs214 Месяц назад +18

      My mom told me when you cross 100 year age your teeth grow back n hairs turned black.. An example of woman in our neighbours

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova Месяц назад +11

      @@lilyvlogs214never heard that one before. Now I have to pay attention to the hair of those who reached 100

    • @AdahGoh
      @AdahGoh Месяц назад +5

      ​@@FaithandNovathis😅

    • @user-kp3rc4eq8x
      @user-kp3rc4eq8x Месяц назад +6

      Being celibate childfree manfree does that

  • @sisg.official
    @sisg.official 2 месяца назад +638

    He was her soulmate. I know the feeling. He probably died in war. She will see him in another lifetime ❤

    • @FreedahMlambo-sj1ye
      @FreedahMlambo-sj1ye Месяц назад +32

      But in that last life time relationship and marriage won't exist, but she made the best choice to remain single❤

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 Месяц назад +47

      I think they have found each other
      but in wrong time..hopefully they will
      find each other in another life time.
      The perfect song for Mariam is a Thousand
      Years. Hopefully, we can help Mariam her dream
      came true through writting a book about Mariam and
      his long lost lover. What do you think this idea?

    • @madamwakesho
      @madamwakesho Месяц назад +35

      In this digital Era, it's easy to trace anyone. Help her find him please.

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +5

      To everyone is given only one life, and then there is God's judgment for how we lived while on this earth. Hopefully, he will know that she waited all of those years just for him. 😢

    • @foxylee58
      @foxylee58 Месяц назад +19

      @@madamwakesho, help her find what became of him!

  • @NeelamSharma23500
    @NeelamSharma23500 Месяц назад +84

    Nobody is worthy of this much love, except parents....

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca Месяц назад +16

    Her face still lights up and she talks about him. Bless this beautiful lady.

  • @joyabrownsuganyundu1371
    @joyabrownsuganyundu1371 Месяц назад +276

    She didn't waste her time, she gain everything, God gave her good health and long life, 103 looking like this... Indeed God will renew our lives when we stay faithful...

    • @marianyirenda
      @marianyirenda Месяц назад +8

      Exactly,

    • @TessaBriggs-t7e
      @TessaBriggs-t7e Месяц назад +7

      Stay faithful to God. That doesn't mean stay waiting for a man that's never coming back and forgot all about you. She lived her life waiting on a man.

    • @ginaferracini9375
      @ginaferracini9375 Месяц назад +1

      So true

    • @CaapriceTube1
      @CaapriceTube1 13 дней назад

      Amen to that

  • @thandiwekubheka8471
    @thandiwekubheka8471 2 месяца назад +413

    Oh mama he really stole your heart 😢. His memories still bring smile on your face whenever you talk about him 😊.

    • @user-mo6lz7wn9q
      @user-mo6lz7wn9q 2 месяца назад +31

      It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all!

    • @mariapark7746
      @mariapark7746 2 месяца назад +16

      I also noticed it. She has so pure spirit❤

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 Месяц назад +8

      Mariam and she is one of a million because
      she 's been waiting for a long lost lover.
      Her story you can a write a book or even a possible
      movie..anyway, anything is possible under the sun.

  • @sonjak8265
    @sonjak8265 Месяц назад +81

    Still being a virgin is not the worst thing that has happened to her. Overestimating the white man is worse.

    • @scwd777-_
      @scwd777-_ 25 дней назад +3

      You have a point😐

    • @SAINTMAURICE-tl7kb
      @SAINTMAURICE-tl7kb 19 дней назад +2

      Brad is her Gawd! He can spit on her and she would still bow and worship.

    • @midghiro734
      @midghiro734 9 дней назад

      Black racist detected

    • @miapia7229
      @miapia7229 5 дней назад +1

      😂😅🤣

  • @GloryLyrics123
    @GloryLyrics123 Месяц назад +27

    103 and still strong & healthy. Wish you a longer and healthy life ahead ❤

  • @ntarestellah1151
    @ntarestellah1151 2 месяца назад +993

    Mariam, there's nothing you missed! God has given you good life, everything is ok.

