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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @Ellbat
    @Ellbat  6 лет назад +2369

    Ya girl is about as straight as a bendy ruler.
    There is advice on coming out at the end of the video, as well as some help below!
    General:
    www.stonewall.org.uk/help-adv...
    If you have religious parents (as this is often one of the most difficult situations for LGBT+ people)
    - diversechurch.website/home/11...
    - www.wikihow.com/Come-Out-to-S...
    - www.huffingtonpost.com/rolla-...
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    • @kevinhudson711
      @kevinhudson711 6 лет назад +91

      Ellbat I’m as straight as a swirly straw lol

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +74

      I’m crying ahhahahahaha

    • @forgeunit3561
      @forgeunit3561 6 лет назад +5

      Congrats

    • @leetus-deletus
      @leetus-deletus 6 лет назад +11

      Even though you've already come out to everyone, I still just wanna say well done for speaking out and making it public, even now.

    • @butter-on-dog-yes2264
      @butter-on-dog-yes2264 6 лет назад +17

      Good job!! I wish I was as brave as you ^^
      cuz I'm as straight as a rainbow

  • @katiedove7836
    @katiedove7836 6 лет назад +6176

    An extreme sport: coming out to your family before twitter does it for you.

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +298

      WHY AM I LAUGHING SO HARD AT THIS HAHAHA

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  4 года назад +241

      @The beast Just came back here to say that I was never gay, Im still bi and fuck you

    • @loishavert71
      @loishavert71 4 года назад +23

      @The beast *you're

    • @god985
      @god985 4 года назад +3

      Ellbat lol, someone‘s butthurt hm?

    • @shrekjuice9792
      @shrekjuice9792 4 года назад +18

      The beast I’m 20 ish and I’ve known I was gay since I was 10 sooo no

  • @bellapearce6688
    @bellapearce6688 6 лет назад +4136

    *”I didn’t really know how to tell my parents that I batted for both teams, because they’re not really into baseball”* 🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏

    • @jksavage2411
      @jksavage2411 5 лет назад +36

      Who else read this comment at the *EXACT* same time she said it lmao i did

    • @erinbell3250
      @erinbell3250 4 года назад +7

      I read this legit the same time she said it! 😂

    • @user-ko3xj3ih7v
      @user-ko3xj3ih7v 4 года назад +3

      OMG same wtf

    • @TheMooseCaboose
      @TheMooseCaboose 4 года назад +2

      This line is perhaps one of the most underrated funniest lines in the video.

    • @haydengoodall6767
      @haydengoodall6767 3 года назад

      Being English it possibly would've been more apt using the cricket analogy, but hey.. Good Onya. Carry on England.

  • @mairerolin
    @mairerolin 5 лет назад +4436

    Ellbat being bi
    me: ''I see this as an absolute win.''

  • @Isabelleers
    @Isabelleers 6 лет назад +3868

    My mom was like "I think everyone is a lil bi" like okay yeah sure but-

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +280

      Hahahahaha true tho 😂

    • @maggiethechattyhound9580
      @maggiethechattyhound9580 6 лет назад +169

      In psychology, it’s proven everyone hs at least on gay thought.

    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker 6 лет назад +107

      @@maggiethechattyhound9580 I have gay thoughts all the time and honestly, I'm too gay to function. lol

    • @oof9701
      @oof9701 5 лет назад +16

      My mom says that, she oftens dates a man and a woman at the same time.

    • @thatgirl8036
      @thatgirl8036 5 лет назад +19

      Hakuna Matata Thats wrong. Its been researched that you can be with men for your whole life and end up with a woman

  • @lolakoala3959
    @lolakoala3959 6 лет назад +3091

    I love this! When i came out to my parents as bi their immediate reaction was "YOU ARENT GAY???!!!"

    • @preciousjas6603
      @preciousjas6603 6 лет назад +83

      Damn😂

    • @lolakoala3959
      @lolakoala3959 6 лет назад +128

      @@preciousjas6603 ikr, my parents thought my pixie cut was a definite coming out statement 😂😂

    • @imadeyoureadthis1
      @imadeyoureadthis1 5 лет назад +149

      My brother thought I was gay. My mother throught I was straight. Guess what people, I AM BOTH!!! *When you try to please everyone*

    • @daninoa9650
      @daninoa9650 5 лет назад +12

      That happened to me too!

