You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me. if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want. i am a bless men
@Jan-dis1jq, You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏 There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22 Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.
I agree with some of what you said. He was already a troubled man in addiction.She was young & wanted a family. But I don't think she wanted him to take care of her I think she wanted to build with a husband. She was sad in his country,him in hers, the whole situation was bad. She deserves a beautiful outcome.
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed
It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.
That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all
This was not God but the devil …and evil spirits from her bloodline and she was not grounded enough in the word of God to know the difference. I pray that she overcome and put shame to the devil. You are a beautiful girl you can make it Jesus loves you. You’re a strong woman . God bless you.
You weren't specific about your prayer. You just prayed for a white man. You got a white man. You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect. Your prayer was granted as you requested.
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self. Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment
Agreed. Betty could not stand living in a country so foreign to her, and asked her husband (the breadwinner) to go to another a foreign country. Any person moving to another country has to be prepared to start from the beginning learning a new language in order to gat a job. This couple was not ready for such a tremendous change in their lives. God bless to both of them.
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
What a life story! Alcohol is poison and addictive! Alcohol is terrible! 😥 Your husband needs to stay 100% away from alcohol, from people who drink and places which have alcohol! Your husband has to be honest to himself and he has and needs to make the decision either to have his children happy and proud of him or to die miserably! Continue to be strong and don’t let your husband come back unless he changed and has not drunk alcohol for 3 years-100% ! You are awesome!
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u
I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids
@@joannjeri4381 he got depressed because he has nothing juu aliuza everything in his country thinking he will be better in Kenya and that was a very big mistake.
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
God give us what we pray for. When I was 17yrs I prayed for a white young man . who will love me for the rest of my life and understanding person. And also love my family that we both live together all my life. And god answered my prayers. We are now happly married since 17 yrs together and still In love everyday of our life😂❤❤ im greatful to who answered all prayer
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
Hello, Betty. I remember your family from your husband's channel "My African Wife".I feel very sorry for you. Not every Russian man are alcoholic, and an alcoholic person can be of any race. I hope you meet a good man. God bless you and your kids.
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
Marriage is from God an belongs to Him it's a person who decides to treat the other one badly, no matter how Frustrated the husband was,there was no need to treat her badly like that,Hope Betty and the kids are fine and that their life is well of now,and also hope her life stork was restored
I am 4 years single...was in an abusive relationship for years. My prayer now is God...please send me a God Fearing man who is going to love me for who I am, not what he wants me to be in Jesus' name!!!
Ladies make a living for yourselves, work hard for your own riches and a man with money will be a just a bonus, you will be shocked with the respect and love you will get ...
I can never judge or blame her. Growing up & being surrounded by pedophiles +sexist men I too had the assumption that a white husband/partner will be better!! Now am 34yrs old never married or had bfs, I am too traumatized and my only regret is that I may never be a mother. I pray she finds healing and may god protect my sisters out there. Ofcourse not all interracial relationships are doomed!! It's just certain men are attracted to desperate women! Sadly she too was naive in her fantasy about a relationship with western men and her inexperience didn't help either! I appreciate her transparency
Yes sister I agree let's listen and learn from her bravery to even share her story. I was a guest of the masai tribe when I was in Kenya. I was truly moved by them and their confidence and resilience.
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@@user-x34ghj89fg ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
Am an African, lady but some of our Kenyan ladies think marrying a Whiteman will solve the poverty of their family, it's wrong Secondly u PRAYING for God to give u a Whiteman , 4real? U pray for God 4 understanding man n God fearing man. But all the same, it's not over❤❤❤❤
It wasn't both of u it was circumstances. He was a good husband just depressed as u were also depressed in his country. He had enough of it mentally. Wish u a better end
Brave, innocent and intelligent woman May God help you in any way ❤️❤️🙏🏻 I think your man is a good man who even agreed to sell all his stuff from Russia to Kenya, please, forgive him and take care of him, remember now he has no one in Kenya if you continue to neglect him. God will ask you this, all the girls around him it's because he is suffering from depression, see the beautiful children you have and take care of your husband, remember the good things he did to you. before and you girls from Kenya want to be men in the house .
He did everything for her at first He loved her a lot.He left everything behind for her when russia wasn't good enough for her. She just wasn't ready for that type of life but she thought she was.
