ASKING OUR STEP DAD TO ADOPT US: EMOTIONAL FATHER'S DAY GIFT

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @ThagatEsheiManipur
    @ThagatEsheiManipur 4 года назад +38724

    As somebody said, he is not the step-dad but he is the dad that stepped up.

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 года назад +2559

      I LOVE this!!

    • @ronin4073
      @ronin4073 4 года назад +478

      That statement is a perfect example of class my friend!

    • @evh4611
      @evh4611 4 года назад +175

      Great statement

    • @jassy9015
      @jassy9015 4 года назад +87

      Yes! Well said😄

    • @TheRobbs
      @TheRobbs 4 года назад +97

      I wish I had a stepfather like this. Awesome man with a lot of class.

  • @TheNightshotBR
    @TheNightshotBR 4 года назад +11552

    Every father is a gangsta until their children melt their hearts.

    • @tarunmahesh4711
      @tarunmahesh4711 4 года назад +67

      True, couldn't ask for a better father in the world. Must've done something right in a previous life to have him as a father in this life. Wow.

    • @magsnka3495
      @magsnka3495 4 года назад +22

      Soooo trueeeee. Friends and cousins have always been scared of my teddy bear of a father and I used to be confused as to why hahaha

    • @TheNightshotBR
      @TheNightshotBR 4 года назад +19

      @NN D He feeds them, clothes them, shelters them, cares for them, provides a family and love for them.
      And since they love him inconditionally, I´m pretty sure they are his for life.
      And they just proved it in this video.

    • @TheNightshotBR
      @TheNightshotBR 4 года назад +14

      @NN D He´s not the biological father, sure. But to say he doesn´t love them as his childrem is pretty shitty, man.

    • @agnieszkagrenczuk
      @agnieszkagrenczuk 4 года назад

      That's right👍👍

  • @luc9867
    @luc9867 2 года назад +8237

    you know he's a dad through and through because his immediate reaction is to say "no"
    there is no dad on this earth who could resist such a perfect dad joke opportunity

    • @jadev-a7563
      @jadev-a7563 2 года назад +82

      You are so right 🥰

    • @EmmaWilliams2
      @EmmaWilliams2 2 года назад +115

      lol my dad would have said the same thing... hes always messing around like that XD

    • @erzuru1207
      @erzuru1207 2 года назад +36

      @Happy Flowers Why is that a bad time?

    • @i_can_c_u_2295
      @i_can_c_u_2295 2 года назад +26

      @Happy Flowers that’s the best time for a joke you can get.

    • @r.m8146
      @r.m8146 2 года назад +33

      @@user-p7up8l4k That's the kind of proselytizing that makes people hate religion. As an atheist, thank you for being like that.

  • @postone2821
    @postone2821 Год назад +3152

    This is so heartwarming. I tried to adopt my stepdaughter when she was younger but her 'real' dad would not sign the documents (even though he had absolutely no part in her life, even refusing to pay child support). I raised her since she was two years old. My daughter then surprised me on my birthday six months after after she turned 18. She had legally changed her last name to mine.

    • @devvoid1312
      @devvoid1312 Год назад +172

      If you're separated and not paying support, he should absolutely have no say. He wanted a say but not bad enough to actually support his kids...very telling.

    • @Survival.Intuition
      @Survival.Intuition Год назад +109

      Congrats on not only being a good father, but on being her real father.

    • @thebigt42
      @thebigt42 Год назад +34

      That made me cry

    • @Truthisstrangerthanfiction8
      @Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 Год назад

      @tylerlopes476If you are paying child support and not a threat to the child, demand the court to give visitation. Your wife nor the courts can require child support without visitation.
      You do not need an attorney for this, just the courage to stand on your square. I know what I'm talking about.
      Also, if you have health insurance for your child, the courts can't require any other support. The judge or attorney won't tell you that support is support because it will affect the demonic extorting system in place.

    • @MetalBaller83
      @MetalBaller83 Год назад +11

      That’s an awesome story too! Love it. Again; that’s REAL MAN shit. We need more men like you guys. Thank you for doing what you do. Cheers! 💪🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @potato_dbd
    @potato_dbd 3 года назад +12263

    The fact that everyone calls him 'dad' already says a lot.
    Respect to everyone.

    • @i_curlyy
      @i_curlyy 3 года назад +113

      @Anal Farmer damn another loner who’s trying to dissuade step parents from acting like an actual responsible parent. Just because you lack familial love, doesn’t mean others do. This family is obviously happy and content with their father instead of some man (the biological father) who doesn’t seem to be in the picture. Trying to dissuade others, won’t make you any happier 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Keith87-s1z
      @Keith87-s1z 3 года назад +38

      Yep biggest respect to the step dads out there

    • @deadandrotting
      @deadandrotting 3 года назад +22

      @@i_curlyy you killed him dud 💀
      what'd he day though lol

    • @alexkuo3832
      @alexkuo3832 2 года назад

      We were forced to say dad lol asians.

    • @Thomas-dw1nb
      @Thomas-dw1nb 2 года назад +7

      @@Michael020 lot's of bio-dads whose kids don't know them either.

  • @Connor-km2sv
    @Connor-km2sv 4 года назад +3725

    Putting shades on so they don't see you crying is perhaps the most classic of all dad maneuvers

    • @surrenderradio2064
      @surrenderradio2064 4 года назад +15

      Haha

    • @kingoftrolls19
      @kingoftrolls19 3 года назад +8

      Lol I would to

    • @Beatmastapat09
      @Beatmastapat09 3 года назад +9

      @pacifca nonook man i was also thinkin that for the poor guy, seems cool too, but you have to admit its still touching lol

    • @driss409
      @driss409 3 года назад +19

      @pacifca nonook wow, i hope you learn to see life differently some day.

    • @Will057
      @Will057 3 года назад +16

      @pacifca nonook jesus christ, stfu

  • @xenorace
    @xenorace 4 года назад +6776

    I met my step daughter when she was just 5 months old. She is turning 17 this year. This made me cry too.

    • @AM-hf4pn
      @AM-hf4pn 4 года назад +152

      At 5months being left by her biological father? How cruel.😢
      Thank you for being a father to her. You are an amazing father and a life saver. The happiness you gave to her is priceless.
      You are amazing!💚💛💙💓💗

    • @Papicrema21
      @Papicrema21 4 года назад +75

      that's your daugther adn you did a great job sir!

    • @Todd_G_FPV
      @Todd_G_FPV 4 года назад +33

      My son was 5 months old my daughters were 3 and 5 years, now they are almost 11 13 and 15. Crazy how time flies and how fast they grow huh?!

    • @endritshala7978
      @endritshala7978 4 года назад +4

      Kamui

    • @AM-hf4pn
      @AM-hf4pn 4 года назад +6

      @Keven Cantu I wonder what happened to the father of your step daughter?😢 Why are there cruel fathers in this world?

  • @Christian-it8bu
    @Christian-it8bu Год назад +270

    As a stepdad, winning the mother's heart is easy, but her children's is on another level. Congrats.

