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  • Опубликовано: 27 апр 2022
  • For the very first time, Njeri wa Migwi is letting the world in on her most kept secrets. Her marriage at a very young age, her most trying moments, faking a smile for the public, walking away, getting married again, walking away once again and deciding to finally put herself and her beautiful children first
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 года назад +672

    Dear Team LN,
    I have to admit, having partnered with Njeri wa Migwi on several shows, I never knew she had gone through so much.
    How can a woman who rescues so many peolpe be so selfless knowing very much she was facing her own demons.
    To me Njeri has become a sister, a friend and someone whose work I truly admire.
    As we get to listen to her story, please see how best we can also support her initiative, Usikimye, a safe safe for victims of Sexual and Gender Based Violence through
    Paybill : 891300 Ac 52916
    Account Usikimye
    Mpesa Line: 0718158400 (Arleen Njeri)
    Help line : 0800000999
    Thank you so much for watching❤️

    • @mercyedith1383
      @mercyedith1383 2 года назад +14

      Hi Lynn,how can someone reach Her for counselling?not for me,but for my son

    • @KuiWaKamau
      @KuiWaKamau 2 года назад +15

      Njeri Wa Migwi's story is so incredibly sad 💔😥 I am glad that she was able to get out of that Toxic Marriage, strong enough to save so many victims through #Usikimye
      Let's come together & hold her up by supporting her initiative. God bless You Njeri Wa Migwi. Thank You Lynn for this show. 🙌💕🌻

    • @sarahnthenya9260
      @sarahnthenya9260 2 года назад +10

      Njeri is so beautiful ..veeeeerry
      Physically and at heart

    • @tcuguh
      @tcuguh 2 года назад +6

      Lynn pia kuna their M-changa i use it often & its handy for diaspora ❤🎉

    • @janetwanga1242
      @janetwanga1242 2 года назад +6

      Hey lynn nakupenda bure

  • @prisswangu4562
    @prisswangu4562 2 года назад +867

    I have looked at this lady the whole interview, her smile, her composure... Everything about her is absolutely beautiful. I wish she would smile at the mirror and see how beautiful it is. She's incredibly strong and am happy she's found her peace. 👏👏👏👏

    • @georgewanjohi70
      @georgewanjohi70 2 года назад +35

      Honestly yes. Infact if Njeri is ugly, what does beautiful look like?

    • @carolynn8359
      @carolynn8359 2 года назад +27

      Her eyes are cuuuute....her face in general is pretty 😍 she is gorgeous

    • @degrahomambia1599
      @degrahomambia1599 2 года назад +11

      She is beutiful and lovely and amezing

    • @catherinewanjiku4754
      @catherinewanjiku4754 2 года назад +3

      @@degrahomambia1599 amazing and she is the best

    • @prayerlover7672
      @prayerlover7672 2 года назад +9

      I was thinking the same. She has a SMILE that lights up a room. She is just BEAUTIFUL

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 2 года назад +216

    Your dad is the best.. he never badmouthed your mother to you guys and, instead, focused on nurturing you the best way he could. Salute to him and other single fathers who make the difficult choices to be with their children

    • @fiyozablefaithmusic
      @fiyozablefaithmusic 2 года назад +2

      keyword "difficult choice" I honor such men too ❤️

    • @mollyakinyi2282
      @mollyakinyi2282 2 года назад +1

      My dad was the best I really miss him much

  • @Stwairimu
    @Stwairimu 2 года назад +309

    Lynn, this lady Arlene, that's what I call her...took me in with my 3 kids when I was struggling in ministry. She took very good care of us. feeding us, clothing us. I remember there's a term she paid my kids fees. She loved us through that difficult time. She went out of her way by helping me get my own house. Njeri has a very big heart, all this she did for me while struggling with the abuse of her x husband. Am so happy for you Arlene. That you can now talk about it, means you are finally free to reach out to many more Njeris. May God continue lifting and using you..Shine on gal👏👏👏💪💪💪

  • @peninnahmwalili8518
    @peninnahmwalili8518 2 года назад +42

    The dad wears the crown for me! He stood by the daughter through the biggest storm of her life. And happy the she finally be herself.

  • @jacdez3520
    @jacdez3520 2 года назад +72

    The husband called her ugly because she was pretty. He’s a insecure abuser.