  • @reginadavid4454
    @reginadavid4454 Месяц назад +331

    This generation was very faithful,their love was pure and true

    • @rosemarykui38
      @rosemarykui38 Месяц назад +6

      The GenZ is more faithful 😑💯

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Месяц назад +18

      The women maybe, and you still have women like that

    • @lindakhoumassi8340
      @lindakhoumassi8340 Месяц назад +6

      But she lost out in the end -

    • @Lina-hj8bw
      @Lina-hj8bw Месяц назад +8

      Yeah... He dissapeared suddenly 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lindakhoumassi8340
      @lindakhoumassi8340 Месяц назад +1

      @@Lina-hj8bw 😆😆

  • @daughteroftheking3220
    @daughteroftheking3220 24 дня назад +16

    She is a beautiful rare gem, a diamond in the lost see. An example to this generation especially about purity. Wow. God reward her 10 fold for her faithfulness to herself and for the person she loved even though it wasn’t reciprocated. It makes me sad. Wow there are some rare genuine people like her wow. But lesson here is don’t waste your time waiting for people. People can’t be trusted only God can. Pray about it and let God unfold your stories and bring the fruition of his plans for your life. It is truly heartbreaking he missed a diamond she is a true classy woman.

  • @RudraSingh08309
    @RudraSingh08309 Месяц назад +15

    What a beautiful story of a strong woman whose love was pure . I wish she lives her life with all happiness.

  • @user-pe8ls3sc2b
    @user-pe8ls3sc2b Месяц назад +1271

    You are 103 because you didn't marry John. Give thanks.

    • @yakshitjay7192
      @yakshitjay7192 Месяц назад +35

      What is the meaning of living for 103 years when you do not have your life partner with you? You don't have your children, you don't have that happiness. I believe that there are many sorrows that we get in married life, but the happiness that we get in the initial days is much more

    • @whosaidthat4299
      @whosaidthat4299 Месяц назад +36

      You can love yourself ❤.

    • @samanthak3353
      @samanthak3353 Месяц назад +54

      @@yakshitjay7192 You must be living somewhere outside of the West to think this way. I grew up in Asia and I used to think that way because of how the society is. Now, I am living in the US. No children and I think I am very happy. I don't plan to have any ever.

    • @windasafitri4173
      @windasafitri4173 Месяц назад +4

      Ikr

    • @WallflowerCat7
      @WallflowerCat7 Месяц назад +17

      ​@@samanthak3353 But it appears the lady in the video very much wanted love and marriage. Unfortunately the love of her life never came back and she regretted waiting. I'm sure that left her heartbroken. But to live that long is a blessing. And she looks amazing for 103

  • @jeconiashangase9177
    @jeconiashangase9177 2 месяца назад +446

    John must be dead now,because reaching 103 years is not for everyone.But I respect this old lady for sticking with her cultural beliefs and her principles.

  • @NEMBL013
    @NEMBL013 9 дней назад +7

    He could have been kidnapped and murdered, he could have left because he was a jerk. Maybe he didn’t feel worthy of her. Who knows. Thanks for sharing your story grandma 💕

  • @WorlTramp
    @WorlTramp Месяц назад +25

    If you look at the timeline he probably received word of the Great War starting and traveled back to Europe. Tanzania was part of Deutsch-Ostafrika.
    He probably died during the war

  • @theadrenalizedartist6843
    @theadrenalizedartist6843 Месяц назад +156

    Her beauty did not fade. She has a beautiful soul and looks quite young despite her 103 years. It’s a beautiful thing to love so deeply; however, it has left her alone. It’s a love unrequited, because the man did not return for whatever reason. This is a caveat. This is a reminder some people are only meant to be in our lives for a season. Sometimes we have to move on and to be open to new possibilities so that we receive what we truly desire.