  • @jesseward1509
    @jesseward1509 4 года назад +9669

    Any male can be a sperm donor but it takes a special man to be a father. My “step dad” married my mother when I was 4 and my brother was 7. Spent thousands in court fighting to legally make us his. Treated us like his own from day one, gave us anything we ever could’ve wanted. Now he’s the greatest grandfather I’ve ever seen. Can’t thank the lord enough for putting him in our lives... love you dad

    • @bujkabujka9952
      @bujkabujka9952 4 года назад +73

      💙🙏🏻🧿 Such a heart warming story 💙🙏🏻🧿 God bless you all ☮️✌️

    • @cole4249
      @cole4249 4 года назад +21

      Love it

    • @franciscovega2987
      @franciscovega2987 4 года назад +21

      Wait...grandfather?

    • @jesseward1509
      @jesseward1509 4 года назад +95

      Francisco Vega yes, me and my wife had our little girl 8/30/16.. so my “step father” is now been a grandfather for 4yr

    • @franciscovega2987
      @franciscovega2987 4 года назад +24

      @@jesseward1509sorry Bro for my mistake

  • @alsunpilsut
    @alsunpilsut 2 года назад +2418

    I love how he's all emotional and then goes "no" 🤣.

    • @RRCRDA777-55
      @RRCRDA777-55 Год назад +51

      We all knew the real anwser

    • @Brinton_Callahan
      @Brinton_Callahan Год назад +130

      Total dad response lol

    • @wheninroamful
      @wheninroamful Год назад +59

      Comedic relief is perfect to keep him from breaking down probably. Great vid❤

    • @duylegend1245
      @duylegend1245 Год назад

      Time stamp?

    • @wheninroamful
      @wheninroamful Год назад

      @@duylegend1245 Kinda surprised you'd ask, cuz that's the whole climax of the vid pretty much, the comedic relief to break the tension. BUT its at 4:20 ish. Good day.

  • @ajt51508
    @ajt51508 2 года назад +3593

    When I married my wife she had a 6-year-old son that never knew his father. Told me he prayed for Dad. I adopted him. He's now going on 21 and a junior in college. I'm so proud of that boy. This made me cry like a baby. Thank you

    • @Itsmestephd
      @Itsmestephd 2 года назад +104

      He's your boy ! Thank you for being the man he needed to help guide him

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 2 года назад +56

      My grandpa adopted my father when he was young. This hits home

    • @EdsterIII
      @EdsterIII 2 года назад +22

      @@asarishepard8171 My Dad was adopted by his real mom's sister and her husband. They raised my Dad as their own, as his mom was an alcoholic. Sadly he also became alcoholic, and my Grandparents helped raise me at times as well. It's the MAN who makes the Dad, not the title who dictates who is who. God Bless you all for all you have done and do for these kids.

    • @bamdingayan3906
      @bamdingayan3906 2 года назад +2

      😭😭😻😻

    • @bamdingayan3906
      @bamdingayan3906 2 года назад +5

      Godbless you Sir

  • @TJay41
    @TJay41 Год назад +750

    When teenagers want you to be their father that says a whole lot about the type of person you are, what a good example showing not all stepparents are horrible

    • @ihatemrmike7369
      @ihatemrmike7369 2 месяца назад +2

      He passed away 2 years later. He already got cancer to this time.

  • @Waaagghhh
    @Waaagghhh 4 года назад +3299

    Very cute - takes a real man to raise kids the way he has, he’s a legend

    • @roywright9804
      @roywright9804 4 года назад +7

      It doesn't matter if the children are blood you fall in love with them just as you would if they were born with your blood !

    • @ibadbleepp2791
      @ibadbleepp2791 4 года назад +4

      To bad my dad's a full in wasteman

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 года назад +11

      @Ann Vo Betas..who raise other males' childs are betas and get eliminated via natural selection.

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 года назад +5

      @Ann Vo Bullshit...whoever in the history raised another male's child got eliminated via natural selection...and the males who protected their partners and only raised their own offspring, passed on their genes...and we are their descendents. Look into the Lion Pride...Look how the males behave😂 you will get your answer.
      'true alphas do this and that blah blah for society'- So that it benefits irresponsible women. I am not a simp. These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on me. I have read the story about 'White feather campaign' women tried the same thing... that's how millions of men died....Nice try though...These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on everyone.
      Edit: also if that's what an alpha does(sacrificing for society that doesn't give a fck about us), I am better of not being an alpha.

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 года назад +2

      @Ann Vo All personal attacks! "You are whiny this, you are that"...you can date whomever you want none of my concern....and I said at the end if that's what an alpha is then I am better of not being one. You can have your opinions. But personally I would never be invested in someone else's offspring.. I want to pass on all my earnings and properties to my own genetic offspring.
      Also a 'simp' is a guy who sympathizes with womankind. Where do you see me doing that?? In fact I am quite the opposite.
      Edit: I am assuming that you are from USA cuz you tried to make me feel that I am missing out on having a great partner like you cuz you would only date an older man...well, the thing is in my country there's prostitution legal...unlike men in USA we don't need to kowtow to women for mating rights. That's why sex is not a big deal here in my country(it's human psychology- something which is available is not a big deal) and someone wouldn't date me, that's also not a big deal. We only stay with women who care for us. If someone wants to go, they are free to go.

  • @roserocks1979
    @roserocks1979 4 года назад +3395

    My stepdad walked me down the aisle.My bio dad didn't come to my wedding for that reason.But it was my stepdad who raised me.Who was there for every bump,bruise,and every time I was sick.He came to every play,choral performance,etc.That's what being a father is about.

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 года назад +349

      I couldn’t agree more, my step dad (who I consider my dad) is definitely going to be the one to walk me down the isle.

    • @kimberlynelson6104
      @kimberlynelson6104 4 года назад +111

      You did the right thing. Glad you respected the man who put in the time and effort.

    • @roserocks1979
      @roserocks1979 4 года назад +4

      @@kimberlynelson6104 ty

    • @misshoneynevercame4832
      @misshoneynevercame4832 4 года назад +64

      You did the right thing. I think your stepdad would have been hurt inside if he could not walk you down the aisle after he raised you and loved you for all those years. It takes a boy to make a child but a man to raise one.

    • @roserocks1979
      @roserocks1979 4 года назад

      @@misshoneynevercame4832 I agree thanks

  • @brucejones9423
    @brucejones9423 2 года назад +2593

    4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable, but to agree to be adopted by this man is very special. You must be onehell of a person and the kids are very lucky to have a person like you in their lives.

    • @ulisesacosta5543
      @ulisesacosta5543 2 года назад +7

      I don't think Carson agreed to be adopted
      Looks like just the three girls

    • @yommievata
      @yommievata 2 года назад +5

      @@ulisesacosta5543 you can’t take carsson serious, he doesn’t even offer family discount 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Chris88895
      @Chris88895 2 года назад +1

      Couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • @OriginalPuro
      @OriginalPuro 2 года назад +5

      "4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable"
      Why is that unbelievable?
      4 kids, if you ask them on Tuesday if they all want candy for dinner, they'll agree.
      Is that so hard to believe?

    • @johnny545
      @johnny545 Год назад

      He's screwing at least one of them

  • @bethcochrane2294
    @bethcochrane2294 Год назад +486

    I married my husband in 2004 and he was a true father to my 3 children. He passed away in 2015. My children adored him. Congratulations to Ben and you all. What a wonderful man Ben must be!

    • @yimszy4588
      @yimszy4588 Год назад +13

      im so sorry to hear that may he rest in peace,

    • @bethcochrane2294
      @bethcochrane2294 Год назад +7

      @@yimszy4588 Thank you!

    • @pollomaniac
      @pollomaniac Год назад +1

      So you had 3 kids with another man and got another dude to take care of them , did you atleast give the step dad a kid of he's own ?