    • @sheilamarangu
      @sheilamarangu 2 года назад +6

      You boosted ur husband ego by not leaving. That's what narcissists feed on

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 года назад +2

      Absolutely

  • @nancykimani8427
    @nancykimani8427 2 года назад +188

    I know Njeri personally, we met in our 20s in church and had no idea she's gone through so much. Only knew about her baby girl's premature birth and miracle healing. I'm glad that you've come out strong and are still bubbly and have not lost your sense of humour. My dear Njeri, you're beautiful inside and out. Thank you for speaking out and for what you are doing to help others. Kudos 👍👏👏👏

    • @mugishad9669
      @mugishad9669 2 года назад

      L

    • @Sylvia-sd4mf
      @Sylvia-sd4mf 2 года назад

      So who s this husband? Lets c his name

    • @damarisgakuru7213
      @damarisgakuru7213 2 года назад

      I love this lady she's just fantastic , she has a big heart too with lovely eyes

  • @janetkumwenda7996
    @janetkumwenda7996 2 года назад +109

    I think Njeri's first husband should be sued for attempted murder and abuse. He deserves to face the law. Njeri is also entitled to 50% of the wealth they acquired together. I don't know about the law in Kenya but this story is very upsetting that he got away with everything. Well done Njeri your future is in the hands of God. God loves you. Keep up the good work.

    • @dottynight
      @dottynight 2 года назад +9

      Kenyan courts are very very slow and corrupt . Assuming she gets her day in court- which is a very expensive process, her ex will claim he provided solely for the children. Since the law in Kenya needs both parents to provide, it will be assumed that he covered her part. Therefore he owes her nothing. It's sad. But I tell every woman in Kenya, to ask and know the legal aspects of marriage and divorce BEFORE the marriage

    • @BRiGHT-CHilD
      @BRiGHT-CHilD 2 года назад +16

      It might seem he has gotten away with everything but I assure you, he will pay for everything. Vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 2 года назад +4

      @@dottynight Thanks for the update. I am writing from South Africa and did not know the law is different in Kenya. Very sad indeed. The system needs to be revised. The story leaves those who aspire to get married worried about the future.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 2 года назад +4

      @@BRiGHT-CHilD Yes, I have seen it happen over and over again. Indeed vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @lucyinglis7463
      @lucyinglis7463 2 года назад +4

      Yes the beautiful woman he got married to...is most likely the one who will send him to his grave. He keep thinking all women will be dominated like his first wife, but he will be very wrong.
      Or God might make him eat grass like the king in the Holy Bible.

  • @winycynthia1094
    @winycynthia1094 2 года назад +136

    How can anyone not love this woman.... She is phenomenal and an entire powerhouse

  • @bossb8989
    @bossb8989 2 года назад +260

    “Just because I come from brokenness doesn’t mean I can’t hold a home together.” Those words… only one who comes from a background of brokenness would know how true & loud they ring to the ear.

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 2 года назад +7

      But that brokenness is what has caused her to be victimized by abusers over and over. From husbands to cousins conning her.

    • @jobmary2140
      @jobmary2140 2 года назад +7

      You're right. At 48.... married once for about 2yrs. And I'm proud to be single.

    • @nyamburatheuri7739
      @nyamburatheuri7739 2 года назад +2

      So true

    • @rosemarymukwanyara7942
      @rosemarymukwanyara7942 2 года назад

      Please l want to meet you or give your number.

    • @SusanWanjiku33
      @SusanWanjiku33 2 года назад +2

      True

  • @martynkalasya9749
    @martynkalasya9749 2 года назад +171

    I hv nvr come across a woman praising her dad 4 bringing her up single handedly like this woman, thats a plus + 4me.kudos

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 года назад +10

      Most men don’t do that but I am sure those brought up by single dads appreciate that more than ever because it’s not the norm in our African society

    • @judykihuria6075
      @judykihuria6075 2 года назад +11

      There is a time my mum left for 2 years and dad ( may his soul rest in peace) took good care of us. Had the best dad in the world.

    • @bettya4601
      @bettya4601 2 года назад +2

      I always do! Always and may he rest in perfect peace

    • @blaquecinderella3560
      @blaquecinderella3560 2 года назад +5

      @@Canadianlove they do it just that they don't mehemehe about it like women. You will be surprised

    • @phyllisplays3811
      @phyllisplays3811 2 года назад +9

      Me and my other siblings were brought up by my dad after my mum die for 10years before he remarried,so there are wonderful men doing great job out there..

  • @emmaculatemenzeiwa
    @emmaculatemenzeiwa 29 дней назад +13

    OH MY GOD, SHE WAS MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST. THANK GOD SHE IS FREE

  • @caroakosa9221
    @caroakosa9221 2 года назад +15

    It's sad am watching this a week after we buried a 33 year old in our village who committed suicide coz she was tired of her husband's emotional/ verbal abuse. She kept telling her friends, NIMECHOKA NA MATUSI.
    She didn't have to die. If it's not working, PLEASE LEAVE.

  • @angellakoki8954
    @angellakoki8954 2 года назад +279

    I wish one day I'll get the strength to tell my story because seeing this takes me back to it (same script different casts) so many women are six feet under because they didn't walk away and I almost became part of that statistic...I hope women love themselves enough to walk away from abuse.