You're very naive my dear, that man gave all his life took loan after selling everything he worked for and she moved him to a village because of her selfishness to be with her family what about him he's not an animal for God sake what's wrong with ur brain he was frustrated and depress and wanted to live noooo she hide his pasport she needed the house finish for her family well u gonna believe the nonsense she didn't take it
You are blaming her? He was heavily drinking, tried to strangle her and still you are blaming her? I swear women are our own worst enemies @@nancyv6661
@@nancyv6661The man was sick when she met him. All the emotional spending paying for her hospital bills exhausting all of his vacation money tells me that he was already unstable. To her he was a guardian angel but she was severely ill, incapable of seeing his flaws. He's much older so much more is expected.
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
Uuummm but why is NoOne mentioning the fact that this man actually did love her and was willing to give up everything just to be with her? Sometimes these man really are trying but Women want too much, he takes you to Europe you get bored then wanna go home, If he was such a Red flag Why did you let him sell all his things to go with you back to Africa, honestly woman play a role in creating monsters out of initially good guys. Woman are supposed to be helpmates but sometimes they’ll leave these man in worse states than they found them. Let’s stop this one sided feminism thing ✌🏼
There's no way we can demonize this man. I would say he was a good loving man who surrendered everything in Russian that he owned and followed the woman in a third world country to start from nothing. The man seems to have been going through some mental or psychological problems that needed some therapy. I wish they sought that kind of help right from the beginning; their marriage would have survived. The woman seemed also not to understand that then. Good that she understands the man needs some help. Someone please reach out to him for help. I don't think naturally he was a bad person. May God help him out.
You are quite right. The man made lots of sacrifices. They both loved each other but here we see love is not nearly enough to withstand it the hash realities of interracial union. You can't completely detach from your root without conflict that may lead to having psychological trauma as you try so hard to make compromise. It's a sad story.
It’s not about race, religion, profession or whatever makes you human. It’s about a man who’s loving God, himself, his family and his friends. That’s how you know you have a great husband! Because by Loving himself and other he knows how to love and by loving God he knows how to respect a Woman!
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them. She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy. That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
She wasn’t allowing him to lead, provide and protect the family. Leaving Russia where there was stability, then when they had to go to Mombasa she didn’t want to leave even though crime was taking their livelihoods. The abuse was not her fault, he had no right to lay his hands on her and use that force in her, it so extreme and painful. The twisting and strangling. It’s sad that a story that began so beautiful turned to so much turmoil.💔
She really tried to keep her family together, a woman usually tries her level best before she says enough. Even allowing him back was that little bit of hope. Which was a big mistake.
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You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
Definitely,but she ask a husband not describing what kind of a man she wanted ……
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
Don't pin this on God, He didn't give you this man
Exactly
When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.
Wow. Deep
Exactly, good
Exactly she is half baked
That's true as woman we have to upgrade ourselves before letting someone to help you so that you'll be respected
Good move..me also..
Upgrading
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
exactly . him moving to Kenya was a bad sign. it will be hard for him to work in Kenya amd adjust
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
Satan hears your prayers to God ..He sent that Man for her ..Bad Stuff ftom the Devil
Yes. You saying right
Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏
Asked God for white husband she’s a wicked woman what’s wrong with black husband 😂😂
YAH❤❤
Being single can also kill unless one pray for self-control. 😊
Preach!!!!!
Not always. My innocent cousin was in her home minding her business and she was single 😢
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me.
if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want.
i am a bless men
Which country because Africa is a large continent…
Gentlemen like you are rare
@Jan-dis1jq,
You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏
There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
Yes as you are from the Netherlands and not Europe. So where in Africa is your queen from?
Really
Don't ever let a man stop you from going to school. Never depend on a man for money. Get your degrees and be independent.
That’s what am planning right now 🥲🥹
Exactly 🙌💪🏼👍🙏
No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.
❤❤❤❤
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
I agree, absolutely that she was genuine lazima
There is the husband version
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I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
not a crime but we all love a good marriage
Don't say every woman talks about those you know
We are supposed to be married to 1 person, so she wasn't doing anything wrong, but he obviously was just their to purchase whores
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏
" God does not bring sorrow to blessings "
Love this.
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22
Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
@@user-rs1rz7hh7w Proverbs 10:22.
Sure we have to be keen
God protect us all from evil people
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
Yeah, I agree. You're 💯% correct 👍🏾
Agrée 😊
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
😢check out the Bull before you buy them could be a fighting Bull.
It's not the color of the skin or religion that defines a person, it is their free will to make the best choices in life.
It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.
Exactly
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Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
So insentive of you guys, at least empathize with her.
@@nightingale2987😂😂😂 what are lies!!😂😂😂
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
Perfect response. Love your reasoning.
