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In response to this question. I was seeing someone for a short time she had daddy issues. Typical gold digger wants men to pay for anything. It’s disgusting. Last I heard she had 27 credit cards 💳. She is evil human being I’m happy now thank god he didn’t let me have relationship with this evil person. That’s my story. Stay away from gold diggers
Most feminists have daddy issue. I should know, my mom was the rabbid, 3 divorced, feminist who is now radicalizing my niece and nephew against me... So I cut them out of my life. Problem solved.
Uhm... women arent a group of people that all think the same? Theres something called empathy among HUMANS, not just men. Not everyone is equal to your experiences
Some women do ..110% For tbe man who deserves it , The man who truly is the king of love. Grounded, balanced, stable. It takes two.. Reciprocity Equal balance of give and take. 🌳🌷🌳
The only good thing of dating NAR or daddy issues girls is that you understand the importance of the father in a woman's life. Now you know you have to do it right when you get your own daughter.
The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
@Diablo Montana No escaping pain. I would definitely vet well to avoid needless pain just from a practical perspective. But as long as you're capable of functioning well without anyone or anything else, I think you're good. The co-dependency can be crippling. Life is rich when we have (good) people in it.
@@bigspence6898 It exhausted me on every level you can think of..I needed at least a year to be alone and think about what I wanted out of life. She wore me the hell out.
My wife of 9 years and two children said she is divorcing me because she just met an older man that reminds her of her father. I lost everything. Wish I knew about daddy issues 25 years ago.
Me and my ex made it 10 yrs..had 2 girls and a boy together...she began cheating and after the 3rd time I filed for divorce..i got full custody of my kids and she gets weekends..she owes a ton of child support,but I never pushed for child support recovery cause she would just play the kids against me n say "well your daddy locked mommy up" so I gave up on that one...either way what blows my mind is I thought we were doing pretty good.i was an electrician and she was a medical assistant,had a few cars n trucks n the drive way,couple 4wheelers,trampoline,safe full of guns...now shes with a pot head,cock fighting,furniture mover dude and they live happily with his mom...i must of been a awful husband,but I didn't see it...anyway me and the kids doing fine and have rebuilt most of our assets...lost everything paying a good lawyer
I dated a girl with bad daddy issues a few years ago and she wanted to end the relationship so she could go to find an older man to do everything for her so yeah be very careful of women with daddy issues.
I had daddy issues and I decided to change the story...I was like your girlfriend...but now I am very happy living my feminine role, serving my man and being lovely. I have changed my concept of men, now I think they are the most beautiful creatures because they protect their families with their lifes, they are providers, they are fighters, they focus on doing the best things for us, they express love at a different way.. It's possible to start a new life!
Just cause she's "working on herself" does not mean even remotely that she's grounded, well-adjusted, and reliable. She's just slightly less ungrounded, ill-adjusted, and unreliable than she used to be. Run away
They will continue to run away even in marriage as he said. I had one she skipped to another guy then left him and now trying to marry this dude out of country now its going be rinse and repeat.
I broke a relation ship a month and a half a go. She is a beutifull, sports like, eats healthy, owns property and has a medical degree. How ever has Daddy issues. Her BPD became intolerable. One thing I like to add is that Daddy issues plus an inflated ego equals radio active. Shout out to Rich for providing guys with priceless informativo and Wisdom.
You never ever want to date a female MD. That is top Level entitlement. A friend of mine is a surgeon, which is like one of the best Jobs you can have. Still, his girl is bugging him to do better. Why? Cause she's a MD herself... Imagine beeing at the top of your game only to still be not good enough cause she's there too. That would be my #2 red flag. #1 daddy issues, #2 female MD.
@Daniel Downs Yeah its all relative to her status. You could make 5 million a year, if she makes 4 million she'll not be impressed. You have to bring her into a world thats new to her, that she cant afford on her own. So making 150k compared to her 50k, that works. Because then you can afford the big appartement and a Porsche, but she can not. If she makes 100k she's in your league already, she already got a taste of that lifestyle, so not impressed anymore. If she has parents that can afford that lifestyle, even though she herself is far away from it, not impressed anymore. If she has an ex who made that kind of money or more and let her experience the lifestyle, not impressed anymore. It still might work out, but she'll not respect you for what you bring to the table.
“Any woman that didn’t have a solid relationship with a solid, virtuous,masculine father cannot appreciate a solid, virtuous, masculine alpha male.” So very true
My mother had serious daddy issues. She was also a rabid feminist. I never wanted to get married. In fact, neither me nor my brother ever got married. Oddly enough, her craziness saved me from going down the marriage path.
Right because the irony of having toxic parent(s) is that they show you how NOT to be in life . For that you can be grateful they taught you ( even though they didnt actively do it ) . That is what I learned from my parents . Both were pretty toxic / narcissist but I saw how I didnt want to be in life
I agree with you guys on this. My parents super toxic and dramatic. I am 31 and trust me I do not want to get married at all. efff that and I say that with a passion lol !
My parents relationship was a train wreck . Due to this I think I question why we jump into marriage. Don't think my way of dealing with life has been the best but I'm ok with it 🤔.
So her mental issues led to her offspring not multiplying themselves and therefore to the end of her genetic line ... makes sense from nature´s point of view to weed out that string of genes
The last relationship I had was with a woman who not only had daddy issues but she also had mommy issues and unfortunately I had to learn what a covert narcissist is the hard way. These are the worst types of people you can meet especially if you don’t have your shit together emotionally as a man. The best repellent against these people is awareness, self-love, and boundaries.
@@championmagnus That's why we're (BPD women) attracted to narcissist / other Cluster B men. The guys who actually believe they are the "Chosen Ones" who will indeed 'fix / tame us' whether we like it or not, and who never really let go. If he says you're a lost cause... Harley Quinn's going to light your shit on fire. No one who treats you as a lost cause is worth dealing with, let alone investing in years of intensive, specialized therapy to better yourself for. They're just another client.
@@sapphasea most of the time, they are a lost cause though. won't ever be health in your lifetime and simply not worth it. that's why they are attracted the empaths in that dynamic type. they go through those types one after another until the healthy person has had enough and leaves. their sicknesses itself prevent change most of the time, this is just how it is. a covert narcissist is not worth your time, health, etc and anyone who has dealt with this or any good therapist would tell you the same.
@@sapphasea I don't know what you're on about. I'm talking about broken women are broken and not worth it. I loved my ex and still do unconditionally. Didn't help. Haven't redated in 7 years since her (except redating her while she was cheating on her fiance with me which again didn't work bc she has only gotten worse) while she has ruined every person she has been with b/c she is sick and broken and always will be so, unfortunately. Situations like that, are what I am talking about. Unhealthy and crazy is not good and ruins and hurts the people dealing with the bs while they love unconditionally. I don't know about bad guys or whatever doing whatever, I was speaking from my experience and in generally no it is not good to put up with a person like that, hands down. That is the correct answer. I won't reply anymore if you feel the need to get the last word and keep going on trying to defend a crazy, broken girl (all I am talking about so no need to make it into something else- what my bipolar ex always did) that ruined me and many others and was abusive physically, emotionally, etc
It’s so sad that these men failed as fathers and the daughters are the ones that have to deal with all this and seeing videos on deciding if they deserve love or not. It’s tragic that girls are shamed and already judged because their father failed them
Dated a woman in the past that supposedly went to therapy every Thursday for these issues. Forget it. Not worth the headache and stress. You're better off alone.
I 100% agree. Those women have already been captured by demons.😂 Especially if she has anxiety issues and the only way to treat it is by taking pills. They’ll ruin your sanity and bring you to their level. They’ll punish you for caring about them. In short: be wary of her sob story. It’s her karma dealing with her. Now think, what happens to the guy who jumps in front of a bullet to save another? He gets shot! You’ll take the hit. Flee from such a woman and never look back. Be thankful you were saved. I don’t care how good she looks! Let her go! Or you’ll learn the hard way! They are completely damaged. No therapy can rescue them. You’re better off alone. I can promise you that. Extreme loneliness is heaven compared to such a woman. She’ll fail you when you least expect it. You’ll realize the devil is in her soul. Don’t do it mate. Don’t choose a woman with daddy issues. Don’t save her, she doesn’t want to be saved.😂
Oh man... The worst is when they're going to therapy and they try to use the things her therapist says to her, on you. A bit like an arsonist giving advice on how to operate a fire engine.
Going to therapy does not mean she’s ‘working on’ anything. It just means she’s paying someone a high hourly rate to indulge her narcissism and make her feel good. Most women actually come out worse than when they went in. Doesn’t matter how ‘enlightened’ and self aware her vocabulary is - if she is still prone to bouts of destructive behavior, then she still sees herself as a victim and subconsciously blames other people for her emotions. Real personal growth can be observed in small yet tangible choices about how she manages her emotions and controls her responses to the challenges of life. She won’t seek approval for it, at least not as much, and it will be largely consistent over time. Every girl I’ve dated who couldn’t shut up about her therapist, turned out to be a class-A Bunny Boiler who blamed me for every negative emotion she ever felt.
I was in a long term relationship with girl who had zero respect for her father. Her mother had no respect for her husband as a man, father and as her husband. How was the daughter gonna turn out! It was like she was trying to ‘out do’ her mother.
That's pretty fucked up that her and her mother would disrespect her father like that, why would they treat him like shit, that is just not right, who knows how things are going for them now.
Don't leave out "Mommy Issues" where she listens to her mom about everything and not her husband. Its especially bad when it comes to childrearing when you are living in close proximity to her mom. The mother-in-law will try to control everything about her grandchildrens' life, nutrition, education, friends, etc because she has nothing better to do. It might be difficult to know about this until its too late because the problem doesn't arise until the gf/wife has children. Watch out for girls that talk to their mother all the time, especially girls that have no other siblings. Its especially bad when the mother-in-law doesn't have any other grandchildren. Also, some mother-in-laws will try to control where you live and what type of house you buy as they'll want to "live close to you" or "in a certain neighborhood". This could also be a sign of "Daddy Issues" if the father-in-law is not doing anything about this. A good man should be aware of what his daughter or wife is doing to another man's territory. My ex father-in-law never dared to step in and take my side on anything as he feared both his wife and his daughter.
Thanks to your videos, I figured out what the heck was wrong with my ex-girlfriends behavior. Turns out she had some SERIOUS daddy issues causing fear of abandonment. Like you said, it was a self fulfilling prophecy. She even admitted it at the end of the relationship that she sabotaged the relationship and said it was something she will always regret (duh! she had a GREAT GUY).