    • @jobmary2140
      @jobmary2140 2 года назад +11

      Men go through the same too. I know a lot with similar story.

    • @NjeriMariiyu
      @NjeriMariiyu 2 года назад +6

      May God give you the grace and strength 💓.

    • @bettyndungu5187
      @bettyndungu5187 2 года назад +3

      What an incredible human being🤭🙄
      Njeri,you are beautiful inside out.Push forward and never never go back to abusers.
      Make yourself comfortable with yourself and your children🙏🏿

    • @Afr1canQueen
      @Afr1canQueen 2 года назад +3

      You got out and that was a brave move. One needs more than strength to do what you did.

    • @nyamburanjengah5797
      @nyamburanjengah5797 2 года назад +6

      @@jobmary2140 get a forum and share the story too. No one shud suffer in silence

  • @tubtarax7757
    @tubtarax7757 2 года назад +86

    Thank you Njeri, from today I’ll try my best not to hurt any woman. It’s so sad that some people develop trauma bonding, instead of leaving the abuser.

  • @winniem8115
    @winniem8115 2 года назад +44

    ' Let me stay for my kids. '.....This statement is the downfall of many mothers in abusive marriages. So sad

    • @elizabethwangari9644
      @elizabethwangari9644 7 месяцев назад

      True

    • @JacklynJuma-lr7jr
      @JacklynJuma-lr7jr 4 месяца назад

      Very much so

    • @lonitenten
      @lonitenten 2 месяца назад

      Pretty Woman sympath. Your ex. was sick. This is the reason why we African Woman should not depend on Men. Learn a Job be independend.

    • @isobelndoro
      @isobelndoro 17 дней назад

      Yes 😢

  • @lynekyampire7843
    @lynekyampire7843 2 года назад +15

    This reminds me of how my mother in-law said am small and short thus i can't fit to be his sons wife...she made sure i can't move on with his son yet i was already pregnant for his son ,,his son woke up one day and told me leave i no longer need you in my life ..
    5 years now of being a single mother ,,but that statement still tortures my mind ,,i have never believed am beautiful no matter how ppl tell me that am more beautiful ...it still hurts me

    • @mercymumbi958
      @mercymumbi958 2 года назад +1

      I pray for your healing in Jesus Name Lyne. You are beautiful. Please say to yourself how beautiful you are every day. Words have power. You are beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️

    • @lynekyampire7843
      @lynekyampire7843 2 года назад

      @@mercymumbi958 thank you so much Mercy

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 9 дней назад

      Find out what your creator says about you, dear, not what some random evil woman said about you. Find your identity in Christ.

  • @HardlyTalk
    @HardlyTalk 2 года назад +103

    Can we appreciate Mr. Migwi for his consistency as a parent, solid as a rock. This story is so powerful and am glad she told it. She is light despite experiencing darkness. More power to you Njeri Migwi

  • @fancylangat7994
    @fancylangat7994 2 года назад +32

    This mama doesn't know how beautiful she is,inner and outer beauty. God bless you Njeri.

  • @archie2555
    @archie2555 2 года назад +20

    Omg this woman, i saw her at some poetry event.and i loved her!!her personality, confidence wow.cant believe a man tried breaking her confidence and she still came out on top

    • @cynthiaherah7510
      @cynthiaherah7510 2 года назад +1

      Excellent interview ..she's beautiful indeed. My thing is if you are not allowed to speak up for yourself in a marriage...then run

  • @AmayaRue2360
    @AmayaRue2360 2 года назад +92

    Reminds me of my ex. He would describe my ugly nose, pimples etc especially when l was pregnant. 😤 I am so happy to be free of that emotional abuser

    • @life-tech-talks
      @life-tech-talks 2 года назад +5

      Hugs

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 года назад +7

      Narcissist are worst creatures if someone hasn't met one ..they know nothing of different abuse.let me salute myself I rescued myself from one who keeps coming back to me.

    • @jacklinekabali9623
      @jacklinekabali9623 2 года назад +6

      Even me the father of my first born used to abuse that he helped me to marry me but am not his class,am very urgly with big chics

    • @barbaraolesi1079
      @barbaraolesi1079 2 года назад +3

      I am so sorry that you had to go through that and I pray that you have since healed.

    • @AmayaRue2360
      @AmayaRue2360 2 года назад +3

      @@jacklinekabali9623 hugs sis 🫂

  • @liliannyapolo8850
    @liliannyapolo8850 2 года назад +210

    Everyone has a story that we don't know; let's be kind to one another!

  • @rebeccawandia6240
    @rebeccawandia6240 Год назад +14

    The fact that this incredible woman can narrate all this with a lot of confidence and smiling means a lot.She has healed,she is over it,,you are blessed mama

  • @JENNIFERAOKECH
    @JENNIFERAOKECH 2 года назад +19

    "LEAVE TABLES WHERE LOVE IS NO LONGER BEING SERVED." Thank you again Njeri, for sharing your story and reaching out to those struggling with effects of GBV. You are a great person, you deserve the best, beautiful, brilliant lady.