    • @jessicamae2025
      @jessicamae2025 5 лет назад +23

      @@lolakoala3959 same, i cut my hair short and my mum was so surprised i wasn't lesbian 😂

  • @ariko3635
    @ariko3635 5 лет назад +441

    I didn't even get to come out bc my mum just straight up was like "I don't care if you bring home a guy or a girl. As long as you're happy."
    Like yes, I love you and appreciate your support but also I wanted a dramatic coming out. But ya know. I came out to my friends. Turns out they're all gay. What a world

    • @instantentertainment2800
      @instantentertainment2800 4 года назад +30

      You mum sounds like that BEST

    • @skandisjvel1147
      @skandisjvel1147 4 года назад +12

      Ariko
      Awe, I wish I had a mom like that

    • @larahoyer3654
      @larahoyer3654 4 года назад +17

      TURNS OUT THEY'RE ALL GAY😂

    • @fantasticfrances
      @fantasticfrances 3 года назад +3

      @@larahoyer3654 i have a theory that LGBT people just naturally gravitate towards eachother cos all of my friends ended up coming out as LGBT and we all identified as straight when we first met.

    • @larahoyer3654
      @larahoyer3654 3 года назад +3

      @@fantasticfrances yup could be True I feel like a lot of my friends are bi

  • @fizzfaizah8822
    @fizzfaizah8822 6 лет назад +1629

    can we talk how stunning you look today,gurrrrl

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +131

      I got dressed up for you ok

    • @fizzfaizah8822
      @fizzfaizah8822 6 лет назад +22

      Ellbat i feel special

    • @aaliyahkatarina7791
      @aaliyahkatarina7791 5 лет назад +8

      And like every other day 😍

    • @daphneeehlig3598
      @daphneeehlig3598 4 года назад +2

      @@fizzfaizah8822 you make me feel speciaaal ✨

    • @maxrow4728
      @maxrow4728 4 года назад +2

      Ok but she looks stunning every day

  • @Fawkes-y
    @Fawkes-y 5 лет назад +249

    when i came out to my family, my mom and sisters-in-law all came out as bisexual too, effectively stealing my thunder smh

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  5 лет назад +63

      HAHAHA why is this so funny ah

    • @johnhricko8212
      @johnhricko8212 3 года назад

      @@Ellbat Great parents!!! because "these kids" (I call everybody that) have NO IDEA how hard it was years ago (and not that long ago). So, enjoy Elbat, and your compadres.

  • @strawberrysnails
    @strawberrysnails 6 лет назад +1488

    I’m bi too and I have a major crush on you tbh 😂. I haven’t come out to my parents yet cause I don’t really feel like it but I will in the future

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +346

      BI FAMILY YAAAAS - also, that's completely fine too! Doesn't make you any less valid - big love!!

    • @danniek4412
      @danniek4412 5 лет назад +15

      Syd same

    • @nat4058
      @nat4058 5 лет назад +35

      I’m bi too but my parents aren’t really lgbtq fans soo…

    • @hiekevanrijswijk8222
      @hiekevanrijswijk8222 4 года назад +3

      Omgg samee lolll

    • @roisinoconnor7127
      @roisinoconnor7127 4 года назад +23

      Syd “because i don’t really feel like it” is my mood 😂✌🏻

  • @6pades
    @6pades 6 лет назад +827

    YOUR SHANE IMPRESSION IS SPOT ON
    - sincerely a shane stan lmao

    • @desss377
      @desss377 5 лет назад +9

      Hi fellow army

    • @CalebPl4ys
      @CalebPl4ys 5 лет назад +6

      Minatozaki Miru armys are everywhere its crazy. 😂😬❤️ every video i go to armys just seem to seap through. 😂👏🏻

    • @mrk_twn_lbow
      @mrk_twn_lbow 5 лет назад +2

      @@desss377 that's Ben from the Umbrella Academy not a kpop star lol

    • @ghiaccio1885
      @ghiaccio1885 5 лет назад

      @@mrk_twn_lbow lmaoo

    • @jingxie1451
      @jingxie1451 4 года назад

      Mark Twain's Elbow I can’t tell if you’re joking or not but I hope you are

  • @echoing_waves
    @echoing_waves 6 лет назад +1148

    *How to come out to your family:* be Hannah Montana

    • @Daphodil27
      @Daphodil27 4 года назад +5

      Oh my gosh.... I'm dying.