I will tell you. It is very...but very rare that a woman will admit the she is the one who sabotage the relationship. Normally doesn’t happened. It’s always the guys fault. Her nature is to have zero accountability. That’s one in a billion, you are talking about!
Dating a woman with daddy issues add this kind of drama - hidden boyfriends, cheating, lieing, pretending to care, hot, cold, cuts off sex and never communicates - never ever. It's a nightmare. Don't even stay if she can't talk about anything. Her problems will appear in time and will be very deep. Let the next guy deal with it.
Could you please tell me more of your experience? I have a friend who has exactly that problem, and she doesn't realize that is kind of "in love" with her father and that they have a toxic relation. She also has a boyfriend who, I believe, is gonna leave her soon when he realizes it
Had an ex who had a great relationship with her dad, she was his princess. She demanded that I treat her like one and not like a normal woman. Even her friends told me she tends to be more emotional about things than a normal woman. Broke up 6 years ago, she is still alone.
@@scottdavis4388 No guy who has game and frame will put up with a “princess”. No matter how hot they might be. Is not worth it. Their beauty dies as soon as their character shows.
“You mad at me?” Nah... “mad” at your dad for not showing up for you. Because now I’m expected to pay for something he couldn’t be bothered to. Sad. Great post, Rich. Thank you, brother. ALWAYS useful, helpful & appreciated.
Girls with daddy issues are walking self fulfilling prophecies. Stay clear from them or -- set the boundaries but if she breaks them -- cut contact or just keep her as a plate.
Safe answer? Yes. Objectively true? No. There are grey areas and some women really are working on shit as best they can. But like Rich says, if you got options - why choose one who has them?
Just date a woman from a culture that values relationships and family - Latinos, Asians, Italians etc. The woman will take care of you and your family.
lmao if you really think latin countries have less dysfunctional families you better wake up from that dream because that's the opposite of the reality
I started dating a girl that had BPD and drug problem, she was fixing her BPD problem. I was out of the game for a long time, had not much XP with girls, i wanted to see if she can fix her self. Good thing i managed to come across as a beta and she dumped me, my life was saved.
similar story. broke up like 10 days ago. so many positive changes in such little amount of time. eating, thinking, performing and achieving well again. I hope you are too brother. 1984a's comment in this section is also something of the like what she had. I feel sorry for her, but in a awy I know in a few months I wont care. I shouldnt. its just the stage of letting go of. But its easier because of all the beautiful, and great things Im achieving again.
These girls with daddy issues need healing. That doesn't mean it's our job to rescue them and heal them in a relationship. That's not possible. We need to rebuild a new society and in that society have resources that can help these people.
Was dating a girl with daddy issues that I really cared about. We were seeing each other for a whole year and only really had one bad fight. The relationship was actually quite caring but then one day she over reacted about something that was quite minor and cut me off cold turkey. Blocked me on everything. It was so bizarre to me, hurt and barely even made sense. Blew my mind someone could switch on that cold switch so fast over nothing. Beware.
I’ve been there before and I can tell it is not worth the hassle. The issue is they never admit they have a problem. They blame you for their problems and keep saying “If only you changed and be a man, then I would not behave this way”... 🤯. Stay away from those chicks!
A girl can have daddy issues even if her father is still together with her mother. My ex constantly bagged her father and her mother is a psycho who also has no respect for her father. He was essentially a father that was present in the physical but just not really a father figure.
Same. Ex had a dad who the mom would insult constantly. The ex would call me controlling any time I tried to lead her. Ignore the fact I always had her best interest at heart. Sorry you didn’t have a strong man leading as a good example. She looks down on men just like her mom, she just doesn’t see it.
I have BPD and it's true, we are not a good idea to date. I'm beautiful, smart, empathic and a great cook but the horror of my upbringing won't stop haunting me. It sucks bad. Wish I could be "normal". I do deserve to be loved but unfortunately I'm too damaged. I'm sorry for any man who dated us gals with horrifying upbringings. God bless you all.
@@sg8169 actually I have done a lot about it and still am. I was in a bad place when I wrote my original comment and you don't know that I'm acting like I can't do anything about it. Thanks for your input anyways though
I dated a girl that has daddy issues, said she was going to therapy but it definitely didn't seem like it. She had major BPD and had a whole bunch of other red flags from her childhood trauma. Great in the bedroom but I'm glad she broke it off with me when she did.
I have married such a girl, what can I say, i had a little hell on the Earth: violence against me, she was drinking, cheating, arguing with me on a daily basis and bleaming me on everything. Marriage last only 2,5 months nad she dumped me. You may not belive me but I was do Bluepilled that I still wanted to be with Her alter this.... so ashamed now. The only pros of marrying her is I have great, beautifull son which I Love so much! Children are wonderfull.
Recently had an experience with a woman with fear of abandonment together with many red flags i in first instance tried to ignore mostly because of her good looks. I can only acknowledge what has been said in this video. Broke it off with her which was the best thing to do. And to be honest still struggling with it but the best thing to do is doing the work and in time it will wear off. That doesn’t happen overnight. Set short term realistic goals.
I recently experienced this and your description of them is spot on. At first they shower you with affection, then they go cold. Classic manipulation tactic, and yep in the end she basically sabotaged the relationship because I wasn't going to keep being messed with like that. Definite personality disorder.
I dated (not exclusive) a girl with daddy issues including all of the other red flag issues related to daddy issues; bpd, depression, substance abuse, constantly seeking male attention, narcissism, manipulation and on top of that she has been through some serious trauma. But I fell for her HARD due to my own low self esteem and loneliness at the time and I was simply not aware of the things to look out for. Knowing what I know now I just feel incredibly sorry for her. Her dad cheated on her mom yet they're still married but live in different states and he moved to this other state when she was young (still not sure why he did that). Her birth was basically an accident. She moved around a lot in the states. Alcoholic mother. She had been sent to my country to study because it's cheaper but her brothers can study in the US. Last time I saw her she mentioned she was going to therapy but I'm not convinced things are any different. I eventually just ghosted and deleted her from everything because even though I still really liked her she was just so broken and toxic that it was making me miserable. I kinda blame her parents for her being this fucked up, especially her dad. I hope she finds peace and happiness some day.
@@farrukh399 Same exact story here… you feel for them but all those toxic traits are too deeply rooted in their childhood that no man can save them… they gotta go through some extensive long term therapy to fight their demons. Plus it’s a wake up call to yourself on your own self reflection. All we can do is learn and heal ourselves and wish them the best in life.
@@J80199 time will tell. My ex and her family are not accepting their fault and blamed everything on me. God have mercy on them. I am pretty sure if she does not change or go through some therapy, her future relationships and marriages will fail. By age of 35 she will be single, miserable mother of few kids. But thats not my business anymore. I am grateful for this experience and i made lessons out of them. I moved on and feel happy.
@@farrukh399 Agree brotha, at the end of the day, i’m glad I went through the experience now, to wake myself up. I experienced it once and now know how to properly vet through these people in the future. Made me stronger, awake, and allowed me to heal myself to be more happier in life. Wish ya the best in your life man!
Rich, you give some excellent advice here! Relationships with women with BOTH BPD (borderline) and NPD (narcissism) always start out with idealization. Even if you know these women for years; maybe you work with them, maybe you are friends with them on FB or other social media sites, no women should be that much into you before a relationship starts. This is a huge red flag and sadly a lot of men fall prey to these women or attempt to just take the 'hook up.' Both are very bad ideas, I cannot stress this enough! I can share my own horror stories and horror stories from friends, co-workers, and business associates. There is no such thing as a 'free lunch' with these women...take care my friends and if you have co-dependent (or even narcissistic traits), do the work to make yourself better...
Yeah, and they always have a long list of traumatic relationships in the past and or childhood but then they give themselves over to you in every way immediately. No human can trust that openly so fast without any defense mechanisms like they seem to. Let alone someone one who has been abused and mistreated their whole life. But somehow we fall for it, no they are not really opening up to you and fully trusting you, they have a psychotic protector self state that is their defense mechanism and if you stick around it will come out.
Agreed and this is definitely a trap for guys who have somewhat low self-esteem (the "idealization" feels good and offers some validation) and/or low levels of experience or knowledge with women. Has this with an ex when I was in my early 20s so know too well haha! (I'm 35 now and I since forgave her and we kind of get along now; I realized that expecting somebody with genuine mental health issues to behave as if they don't is kind of unfair, however it isn't "my problem" and she ain't coming back...)
My experience in fooling with daddy issue women is they will cheat on you. In fact, when they meet you, it's a good chance they're cheating on someone else. They tend to dig douchebags and thugs. If you're neither of these, your time is limited. I've witnessed drama filled episodes between siblings and of course the parents. I've also observed addiction issues that include booze and drugs. After they breeze on, they seem to reach out especially during cuffing season and talk nonsense about how they shouldn't have (insert drama) and wonder why we're not together. Of course this is behind the back of their latest vicitim.
No man should be in a serious relationship with a woman until she's proven herself with excellent behavior over a period of at least a year. More than one year is better. So cheating shouldn't be an issue. I'd argue that no man should agree to a monogamous relationship in the first place. But that's an entirely different issue.
@@dreww9305 Let me explain this to you, As the main commenter said "They tend to dig douchebags and thugs. If you're neither of these, your time is limited." This is because there are demons in her soul that ar only attracted to degenerates. She can’t appreciate elevation because there’s a function built into her to resent it. You can be the best guy in the world, but low life will bang her. You’re not the first guy it happened to and you’ll not be the last. You are lucky she left you, she didn’t know what to do with a guy like you. She costly feels uncomfortable and ill in your presence. This is because the demons making sure she gets her karma know she doesn’t deserve love. Don't let your ego be bruised. Those women have already been captured by demons.😂 Especially if she has anxiety issues and the only way to treat it is by taking pills. They’ll ruin your sanity and bring you to their level. They’ll punish you for caring about them. In short: be wary of her sob story explaining her predicament. It’s her karma dealing with her like I said . Lol. Now think, what happens to the guy who jumps in front of a bullet to save another? He gets shot! You’ll take the hit. Flee from such a woman and never look back. Be thankful you were saved. I don’t care how good she looks! Let her go! Or you’ll learn the hard way! They are completely damaged. No therapy can rescue them. You’re better off alone. I can promise you that. Extreme loneliness is heaven compared to such a woman. She’ll fail you when you least expect it. You’ll realize the devil is in her soul. Don’t do it mate. Don’t choose a woman with daddy issues. Don’t save her, she doesn’t want to be saved.😂
If you hang in there while she's "working on it" don't be surprised if when she finally works that stuff out she leaves you for a new guy, hypergamy right. A woman's smv goes up if she is issue free so don't just be working on her while she works on herself you better be working on yourself. Burned more than once here fellas. You're sticking it out with a woman earns you no loyalty.
