You Are Single But... You Are More Valuable Than Most... Have Patience!
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The most valuable people are those who are single. Because they have more time to work on themselves. The most important relationship you will ever have is the relationship you have with yourself.
Very well said. So many devalue themselves by not reaching anywhere near their potential.
Big ole facts!
*The most important relationship you have is with God, in the name of Christ, through the Holy Spirit. God Bless.
Well said, sir! I feel like this channel is becoming self centered aka narcissistic and all about 'me' it is all ego and worldly things. Jesus is king 👑!
Well said, sir! I feel like this channel is becoming self centered aka narcissistic and all about 'me' it is all ego and worldly things. Jesus is king 👑!
I'd rather live single than settle for slops passed around by this world! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
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Word up.
40 years old here. Amazing genetics. Good with money. Veteran. Grew up dirt poor and made my own way. At 22 I fell in love with a girl. She was a 25 year old divorcee out partying with spoiled rich kids. I didnt care because I loved her. 18 years later, Im 40. She left me 6 months ago to "find herself". We have a son who is now suffering as a result. Fellas. Take this dudes advice. If I had a big bro like this at 22 I wouldnt be starting over at 40.
Hey you knew what you knew. Someone asked me after my 10 year ended if I had been given a manual how to do this better…. I said no… they asked if I had been given one would I read it and practice it…. I said yes…. Congrats he said you now have the manual for next time….. you do what you do and when you get the “manual” you do better.
"It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman." - Proverbs 21:19 ESV.
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Damn even the bible says it.
@AwesomeConsciousness facts bro it's wicked out here
Why would you want to be in a relationship just to be in a relationship? Especially if it’s with the wrong person? Patience is such a big thing with finding the right person and getting to know them
Ong i rather have my harem of simps girls at least u know they really love you
Good point I think it often stems from fear myself personally not having no experience
Being single helps you develop yourself. Over time , you will improve more and more
People nowadays think it’s about what you make an what you got 😂 it’s truly about what you have inside💯
❤❤amen to that ,empty ,hollow vessel's
I’m single and I’m happy because I’ve been working very hard on myself for the last 7 years but it’s always great to be reminded of our worth! ❤
Ick. Broken.
Very good. It takes a lot of strength to do it. It's worth it everytime we stay focused and not accept what we know we don't deserve.
Im single because I’m too based to have a girlfriend
@@bachiak1I'm single bc there's single mothers and ran thru w0m3_n in my city
My family has always given me shit for not having one. They’re all narcissists. I have values that will not be broken. Their insecurities show each and every day.
So glad I found this channel.
And that's exactly what Narcissists do. That and constantly accusing the Men of being "g@y" behind their backs. Last year, 81% of Men in America have ignored Women and did not court, pursue or have anything to do with them. it's getting tough for them to make a claim for 81% of Males being "g@y".
Love your family bro! Everyone that's single gets shit from people who are in relationships that suck 😂 doesn't mean there narcs for sure tho 🤜🏻🤛🏻💪
Like it's a good thing, most relationships aren't anything but disasters
@@Cosmicsurfpro They’re the type of family afraid to say shit to my face and gossip behind my back. Not willing to have the real conversations that people need to hear sometimes. Take my advice as personal attacks type shit and just degrade/insult me afterwards. It really is like talking to a wall at times, pointless waste of time.
There is no such thing as tough love in their minds. Some of them act spineless.
It’s just funny how some people see you as less, and value your worth depending on if you are in a relationship or not.
I believe my family are the same, to they can be a bunch of self-serving morons at the best of times and surprisingly good to be around if I've somehow spiritually discerned them dropping the act! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
There's a lot of messed up people. Their in their careers doing evil things on the high horse destroying good people. It's so damn hard to have a successful life try to dodge these evil people trying to destroy you. Just because you have a badge doesn't mean you ja e integrity.
Very true ,ego maniacs
@@voiletwhitehorse
Great video by Terry:)
At the end he does a good ending , great ending to video !!!
Yo alice, u are a nice One. Blessed from the lord.
