Coming Out to Mom Live

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

Комментарии • 8 тыс.

  • @notthat1130
    @notthat1130 4 года назад +7970

    When she first said “is it something about your personality”. I knew that she already knew. This is a good mom

    • @Alex-ov5nq
      @Alex-ov5nq 4 года назад +274

      it was when she said “whatever you have to tell me i still love you either way” i knew she knew😭

    • @lashondacambridge7259
      @lashondacambridge7259 4 года назад +21

      Facts

    • @LadyRingi
      @LadyRingi 4 года назад +38

      I love mothers, PARENTS that will support their child no matter what🥺🖤

    • @rainb5987
      @rainb5987 4 года назад +24

      Yeah. Mothers have good instinct like mine. My Mom already knew it as far as I remember.

    • @asnider3155
      @asnider3155 4 года назад +4

      TOTALLY!

  • @Luna-pj8xi
    @Luna-pj8xi 6 лет назад +10574

    "Don't be sorry, I want you to be happy" I love this woman

    • @yvngsplittz6155
      @yvngsplittz6155 5 лет назад +8

      deleted channel no it’s not

    • @btsbtm
      @btsbtm 5 лет назад +4

      deleted channel wtf

    • @alphasunshine7267
      @alphasunshine7267 5 лет назад +7

      My mom is the opposite

    • @CdnCwby09
      @CdnCwby09 5 лет назад +9

      I agree this mother is a rockstar with her reaction to her son telling her that he is gay

    • @dippyfresh8155
      @dippyfresh8155 5 лет назад +2

      Austin Kaiser oh god I’m so sorry

  • @lavendercloroxbleach8419
    @lavendercloroxbleach8419 6 лет назад +6011

    When he said sorry, I lost it. He was so scared and everything😭😭😭

  • @ivyivy2639
    @ivyivy2639 4 года назад +3531

    him: "im sorry"
    mom: "dont be silly, i love you no matter what"
    my eyes: 🌊🌊🌊

  • @ThisisDanBell
    @ThisisDanBell 8 лет назад +9610

    This woman is a saint.

    • @brianacast123
      @brianacast123 8 лет назад +122

      his mothers so sweet every mother needs to be this way, by the way I love your videos I've always wanted to visit abandoned places but never have the guts and when I watch your videos I feel like I'm there and I love it :)

    • @badbittyerick
      @badbittyerick 8 лет назад +19

      aren't you one of those explorer guys?

    • @187onasimp
      @187onasimp 8 лет назад +11

      Woa it's Dan Bell

    • @susanaesmeraldaharogarcia4898
      @susanaesmeraldaharogarcia4898 7 лет назад +10

      Ethentent yess agree I've been trying to come out for the longest time but idk how

    • @emmye595
      @emmye595 7 лет назад +1

      Ethentent yes

  • @andrewconway9589
    @andrewconway9589 5 лет назад +3343

    “Something about your own personality?” She totally knew

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 года назад +109

      If anybody knows you more than you know yourself, it's your mom.

    • @schem515
      @schem515 4 года назад +13

      @@rollydoucet8909 and Google.

    • @firstnamelastname3201
      @firstnamelastname3201 4 года назад +25

      @@schem515 Ah, yes the two all-knowing beings. *Google* and *Your Mom*

    • @mireenahesseltine419
      @mireenahesseltine419 4 года назад +34

      She started with “you could never tell me something I wouldn’t stop loving you for” lmao. She knew

    • @robinbrown2256
      @robinbrown2256 4 года назад +12

      She was waiting for him to tell her. She totally knew.

  • @biggrice4181
    @biggrice4181 4 года назад +3739

    I can’t be the only person who got this video 4 years later

    • @matteo805
      @matteo805 4 года назад +8

      Bigg Rice I got it today lol

    • @janovahlol
      @janovahlol 4 года назад +1

      M2

    • @gabino5678
      @gabino5678 4 года назад +7

      At this point, I can't be the only person who watched this video 4 years ago

    • @matteo805
      @matteo805 4 года назад +3

      I watched it 4 years ago and today

    • @Pufflune
      @Pufflune 4 года назад +1

      Yeah

  • @walkinonmars5379
    @walkinonmars5379 3 года назад +1519

    As a parent, you’re supposed to love your children unconditionally. That’s what a true parent is.

    • @lisaestheticcc
      @lisaestheticcc 2 года назад

      @@jimthegreat9989 get your homophobic ass out of here

    • @TheBiggestBruh
      @TheBiggestBruh 2 года назад

      @@jimthegreat9989 Then you must be gay

    • @SuisLBC
      @SuisLBC Год назад +1

      Not in Asian households it has to be earnt

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 10 месяцев назад +7

      🏳️‍🌈yes🏳️‍🌈

    • @bioman2007
      @bioman2007 5 месяцев назад +2

      amen to this!

  • @lincolnhoffart8506
    @lincolnhoffart8506 4 года назад +2640

    “Don’t be sorry silly!” Those words almost made me cry.

    • @charliehorsenm3446
      @charliehorsenm3446 3 года назад +37

      Well it did make me cry like a baby. I just wanted to reach out to him and hug him and his wonderful mom! She is exactly what a real mom should be!

    • @normka223
      @normka223 3 года назад +2

      Remove the 0 from you're like's 😳

    • @robinbrown2256
      @robinbrown2256 3 года назад +4

      I can never get through this video without crying like a baby.

  • @rafaelluissantiago1017
    @rafaelluissantiago1017 7 лет назад +2326

    My heart breaks when he said "i'm sorry"

    • @ida2958
      @ida2958 7 лет назад +15

      Rafael Luis Santiago same

    • @kidd8k
      @kidd8k 7 лет назад +21

      so did mine.

    • @skyefairy7119
      @skyefairy7119 7 лет назад +22

      ikr, same

    • @nurikodb3915
      @nurikodb3915 7 лет назад +38

      Rafael Luis Santiago Saying sorry because you are gay is like saying sorry you are alive...

    • @DryIceSoda
      @DryIceSoda 7 лет назад +1

      Rafael Luis Santiago same..

  • @pixiekitten3306
    @pixiekitten3306 6 лет назад +2664

    It breaks my heart that he felt the need to say "Im Sorry" he should never have to apologize

    • @williesoke4708
      @williesoke4708 5 лет назад +11

      He should my mother would’ve kicked my ass I’m not but she would of if I was

    • @sonnysoke6327
      @sonnysoke6327 5 лет назад

      Your fucking right I would willie

    • @kaylyn5840
      @kaylyn5840 5 лет назад +24

      @@deletedchannel8869 Gay isn't wrong idiot.

    • @Michelle-ky8qt
      @Michelle-ky8qt 5 лет назад +2

      @@deletedchannel8869
      And if you ignore what I wrote then you're an asshole because you know I'm right and your stupid,so instead of discriminate gay people go and educate yourself.

    • @bacicinvatteneaca
      @bacicinvatteneaca 5 лет назад +2

      @M.V.P. people in sexual entertainment has nothing to do with the biological phenomenon of homosexuality, which is an expected occasional result of how heterosexuality develops.

  • @LEELOLKH
    @LEELOLKH 4 года назад +2608

    Mom be like: If you told me you’re straight I would be surprised

    • @janicedcruz7861
      @janicedcruz7861 4 года назад +6

      @green tuber yes:)

    • @elessar2777
      @elessar2777 4 года назад +7

      @@emmanuel3566 No.