Dated a girl with both daddy issues and mommy issues for 3 years. It was an absolute rollercoaster. She actually helped get me out of depression and get sober. Also cheated on me a few times as well. Very strange behavior
The first time I dated a woman with daddy issues, I was in my late 20s. Talking with her was like attending an exorcism. But in bed there was absolutely nothing she would say no to. That ran its course in about six months: I had to throw her out. The drama was too much. Mr. Cooper is right. If you're going to become involved with such a woman, make sure you know what you're getting into.
I mean...I'd argue a woman with daddy issues isn't ideal, but this is most older men's cheat code to date younger women. Most well adjusted attractive women with no issues find a high value man in their age range and get removed from the dating market pretty quick. That's mostly just the hard truth. If you want to smash younger...there's probably going to issues.
The only daddy issues my wife has is when she calls me daddy. I was upfront about what I wanted and expected when we started seeing each other. I demand respect but I also give her the respect that she deserves. We have an agreement. We either agree on any decision or we scrap it until we find mutual ground. We also choose each other over all others and that includes our families. We have a partnership and we both bring different things to the table. She enjoys that I'm a man and I enjoy that she's a woman. It works for us. I think that a lot of guys settle because they aren't able to be happy by themselves.
Agree absolutely. I personally think that in any relationship if one part push buttons at the significant other, can be used as a thermometer. I also believe that if you have dealt with either Daddy or Mommy issues and have become grounded, then they will not bother you and their inadequacies will not be taken personally. On the same token, if they are out of line and they are trying to manipulate, gives an opportunity to set boundaries and set the frame to show them that we as Men will not put up with their immaturity. Or their shit test game. I learned the hard way. I lost so much and was so painful that I decided to do the inner work. By doing this I am freeing myself from unnecessary drama.
Yeah my last girl had daddy issues and she tried to devalue me and I had to walk away from her, she just didn’t know how to treat a man she was so used to the betas and the thirsty guys following her that she didn’t want to follow my lead, it was a lot of work getting her to submit to my leader ship a constant struggle really wore me down. I had to walk away from her. Beautiful girl, 21, worked out. on my scale a nine at least. But man too much work. Rich is right on the mark about what these girls do and how they act. I experienced the very things he’s talking about.
I'm in this predicament as we speak. She's 30 and a real beauty. But she tries the whole put me down thing. I just ignore her or make jokes about it. She is a nice girl, a tad crazy but I'm so wary. Shes actually intelligent and good to speak to. The thing is I know she's batshit mad for me. But my wariness is keeping me at bay and giving me boundaries and she hates and loves it. I feel close to callig it off. The sex is incredible and I she is up for it anytime I ask for it. But it wares me the fuck out. But I know it's thier when I'm not busy aha
I must disagree. My wife of 21 years has seen me through EVERYTHING. When ALL other women would have left she’s stayed strong. She was 58kg when we met. She’s 60kg now. Still beautiful. Still loving. I feel sorry for you blokes that lucked out.
I’m happy for you and those women do exist, it just takes patience to find one if you aren’t lucky/smart enough to find one when you are young. My question is why are you here then?
You found and bagged one of those proverbial unicorns! Like Sasquatch, there is not much real evidence for their existence, but credible tales such as yours float around the Internet from time to time. Good for you, man.
I recently dated a single mom with two kids. She acknowledged her daddy issues but referred to them like no big deal. Man, everything you have explained in the video is so true. I could see it like a movie that I’ve watched before. So true. At the beginning, She was so sweet and loving. Everything felt so smooth until one night she started to show drama coming from Nowhere. All because I said. Didn’t want to have more kids with her. Things escalated with time and she became explosively violent sometimes for the most minor reasons. That s...it scared me especially because I could see she liked to play victim when referring to conflicts with others. I just took distance, then I noticed she reopened her dating account. Poor men! Seeing her new profile made delete all sort of dating profiles. She is so fake. The pictures she is posted where definitely, at least 10 years old and she exploits the fact that she is an artist to present her self as a cool and bohemian person. Boys stay away from that kind of women! It is easy to identify them. Simple, it is too fast and too good to be true, be careful! Don’t miss the red flags!
100% spot on 👍🏽 2 1/2 years ,went to couples therapy towards the end she openly admitted she was jealous of my 14 yo daughter , I am a widowed father for over a decade . I held my center 90% of the time but there was a lot of shit testing ,Richard is accurate AF here good job ......Peace 🙏🏼
Feminists and Daddy Issues usually, in my experience, go hand in hand. I'd much rather be with a Daddy's girl...they tend to understand men better and are more loving.
"dating her" is a great place to be. Stay there for 2 years and see how it goes. Live in separate places the entire time. Do not get roped into a "Common Law Marriage" after living together. (7 years in some states) Avoid marriage. Sorry man. Look out for #1 first... that is YOU. Otherwise you will have a life of torment.
And in California after 10 years she can get alimony for LIFE and they count the days. This applies to marriage but I would be cohabitation comes into play also.
I love this guy, he describes every bad date in my whole life, the red flags, man, best thing is eventually I found a good woman in it for love and not money/security etc. Awesome content , great channel! Women don’t come with an owner manual but this is good as! So true!
My last GF was Kind, Caring, and Giving. As we progressed I found out that was some excellent camouflage for Daddy Issues, Alcoholism, Philandering, and VD. Cue Pantera "Walk"... once that whole Daddy Issues / BPD zit popped - I walked. The short answer is NO. Don't wast your time. I am shocked and appalled at number of age appropriate women who haven't lifted a finger to move past these things... AND I AM AN OLD DUDE. No time to waste at this age. Thanks for posting, just hit purchase on your book. AMEN my brother well stated.
Wow! Right off the bat explained my ex wife!!!! I literally worked 12 hrs a day to take care of her and her two girls and she wouldn’t even do my laundry for me. She also bitched if I didn’t put my coffee cup in the dish washer. That’s exactly what she said! “ I don’t pick up after any man”🙄
100% correct! The domination is usually accompanied by belittlement and violence towards the father. He is solely to blame for the mother's unhappiness and the divorce that follows. Worse still it's generational and often undetectable in the early stages of a relationship. An excellent video Rich!
@@TheChosenOneAffirmations man,i feel the same with my gf.She really loves me and everything,but has major parent problems,and lately it's been exhausting to deal with,i truly don't know if i can keep up
That's because you were growing up in the modern West, drowned in its fake, hypocritical "values" that your governments are trying to enforce in other places in the world. Sorry, but even women who grow up with fathers in the West often end up being spoiled, mercantile, hypocritical, self-centered. The problem is not even so much single parenthood. It's your general modern-day culture.
It’s so unfortunate that’s been your limited experience. Thank God for all the single mothers on this earth who raise the kids left behind by men. Ironic how men will destroy women’s lives and then make fun of them as they struggle to pull ahead. It’s a privilege to have been raised by two strong parents, and many don’t have that privilege who actually have really great qualities.
Yea, I was married to a woman who had MAJOR issues with her dad. She'd say inflammatory things about him that I'd never repeat and even had an avoidance bordering in racist, to people who are of the same ethnicity. Basically, she went on and on about how he was never there, he walked out on them, blase blase blah. That old story. Then, I found out that it was actually her mom who cut him out (As she beamed with pride at having done it, while implying the same to me)... Then my ex did the same to me, as I got "what a shitty fahher I am" posts sent to me by friends. Well... Apples and trees, Yea?
I was married to a woman with BPD. She hid it very well for a few years Therapy does not help people with BPD nor do pharmaceuticals. Run as fast as you can.
Great video. I’ve experienced this myself with a single mom...my last ex. When it was over she commenced to literally destroy all my friendships we had in common. Do not date single moms!!!!!!
I haven’t been married in 15 years and totally red pilled for almost 7 years. I sure wish the technology was there 30-40 years ago to teach me about these issues concerning women. I sincerely hope that young guys discover your channel (and others) and educate themselves about all of the pitfalls of a relationship with a “modern” woman. Keep pumping out the great content ! You are gonna truly save a lot of fellas so much grief if they will only listen ! BTW, I’m happier than I have ever been in my life living red pill !
i was dating a girl and whilst on our first date we walked past her father in a restraunt and she ignored him, we didnt date for long and she now moved to china to teach english.
my ex girlfriend appeared to be very sweet until one day i went to her house for dinner...as we were eating she leaned over the table and snarled at her dad, i was shocked to say the least and thought to myself if i stay with this girl thats how she will be talking to me in 6 months. It wasnt long before she was degrading me and actually turned out to have bdp.
My kid at 18 broke it off with his girlfriend. She was very pretty, tall, thin came from a two parent house, she had siblings, dad was the bread winner. Good job, good money. Mom was stay at home. The girlfriend started pulling this women don't need a man to raise a family. My Son said "I'm out. Why should I invest one more second in a woman that has no respect for the job I need to do for the rest of my life", My wife and I were like daaaaaaamn! He either been watching your videos or coach red pill. He gets it though. His sister - not so much. I think some of it has to be genetics. He and his sister have literally grown up feet apart from each other. Hunting, fishing, camping, shooting, dirt-bikes (yes two wheel dirt bikes), working on stuff around the house. My Son is down with whatever needs to be done. No questions asked. Pretty conservative The daughter - again - not so much. Very liberal. Won't help with a fukkin thing.
Young girls these days are insanely susceptible to becoming liberals/leftist/feminists. Young girls are highly emotional and see the world through that lens. They’re easily shaped by their environment (public schools/social media) and what’s “popular”. Young boys are not as susceptible to that as they have a more rebellious nature about them. These young girls are being poisoned by their feminist, public school teachers and then they think they’re the ones who are “rebellious”. Young girls are like cattle. They follow the herd regardless if they’re aware of it or not.
The girlfriend could have been saying...women need men to raise healthy families but if the man drops out for some reason, whether death or by choice a female can do it. It will be difficult thou. Probably she is speaking from the perspective of seeing her mom do it.
From experience. No, it's not. You have to give unparalleled attention like she's an actual child, which personally was a turn off and when you don't give it to her (oops) "I got raped for trusting someone during a bipolar episode, then wanted to get attention from other guys to feel secure in my body and get more attention", to the streets she went and to the streets she will remain
This is actually unreal that your saying this bro.... I’ve been w my girl for over 2 years and the way she’ll go about looking for attention from me sometimes is through weird almost child-like play fighting... it’s actually a big turn off and if I don’t reciprocate she’ll get mad and almost feel rejected... crazy someone else has had this. She’s made progress with the validation seeking from social media but I think it’s not all gone and deep rooted.