From my experience the best men the most loving caring bros I have are single which proves just the type of man women choose , the bad boy
And because of their choices, the large majority of the population alive today, have Dark Triad Traits on either side. However, what is noteworthy is that almost ALL Women alive today descend from almost exclusively Women who only mated and selected on the basis of Financial Security and Survival. More Women and Men alive today, descend in relation far more closely with the majority of Women alive, than they have any genetic links to Modern Men. The numbers of Men whom younger generations are related to overall, is becoming lesser and lesser.
Amen bro, better single than with the wrong person.
As a matter of fact, the more youre single the more you have a clear mind. With relationships comes more stuff. The stuff is clutter. And makes life more complicated. Theres benefits, but clutter does build up.
Don't get me started with relationships there's not just clutter but headaches, heartbreaks, and baggage of types too. It's just not worth the added stress nor shortened lifespan in all honesty! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
It trips me out that some people who are clearly in messed up relationships get upset at single people and try to claim we want their tired azz relationship.🤣
There's a lot of truth to the fact that a lot of the women who hold you at arms length are often really into you. I experienced this when I was in college. I was 26 and she was 21. She clearly liked me but also played a lot of games and put out mixed signals. At the time it really messed with me, but now I can see that she was messed up and not ready for something real.
I really like your content. I was invisible in my 20s, but I kept improving and now at 33 I have girls talking to me some finally. It can and does get better for men with age.
So many people in this world feel like they are alone if the are single and so they end up putting all of this time and enegery into dating and when things end up not working out they are back to square one realizing that all of that wasted time and enegry could have been used to invest into themselves or learning new skills that would improve their quality of life.
Put God First.
@@ragoldman3025 🌀
That's a delicate subject. Most guys tend to think that virtue = attraction, which is false. For a woman to admire you, as a person, she first needs to admire you sexually, which happens in a different way. No matter how good you are. Your qualities don't matter to attract women, just to hold them.
Facts. The only relationship I need is with my heavenly father, God.
It's been less than a day since i found this channel, and I'm absolutely greatful finding it. Now i feel a lot more comfortable Going single for the 15th time into that Dreadful day for me that they call VALENTINE'S DAY
Many young men make the mistake of entering a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship.
9 timed out of 10, its going to be the wrong girl.
Do you know how it feels when you're stuck in the wrong girl, to the point where you dont have the courage to break things off, so you end up marrying her and starting a family.
But the terrible part is that you keep telling yourself that its ok, its part of life, everyone else is doing it.
But then you start wondering what couldv been.
Thats the worse feeling, Im guessing.
Stop settling for the sake of it!
When you leave her you the man will be the bad guy . We are meant to sacrifice ourselves and our happiness to make a more often than not insatiable woman happy.
If she’s appreciative of you great but most modern woman are not and are highly narcissistic
Man I needed to hear this today. Literally started getting down on myself about this, Been out of a long relationship for7 months now, And been by myself since, but after hearing. This is a good reminder that it's probably for the best right now
Right back at you bro, and the universe can’t deny it. You know yourself.
I found the right person to grow with, and I feel so lucky. We strive to succeed in every area of life and we know we'd support each other while at the same time giving each other enough space and freedom in the most respectable way
I had a major penny drop moment this year about this. You do nothing but lose by associating with them. All that you "gain" is a hole to ejaculate into.
No, we don't know if guys like us or not! I can never understand when they're lying to me or not! I feel intense love and it overshadows all the assholery. My love makes me blind!
You need men to vet other men.
How are we going to advance the human race with these woman today? Like seriously I just can't.
The better looking the women, the less they have to work on their personality. You treat them like a princess they will treat you like a pauper. They by nature want a man thats"above" them. Be stoic and don't give them attention, and as long as your not ugly they should flock to you.
Wait for the right moment, and the right person will make things a whole lot happier but at the right time.” ...
“You have to wait in love because your heart needs to judge the person closely, as maybe it's not the love of your life.” ...But ..
“Waiting for the right person is the best gift that you can give yourself.” ❤
Indeed I am💯
A constant mental battle of men vying to be a "high value man" will drive men mad.