    • @bethcochrane2294
      @bethcochrane2294 Год назад +8

      @@pollomaniac He said he considered the three children from my first marriage his!

    • @pollomaniac
      @pollomaniac Год назад

      @Beth Cochrane I'm not trying to be an idiot ok first of all , but that man's legacy he's blood line then is over

  • @anqilala
    @anqilala 4 года назад +1645

    It's funny and sad how much he tries to hold back his tears 😊. Everybody is allowed to cry and especially if its out of happiness 🙂.

    • @sneebil
      @sneebil 4 года назад +24

      This isn't about "being allowed to cry" it's about men always needed to be strong in the past, if they weren't, it'd be the end of the race for them.
      That being, men today still feel the need to hold it all in and be strong.
      This causes what you see here.

    • @123ididntpee8
      @123ididntpee8 4 года назад +5

      @@sneebil yea your right but some people react differently alothough here you can see he's holding back years other people let's say some died they may not appear to be greifing but they really are it's not their holding it back like me I'm just like that so is my dad

    • @gigggla
      @gigggla 4 года назад +7

      Its one of the reason men die earlyer than women, cant remember where i read it, but basically we are expected to always be strong and hate cute things and so on, so where women grieve, cry and let their feelings out and get past it, men tend to just bottle it up and push it deep down inside and shit like that builds up with years, so you end up getting stroke, heart conditions, stomac bleeding and yeah alot of shit caused from stress and struggle.

    • @thedarkblackspeedy3140
      @thedarkblackspeedy3140 4 года назад +5

      He was trying to upheld article 41 from the bro code, a bro never cry,

    • @martinsosa3453
      @martinsosa3453 4 года назад +7

      Yeah, that's the thing, since we were kids, men were always told to be strong, that men don't cry. I don't know if it's about instinct or a social thing, but it's natural, we don't allow other people to see us cry or in our "weak" or vulnerable spot. And that's really sad tbh.

  • @An0nDEViant
    @An0nDEViant 2 года назад +1622

    I'm not an emotional person but when my stepson wrote a paper for class stating why he looks up to me and wants to be like me. Made me cry like a baby.

    • @lesliecalvert3458
      @lesliecalvert3458 2 года назад +30

      This is beautiful..because to him you're a hero...and when they express how they feel about us parents in front of friends and teachers that is saying something fantastic about your relationship..and that is a beautiful feeling...i love the bond you have...

    • @jesusisrisen8447
      @jesusisrisen8447 2 года назад +6

      Repent to Jesus Christ
      “The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”
      ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18:10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @Thomas-um5pv
      @Thomas-um5pv 2 года назад +27

      @@jesusisrisen8447 why do you have to bring religion to a comment with no relation with it whatsoever

    • @gadorgamingtv2989
      @gadorgamingtv2989 2 года назад

      He died

    • @natalievu4399
      @natalievu4399 2 года назад +5

      @@jesusisrisen8447 what does repenting to Jesus has to do with his comment? You are weird!

  • @SynFull6988
    @SynFull6988 4 года назад +1200

    The “No” killed me lol. My dad would say the same thing. This is the best video. His emotion to the letters were overwhelming. So cute.

    • @leahsrblx5080
      @leahsrblx5080 4 года назад +1

      What time

    • @tree123169
      @tree123169 4 года назад +2

      My dad as well. The greatest fathers always seem to know right thing to say. Or when not to say anything.
      Family when done right is so powerful.

    • @jessynicholle
      @jessynicholle 4 года назад

      @@leahsrblx5080 5:30

    • @senfumastevens3076
      @senfumastevens3076 3 года назад

      Hi sister Asha hope you are doing well and I call you upon to get involved in our music school foundation. Glory be to God

  • @cjpsmachado
    @cjpsmachado Год назад +40

    I was blessed with a 9 years old daughter, when she graduated as an attorney her first law action was to adopt me as her father. That was the best gift I ever had in my life. She still fills my heart with pride every day for being her father. Being a father doesn't have nothing to do with making a baby, it's raising them, being by their sides all the way thru life, that makes you a father.

  • @JulaH
    @JulaH 2 года назад +2427

    Being an adoptee myself, this made me cry. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world to have people in our lives who chose to love us unconditionally? All the best to you and your family!

    • @irenelozano8303
      @irenelozano8303 2 года назад +59

      My sister is adopted from China and let me correct you: we, the adopting family, are the lucky ones! You, adoptees, are our little miracles, and the love YOU give us is far greater than anything in this world. It is our honor and privilege to have you in our lives.

    • @Ольга-ж5к4й
      @Ольга-ж5к4й 2 года назад +6

      I wasn't adopted, I was just rised with no one attention, my biggest tragedy is still my cat that lived with me more than 15 years once gone and never comes back. When my dad died it wasn't a problem. But my little smart kind caring girl... I'm still crying.

    • @oneeks5908
      @oneeks5908 2 года назад +2

      Yes!

    • @Matchpoint_TV
      @Matchpoint_TV 2 года назад +3

      Hi Julia, i am an adoptee too, and i could not agree more with what you said. I have Always felt priviliged , Always felt the responsibility to give somehow back the luck i got in My Life . I Hope One day to be able to do random acts of kindness full time, that's why i Also opened a YT Channel and that's why i study to work in the healthcare system.

    • @goldenhabittarot7724
      @goldenhabittarot7724 2 года назад +4

      This is bitter sweet for me cuz my step father/adoptive father was very mean (he did very illegal things to me) and treated me very different from his biological daughter. So I’m glad ppl have good experiences with step fathers it’s just that off it hurts bc of my situation lol

  • @kiatukichafu
    @kiatukichafu 4 года назад +1837

    To be honest , jokes aside this guy is a real man. He must be a good dad.... really nice human being bless his heart .

    • @MrKulturembargo
      @MrKulturembargo 3 года назад +2

      @J S REAL MAN!

    • @opdinkleberg7078
      @opdinkleberg7078 3 года назад +6

      He's a good guy and a good father. Let's not bring frankly sexist language into this thank you.
      Adopting kids that aren't yours doesn't make you a real Man or Woman. Remember if it would sound messed up reversed then maybe you shouldn't be saying it.

    • @haitaelpastor976
      @haitaelpastor976 2 года назад

      I'd rather be "false" than a beta cuck.

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 года назад +3

      Wrong. This doesn’t make him a “real man”.

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 года назад +1

      @@MrKulturembargo no

  • @francesca1870
    @francesca1870 4 года назад +1609

    As a child of divorced parents who never had a father figure in her life, I appreciate these men. Who protect and love their step children. Don’t hurt them or talk them down. They step up to the plate and they love their wives kids just like their own. Shows true love, loving every part of their partner. That takes a great man. You can tell how much he loves you guys and that you love and appreciate him in return. You have a beautiful family💜

    • @ashlynnelson2595
      @ashlynnelson2595 4 года назад +2

      You and me both girl!

    • @denisebucknall1591
      @denisebucknall1591 4 года назад +5

      I'm same only met my dad once in 49 years...
      Men like him are just amazing they deserve to be called dad 🥰🥰

    • @meiligracevids
      @meiligracevids 4 года назад +1

      Sorry honey. You are beautiful

    • @benniehazelwood9276
      @benniehazelwood9276 4 года назад +1

      So true

    • @tinaroberts5858
      @tinaroberts5858 4 года назад +4

      I never knew my father, these girls are very fortunate

  • @deltapi84
    @deltapi84 Год назад +49

    The way everyone call him "DAD" answer so many questions ... I wish you all happiness☺

  • @ramleehamdin1847
    @ramleehamdin1847 4 года назад +3088

    Every Harley Davidson father is a hell rider until they get adoption letter.