@@ChildoftheKing777 you're still in it. I suggest you watch yourself. If you haven't learned of the guy friends you will sooner or later. Take offense to most things Low self esteem Seeking validation in her body.
@Ig Hanchks sure as far as professional can be... personally it's a hard struggle post relationship.. But once a cheater always I guess, feels a lot better to not have to worry about someone like that who could just turn like that on a dime
If an individual is putting in the work it’s absolutely worth trying to see how things progress, but if you aren’t putting in the work on your own issues then don’t waist her time. It’s not fair to expect someone else to change if you’re not willing to reciprocate. This certainly doesn’t mean that the relationship will work out as a long term deal but I can guarantee that you will learn from the situation and both people will be the better for the experience.
Rich, Kinda works in reverse for me. My girl idolises her dad so every now and then i get ( unfairly ) talked down to because 'her dad is so clever , a gentleman , never argues with her 'etc....
Lol I was looking for a comment kike this. In life just choose someone who loves Jesus yah... We all have some kinda baggage but Jesus will humble us to be better beings in this journey of life .
Dated a woman once with MOMMY issues once, and weirdly it was basically the same thing when I met her "parents". 2 Feminists who were pissed at ALL men since they couldn't get married. (Note, this was in the very early 90's in NY) Ghosted her real fast before that was even a term.
From my experience, everything you said seems to be true. Last two relationships I had were with women that had daddy issues. One had a drunk dad, one was raised by the mother only. Both were first super into me (or, at least they said so). But soon they became to sh*t test me, no problem, I was expecting that, passed (I think) all the tests. But that wasn't enough, from time to time they both short periods of rage and all kind of weird behavior, clearly BPD. The fact they weren't exactly young anymore only seems to make things worse. After that I had another relationship with a miuch younger woman, raised by both parents, and, oh boy, such a difference...
From now on my rule is: If a woman starts doing the shit test. I do with them what I do when I take a 💩. I get it out my system, wipe my ass and flush that thing without looking back.
I think my ex had daddy issues and the current girl I'm dating may also have daddy issues. The ex's mum had 5 kids to a guy then spontaneously bounced on him one day, ran off with another guy and left the whole family. The ex followed her a year or 2 after and her and the mum began running pubs moving from place to place. The mum was an ex stripper before meeting the dad, hated men for the most part. Saw them as utilities. The ex had no respect for her father. She was very promiscuous, history of drug abuse, depression, self harm etc. she had been mentally abusive to a few exes, openly admitted to cheating regularly on exes, constantly talked about exes and even past sexual experiences with other guys, Was very uncomfortable (this was the chick that lead me to the red pill). My current gf, also had a bad relationship with her father, small cracks are showing, she can be very moody, sometimes feel like I'm walking on eggshells. From my experience, girls with daddy issues are normally very affectionate and loving at the beginning, then provocative as things move forward, fishing for arguments etc. They often give silent treatment, are passive aggressive and emulate their mothers, who often also resent men. They normally have a history of being very promiscuous, tend to have lots of previous short term relationships. They cause massive anxiety for guys they are with and seem to enjoy it, men know they are volatile and will bounce at the drop of a hat, immediately climb under another guy, because they often see men as interchangeable and disposable. My advice to guys is dont do it. You can't fix them, they will run your mental health into the ground then bounce to the next guy with no remorse.
You have a reasonable outlook on this topic...not overly red pill like runaway but it’s realistic bc there’s a lot of them out there...keep up the work
I can't vouch for the daddy issues but I have experienced women with "mommy issues" and the patterns of behavior are similar. What's everyone's opinion on this? What are the behavioral differences, if any, between women with mommy issues and women with daddy issues?
The girl I've been dating for 3 months does whatever I want... she brings me stuff home all the time. Will see how it goes, she does know that I'm fine being single as well. There are good women out there but prior to her I was single for 3 years and yes its horrible out there
Got divorced in my mid 20's and the woman I ended up falling for after had hidden daddy issues. Spent three years hoping she would work on it but was a big mistake on my part. Changed a lot about me to try and fit her own agenda and totally was a backwards way of what i should of done. Catch the signs early, and if she knows she has the issues and is working on it with action, maybe give it a chance. Maybe. Make sure you see the action otherwise you are in for a long ride ahead which will most likely fail.
100% right. Had a few dates with one and it was all bad in every aspect minus the bedroom. She was seeing a psychiatrist every week and on multiple medications as I found out the first time we hung out. I knew it wasn’t anything serious and she was actually fun to be around but anything other than that was a no go. Came to find out her issues were from being molested by her own dad. He also beat her, but when I offered advice she actually defended him so I just left it alone.
This topic is very interesting. Dated a girl Who Lost her father when she was 5. She was raised by her mother and ended as a single mother by herself. All i noticed where the intense at the beginning but also her substance abuse behaviour and they way she talked about former relationships(they all ended toxic) . Many guyfriends. Daily weed smoking. I entered centered and cool and left with depressions
My wife had daddy issues. She also has BPD. We had extreme issues in the beginning, but I let her know soon after that, that I have boundaries and wouldn’t tolerate this. These types of women need to be guided and trained.
its actually pretty common women present this behaviour , but when you experience a bpd women there is a huge difference being these traits extremelly intensified, been there.
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In response to this question. I was seeing someone for a short time she had daddy issues. Typical gold digger wants men to pay for anything. It’s disgusting. Last I heard she had 27 credit cards 💳. She is evil human being I’m happy now thank god he didn’t let me have relationship with this evil person. That’s my story. Stay away from gold diggers
Can you do the Audiobook as well, please? I like listening to books while in the gym or out running.
I've read your book and after that I bought another copy for a friend. Enough said.
Please get this on audible
Legend has it, this man's shirt has still not been ironed
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Most feminists have daddy issue. I should know, my mom was the rabbid, 3 divorced, feminist who is now radicalizing my niece and nephew against me... So I cut them out of my life. Problem solved.
Yup! And guess who didn’t go to HER event? The guy who’s shirt she didn’t iron.
Disgrace!
Hahahaha
Women don't care about your struggles...they just hangout at the finish line and pick the winners. Love it.
Uhm... women arent a group of people that all think the same? Theres something called empathy among HUMANS, not just men.
Not everyone is equal to your experiences
Only if you live with a scarcity mind set would you ever actually think that way. It’s resentment packaged as wisdom.
This is so not true.
@@sam14yearsago70 however most women are the same. You have to date 100s to find one ok.women.
Some women do ..110%
For tbe man who deserves it ,
The man who truly is the king of love.
Grounded, balanced, stable.
It takes two..
Reciprocity
Equal balance of give and take.
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The only good thing of dating NAR or daddy issues girls is that you understand the importance of the father in a woman's life. Now you know you have to do it right when you get your own daughter.
Exactly
How many men will be thinking like you though?
@@joolspools777 according to the likes on this post, not many.
They will become jealous of the dad and daughter relationship. REMEMBER..............🤔🤔🤔that's her issue, not having her dad in her life. 🤔
Bingo
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The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
Attachment causes pain and suffering so you are right bro
Any actionable steps to achieve that?
@Diablo Montana you are replaceable as long as you don't stop providing so what's the point of getting attached
@@Erik-leChef don't give a flying f
@Diablo Montana No escaping pain. I would definitely vet well to avoid needless pain just from a practical perspective. But as long as you're capable of functioning well without anyone or anything else, I think you're good. The co-dependency can be crippling. Life is rich when we have (good) people in it.
I have had experience with this...they are addicted to attention and believe the world owes them... don't do it.
I was married to that...
And I do agree..
DON'T DO IT!!!!
You WILL regret it most dearly..
True words
@@ENIGMAXII2112 I dated it for 5 years. dont do it
@@bigspence6898 It exhausted me on every level you can think of..I needed at least a year to be alone and think about what I wanted out of life. She wore me the hell out.
me too... 100% true
She'll open her leg to someone else who does nothing for her and will give stubbornness and narcissistic behaviour to one who loves her most.
What do you mean the one who loves him most?
He probably meant her
@@bc3421 that makes sense.
Spot on
perfectky said
My wife of 9 years and two children said she is divorcing me because she just met an older man that reminds her of her father. I lost everything.
Wish I knew about daddy issues 25 years ago.
What the hell.... 😲
Me and my ex made it 10 yrs..had 2 girls and a boy together...she began cheating and after the 3rd time I filed for divorce..i got full custody of my kids and she gets weekends..she owes a ton of child support,but I never pushed for child support recovery cause she would just play the kids against me n say "well your daddy locked mommy up" so I gave up on that one...either way what blows my mind is I thought we were doing pretty good.i was an electrician and she was a medical assistant,had a few cars n trucks n the drive way,couple 4wheelers,trampoline,safe full of guns...now shes with a pot head,cock fighting,furniture mover dude and they live happily with his mom...i must of been a awful husband,but I didn't see it...anyway me and the kids doing fine and have rebuilt most of our assets...lost everything paying a good lawyer
@@charliestone892wish you the best man!
I dated a girl with bad daddy issues a few years ago and she wanted to end the relationship so she could go to find an older man to do everything for her so yeah be very careful of women with daddy issues.
@@atrainbrady3208 they have crazy fetish for older man
I had daddy issues and I decided to change the story...I was like your girlfriend...but now I am very happy living my feminine role, serving my man and being lovely. I have changed my concept of men, now I think they are the most beautiful creatures because they protect their families with their lifes, they are providers, they are fighters, they focus on doing the best things for us, they express love at a different way..
It's possible to start a new life!
Can you message me ex gf? Ha.
Yup God bless you. Can you message my girlfriend? Her dad is/was a real peice of work
@@Tomsmus lol
Ya right
God bless you 🌼🌷🌷 Denisse
BPD girls will break your heart and you'll end up bitter towards women, don't do it.
So true 🎱
Yes.. so true. Dodge that nightmare if you value your happiness 😊
I can attest to this. Very true.
This is what happened to me and now I battle inside me to remove the bitterness
@@tectons8371 Shake it off brother it's not worth it.
Just cause she's "working on herself" does not mean even remotely that she's grounded, well-adjusted, and reliable. She's just slightly less ungrounded, ill-adjusted, and unreliable than she used to be. Run away
absolutely run forest runnnn.
They will continue to run away even in marriage as he said. I had one she skipped to another guy then left him and now trying to marry this dude out of country now its going be rinse and repeat.
lol seems right.
I broke a relation ship a month and a half a go. She is a beutifull, sports like, eats healthy, owns property and has a medical degree. How ever has Daddy issues. Her BPD became intolerable. One thing I like to add is that Daddy issues plus an inflated ego equals radio active. Shout out to Rich for providing guys with priceless informativo and Wisdom.