This is true and if the money is the thing that defines who is high value then we are in big trouble world needs more individualistic thinking creativity has died look at our music industry all these fellas singing about having lot of cash, nice cars and banging chicks wtf 😂😂😂
It’s low keys just some ego shit, anytime I here the words “high value” assigned to a gender I just cringe
you are One Smart young Man.... Im Glad i found your channel Dude!!!! You remind me of My Buddy when I was in College.... LSU
Terry i don't why they hating on you you in the top 5 of putting real info that's very valuable and they don't understand you putting your life on the line but your protected bro have the last laugh brother i got must respect you come to real that's why they hating and im black i see real speaking nothing but truth
The last girl I tried for was 6 years ago now, and I will never do it again. I offered her what I had heard from her for many years before that was what she wanted, stability, a dedicated partner. Etc. She declined. Wasn't ready she said in her own words. Since then I've just built businesses and built myself up. I blocked her on everything all those years ago and will never again be the one chasing or pining after any female ever again. You just have to remove emotion completely from it and move on with life because at the end of the day, at the end of it all, all you have is yourself.
As a guy , its a very very good skill. To be able to dump a woman. Thats a tough thing to say , but its true. This will strengthen you a bit , and make you less dependent on women. Also, it lets you jump in and meet a woman then stay with her if you want to . Stop caring what women think so much :) try to have fun :)
Very well put. I realised my potential when I was single. I don't depend anymore on the opposite sex in order to feel happy in life. I am 30, some days ago my ex gf texted me out of nowhere on facebook that she was just curious if I have got married and settled in life. I told her I am not married and single. She replied by trying to roast me "Always single with a nasty smile. I said yeah, that's why you have such an exciting life with your husband and your kids that I was still on your mind and you still cared about my relationship status and came up to ask me after all these years lol. Being single is an independent and so awesome feeling.
the most important relationship to have is with Jesus Christ
Lift up the son of man aka solar plexus - sun - aka son - of God - just as moses lifted the serpent in the wilderness, so too shall the sun of man be lifted up. For we must be wise as serpents and innocent as doves. Be in the world but not of it. The kingdom of God does not come with observation. Behold, kingdom of God is within you. The Christ Chrism of the sacred secretion being the holy anointing of the wholeness of spirit
The homie kept it 💯 on this post, he peeps game
Clown world is exactly what it is. You're either viewing the tent from afar or you're part of the circus 🎪
Lol some are very gullible. Theyre just not smart, and many of them will fall for tricks
Being single is worth it. You have more time, more options, you don't gotta worrie about shit besides your missions
Single is a advantage, use it! Abuse it. Just be sure to not be a asshole
You who are reading, yes you, as Martin Luther King Jr said always feel that you count, always feel that you worth and don't allow anybody to make you feel that you are nobody. God bless us all ❤ much much much love love love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏼💯💯💯
For the chosen one"Take power back" or not to is the option.
It's true bro....... thanks 🙏🙏
I respect what you’re saying. I think 🧐 that it is possible to have patience just not with everybody. I would say some people it’s harder to have patience with than others.
What happens when everything you do just doesn't go your way? It's easier to become negative and develop a negative mindset because all you try out to do constantly goes the wrong way, with everything in life, including women. That's my issue right now. I just don't know what to do anymore. I even tried praying but still no answers whatsoever
God sent me to this video for a reason and terry I agree with everything u said, these youngins won’t understand they’ll jus continue chasing females, lowering their standards and value smh ❤
Facts 🎯 dropping some gems 💎 thank you!
Marriage is dead in the USA
Facts!! You’re dropping 🔥🔥🔥💯👍🏾
Big facts!!! A lot should deff learn from this❤
17:50 yep! Just lookout for the bad girls turn good because they hit the wall
Terry bro I needed this one man. Thank you.
Loyal woman: says good things about you, to mom dad friends etc.
Disloyal woman: says bad things about you, to mom dad friends etc.
Thanks Terry, I appreciate your Video? I'm Way far good enough.. My Man.. Your right.. Thank you Jesus for sending this guy in my life!! 🙏🙏👑👑
I absolutely f****** positively love you
Now these days it’s barely like no point of sparking a convo just focusing on yourself and working on it and then realizing finding the one that’s on your level and I can match your energy that’s really what it’s for but besides that you don’t really need a girlfriend and that’s the point of having value
I share your feelings on this. Hopefully "worthy" has nothing to do with genetics. I believe we need to find a quantifiable thing that indicates people have "value" like people used to do it. Not including your sexual attractiveness level. More like competitive outlets that don't require violence. That's my solution to the problem. 31 year old male 👋🏻 thanks for sharing your thoughts on something very optimistic and true.
