They Warned Me Not to Marry My Indian Man, Now I Live with Regret
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- She thought she had found her soulmate in an Indian man 20 years her senior, despite her family's warnings.
They built a life together, but years later, she realized she had made a terrible mistake.
From tears and stress to finding resilience in her faith, this is her heart-wrenching journey of love, regret, and ultimate redemption.
Join us as we uncover the full story and the lessons learned.
Watch now to hear her powerful story and the crucial advice she has for others.
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Did anyone notice how beautiful she is, we bless the Lord for you mama, more grace and blessings for you🙏❤
indeed she is very beautiful
Kwanza hizo dimples make her more beautiful
I was thinking the same thing unbelievable beauty
Yeah
As a Hindu from India I feel sorry for this woman. She needs to contact the Indian embassy for assistance in filing a lawsuit against her ex-husband for alimony and maintenance.
They didn't marry, he didn't pay her dowry as per African culture
@@gcr1373 does it matter? He is still morally and spiritually obligated. Even if he never supports her, he will pay for his actions by way of God, the creator of our souls.
I don't think 🤔 indian embassy can help her. There more many more indian citizens suffering within the country but couldn't help them. Not to talk of her as foreigner 😂
@@GospelOutsideexactly
She can not get justice because Corruption in the Indian justice system will not make her get justice.
Love is blind but marriage is an eye opener.
Dated the ideal but sadly married reality😢. God is still seated on the throne Mama Alice
God of restoration, my God. We thank you. Only the Will of God will prevail. Your 2nd born daughter is busy collecting her own testimony. God will usher her back to your hands. Pls don't blame yourself without your journey, there would be no lesson learnt. God chose you, hence ordered your steps. This is a wonderful and inspirational story to us(women) who are trying to understand the journey of being called to Ministry. May the grace of God continously be upon you. Adora- South Africa
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Thank u
By then its too late
This is a bit of a click bait. The cover photo for the video says she “burnt” her son. What the video actually tells us is that she cremated her deceased son. I understand that for some people cremation isn’t a religious option, but let’s please be honest about the video contents.
Amen!!
Well said 👌🏾
Yes exactly 😂
😢
I got confused also, it’s probably the ex husbands religion to do cremation. So the tile is misleading
I was married to a terrible man before. I understand her pain. I pray that she can continue to heal.
Praying for you sister
@@FarFromFake2024 Thank you 🙏 God is great!
So sorry she had to go through this. Men that groom are pedophilic.
I am praying for you
I sent a reply. I am praying for you.
God is good. He is worthy of praise.
Pedophilic ??? This was clearly a non agreement between religion
The fact that he was your way older teacher 🤦🏾. He’s a predator red flag number ONE
Exactly
Age doesn't matter because my mom married to my father who was 20 times older than her but he loves her alot although he had no money he never let my mom suffer,,, the red flag here since that he denying to follow her custom told by her parents and lie about the dowry too because that time in 80s dowry is a huge play role marriage in India no dowry no marriage
@@doinkikinsanlyngka1197but in India it's different....
Yes , she is too blame too as well as her parents no the mother tried to tell her hard-headed daughter what was up.😅
If he was a predator, he would not stay with her for 28 years, such a long period, he would start his real cruelty ?? earlier!
I know her very well, the twin girl was once my tenant and the brother that passed used to visit the sister. I met the husband also. The story is true.
I schooled with the twins in the same school, and class...... this is honestly sad......😢😢
You mean In India or kenya?
Oooh my God 😢😢😢😢 this is painful
Listen to the story
@@jess_treatswere they born in Kenya or India.
My Lord ... This Is A Woman Standing On Faith ... God Plze Be With Her .... I Wish I Could Give Her A Hug ❤
This is why God in the Bible tells us to be equally yoke don't marry unbelievers
Am from India and I am Christian, love this woman. God bless her 🙏
Ameen
Ha tum logo ke propaganda ke story telling
When the light comes darkness has to back off and her story proves that true love is the love of God . God gives his light to whoever he wishes .. Amen
Well said
😊😊
yes
Amen
This lady was groomed by the older man as a child she cannot be blamed it is very unfortunate. Parents need to protect their children from predators
I agree but what could the parents do in this case? She was 19, they can only advise you. It's sad what happened to this woman my heart go's out for her.
She is to blame she never obeyed her parents as the bible teaches she was blinded by money….