  • @janendungu1663
    @janendungu1663 2 года назад +207

    Nothing hurts a person's more than verbal and emotional abuse. It lowers one self esteem and value on oneself. Thanks Njeri for standing in the gap for all those going through any form of abuse.
    Your story has triggered so many emotions but one day I shall live to tell my story.

    • @lilianmoraa9621
      @lilianmoraa9621 2 года назад +1

      This one breaks you like shiet

    • @debratyrell9616
      @debratyrell9616 2 года назад

      Thank you..it almost sent me crazy

    • @estherwangui9164
      @estherwangui9164 2 года назад +3

      I can testify,I contemplated suicide so many times,I hated myself,I hated life 😔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.I thank God for the grace of courage to leave 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      The journey to healing is not easy,a day at a time

    • @keziahosuala8372
      @keziahosuala8372 2 года назад

      Exactly

    • @mjimgaamwingine1672
      @mjimgaamwingine1672 2 года назад

      Money buy everything

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna9653 2 года назад +83

    There is always pain behind 99% of smiles.The rejection she faced while young is her greatest undoing

  • @janealala1332
    @janealala1332 2 года назад +24

    Why did that man tell Njeri wa Migwi that she is ugly? She is beautiful. I loved every minute of this show. What an amazing lady, mother and mother of 4 cats. Initially I got to know her because of our love for cats, then I discovered her organization and the great work that she does. Amazing woman she is.

    • @simplicityseeu
      @simplicityseeu 2 года назад +1

      Because he is a monster and was insecure. That’s what controlling abusers do. They try to lower your self esteem and then they isolate you from friends and family.

    • @lucygikonyo2437
      @lucygikonyo2437 4 месяца назад

      True she's beautiful

  • @bcaiqs
    @bcaiqs 2 года назад +12

    “Leave tables where love is not served“ powerful words !!!
    Njeri you are beautiful inside and out !! God bless you and continue to direct your path . 🙏🏿

  • @patricianabende7674
    @patricianabende7674 2 года назад +78

    I remember this lady. She was so bubbly and told me the story of her daughter and that story stayed with me. This story has really touched me. Your dad is an angel

  • @danydanie1098
    @danydanie1098 2 года назад +28

    I’m not even Kenyan…so I couldn’t understand Swahili. I finished the whole video…I laughed, cried and I learned. She’s deeply courageous and she’s a true gem 👏👏👏👏👏.Njeri you are beautiful❤️👏👏👏👏👏.

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 2 года назад +2

      I thought this is in English except for only a few phrases here and there

    • @danydanie1098
      @danydanie1098 2 года назад

      @@ladysafari01 oh yes. It's English...I should've been specific of course in my comment. Also I think I was also thinking about the other videos I watched that same day that had a lil more Swahili in it. But anyone can understand the progression of the story when they switch back to English later on. I understood and enjoyed them all at the end. And I noticed some also have translations so it helps. Have a good day.

  • @nyamburaadventures_ke
    @nyamburaadventures_ke 2 года назад +20

    This is soo touching.A clear evidence that material possessions do not really equate to a good life in some circumstances.

  • @karenmutune1178
    @karenmutune1178 2 года назад +11

    Leave tables where love is nolonger served.... I'm leaving tomorrow
    Thank you Njeri
    ❤️

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 года назад +56

    If you're out there watching this video & going through similar situations, you deserve better. I pray you get out safely🙏🙏🙏

  • @maphuthakhosa3510
    @maphuthakhosa3510 2 года назад +66

    Your dad is an ANGEL! A destiny Helper, encourager, protector, etc. This love is too oooo much.

  • @theprayingcitizen7441
    @theprayingcitizen7441 2 года назад +15

    This has taught me to respect ,treat kindly,pray quietly for even people I do not know what hell they are going through in life.

  • @lethiwevinjwa7247
    @lethiwevinjwa7247 Год назад +9

    I love how this woman narrates her story.. Her composure is empaccable

  • @angelinambithe7302
    @angelinambithe7302 2 года назад +67

    That part "mummy where is the rest of the house?" Killed me 😃
    Wah aky life

    • @vantbakdesigns1496
      @vantbakdesigns1496 2 года назад

      Is he a goat? The mirraa driver🤣

    • @Alba-Shi
      @Alba-Shi 2 года назад

      And ..."is he a goat 🐐??🤣🤣🤣

  • @sheerow371
    @sheerow371 2 года назад +185

    Those people out there calling single mothers names without even knowing how difficult it is to walk out of their marriage should now relate to this story. Before a woman walks out of her marriage she has seen it all, think twice before you call that single mother names..