  • @Pinkdaimonddragon
    @Pinkdaimonddragon Месяц назад +154

    This woman’s love is one of the most purest and endearing there is. She really deserved to have someone to love her. ❤️

    • @cooky_2076
      @cooky_2076 Месяц назад +2

      She had the love of Almighty God to live so long.

  • @Shannon71172
    @Shannon71172 29 дней назад +18

    This is one of the saddest love ❤️ stories I’ve ever heard. What a beautiful soul….🙏🏼❤️

  • @suroyaanjum1801
    @suroyaanjum1801 Месяц назад +7

    What a wasted life, he probably didn't feel the same

  • @TheVendor1260
    @TheVendor1260 Месяц назад +187

    A century old who can go down to sit on the ground and get up on her own? She's a wonder. Culturally nurtured loyalty is unbreakable. She should appreciate the gift of life and health.

    • @zitawang15
      @zitawang15 Месяц назад +8

      Her hair is not even all grey

  • @edelthehappyatheist
    @edelthehappyatheist Месяц назад +205

    Her beauty has never faded.

  • @chrislegend382
    @chrislegend382 Месяц назад +9

    Honestly she’s kicking herself for being so stubborn and not being able to let go

  • @haripriya5797
    @haripriya5797 Месяц назад +20

    I Pray John is alive to see this&sit in introspection, showing the respect that she deserves!

  • @geokola
    @geokola Месяц назад +437

    That’s why she lived so old. Her generation who got married and had children had died and forgotten. Nothing can replace peace. She’s at peace with herself. No regrets.😮

    • @jillanejames4590
      @jillanejames4590 Месяц назад +79

      There is no peace in living years with a yearning and broken heart.

    • @esteric3726
      @esteric3726 Месяц назад +32

      ​@jillanejames4590 very true. And she herself admits she has regrets too.

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +25

      Not true. In her village, it is common for people to live as long as she has. She missed out on a lot!

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Месяц назад +11

      Did we watch the same video?

    • @pinkasiadrama
      @pinkasiadrama Месяц назад +13

      She has regrets, she maybe regret for not being a mother , not having a family... 😢 My grandma died at 95 and she had 7 kids and a husband

  • @lindahchelangat7280
    @lindahchelangat7280 2 месяца назад +455

    She looks young still at that age

    • @Menagerie_K
      @Menagerie_K Месяц назад +26

      That’s because she didn’t deal with pookie

    • @271India
      @271India Месяц назад +44

      ​@cheryl_ann938she looks younger than her real age.

    • @lss4u
      @lss4u Месяц назад +38

      I agree, she looks like 70-75 max

    • @ButterflyG-ep7pi
      @ButterflyG-ep7pi Месяц назад +4

      ​@@lss4u💯 percent

    • @nikkiward1715
      @nikkiward1715 Месяц назад +3

      @@lss4ubc she is 😂

  • @lilini1152
    @lilini1152 Месяц назад +11

    She is naive and has wasted her whole life waiting for someone who does not deserve her love. For him, it was a fling.

  • @Mslindalin777
    @Mslindalin777 Месяц назад +6

    The depths that African women will go for a White or Brown man is unbelievable. If this story was about him leaving and they kept in-touch and were even penpals I could feel for her. But to give up your entire life on a hope and dream when he didn’t show it back is probably one of the most senseless tales told. I wouldn’t have given this a storyline, for what purpose?

  • @selamyilma4989
    @selamyilma4989 Месяц назад +151

    Living single is the way to longevity, free of stress from men, marriage etc

  • @Phoenix11419
    @Phoenix11419 Месяц назад +121

    She is of a different generation and that’s what most women did . Remain virtuous and trusting. Those were times that marriage meant something! She hoped for that😢. I do not blame her her journey is her own.
    I was caring for a lady in an old people’s home whose fiancé went to war and never came back. She also never married even in later years of her life deteriorating mental health and as dementia took over her life she walked around looking and calling his name. Her story is so similar the only difference is this woman is in Tanzania and Dorothy was in the UK.