The parents tried, can't you hear how many times the mother warned her and even put it in writing, a letter she retains to date. The girl was blinded by love. Saaaad 😢😢
Learn what grooming is....think if it was your child if you would say the same....a childs mind cannot fathom risks as an adult. Imagine even adults fall victim to love issues what more a developing mind @@tahliah6691
This is so teaching
If she is beautiful like this at her age, what when she was young
I can’t imagine… she was so pretty ofcourse
She is beautiful 😢 very beautiful
Swears she was so beautiful❤
True she is beautiful
She showed her pic when she was young, yeah she is beautiful
As an Indian Christian i apologise sister on behalf of our people
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sister is has nothing to do with being Indian simply as Christian you shouldn’t be unequally yoke it could been two Indian or two African who married to each other once they are not equally yoke if God is not midst of that relationship it will not work.
@@Anneslie20thank u
Thumbail indian fetches views.... Lots
@@Anneslie20God bless you sis
So sweet sister Our God is our protector don't worry in every obstacles God will be in your side I am from India i am a Christian like you,do pray for us and we also for you,God will continue to bless you
I saw this program while I am in the hardest time of my life, depression, crying and sadness everyday. My heart is burning 🔥 like a fire. MAY GAD SAVE me from this problem.
May The Almighty bless and safe you 🙏
@@anchaboye1062 Thank you dear🙏
In Jesus' name. Amen
God is faithful He is with you,May Lord Jesus forever be gracious to you.
@@Elle_official1 thank u
She is a strong woman. Heaven is her place
Oh yes!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Thats is verry true
You make mistake you responsible for your mistake congratulations
You are not strong. Stay with your people😂😂😂
Heaven is her place, but having a happy life on earth too is key.
The whole story reveals that both of them are firm believers of their own religions. They wanted to follow their religions, which lead to this situation. I have full sympathy with this mother.
This is a REAL understanding of being “UNEQUALLY YOKED”…
She Was Money Hungry.. Alot Of Young Girls In Africa Are Still Doing The Same Thing Now. Money Hungry Girls Sleeping With Foreigners In Africa 🌍 She Is Now Crying Nonsense Crying.
@@AfricanUSA-th9ovSorry if we still have the colonized mindset🤷🏽♀️ Foreign men good👍😒They always come with good intentions 👍😒
Especially getting married to an indian who are so deep into culture was so daring just because of the presents she received and how the society praised people who are whites@@AfricanUSA-th9ov
Most times when your mother warns you about the person you are involved with you need to listen children obey your parents in Lord for your days will be long praise be to GOD inspite of all that she went through Jesus saved her and her life is better than when she begged her journey
Your faith in God saved you. You are an amazing woman. I admire your courage. Im glad your daughter came back to you. May God continue to direct your steps.🙏
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She is really beautiful at her age. She must have been a queen at her younger years.
Yes that’s true
SHE LOOKS OLDER FOR HER AGE,APPEARS TO BE 70 NOT ON HER 50S
Why do ppl obscure the face of someone who has done something wrong. That man needs to be shamed.
If he reports there channel it can be blocked
Besides, clearly you can see the woman seeks peace in her life, opening up his image might open grounds for conflicts, which we both can see is not the aim of this broadcast but rather to preach Christ
I think about this with the news. The victim's faces are everywhere but not the abuser's.
Is it cremation that offend her?
B@@Kittycream645 the lockers are unfair 😢
This lady has a beautiful face and great skin. She must have been so stunning as a young girl; that’s what attracted that evil man. Took her innocence and left her broken. She will overcome one day.
Obsolutetly beautiful stunning
Boy died due to illness??
@@lucywangari400accident by a car
She already overcame and though tragic her son would have taken her life she was granted grace instead. God is good. We all choose where to spend Eternity. That's the beauty of it.
What a beautiful testimony..only Jesus Can save our soul..
Alice. That is a very eye opening experience. Praying for our children is a must. May the Lord wipe your tears away 😢
As women she has right to choose the religion she like
But u should never say Hinduism as evil god and I felt like it’s a way of discouraging our culture and gods
they are spreading hate against Hinduism...very shameful... good or bad people are everywhere
I'm Christian and I agree with you.
It's not like she didn't know the culture she was entering and many cultures in Africa forces the foreign partners (be you the husband or be you the wife) to follow the tradition of the country
Am sorry for her,but she can't play the "I was naive" card
My sister Jesus is Lord.His is the way truth and life.,No one can see God unless you see Jesus first
Jesus is the Lord and she finds the true God.