    • @dancynancy8854
      @dancynancy8854 2 года назад +3

      Break up is not an easy thing but my dear happiness is a choice....if you are in a relationship to pliz the other one and in your side you are not happy it's good you quit....

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 года назад +7

      Exactly.Most people insult and abuse single mothers not knowing exactly what these women go through.I wish people would learn to be kind to single mothers instead of being abusive

    • @sheerow371
      @sheerow371 2 года назад +9

      @@dancynancy8854 my point is single mothers should be respected not call them names, they have already gone through a lot , they leave to look for peace..

    • @Jojo-pv3uf
      @Jojo-pv3uf 2 года назад +3

      In her case, she was a single mother from the start. She never legally married the man. She ran away from home and stayed there, even parents didn’t bless this marriage (from her own admissions). Once again; when you do things out of the will of God, bad things happen. When you disobey your parents like she did, bad things happen. If she had taken her time to grow up, she won’t have chosen this man. But the choice was hers and she made it, and it led to some horrible consequences.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 2 года назад +22

      @@Jojo-pv3uf you’re so silly

  • @josephinewanjiku7406
    @josephinewanjiku7406 2 года назад +15

    You are incredibly amazing Njeri. I love that you haven't wasted your pain but by the grace of God have turned it into a mission for saving others in related circumstances. Working with women in addressing ACES and trauma has taught me that, trauma bond is the real glue that sticks a victim to the abuser and it's the hardest to break in domes abuse and violence. I wish you the best as you continue to heal. I can totally relate. I am walking on this path too for self and with fellow women. Keep at it as long as it takes. I thank God every time I see someone get to rise above their story!❤️. Keep up the good work
    Thanks Lynn for having Njeri. Keep up the good work too.

  • @joycekarimi2787
    @joycekarimi2787 2 года назад +18

    Her smile is beautiful....it's easy to believe something when it's constantly said to you even when it's not true and one thing she believed is that she's not beautiful and that for sure is a lie. She's one beautiful woman both physically and heart wise. Am so glad she finally decided to let all the hiden pain out...speaking up to all that she's carried all this time was a goo dc decision...Am proud of her

  • @nomkhosizondo5548
    @nomkhosizondo5548 2 года назад +23

    This woman is beautiful the man she got married to had his own insecurities...toxic people can infect you with negativity

  • @murugithecook
    @murugithecook 2 года назад +277

    I just want an hour with these two amazing ladies. To cry uninterrupted, tap from their wisdom, refocus and get my life back together. Until you're abused this never makes sense. I mean this gives me chills down the spine. I wasn't physically abused but all the emotional abuse, mental abuse reflects on your body.. how ended up on anxiety pills till now will remain a story.

    • @bilhacherop2315
      @bilhacherop2315 2 года назад +7

      Hopefully your wish will be granted🙏

    • @kawira444
      @kawira444 2 года назад +5

      njere your very beautiful🎉,God bless you for all that your doing

    • @bethruga2556
      @bethruga2556 2 года назад +4

      Lynn Ngugi, Njeri Wa Migwi

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 года назад +21

      Hello Murugi,
      Kindly send me an email, lynnngugi4@gmail.com

    • @gracenyaboke8483
      @gracenyaboke8483 2 года назад +7

      Hugs Murugi

  • @nettiemafunga9400
    @nettiemafunga9400 2 года назад +15

    I agree 100% that if a man is abusing his wife he tries by all means to be good to her relatives so that they will have difficulty believing the woman who is being abused. Wicked thing to do.

  • @sheila1391
    @sheila1391 2 года назад +9

    This woman right here is force to reckon with. We are inspired by all you do to help those who haven't mastered their courage yet ❤️❤️❤️

  • @violetkwamboka1195
    @violetkwamboka1195 2 года назад +126

    lynn she is so beautiful let her know that . she does not need anyone's opinion to tell her beautiful

    • @donahchemtai4158
      @donahchemtai4158 2 года назад +3

      For sure she is pretty

    • @Kaswity2000
      @Kaswity2000 2 года назад +2

      Exactly she's so beautiful n a beautiful heart also❤️❤️💃

    • @violetkwamboka1195
      @violetkwamboka1195 2 года назад

      @@Kaswity2000 very much i love her

    • @thandiwemseteka3963
      @thandiwemseteka3963 2 года назад +1

      Njeri you are indeed very beautiful. Your first husband must have been too blind to see your beauty.

  • @rachealkinuthia4781
    @rachealkinuthia4781 2 года назад +59

    she's really gorgeous! 😊 I'm not even saying this to make her feel better. she's veryyyyy beautiful!!!!

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 года назад +14

    First of all this woman has a sense of humour. She's also a good story teller. It's a pity but so many women have gone through it and very many still going through it. Thanks for sharing.