The inflated ego is narcissism. That means there are strong demons in her chakras . You can’t save her Captain Planet 😂
You never ever want to date a female MD. That is top Level entitlement. A friend of mine is a surgeon, which is like one of the best Jobs you can have. Still, his girl is bugging him to do better. Why? Cause she's a MD herself... Imagine beeing at the top of your game only to still be not good enough cause she's there too.
That would be my #2 red flag. #1 daddy issues, #2 female MD.
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@Daniel Downs Yeah its all relative to her status. You could make 5 million a year, if she makes 4 million she'll not be impressed. You have to bring her into a world thats new to her, that she cant afford on her own. So making 150k compared to her 50k, that works. Because then you can afford the big appartement and a Porsche, but she can not. If she makes 100k she's in your league already, she already got a taste of that lifestyle, so not impressed anymore. If she has parents that can afford that lifestyle, even though she herself is far away from it, not impressed anymore. If she has an ex who made that kind of money or more and let her experience the lifestyle, not impressed anymore.
It still might work out, but she'll not respect you for what you bring to the table.
“Any woman that didn’t have a solid relationship with a solid, virtuous,masculine father cannot appreciate a solid, virtuous, masculine alpha male.” So very true
Not true
@@alysonkipp6080 you got daddy issues Alyson?
@@alysonkipp6080 not even an argument? Denial of the idea won’t convince anyone worth convincing.
@Zed you a liberal? Cause you got half a brain man
@Blaster Master I don’t need to convince anyone on a ridiculous RUclips comment
My mother had serious daddy issues. She was also a rabid feminist. I never wanted to get married. In fact, neither me nor my brother ever got married. Oddly enough, her craziness saved me from going down the marriage path.
Wise man
Right because the irony of having toxic parent(s) is that they show you how NOT to be in life . For that you can be grateful they taught you ( even though they didnt actively do it ) . That is what I learned from my parents . Both were pretty toxic / narcissist but I saw how I didnt want to be in life
I agree with you guys on this. My parents super toxic and dramatic. I am 31 and trust me I do not want to get married at all. efff that and I say that with a passion lol !
My parents relationship was a train wreck . Due to this I think I question why we jump into marriage. Don't think my way of dealing with life has been the best but I'm ok with it 🤔.
So her mental issues led to her offspring not multiplying themselves and therefore to the end of her genetic line ... makes sense from nature´s point of view to weed out that string of genes
The last relationship I had was with a woman who not only had daddy issues but she also had mommy issues and unfortunately I had to learn what a covert narcissist is the hard way. These are the worst types of people you can meet especially if you don’t have your shit together emotionally as a man. The best repellent against these people is awareness, self-love, and boundaries.
Yup same here exactly they are toxic af and a lost cause. Learned the hard way
Yuuuuuuup
@@championmagnus That's why we're (BPD women) attracted to narcissist / other Cluster B men. The guys who actually believe they are the "Chosen Ones" who will indeed 'fix / tame us' whether we like it or not, and who never really let go.
If he says you're a lost cause... Harley Quinn's going to light your shit on fire.
No one who treats you as a lost cause is worth dealing with, let alone investing in years of intensive, specialized therapy to better yourself for. They're just another client.
@@sapphasea most of the time, they are a lost cause though. won't ever be health in your lifetime and simply not worth it. that's why they are attracted the empaths in that dynamic type. they go through those types one after another until the healthy person has had enough and leaves. their sicknesses itself prevent change most of the time, this is just how it is. a covert narcissist is not worth your time, health, etc and anyone who has dealt with this or any good therapist would tell you the same.
@@sapphasea I don't know what you're on about. I'm talking about broken women are broken and not worth it. I loved my ex and still do unconditionally. Didn't help. Haven't redated in 7 years since her (except redating her while she was cheating on her fiance with me which again didn't work bc she has only gotten worse) while she has ruined every person she has been with b/c she is sick and broken and always will be so, unfortunately. Situations like that, are what I am talking about. Unhealthy and crazy is not good and ruins and hurts the people dealing with the bs while they love unconditionally. I don't know about bad guys or whatever doing whatever, I was speaking from my experience and in generally no it is not good to put up with a person like that, hands down. That is the correct answer. I won't reply anymore if you feel the need to get the last word and keep going on trying to defend a crazy, broken girl (all I am talking about so no need to make it into something else- what my bipolar ex always did) that ruined me and many others and was abusive physically, emotionally, etc
Pass on a serious relationship with a woman with Daddy issues, Broken family's, and No friends. You will be juggling all that BS .
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100% accurate fellas, take it from me
I just dodged this bullet
@@minorityofone3045 mabey just unsocial or jealousy..lots of women are that way
It’s so sad that these men failed as fathers and the daughters are the ones that have to deal with all this and seeing videos on deciding if they deserve love or not. It’s tragic that girls are shamed and already judged because their father failed them
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Practically the same thing I just commented
My mom told me that her ex husband never cared for me
Now im just pissed
Hard disagree. At a certain point in your life, you have to take responsibility for your own person.
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When Chuck Norris visits a feminist rally he comes back with his shirt ironed and a sandwich
Bag of chips also
And a long list of phone numbers. Even the bearded ones, who he onviously wont call.
And his pipe cleaned
When you say just plate them.......... in London that means going down on them 🥵
@@Onestopgas1 In australia we say give a job. If you say give me a job in Australia....you might get more than you bargained for.
Dated a woman in the past that supposedly went to therapy every Thursday for these issues. Forget it. Not worth the headache and stress. You're better off alone.
I 100% agree. Those women have already been captured by demons.😂 Especially if she has anxiety issues and the only way to treat it is by taking pills. They’ll ruin your sanity and bring you to their level. They’ll punish you for caring about them. In short: be wary of her sob story. It’s her karma dealing with her. Now think, what happens to the guy who jumps in front of a bullet to save another? He gets shot! You’ll take the hit. Flee from such a woman and never look back. Be thankful you were saved. I don’t care how good she looks! Let her go! Or you’ll learn the hard way! They are completely damaged. No therapy can rescue them. You’re better off alone. I can promise you that. Extreme loneliness is heaven compared to such a woman. She’ll fail you when you least expect it. You’ll realize the devil is in her soul. Don’t do it mate. Don’t choose a woman with daddy issues. Don’t save her, she doesn’t want to be saved.😂
@@gregglangley2088 absolutely and bravooo to you. i experienced similar daddy issues woman.
Oh man... The worst is when they're going to therapy and they try to use the things her therapist says to her, on you. A bit like an arsonist giving advice on how to operate a fire engine.
Fuhget aboud it
Going to therapy does not mean she’s ‘working on’ anything. It just means she’s paying someone a high hourly rate to indulge her narcissism and make her feel good. Most women actually come out worse than when they went in.
Doesn’t matter how ‘enlightened’ and self aware her vocabulary is - if she is still prone to bouts of destructive behavior, then she still sees herself as a victim and subconsciously blames other people for her emotions.
Real personal growth can be observed in small yet tangible choices about how she manages her emotions and controls her responses to the challenges of life. She won’t seek approval for it, at least not as much, and it will be largely consistent over time.
Every girl I’ve dated who couldn’t shut up about her therapist, turned out to be a class-A Bunny Boiler who blamed me for every negative emotion she ever felt.
I was in a long term relationship with girl who had zero respect for her father. Her mother had no respect for her husband as a man, father and as her husband. How was the daughter gonna turn out! It was like she was trying to ‘out do’ her mother.
That's pretty fucked up that her and her mother would disrespect her father like that, why would they treat him like shit, that is just not right, who knows how things are going for them now.
@@atrainbrady3208 strange but I saw her father on Sunday. Cycled past me.
MAN, that is the God’s honest truth. My ex-wife and her mother were this way. Don’t miss either one of them. Bitchy, mysandrist, BPD, PITA’s.
@@atrainbrady3208how does the father treat them?
@brattingprincess who knows but this person is talking about how bad the mother and daughter treated him,just not right.
Don't leave out "Mommy Issues" where she listens to her mom about everything and not her husband. Its especially bad when it comes to childrearing when you are living in close proximity to her mom. The mother-in-law will try to control everything about her grandchildrens' life, nutrition, education, friends, etc because she has nothing better to do. It might be difficult to know about this until its too late because the problem doesn't arise until the gf/wife has children. Watch out for girls that talk to their mother all the time, especially girls that have no other siblings. Its especially bad when the mother-in-law doesn't have any other grandchildren. Also, some mother-in-laws will try to control where you live and what type of house you buy as they'll want to "live close to you" or "in a certain neighborhood". This could also be a sign of "Daddy Issues" if the father-in-law is not doing anything about this. A good man should be aware of what his daughter or wife is doing to another man's territory. My ex father-in-law never dared to step in and take my side on anything as he feared both his wife and his daughter.
Mommy issues mean she has no self esteem because the self esteem comes from the mother not your version
@@ChilledWhite Fair enough.
Maybe because he respected you rather than fear his wife or spawn.
Thanks to your videos, I figured out what the heck was wrong with my ex-girlfriends behavior. Turns out she had some SERIOUS daddy issues causing fear of abandonment. Like you said, it was a self fulfilling prophecy. She even admitted it at the end of the relationship that she sabotaged the relationship and said it was something she will always regret (duh! she had a GREAT GUY).
I will tell you. It is very...but very rare that a woman will admit the she is the one who sabotage the relationship. Normally doesn’t happened. It’s always the guys fault. Her nature is to have zero accountability. That’s one in a billion, you are talking about!
Same happened to me bro. I feel ya
Damn, this is what I'm going through right now
Hey redpill if you do Suicide can I have all your stuff
This is why I’m in therapy to NEVER do this to anyone.
There’s no situation that’s EVER worth dealing w a woman w daddy issues
The one night stands can be good (if at her place and you bug out after doing the deed)
Dating a woman with daddy issues add this kind of drama - hidden boyfriends, cheating, lieing, pretending to care, hot, cold, cuts off sex and never communicates - never ever. It's a nightmare. Don't even stay if she can't talk about anything. Her problems will appear in time and will be very deep. Let the next guy deal with it.
You also can save 50% or more by switching to single!
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more then 50%
Nice
Well played sir XD
Also a red flag if she’s daddy’s princess, and gets spoiled by her “good relationship “ with her Father .
Those could be as bad as the other ones.
Could you please tell me more of your experience? I have a friend who has exactly that problem, and she doesn't realize that is kind of "in love" with her father and that they have a toxic relation. She also has a boyfriend who, I believe, is gonna leave her soon when he realizes it
Had an ex who had a great relationship with her dad, she was his princess. She demanded that I treat her like one and not like a normal woman. Even her friends told me she tends to be more emotional about things than a normal woman. Broke up 6 years ago, she is still alone.