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
He married his friend, you didn't listen well. The one who offered the money he didn't even know the English so they went apart
It's called self hate
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.
Yes sir. I agree! all of this could have been prevented.
I don't think you should be blaming her for his behavior. Other than that I agree with you.
I agree with you 💯
I agree with some of what you said. He was already a troubled man in addiction.She was young & wanted a family. But I don't think she wanted him to take care of her I think she wanted to build with a husband. She was sad in his country,him in hers, the whole situation was bad. She deserves a beautiful outcome.
She married an alcoholic. Unfortunately this is the case in Russia, too many drunks regardless of profession. Two beautiful children.
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
Ladies!!!
Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.
Fact 👌
It could happen to anyone
@@marshawright4002 DON'T BE A VICTIM.....👌🏾💯💯✌🏾😎
+@@bukolaodunayo3269
Amen
I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed
This is exactly what I'm seeing here. I see a depressed man.
@@jumnehbaby714that doesn’t give him the right to hit her!
I agree with you. The only thing I disagree with, is the abuse.
It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.
Wise comment
quite right. I think this idea is made by black men because we all know in general, theyre not reliable.
I agrée however their responses were different. Whilst she planned to go back to Kenya, he resorted to abuse.
@@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza8473 or did he.. I tend to think it is a pack of lies.
Right
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
@sharrelgrootboom. All women are strong.
@@tinkerbell1666: NOT AT ALL.
Most women are weak. I know so!
0w by@@Intrigankatru
@@Intrigankatru I just translated this - it seems you know the couple well and this reporter should have asked husbands side of story.
All women are strong. From every country, I'm from Peru, South America but I don't just see just kne race of women being a strong woman.
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
Amen ...I tap into that blessings
Slaves said that same EXACT statement 400+ years ago. As Africans [Blacks] we MUST practice racial purity!!!!
God gave her a white man. Exactly what she wanted :).
Very true
I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Amen
She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo
No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.
Abused husband are given by Satan???
That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all
Trust,she rush everything
Her hair also a wig i think
Whites partners make beautiful babies period
This was not God but the devil …and evil spirits from her bloodline and she was not grounded enough in the word of God to know the difference. I pray that she overcome and put shame to the devil. You are a beautiful girl you can make it Jesus loves you. You’re a strong woman . God bless you.
@@lesegogaebeeyn4005pretos tmb fazem lindos filhos
You weren't specific about your prayer.
You just prayed for a white man.
You got a white man.
You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect.
Your prayer was granted as you requested.
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21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
Exactly 👌🏾 God knows that people are strong headed and don’t listen so He will leave you to your fate after giving you clear red flags 🚩
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self.
Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment
He was an alcoholic long before he was with her. That was his downfall.
Agreed. Betty could not stand living in a country so foreign to her, and asked her husband (the breadwinner) to go to another a foreign country. Any person moving to another country has to be prepared to start from the beginning learning a new language in order to gat a job. This couple was not ready for such a tremendous change in their lives. God bless to both of them.
This lady is an example of stupidity
I think that's what happened too, that's why he wanted to kill himself
@@colemand402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I believe in God and I'm celibate until marriage. I will wait until God sends my husband to me.
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
Those judges have no empathy. It make me sick.
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
@@Arielzis You do realize that you just judged them too?
What did you learn from her story?
@@erickamiller458 I learnt that I would never have the guts to tell my life story😅 She's brave trust me
I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.
Truth
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100% agree with you
@rhone793,
Exactly! You're a wise individual 👍👏👏👏🙏
Presenter has strange facial expressions. I dont know why he was smiling the whole entire time
Maybe high; maybe he’s attracted to her; maybe it’s a combination of both! From the way his mouth is moving, I’m leaning towards high.
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe he doesn't know what to do with his face.
Good observation
He's a very good listener, a rare attribute in most interviewers
He's so interested in her, not concentrating on what she's saying 😂
I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
Yes. She should stand on her own provide for herself and kids. Set an example for all others not get the next man ..
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
Amen!!! Now it’s about protecting her two girls!!!
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
Everyone makes mistakes
The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
Exactly
Even the devil fears God😊
God fearing man?!?!? Good luck with that.
What a life story! Alcohol is poison and addictive!
Alcohol is terrible! 😥
Your husband needs to stay 100% away from alcohol, from people who drink and places which have alcohol! Your husband has to be honest to himself and he has and needs to make the decision either to have his children happy and proud of him or to die miserably!