    • @BuriTechVids
      @BuriTechVids 3 года назад +8

      @@emmanuel3566 Abour what sin are you talking about? Love?

    • @hsoj3
      @hsoj3 3 года назад

      @@janicedcruz7861 No

    • @droidnautica
      @droidnautica 3 года назад +2

      @@BuriTechVids oop-okay?

  • @icer8991
    @icer8991 4 года назад +4710

    “Its ok hun I knew you were”
    *Destruction: 100*

    • @benjy7578
      @benjy7578 4 года назад +31

      Lmaooooo

    • @nou7911
      @nou7911 4 года назад +118

      I know this is an emotional vid but damn that made me laugh.

    • @alexs1to
      @alexs1to 4 года назад +12

      No u LMAOOO

    • @olman1760
      @olman1760 4 года назад +14

      I’m not gay wtf

    • @alexs1to
      @alexs1to 4 года назад +7

      Hun u sure?

  • @aneesussy
    @aneesussy 5 лет назад +3923

    Boy: cries, I’m sorry
    His mum: don’t be sorry silly
    She is so nice

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 года назад +41

      He has absolutely nothing to be sorry about. It's wonderful that his mom was there to support him. I'll bet life got a bit easier for him after that.

    • @jamestheredengine7214
      @jamestheredengine7214 4 года назад +25

      She's so nice because she doesn't hate gays? That's not being nice, that's being normal.

    • @aneesussy
      @aneesussy 4 года назад +16

      James The Red Engine what I’m saying is that she is caring but lots of parents aren’t

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 года назад +13

      @@aneesussy We hired a guy at our business who had been kicked out of his home, because he was gay. Turned out to be one of our best employees.

    • @Ezequiel55vf
      @Ezequiel55vf 4 года назад +8

      Yes the mom is so nice she has a good heart

  • @rolypolyzrkool5237
    @rolypolyzrkool5237 4 года назад +2083

    when he said “im sorry” i cried like a lil babey >:(

    • @rainb5987
      @rainb5987 4 года назад +19

      My Mom: I even fight your teachers and parents of your bullies just because of what they had done and you say sorry for being gay? Don't! I even kill for that.

    • @iglaviensis
      @iglaviensis 4 года назад +8

      me too

    • @ProfessorxVile
      @ProfessorxVile 3 года назад +8

      @@rainb5987 I don't think he was saying sorry for being gay, he was saying sorry for being worried about her reaction

    • @charliehorsenm3446
      @charliehorsenm3446 3 года назад +7

      Me too! I wanted to reach out to him and hug him! Seems like such a wonderful kid! And the more gay people I encounter the more I admire them. They seem to almost universally be some of the kindest, most compassionate, caring, loving, thoughtful and truly decent, wonderful people I have ever encountered in my life.

    • @sunblue22
      @sunblue22 3 года назад +6

      I am sobbing right now

  • @VinEllis
    @VinEllis 2 года назад +1023

    I’m a 27 year old 6’3” 250 straight married man and a biker. This made me cry like like a baby. Nobody should ever have to feel shame for who they are and I absolutely applaud this mother.

    • @dev_peace_soul
      @dev_peace_soul 2 года назад +27

      Thx for the support:)🙏🏼

    • @rhy.westerman
      @rhy.westerman 2 года назад +23

      You’re great dude 🥹

    • @kels_x1414
      @kels_x1414 2 года назад +25

      Um yeahhhhh the fact that u had to describe yourself and paint such an image in people's minds let me know you're not actually straight you're just trying to look and come across as tough 😂

    • @VinEllis
      @VinEllis 2 года назад +66

      @@kels_x1414 and you strike me as a middle schooler lol

    • @Boothe_Outdoors
      @Boothe_Outdoors 2 года назад +5

      @@VinEllis lmao!!😂😂😂

  • @pastamane
    @pastamane 8 лет назад +14329

    You will never know what the original comment said

  • @AshleeRose
    @AshleeRose 9 лет назад +2496

    your mom is amazing!!! this made me cry

    • @danielmcneil7
      @danielmcneil7 9 лет назад +2

      AshuhLeeVlogs Mee tooo !!

    • @angelinaross1248
      @angelinaross1248 9 лет назад +6

      Don't cry...
      Craft

    • @sy1150
      @sy1150 9 лет назад

      Angelina Ross oh my god

    • @angelinaross1248
      @angelinaross1248 9 лет назад +1

      seaweedbrain oh my chemical romance

    • @sy1150
      @sy1150 9 лет назад +3

      Angelina Ross HAHAHA the phandom breaks me

  • @emilywright9083
    @emilywright9083 7 лет назад +507

    MOST SUPPORTIVE MOM EVER ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-eb7pt2se8d
    @user-eb7pt2se8d 5 месяцев назад +94

    My son wrote me a 2 page letter and handed it to me as he got out the car to go to work. I sat in my car before I drove off and read it and he explained in that letter that he was gay . I drove home with tears in my eyes with knowing how depressed he had been with trying to hide that he was gay and when i went to pick him up I told him I love him for who he is and I kinda knew from when he was about 5 that this maybe the outcome. I worry about the world being cruel but I’m always there for him.

    • @Владислав-м1к7у
      @Владислав-м1к7у 5 месяцев назад +13

      reading that made my heart melt. I'm a russian gay kid, I wouldn't have ever expected my parents to accept the fact that I'm gay. Thank you for being a caring mother. Your son is blessed to have you, I believe the only thing that you can teach him is to learn to protect himself. Physically, mentally, I believe that it's possible. Thank you and may the universe energy protect you and your family.

    • @user-eb7pt2se8d
      @user-eb7pt2se8d 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@Владислав-м1к7у thank you and I’m so sorry that you are going through that with your parents. Be strong and love yourself for who you are .

    • @Владислав-м1к7у
      @Владислав-м1к7у 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@user-eb7pt2se8d by that I meant my parents accepted me in a way that I’ve never thought of what they would do it to me but thank you so much:)

    • @mickey_09
      @mickey_09 3 месяца назад +1

      U know u r an amazing mom

    • @joshfulcifan1015
      @joshfulcifan1015 Месяц назад

      You are an accepting and morally good parent.

  • @nooraishahkhan8575
    @nooraishahkhan8575 4 года назад +1288

    The way he rests his head on his moms shoulder so naturally and just sobs so easily. He's clearly been waiting for that comfort from somebody. It's okay honey.🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @ant9531
      @ant9531 2 года назад

      @@jimthegreat9989 dafuq wrong with you lmao

    • @samanthapalus1085
      @samanthapalus1085 10 месяцев назад

      @@jimthegreat9989 Cry more weirdo.

  • @ohmy918
    @ohmy918 5 лет назад +2029

    I wonder how he’s doing. It’s been 4 years

    • @d0wntownki2k
      @d0wntownki2k 4 года назад +215

      I think this was older than 4 years ago. Not just the quality, but sorta the way his hair is styled. That style of hair was really popular in the 2000s.