@@scottdavis4388 No guy who has game and frame will put up with a “princess”. No matter how hot they might be. Is not worth it. Their beauty dies as soon as their character shows.
@@scottdavis4388: She may be alone but bank on it, she getting her back blown out and run through on a regular basis.
“You mad at me?”
Nah... “mad” at your dad for not showing up for you. Because now I’m expected to pay for something he couldn’t be bothered to. Sad.
Great post, Rich. Thank you, brother. ALWAYS useful, helpful & appreciated.
Yeah. Jake I paid for it with my ex wife. Yeah never again.
Girls with daddy issues are walking self fulfilling prophecies. Stay clear from them or -- set the boundaries but if she breaks them -- cut contact or just keep her as a plate.
@@Benandanti me too, brother
@@kurtisprice3418 amen 🙏🏽
Let me answer this before I even watch the video. The answer is no.
absolutely
Safe answer? Yes. Objectively true? No. There are grey areas and some women really are working on shit as best they can. But like Rich says, if you got options - why choose one who has them?
@@mayorofthenonsense Yes. What you wrote.
Just date a woman from a culture that values relationships and family - Latinos, Asians, Italians etc. The woman will take care of you and your family.
Where's your gf/wife from?
no, daddy issues are everywhere. dont even try asians haha
lmao if you really think latin countries have less dysfunctional families you better wake up from that dream because that's the opposite of the reality
No don't do this I'm from Asia and I can tell you that they might have more complicated issues than daddy issues
I’m an Asian I have daddy issues 😅
I started dating a girl that had BPD and drug problem, she was fixing her BPD problem. I was out of the game for a long time, had not much XP with girls, i wanted to see if she can fix her self. Good thing i managed to come across as a beta and she dumped me, my life was saved.
what drugs was she taking?
@@DeadlyEditss weed, ketamine, meth, valium and some more i bet.
BPD can't be fixed. It's literally a result of screwed up personality traits.
BPD can never be fixed. Only managed. It's like trying to hold a beach ball underwater, lol.
similar story. broke up like 10 days ago. so many positive changes in such little amount of time. eating, thinking, performing and achieving well again. I hope you are too brother. 1984a's comment in this section is also something of the like what she had. I feel sorry for her, but in a awy I know in a few months I wont care. I shouldnt. its just the stage of letting go of. But its easier because of all the beautiful, and great things Im achieving again.
These girls with daddy issues need healing. That doesn't mean it's our job to rescue them and heal them in a relationship. That's not possible. We need to rebuild a new society and in that society have resources that can help these people.
"If she didn’t value her father what makes you think she’ll value you"
That’s a new perspective, thank you.
Was dating a girl with daddy issues that I really cared about. We were seeing each other for a whole year and only really had one bad fight. The relationship was actually quite caring but then one day she over reacted about something that was quite minor and cut me off cold turkey. Blocked me on everything. It was so bizarre to me, hurt and barely even made sense. Blew my mind someone could switch on that cold switch so fast over nothing. Beware.
Exactly the same situation happened to me. Exactly!
Same here, but we dated two months only luckily.
Very similar what I just went through. She had no dad, apparently got raped, and bullied in school. She blocked me out of no where either no answers
I’ve been there before and I can tell it is not worth the hassle. The issue is they never admit they have a problem. They blame you for their problems and keep saying “If only you changed and be a man, then I would not behave this way”... 🤯. Stay away from those chicks!
I’ve noticed a lot of girls with daddy issues , it’s tattooed all over them !!!
Bahaha
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My BPD ex had Daddy tattooed on her arm. One of many red flags I ignored to my detriment. I paid the price, I'm still recovering.
@@saxonpete5131 me too, man. I was very naive.
@@saxonpete5131 what happened man? I had such a bad experience. I’m happy to share mine.
A girl can have daddy issues even if her father is still together with her mother.
My ex constantly bagged her father and her mother is a psycho who also has no respect for her father. He was essentially a father that was present in the physical but just not really a father figure.
same as my ex. her father was still in the picture but boy did all the women not like him.
Same. Ex had a dad who the mom would insult constantly. The ex would call me controlling any time I tried to lead her. Ignore the fact I always had her best interest at heart. Sorry you didn’t have a strong man leading as a good example. She looks down on men just like her mom, she just doesn’t see it.
Push over fathers...
Man, women just like drama. Everything is an issue with them.
Reminds me of my ex's father. He is a good bloke but he let his wife & daughter walk all over him.
Agreed. If you’re on your game, not worth the investment.
I have BPD and it's true, we are not a good idea to date. I'm beautiful, smart, empathic and a great cook but the horror of my upbringing won't stop haunting me. It sucks bad. Wish I could be "normal". I do deserve to be loved but unfortunately I'm too damaged. I'm sorry for any man who dated us gals with horrifying upbringings. God bless you all.
that’s the problem, you’re acting like you can’t do anything about it and change when you can. Especially because you’re aware of it.
@@sg8169 actually I have done a lot about it and still am.
I was in a bad place when I wrote my original comment and you don't know that I'm acting like I can't do anything about it.
Thanks for your input anyways though
My girlfriend and I both have BPD... It seems it's going to bomb, any advice?
Kudos to you for at least acknowledging that you have BPD. That's way more than most with BPD will ever be able to do.
Do you can feel love?
I dated a girl that has daddy issues, said she was going to therapy but it definitely didn't seem like it. She had major BPD and had a whole bunch of other red flags from her childhood trauma. Great in the bedroom but I'm glad she broke it off with me when she did.
I have married such a girl, what can I say, i had a little hell on the Earth: violence against me, she was drinking, cheating, arguing with me on a daily basis and bleaming me on everything. Marriage last only 2,5 months nad she dumped me. You may not belive me but I was do Bluepilled that I still wanted to be with Her alter this.... so ashamed now. The only pros of marrying her is I have great, beautifull son which I Love so much! Children are wonderfull.
@Tony Camaj 2,5 month
Recently had an experience with a woman with fear of abandonment together with many red flags i in first instance tried to ignore mostly because of her good looks. I can only acknowledge what has been said in this video. Broke it off with her which was the best thing to do. And to be honest still struggling with it but the best thing to do is doing the work and in time it will wear off. That doesn’t happen overnight. Set short term realistic goals.
Exact same thing here. She didn’t do anything but all the flags were a breaker for me… so hard to do
I recently experienced this and your description of them is spot on. At first they shower you with affection, then they go cold. Classic manipulation tactic, and yep in the end she basically sabotaged the relationship because I wasn't going to keep being messed with like that. Definite personality disorder.
Have you ever heard of the process of mirroring in relationships?
I dated (not exclusive) a girl with daddy issues including all of the other red flag issues related to daddy issues; bpd, depression, substance abuse, constantly seeking male attention, narcissism, manipulation and on top of that she has been through some serious trauma. But I fell for her HARD due to my own low self esteem and loneliness at the time and I was simply not aware of the things to look out for. Knowing what I know now I just feel incredibly sorry for her.
Her dad cheated on her mom yet they're still married but live in different states and he moved to this other state when she was young (still not sure why he did that). Her birth was basically an accident. She moved around a lot in the states. Alcoholic mother. She had been sent to my country to study because it's cheaper but her brothers can study in the US.
Last time I saw her she mentioned she was going to therapy but I'm not convinced things are any different. I eventually just ghosted and deleted her from everything because even though I still really liked her she was just so broken and toxic that it was making me miserable. I kinda blame her parents for her being this fucked up, especially her dad.
I hope she finds peace and happiness some day.
your story really resembles to mine. i feel sorry for my ex too. her dad messed up and her daughter is paying for it. good luck!
@@farrukh399 Same exact story here… you feel for them but all those toxic traits are too deeply rooted in their childhood that no man can save them… they gotta go through some extensive long term therapy to fight their demons. Plus it’s a wake up call to yourself on your own self reflection. All we can do is learn and heal ourselves and wish them the best in life.
@@J80199 time will tell. My ex and her family are not accepting their fault and blamed everything on me. God have mercy on them. I am pretty sure if she does not change or go through some therapy, her future relationships and marriages will fail. By age of 35 she will be single, miserable mother of few kids. But thats not my business anymore. I am grateful for this experience and i made lessons out of them. I moved on and feel happy.
@@farrukh399 Agree brotha, at the end of the day, i’m glad I went through the experience now, to wake myself up. I experienced it once and now know how to properly vet through these people in the future. Made me stronger, awake, and allowed me to heal myself to be more happier in life. Wish ya the best in your life man!
Women with daddy issues is damaged goods, run away bro believe me just run away
I hear you man, run like hell.
Still humans with issues, not just "damaged goods" :)
Fuck man, I experienced this. Last 9 months. A wild ride with a sad end.
Rich, you give some excellent advice here! Relationships with women with BOTH BPD (borderline) and NPD (narcissism) always start out with idealization. Even if you know these women for years; maybe you work with them, maybe you are friends with them on FB or other social media sites, no women should be that much into you before a relationship starts. This is a huge red flag and sadly a lot of men fall prey to these women or attempt to just take the 'hook up.' Both are very bad ideas, I cannot stress this enough! I can share my own horror stories and horror stories from friends, co-workers, and business associates. There is no such thing as a 'free lunch' with these women...take care my friends and if you have co-dependent (or even narcissistic traits), do the work to make yourself better...
Yeah, and they always have a long list of traumatic relationships in the past and or childhood but then they give themselves over to you in every way immediately.
No human can trust that openly so fast without any defense mechanisms like they seem to.
Let alone someone one who has been abused and mistreated their whole life.
But somehow we fall for it,
no they are not really opening up to you and fully trusting you, they have a psychotic protector self state that is their defense mechanism and if you stick around it will come out.
absolutely right boy did i take the bate as well. wow
Agreed and this is definitely a trap for guys who have somewhat low self-esteem (the "idealization" feels good and offers some validation) and/or low levels of experience or knowledge with women. Has this with an ex when I was in my early 20s so know too well haha! (I'm 35 now and I since forgave her and we kind of get along now; I realized that expecting somebody with genuine mental health issues to behave as if they don't is kind of unfair, however it isn't "my problem" and she ain't coming back...)
My experience in fooling with daddy issue women is they will cheat on you. In fact, when they meet you, it's a good chance they're cheating on someone else. They tend to dig douchebags and thugs. If you're neither of these, your time is limited.
I've witnessed drama filled episodes between siblings and of course the parents. I've also observed addiction issues that include booze and drugs.