She didn't say Hindu is devil. She just said her husband is evil
Indian man too has right to beleive his releigeon. As this girl too has right to be christian. They should settle differences before marriage
What difference are you normal what she doing back with him maybe you should be in her shoe religions what god first he is real wicked please
Not in Kenya,her father was right
There’s nothing to settle. He swindled all the properties they built together to himself. He played her! He is an evil man
Do not be a unequally yoked with unbelievers 🙌🏽
She refused to honour God or her parents. So let this be a lesson. They werent even properly married.
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Knows a few that made it well ..great living..
Truth! ❤
@@lindc1070 They weren't properly married?
How so?
Religion cannot make me leave my family and marriage. But real salvation and an intimate relationship with God can.
hahaha
She was chased away. It's not her fault
@@trophywilson7211 Jesus Christ desires us to have a personal relationship with him so we don’t have sacrifice our children to false gods. He paid the price for us
For you to even write something like this lets me know that’s not only are you inconsiderate but also insensitive. She in a whole other country, you don’t know what this woman has been through. She also thought this was a way out to a better life. People make mistakes, I hope you don’t have a glass house while you’re throwing stones.
@@makeupmommy7868 She lived in Kenya. She just visited India after wedding and came back.
All your children will come back to you. You are a strong beautiful woman. You are blessed, Ma.
Yes she should keep her story on social media
There should be a movie on this woman's life.
Exactly 👍🏼
For sure, Especially for us young girls 😢
I think that would be so nice. We need to be enlighted more through actions coz they speak louder than words
You're absolutely. I'm seeing myself as the Alice character in the movie
Sad story😢.As women we go through a lot in the name of marriage.
Watching this made me to appreciate my parents even more .
You are a special woman.God will wipe your tears..
Which god
GOD BLESS THIS LADY IN JESUS NAME. HEAL HER MIND,SOUL,N BODY. 🛑✝️🙏🏽🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKES......JESUS LOVES UMS. ALICE. WOMAN OF GOD 🛑✝️🙏🏽🌠😇👼🏾✝️✝️✝️🌎🌅🌅🌅🌅🌅
@@jagatsimulationThe GOD that is within her, who wakes her up and sustains her through all her dark valleys of this experience on earth.
There is power in blood of Jesus
@@christinemongina1851Amen 🙏
I know Alice she was my college mate.Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ. Hang on to Christ and serve God with all your strength our God is a restorer He will bring back your second born for His glory.
Amen 🙏🏼
interesting....Meaning Ms Camel was your director.?
Amen. This is true HE will bring him back to you for true ❤❤❤❤
Amen!!!
Amen
I feel so sorry for Alice. She was young and vulnerable and he took advantage of her. He started grooming her when she was young. Alice was unequally yoked from the beginning. The man was in Africa and not respecting African customs and traditional culture. What a terrible situation!
But the man never married her
Really go marry kenya woman you will run
She had a family she was not taken advantage of the family advices her but failed to listen like most black women and they end up like this after they reach old age.
@@kman8446 i think you need to hear both side of story in such case ..all i hear iscomplaint....you married a hindu? And your christian,? Cremation is their culture...?
this is an issue of submission, she cld not submit
Please listen to the video properly, she says she was living together with him for 26 yrs. The issue started when she started hearing voices and wanted to follow her religion.
Thanks
Bt he lied to her from beginning, meaning he is not in support of her religion,kept her,made her believe in his religion
@@LawrenciaSowah people change over time. 26 yrs is a lot of time. & The older you get, the more you follow your religion & the more serious you get about it. Her husband became more devout later i guess.
He waited till you completed ur education ,this shows he loved u Alice. religion was the problem. May good God be with you and others who are on the same situations as urs.
Your story is exactly my story, the only difference I married a muslin man when I was 16 years old but I didn’t follow his religion . He was wealthy businessman. I left him when Jesus came to my dream telling me 2 words only ( This is the time ). But before that I raised my 3 children with the help of my mother and cousins, I raised them as Christian believers in secret till their father died he didn’t know that they are Christians, and this was with God’s grace and mercy. My 3 children now all married to Christians believers and had children. Every day I wake up thankful to my God Jesus Christ for following Him.
By the way when I asked for divorce he gave it to me 3 years after and before that he let me sign that I get nothing from him. When I left him I moved to London ( because I got my British citizenship when my husband moved there and opened a whole sale shop . So we got our British citizenship through the business because it’s a law. But for me it was God’s plan .