    • @landyncarson7334
      @landyncarson7334 4 года назад +4

      LMAO I HAD TO TAKE A BREAK TO CATCH MY BREATH AFTER HEARING THAT ONE

  • @d.e.p.5624
    @d.e.p.5624 4 года назад +68

    I can totally see this girl as a stand-up comedian: the humour, the perfect timing and delivery, the zest..

  • @th3r4sc4l
    @th3r4sc4l 6 лет назад +493

    Ellbat the professional, bisexual actress (and yes more sitty down videos thank you)

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +33

      I LOVE YOU

  • @sherinevictoria
    @sherinevictoria 4 года назад +570

    "We all are a bit gay, aren't we?" - Harry Styles

    • @azapp4761
      @azapp4761 4 года назад +10

      No we're not...

    • @sophief755
      @sophief755 4 года назад +21

      i was waiting for someone to quote harry bc he is such a sorta gay icon

    • @sherinevictoria
      @sherinevictoria 4 года назад +7

      @@sophief755 ~sorta~

    • @sophief755
      @sophief755 4 года назад +6

      Sherine Victoria i’m so mad tho bc i was supposed to see him at the 02 in london on wednesday and now i’m here going through old videos bc i’m sad

    • @sherinevictoria
      @sherinevictoria 4 года назад +4

      @@sophief755 I'm so sorry. I'm sure once this is over, he'll reschedule the show and it's gonna be the best day of your life. Great things are worth waiting for, Love. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @doddimor4854
    @doddimor4854 6 лет назад +1346

    As bi muslim, I love you, girl.

    • @io8134
      @io8134 6 лет назад +19

      Aaahh, same c:

    • @doddimor4854
      @doddimor4854 6 лет назад +23

      @@citrusciderr I love it too! I hope that someday more will be able to be out!

    • @nabilayasmine3319
      @nabilayasmine3319 6 лет назад +16

      I feel this in a personal level.

    • @aniqa
      @aniqa 5 лет назад +48

      @@moeassad8197 don't talk to people like that. i don't know if you watched this video, but she literally defends our religion, so don't disrespect her comment section with this bullshit. it's people like you giving our religion a bad name

    • @aysaa2785
      @aysaa2785 5 лет назад +40

      @@moeassad8197 but thats not for you to judge because it isnt a choice and even if the quran says that, it doesnt say you have to isolate them, at the end of the day its between them and god, dont get involved if you dont like it

  • @TomStockdale
    @TomStockdale 6 лет назад +917

    Anyone ever told you that you look like dodie 😋

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +246

      Too many people mate - I literally can't see it, the woman is an icon

    • @1800CurlGirl
      @1800CurlGirl 6 лет назад +50

      I think she looks like the lovechild of Dodie and Bethan!

    • @doddleoddle
      @doddleoddle 6 лет назад +191

      Omg

    • @laurenstapleton6622
      @laurenstapleton6622 6 лет назад +15

      @@doddleoddle omg dodie lol wassup

    • @crb.mp4
      @crb.mp4 6 лет назад +2

      Omg my first thought

  • @abiparedes2001
    @abiparedes2001 6 лет назад +70

    My dad would disown me so this girl waiting till I got a financially stable life

    • @uhm9469
      @uhm9469 4 года назад +8

      My whole family would disown me so this kid's never coming out 👌

  • @strugglingopossumriley4994
    @strugglingopossumriley4994 6 лет назад +474

    About to go to therapy so I can’t watch this now, but have a wonderful day kids.

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +60

      YOU GOT THIS - YOU CAN DO IT, I BELIEVE IN YOU

    • @strugglingopossumriley4994
      @strugglingopossumriley4994 6 лет назад +12

      THANK U xxx

    • @jessicamae2025
      @jessicamae2025 5 лет назад +3

      hey i know this was a while back but how'd it go?

    • @andraelizabeth235
      @andraelizabeth235 4 года назад +1

      Struggling Opossum Riley hope you’re doing well now!! lots of love xx

  • @ianjardine7324
    @ianjardine7324 4 года назад +91

    As white middle aged straight ex soldier's my cousin and I are apparently supposed to hate gay people so imagine his little brother's disappointment when neither of us were were surprised by his coming out (we've suspected since he was about 9) and his brother's only response was " OK do you want a cup of tea. The look on his face was priceless we still laugh about it.

    • @QueenlySweetpea
      @QueenlySweetpea 4 года назад +4

      Well, this is one of those cases where you had to be there ..