After they breeze on, they seem to reach out especially during cuffing season and talk nonsense about how they shouldn't have (insert drama) and wonder why we're not together. Of course this is behind the back of their latest vicitim.
Sooooo true man, spot on! Even though I understand now that these are seriously screwed up women, I’m still shocked about the loser she left me for!
No man should be in a serious relationship with a woman until she's proven herself with excellent behavior over a period of at least a year. More than one year is better. So cheating shouldn't be an issue.
I'd argue that no man should agree to a monogamous relationship in the first place. But that's an entirely different issue.
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@@dreww9305 Let me explain this to you, As the main commenter said "They tend to dig douchebags and thugs. If you're neither of these, your time is limited." This is because there are demons in her soul that ar only attracted to degenerates. She can’t appreciate elevation because there’s a function built into her to resent it. You can be the best guy in the world, but low life will bang her. You’re not the first guy it happened to and you’ll not be the last. You are lucky she left you, she didn’t know what to do with a guy like you. She costly feels uncomfortable and ill in your presence. This is because the demons making sure she gets her karma know she doesn’t deserve love. Don't let your ego be bruised. Those women have already been captured by demons.😂 Especially if she has anxiety issues and the only way to treat it is by taking pills. They’ll ruin your sanity and bring you to their level. They’ll punish you for caring about them. In short: be wary of her sob story explaining her predicament. It’s her karma dealing with her like I said . Lol. Now think, what happens to the guy who jumps in front of a bullet to save another? He gets shot! You’ll take the hit. Flee from such a woman and never look back. Be thankful you were saved. I don’t care how good she looks! Let her go! Or you’ll learn the hard way! They are completely damaged. No therapy can rescue them. You’re better off alone. I can promise you that. Extreme loneliness is heaven compared to such a woman. She’ll fail you when you least expect it. You’ll realize the devil is in her soul. Don’t do it mate. Don’t choose a woman with daddy issues. Don’t save her, she doesn’t want to be saved.😂
@@gregglangley2088 scarily accurate bro 🎯
If you hang in there while she's "working on it" don't be surprised if when she finally works that stuff out she leaves you for a new guy, hypergamy right. A woman's smv goes up if she is issue free so don't just be working on her while she works on herself you better be working on yourself.
Burned more than once here fellas. You're sticking it out with a woman earns you no loyalty.
My toxic Daddy issue ex married to an older guy within 3 months after breakup. I mean who does that? 5 years .... Gone 🤔
Stay to fix...they are bound to split once its fixed!
Dated a girl with both daddy issues and mommy issues for 3 years. It was an absolute rollercoaster. She actually helped get me out of depression and get sober. Also cheated on me a few times as well. Very strange behavior
Sounds like a decent deal lol
The first time I dated a woman with daddy issues, I was in my late 20s. Talking with her was like attending an exorcism. But in bed there was absolutely nothing she would say no to. That ran its course in about six months: I had to throw her out. The drama was too much.
Mr. Cooper is right. If you're going to become involved with such a woman, make sure you know what you're getting into.
Woman never work on herself, she always waits you to be improved... simply and clear.
A warning flag for me would be her use of double negatives.
I mean...I'd argue a woman with daddy issues isn't ideal, but this is most older men's cheat code to date younger women.
Most well adjusted attractive women with no issues find a high value man in their age range and get removed from the dating market pretty quick. That's mostly just the hard truth. If you want to smash younger...there's probably going to issues.
Hmmmm
Yes
@Jake Payne
You ain't lying.
That's the smash vs long term dealing with
Daddy issues are perfect to smash. Just don't date
“difficult and exhausting to manage the relationship” is a genius characterization
The only daddy issues my wife has is when she calls me daddy. I was upfront about what I wanted and expected when we started seeing each other. I demand respect but I also give her the respect that she deserves. We have an agreement. We either agree on any decision or we scrap it until we find mutual ground. We also choose each other over all others and that includes our families. We have a partnership and we both bring different things to the table. She enjoys that I'm a man and I enjoy that she's a woman. It works for us. I think that a lot of guys settle because they aren't able to be happy by themselves.
Have ya nonnegotiables and never negotiate that rule carries alot of weight
Woww you made negotiation
If its broken and you fix it , it will not be as good as new and one day in the near future it will break again .
Agree absolutely. I personally think that in any relationship if one part push buttons at the significant other, can be used as a thermometer. I also believe that if you have dealt with either Daddy or Mommy issues and have become grounded, then they will not bother you and their inadequacies will not be taken personally. On the same token, if they are out of line and they are trying to manipulate, gives an opportunity to set boundaries and set the frame to show them that we as Men will not put up with their immaturity. Or their shit test game. I learned the hard way. I lost so much and was so painful that I decided to do the inner work. By doing this I am freeing myself from unnecessary drama.
Yeah my last girl had daddy issues and she tried to devalue me and I had to walk away from her, she just didn’t know how to treat a man she was so used to the betas and the thirsty guys following her that she didn’t want to follow my lead, it was a lot of work getting her to submit to my leader ship a constant struggle really wore me down. I had to walk away from her. Beautiful girl, 21, worked out. on my scale a nine at least. But man too much work. Rich is right on the mark about what these girls do and how they act. I experienced the very things he’s talking about.
Even with high valued man with strong moral, they end up like this? I mean, do they never change?
I'm in this predicament as we speak. She's 30 and a real beauty. But she tries the whole put me down thing. I just ignore her or make jokes about it. She is a nice girl, a tad crazy but I'm so wary. Shes actually intelligent and good to speak to. The thing is I know she's batshit mad for me. But my wariness is keeping me at bay and giving me boundaries and she hates and loves it. I feel close to callig it off. The sex is incredible and I she is up for it anytime I ask for it. But it wares me the fuck out. But I know it's thier when I'm not busy aha
Almost my story, at least I ain't alone😅
I'm a bearded man in his 37. I see girls with lack of a father figure very attracted by me, and its nice.
My mom was BPD. She hated men. She hated the man in me. I never knew peace in my life until she passed away. Sad but true.
Audacity of that girl lool
Stay away from daddy issues gents. Not worth your time,money, or sanity.
I must disagree. My wife of 21 years has seen me through EVERYTHING. When ALL other women would have left she’s stayed strong. She was 58kg when we met. She’s 60kg now. Still beautiful. Still loving. I feel sorry for you blokes that lucked out.
One in a billion. Same as hitting the jackpot. She must be from another country. Not USA.
@@mosan-wa8990 She’s a blonde haired blue eyed unicorn from Australia. Can’t believe how lucky I am.
I’m happy for you and those women do exist, it just takes patience to find one if you aren’t lucky/smart enough to find one when you are young. My question is why are you here then?
Your are blessed. However EXCEPTIONS don't make the rule
You found and bagged one of those proverbial unicorns! Like Sasquatch, there is not much real evidence for their existence, but credible tales such as yours float around the Internet from time to time. Good for you, man.
I recently dated a single mom with two kids. She acknowledged her daddy issues but referred to them like no big deal. Man, everything you have explained in the video is so true. I could see it like a movie that I’ve watched before. So true. At the beginning, She was so sweet and loving. Everything felt so smooth until one night she started to show drama coming from Nowhere. All because I said. Didn’t want to have more kids with her. Things escalated with time and she became explosively violent sometimes for the most minor reasons. That s...it scared me especially because I could see she liked to play victim when referring to conflicts with others. I just took distance, then I noticed she reopened her dating account. Poor men! Seeing her new profile made delete all sort of dating profiles. She is so fake. The pictures she is posted where definitely, at least 10 years old and she exploits the fact that she is an artist to present her self as a cool and bohemian person. Boys stay away from that kind of women! It is easy to identify them. Simple, it is too fast and too good to be true, be careful! Don’t miss the red flags!
100% spot on 👍🏽 2 1/2 years ,went to couples therapy towards the end she openly admitted she was jealous of my 14 yo daughter , I am a widowed father for over a decade . I held my center 90% of the time but there was a lot of shit testing ,Richard is accurate AF here good job ......Peace 🙏🏼
Sex can be amazing with these types of women but leave it at that, they are rarely relationship material unless you enjoy 24 hour headaches..
Feminists and Daddy Issues usually, in my experience, go hand in hand. I'd much rather be with a Daddy's girl...they tend to understand men better and are more loving.
"The Unplugged Alpha" is a great read. KEEP it and highlight things. For me it is a workbook. Thanks Mr. Cooper!
I've noticed there's so many daddy subs and girls with daddy issues even if they're in their late 30s.
"dating her" is a great place to be. Stay there for 2 years and see how it goes. Live in separate places the entire time. Do not get roped into a "Common Law Marriage" after living together. (7 years in some states) Avoid marriage. Sorry man. Look out for #1 first... that is YOU. Otherwise you will have a life of torment.
And in California after 10 years she can get alimony for LIFE and they count the days. This applies to marriage but I would be cohabitation comes into play also.
Great piece of advice!
Even then I’ve read a thousand stories of “dating” these women that have ruined lives
I love this guy, he describes every bad date in my whole life, the red flags, man, best thing is eventually I found a good woman in it for love and not money/security etc.
Awesome content , great channel! Women don’t come with an owner manual but this is good as! So true!
My last GF was Kind, Caring, and Giving. As we progressed I found out that was some excellent camouflage for Daddy Issues, Alcoholism, Philandering, and VD. Cue Pantera "Walk"... once that whole Daddy Issues / BPD zit popped - I walked. The short answer is NO. Don't wast your time. I am shocked and appalled at number of age appropriate women who haven't lifted a finger to move past these things... AND I AM AN OLD DUDE. No time to waste at this age. Thanks for posting, just hit purchase on your book. AMEN my brother well stated.
Wow! Right off the bat explained my ex wife!!!! I literally worked 12 hrs a day to take care of her and her two girls and she wouldn’t even do my laundry for me. She also bitched if I didn’t put my coffee cup in the dish washer. That’s exactly what she said! “ I don’t pick up after any man”🙄
were you red pill aware ?
Love it when rich does an impression of a woman.. LMAO. "I don't iron no shirt for any man" cracking up man...
I dated a girl her personalized license plate was “daddy’s girl” one and done date
Her father was dominated from the mother, that caused the daddy issue
100% correct! The domination is usually accompanied by belittlement and violence towards the father. He is solely to blame for the mother's unhappiness and the divorce that follows. Worse still it's generational and often undetectable in the early stages of a relationship. An excellent video Rich!
@@TheChosenOneAffirmations man,i feel the same with my gf.She really loves me and everything,but has major parent problems,and lately it's been exhausting to deal with,i truly don't know if i can keep up
@@TheChosenOneAffirmations yea all that negative emotion gets through us...its really annoying sometimes
I’ve never met a woman with great qualities that was raised by a single mother.