Continue to be strong and don’t let your husband come back unless he changed and has not drunk alcohol for 3 years-100% ! You are awesome!
You are a brave and strong woman. May God guide your every step and all your decisions in life.
Agreed, Alcohol is Dangerous...
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.
Completely right
All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.
but white Jesus!!!
User!
Exactly💯💯💯👍👍👍
💯 true
@@cinnamonstar808According to? And what is wrong with being white? Is it a sin? Is it wrong?
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
She's asking for help , not to be whipped over the head with negative comments condemning her for her past mistakes in life .
Betty's stories from Kenya is her channel
Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊
Ahhhh sweet.
But why marry a white man anyhow? When you don't have anything else in common? Why?
Alcohol always destroys family always.
imagine saudu arabia is now actually allowing alcohol to be sold and drunk there,they shall all become zombies in the future.
Vodka is their food because of the weather
And Russian men are extremely heavy drinkers.
True
She drinks too
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
Exactly ! People focusing on the fact that the husband was white …this can happen with anyone 🥹
YOU don't know yet, he wants YOU to be old and he's going to divorce you
🎉 by my
Advice her please. Most people in the comments are enemies of marriage. Sasha is a good man. Three years with her in Russia isn't a short time.
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
She's quite eloquent for a secondary school drop out.
I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u
When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.
Beautifully said and so true!!! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
But God doesn't always send you what you want but what you NEED! Maybe, finally this experience helped her grow up and be independent.
AMEN. ABUSIVE N JERKY. OMG. HE WAS A devil🛑✝️ 9:45 . 🛑👺👹👺👹👹👹🛑✝️😇😇😇😇😇✝️🛑🙏🏾
@@sandrabentley8111THIS IS NOT GOD. ABUSIVE JERK.
@@katherinebilly6991 Hallelujah
I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids
The comment I m looking for, she also contributed to wat happened
The man got into depression by coming to a country he knows nothing about.
@@joannjeri4381 he got depressed because he has nothing juu aliuza everything in his country thinking he will be better in Kenya and that was a very big mistake.
@@preciouskelvin7495 namuurumia huyo mzungu sana penye ako atajuta kupenda tena
The day you said you are going back to Kenya is d day d marriage packed up..u cause this calamity
Betty you are a very beautiful strong woman. I admire your courage to open up and be vulnerable. Many blessings ❤
I love her sense of humor, she’s beautiful and she has a testimony
It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.
I disagree! He's her husband but she is the cause of him to fall apart.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021yes yes
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021алкоголь стал причиной развала семьи.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021How you know???
GOD told you that???
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
its a persons choice to date a certain race. character has nothing to do with colour
That's exactly what she's saying @@user-jr8ou8ui8m
@user-jr8ou8ui8m u didn't understand comment
Not all want white men for their wealth, maybe want cappuccino babies
When she said even the chickens were stealing that took me out lol. I love her personality in the face of adversity
She was too young to get married but she is a strong mother may God keep you safe I also feel sorry for the husband
From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.
i think there was stress from a very different lifestyle than what he was used to. And then drinking to avoid it. Vicious cycle
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
@@user-bq7st2dc6u ,чернильница ты.
True
I swear to God depression can turn you to another version of yourself I don't blame him.
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
True
Exactly.
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
True
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
God give us what we pray for. When I was 17yrs I prayed for a white young man . who will love me for the rest of my life and understanding person. And also love my family that we both live together all my life. And god answered my prayers. We are now happly married since 17 yrs together and still In love everyday of our life😂❤❤ im greatful to who answered all prayer
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.
No... actually, you have to be specific in your prayers
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@@Teestar519Educate them sista...folks are ignorant in these comments. They do not think logically.
@@saidatabby4797really😢😢basi cjui kuomba.O.MG😭😭😭
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
Strange situation
Yes, the Interviewer is the BEST❤. So patient and sincerely listening.
Weird editing choices to play clips of him beaming in her face while she’s talking about very dark parts in her marriage
Hello, Betty. I remember your family from your husband's channel "My African Wife".I feel very sorry for you. Not every Russian man are alcoholic, and an alcoholic person can be of any race. I hope you meet a good man. God bless you and your kids.
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
Yeah...I married a " white" man instead of I married the wrong man. Attention ho
excellent comment
Well I wish I never married my "black" husband...maybe that's what people have a problem with. you think ???
@@lindacouncil1353 i didn’t elude to race, I focused on the person. So context please?
Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves
I agree
Very true
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Which country are you
💯💯💯💯💯💯 correct I can testify to that into your courts room loneliness is a last name in UK
The devil also heard your prayer as well, that's why the wolf came so quickly in sheep's clothing.
Im kenyan but this woman lead to the downfall of that man once a doctor and now in the streets
She should have left him in Russia.
He fell for the younger "exotic African" lure.
Спасибо вам за понимание
His alcoholism ruined him.
haha, lol
The village people bewitched the happy marriage coz in Russia they lived well
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
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What ever you are going through, I'm praying for you ❤️ no one deserves to be messed treated. Prayers sent for you.
I pray you are healing from whatever trauma you went thru. No one deserves that. Take care and sending you lots of love and virtual hugs! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@@pambeforethestorm9784 Thank you so much ❤️
@@sureiamboo you are more than welcome ❤️❤️
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
@@OdunZee thank you 🙏
She's poisoned her womb with that devil's seed.
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
В накладе она не осталась .
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
Focus on character rather than on ethnicity
Marriage is from God an belongs to Him it's a person who decides to treat the other one badly, no matter how Frustrated the husband was,there was no need to treat her badly like that,Hope Betty and the kids are fine and that their life is well of now,and also hope her life stork was restored
The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts.
Do not judge this lady.
Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤
People are not praying for an answer from God. Ok.
I am 4 years single...was in an abusive relationship for years. My prayer now is God...please send me a God Fearing man who is going to love me for who I am, not what he wants me to be in Jesus' name!!!
@upliftinggod-eh8ur Glory to God. A man that loves God, then he'll know how to love you. Hallelujah
Ladies make a living for yourselves, work hard for your own riches and a man with money will be a just a bonus, you will be shocked with the respect and love you will get ...
We have to be wise in choosing our partners....Pray , hope , wait .... Sometimes God let us walk through hardships to overcome them..
From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽
She dishonored her ancestors. Anytime you do that things go bad
Amen for me too
Am telling u,dats wat my mum always say pray for a God fearing man
And don’t marry outside your race!!!!
Those are worse
You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.
She was so glad to have Sasha, it didn't matter whether he was a good provider or not
@@NovemberReigne At the end the results were so bad and it ruines one's future.
That’s not smart
Stop judging her
All the villagers charming against her because of jealousy
I can never judge or blame her. Growing up & being surrounded by pedophiles +sexist men I too had the assumption that a white husband/partner will be better!! Now am 34yrs old never married or had bfs, I am too traumatized and my only regret is that I may never be a mother. I pray she finds healing and may god protect my sisters out there. Ofcourse not all interracial relationships are doomed!! It's just certain men are attracted to desperate women! Sadly she too was naive in her fantasy about a relationship with western men and her inexperience didn't help either! I appreciate her transparency
Yes sister I agree let's listen and learn from her bravery to even share her story. I was a guest of the masai tribe when I was in Kenya. I was truly moved by them and their confidence and resilience.
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@@user-x34ghj89fg ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
May be he had another family in Russia 😮😮😊😊
@@karma-pt2ttthat makes sense
@@queenexellent9854he probably did
Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑
I can't imagine having this lady as my wife. Never grateful.
Am an African, lady but some of our Kenyan ladies think marrying a Whiteman will solve the poverty of their family, it's wrong
Secondly u PRAYING for God to give u a Whiteman , 4real?
U pray for God 4 understanding man n God fearing man.
But all the same, it's not over❤❤❤❤
Betty, you were not thinking about his mental well-being, just as you were suffering mentally in Russia. May God help you all
Yah! I think he suffered mentally. I don't understand why she left Russia... They had a better life there. There was nothing in Kenya for him.
She's mean
It wasn't both of u it was circumstances. He was a good husband just depressed as u were also depressed in his country. He had enough of it mentally. Wish u a better end
I don’t need to be mean and I don’t want to sugarcoat things. Betty lack love and empathy and she’s selfish.
@NatashaSophia13 that's just the truth. People supporting her, should listen to the story well.
God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤
Atimes God give us what he want especially when we insist the prayer should be in accordance to his will.
Brave, innocent and intelligent woman May God help you in any way ❤️❤️🙏🏻 I think your man is a good man who even agreed to sell all his stuff from Russia to Kenya, please, forgive him and take care of him, remember now he has no one in Kenya if you continue to neglect him. God will ask you this, all the girls around him it's because he is suffering from depression, see the beautiful children you have and take care of your husband, remember the good things he did to you. before and you girls from Kenya want to be men in the house .