  • @FrenchyBoi76
    @FrenchyBoi76 6 лет назад +165

    Shout out to shaz and Scotty on their parenting skills

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +30

      BIG UP THE FOLKS

  • @al_rizzler
    @al_rizzler 6 лет назад +32

    I’m Muslim and this made me so happy! U go girl, love whoever you want to! Immediately subscribed 😁

  • @JohnHolywell
    @JohnHolywell 6 лет назад +191

    If this is coming out as gay / Bi we already guessed it! 😂

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +27

      @@vansmoon BUT new people to the channel may not know that I came out in a video like officially!!

  • @M1SST3DD3RS
    @M1SST3DD3RS 4 года назад +147

    Me at 14: mum I’m Bi
    My mum: wooooooow, tell me something I don’t know
    Me: how tf did you know?
    My mum: you’ve had 3 girlfriends since you were 12, when you like someone you don’t shut up about them, * insert all 3 ex girlfriends here *, it was obvious and now you have a boyfriend
    Me: surprised pikachu face

    • @AreeeAsh
      @AreeeAsh 3 года назад +4

      Damn i wish i had a mother like that

    • @johnhricko8212
      @johnhricko8212 3 года назад +1

      sounds like a great mum! (love the pikachu!...)

  • @janep1072
    @janep1072 6 лет назад +149

    7:13 hey... ykno that british lad... ykno that meme... that vine... with the posh accent... "I can't believe you've done this!"

  • @harleaarmstrong7659
    @harleaarmstrong7659 6 лет назад +117

    I told my aunt and uncle, since i cant tell my grandma, and then my aunt said "I knew it!"
    Then when I told my mom, she said "Oh I get it, that's fine. I figured as much"
    So I'm sitting there like "what? How did you know??"
    And my aunt said "you just gave off that kind of vibe. I was like E, I bet she's into girls. We had a bet"
    So I just stood there shocked XD

  • @ashikjay12
    @ashikjay12 6 лет назад +55

    I was going to comment my usual 'I thought this was a fitness video' comment but Its a somewhat serious video and its really comforting for someone who'd be in the same situation.

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +4

      This is so sweet aww x

  • @brioneyruss4603
    @brioneyruss4603 6 лет назад +20

    The description of your household is spot on! 👌😂 I honestly love you guys! ❤

  • @nightcreseal8704
    @nightcreseal8704 6 лет назад +146

    How are you so pretty it's unreal! 😁💜

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +14

      You're an absolute angel I love you boo

    • @nightcreseal8704
      @nightcreseal8704 6 лет назад +4

      @@Ellbat 💜💜💜even though I already heard the story I will listen to it again 😂

    • @tempestpsyk
      @tempestpsyk 6 лет назад

      Charlotte Smith your pfp pretty lmao

    • @russellewis3331
      @russellewis3331 5 лет назад +2

      @@Ellbat I'm in Canada and never heard of you, but this video popped up and thank god! You are absolutely stunningly beautiful!! New fan, thoroughly intoxicated and hopelessly addicted.... Life is wonderful!!

    • @nightcreseal8704
      @nightcreseal8704 5 лет назад

      @@tempestpsyk wait what? 😂 sorry I use text language but never came across pfp before?

  • @cassyh.2603
    @cassyh.2603 4 года назад +27

    When I came out as bisexual to my parents, my Ma dead-ass said, "Duh." Apparently she'd known since I was in the first grade, and literally never cared. Reasons why my Ma is my favorite human.

  • @rin-chan3017
    @rin-chan3017 6 лет назад +173

    That Hannah Montana message was genius 😂 I'm bisexual too and I didn't tell my parents yet... But I think they actually know... My parents are really cool and open minded just like yours... It's just that I didn't find the courage to approach them with this matter yet... Well I might try it via text too 😂💕

    • @r_kayne
      @r_kayne 4 года назад +3

      i know that this is over a year late but please tell me, if you've come out, that you did it with the Hannah Montana text as well

  • @hibaalsiyabi7098
    @hibaalsiyabi7098 4 года назад +108

    I’m a Muslim . And I whatsoever have nothing against gay people or anyone from their community. I respect ✊ everyone because this’s what my religion says .