Exactly
Facts
Faaaacts
That's because you were growing up in the modern West, drowned in its fake, hypocritical "values" that your governments are trying to enforce in other places in the world. Sorry, but even women who grow up with fathers in the West often end up being spoiled, mercantile, hypocritical, self-centered. The problem is not even so much single parenthood. It's your general modern-day culture.
It’s so unfortunate that’s been your limited experience. Thank God for all the single mothers on this earth who raise the kids left behind by men. Ironic how men will destroy women’s lives and then make fun of them as they struggle to pull ahead. It’s a privilege to have been raised by two strong parents, and many don’t have that privilege who actually have really great qualities.
Yea, I was married to a woman who had MAJOR issues with her dad. She'd say inflammatory things about him that I'd never repeat and even had an avoidance bordering in racist, to people who are of the same ethnicity.
Basically, she went on and on about how he was never there, he walked out on them, blase blase blah. That old story. Then, I found out that it was actually her mom who cut him out (As she beamed with pride at having done it, while implying the same to me)... Then my ex did the same to me, as I got "what a shitty fahher I am" posts sent to me by friends. Well... Apples and trees, Yea?
I was married to a woman with BPD.
She hid it very well for a few years
Therapy does not help people with BPD nor do pharmaceuticals. Run as fast as you can.
If you are overwhelmed with how amazing someone is, they are love- bombing you. Run, Forrest, Run
Great video. I’ve experienced this myself with a single mom...my last ex. When it was over she commenced to literally destroy all my friendships we had in common. Do not date single moms!!!!!!
I haven’t been married in 15 years and totally red pilled for almost 7 years. I sure wish the technology was there 30-40 years ago to teach me about these issues concerning women. I sincerely hope that young guys discover your channel (and others) and educate themselves about all of the pitfalls of a relationship with a “modern” woman. Keep pumping out the great content ! You are gonna truly save a lot of fellas so much grief if they will only listen !
BTW, I’m happier than I have ever been in my life living red pill !
i was dating a girl and whilst on our first date we walked past her father in a restraunt and she ignored him, we didnt date for long and she now moved to china to teach english.
my ex girlfriend appeared to be very sweet until one day i went to her house for dinner...as we were eating she leaned over the table and snarled at her dad, i was shocked to say the least and thought to myself if i stay with this girl thats how she will be talking to me in 6 months. It wasnt long before she was degrading me and actually turned out to have bdp.
My kid at 18 broke it off with his girlfriend. She was very pretty, tall, thin came from a two parent house, she had siblings, dad was the bread winner. Good job, good money. Mom was stay at home. The girlfriend started pulling this women don't need a man to raise a family. My Son said "I'm out. Why should I invest one more second in a woman that has no respect for the job I need to do for the rest of my life", My wife and I were like daaaaaaamn!
He either been watching your videos or coach red pill. He gets it though. His sister - not so much. I think some of it has to be genetics. He and his sister have literally grown up feet apart from each other. Hunting, fishing, camping, shooting, dirt-bikes (yes two wheel dirt bikes), working on stuff around the house. My Son is down with whatever needs to be done. No questions asked. Pretty conservative The daughter - again - not so much. Very liberal. Won't help with a fukkin thing.
Young girls these days are insanely susceptible to becoming liberals/leftist/feminists. Young girls are highly emotional and see the world through that lens. They’re easily shaped by their environment (public schools/social media) and what’s “popular”. Young boys are not as susceptible to that as they have a more rebellious nature about them. These young girls are being poisoned by their feminist, public school teachers and then they think they’re the ones who are “rebellious”. Young girls are like cattle. They follow the herd regardless if they’re aware of it or not.
The girlfriend could have been saying...women need men to raise healthy families but if the man drops out for some reason, whether death or by choice a female can do it. It will be difficult thou. Probably she is speaking from the perspective of seeing her mom do it.
From experience.
No, it's not.
You have to give unparalleled attention like she's an actual child, which personally was a turn off and when you don't give it to her (oops) "I got raped for trusting someone during a bipolar episode, then wanted to get attention from other guys to feel secure in my body and get more attention", to the streets she went and to the streets she will remain
This is actually unreal that your saying this bro.... I’ve been w my girl for over 2 years and the way she’ll go about looking for attention from me sometimes is through weird almost child-like play fighting... it’s actually a big turn off and if I don’t reciprocate she’ll get mad and almost feel rejected... crazy someone else has had this. She’s made progress with the validation seeking from social media but I think it’s not all gone and deep rooted.
@@ChildoftheKing777 you're still in it. I suggest you watch yourself.
If you haven't learned of the guy friends you will sooner or later.
Take offense to most things
Low self esteem
Seeking validation in her body.
@Ig Hanchks never said it was but thanks for the clarification
@Ig Hanchks sure as far as professional can be... personally it's a hard struggle post relationship..
But once a cheater always I guess, feels a lot better to not have to worry about someone like that who could just turn like that on a dime
If an individual is putting in the work it’s absolutely worth trying to see how things progress, but if you aren’t putting in the work on your own issues then don’t waist her time. It’s not fair to expect someone else to change if you’re not willing to reciprocate.
This certainly doesn’t mean that the relationship will work out as a long term deal but I can guarantee that you will learn from the situation and both people will be the better for the experience.
That woman was nuts Rich. Some of them are good at hiding it for a bit but the first sign of it, run. Daddy Issues is a BIG no go!
Rich,
Kinda works in reverse for me. My girl idolises her dad so every now and then i get ( unfairly ) talked down to because 'her dad is so clever , a gentleman , never argues with her 'etc....
Lol I was looking for a comment kike this. In life just choose someone who loves Jesus yah... We all have some kinda baggage but Jesus will humble us to be better beings in this journey of life .
Dated a woman once with MOMMY issues once, and weirdly it was basically the same thing when I met her "parents". 2 Feminists who were pissed at ALL men since they couldn't get married. (Note, this was in the very early 90's in NY) Ghosted her real fast before that was even a term.
In my experience, they only go to therapy so someone will listen to them.
From my experience, everything you said seems to be true. Last two relationships I had were with women that had daddy issues. One had a drunk dad, one was raised by the mother only. Both were first super into me (or, at least they said so). But soon they became to sh*t test me, no problem, I was expecting that, passed (I think) all the tests. But that wasn't enough, from time to time they both short periods of rage and all kind of weird behavior, clearly BPD. The fact they weren't exactly young anymore only seems to make things worse. After that I had another relationship with a miuch younger woman, raised by both parents, and, oh boy, such a difference...
From now on my rule is: If a woman starts doing the shit test. I do with them what I do when I take a 💩. I get it out my system, wipe my ass and flush that thing without looking back.
I think my ex had daddy issues and the current girl I'm dating may also have daddy issues.
The ex's mum had 5 kids to a guy then spontaneously bounced on him one day, ran off with another guy and left the whole family. The ex followed her a year or 2 after and her and the mum began running pubs moving from place to place. The mum was an ex stripper before meeting the dad, hated men for the most part. Saw them as utilities.
The ex had no respect for her father. She was very promiscuous, history of drug abuse, depression, self harm etc. she had been mentally abusive to a few exes, openly admitted to cheating regularly on exes, constantly talked about exes and even past sexual experiences with other guys, Was very uncomfortable (this was the chick that lead me to the red pill).
My current gf, also had a bad relationship with her father, small cracks are showing, she can be very moody, sometimes feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
From my experience, girls with daddy issues are normally very affectionate and loving at the beginning, then provocative as things move forward, fishing for arguments etc.
They often give silent treatment, are passive aggressive and emulate their mothers, who often also resent men.
They normally have a history of being very promiscuous, tend to have lots of previous short term relationships.
They cause massive anxiety for guys they are with and seem to enjoy it, men know they are volatile and will bounce at the drop of a hat, immediately climb under another guy, because they often see men as interchangeable and disposable.
My advice to guys is dont do it. You can't fix them, they will run your mental health into the ground then bounce to the next guy with no remorse.
You have a reasonable outlook on this topic...not overly red pill like runaway but it’s realistic bc there’s a lot of them out there...keep up the work
I can't vouch for the daddy issues but I have experienced women with "mommy issues" and the patterns of behavior are similar. What's everyone's opinion on this? What are the behavioral differences, if any, between women with mommy issues and women with daddy issues?
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The girl I've been dating for 3 months does whatever I want... she brings me stuff home all the time. Will see how it goes, she does know that I'm fine being single as well. There are good women out there but prior to her I was single for 3 years and yes its horrible out there
Oh I forgot to mention that she doesnt have or want kids :)
Give it a year or so....they only do that to reel you in....
@@jessekings7828 dont worry, I'm ok being single and kicking her to the curb if she gets crazy
Wait until she turns 23. Chameleon effect starts to wear off lol
"hang out at the finish line and pick the winners" thats sad but true
Got divorced in my mid 20's and the woman I ended up falling for after had hidden daddy issues. Spent three years hoping she would work on it but was a big mistake on my part. Changed a lot about me to try and fit her own agenda and totally was a backwards way of what i should of done. Catch the signs early, and if she knows she has the issues and is working on it with action, maybe give it a chance. Maybe. Make sure you see the action otherwise you are in for a long ride ahead which will most likely fail.
100% right. Had a few dates with one and it was all bad in every aspect minus the bedroom. She was seeing a psychiatrist every week and on multiple medications as I found out the first time we hung out. I knew it wasn’t anything serious and she was actually fun to be around but anything other than that was a no go. Came to find out her issues were from being molested by her own dad. He also beat her, but when I offered advice she actually defended him so I just left it alone.
This topic is very interesting.
Dated a girl Who Lost her father when she was 5. She was raised by her mother and ended as a single mother by herself.
All i noticed where the intense at the beginning but also her substance abuse behaviour and they way she talked about former relationships(they all ended toxic) .
Many guyfriends. Daily weed smoking.
I entered centered and cool and left with depressions
Why did u leave depressed?
@@asiachestnut4210 Have you read what he wrote? What do you think you dumb bitch
My wife had daddy issues. She also has BPD. We had extreme issues in the beginning, but I let her know soon after that, that I have boundaries and wouldn’t tolerate this. These types of women need to be guided and trained.
@Tony Camaj yeah man, 6 years.
Very true!
if they have a "little girl voice" that they bring out sometimes, RUN
she says daddy to me in that voice ... deadly.
Bruhh it happened to me lool
Rich this is so spot on. Troubled upbringing = trouble on two legs
its actually pretty common women present this behaviour , but when you experience a bpd women there is a huge difference being these traits extremelly intensified, been there.