Yes I suffered a lot but never ever looked back because I trusted my God word ( I will never leave you, nor forsake you. Hebrews 13:5 ) Amen ✝️✝️✝️
I am 67 years old, and am still working as a live in carer and God is my provider and will always be.
Thank you Lord Jesus ❤️
I need your advice
@@adebusayoaladegbola7063
My only advice is pray all the time because prayers open all doors, but it should be prayers that’s within God’s will.
Don’t ever give up never. I prayed for God to baptize my children for 12 years every day because churches in my country refused to baptize them even they were members of the church and one of my daughters was a Sunday church teacher ( but I don’t blame them because my country is 90% Muslim country ) . After 12 years they were baptized by an Ethiopian & Egyptian priest and inside my country.
I prayed for 25 years for God to show me the way to leave my husband, and after 25 years God came to me in my dream to say now is the time ( God’s timing not mine ) .
Believe me when you believe from your heart and always pray with confidence of God’s words, then God will open the door for all what you asked for.
Don’t put a time or a date or anything, just pray and believe.
Thank you for your Testimony ❤❤❤
Amen ❤
Amen
She is beautiful and has a very precious soul
What a painful but inspiring testimony. I admire her strength and resilience.
She is a very brave woman of God. Indeed God has put the strength of a lion within her.
As a Christian in South Africa 🇿🇦 I feel so blessed by her testimony. Iam going through a lot in my life right now and I think God intentionally led me to this testimony and I am so thankful for it🙏
Thank you holy spirit for teaching me something new today, through this testimony
I wish I could have this lady's bravery and strength.
May.our Lord Jesus Christ be with her, for all the days of her life.
LOVE FROM SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
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Sister, there is nothing you are going thruogh that is new and that those who trust in him has not gone thru and overcome by His mercy
He just cured me from breast cancer last month without any medications just prayers but has this same sickness not kill others but yet others are saved
l mean devil projected that upon me and God fought on my behave and l am saved forever
Whateve u are facing right now is over in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen seek Him and He will come for you Amen
may holly spirit dwell in u
The statement, "This man was a just a teacher" hits differently and goes along way to show just how little teachers are thought of by society in African countries.......i feel your pain mum,
What she meant by that was he was not a rich man
@@kimb6900lol no she literally said he had money to give her everything she wanted. So I think what she meant was he was just a teacher so she couldn’t think he would be capable of hurting her later in life
No. She didn't mean it in a disrespectful way, she translated it directly from her native Kikuyu language. Relax
Everywhere, even in america
@@patriciarambert9261 Really??
The title of your video is very misguiding, burning her son - why - the father just followed his religious tradition of cremation, religion choices may be different but here respecting the dead need to be noted
My friend and I listened to our parents and lived to regret it. Sadly, parents can sometimes be very wrong.
God knows your heart and can still deliver you, free you and still bless you and carry you till the end of time
Follow the God of the Bible you can never go wrong
@@libbylib1819 parents things they doing the right thing but sometimes it works an sometimes it doesn't
But her mother was always interfering
She wanted dowry
I think her mother had her hand in her life
That's why it went hay way
Just pray to God only
there was nothing wrong with that marriage before (apart from dowry) If there was no religion, the boy wouln't have died and all would be fine!
She is a STRONG woman...May God continue to bless her life...
I recall a Muslim guy who came to me and was trying to sweet talk to me that he can change to my religion if I accept him, thank God I refused. kudos to this story. I know how majority of men behave esp if they want to get you. God's way of doing things works wonderfully, praying for this mum God can still bring you the right partner even at this moment. God is with you!
Don't try dear
But you can't even compare muslim beliefs to Hindu beliefs. In Islam there is no such thing as burning dead bodies. Being a muslim is just a simple life
Most practising Muslims marry other Muslims down to the right sect... (even though the men can marry Jewish or Christian). But if a man is Muslim and says he believes in Allah SWT but wants to marry a Christian, I wouldn't marry him. I'm Muslim but my advise is people should marry for the religion they both share.