    • @K0IBEE
      @K0IBEE 4 года назад +8

      its pretty cruel that people hate muslims for no reason, or, at least, not good reasons

    • @hibaalsiyabi7098
      @hibaalsiyabi7098 4 года назад +2

      Hxnii true

    • @DefneYildirim
      @DefneYildirim 4 года назад +2

      @@K0IBEE ikr

    • @DefneYildirim
      @DefneYildirim 4 года назад +3

      Im also a muslim and im proud of it

    • @EE-iy2xc
      @EE-iy2xc 3 года назад +1

      And [We had sent] Lot when he said to his people, "Do you commit such immorality as no one has preceded you with from among the worlds? Indeed, you approach men with desire, instead of women. Rather, you are a transgressing people." But the answer of his people was only that they said, "Evict them from your city! Indeed, they are men who keep themselves pure." So We saved him and his family, except for his wife; she was of those who remained [with the evildoers]. And We rained upon them a rain [of stones]. Then see how was the end of the criminals.

  • @amberleighrxse
    @amberleighrxse 6 лет назад +72

    My day just got 1000 thousand times better! And omfggg balamory was my jam in year 1😂🌈🌈

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +6

      ITS SO GOOD - NEVER FORGET

  • @saranasoni6022
    @saranasoni6022 6 лет назад +14

    I'm not the twitter type (because I totally don't know how to use it, I'm stupid: that's a fact) so when I saw the title of this video I jumped out of the chair to find myself on the floor clicking convulsivly on the touchscreen for open it. Actually I think you are lucky, the fact that your family is so open-minded is fantastic and should give you a lot of strength, I guess. I'm so happy for you, I really love your videos and your channel! Oh, your accent is amazing, I just can't. Hope to see a new video soon. 🌸

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +1

      This was the purest comment. I adore you! Thank you so much for being so sweet 🖤

  • @chocolatecherry790
    @chocolatecherry790 6 лет назад +147

    I'm not religious but I was born a Muslim and I'm bisexual 💕💕 and I love this video so much... Wish my parents would be as open. I love you 💜

    • @hisokastan7877
      @hisokastan7877 5 лет назад +11

      oh my god i know this comment is 7 months old but i am also a bisexual muslim and I've always felt like i was the only one. your comment makes me feel less alone. my parents arent really accepting but ya know.

    • @lucariossj5304
      @lucariossj5304 5 лет назад +6

      @@hisokastan7877 Me too. Always remember that we're not alone. We are valid and we exist. May Allah be with you. I wish you the best

    • @ramenyoun501
      @ramenyoun501 4 года назад

      I was kicked out because I came out.

    • @nlynn.7
      @nlynn.7 3 года назад

      astaghfirullah... I mean, I can't do anything to you but at least don't do crime, aight?

  • @fayehawthorn2563
    @fayehawthorn2563 4 года назад +57

    Came out to my mom in a Wendy's drive-thru. Her response was, "Damn it, we're just here for fries"

  • @ameliabowerman5240
    @ameliabowerman5240 6 лет назад +45

    When you said ‘ I’ve got chills ‘ I was like ‘ there multiplying ‘ if you know you know 😂😂

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +4

      THIS IS TOO CLOSE TO THE BONE BECAUSE EVERYONE SAYS I LOOK LIKE JOHN TRAVOLTA OK

    • @mishakellie5549
      @mishakellie5549 6 лет назад

      Me too

  • @marinasdead4930
    @marinasdead4930 6 лет назад +108

    SHANES IMPERSONATION ON POINT

  • @kristie1433
    @kristie1433 6 лет назад +26

    Saw the original video 😂❤️ still so damn proud of you!!! Love you boo ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +2

      THATS BECAUSE YOURE AN OG AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH

  • @sacremoon4465
    @sacremoon4465 5 лет назад +54

    Me coming out was like this:
    My grandma said: "who likes boys, bring something sweet to Christmas. Who likes girls, bring something salty" so I made a spicy bittersweet sauce and my grandma said it was genial.

    • @franny5156
      @franny5156 4 года назад +5

      Out of context question... are you german? Because of the genial...

    • @hannah-wd9qn
      @hannah-wd9qn 4 года назад

      @@franny5156 thought the same thing

    • @fantasticfrances
      @fantasticfrances 3 года назад +1

      @@franny5156 or french?