    • @cavilslvt
      @cavilslvt 4 года назад +61

      [클라우스] youraveragepisces yeah at the start of the video he says it was four years ago. do 8 years now since he came out ig

    • @_aidan__9366
      @_aidan__9366 4 года назад +13

      Yea dude this was his last video

    • @warriorxvskairipa8375
      @warriorxvskairipa8375 4 года назад +5

      AmDippy 😂😂

    • @randomguy3223
      @randomguy3223 4 года назад +9

      AmDippy not cool

  • @Saraswatiji
    @Saraswatiji 7 лет назад +214

    I just love his momma, what a sweet heart of a lady.

  • @FakruddinAli7777
    @FakruddinAli7777 4 года назад +438

    That woman is literally an angel....I remember my mother warned me to behave straight when I was 6 or 7 years old, when I didn't even know what being gay is. I just wish my parents to accept me the way I am, if they do so, I'll get enough confidence to live openly and fight anyone else's bullying

    • @marchbros-bk9hp
      @marchbros-bk9hp 3 года назад +11

      I’m sorry! You will come out gold on the other, and then nothing can stop you!!!

    • @wilhelminavonbismarck370
      @wilhelminavonbismarck370 3 года назад +6

      You sound like you have alot of confidence, and I hope that you have everything you want out of life, honey, it’s who you are, PLEASE PLEASE be proud of who you are! 🥰

    • @SN-vn6wb
      @SN-vn6wb Год назад +3

      wishing the best for you

  • @JessicaUzumaki
    @JessicaUzumaki 7 лет назад +267

    Oh gosh, I love that you can hear the relief in her voice when he admits to being gay. She's like "Oh, that's it! Thank god!".

  • @tiffannyrachmania1215
    @tiffannyrachmania1215 6 лет назад +714

    crying but still flips hair😂
    you must be really scared to tell her:( she is a real angel

    • @parisdurie
      @parisdurie 4 года назад +11

      Tiffanny Rachmania when u have bangs they get in ur face

    • @tayveonmcdougall124
      @tayveonmcdougall124 4 года назад +1

      Tiffanny Rachmania mhm

    • @princessm9471
      @princessm9471 4 года назад +1

      Nmpk ni geng lsbi

    • @tiffannyrachmania1215
      @tiffannyrachmania1215 4 года назад

      @@princessm9471 sok tau lu tai kuda

    • @mimi013
      @mimi013 7 месяцев назад +5

      looks like a nervous/stress response to me

  • @P3SIPredator
    @P3SIPredator 7 лет назад +343

    It broke my heart to see him get so scared, and then apologized.

  • @fannie3911
    @fannie3911 3 года назад +137

    I know this video is old, but I’m so grateful for it. My daughter came out to me and I swear that I embodied this woman. Thank you for teaching me how to handle this with so much love and understanding . I love you no matter what! 😍

  • @bbutten414
    @bbutten414 7 лет назад +605

    Your mother is amazing. Plus she looks like she gives the best hugs.

  • @seraph7023
    @seraph7023 8 лет назад +413

    I wish everyone was like her. I cried so much. I'm so proud of you for this and you should never apologize for being you.

    • @iloveanimecooper9521
      @iloveanimecooper9521 8 лет назад +1

      Summatime Victor!!!

    • @emmye595
      @emmye595 7 лет назад +10

      Summatime I hope my parents with be accepting when I tell them about me being bi

    • @abbydun8556
      @abbydun8556 7 лет назад +2

      Lps Curious ClawTM I AM TOO AND TRANSGENDER!!!!!!!!!

    • @elyaskahia6617
      @elyaskahia6617 7 лет назад

      I wish my mum was like her.She is lovely and more clever I think than mine who doesn't accept it for almost 26 years now!

  • @shmooptifloop8118
    @shmooptifloop8118 5 лет назад +485

    I probably wouldn't be where I am today without the encouragement I got from this video. Thank you!

  • @Cynthiagirouard
    @Cynthiagirouard 4 года назад +667

    That's gonna be me when I'm a mom, always supportive and accepting of my kid

    • @isaywhateveriwantandyougot7421
      @isaywhateveriwantandyougot7421 4 года назад +28

      I am happy that in the past couple of years, the LGBT community is getting more and more exceptance, even in the entertainment media

    • @wilhelminavonbismarck370
      @wilhelminavonbismarck370 3 года назад +8

      I love it 🥰 I love everything about it , you a good parent, it’s so important to show kids love and acceptance- they NEED to KNOW that you will never ever not love them

    • @user-lj3fq1pe2f
      @user-lj3fq1pe2f 2 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @n4zaaa
      @n4zaaa Год назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @n4zaaa
      @n4zaaa Год назад

      Me too❤

  • @RustyNickels
    @RustyNickels 4 года назад +6237

    Son: I have something to tell you.
    Mom: You're gay?
    Son: Yeah.
    Mom: Cool. Me too. Don't tell dad.

    • @timel8ss
      @timel8ss 4 года назад +83

      😂😂😂omll

    • @bounds3742
      @bounds3742 4 года назад +51

      Lmao

    • @spacephantm7738
      @spacephantm7738 4 года назад +32

      Omg😂😂😂😂🤣

    • @AtomicB33
      @AtomicB33 4 года назад +45

      Lmfaooooooo these comments got me dead

    • @faygo9144
      @faygo9144 4 года назад +13

      I'm dead😭😭

  • @bipolarwanderer
    @bipolarwanderer 6 лет назад +322

    I kinda think his mom already know and just waiting for him to tell. She's an amazing mom. I hope all moms with gay children would be as acceptable abd supportive as she is. Don't fail you mom, kid. Make her proud. :)

  • @guadasanroman5108
    @guadasanroman5108 4 года назад +389

    "I knew you were" moms know everything guys

    • @jazminehoward7406
      @jazminehoward7406 2 года назад +5

      It’s the fact that she said I don’t want people being mean to you I love you and she accepted it like omgggggg ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Milburt
      @Milburt Месяц назад

      @@Hai_.. totally didn’t happen.

  • @BrockPlaysFortnite
    @BrockPlaysFortnite 3 года назад +241

    Don’t ever be sorry for something you can’t control 🥺 makes me so sad

    • @kels_x1414
      @kels_x1414 3 года назад +28

      I hate when people say things like "oh you chose to be gay" 🙄 my response is always "okay then when and why did u choose to be straight" 😂

    • @yo6247
      @yo6247 3 года назад +3

      @@kels_x1414 Yeah lmaoo

    • @Sonnenanbeterin1991
      @Sonnenanbeterin1991 3 года назад +1

      @@kels_x1414 exactly

    • @NailaFaisal-du1gh
      @NailaFaisal-du1gh Год назад +1

      @@kels_x1414 Being straight is human nature though

    • @MBauer457
      @MBauer457 Год назад

      ​@@NailaFaisal-du1gh Just as being gay is

  • @pran7205
    @pran7205 4 года назад +807

    I'm straight and I want her as a mother

  • @brigitteclaudette4456
    @brigitteclaudette4456 7 лет назад +160

    As soon as she guessed it, I burst out crying. This is so beautiful.

    • @savagexhailie376
      @savagexhailie376 6 лет назад

      Brigitte Claudette facts omg 😭

    • @Alwayseepy
      @Alwayseepy 5 лет назад

      Starting to cry when he started talking

    • @derail14
      @derail14 5 лет назад +1

      i think his mum knew a long time before he made the vid, parents know.

  • @KiaWilson
    @KiaWilson 7 лет назад +325

    Matthew, I'm still crying about how sweet your mom's reaction was.