    • @kell2229
      @kell2229 Месяц назад +7

      I have a feeling this guy got called to war and didn't make it

  • @shresho2817
    @shresho2817 5 дней назад +2

    She faced the loss but the guy lost probably the most precious thing you can get in life.

  • @shiz1246
    @shiz1246 Месяц назад +6

    Dear sweet baby Jesus, all I want in life is to have my skin look mine hers when I’m 103. Thanks in advance 🙏🏾

  • @MariaDiaz-vs8en
    @MariaDiaz-vs8en 2 месяца назад +199

    103 year old, Mariam is a blessing to us... Lets us know that GOD is very much alive... Blessings & Prayers🤗❤🙏

  • @peggys8101
    @peggys8101 Месяц назад +138

    No worries mama. You're a woman of faith, and God has blessed you with long life. I'm sorry that you trusted a wrong person.

    • @katet4554
      @katet4554 28 дней назад +1

      Who knows, he may have been killed suddenly? It's cynical to presuppose he just left her without cause.

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani 10 дней назад +6

    Life moves on. That is one of the harshest lessons in life.

  • @weeeeeoow
    @weeeeeoow Месяц назад +5

    _"The three most important things to have are faith, hope and love. But the greatest of them is love"._ beautiful quote from a beautiful place and this woman to me, she has a beautiful soul

  • @priscillam7006
    @priscillam7006 Месяц назад +90

    Something about this story isn't adding up...in the whole video Miriam only mentioned they spent time together and grew close...- she says that -she fell in love and she saw in his eyes that he loved her( he didnt say he was in love- she assumed)... he never proposed so they were never engaged....
    She chose to save herself for a man that never professed being in love with her nor proposed...
    Its not the mans fault...he probably thought they were very good friends.

    • @sammietulip7948
      @sammietulip7948 Месяц назад +19

      I was thinking the same thing. 🤔

    • @baeyanka5264
      @baeyanka5264 Месяц назад +1

      Maskin mariam 😂

    • @Ellie_Bathory
      @Ellie_Bathory Месяц назад +3

      Неправда!! Наверняка он подавал ей надежду!

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Месяц назад +10

      But she did say that they spoke about their future together

    • @Truffles563
      @Truffles563 Месяц назад +19

      Thank you for noticing this and yes it indeed makes sense. Why does the title say that she waited for her fiance? He never proposed. It's all focusing on her falling in love with him but nothing about him returning his feelings. Plus he left without an explanation nor saying goodbye. It doesn't even sound like they were even bf and gf either. She was in love with a fantasy.

  • @SistLor
    @SistLor Месяц назад +98

    This lady ....one of a kind ..she's very loyal to her love.... That's one quality that rarely we could see.....Hoping the best for her life

  • @niks1life
    @niks1life Месяц назад +5

    Her beauty didn’t fade. Her youth faded but she is a beautiful 103-year-old woman. You do not have to be young to be beautiful.

  • @Kayanlefeconcepts
    @Kayanlefeconcepts Месяц назад +7

    I hope this makes ppl understand how being ghosted is traumatic.

  • @MultiLydiah
    @MultiLydiah 2 месяца назад +308

    Him leaving without a word was a redflag

    • @TylaAlexander
      @TylaAlexander Месяц назад

      🤡

    • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
      @SasaSasa-wy9wu Месяц назад +86

      Very true. He was prolly saying anything in hopes of sleeping with her. Poverty makes u delusional sometimes

    • @lailaalanna315
      @lailaalanna315 Месяц назад +26

      ​@@SasaSasa-wy9wuif he only wanted sex he could have tried someone else. He likely had to go back home to get married to his betrothed.

    • @loudworld1217
      @loudworld1217 Месяц назад +39

      @@SasaSasa-wy9wu 100% she was delussional!

    • @BRKS627
      @BRKS627 Месяц назад +32

      That's not a red flag his family was not going to accept her.