    • @franny5156
      @franny5156 3 года назад +1

      @@fantasticfrances thats possible too🤔

  • @chloemclean1984
    @chloemclean1984 6 лет назад +22

    I never say it coming, I support you as I am gay myself ❤💛💚💚💜

  • @Emunyani
    @Emunyani 6 лет назад +15

    Bruh was I the only one skanking out to Best of Both Worlds, that was a banger back in the day. MC Ellbats drop a diss track over that beat 😂. I'm turning the bell end on so post more vids

  • @Good_Squishy_2000
    @Good_Squishy_2000 6 лет назад +15

    Awh I love you and your content 💕

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +1

      I love you too - thank you so much!!

  • @caramelmouse
    @caramelmouse 6 лет назад +2

    I love your bracelet! And I'm so glad about you and your parents, we really need more understanding parents in the world. :)

  • @laurenmh101
    @laurenmh101 6 лет назад +8

    BALAMORY WAS SUCH A BOP IN PRIMARY SCHOOL 😭😍 honestly it still is tho 😂 loved the video ❤

  • @kikab4969
    @kikab4969 6 лет назад +3

    Y the fuck have I only just found this channel
    I need this in my life😂😂

  • @lesbiaint
    @lesbiaint 6 лет назад +11

    luv u!!!
    Edit; I’ve been here since 100 ❤️

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +2

      Omg I love you so much thank you

  • @MikeHunt66778
    @MikeHunt66778 6 лет назад +8

    Yo you're actually funny asf lol. Keep up the content!

  • @tinynagito8582
    @tinynagito8582 6 лет назад +8

    I got so happy when I saw the notification :D

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +2

      IM SO GLAD YOURE HERE

    • @tinynagito8582
      @tinynagito8582 6 лет назад

      @@Ellbat ADKFJSKDS I DIDN'T THINK YOU WOULD ACTUALLY SEE THIS

  • @ilovedogs6243
    @ilovedogs6243 6 лет назад +676

    for some reason expected you to not be straight,, possibly bc ur way too cool to be a a hetero

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +83

      Crying at this 😂😂

    • @eliasreus694
      @eliasreus694 5 лет назад +31

      i feel offended now :)

    • @desss377
      @desss377 5 лет назад +9

      @@eliasreus694 Same

    • @desss377
      @desss377 5 лет назад +31

      Well that's rude...

    • @pjiminmini2996
      @pjiminmini2996 5 лет назад +6

      i love dogs But I’m a hetero 🗿

  • @alice-ti7of
    @alice-ti7of 6 лет назад +75

    the iconic way to come out: with hannah montana.

  • @ernesthakey3396
    @ernesthakey3396 3 года назад +1

    And this is the open, honest, matter of fact video that made me subscribe.
    Sorry you didn't get the drama you wanted - but you have a family more folks should have.

  • @tanihehe
    @tanihehe 6 лет назад +47

    I clicked this as fast as i could. So fast i blew my clowet doors wide open.
    *FIGHT ME BEACHES!!*

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +3

      yaaaaaaaas I LOVE

  • @krantisarnaik815
    @krantisarnaik815 5 лет назад

    The fact that I am only discovering your channel now, makes absolutely no sense. Gosh gonna binge watch your videos after my exams. You’re lovely and I really admire your humour!

  • @kruggerand1019
    @kruggerand1019 6 лет назад +33

    lol already heard this story but i love this

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +2

      YOURE AN OG YAAAS

  • @user-rn3mq5tl8y
    @user-rn3mq5tl8y 4 года назад +1

    I relate to that whole family description and stuff about your child hood

  • @beepboop4612
    @beepboop4612 4 года назад +3

    my mum's reaction was 'cool' and i had a similar thought process

  • @ceydacalskan2022
    @ceydacalskan2022 4 года назад

    I love you for being openminded and respectfull ♥️ DONT STOP DOING WHAT YOU DOING GURRLL

  • @manda1593
    @manda1593 6 лет назад +6

    Love and support you❤❤

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +1

      I LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU TOO YOU ANGEL THANK YOU FOR WATCHING ME

  • @444musicmusic
    @444musicmusic 6 лет назад +1

    Omg your Shane impression is on point!!

  • @aimeesmith5312
    @aimeesmith5312 6 лет назад +4

    yay for gay 💗💙💜
    also appreciate the balamory that is still to this day my favourite tv show

  • @isabellawagner1293
    @isabellawagner1293 4 года назад

    OMG I CANT!! Ellbat your look stunning!!!!💛💛💛💛💛

  • @nickie2736
    @nickie2736 6 лет назад +8

    Yasss finally kinda early! Btw love your vids!