  • @tambrand7294
    @tambrand7294 Год назад +116

    Im 50 this year and still never found the courage to come out to my mother. She now has terminal cancer with just weeks to live and i still cant tell her. I never got the right vibes that she would be ok with it. Im glad that things have changed a lot for the younger generations, maybe less lives will be living a lie . Well done to you and your mum.

    • @BruhKing69
      @BruhKing69 Год назад +3

      What happened

    • @struggIes
      @struggIes 8 месяцев назад +4

      Wow I hope you are doing okay🙏

    • @nordiskkatt
      @nordiskkatt 5 месяцев назад +5

      I'm so sorry. I'm about your age, and coming out to my parents was the hardest thing I ever did. I share your pleasure that things seem to have changed for the younger generations.

    • @AlexSR__
      @AlexSR__ 4 месяца назад

      Hey how are you and your mother now?

    • @tambrand7294
      @tambrand7294 3 месяца назад +1

      Unfortunately my mother passed away just 5 weeks after being diagnosed with metastatic lung cancer. 29/09/23 ....so I never did tell her. But the rest of my family now know.

  • @budczus
    @budczus 4 года назад +989

    Kid: Hi mom, i'm gay.
    Mom: Hi gay, i'm mom.

  • @Joe-ix5hj
    @Joe-ix5hj 7 лет назад +146

    Mother of the decade! 💞💛💛

  • @boilingmutt
    @boilingmutt 8 лет назад +618

    when she said "Dont be sorry!!" i started balling!!

  • @PL4Y3R_0N3
    @PL4Y3R_0N3 Год назад +64

    This is the most iconic coming out video ever

  • @aleksandaraleksic8104
    @aleksandaraleksic8104 6 лет назад +3981

    *Mom: Is it about girls or boys?*
    *Son: Yes*
    *Mom:u gay?*
    *Son:Yes ... starts crying*
    *Mom:I knew it*
    Me: lmao yeet

    • @myteaissugarfree2436
      @myteaissugarfree2436 6 лет назад +62

      Lenny The Troller *I KNEW YOU WERE*

    • @rukeysyt7710
      @rukeysyt7710 6 лет назад +3

      😅

    • @angiestegall9749
      @angiestegall9749 6 лет назад +5

      Lenny the troll?...... Now we know why you commented this

    • @syd_1876
      @syd_1876 5 лет назад +13

      *I KNEW YOU WERE I KNEW YOU WERE HONEY*

    • @kaylaties9744
      @kaylaties9744 5 лет назад

      Lenny The Troller started crying- wait what?

  • @ELAWORLDxx
    @ELAWORLDxx 5 лет назад +314

    I felt the relief for you. That cry was a result of years of pent up uncertainty and fear of being accepted as who you are. There’s nothing wrong with who you are and I’m so glad you have a mommy who validates that. Live out loud my love!!! 💕

    • @ACinemafanatic
      @ACinemafanatic 5 лет назад +2

      OhHey Wessuhhh I wish I had that mom but I’m still scared 😥 and him crying just made me cry so long since I can never express myself to anyone I feel trapped and I have to maintain this image of being straight due to having homophobic parents

    • @leenm.7677
      @leenm.7677 5 лет назад +1

      Dorian Gipson I’m sorry you’re going through that. There will be lots of people who love and accept you just as you are! You just be the best person you can be and hang in there! ♥️♥️

    • @mattgamer1574
      @mattgamer1574 4 года назад

      Theres nothing wrong with him but definitely theres something wrong with him being gay

  • @ColeSteven
    @ColeSteven 9 лет назад +158

    this is the sweetest thing in the world.

    • @spinaldistort8833
      @spinaldistort8833 9 лет назад +18

      shut up Cole

    • @MrKawaiiKing
      @MrKawaiiKing 9 лет назад +1

      +Spinal Distort I love those jokes xD

    • @lostboynotfound
      @lostboynotfound 8 лет назад +1

      Oh my word, your hair! What's that haircut called? This RUclipsr "Chris Oflyng" has the same haircut, and i really wanna get something similar to it. It's funny because you're both from Wisconsin lol.

  • @simonenarsson8978
    @simonenarsson8978 4 года назад +897

    I’m straight but this actually put some tears in my eyes

  • @georgemonkey01
    @georgemonkey01 8 лет назад +507

    When I told my mom she was like "oh, that's it? We ALL knew already son, everyone knew."

    • @jenjenroserose5361
      @jenjenroserose5361 8 лет назад +12

      George Gonzalez Aww, I mean, at least everything turned out fine 😂😂

    • @georgemonkey01
      @georgemonkey01 8 лет назад +17

      Hurbert The pervert yes sir I do

    • @zxukitrizakynthos7532
      @zxukitrizakynthos7532 8 лет назад +1

      ЖЙΗ ΙЙËTN ΦωλЧог БΧυχΠ ΓΝΑΙΡΣΧ

    • @mamajama779
      @mamajama779 7 лет назад +1

      That was to Slutty Jojo

    • @tefimorales5199
      @tefimorales5199 7 лет назад +2

      Why can't we just get along 😂

  • @stfu_lacy
    @stfu_lacy 8 лет назад +54

    I know this is like a year old, but this is very beautiful and I'm so proud of this. I love your mom for being so accepting.

  • @TVPaulina0o0
    @TVPaulina0o0 7 лет назад +839

    this made me cry this is fucking adorable God bless this woman

    • @user-mi6ge6pp3t
      @user-mi6ge6pp3t 7 лет назад

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx do you have snapchat ? from France

    • @LuchaMac
      @LuchaMac 7 лет назад +5

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx Eric Gonzalez I know. Same with me. I am glad some parents are so accepting. People are born that way. I feel bad for anyone who's parents would not accept it. Love is Love. I feel bad for people who had to go through hiding it. In today's culture it is definitely accepted more than this time. But from what I have seen through highschool so far, knowing how those kids get treated differently because of their sexuality is bullshit. I like women. I am not going to treat a woman differently if she does too. I am not going to treat a guy differently if he doesn't like women. I wouldn't treat someone any different if they were bisexual. I wouldn't treat you differently if you were transgender. I just hope it is what makes people happy. What is sad is people hide it. I am a Christian. People quote both the old and new testament. The fact of the matter is the new testament teaches to love all and forgive. Jesus Forgives. Jesus loves everyone regardless of sexuality. To say otherwise is absolutely insane. The mother seems to share the same views as me. I wouldn't treat you differently. If it says in the old testament sodomy is wrong. The new testament never says that. Jesus loves all so let's all do the same.

    • @birdbeak36
      @birdbeak36 7 лет назад

      same :)

    • @chronicler2313
      @chronicler2313 7 лет назад

      God won't be blessing that's for sure. Kids are to be loved unconditionally and receive prayer and can be set free through God's grace.

    • @yaaaniii8123
      @yaaaniii8123 6 лет назад

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx same !