@@TifBo good advice 👌 just to avoid this kind of misunderstanding
Unfortunately this happened to me 😢 I am a Christian and a Muslim came into my life by saying we worship the same God, and for an entire year he was overly nice, attentive, and proposed marriage in front of my parents. Everything was "picture perfect"... Until it started to be a nightmare. Im left handed so I was Constantly being redirected. I don't pray on my knees all the time, I drink a glass of water getting ready in the bathroom, we have never taken our shoes off at my house growing up, and I have 2 dogs. After my heart was completely vested, and add in a child I have that got attached to him. Now it was a constant battle. My 4 year old would end prayer in Jesus name, and he would flip out and try telling her it was bad words. He kept telling me there was no compulsion in Islam but showered me with hijabs, and gave me an English Quran. There were MANY NIGHTS I fell asleep crying to God because of the confusion. He was belittling me to think my belief process was wrong, and the anxiety got to me. It got really bad, but eventually after he got what he wanted from me (the same thing that he told me to watch out for in other men) something inside him either finally gave him a wake-up call. I never heard from him again. It hurt because I watched my daughter and her heart break, but I know that God intervened. At first I thought that the Love he had for God was dedication, and honestly alot of women are not accustomed or know the tactics of these people or their religous views. My parents warned me from the beginning. I tried to see a human being, but I wished I wouldn't have wasted my time, honor, and dignity. It left me embarrassed, feeling shameful, and I felt like I couldn't find anyone who relates.
Whatever this Mama is sharing should be included in school curriculum here in Kenya. This is wisdom upon wisdom.
Exactly. OMG 😮 From the age of ten, ALL african girls should be shown this video every 6 months until they reach 25 years.
That's a master piece. It will teach many esp the unmarried girls. Youth is a risky time in life. Very few girls can resist a man like your former husband. Enticing and advantage taking. First live can be forever blinding. You found your destiny after a lot of pain. Your children will all come back to you because God loves you. Light always overcomes darkness/ evil.
Gor Kumar was once my chemistry teacher and aged.. must be a true story and very sorry indeed
Who is Gor Kumar
The Hindu husband
Was my teacher as well believe we were in the same school.
Which part of India, how he remained unmarried till 40
I would like to advise her children, run away for your life from this abuser father. !!!! You have a wonderful mother!!!!
I have learnt a lot from this story, glory to God
I dont think 26 yrs of life was the man just wanting something temporary as he even waited her to finish college. I think it was just disagreements especially to do with culture and her parents kept coming in the way.
True
I apologize for your suffering but
A lot of confusion here.
Are you an Israelite or a kikuyu?
When you go to Rome do like romans
You get married to an Indian Then practice Hinduism
Your people shall be my people.
I am hesitant to attribute your problems to him or Hinduism two Christians marry and divorce in less that 5 years
You missed what she said. She said when she started to re-engage with her Christian faith, he changed. This was because she was beginning to break free from his coercive control and regain her confidence. He groomed her and preyed on her and started to control her. When she decided and started to take her life back, the monster in him started to show itself.
U calling a person monster just bcoz he's following his faith and religion 🙏, and I don't support her at all she left her kids for religion , that made him angry out of anger and sadness (usually people do terrible mistakes ) so he beat her I'm not even supporting him for this but the way it all went it's very clear that she wanna go back to her religion which he doesn't like , obviously being a Hindu he can't tolerate , as she can't simple... For me she ruined everything for sake of religion if your in a relationship u have to do some adjustments for the people u love it goes both ways he didn't wanna change as well as she there's nothing to do with only one person..... Tbh I don't see anything wrong with him and that will thing I don't agree it's only one side we're hearing we have to hear the both sides of the coin .
She's not interested in his money she got attracted to him bcoz of skin tone whatever it is , and he didn't wants sex just love he all wanted married her had children live happily in the between they didn't had anything not even single sign of him being a bad person . It's all started when this religion thing pop up he got angry that's it .@@caroljackson5051
This here is an intersting conversation.
While she is allowed to worship Jesus, since in Hinduism you can worship several gods as you wish, she never taught her children and husband in a humble way about her faith. In fact she did not practice it at all. She replaced it by something she did not actually believe in, doing the Hindu ceremonies without actually being into it.
And suddenly she breaks out: this is all wrong and evil. Only her god is true. That leaves a big chasm between them.
I think they were not close even before her return to Christianity.
Had they been, she would have shared her experience with him in such a way that he might have listened to her.
Both were programmed by their culture and not really adjusting one to another.