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад

      THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE YOU LIL LEGEND - YOURE TOO SWEET

  • @niknoks6387
    @niknoks6387 4 года назад

    You have my kind of sense of humour and sarcasm, love it!

  • @dreamsrsweeter
    @dreamsrsweeter 6 лет назад +6

    I came out as bi when I was 16 too (.....many many moons ago) and my mom took it poorly. She cried and started going to counseling. A few months later I lied to her and said I was just confused ya know teenage hormones. I honestly don’t know what I am (I’m just me). I’ve only been in long term relationships with men, but I’m way more attracted to the female form and I think men are pretty crappy in general. My boyfriend actually thinks I am gay and thinks I will leave him someday for my best friend.

  • @JoelleAU
    @JoelleAU 4 года назад

    Just stumbled across this your channel and completely fell in love with your sarcasm.

  • @roadtrripadventures
    @roadtrripadventures 4 года назад +9

    i came out as bi and my mom was like: Okay, I know. and also continued with her day. I understand you completly ( i was 8) then because it didn't feel like coming out want for a second try when i was 14 and my mom totally forgot and my father was shocket.
    btw got a funny moment i want to share. so how i came out at a school was was in englisch class ( i am dutch) and the teacher was like describe yourself in one sentence and i was like: I am as straight as a U turn ( explaining wat bi is seems a lot more difficult than just lesbian apparently so thats why)

  • @emilymc1781
    @emilymc1781 6 лет назад +1

    I'm bi too!!
    I'm slowly coming out to my friends.... came out to 3 more of my close friends last night lol.
    I figured out when I was 10 but didn't tell anyone for like 2 years before telling my 3 bffs and then kept it to myself for a few more years till now.

  • @acrazyfangirl1121
    @acrazyfangirl1121 6 лет назад +16

    I LOVE YOU ❤️

  • @barborapetlakova
    @barborapetlakova 6 лет назад +2

    Ell you're hilarious! 😂😂 love your sense of humour so much! ❤😆

  • @rebeccawiens4224
    @rebeccawiens4224 4 года назад +4

    I was outed to my parents almost 2 years ago. Didn't go over well. We never talk about it because they have very strong opinions on it and how I should act. I'm living with them during quarantine which is hard. This past year is when I've really started to live as openly bisexual at college and now I have to basically crawl back into the closet until September.

    • @heatherspill5817
      @heatherspill5817 4 года назад +2

      I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope everything gets better for you. X ❤️

  • @Mmmmkay97
    @Mmmmkay97 4 года назад +1

    I'm a year late for this, but thank you🤩 it's difficult coming out, especially as someone who is bisexual. I've felt some judgement and still haven't truly expressed/revealed myself. Most people think I'm completely straight, only a few know I'm interested in women aswell. I think this video will inspire a lot of people, so again... Thank you 🌻

  • @hathair2215
    @hathair2215 4 года назад +11

    Lol when I told my dad I was pan he told me "I know you get it from me"then he went and watched the news

    • @elliefordyce5625
      @elliefordyce5625 3 года назад +4

      The fucking savagery, the absolute best line, man he delivered.

  • @Yulie741
    @Yulie741 6 лет назад +2

    I feel you on that. I told my dad about my gf and he was silent for two blocks of traffic and then he was like "okay, don't tell your mum, don't shock her all at once"
    I was like "........ok"

  • @RenskeLeyng
    @RenskeLeyng 6 лет назад +9

    nobody cares im straight, so yeh🤷🏼‍♀️
    oh and btw we care haha. i've heard this story twice but idc, still very interesting to hear again. because you told it in a different way with allot of fun haha😂

  • @thearm7102
    @thearm7102 5 лет назад

    that balamory clip THREW ME i was not prepared for that throwback yeeesh

  • @CraigPech
    @CraigPech 4 года назад +4

    My daughter got the same reaction - I was watching a film and my Wife came in and said that mt Daughter had something important to tell me...I said OK...my Daughter then told me that she is bi-sexual...I said ''OK'' then paused, still looking at her, before saying ''Can I continue watching my film now? She looked a little confused and then left the room. I was not angry or upset. She could do what ever she wanted and what ever made her happy (As long as it wasn't drugs and drinking obviously). She was 14 at the time and now, at 26, is happily settled down with a lad her own age. I think she wanted a reaction from me and was confused when she didn't get one. At the end of the day our children will be whoever they want to be. They are individuals who will make their own way in life. No matter what Mum and Dad say they will probably do the opposite time and time again. As a teenager the old classic ''Ask my child anything, they know the answer to everything!!'' is true in so many ways. I am not saying that everyone who struggles to tell their family that they are gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, etc... is looking for drama. Some people have some really bad struggles and it is them that I feel sorry for. Good content BTW. Well done.