  • @chrisfortin4251
    @chrisfortin4251 3 года назад +30

    I'm 45 and I wish this is what my mother would have said. It would have changed absolutely everything. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @madvillian6350
    @madvillian6350 4 года назад +1519

    Mans: telling mom he’s gay
    His head: 👆👉👇👈

  • @radhaosan3950
    @radhaosan3950 6 лет назад +800

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    The amazing stuff starts at 5:52

  • @RonaiHenrik
    @RonaiHenrik 7 лет назад +1101

    It's so sad that he said sorry immediately after coming out..... It's a sad world where the pressure of social norms is this strong. Society is fucked up

    • @carolinesawyer8765
      @carolinesawyer8765 7 лет назад +1

      jerk

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 лет назад +2

      Anna Dash I meant that he felt like saying "sorry" immediately after saying "I'm gay". That's the pressure of the social norms. If social norms had been different it'd be like: I have ginger hair, I'm sorry.

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 лет назад

      RainbowAnnaDash
      Yes, so he said sorry because of the pressure of social norms. That's what I was saying. You are saying basically the same thing only with different words

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 лет назад +1

      RainbowAnnaDash !!!
      Well if it stopped, human race would be extinct within like 100 years :D
      What I, or anyone can do about it is be open-minded. I'm as straight as a brand new German nail but I that doesn't mean I didn't go to a bar with colourful flag hanging above it in Brussels ;) if people were open minded life would be easier for *a lot* of people

    • @wickedemerald2442
      @wickedemerald2442 7 лет назад

      That this visual occurs to you may indicate that you harbour latent sexuality yourself; come on - be honest with yourself. Free yourself from society's pressures - come on out of that closet Bro.

  • @DianChias
    @DianChias Год назад +13

    When my son came out, we were driving home. I remained calm and spoke to him till we got home. I told him I was proud no matter what. He has several diagnosis and still amazes me to this day! Your mamma is a smart woman too!!

  • @midna5750
    @midna5750 8 лет назад +214

    I keep coming back and watching this video not because I relate to it, but because it's just so heartwarming. Makes me cry every time

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  8 лет назад +8

      Aww, well I'm happy you like it :-)

    • @midna5750
      @midna5750 8 лет назад +2

      Thanks! I'm just glad you decided to share this moment. :)

    • @midna5750
      @midna5750 8 лет назад +7

      I don't listen to anyone who can't use your correctly in a sentence. Lol

    • @Bryan-gc9bk
      @Bryan-gc9bk 7 лет назад

      Malea F I keep watching it cause its fucking hilarious XD

    • @kaylacordery1367
      @kaylacordery1367 7 лет назад

      thelilpsyco2 how?

  • @leyte1601
    @leyte1601 5 лет назад +4641

    Me: I'm bi.
    Friend: Okay! Just don't get a crush on me. Lol.
    Me: Yeah you're not really my type.
    Friend: *BuT yOu'Re Bi*

    • @aaaaaaaaaa6232
      @aaaaaaaaaa6232 5 лет назад +34

      Colette Tran lol me

    • @whatsupbro3
      @whatsupbro3 5 лет назад +138

      Jesus Christ this happens all the time it’s so annoying

    • @property3959
      @property3959 5 лет назад +5

      brie1n1crackers LMFAOOOOOOOO

    • @deeedprawn
      @deeedprawn 5 лет назад +50

      My friend came out as bi to me and I’m not annoying so I wasn’t like “hAha d0 you have a cRush on mE.”
      And then it turned out they actually did like me and I was super oblivious about it haha whoops

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 5 лет назад +6

      brie1n1crackers i hate when people react like that accept that people have STANDARDS

  • @graciemparsons5733
    @graciemparsons5733 4 года назад +3097

    I'm gonna tell my kids this was Shane Dawson.

    • @saltysnackkid
      @saltysnackkid 4 года назад +13

      LETS GOOO

    • @DeZa_shackless
      @DeZa_shackless 4 года назад +7

      Phosr Productions R/wooosh

    • @mo_riz
      @mo_riz 4 года назад +12

      Phosr Productions just cause you don’t find it funny doesn’t mean it’s not a joke

    • @businessguyold7999
      @businessguyold7999 4 года назад +2

      Phosr Productions it’s a joke.... :/

    • @light_dark0138
      @light_dark0138 4 года назад

      Omfg😢😭😂

  • @attackthecanvas
    @attackthecanvas Год назад +38

    When she said “is it something about your personality” she knew. Mommas always know. ❤

  • @KiNgStRoHhUtRuFfY
    @KiNgStRoHhUtRuFfY 5 лет назад +205

    still sobbing over this beautiful woman in 2k19

    • @pxcan5991
      @pxcan5991 4 года назад +7

      2k19? This aint sports

    • @ezequielviana3687
      @ezequielviana3687 4 года назад +2

      @@pxcan5991 lmao

    •  4 года назад +2

      @@pxcan5991 2k=2000
      2k19=2019

    • @pxcan5991
      @pxcan5991 4 года назад +1

      @ I know but its just weird saying it like that

  • @rayyanhindi3243
    @rayyanhindi3243 6 лет назад +390

    I just wish I could have the same story 4 years ago I came out today the closet to my mom and she kicked me out of the house.
    After living with her for 19 years it broke my heart how easily religion could break up even a son mom relationship over being gay.

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo 6 лет назад +25

      Rayyan Hindi I’m so sorry to hear that. :::hugs:::

    • @sofiasegura2716
      @sofiasegura2716 6 лет назад +18

      Hey I love your name, and im here if you want to talk. I would love to hear more about you and your story. I just wanted to say your valid and I fully support you. Best of luck!

    • @johnhodson8674
      @johnhodson8674 5 лет назад +5

      Rayyan, my mom did the same but over time she changed and is now my biggest supporter! Things can change!! even if they don't you have been honest with her. Although it hurts, time will help you to heal. Never feel alone! there are milllions of us out there, that means there are millions of people out there who love you x

    • @RobertFleming
      @RobertFleming 5 лет назад +3

      Rayyan Hindi I’m so sorry Rayyan. I was kicked out all of a sudden at 26 over religious issues. Even had the police called to escort us off the property...OVER A DISAGREEMENT.

    • @r2d2315
      @r2d2315 5 лет назад +1

      Or maybe they just needed an excuse to kick your 26 yr old ass out of the house.

  • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
    @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 лет назад +2268

    wow... what a wonderful lady.
    and son. ;)
    u r very lucky

    • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
      @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 лет назад +2

      cool ^^

    • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
      @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 лет назад +4

      The Alaskan Bull Worm omg hahaha 😂😂😂👌👌👌👌 cool Dude

    • @riofantastica4313
      @riofantastica4313 8 лет назад +2

      I LOVE SPONGEBOB BY KATIE A GREED

    • @Jungson-br4wi
      @Jungson-br4wi 7 лет назад +1

      I LOVE SPONGEBOB BY KATIE yeah i mean my mom also tells me she loves me no matter what but if i were to be lgbt idk what she would say i mean i know my aunts and grandmother and family would judge me alot if i were to be but my mom idk.... But his lady is honestly so sweet and has a really big heart

    • @michelleconley4692
      @michelleconley4692 7 лет назад +7

      I am sorry to out too you but times are changing and when i don't agree with what you believe in i won't judge or question it. But I am asking as kindly as I can too please keep this too yourself your comment isn't going to change anything nor is making fun of it. All you are going to get out of this is a bunch of people yelling at you through a screen. You have a right to believe and act the way you act, but slowly times are changing and it wont be long until you culture changes too i don't know when or how long it will take all i know is that it wont last like that forever whether it be tomorrow or when you are a grandparent or even longer than that... so please keep this to yourself because no one gives a damn about your opinion because that is all it is.