  • @theamazing7572
    @theamazing7572 Месяц назад +70

    He really changed her destiny

    • @dollhouseq1530
      @dollhouseq1530 Месяц назад +13

      The white man has changed many nations destiny ... unfortunately

    • @theamazing7572
      @theamazing7572 Месяц назад

      @@dollhouseq1530 yes

  • @darkside2589
    @darkside2589 9 дней назад +2

    Mariam has to be the healthiest 100+ year old person ive ever seen.

  • @callmegone5033
    @callmegone5033 Месяц назад +9

    There's a lot of Mariam in myself. Possibly even though she has no physical children she is a spiritual mother to many. There's a blessing to being stubborn and not settling. ❤ May God bless Mariam and her family 🙏❤️

  • @arkmed9029
    @arkmed9029 Месяц назад +191

    Her wait was for nothing but her body at her age is a blessing

    • @joyfitzgerald9878
      @joyfitzgerald9878 Месяц назад +2

      💯

    • @MLagarde0425
      @MLagarde0425 Месяц назад +19

      She could have dies if she had him. Relationship or marriage can kill You faster dealing with stress.

    • @taylorallen4359
      @taylorallen4359 Месяц назад +6

      @@MLagarde0425This mentality is not good. There is nothing wrong with being married & having children. People need to stop marrying/having kids with the wrong person.

  • @debbieanne7962
    @debbieanne7962 Месяц назад +74

    103 years old, you sure? No grey hair or wrinkles. No walking frame/walking stick or glasses. If true she looks amazing

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes Месяц назад +13

      Why do you question if it's true? 😮 Wow! Looking young is common for people of African descent.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Месяц назад +7

      @debbieanne7962 dark skin(melanin)helps protect skin from wrinkles. She does have grey hair, and I'm convinced earing organic food csn prevent s lot of inflammation on thr body(arthritis) and that helps mobility, as well as eyesight and everything else. We die earlier in modern countries bc of thr horrible food and lifestyle

    • @priscachendjou971
      @priscachendjou971 Месяц назад +12

      she lived a 103 stress-free life, no husband, no kids, no boss, no junk food.

    • @msalohakitty
      @msalohakitty Месяц назад +6

      No wrinkles or grey hair??? Are you blind 😂

    • @Froggyquack
      @Froggyquack Месяц назад

      There are other people with 100 years plus and still kicking

  • @Aklmnopqrs
    @Aklmnopqrs Месяц назад +11

    One sided love at peak delulu is not always the solulu

  • @kagepoker
    @kagepoker 23 дня назад +7

    This might be the secret to a long life. Purity. 103 yrs old wow..

  • @fadyanassor6934
    @fadyanassor6934 Месяц назад +83

    John was just a friend,Mariam thought otherwise

    • @baeyanka5264
      @baeyanka5264 Месяц назад +4

      😂😂kina mariam sis sijui tumelogwaaa😂we are delusional sometimes

    • @Ellie_Bathory
      @Ellie_Bathory Месяц назад +24

      Что это за друг, который сбежал без объяснений??? Друзья так не поступают!!

    • @Truffles563
      @Truffles563 Месяц назад +28

      Friends don't do that either. If they do then they were never friends.

    • @nickeni3050
      @nickeni3050 26 дней назад +18

      Friend? Nah .. if he was just a friend she wouldn't have mentioned the culture of no sex before marriage.. which means that John definitely tried to push for more intimate actions between then but she had firm bounaries