  • @siennahope8000
    @siennahope8000 6 лет назад +2

    Yas Ellbat! You stay on that above par plateau!
    Also, I think you need to stage a second coming (out) with your mum. Throw yourself a coming out (again) party. Live your extra life!

  • @mikaeladuran256
    @mikaeladuran256 6 лет назад +13

    I didn't know that you were bi, but my perspective about you has not changed at all what's so ever. I love you❤️❤️!!!!!!

  • @maddisonbond3352
    @maddisonbond3352 4 года назад

    Tbh all of your subscribes will always support you no matter what!

  • @myliea7521
    @myliea7521 6 лет назад +6

    I'm bi too, the exact same react from my parent's 😂

  • @marcieb6428
    @marcieb6428 6 лет назад +1

    Omg I’ve just realised we have the same last name.. You are so addictive to watch! Like I binge watch you for days and think your awesome xxx

  • @meatpet
    @meatpet 6 лет назад +6

    Sick editing

  • @user-ts7pm7if2i
    @user-ts7pm7if2i 6 лет назад

    Your hair is looking fabuloussss 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @livbatman1757
    @livbatman1757 6 лет назад +5

    Hi Elle you are my favourite RUclipsr

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +1

      You're so sweet, thank you!!!

    • @livbatman1757
      @livbatman1757 6 лет назад

      Do you know who I am

    • @livbatman1757
      @livbatman1757 6 лет назад

      Ellbat do you know who I am

  • @ASMRKay_
    @ASMRKay_ 4 года назад +1

    Still watching this two years later because I relate so hard to this story. Your start was so much funnier than mine though.

  • @cait5731
    @cait5731 6 лет назад +3

    I mean I kind of came out to my mum when I was like 9 and I still feel the same so I lordy hope I don’t think I’d have to have that conversation with her again lmao. Waiting for me to just date a girl and then ya know she just figures it out and realises I was serious when I was 9

  • @jakiecorrea2706
    @jakiecorrea2706 6 лет назад

    You learn something new each day!!🤠

  • @sinodaenby
    @sinodaenby 5 лет назад +7

    i almost had an asthma attack from laughing too hard 😂😂😂😂

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  5 лет назад +1

      I LOVE YOU hahahaha

  • @kimmatura3564
    @kimmatura3564 3 года назад +1

    This is how it should be for everyone. No one caring who you sleep with!

  • @alexhell224
    @alexhell224 4 года назад +6

    U know the first time I saw you I went like "If this chick ain't bi then I don't know what she is"

  • @Eye069
    @Eye069 6 лет назад +1

    Automatic like as best of both worlds jammed.

  • @tkay090
    @tkay090 6 лет назад +3

    Awe I'm bi too and my mum gave a very similar reaction. It made me mad lol

  • @adrianalondono7924
    @adrianalondono7924 6 лет назад +1

    You are a girl that I admire a lot!

  • @sophv3446
    @sophv3446 6 лет назад +4

    also you have the cutest eyes

    • @SaphiraTessa
      @SaphiraTessa 6 лет назад

      and eyelashes to die for!

    • @SaphiraTessa
      @SaphiraTessa 6 лет назад +1

      oh and the hair! okay dont mind me, I just think she's pretty af

  • @leilascarlett1166
    @leilascarlett1166 6 лет назад

    you’re generally such an open and admirable person, love your videos :) x

  • @vansmoon
    @vansmoon 6 лет назад +8

    babe you can tell me the same thing over and over again I don't care just keep talking to me ❣️

    • @Ellbat
      @Ellbat  6 лет назад +1

      HAHAH AWWWW I ADORE YOU

  • @renatatoledo6043
    @renatatoledo6043 2 года назад

    Great story and even greater support by the end

  • @amoysture9326
    @amoysture9326 4 года назад +4

    When I accidentally came out and my parents were like I thought you were lesbian 😂

  • @kayleighlindsay867
    @kayleighlindsay867 4 года назад

    Love this story time... your mum is so chill ✌🏻♥️💪🏻