Very true, I think he needs medical attention and then he'll be fine
I agree.this man was good
Moral of the story is “Be careful what you wish for!” You were critical of one woman’s appearance, proof you’re not so nice after all!
When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.
True
Yes always let them go it get so bad if you force them to stay
That stomachache was a sign that she met a devil/narcissist but she didn't listen to her intuition your body reacts when you meet a bad person 😢
He did everything for her at first He loved her a lot.He left everything behind for her when russia wasn't good enough for her. She just wasn't ready for that type of life but she thought she was.
You're very naive my dear, that man gave all his life took loan after selling everything he worked for and she moved him to a village because of her selfishness to be with her family what about him he's not an animal for God sake what's wrong with ur brain he was frustrated and depress and wanted to live noooo she hide his pasport she needed the house finish for her family well u gonna believe the nonsense she didn't take it
You are blaming her? He was heavily drinking, tried to strangle her and still you are blaming her? I swear women are our own worst enemies @@nancyv6661
@@nancyv6661The man was sick when she met him. All the emotional spending paying for her hospital bills exhausting all of his vacation money tells me that he was already unstable. To her he was a guardian angel but she was severely ill, incapable of seeing his flaws. He's much older so much more is expected.
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything..
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
I am sorry for her baby boy. She's a strong woman
Uuummm but why is NoOne mentioning the fact that this man actually did love her and was willing to give up everything just to be with her?
Sometimes these man really are trying but Women want too much, he takes you to Europe you get bored then wanna go home, If he was such a Red flag Why did you let him sell all his things to go with you back to Africa, honestly woman play a role in creating monsters out of initially good guys. Woman are supposed to be helpmates but sometimes they’ll leave these man in worse states than they found them.
Let’s stop this one sided feminism thing ✌🏼
There's no way we can demonize this man. I would say he was a good loving man who surrendered everything in Russian that he owned and followed the woman in a third world country to start from nothing. The man seems to have been going through some mental or psychological problems that needed some therapy. I wish they sought that kind of help right from the beginning; their marriage would have survived. The woman seemed also not to understand that then. Good that she understands the man needs some help. Someone please reach out to him for help. I don't think naturally he was a bad person. May God help him out.
No,May God help her and their two children out
I think so too they both need help
You are quite right. The man made lots of sacrifices. They both loved each other but here we see love is not nearly enough to withstand it the hash realities of interracial union. You can't completely detach from your root without conflict that may lead to having psychological trauma as you try so hard to make compromise. It's a sad story.
@@monicanwatu1366 You said it right. Absolutely.
Yeah. As I continued watching the program, I can tell he may have missed his family
She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.
She was desperate asf and unfortunately many black girls think the same
She tested God and got her answers.
It’s not about race, religion, profession or whatever makes you human. It’s about a man who’s loving God, himself, his family and his friends. That’s how you know you have a great husband! Because by Loving himself and other he knows how to love and by loving God he knows how to respect a Woman!
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
Amen
Out of 34 years, you burdened yourself with his abuse for 25 years. Man, that wasn't worth it
Amen. What matters is that, in the end everything was good 😊.. you did well to pray for him.
Wow, Glory to God 👏👏
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them.
She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy.
That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
Yes, she was not understanding. The situation was not managed well. The guy really loved her.
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
My thinking too
I think so too
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
She wasn’t allowing him to lead, provide and protect the family. Leaving Russia where there was stability, then when they had to go to Mombasa she didn’t want to leave even though crime was taking their livelihoods. The abuse was not her fault, he had no right to lay his hands on her and use that force in her, it so extreme and painful. The twisting and strangling. It’s sad that a story that began so beautiful turned to so much turmoil.💔
The child witnessing the violence💔 and abusing her while she was carrying his 2nd child.
She really tried to keep her family together, a woman usually tries her level best before she says enough. Even allowing him back was that little bit of hope. Which was a big mistake.
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
May God bless her and her children. Thats so brave of her to share her story. I pray she may find peace and happiness in life. We've learnt alot
Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤
Most of us experience,heart break... pick up the pieces and move on.
I've experienced heartbreak and I'm still healing
Yes! me moving on with 5 kids God on our side
@@gloryruth615 My mom moved on with four,most of us women still hurting...we can't sit around...we have to do it especially for our children.
Guys dont help her! Let god help her again,
Yes African males: DON'T be the clean up man for these swirling bed winches
The problem with Betty is that she jumps from one relationship to the next. She should give her self to heal.
Be careful for what you wish for
True
Right
Kan
Ikr...
Exactly👍👍👍💯💯💯