How to Stop Being Reactive

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024
  • Mingyur Rinpoche explores how automatic impulses can lead to reactive behaviors.
    He offers practical advice to break the cycle of reactivity by observing the relationship between uncomfortable bodily sensations and negative thoughts.
    Using awareness, we can transform challenging experiences into opportunities for growth and greater emotional freedom.
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  • @ShellyBellyBeans
    @ShellyBellyBeans День назад +33

    This is great. It has gotten easier for me with time. At first, I would notice my reactivity after it happened. Then I started noticing it when it was happening. I would become aware of it earlier and earlier, until I finally found myself noticing the reactivity before I act. It is a daily practice, and of course I still have work to do, but it has made a big difference in my life.

    • @merrickb9559
      @merrickb9559 День назад +1

    • @ProfoundOneSpeaks
      @ProfoundOneSpeaks 2 часа назад

      A fine comment, well written. I noted it in my journal as a motivating quote. Thanks and best wishes!

  • @richardmuskett931
    @richardmuskett931 День назад +12

    Yes , meditating in wellies definitely increases the sense of wellybeing .

    • @openmind5973
      @openmind5973 22 часа назад +1

      Golly galoshes, that's funny!

  • @jonathanjordon4769
    @jonathanjordon4769 22 часа назад +2

    Rinpoche is so clear and concise with his advice. It’s such a joy to hear the truth.

  • @interdimensionalsailboat
    @interdimensionalsailboat День назад +7

    Also try to sleep well and other virtues.
    Makes it a lot easier.
    If im stressed im more often reactive.
    Set yourself up for success.

  • @stuartv-e8161
    @stuartv-e8161 День назад +3

    Amazing...never get tired of this man speak... always listen to yongey rinpoche. Thank you ❤😊

  • @sst5144
    @sst5144 День назад +4

    Very coincidence this video came across, as I’ve just experienced this few days ago. I pretty surprised during the incident I’ve self awareness immediately and found where was the communication barrier, change my mindset, simplified the communication with another party to find a solution. I’m grateful that another party also start to be self awareness after all, issues resolved too instead of having unpleasant conversations. Always grateful to listen to Mingyur Rinpoche’s teaching.
    ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ། 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @chuckebbs7541
    @chuckebbs7541 День назад +4

    I have been meditating for about 17 years and it really does help.

    • @AjaychinuShah
      @AjaychinuShah День назад

      Too many seprrpent bites from Fuher. LOL grow up. 🔝

  • @countdown.moments
    @countdown.moments День назад +4

    We have to make a conscious choice and realise that reacting is a habit, if it has to turn into a bad habit replace it by a good habit like leaving a lovely comment on a youtube channel. You have more chances to leave a positive impact with other people.

  • @tradoan6567
    @tradoan6567 День назад +3

    This video is so useful for me. I am so grateful. Thank you so much Guru Mingyur Rinpoche.🙏🙏🙏

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 23 часа назад +1

    Thank you for your wisdom Venerable ✨

  • @KiiroSagi
    @KiiroSagi День назад +5

    In other words, when you are upset (as an example), do your best to be aware and be mindful. That then gives you control of the situation.
    If you are truly mindful, you are not truly angry and if you are truly angry, you cannot be mindful.
    Anyone can be mindful and calm about a situation the day after something happens.
    Instead of waiting a day later to decide how you would have liked to react, it is 1 minute later.
    With practice it becomes 10 seconds, then 1 second, then it is a reflex to be mindful.

    • @jelita_
      @jelita_ День назад +1

      Good advice 🙏

  • @shalinisachdeo9142
    @shalinisachdeo9142 День назад +3

    Blessings🙏

  • @jonpettet7085
    @jonpettet7085 День назад +2

    ❤ thank you from the uk.

  • @arunms8696
    @arunms8696 День назад +2

    Thank you❤️

  • @rekhak1115
    @rekhak1115 16 часов назад

    Thankyou guru, u answered my question.

  • @AchanDolma-j8p
    @AchanDolma-j8p День назад +3

    🙏🙏🙏. I want to get rid of my anger.....it spoils relationships.

  • @TsheringYogyalBhutia-zk9ff
    @TsheringYogyalBhutia-zk9ff День назад +1

    good morning rinphochelah,

  • @bonnearychann2789
    @bonnearychann2789 День назад +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ThuptenSherpa-wm7ng
    @ThuptenSherpa-wm7ng День назад +2

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @pema727
    @pema727 День назад +1

    🙏🏻

  • @이종운-u5i
    @이종운-u5i День назад +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @tayliang8812
    @tayliang8812 День назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Transkaya
    @Transkaya 6 часов назад

    Did Rinpoche just finished his awareness hiking then give us the wisdom reflection while taking a rest : )

  • @TsheringYogyalBhutia-zk9ff
    @TsheringYogyalBhutia-zk9ff 23 часа назад

    I'm from sikkim

  • @JasdeepPannu
    @JasdeepPannu День назад

    Rinpoche when is your next India trip? I was planning on attending your India sessions in Mumbai but Covid struck at the same time.

  • @sumit18281
    @sumit18281 12 часов назад

    ❤🙏🌹

  • @stevenl378
    @stevenl378 День назад

    💪

  • @ZeinabMagan
    @ZeinabMagan 18 часов назад

    I like you !
    You are so funny.
    We should caych up some day!
    Cheers,
    Z.

  • @user-vz1st6hk1o
    @user-vz1st6hk1o День назад

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤲🏻💐

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah День назад

    Help!

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah День назад

    I donnnnna know yet

  • @margaretek5350
    @margaretek5350 День назад

    🙏🙏🙏✨✨✨🧡🧡🧡💫💫💫

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 День назад

    👍🙏>>>💚

  • @macgyamtso2236
    @macgyamtso2236 День назад

    Reacted or not. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah День назад

    To be

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah День назад

    Or not to