  • @anenaevaline9761
    @anenaevaline9761 2 года назад +10

    This woman is super beautiful. I can't believe someone would say she's ugly. Her smile is breathtaking.

  • @rebeccahmbote2135
    @rebeccahmbote2135 2 года назад +20

    Who feels that the lady's name should be JOVIAL.she is such a darling 💕

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +43

    Njeri wa Migwi is an amazing woman! Your husband was insecure about himself & that's why the belittling 💔God put a great ministry in you and we stan you Queen❤️👑

  • @unclesamthepreacher
    @unclesamthepreacher 2 года назад +7

    Njeri we were inn the same church. You really supported my wedding and your daughter coloured the Day. And all along never knew you going through all that. I am convinced you are destined for greatness. Hold your Head up high. You transforming lives and I celebrate you

  • @franciscaotieno429
    @franciscaotieno429 2 года назад +5

    What an inspiration Lynn,this lady is amazing and for sure those who cling to abusive relationships to learn from this.LONG LIVE MIGWI.God bless you

  • @yvonnemungai4463
    @yvonnemungai4463 2 года назад +29

    She was destined for greatness.... and i have noticed when you are great the devil brings a crazy spouse with soul ties,bondages...

  • @gracemugare2936
    @gracemugare2936 2 года назад +26

    We used to be together at JCC and listening to you now I understand you. I thought you were a snob. I came to see your child at Marter hospital. You served God diligently. Nice to see you Njeri

  • @carolyneluttah1903
    @carolyneluttah1903 2 года назад +49

    I have had a nasty narcissistic experience this year and this is such an eye opener. It is super hard to leave an abusive person because of the bond. They hurt you with their words and only they can heal you with their words. It's messed up its hard to believe that such things happen. Sorry Njeri. Glad you can talk about it.

    • @mercyomolewa220
      @mercyomolewa220 2 года назад +4

      True

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 9 дней назад +1

      No. Only God can heal you with His word. You don't give those people that much power.

  • @wakiomwangi5462
    @wakiomwangi5462 2 года назад +8

    But she is so beautiful...her smile ,her eyes...she is amazing with a heart bigger than any one else I have met

  • @pollynjonge2087
    @pollynjonge2087 2 года назад +25

    It may take years to walk out of marriage. It is the hardest thing to do.But that feeling of peace means everything.

  • @giftytengey2066
    @giftytengey2066 2 года назад +162

    I am really encouraged by the role her dad played in her life. He knew she wasn't in a good place and so did everything to support her to go back to school. Even to the extent of taking care of her young son. I APPLAUD YOU DAD 👏 . An example to every parent to support their children no matter their stubbornness. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 Год назад +9

    Lynn asking her “you are working towards what?” As a survivor of horrendous domestic abuse… It is very hard to think of self love or being beautiful…. Particularly when you have been told you are ugly & no one will ever love you.
    Unless you have walked in those painful DV shoes, you can never truly understand…
    What an amazing, resilient woman Njeri is! God bless her & her children.

  • @seerajovitah247
    @seerajovitah247 2 года назад +11

    Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder this woman is beautiful to me I love her eyes

  • @Prisca.W
    @Prisca.W 2 года назад +101

    Just here to remind y’all that whenever a person tells you you’re not beautiful/handsome, the authority belongs to you,you only get to decide that.I love these two phenomenal ladies so much.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +148

    Was eagerly waiting for this segment 😍If things don't work out my kids are always welcome home❤️Big up to her Dad

    • @shikowarui6390
      @shikowarui6390 2 года назад +4

      I totally agree, her dad is truly the best 👌

    • @eunicechacha4052
      @eunicechacha4052 2 года назад +12

      That's what dad told me,and came for me and my girl at the bus station..I am forever grateful to him

    • @nyamburam240
      @nyamburam240 2 года назад

      💯

    • @gladysmoraa4818
      @gladysmoraa4818 2 года назад +1

      @@eunicechacha4052 thank your dad is very good man

    • @felistasnjeri2196
      @felistasnjeri2196 2 года назад

      Very very important

  • @alicenjoroge4021
    @alicenjoroge4021 2 года назад +22

    She's beautiful inside-out and I was privileged to be in the audience to listen to this story ❤️

  • @laniaquaccoo1214
    @laniaquaccoo1214 Год назад +5

    I am honestly looking at this woman and said what a beautiful smile…. How in this world anyone can call her ugly…

  • @diahannrosai6950
    @diahannrosai6950 2 года назад +88

    That cousin is yet another reminder for myself not to trust my own family members.
    🐍 🐍 🐍

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 2 года назад +29

    Ugly wapi. Girl toto is eye candy. camera friendly and above all, good heart exuding inner beauty

  • @DineoC
    @DineoC 2 года назад +38

    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, not because of the struggles Njeri went through but because of the grace this woman carries. I wish I can give her a huge hug. Epitome of a real woman. Love from the U.S. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL SISTER!! Lyn you’re doing an amazing job, God bless you!