  • @AurorXZ
    @AurorXZ Год назад +11

    It's 2023 now, and this is somehow the first time I've seen this video background. Matthew, you've definitely gotten this thousands of times, but Thank You. I saw this when it first went around on RUclips over a decade ago, and I never, NEVER forgot it. It was in the back of my head when I came out to my own mom, and it was so encouraging to know someone else shared my struggle and bore my same weight. I hope you're happy today.

  • @blazersguy5267
    @blazersguy5267 4 года назад +652

    Imagine it was a prank and she said I knew you were.
    Confusion: 100

    • @cutuway
      @cutuway 4 года назад +11

      Underrated as fuck

    • @ugodegiorgi3288
      @ugodegiorgi3288 4 года назад +4

      Hahahahahaha

    • @nivedithagirish4023
      @nivedithagirish4023 4 года назад +17

      I don't wanna be that person, but coming out isn't something to make a "prank" out of. Those who are actually in the closet have to muster up a lot of courage to do so, and it really is nerve-wracking.

    • @cutuway
      @cutuway 4 года назад

      @@nivedithagirish4023 coming out pranks are literally all over youtube whatchu talkin bout

    • @nivedithagirish4023
      @nivedithagirish4023 4 года назад +12

      @@cutuway I'm saying it's wrong. I'm not just talking about OP or this commentor, I'm putting forth my opinion that it's not a very good idea for a prank in general.

  • @barenbaaendiger
    @barenbaaendiger 4 года назад +208

    The fact that he does put that on youtube is just wow
    And the reaction of his mum
    "Its okay i just want you to be happy"
    She is a good mum

  • @alexisdelfabbro5806
    @alexisdelfabbro5806 7 лет назад +211

    This is a real mother. Loving Caring Kind. It breaks my heart he said sorry! Str8 ppl have it easy they are lucky they don’t have a day made for them!! One day I hope I dream this world and everyone in it will wake up! And we look back and realise how awful we were how disgusting our behaviour was to think that we could possibly decide a future for someone else make a choice for someone else #equality

    • @mirnaurquia9050
      @mirnaurquia9050 6 лет назад +2

      Lexie DelFabbro, I'm glad that there are people who are like you, not many but people who have respect for others and don't judge them based on they're sexuality because all people are equal.

  • @hzquanrui
    @hzquanrui 6 месяцев назад +11

    I wish everyone could be as kind-hearted as your mother.

    • @scomarz7669
      @scomarz7669 5 месяцев назад

      wilhelm pfp spotted

    • @hzquanrui
      @hzquanrui 5 месяцев назад

      @@scomarz7669 ahahaha

  • @hermaeusmoru4549
    @hermaeusmoru4549 6 лет назад +227

    I wish everyone's parents would just accept them for who they are but sadly we live in a world when some people just don't support us for who we wanna be

    • @cagmo164
      @cagmo164 5 лет назад

      Yes🤐

    • @Cybr_Crow
      @Cybr_Crow 5 лет назад +1

      My parents are against bthe LGBTQ community 😭

  • @jada1796
    @jada1796 7 лет назад +608

    No matter what we are here for you!:)
    Who's cutting onions?!

    • @daveyyy
      @daveyyy 7 лет назад +1

      😭my eyes

    • @Phxrmacy
      @Phxrmacy 7 лет назад

      Just another person In the comments onio cut the onio in middle of the onio an onio drop the onio

    • @kaylahall7693
      @kaylahall7693 7 лет назад

      Me!!

    • @jasmynshreve6805
      @jasmynshreve6805 7 лет назад

      Just another person In the comments ikr whoever’s cutting onions needs to stop my it’s makeing my eyes leak

    • @matchabxba
      @matchabxba 7 лет назад

      Just another person In the comments it's the invisible ninjas again

  • @Serenity281078
    @Serenity281078 6 лет назад +1733

    Hi Matt,
    I'm a 40 years old mother of 2 beautiful girls. And I'm Muslim, from Moroccan origins, born in France, a French citizen.
    Why am I saying that and what's the point of my comment?
    Just to let you know, even if my religion sees you and all the LGBTQ+ as sinners, to me, you are human before anything.
    And you're just in love with people of the same sex...
    If one day, one of my daughters would come to me and say: "Mum, I'm lesbian", it won't be the end of the world... She will remain my baby daughter I love and always will, she won't be an other person, she will be herself...
    Of course, it will be very weird, I don't know how I will feel when I will meet for the 1st time her girlfriend, but I will always be open minded to who she is, and won't judge her or her girlfriend...
    I'm so sad when I hear stories about parents who throw away their kids because they are gay, because being gay is not a choice, it is only about one heart in love of an other one...
    I'm so touched by the love and the open mind of your parents, and I hope you will share many good memories with your parents! Respect guys!
    I wish you all the best, please don't change anything!
    Much love and hugs from France...
    😘😘😘

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo 6 лет назад +59

      Samira ACHAACH Thank you for your comment!! You know, not everyone will tell you this, but it’s totally fair for it to be weird for you. You can be completely accepting of a gay child, but it is still something to deal with as a parent! Everyone has certain expectations of how life will turn out: go to school, get a job, find a spouse, have a family... something like that. Just as a gay kid has to slowly accept that they are gay and their life will be different from that expectation, so does the parent! You also have a lifetime of assuming your child will follow the most common path, and even if you see the alternative as every bit as equivalent, it’s still a change in expectations! And it’s OK for that to be weird for a while! But it will eventually feel totally normal.
      I don’t know how old your kids are, but consider letting them know that if they were LGBT, you’d love and accept and support them unconditionally. At best, it makes a really difficult time a LOT easier. And at “worst” and they’re straight after all, you’ve taught a bit of tolerance. :)

    • @riaenkarhystynk
      @riaenkarhystynk 6 лет назад +30

      You are so wise!!!

    • @octipuscrime
      @octipuscrime 6 лет назад +43

      I completely support you. Im not part of the LGBT community but i agree with you completely. I dont personally think Islam is against them. Just the mind set and cultures of those people.

    • @TheBlackIdentety
      @TheBlackIdentety 6 лет назад +10

      And you've just went against the word of your god. You are obliged to kill this kid,and me as I'm an atheist aka the greatest evil on Earth,and anyone who disagrees with the Quran basically.
      You've taken the first step to be rid of that disgusting ancient dogma though so I suppose that's positive. Respect to you.

    • @MBTAMoreRailfan
      @MBTAMoreRailfan 6 лет назад +4

      Samira ACHAACH thank you. 🏳️‍🌈

  • @midwestern.berner39
    @midwestern.berner39 Год назад +22

    This is the kind of reaction I wish every LGBTQ child recieved. She's a good mama, and it shows in just how much he wanted to tell her. He trusted his mama to love him even though it was frightening. Way to go kid

  • @MrPUCK1231
    @MrPUCK1231 7 лет назад +80

    Bless his mama, this made me cry :(

  • @toldtruth8657
    @toldtruth8657 9 лет назад +175

    I used to hate gays and lesbians but after watching these videos I literally don't see anything wrong. Seeing how hard it is for you guys to come out is just heartbreaking. I hope you have a great life and don't let anyone stop you from you doing that.