  • @grandmasadvice4791
    @grandmasadvice4791 4 года назад +677

    I love it when “Tough guys” cry. You always were their dad.

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 года назад +1

      @NN D ?

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 года назад +1

      @Nick Nanna tf? did ur dad ditch u?

    • @BH-nf5lv
      @BH-nf5lv 4 года назад

      @Nick Nanna 🤡🤡🤡

  • @coffeewithcarline9171
    @coffeewithcarline9171 4 года назад +468

    He even when he cries, he’s handsome. What a beautiful man with a beautiful soul.

  • @sayseriously
    @sayseriously Год назад +120

    What a guy. You can see the love and admiration. We need more fathers like this.

    • @AbBc-w4q
      @AbBc-w4q Год назад +3

      and good mothers too. so many of them are awful yet seemingly get a pass just because they are "mothers"

  • @carlomagno7092
    @carlomagno7092 3 года назад +898

    My father used to say, children belong to who love them.

    • @doomslayer960
      @doomslayer960 3 года назад +10

      That sounds so wrong

    • @7imonUP
      @7imonUP 3 года назад +4

      Great saying!

    • @Irystocrat1134
      @Irystocrat1134 3 года назад +18

      @@doomslayer960 it means if their biological parents doesn't love them, they don't own them.

    • @anxiousmindmusic
      @anxiousmindmusic 3 года назад +41

      @@doomslayer960 only sounds wrong to people who sexualise children. Get help.

    • @standardecover7041
      @standardecover7041 3 года назад

      @@anxiousmindmusic what if someone love them, and they hate those someone?

  • @BonesTheCat
    @BonesTheCat 2 года назад +674

    To have kids choose you to be their father is incredibly special, especially as young adults.

    • @adolfvonpanzer9521
      @adolfvonpanzer9521 2 года назад +6

      And for the man to say yes is incredibly stupid. 💰💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💰

    • @OriginalPuro
      @OriginalPuro 2 года назад +2

      That's not their father, the father is out there laughing because someone is taking care of his lineage, DNA, and paying for it.
      I would never pay for another man's child, that's just weird.

    • @vancai999
      @vancai999 Год назад

      @@OriginalPuro You look like a miserable man. Your life must be so sad...

    • @Jack01010
      @Jack01010 Год назад +2

      @@OriginalPuro It's not about money, it's about love: if you don't want to pay, you don't build up a family anyway, but if you marry someone for LOVE, then you wish even their family loves you, right? after 16 years of growing 4 step-children that had a different dad before, loving them even if they may not recognize you, and then they decide to RECOGNIZE you as their DAD, you would be happy too, no? Or would you refuse because they are not related by blood with you? It's just stupid.
      There are families out there that adopt kids that are without family, and if you think about it there are a LOT of children out there that waits to be adopted.

    • @adolfvonpanzer9521
      @adolfvonpanzer9521 Год назад

      @@Jack01010 in America love is money and money is love……..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @thatsmybikepunk195
    @thatsmybikepunk195 2 года назад +1309

    He honoured those kids by raising them as if they were his own and they honoured him by asking him to be their dad, that’s one of the coolest things I’ve seen on youtube. Congrats guys.

    • @deanclarke5111
      @deanclarke5111 2 года назад +12

      He became their dad the day he took responsibility of those kids. Respect 🙏.

    • @ThePhilosophicalOne
      @ThePhilosophicalOne 2 года назад +4

      He won't be allowed to raise them "as if they were his own." The moment he tries to discipline them, she will throw that, "He's not your son! Don't you dare touch him!" bs at him...

    • @haitaelpastor976
      @haitaelpastor976 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, congrats to the guy for his Simp of the Year award.

    • @se-gj2me
      @se-gj2me 2 года назад +10

      @@ThePhilosophicalOne stop projecting dude

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 года назад +1

      @@se-gj2me there’s some truth to it

  • @PhilipDaniel-r3e
    @PhilipDaniel-r3e 23 дня назад +5

    I'd like to shake that man's hand, he has totally stepped up for you guys, just lost my dad, and I really appreciate what dad's mean in a family 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @GabrielGonzalez-fs9eb
    @GabrielGonzalez-fs9eb 4 года назад +886

    Why in the world would people dislike such a special and heartfelt moment is beyond my comprehension.

    • @theoneandonlymraguilar9456
      @theoneandonlymraguilar9456 4 года назад +18

      They disliked because no one wants to be their dad..sad

    • @pablozee6359
      @pablozee6359 4 года назад +7

      Bots

    • @joeldeserve4685
      @joeldeserve4685 4 года назад +5

      Some people are against the idea of step-children.

    • @missrks7217
      @missrks7217 4 года назад +3

      One of the sweetest things I’ve watched in a while. Honestly made my day :)

    • @robertturnip7850
      @robertturnip7850 4 года назад

      I didn't dislike, but why would somebody adopt adult children?

  • @Justthe2ofUs843
    @Justthe2ofUs843 3 года назад +1382

    The day my 9 year old step son asked me to adopt him was a very special day and an honor. . That was 22 years ago. This video made my eyes water. Any man can be a father, but only some can be a Dad. Congratulations to you Dad, and to your lovely children .

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 3 года назад +11

      Here I am bawling because the man who raised me from 4yo who I called Daddy dropped me with my mother in 1990.

    • @maiyukinoshita2458
      @maiyukinoshita2458 3 года назад

      You're absolutely right!

    • @maiyukinoshita2458
      @maiyukinoshita2458 3 года назад +2

      @Lewis C the earth is already overpopulated. theres no harm in raising kids that arent yours and treating them right.

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 3 года назад +2

      @Lewis C your DNA isn’t special, and with that attitude neither are you.

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 3 года назад +2

      @Lewis C you are a cruel and petty person

  • @rayleonard882
    @rayleonard882 4 года назад +1022

    From one step dad to another , that’s the biggest compliment you will ever receive! Be proud man your doing just fine 👍

    • @MsFoxy2011
      @MsFoxy2011 Год назад +2

      Unfortunately he passed away but in certain he knew he was amazing ❤

  • @klue30
    @klue30 Год назад +20

    How special and beautiful.. I met my step dad when I was 9 years old, I am now 39 and he is my world and my father. I was so broken as a child , he gave me unconditional love , taught me to independent women, and helped me with my career path. I am forever grateful and blessed. What a beautiful story ... So happy for you all❤

  • @Toysoldier9527
    @Toysoldier9527 3 года назад +2997

    Masculinity is not toxic. It is brave, humble and caring.

    • @iwillbnnedafterispeakwhy6498
      @iwillbnnedafterispeakwhy6498 3 года назад +28

      @@nayverma6489 seek help

    • @katho3840
      @katho3840 3 года назад +35

      @@nayverma6489 go see a doctor you're a psycho

    • @Richard-lh3te
      @Richard-lh3te 3 года назад +238

      This is an example of positive masculinity, there are definitely toxic manifestations.