  • @faithmwik6852
    @faithmwik6852 2 года назад +10

    Happy for her to have found peace.. Being exposed to Gender Based violence while young together with my sister....it really had a toll on us but I'm always grateful to God my mom ran for her dear life together with us. God has been our anchor and He still is. So Usikimye .. thanks for the interview Lynn .... and yes ...Njeri you are Beautiful!

  • @joymaggy3295
    @joymaggy3295 2 года назад +30

    what a story ,she is a good orator not a dull moment listening to her story ,a beautiful and strong woman ,hugs Njeri.

  • @Karol_Lynne
    @Karol_Lynne 2 года назад +39

    A woman i admire so much for the incredible work she does..I always wondered where she got her strength from but never imagined that she went through hell herself

  • @merciaomollo8667
    @merciaomollo8667 2 года назад +2

    She's an amazing woman,I love her and appreciate her so much..I've watched her from the beginning of the interview,and you can clearly see how strong willed she is...May God continue to bless you Njeri

  • @annmimo37
    @annmimo37 6 месяцев назад +3

    Isn't it beautiful to watch one shake off the dust of a past storm with such undefeated demeanor and a beautiful smile 😊?such an incredible inspiration ❤

  • @Krizadh
    @Krizadh 2 года назад +75

    I loved her narration: she is no longer bitter.. I can feel it in her voice

  • @patriciachakawatah2787
    @patriciachakawatah2787 2 года назад +22

    Congratulations Lynn Ngungi on your first live show ... You're the next Oprah Winfrey 👏👏👏

    • @nightallen4704
      @nightallen4704 4 месяца назад

      She doesn't need to be Oprah! She's better

  • @yourmajesty8742
    @yourmajesty8742 2 года назад +12

    I love this lady 😻. You are gorgeous and perfect. You are winning. Edit .. Dad if you read this thank you for being a wonderful father to her.

  • @Wil_Sim
    @Wil_Sim 3 дня назад +2

    Njeri you’re phenomenal and it’s a miracle you’re still here ❤
    From 🇳🇬

  • @stanleyKE
    @stanleyKE 2 года назад +27

    I'm proud I got a chance to attend the live experience 2022 I took home soo many lessons looking forward to more of this thanks @Lynn and your team for the good job

  • @mwendevibes
    @mwendevibes 2 года назад +88

    I love what Njeri is doing, she deserves everything good in this life.

  • @lilacjoseph9509
    @lilacjoseph9509 2 года назад +6

    This woman is the most beautiful human being have ever seen.......inside and outside she is beautiful

  • @catherinequill7811
    @catherinequill7811 2 года назад +3

    This lady is so nice and witty.... ugh people can be monsters..... thanx Lyn for sharing their stories.. I hope she heals and gets the love she deserves......

  • @nazlenewambui1104
    @nazlenewambui1104 2 года назад +84

    I keep saying this,
    The strongest women we see out here, the bravest women we see
    The women that we see laying their lives for others out here have been through the worst experiences and that's why somehow,they get it!!
    May God bless you Lynn and Njeri!
    One day I'll get the courage to speak out and tell my story.
    Until then, I get inspired and love these women I look up to ❤️❤️

    • @blandinamyinga9489
      @blandinamyinga9489 2 года назад +4

      absolutely"" y can't be a great teacher without painful experience darling.have you ever wondered or asked yourself why most if not many successful women are divorced??

    • @elizabethmuthoni7049
      @elizabethmuthoni7049 2 года назад +1

      Love you babe

  • @nekesamapesa
    @nekesamapesa 2 года назад +18

    I have been on a similar rough journey and sometimes I feel ashamed that I am 35 and have nothings to show for it but I trust that God will send me my destiny connector soon. Relationships can steal years from you but God is a restorer.

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 2 года назад +2

      Your young and beatifull,God will bless u.

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa 2 года назад +1

      @@sharleenjj8548 Amen

    • @furahahappiness110
      @furahahappiness110 2 года назад +4

      Your not alone sis I'm 35 with nothing living with my mom starting from scratch 😭

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa 2 года назад

      @@furahahappiness110 I have been living with my mom until just last week when I got a job and had to leave my daughter with mom. But you know what, God has a plan even in all these chaos. I believe there is a lesson in it. And now that I have gone through a terrible relationship I know better than to rush into another. 5 years single and my relationship with God has never been this good. He gives us trials so that we can get closer to him and depend on him completely. Trust in him and his plan.