When he beat her at the crimation of their son, I think it was grief that made him violent. One person cries, another wants to beat somebody up.
this testimony gives me hope on the power of prayer of parents over their children. God is good. thank you for sharing your testimony
As an Indian...I gt goosebumps hearing your horrible pastlife that you've been gone through .... Hope that oneday you'll be free from all the anxiety and sadness that you faced in your life...you're such a strong woman who could stand alone by herself I really appreciate you I could feel what you feel you're such a great person....I'm from Northeast India and I'm a Christian... I'm 18 yrs old.... Love to hear your story.... May The Almighty God protect you from all sadness and heal you from all the pain that you faced till today....and thank you for teaching such a beautiful and helpful lesson to this young generation ....even my elder brother was taking drugs more than 1 and a half yrs we faced alot of prob....and issues in our life and because of him our family can't live a peaceful life....so my dear friends please pray for my brother and family so that we will together gt a chance to praise God together....and you my dear sis...keep everything to God he'll let things take place when the time is right and whoever read this comment by chance have a blessed life ahead including our beautiful sis....Jesus is the King ...Amen❤
'Do not be unequally yoked...' Unfortunately, I too did not listen to advise. The marriage lasted less then six months. By the time, it ended I was desperate to get away from him. The term 'pearl before swine,' kept popping up. 😢😢😢
That term popped up to me to when I was in love with someone who did not know God. The lady said, " men only change for what they love and want" that also confirmed and settled so many things. People who don't know God are dangerous for anyone's heart.
But even nowadays young ladies doesn't listen to the advices,if you advise them they say that you're jealous, anyway, sorry for what you went through
True
She couldn't listen because he bewitched her! He blinded her with Indian love potion to take advantage of her.
He ruined her life and got away with it!!!
Nothing like being bewitched,when a young lady falls in love with a rich person,she can't listen to the advice
true. you cannever really advice vvomen in love. they have to learn from themselves!
God bless you Alice. Your second daughter will also come back to you in Jesus' name. Please don't regret. This was all God's plan and you are so priviledged to be able to hear the voice of God. I'm praying with you. No storm lasts forever. May God bless you richly.
Amen
She is beautiful and strong women she went through a lot May God bless this women
Indians are natural salespeople personalities very charming and devieving i see right through them
There are many Indian Christians mostly found in North-East India and South India and there are many African-Indian happy marriages. I hope we can look past nationalities and skin colour❤✝️
I have learnt a lot from this story... thank you for sharing....God is good
She said: "As an Israelite girl." Her mother knew that she was not to marry a man from another nation. And that would surely bring trouble within her life and home.😢
Indeed 😢
marry from any nation man but don't marry and trust on muslim
what is israelite girl?
@@jawan055 another nation in Israel contest means somebody of a different beliefs not particularly about tribes or colours. When we have relationships with an uncircumcised man or woman, likely there will be problems. *Uncircumcised means yet to give their lives to Christ.
she is a descendant of JACOB
Alice you are truly a strong faith filled woman and my prayer is your second born comes around . Truly life is spiritual!
I pray for strength and more grace for this woman. What a lesson! We learn everyday
The level of intolerance that this sad story has generated in the comments section is amazing.
Let us be happy with our respective faiths and not find it necessary to disrespect others in the name of religion.
I dont read any intolerance in the comments
@@LeyftOrRaytreally!!!??
What a testimony. To God be the Glory. Thank you for sharing your story and blessing with us
The man seems to have loved her, the challenge was the very different customs
I agree with you
I agree.
The culture , custom and belief corrided.
1. Its women who pay dowry
2.The dead are burnt- Some Africans have started to practise cremation
3.Hinduism and Christianity are heaven and earth
This is the reason why her mother warned her. What are you doing on the shores if you are not interested of fish?
Perhaps that's true
If he didn't love her he wouldn't marry her but things turn out toxic for them because of all the misunderstanding, the age gap, the customs, the race and everything.
According to the African culture they were not married.
We also are Indian .not every Indian is a Hindu .we are from north east India most of the people here are christian.we have our own language.we don't know Hindi
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Faith things its not by forcing someone to believe,so the Hindu Man was forcing his wife to change into his faith religion which is wrong!!!,he should have just love her and care but faith things must not be involved.and also that style of burial burning I don't like it ,is not cool,we know that u have to go back in the soil.
I have a friend who is a Indian bt Christian
@@raymondjohn3798satan and God don't dine together
I live in the Caribbean
My husband from Amritsar/Sikh terrible lying people 🙄
He did not ask you to live with him but asked your father for your hand in marriage
Alice you are really strong woman.
Never regret. In life everything is written U have a strong faithfulness
My Indian baby daddy paid dowry to my parents but still i could not fit in so i Left. My son is Christian. He has a relationship with them, they love him but I'll never look back. Im so sorry you went through all that.