    • @taeynv_
      @taeynv_ 12 дней назад

      ​@@nickeni3050 why would that suggest that john wanted to push for more intimate actions? that doesn't make sense.
      he is the guy that she truly loves and wanted to stay a virgin for his sake and hoped that he would marry her, after he left she wanted to keep her virginity for HIM. meaning she wanted him to be her first time and not some any other tanzanian man...
      If John possible pushed for more intimate actions, which I don't really believe because he's a white european man who grew up in the early 20th century or even the very late 19th century. a white person being with a black person was heavily rejected by society and was considered very taboo and scandalous, so I don't think he would really push for more intimacy considering the era and the environment he was born in, miscegenation/interracial was a no-no.
      But if he did really push for intimacy mariam would either 1. Decline and avoid him because of his actions or dialogue that suggest that he wants to have s*x with her out of fear of public shame and humiliation from her culture and her people
      2. Accept because she is madly in love with him as she expressed in the video and would allow him be her first time.
      3. Say that he has marry her before they have s*x which I don't know..... I don't think that she asked him or told him to marry her, I think she just expected it to happen.
      Mariam thinks that John truly loves her and would come back one day which is just... delusional... I'm sorry but I think john thought of her as just a friend or a person to hang-out with during his stay in tanzania and you know... she just caught feelings... I don't think he romantically loved her as she's trying to make it out to be, it's just delusion in my opinion.

  • @kathleen460
    @kathleen460 Месяц назад +43

    A great reminder to find closure in your heart if a man you loved doesnt return. We cant go on wasting our lives living in a fantasy. Do what you can to heal and move forward. Use that pain to motovate you to heal and create a life that you love. The scar may always be there, and you may think of it a lottle everyday, but learn to live with that vs the longing. Let that love be a muse to enrich your life. My mother was heartbroken over a man from before my dad and it kept her hypnotized and depressed my whole upbringing. She is finally starting to let that go after almost 50 years. Learn to move on!

  • @Lemon.tea2511
    @Lemon.tea2511 11 часов назад +1

    If someone ghosts you, just treat them as a ghost....😊 There's no need to wait for a ghost who left without saying goodbye

  • @Vivalarosa45
    @Vivalarosa45 Месяц назад +2

    Jon went back to Europe and lived his life with his family. Mariam is left in a stand still. Thats why you do things for yourself and not depend on others.

  • @bridgeofpeace5697
    @bridgeofpeace5697 2 месяца назад +132

    😢😢😢😢😢trusting a man is like committing suicide 😢😢😢

    • @josaywa
      @josaywa 2 месяца назад +7

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @queenlinda255
      @queenlinda255 Месяц назад +6

      😅😅😅😅

    • @alicenafula7789
      @alicenafula7789 Месяц назад +4

      Exactly 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Zaitoon55
      @Zaitoon55 Месяц назад +5

      True💯

    • @earthgirl6534
      @earthgirl6534 Месяц назад +6

      So true , so true!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @josephjay6114
    @josephjay6114 Месяц назад +88

    shes a pure and strong woman not so many people can do that....unbelievable

  • @QueenGoddess84
    @QueenGoddess84 18 дней назад +4

    WHAT are u crazy man?? Her beauty didn't fade, it enhanced.... That woman is still gorgeous

  • @vannasoukphilavong6996
    @vannasoukphilavong6996 6 дней назад +1

    This’s why she survived, she live a full life, stress free from men. 103 years now and on to the next decade.

  • @stelmaris7479
    @stelmaris7479 2 месяца назад +138

    Am so broken 😭😭😭,i don't have any words to describe the pain she has gone through.

    • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
      @SasaSasa-wy9wu Месяц назад +17

      Same…. She deserved so much more. .. what a beautiful wife, mother, g’ma she could’ve been

    • @terryray3147
      @terryray3147 Месяц назад +12

      Atleast she met her soulmate. Better than marrying another persons soulmate and living a hellish life as many do.

    • @MLagarde0425
      @MLagarde0425 Месяц назад

      @@terryray3147That’s is correct.

    • @justlynn5693
      @justlynn5693 Месяц назад

      ​@@terryray3147oooh weee

    • @tomiparvikoski9087
      @tomiparvikoski9087 Месяц назад +2

      Me too this made me really sad. She deserves so much more than this. How beautiful soul she has...😢

  • @chriskewe4238
    @chriskewe4238 2 месяца назад +107

    John went back to his love in Europe. Got married and raised kids. Perhaps, long dead and gone...

    • @Ellie_Bathory
      @Ellie_Bathory Месяц назад +6

      К какой любви?? Этот человек любить не способен, раз так легко бросил девушку, с которой у него был роман!