    • @tumaamir2904
      @tumaamir2904 2 года назад +1

      I have also stared from scratch. I lost so many years in a bad relationship but i thank God he is a God of second chances.Returned back home my dad helped me start a business and its thriving. Let me be single till God feels its the right time.After healing and bonding with God

  • @cholhoknaam1539
    @cholhoknaam1539 2 года назад +3

    I would buy her book. 🙂😊💞 Such a powerful story of resilience. Those who are strong also need to be cared for.

  • @lydianjeri295
    @lydianjeri295 2 года назад +4

    I have no word to say thank you to lynn for inspiring me and to allow me and for the many young youth to make good decisions in our lives...And for njeri she is so beautiful in and out...God bless her for coming up and sharing her story with us and to you lynn may God expand your teritories and give you strength to continue doing this great job

  • @mercydaniel8879
    @mercydaniel8879 2 года назад +11

    Wah! I knew Arleene From church, back when she drove the Range and BMW. She was rich and looked so put together, no one would have ever thought she's was going through all this. She also changiad alot in my wedding......
    It's hard to relate this story to the person I saw back then..... Wah!

  • @virginianganga5725
    @virginianganga5725 2 года назад +32

    I walked away from my baby Daddy because of my son..I didn’t want him to grow up in an Abusive family.I cried so many times

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 года назад +4

      You did great

    • @marilynmckund4197
      @marilynmckund4197 2 года назад +3

      Your son will always be proud of you for you are a selfless and brave mom. May our good God bless you always.

  • @wambuikarori
    @wambuikarori 2 года назад +1

    A whole powerful. Ahhh, so proud of Njeri. Thank you Lynn for amplifying voices.

  • @annnjoki5868
    @annnjoki5868 6 месяцев назад +7

    Coming from a broken family too as a child, acceptance and trying to prove that it can work out is something you struggle with..

  • @murungaruchris245
    @murungaruchris245 2 года назад +12

    The only reason I had to watch the whole program is the fact the girl is still fighting at 16 and with all she has gone through she took home a B+😭😭😭 there's hope and I'll serve this God to my last breathe

  • @juddiemunge
    @juddiemunge 2 года назад +26

    Here to always learn something positive that apply in our daily lives. Njeri is truly a hero, no one could tell that she has undergone pain in her life kuz the smile that she comes out with and help many people out here but am happy she's now a victor and not a victim as Lynn always say. Thank you Lynn for sharing this beautiful platform with LN team, God blessings 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kellen.g1158
    @kellen.g1158 2 года назад +8

    This woman is brave...so..beautiful...eyes n smile,

  • @rosemichieka6343
    @rosemichieka6343 6 месяцев назад +1

    Njeri, you are awesome. You have taken all the broken pieces from your life , all the tears you shed and weaved that into something beautiful!

  • @anijaye503
    @anijaye503 2 года назад +46

    It is so sad when someone breaks down our self esteem. This lady is so beautiful, inside and out, and it is so hard to imagine that she believed the hurtful words that she was ugly.

  • @taniatanita7470
    @taniatanita7470 2 года назад +16

    but she's beautiful naturally she need to accept that
    men who are abusive and sadistic can call you ugly if they want to kill you slowly....she better accept reality that she's indeed beautiful and step like she owns the world

  • @christinejanet4051
    @christinejanet4051 2 года назад +2

    She's one Selfless and beautiful lady with a big heart. I can't see ugly from this mum. I am touched by her Honesty.
    Both Lynn and Njeri, may God keep you longer just to keep our community healed.

  • @mamawatorotalks8208
    @mamawatorotalks8208 2 года назад +5

    You are beautiful
    “You are our here showing people empathy and compassion and you forget yourself” those words hit home Njeri, Being an Empath means going through a prickly world and sometimes loosing yourself in helping others and being rejected when you are done
    May God keep listening you up to higher heights, May your plate overflow
    Forgiveness is powerful 🙏🏾

  • @rosenangila1125
    @rosenangila1125 2 года назад +12

    Her English 👌👌,, I love her, so bubbly 😍 a contagious smile .... Eish beauriful Njeri

  • @lornabaricho9243
    @lornabaricho9243 2 года назад +14

    Woyee.... I can't stop crying when I remember what my mother went through while we were young 😭😭😭😭may God intervene in our families. Sometimes am scared am not even ready to get married. Njeri you're so beautiful mamaaa

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove 2 года назад +1

      Pray for a good husband.God will bless you with one.My daughters are scared too

  • @bettylorna6768
    @bettylorna6768 6 месяцев назад +3

    What a story,what a lesson,what a beautiful lady, Thankyou God for saving her and healing her.

  • @brijjorinje7834
    @brijjorinje7834 2 года назад +5

    She’s so real
    Like for real, for real
    So many women out here pretending all is well & it is not.
    Can we be ok with not being ok, be ok with being honest with who we really are & where we are in life
    Thank you Njeri 💝💕💝