    • @destrierofdark_
      @destrierofdark_ 9 лет назад +7

      +Mr Cumdump The primary reason of antagony is ignorance in all cases.

    • @BlueBerry-io6yh
      @BlueBerry-io6yh 9 лет назад +14

      Aw I'm so glad you changed your mind 😄

    • @chantalzilala7554
      @chantalzilala7554 9 лет назад +1

      wel l cant seem to change my mind.

    • @toldtruth8657
      @toldtruth8657 9 лет назад +3

      Chantal Zilala Sorry what?

    • @BabyDoll-qb6po
      @BabyDoll-qb6po 9 лет назад +8

      +Mr Cumdump you are an amazing example that people change for the best

  • @Kayla-oo9ex
    @Kayla-oo9ex 8 лет назад +271

    This is the saddest video of coming out I have ever seen. The other videos they act like I'm going to tell my mom or dad no big deal. He's really scared. It breaks my heart.

    • @unefille5msp
      @unefille5msp 8 лет назад +1

      I dont think it's sad the mom is accepting him

    • @gaamatsu4dewin
      @gaamatsu4dewin 8 лет назад

      He;s not scared.

    • @lola_dash788
      @lola_dash788 8 лет назад +9

      +Mister Chiky it's sad how scared and upset he is cos NO child should have to feel like this. Like its something to be ashamed about. It's sad that he apologized to his mother for being gay, as if it's his fault and something terrible. Like if he failed a class or got a DUI. I'm not gay so I can't relate to him entirely but my cousin recently came out to me the end of last year and this makes me incredibly sad cos I know this is how he felt and still continues to feel and is still terrified to tell his parents, who already know and don't care. Yet he's still fearful they'll disown him. I wish we could take this awful negative stigma away from being gay. As if it's a curse or a bad awful thing.

    • @clarkehh6504
      @clarkehh6504 8 лет назад +1

      There is a video where a child is beaten by his own parents after coming out. That is by far way worse and more sad.

    • @unefille5msp
      @unefille5msp 8 лет назад

      Kali_Dash yeah I get it.

  • @bringthelight2421
    @bringthelight2421 4 года назад +22

    That is the prime example of what parenting should be. I wish my mom would have taken it this well. You are amazing.

  • @noaisarat
    @noaisarat 7 лет назад +73

    this is so beautiful, I wish all parents were like this mother, im actually crying.
    bless this mother and bless you for managing to come out to her, it's hard to do that.

  • @snoopyr1953
    @snoopyr1953 5 лет назад +580

    and my dad literally wants me to stop watching queen just because freddie mercury is bisexual.

    • @fs9020
      @fs9020 4 года назад +51

      Correction. Freddie Mercury was gay. Tell your daddy that there's nothing to worry about.

    • @Veijo33
      @Veijo33 4 года назад +49

      @@fs9020 He was bi. He was in relationships with both men and women

    • @simonalaniz1192
      @simonalaniz1192 4 года назад +23

      @@Veijo33 Not saying he was gay or bi, but being in a relationship doesn't change your sexuality

    • @hiiiiii7055
      @hiiiiii7055 4 года назад +7

      F Tina nope, he was bi, but A for effort haha

    • @darangatang2804
      @darangatang2804 4 года назад +2

      He's gay bro

  • @LucaCXI
    @LucaCXI 5 лет назад +181

    My parents started crying after I told them I was gay and my dad is sending me to therapy but the therapist himself says my dad is stupid and she like helps me get through this rough time and Matt you are so lucky to have a mom who really loves you!

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 5 лет назад +15

      at least you have an amazing therapist

    • @bisexualbean2529
      @bisexualbean2529 5 лет назад +5

      AviaLxca
      I’m so sorry 😥
      I hope that you can find peace with yourself and who u r 😊

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 4 года назад +14

      @@mattgamer1574 please just stop

    • @somaliansausage6727
      @somaliansausage6727 4 года назад +2

      @@orksca5459 I'm not a homophobe but still I understand his parents

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 4 года назад +8

      @@DominicStride really appreciate you not trying to force others to become straight mad respect for that man. but you say its a sin to be gay yet at the same time, its supposedly a "sin" for women to not be virgins. sooooo?

  • @HereticBREAKINGPOINT
    @HereticBREAKINGPOINT 3 года назад +21

    The reaction from his mom, it's for me PRICELESS WHEN SHE HUGGING SO LOVELY AND SAID DON'T WORRY THIS BOY OR TEENAGER WAS SO BRAVE I HAVE GREAT RESPECT FROM HIS MOTHER!!!!

  • @oyvindm1954
    @oyvindm1954 7 лет назад +377

    Your video makes me cry in happiness for you. I am bi and came out when I was 60. When I was a child beeing gay was forbidden in Norway. So I never found my man. I wish you all the best in life! Love from Oyvind in Norway.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 лет назад +26

      I'm so happy that this video meant something special to you. I'm happy that you were able to come out, and I hope that one day you find the perfect person to make you happy. :-)

    • @katiekrotz680
      @katiekrotz680 7 лет назад +5

      Matthewac1 my brother was in the same situation. I also made a quote for him and me and people being bullied because we're different. I was fed up with it and I actually attempted suicide. But then I made this quote. "Every individual is one of a kind in their own way, even if some fail to see it." I hope this helped you and others. It really helped me and my brother 😊

    • @katiekrotz680
      @katiekrotz680 7 лет назад +3

      If I was next to you I would hug u too

    • @melissameddane
      @melissameddane 7 лет назад +2

      im not gay but touching

    • @melissameddane
      @melissameddane 7 лет назад

      oyving hows your relationship parner doing?

  • @saryntoews
    @saryntoews 5 лет назад +2707

    👇= how many pieces my heart broke into when he apologized.

  • @wavystars5075
    @wavystars5075 8 лет назад +442

    I can't believe he apologized. That's so sad. Society is really screwing people up for absolutely no reason.

    • @michelleconley4692
      @michelleconley4692 7 лет назад +4

      Nah society still is fucked up. It may be for different reasons but either way it is messed up in all ways I simply just learn too ignore it.

    • @anonymouse6094
      @anonymouse6094 7 лет назад +22

      This video really touched me and it made me cry because of the mom's beautiful reaction. I thought about that if it had been my son doing this, that that's how I would be too. I think that he apologized, not because he likes men, but because he knew probably as a mother she had dreams of him getting married to a woman and having his own children one day, and didn't want to have to take her dreams away from her.

    • @bonchbonch
      @bonchbonch 7 лет назад

      People who un-ironically use the term "SJWs" are automatically idiots.

  • @kaylin-leementor1901
    @kaylin-leementor1901 Год назад +5

    Makes me cry every single time. Everyone deserves this kind of love and understanding when they come out.

  • @sofiamartinez3258
    @sofiamartinez3258 4 года назад +171

    I shouldn’t be crying right now this is the happiest I’ve been in a while :)

    • @historyisthebest5831
      @historyisthebest5831 4 года назад +9

      I don't know why but I'm crying at people's coming out video compilations.

  • @chocolatecerealtime973
    @chocolatecerealtime973 7 лет назад +224

    2 things: YOUR HAIR OMG I LOVE IT SO MUCH ITS SO FLUFFYYYY and This is beautiful. So inspiring. I haven't told my parents yet and I'm terrified

    • @ardi7727
      @ardi7727 7 лет назад +2

      ChocolateCereal Time have you told them?