    • @hafizmakiglalis4380
      @hafizmakiglalis4380 3 года назад +70

      Well beating your wife and kids to submit is toxic masculinity, but this one is positive masculinity

    • @coolman3012
      @coolman3012 3 года назад +168

      @@hafizmakiglalis4380 masculinity never involves hurting someone that's vulnerable, that's called insecurity, domestic violence and abuse

  • @arktkt06
    @arktkt06 4 года назад +583

    Met my daughter when she was five. Raised and accepted her as my own and gladly spent a lifetime searching for her smile. Proudest day of my life was her asking me to walk her down the aisle. I may have given her away that day, but she’s still my little girl.

    • @icravemusic
      @icravemusic 4 года назад +21

      This comment made me tear up and cry. May you and your little girl have a lifetime of love and beautiful memories 💖

    • @arktkt06
      @arktkt06 4 года назад +21

      Nicole j thank you. She’s an amazing young woman, and just became a mother herself.

    • @sivor20
      @sivor20 4 года назад +8

      arktkt06 congratulations!

    • @ssibhah
      @ssibhah 4 года назад +4

      I'm not crying!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @arktkt06
      @arktkt06 4 года назад +8

      Ivor Smith I feel like I’ve done something right with my life, because she chose to accept me in her life.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 4 года назад +3073

    This is so beautiful!! He must be so happy and touched

  • @damianprivett5834
    @damianprivett5834 24 дня назад +6

    Probably the greatest honor a man can receive!

  • @Horseluvver
    @Horseluvver 2 года назад +665

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate all the GREAT STEPDADS out there.
    I had one, too.
    I love him forever.

  • @kirbster7392
    @kirbster7392 4 года назад +1065

    That saying, “blood is thicker than water” actually goes like this...”the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Meaning the people you choose is stronger than the people you’re forced upon. Congrats on the official dad!

    • @smithers4420
      @smithers4420 4 года назад +12

      Yep, It's pretty much the reverse of what people think it means lol :)

    • @jahmathes221
      @jahmathes221 4 года назад +9

      Blood is thicker than water but they both spill....wise saying I once heard

    • @tabatha5554
      @tabatha5554 4 года назад +3

      That's deep lol! Seriously though that is awesome.

    • @scottswisher4840
      @scottswisher4840 4 года назад

      Amen!

    • @itsmeaubrey
      @itsmeaubrey 4 года назад +1

      NN D it’s nonsense only if you don’t get it.

  • @robertbigelow1338
    @robertbigelow1338 2 года назад +756

    You know he's a good man if he's made these kids want him to be their father. God Bless him and God Bless them for having that much respect

    • @rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488
      @rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488 2 года назад +3

      Amen

    • @jrc6368
      @jrc6368 2 года назад

      Took the words out of my mouth Robert!

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng 2 года назад +1

      Everyone is on display nowadays, mini Hollywood producers.

    • @SplitGoose
      @SplitGoose 2 года назад

      @@bluwng mmmmm. Ngl I feel like this was a way to boost this channel

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng 2 года назад

      @@SplitGoose Bible says people will become lovers of themselves and have no genuine love for each other, they will have a form of Godliness but not know God. Using people genuine emotions for a winning shot was what evil Hollywood demons did, now everyone is a smaller version of evil.

  • @riverrebel1
    @riverrebel1 Год назад +114

    I appreciate the 8 minute look into this man. You can tell in that little time what a genuine person he was. He made me laugh and tear up, then cry a when I saw the news. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope time has made it a little better. I'll remember him, RIP from a stranger

    • @naeemagbani920
      @naeemagbani920 Год назад +4

      ​@@ColorfulCynic He died of cancer in 2022

    • @anthonycolbert6774
      @anthonycolbert6774 Год назад

      @@naeemagbani920 fuck dammit fuck cancer I should have quit scrolling and reading the comments.

  • @knjigofilizam
    @knjigofilizam 4 года назад +2355

    I met my stepdad when I was 9. Back then, he was just my mum's friend. And I wanted him to be my dad soooo badly! He was so nice to me, genuinely nice and really cared about me. Eventually, my mum fell in love with him (he was in love with her for a long time already) and they got together when I was 10. When I was 14, they got married and now I have great parents and 3 baby sisters 🥰
    Beautiful family I have always wanted 🥰

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 4 года назад +14

      🤗🤗🤗🙏🏾

    • @amirz8649
      @amirz8649 4 года назад +7

      💚

    • @miniflamingo3743
      @miniflamingo3743 4 года назад +18

      You are an amazing person, I am so glad you got your wish

    • @noemi2007
      @noemi2007 4 года назад +4

      ❤🙏🏾🥰

    • @gabriallopez1759
      @gabriallopez1759 4 года назад +15

      This comment was so beautiful. God bless you

  • @Nina-mv1sj
    @Nina-mv1sj 2 года назад +829

    These kind of stories should be on everydays news to inspire others instead of constant fear mongering. What a beautiful heart warming special moment.

    • @mariom4143
      @mariom4143 2 года назад +3

      Absolutely!

    • @embeDes
      @embeDes 2 года назад

      Yeah, yeah... I took them 'only' 16 years to ask him. ;)

    • @elijahdieker7016
      @elijahdieker7016 2 года назад

      God is pro choice and pro-life people are NOT for life, they are for CONTROL.
      Trump was the false prophet, the lawless one that lead many astray.
      James 5:2 All the wealth stored up will be used as evidence against rich people to burn them!!
      A camel can NOT go through the eye of a needle.
      Anyone that sits on billions of dollars and watches people starve, suffer, and be raped and homeless in the world but chooses to do nothing about it is NOT a Christian.
      GET AWAY FROM WOLVES AND FALSE TEACHERS AND GET OUT OF THE FAKE CHURCHES OR YOU ARE GOING TO DIE WITH THEM AND THEIR LIES. JUDGEMENT IS FALLING.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and fireballs are going to hit the fake churches. GET OUT AND STAY OUT. This is not a joke.
      If you care anything about celebrity wolves, you will do everything you can to reach them and tell them theres not much time left for them to get on the right side. Even Oprah, she might spend millions on helping people but if you are still sitting on billions, that doesn't even qualify for lukewam and she has already been spit out.
      Anyone teaching the monetary tithing LIE or collecting money for ministering in any way is now in THE GREAT TRIBULATION and they will begin to suffer until they repent or it's too late and they die. It's their choice. All worship groups, bookwriters, and every fake minister KNOWS selling anything using the gospel is against the Bible and evil. Do you really comprehend that they are INTENTIONALLY LYING to people?
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-12 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to repent and bring back the money they were never supposed to take and God will end Covid. Every single minister on television has known this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much, they INTENTIONALLY CHOSE TO KILL everyone with Covid instead of bringing it back!
      WOW! Are you awake yet?
      Being awake is a GOOD thing, don't listen to demon hybrids that tell you otherwise.
      And the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships in Mathew 19:12 FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. Male or female is determined by gender located in the brain, not sex characteristics. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 so any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me.....

    • @traphuntnstuff8096
      @traphuntnstuff8096 2 года назад

      Well… the horror stories of step-parenting far outweigh the happy endings.

  • @michaelbaumann42
    @michaelbaumann42 4 года назад +139

    Blood doesn't make a family..... LOVE does..... mad respect...