Me too my indian baby dad also paid dowry but I don't. Think we can be together so his very much involved in the childs life
@@NellyHamweemba-tn1cv it's not easy, but what I like about them is that they are hardly deadbeat fathers. They take care of their kids.
Exactly they do take full responsibility
Asian men are more dedicated fathers than African men from what I hear. She just picked a bad one.
Women please don't marry with in love or religion. But one think Indian know their responsibility.
Kudos to the team thst put this documentary up. God bless you all. This was so informative.
1 Esdras 9 vs 7,... Matthew 25 vs 32 to 33... Deuteronomy 23 vs 3..
We should always listen to our parents very good lesson
God had beatified u again.
Only the ones giving good advice.
@kalaini yes very true l also learnt the hard way, a few mistakes that l could have avoided only if l had listened to my parents several warning ⚠️
For all the people saying “always listen to your parents”, that statement is too broad.
Parents are not always right.
@johncbny but 99 percent of them are right choices for their kids
Surely...she got married by an Indian, embraced his faith. The man wasn't evil. If you decide to abandon your fauth, embrace what you move to. Let's not demonise Kumar. Neither is this lady evil.
They'd do with support.
There are many Indian Christians mostly found in North-East India and South India and there are many African-Indian happy marriages. I hope we can look past nationalities and skin colour❤✝️
If religion makes you blind....better not to follow any...In this case I hold both husband and wife responsible for whatever situation they are in....
Best comment ever. ❤️
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This made me cry. So glad that she escaped with her life and that at least 2 of her children came back to her!
When I listened to her bitter story, I shed tears. Thanks to God Almighty who revive her.
Sorry for being taken advantage to that Indian man. But praise God because He has worked for good in you.
it sounds like a normal relationship. she was an adult when she married.
@@godhg9694 18 is an adult but not for 40 yr old teacher
@@godhg9694 18 is an adult but not for 40 yr old teacher
@@godhg9694 normal? He is 20 years older than her and started sending her love letters when she was between 13 and 15 years. He told her he loved her when she was still in highschool and they got married when she was 18.
Please tell me where you come from and if thats "normal" over there.
@@godhg9694were you watching the same video?
This woman just leave her children because of her religion. Actually she don't know best religion is humanity. I don't think there is Full mistake of man .
we are living in a liberal world where religion is not forced......religion is a choice
@@maryadongo9427 do you know religion of humanity?
Do U know what is mean of mother?
There is no such thing religion of humanity . Who decide the rules of humanity ?
God will NEVER ask someone to abandon their kids! Your husband was angry. He felt that if you didn’t leave your son will be alive…
👍 lady destroyed her own family
Light and darkness do not meet. The choise is only one. THE LIGHT.
The issue here was cultural differences
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There's more problems than cultural differences. She was innocent, did not listen to her parents, did not understand what she thought was love was someone exploiting a situation, he did not respect her customs and his religious beliefs involve many gods - not the one God of the Christian faith. Once God called her name she could not turn away, ignore or disobey Him hollering (lol) her name. Be strong and courageous Miss Alice. God is with us.❤🙏✝️
I feel so encouraged mama with your story..may God heal you completely
Hello, my Christian brothers and sisters let's pray for her children to see the light.
I am a Hindu married to a Christian. We respect each other’s culture. We go to The church and to Temples.
In India, it is a criminal offence to demand for Dowry.
You can promote Christianity, there is no problem. But, you shouldn’t Demonise Hindu culture.
Very powerful Story....young girls it's important to listen to advice of parents...Soo much to learn from this..thanks Afrimax.
Sorry Alice.This world is not our home.
Your children carry your spirit and can get born again, keep on crying to God
Absolutely untrue. Please stop spreading false superstitious information with no evidence.
Marketing Christianity!
The other three kids were raised well. The child who was with her (RIP) shows his upbringing.
If her husband hit her ( I don’t support it!) but imagine his pain as a father. He lost his son! He trusted her with his son!
She is reckless and irresponsible! She will not take responsibility for her actions.
She walked out of her children because of Jesus!
Are you a real person ??you must be a member of her husband family and a hindu there is ONLY ONE GOD JESUS CHRIST OUR ONLLLLLLY LORD AND SAVIOUR.
blaming this lady for what happened. Get out of here
@@auntyp2980There is one God but many ways to reach God. Krishna is the God for some, Christ for some. There is no way you can tell which is the right way. Please stop taking the my way is the high way approach.
She came out without any children 30:28, so father was taking care of their children...