    • @jorjakelly8904
      @jorjakelly8904 6 лет назад +4

      ChocolateCereal Time I like how first your like FLUFFFFYY and then it gets super sad 😂

    • @natalie_w14
      @natalie_w14 6 лет назад +3

      ChocolateCereal Time u are goin to do good when u tell your parents and I’m praying for u and hope your parents respect you for who u are 😊🙏

    • @marblecosplay486
      @marblecosplay486 6 лет назад +3

      Woop hi guys its ChocolateCereal Time here im just on a diff acc lmao. Ive also figured out im trans soooo yeah and they know i like both but dont know in trans... Help?
      (Ps: yup silly then depressing xD)

    • @djstokes9859
      @djstokes9859 6 лет назад +3

      I’m telling my mom tomorrow. I’ve known 8 years

  • @rjschu
    @rjschu 7 лет назад +144

    Congratulations and great job, Matthew! Your video is making a difference for other gay kids. It moved me to tears. I grew up in Louisville and came out to my parents when I was 14 (1979). I had the same fears. I'm grateful my parents reacted pretty much the same way yours did...with unconditional love. On a side note, when I told my grandmother (mom's mom) her response was, "Well, EVERYBODY knows your gay!" Being GLBTQ is much easier than it was 38 years ago. However, I'm left shaking my head, that in the 21st century gay kids still have to be terrified of being kicked out of the house or disowned by their families. Thank you for your courage and be proud of what you have accomplished.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 лет назад +24

      Thank you for sharing your story with me. I enjoy hearing other people's experiences. I'm very happy to hear that your family accepted you, and I hope that you are happy.

    • @andaleblake2891
      @andaleblake2891 7 лет назад

      Richard Schusterman I live in Louisville and I am bi.

  • @prettyboycat8278
    @prettyboycat8278 3 года назад +7

    This mother’s words and actions, her comforting hugging and love is enough to make a grown man cry

  • @ihopenicklives7678
    @ihopenicklives7678 9 лет назад +249

    i am addicted to watching parents react to their children confessing

  • @brandon_aka_BOT
    @brandon_aka_BOT 7 лет назад +18

    This video really strikes home with me. I couldn't help but cry so much at how scared he was and how loving his mom is. Thanks for posting this. It is the closest video to my own experience I have seen so far on the internet.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 лет назад +8

      I'm glad that it meant something to you. :-)

  • @josiahbotsford3817
    @josiahbotsford3817 5 лет назад +41

    I've watched this so many times...and I cry every time. I hope that you are having an amazing life!!

  • @ScottStuart2K
    @ScottStuart2K Год назад +10

    Good for you my man!! Just like your mom said “you’re born who you are.” You have nothing to apologize about. You have an awesome mother on your side👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @karveon4lifek4l76
    @karveon4lifek4l76 7 лет назад +294

    I just came out today that's why I'm watching this I cried and my momma already knew too she wants me to have a family with a woman but the same thing she saying my momma said to me today but I told my family first before her because the reaction is so hard and shy in your heart and soul!!!

    • @gothicqueen666
      @gothicqueen666 7 лет назад +2

      karveon 4 Life k4L Same im a lesbian and im afraid to come out.

    • @Mredrose
      @Mredrose 6 лет назад +3

      Annie Leonhardt im not part of the Lgbt but i love supporting ppl just take it step by step remember that u dont have to come out but just do it at your own time when your ready

    • @gothicqueen666
      @gothicqueen666 6 лет назад

      Mar Mar Thank you for your'e help i will do it step by step i only told my besteht friend and she underdtood why and accepted it.

    • @k4thia
      @k4thia 6 лет назад

      karveon 4 Life k4L I just came out too! I started c hi for when my mom said "it's okay it's okay"

    • @sipsip_bitch300
      @sipsip_bitch300 6 лет назад

      Annie Leonhardt same tbh...-

  • @earthmover10
    @earthmover10 9 лет назад +26

    I love this!! I never got the chance to tell my mom, she passed away when I was 9,I was 18 when I came out, my dad always knew haha, loves me unconditionally. It was my mom from heaven that gave me the strength to come out and be the beautiful person I am :)

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 лет назад

      I'm happy to hear you and your dad have such a strong bond with one another. I'm sure your mother is looking down on you from heaven, and I'm sure she is very proud of you.

    • @earthmover10
      @earthmover10 9 лет назад

      She is I know it, where in the states do you live? I'm in Canada

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 лет назад

      +Alastair Swann Kentucky. What part of Canada are you from?

    • @earthmover10
      @earthmover10 9 лет назад

      I am from B.C., but I live in Alberta now. Come live here haha

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 лет назад

      +Alastair Swann lol definitely wouldn't be opposed to visiting some day.

  • @manuelvenegas7943
    @manuelvenegas7943 4 года назад +87

    I miss my mom
    Happy Mother’s Day to all the mommas like her.

    • @lonelywolf1730
      @lonelywolf1730 3 года назад +1

      @DuncanStudios Collection sorry for u hope u r good

    • @gisplus9050
      @gisplus9050 2 года назад

      @DuncanStudios Collection sorry for your loss😭😭😭😭😭

  • @wilhelminavonbismark507
    @wilhelminavonbismark507 3 года назад +38

    His Mom is just absolutely an angel. I cried when she said, while hugging him close, "Don't be sorry, silly!" Brave, sweet young gentleman who was raised by a Mother who taught him VERY well. You are an amazing person with an incredible Mother, sweetheart. ❤️ I wish your family nothing but the best.

  • @kaseybryant_
    @kaseybryant_ 7 лет назад +96

    Love to you + your family. Your mother is wonderful-- wish I could hug you both. Ox

  • @MelodyAlannaMusic
    @MelodyAlannaMusic 7 лет назад +87

    Best video EVER! This made me cry at my desk

  • @kayak2052
    @kayak2052 7 лет назад +140

    I want to see how he is doing now:) I absolutely love this

    • @gossipntea7064
      @gossipntea7064 7 лет назад +2

      Kaya K the last update was he replied to someone 4 months ago

  • @Starfish9587
    @Starfish9587 3 года назад +55

    I hope my parents are like this. I tried to ask them what if I'm lesbian and they answered, "You better not or else we will kick you out of this house". I am currently waiting for the right time to tell them the truth. Maybe when I become independent, I'll be ready

    • @parulkumar3863
      @parulkumar3863 3 года назад +2

      good luck

    • @aslater5
      @aslater5 2 года назад +10

      That’s terrible that they’re like that. You shouldn’t say a word until you are out on your own and completely independent.

    • @bloxyton
      @bloxyton Год назад +1

      I think you should tell them when you move out

    • @lovely_tragedies
      @lovely_tragedies Год назад +1

      I think your parents should take a little look at this video and learn to be more accepting. I’m sorry honey… you never deserve to feel like you can’t be yourself.. like mama said “if they’re your real friends, they won’t care.” Same goes with family members, if they truly love you and care for you, they shouldn’t care and should eventually come around.. but unfortunately, some people care more about their “beliefs” than their blood.

    • @a-bird-lover
      @a-bird-lover Год назад +2

      I really suggest you wait until you're independent and prioritize your safety!! Remember that you don't owe it to come out to people, it sucks to have to live in the closet around your family but safety is a much, much higher priority