  • @elissalabellelabelle4819
    @elissalabellelabelle4819 Год назад +48

    Step dads are a very special. Most guys don’t want to come near a single mom. It takes a lot of love and generosity to take on another man’s child. ❤

    • @tortagrande
      @tortagrande Год назад +8

      It takes weakness and no self respect. Any man with a working set of testes, isn't taking care of another man's kids. 😂

    • @aiuchiha111
      @aiuchiha111 Год назад

      @@tortagrande Your whole existence is about your balls, why should we listen to you?

    • @Jeffro23_
      @Jeffro23_ Год назад +4

      @@tortagrandewhat?..

    • @Jeffro23_
      @Jeffro23_ Год назад +4

      @@tortagrande are you saying kids who have a dad bail on them don’t deserve to have another father figure step in?

    • @EmiNo-il1gs
      @EmiNo-il1gs Год назад

      I don't know how old you are but you better get your act together. Even at age 4 I wouldn't even say that... to be honest I wouldn't even think it. Do you know how hard raising children are especially as a single parent is?! You should really speak to somebody about this and get some help if you think that is ok.

  • @joegaragozzo1640
    @joegaragozzo1640 4 года назад +506

    My stepson was 8months old when I met my ex. She is gone, he is still in my life. He is my kid, my buddy and the love and respect between us is something special. He is 22 now, his mom put both of us through the fucking ringer. We survived together. Best buds!

    • @raiden6551
      @raiden6551 3 года назад +8

      you are a hero dude.

    • @rayaseem
      @rayaseem 3 года назад +2

      God bless you 🙂

  • @fridaakanbi6752
    @fridaakanbi6752 4 года назад +327

    Waooooooo if all humans were like him the world would be a better place

  • @KevaKarmelle
    @KevaKarmelle 4 года назад +370

    I don’t know why this was suggested in my feed, but it blessed me to see someone step up and be a father to wonderful children. It gives me hope. What a beautiful moment. ❤️

    • @ashleyrt3345
      @ashleyrt3345 4 года назад +4

      Same! It was in my suggestions, he seems like a such a cool and amazing dad, God bless their whole family x

  • @SupermanHopkins
    @SupermanHopkins Год назад +12

    That man stepped up and took care of *four* kids? I have no idea what happened with the mom and her previous guy, but to leave it after four kids tells me that it had to be a hellacious experience. Shout out to this guy for bringing peace, love and stability.

  • @ClaytonMRay
    @ClaytonMRay 3 года назад +3059

    All the other Dads watching: *puts glasses on*

    • @danmedeiros6676
      @danmedeiros6676 3 года назад +9

      LOl I died

    • @humanbeing1675
      @humanbeing1675 3 года назад +6

      Yes😏

    • @白髪りす
      @白髪りす 3 года назад +32

      Looks like its ganna rain today.

    • @deadlyHazyyy
      @deadlyHazyyy 3 года назад +12

      What do you mean.. I'm not even a dad :(

    • @ClaytonMRay
      @ClaytonMRay 3 года назад +13

      @@deadlyHazyyy you dont have to be a dad to love this haha

  • @Aphex51
    @Aphex51 2 года назад +574

    From just seeing a few minutes of this man's character I can understand why they made that decision. Family is who you choose.

  • @melvingrimes7886
    @melvingrimes7886 2 года назад +1528

    Being a father who stepped up 25 years ago to help raise a wonderful son I can understand the emotions that he is feeling. I am now the proud father of a Nuke tec in the Navy and a great father himself and am proud to call my son. Love you Joseph.

    • @casie6609
      @casie6609 2 года назад +2

      What you did i's a great thing but why are you proud that your son is a "Nuke tec"? If that's someone who works on nukes, that's actually horrible, he's contributing to war and death.

    • @Glee73
      @Glee73 2 года назад +6

      @@casie6609 nothing wrong with serving your country.. and a nuke tech doesnt work with nuclear weapons.

    • @20alphabet
      @20alphabet 2 года назад +5

      @@Glee73
      And a real man doesn't step on the kid's real father.

    • @RockLee679
      @RockLee679 2 года назад +1

      Well done man

    • @melvingrimes7886
      @melvingrimes7886 2 года назад +2

      @@RockLee679 Thank you.

  • @conorryan3035
    @conorryan3035 Год назад +8

    You could tell from his reaction that this is all that guy ever wanted and you could tell from the way his family treated him that they wanted it too. Fantastic result all round - I wish this family the best of luck!

  • @snehalprabhune2983
    @snehalprabhune2983 4 года назад +530

    His expressions made me cry...very kind father he is

    • @hollylou1708
      @hollylou1708 4 года назад +2

      True words you are speaking 😭😭so beautiful!

    • @eclizzyfn8635
      @eclizzyfn8635 4 года назад +1

      Did not make me cry im a dam man

    • @brokemrbeast1826
      @brokemrbeast1826 4 года назад

      Eli Swanson Men cry, that’s a man right there

  • @EugeneSoong
    @EugeneSoong 4 года назад +1532

    As Yondu once said, "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn’t your daddy.” This man may not be her biological father, but he sure is her daddy.

    • @bananasxv5558
      @bananasxv5558 4 года назад +12

      Omfg that’s the best quote

    • @babyyoda2190
      @babyyoda2190 4 года назад +7

      That reminds me when is the next one gonna come out

    • @dhruvs015
      @dhruvs015 4 года назад +3

      Guardian of the galaxy 👍

    • @Holderman-lj2rw
      @Holderman-lj2rw 4 года назад +2

      @@babyyoda2190 whenever “they decide” to allow people to see movies , cuz I’m sure there filming it now along with Thor love and thunder.

    • @babyyoda2190
      @babyyoda2190 4 года назад +2

      @@Holderman-lj2rw one of my privies theaters let’s people it’s called movie grill I think it’s something like that tho

  • @karensimplyadventurous7305
    @karensimplyadventurous7305 4 года назад +363

    Base on experience. Family is not only about blood. Its about the love and care u show unconditionally.

    • @taylor.g.
      @taylor.g. 4 года назад +3

      Yep, and this comes to show that I have nO faMily. ;-;

    • @karensimplyadventurous7305
      @karensimplyadventurous7305 4 года назад +2

      @@kylejr1467 i agree. It is case to case situation. Some find love and care by blood and some are not.

  • @OZEEtube
    @OZEEtube Год назад +3

    I grew up without a father and had no support from him all my life. Some won’t take care of their own.
    Then there are people like you. Having a dad at home makes a huge difference for peoples lives. Thank you for being such a great guy.

  • @williamstokely9589
    @williamstokely9589 4 года назад +5107

    I see no step dad here. Just a father who loves his kids. Blood doesnt matter.

    • @melindagonzalez7326
      @melindagonzalez7326 4 года назад +20

      You are right

    • @ouroborosbond7412
      @ouroborosbond7412 4 года назад +26

      It does when it comes to child maintenance

    • @williamstokely9589
      @williamstokely9589 4 года назад +59

      @@ouroborosbond7412 I have 3 that have no blood in common with me and 3 that are blood related and none of them are different in my eyes.. I get you were trying to be smart and funny about blood type but it wasn't either.

    • @britmarwick156
      @britmarwick156 4 года назад +6

      THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!

    • @robsnook4512
      @robsnook4512 4 года назад +1

      I may not be your father boy but I’m still your daddy

  • @bryanbellar9188
    @bryanbellar9188 3 года назад +225

    Man, what a great gift for this man. My “stepdad” raised me since I was 6 months old and for 99% of my life has been the only dad I’ve known. I will be 32 soon and he’s still my dad. Even though him and my mom divorced. Can’t ever replace the real men who step up to the plate when others step out

    • @austinnsuff6576
      @austinnsuff6576 3 года назад +4

      That's so sweet. I'm glad you have a dad who loves you! Everyone needs that.