She must have been so beautiful as a young girl! The man took advantage of her naivety. She was used!
Beautiful lady we are so sorry for you. May God guide, protect, and love you always. Always think very, very seriously when dealing wuth other cultures
Jesus Christ 😢😢. This testimony talks to me. Thank you Servant of God. The hand of God is upon you. Watching from South Africa-Durban
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She is so pretty.
Though I am Buddhist and not an Indian but am staying here since I born as a refugee. Hinduism is my favorite religion in the world. Because of Hinduism, different cultures and religions coexist. India is a role model in the world that different religions coexist together happily. I appreciate Hindus' culture respecting all religions and I have been with them all along. So this man is an exceptional, we can't judge whole culture.
I know what it feels like to pay the price for disobedience ❤
So true @cathy I am also suffering the same, disobedience to my parent warned several times but I couldn't listen now I have to drink it to the last drop but God's Grace is all sufficient
Pole Alice, God will also send the other girl into your life, keep praying 🙏
I have learned alot from your story,don't marry someone you don't know their culture,Though the man took advantage of her because she was a small girl, in short listen and honour your parents.
God always help the oppressed.. as a Muslim watching this I pray to God never to leave the oppressed alone....prayers work ❤
If the two respected each other's boundaries. There's nothing wrong with visiting holy places. It seems she's suffering from some mental disorder. The only disheartening thing is that her children and husband didn't understand her mental situation. Her husband beat him that day most probably cuz he was angry that she couldn't take care of the child. Pity on the men who thought it was her responsibility only. Moreover they didn't take care of women
She lived in fear of what her mother told her. It was just in her mind.
The wrong choice was differences in faith(a Christian and an Hindu).
Two cannot walk together if they don't agreed together in faith
@@joycevernon8526 absolutely. Better to be single than to join hands with an unbeliever. There are 3 important things to marriage or relationship: communication, emotional and faith. If both parties do not align in these 3 things, likely there will be problems.
Absolutely true
Faith, age difference, cultural differences..in short everything
@@Seevawonderloafthere maybe many paths to “spirituality “ but only one path to God the creator of all things who’s only path is Jesus Christ who died and rose again one the 3rd day. Remember that the devil is a spirit too so it is not enough to follow the paths of spirituality without testing the spirit!!!
Only Jesus Christ showed His love by dying for you and I, only He rose in victory, and only He will be coming to take us to God’s Kingdom to live eternally in Heaven. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you that you may know Him. Jesus loves you 🙏❤️
God bless you Alice . May God continue giving prosperity and peace forever
Tim and Erica please bring this lady to your channel @ life is spiritual
This days even life choices you call them spiritual?! In all channels people are blaming rejection and spirituality.. Style up!
True coz life is indeed spiritual.Speaks alot on religion and being unequally yoked with nonbelievers
@@user-ij4nd5eg4o May the blood of Jesus set you free
Being a hindu I can assure this a propaganda post.Never judge a person by one sided story.Use your own brain and don't get trapped by her tears .She is too saying hindu gods are devils . Why?Just because your ex husband did convert to Christianity?
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If she pure why her children reject to her
Total propanganda and marketing. Making a marital issue into hating other person's religion. No wonder her well educated children chose to live with father. She was seeing devil and fire in his place of worship, but he was not having any such challenges with her place of worship. She was putting his culture down and showing up the typical my way is the only way superiority. Probably they had other marital issues as well, which are common after a long marriage and large age difference.
As per Alice's testimony, she had a very happy family with a house, 4 children with good education for about 20+ years. She didnt even had to work since her husband was taking care of all of them.. is what she herself confessed.
But Once she got a special "call" back to Christianity, her happy family was broken, her son passed away, she became homeless. So why is the "call" breaking a happy family. 😢
But she can get alimony from divorce. Indian laws are very positive and helpful towards women. Her God should have rather showed her a way to help her in this regard.😢😢
I think the husband is kenyan of Indian origin
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Then how did he get the divorce and took everything?
She was a Christian who deviated from the love of Christ because of her choice. I guessed as a young girl she miight not have understood what it means to have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ who is th way, the truth and the life
This woman is beautiful, am sure back then she was even more beautiful no wonder the Indian man fell in love with her.
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She was a child.
And now she has a big mouth, wonder what she was like in that marriage. It is her story, like to hear his side and the childrens side.
There are many Indian Christians mostly found in North-East India and South India and there are many African-Indian happy marriages. I hope we can look past nationalities and skin colour❤✝️