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Месяц назад +13

      ​@@Ellie_BathoryYou don't know that. He could have died in WW2

  • @mathewlawani1364
    @mathewlawani1364 19 дней назад +5

    You can still see the light and pains in her eyes 😭😭

  • @SitiLiaYassin
    @SitiLiaYassin 17 дней назад +3

    dont ever trust a man who tells u he love u... man always lose to lust... he can left u when u had have nothing..

  • @GoodMuyis
    @GoodMuyis Месяц назад +56

    John is such a heart breaker. How can he just disapear w/o notice.
    I don't why I felt John was taken by ww2

  • @nicolasmith6334
    @nicolasmith6334 Месяц назад +106

    If she is 103 .John perhaps died.i don't think he is alive

    • @allymimi8789
      @allymimi8789 Месяц назад +31

      John must have passed away like in his 70s or 80s.
      Let us find out exactly which country was John and all his names so this old mama can find peace

    • @lerinhar
      @lerinhar Месяц назад +11

      ​@@allymimi8789 that would be a great idea. Honestly, it has me wondering if John mentioned her to his family members and friends, because they may have interesting stories about her.

    • @kkjoffffzqq3982
      @kkjoffffzqq3982 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@allymimi8789wappi now wc kind of peace is that than the one she missed for the past years 🤣🤣🤣

  • @justiceforjody382
    @justiceforjody382 Месяц назад +4

    John leaving without telling her leads me to believe he was most likely murdered...

  • @Babygirl758
    @Babygirl758 Месяц назад +4

    he ghosted her before ghosting became a phenomenon

    • @amandabanks8627
      @amandabanks8627 29 дней назад +3

      Nah it's been here. You may want to read ancient texts. There was a woman asking for help because her new husband abandoned her in a foreign city. Apparently that was common in that very city

  • @yvonnemascoll356
    @yvonnemascoll356 Месяц назад +39

    She loved someone who didn't truly love her ..
    Had he loved her he would have said goodbye

    • @MaggieTD
      @MaggieTD 20 дней назад +2

      Yes I felt the same. A coward runs away. He could of said or indecated something. It must of been torture for Mariam dear soul. I try to be understanding and think maybe he was attacked by animals or murdered but surely there would be a trace. I wish someone had investigated now and worked out what had happened. I hate half finished stories 😤

  • @emilymuchiku4543
    @emilymuchiku4543 Месяц назад +51

    She looks young than her age
    May almighty God protect her always

  • @jui095
    @jui095 12 дней назад +3

    I feel sad for her 😢 she wasted her beautiful life waiting for a unfaithful man

  • @amandanorman5642
    @amandanorman5642 Месяц назад +2

    Imagine 103yrs and she still looks beautiful like she is 70yrs

  • @pattyjohnsons1708
    @pattyjohnsons1708 Месяц назад +32

    So my question is ...in telling of the story no one can find out who this man was and where he ended up for closure for this woman? It seems to me that this can't be he just randomly showed up in her village. Was he assigned there from an organization to help teach them better farming skills? Who is he? Id rather know that than just feel sorry for her and negatively judge the man when whole parts of this story is missing. This is all very vague to me. Is there a part 2 to this im missing?

    • @dollhouseq1530
      @dollhouseq1530 Месяц назад +2

      Exactly! What really happened to the guy????

  • @Isaiah6022-m4r
    @Isaiah6022-m4r Месяц назад +38

    Oohh God her smile explains it all whenever she talks about him, she smile, she was deeply in love 😊

  • @flowieedenn
    @flowieedenn Месяц назад +3

    I have long story with my first love. He's from another contry too. We love each other, one day he said he couldn't marry me and been very upfront with me about this. And also said that "i can't promise something to a woman if I can't carry out that promise". I'm grateful because I met a man like him and I don't regret that he became my first love.

  • @ladystriker6732
    @ladystriker6732 Месяц назад +3

    Old people from century love is so pure..we cant see that kind of love now a days... And she is very strong bu the age 103 yrs old