    • @3211-r7z
      @3211-r7z 3 года назад +1

      He sounds like a very good man God Bless Him and you 🙏❤

    • @MrBooYa-yd5er
      @MrBooYa-yd5er 20 дней назад

      Disgusting she divorced him.

  • @a.k.7116
    @a.k.7116 4 года назад +231

    REAL MEN.....CRY!!! His face is getting beat red trying to hold in his true feelings of love.

  • @Beignetboy
    @Beignetboy Год назад +49

    Gotta be a solid guy to have the kids ask for you to be their dad..hats off to you good sir 👌 ❤

  • @treezy7848
    @treezy7848 4 года назад +176

    As a 14 year old boy I hope I can grow into a man like this

    • @viperdemonz-jenkins
      @viperdemonz-jenkins 4 года назад +20

      sounds like you are on the right path to be like him.

    • @emilhartmann3039
      @emilhartmann3039 4 года назад +6

      That's exactely what i thought while watching this... I'm also 14 and i want to be such a great man/dad sometimes🥺

    • @AndreaGarcia-hf1es
      @AndreaGarcia-hf1es 4 года назад

      you will be! Just make it happen :)

    • @pmsd6066
      @pmsd6066 4 года назад +1

      If you want it to ,you can.

    • @skillfuldabest
      @skillfuldabest 4 года назад +2

      Lol rule number #1 is to never date a single mother. But I guess you’re still a blue pilled youngster. I recommend you read the book ‘The Rational Male’.

  • @michaellashua8574
    @michaellashua8574 3 года назад +335

    I had a “step dad” that never had the chance to become my legal step dad. I wish he had the chance to become my legal step dad before he was gone forever. This video made me cry, and I haven’t cried in over 3 years. Thank you for the emotional release.

    • @iamf6641
      @iamf6641 3 года назад

      i havent cried for 10 years.

    • @iamf6641
      @iamf6641 3 года назад +1

      i dont know why.

    • @samuelcampbell249
      @samuelcampbell249 3 года назад +1

      Sit back and cry, you deserve all good things in your life, wishing you all the best of luck in life.

    • @jerryfrederick6610
      @jerryfrederick6610 3 года назад +1

      Not all crying is bad and if you cry about love it is strength not weakness.

    • @YieM1331
      @YieM1331 3 года назад

      As long as you loved your step dad and treated him like a dad he knew !!!

  • @johnpiscal6466
    @johnpiscal6466 4 года назад +789

    Why doesn't this have 2M views? Made my day! Thank you for sharing your story about a special Man!

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 года назад +48

      Let’s get it to 2M! Thank you so much for watching! (:

    • @margezaccaria6391
      @margezaccaria6391 4 года назад +6

      Awesome 👍

    • @hthouston3924
      @hthouston3924 4 года назад +3

      Give some time it will hit 2M views

    • @mazieg7072
      @mazieg7072 4 года назад +4

      TBH it went on too long before it got to the point.I almost stopped it,becUse it was making no sense,but didn't They should have shortened it a bit.

    • @7shingshong685
      @7shingshong685 4 года назад

      Because there are 800 videos+ about this

  • @jacobshort5378
    @jacobshort5378 Год назад +6

    May he rest in peace. I am so truly sorry for your guys loss. What a great man who stepped up to be your Dad.

  • @garyellis456
    @garyellis456 4 года назад +178

    What a wonderful family - nothing bigger than a man with tears.

  • @highlander752
    @highlander752 4 года назад +315

    For these children to ask him to adopt them as young adults means he is obviously a great dad and a great man. I wish there more stand up men like this guy. You are very lucky to have each other.

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 года назад +3

      But theirs one selfish single mom that breakup her 4 boyfriends. With two kids that wants a stepdad

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 3 года назад +7

      @@rowenramnath2016 this made no sense

    • @CP-ir3ft
      @CP-ir3ft 3 года назад

      @@rowenramnath2016 ?

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 года назад +1

      @@b.s.bobbyshaw we were friends for now and before. He could be not a good person. 3 guys she always breakup with them.

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 года назад +1

      Her first man with two kids. He still around.

  • @nanina2034
    @nanina2034 4 года назад +152

    I laughed and cry.He is the real FATHER the real man who raised these kids and that's one happy family.

  • @Salomgoozoo5
    @Salomgoozoo5 23 дня назад +3

    My parents passed when I was 3. I never had a real mom or dad. Lots of foster homes. But these stories touch me every time!💜💜💜

  • @organicmechanic5150
    @organicmechanic5150 Год назад +147

    All he asks for on father's day is a sibling photograph and you all ask him to be your real father. You guys have my respect.
    Seeing his response meant it means everything to him.

  • @jurrienvanrooy7469
    @jurrienvanrooy7469 4 года назад +287

    As a father of a daughter and soon a son too, this hits me right in the feels. The role (and duty) of a father isn’t a birthright, it’s an accomplishment. You’ve got to earn it. This man absolutely earned it.

  • @kasudano9969
    @kasudano9969 4 года назад +125

    Nothing more endearing than a man trying to hold back his tears

  • @alidadebruyn36
    @alidadebruyn36 Год назад +3

    This hits hard to home. So sweet and special. I have a step daughter and son we had custody of both of them from when she was 5 and I tell you she is so very special to me. We have a very close bond now, she is in her 30’s but I love her as if she was flesh of my flesh and blood of my blood ❤️

  • @aboulmagd88
    @aboulmagd88 4 года назад +4703

    I was chilling in my room and suddenly a ninja broke in and started chopping Onions...

  • @BRENDA92121
    @BRENDA92121 2 года назад +427

    Can’t stop crying imagine how good this man has been to his kids that they would even set this up heard them all say dad like a thousand times lol clearly the greatest dad and husband god bless this family

  • @matthwsjosh78
    @matthwsjosh78 3 года назад +284

    I know exactly how he felt reading that as my girls did the same thing to me and I’m just here to tell everyone words can’t explain the emotions. Your a lucky man brother cherish it

  • @ridiboo7738
    @ridiboo7738 Год назад +13

    Are you kidding me! What a beautiful family.
    I'm so touched by this story. He raised beautiful children.
    I understand perfectly. My Daddy adopted me at age 4. Met my mom when she was 21 as a single parent. I love him so much. Still in my life, I'm 43 now. And still daddy's lil girl.
    Kudos to all dad's out there, who say" Bring it on!"

  • @mercynyaramba8538
    @mercynyaramba8538 4 года назад +180

    The fact that they already call him dad is absolutely amazing 🥰🥰

    • @eman1757
      @eman1757 4 года назад +2

      So proud he is. Beautiful family.

  • @Kanovskiy
    @Kanovskiy 2 года назад +383

    These always make me tear up. You don't choose your biological children or parents and so it is a blessing when everything turns out alright, but willingly choosing a person to be your parent... that must feel very powerful and special for both parties.

    • @camomoose1078
      @camomoose1078 2 года назад +1

      You...you kindado choose your biological children.
      Cause you kinda make them.
      Ya know?

    • @cheesedoodles239
      @cheesedoodles239 2 года назад

      @@camomoose1078 nah

  • @spikysmoothness
    @spikysmoothness 3 года назад +105

    First time I really saw my father cry was when my sister asked him to adopt her.
    I'm so happy for all of you!

  • @jimmywong4337
    @jimmywong4337 Год назад +2

    There is so much love in this video from the daughter and the stepfather. It's so refreshing to see that they appreciate what this man did for them.

  • @mr1597
    @mr1597 2 года назад +358

    I grew up and aged out in foster care, and these stories always make me happy for all those kids who found fathers and mothers who stepped up for them. All the best!

    • @justinl9077
      @justinl9077 2 года назад +12

      Sorry you never had parents. If someone had adoped you, they would've been blessed.

    • @jen4um
      @jen4um Год назад +10

      I’m so sorry you went through that and it must have been very difficult and hopeless at times. I imagine that hurts the soul and your heart. I wish for you one day to find a truly loving woman, be married, and be able to be a father yourself and cherish your kids. Show them all the love you deserved from your biological parents.

    • @jeancarlosperez2863
      @jeancarlosperez2863 Год назад +2

      My granpa was actually like you. Most stern yet sweet person I know.

    • @oleandra3759
      @oleandra3759 Год назад +1

      Would you have wanted to be adopted once you reached mid-teens?

    • @ilove2loveu
      @ilove2loveu Год назад +3

      @@oleandra3759 I'm in my early 20s and I would still love to have a father

  • @aadityasharma32
    @aadityasharma32 4 года назад +196

    He even has the Dad jokes on point 😂 and that moment when his face goes red.. 💓 God bless 💯

    • @priyanshsinha934
      @priyanshsinha934 4 года назад +4

      That's the thing about DaDs they really care about everyone more than themselves and hide there tears and pain in silence no matter how strict they are ,no matter how carefree they are ❤️

  • @UssiTheGrouch
    @UssiTheGrouch 2 года назад +403

    As a girl not knowing my father and gone through a pretty bad experience with a step-dad I really can appreciate this.
    How cool of a dad he must be being asked to adopt the kids by THE KIDS themselves....
    GOOD JOB! That's what I call to MAN UP! ❤️
    LOVE, LOVE LOVE

    • @crazylicious85
      @crazylicious85 2 года назад +2

      Same here

    • @L.ysergicSD
      @L.ysergicSD 2 года назад +3

      My mom wasn't in 3 of her kids lives for 12 years..yet it's only talked ab when it's a dad walking out. What a dumb society

    • @wp8022
      @wp8022 2 года назад +15

      @@krishnakanth1058 What's wrong with you?

    • @davidgray8089
      @davidgray8089 2 года назад +18

      @@krishnakanth1058 Actually he's being a man, something you apparently know nothing about.

    • @20alphabet
      @20alphabet 2 года назад

      Stepfathers are never good, unless the real dad's deceased.

  • @GameBreakerGod
    @GameBreakerGod 3 года назад +2871

    ❤️ you guys are the best this made me smile and miss my dad very much but this man is a role model

    • @babbisp1
      @babbisp1 3 года назад +2

      Omg it's the Valkyrie slayer himself! I heard "you're" also pregnant xD
      Congrats!

    • @achilles8397
      @achilles8397 3 года назад

      Omg GbG you are here brother!! Nice seeing u here mate

    • @alekos2740
      @alekos2740 3 года назад

      Agree!!! Much respect to him!!!

    • @MetaITurtle
      @MetaITurtle 3 года назад

      A Dad is who created you. But a Father is who raised you

    • @MrMakingwavesmedia
      @MrMakingwavesmedia 2 года назад +1

      A role model? He stole another mans family. What is wrong with you?

  • @nickoppo_
    @nickoppo_ 2 года назад +240

    I don't know why RUclips recommended me this, but this video made my day. Mad respect and may God bless you all.

  • @ettenadra
    @ettenadra 4 года назад +77

    Growing up as a divorcee child, and now raising my teen son as a single parent, I couldn’t stop myself from shedding a tear. God bless fathers like him, we need more of them in the world

    • @gabriella2682
      @gabriella2682 Год назад

      I truly hope you are doing better or will soon. I'm a single mom and I send my love to you ♡

  • @focanopiano
    @focanopiano Год назад +2

    Fatherhood is the best thing a man can experience in his life... I'm 3 times sure of it.

  • @lindabeckering9010
    @lindabeckering9010 4 года назад +138

    Awwwww tears. My son asked my husband to be his dad. It takes a special kind of Man to adopt and take on someone else’s child or children. Congrats

  • @animallove6991
    @animallove6991 4 года назад +705

    “ No.” Typical dad; made me laugh!

  • @sgtsnafubohica15
    @sgtsnafubohica15 4 года назад +149

    I wish everyday I asked my Dad to adopt me before he passed. He was amazing caring for my brother and I since I was four, still remember my sixth birthday and he started a rubber and war it was so much fun. He was my best friend. He was who I ran too when I had a problem with boys, when I got pregnant at 17 he was who I called when I found out even though he and my mother were divorced, when I enlisted he was the person on the phone saying how proud he is of me, when I was preparing for my first deployment I was scared and he just said don't focus on fear focus on coming home day at a time, when I was sent to Germany I was told he had six moths left to live due to COPD and CHF it was the hardest day of my life getting on a plane to say my final good bye to my dad. Ten years now and it still feels like yesterday. Hug each other everyday, say I love you as much as you can, you never know when will the last time be.

    • @Earth.To.Marsss
      @Earth.To.Marsss 4 года назад +3

      Army SGT Girl I am so sorry for your loss! :(

    • @sgtsnafubohica15
      @sgtsnafubohica15 4 года назад +1

      @@Earth.To.Marsss it's difficult but I try to live the life my Dad would have been proud of. Although an SCI I still try to do what I can for others.

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 года назад +7

      I am so sorry for you loss. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Thank you for sharing those amazing memories.

    • @a.k.7116
      @a.k.7116 4 года назад +2

      @@sgtsnafubohica15 I love the way you clearly and matter of factly state: MY DAD! 💙 After all, he was.

  • @danielkelley1952
    @danielkelley1952 Год назад +21

    As a father that raised a daughter alone I was crying right along with you.. 🥲

  • @robjennings9143
    @robjennings9143 4 года назад +81

    He doesn’t need paper, you can tell he’s the dad. Stunning family, wish you all the happiness life can bring 🌹🇬🇧

  • @JavonDGreen
    @JavonDGreen 3 года назад +40

    As grown men we are taught to be tough and not show emotion. You could even see by how he wanted to put his shades down. Seeing grown men cry happy tears is the greatest joy ever. I cried right along with him. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @TheOneAnd0nlyLoco
    @TheOneAnd0nlyLoco 4 года назад +278

    Absolutely stunning not everyone has a father in there life but it absolutely is an amazing feeling when you find someone that can step up and treat you like there own this is a very inspiring video

  • @duramaxyami5187
    @duramaxyami5187 14 дней назад

    That is beautiful. Nothing makes a grown man cry more than the love for his children. Congratulations to the beautiful family

  • @stanspch1
    @stanspch1 2 года назад +223

    Show this guy some respect, he knows what’s about to occur, that’s why he needs his specs!, but he shouldn’t be embarrassed of his emotional response. Well done sir. You have my respect!!!. 🍺😉👍

    • @ernest1576
      @ernest1576 2 года назад +5

      The real test be when your 90 in a diaper everyone of them better come running to help me