Needed to hear this, appreciate it!
I really enjoy your channel , I needed to hear this ! I’ve been subscribed for 4 months !
My ex wanted a rich guy who could travel the world. And the one before that, and the one before that.
This video came at the right time.
What inspirational stuff. Terry Joel is like the Jim Rohn of relationships 👍
Earned a new sub.
No rush & Im just ridin it out! Thanks for sharing & much love to ya ❤
I appreciate your channel and what you do I was thinking about starting my own channel until I found yours.These girls don't get that the single good guys are long gone in the past.
Wow, I'm lost for words. This is amazing.
I want a relationship with a women because I enjoy the company of women, but I will keep them at arms length, and enjoy them from that distance. After being divorced I miss the company of a women that I have had for most of my life. My divorce was somewhat (not all) my fault, so I am not bitter about it, but as a decent looking guy that gets lots of looks from women I will eventually get a women again.
Im starting to realize that i was beliving i was never good enough even though i have improved. Thanks brother!
Also I'm starting to realize actual value in a woman, I'm not falling for the narcissism as much
I once fell victim to this thinking until I did some real deep thinking only to realise it's the vast majority of women in this world that aren't good enough for me and me not good enough for them! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
Always excellent content !
Facts 💯 #ChosenOne
My boyyy you have a new subscriber I like this vid
RespecT to my bro joel🙌
I just got back from the gym. It was like walking into a political parade in communist China.
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Funny in a sad way
Thanks bud
Being single sucks! Meeting the right girl, getting married and having kids is the only way to have true happiness in this world, I’ve been single and now I’ve been married for 12 years and have 3 children and I will tell you i am wayyyy happier married then I could’ve ever been single, it’s not even remotely close
Congrats, aspire for the same one day. Being single may suck to a degree but being with a hellish woman is far worse.
This is good stuff.
I'm single and I know the good Lord has me a woman out their it's just he hasn't bring her to me yet God timeing is perfect.
💪😇👍Some good stuff in there nice one
PREACH BROTHA 🙏 been like 16yrs 38 now 😊 I'M BUENO(.WW.)
Not single anymore.i cloned myself.😂 seriously I'm working on a good relationship right now.
18:08 All the girls on Self-Improvement I've talked to look like they just got out the bin an hour ago...Does that mean Self Improvement? Really? You got the greatest personality just to look like that the next second I see you. I improve in both ways, mentally and physically. Women need to start taking care of themselves seriously, becoming more beautiful BUT NOT FOR MORE VALIDATION. But do it for your future husband.💙God bless you!
Bro you know it !!! Im older so i know, they try and devalue you to the point where you think their insane charade is a drop in the bucket compared to your shortcomings 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Truth or they try and program you slowly to accept their insane charade of pedestalling, kids, debt and outrageous demands 😂😂
Im single. And i love god. I get attacked too.
I don’t get why people think they need a significant other for their life to be good. You gotta remember at least 50-60 percent of people are annoying and would not even be compatible with you. Your life can be great without anyone. If a relationship isn’t just the cherry I top of a great life then you’re looking at it wrong.
Morning garden hos 🎉😂❤
It's converse with. 😊😊😊😊 I'm not being the speech police, just saying. I always enjoy your content.
I swear I saw u at a casino in Libby Montana but I'm probably wrong it's so weird seeing someone's twin 😊
I’m a carpenter so there’s no women around when I’m at work. I lift weights at home, where do y’all meet women???????
Walmart, dollar store, pottery class, yoga, painting class, hiking groups, etc, etc. Put a couple hours a week into it. It's like fishing. Not on dating apps that's for sure. ;)
I'm a carpenter/home renovator, Toronto, Ontario, Canada.....
I got a few at the gym
Only chicas I see at Walmart and dollar store are dusty lmao, and if you do spot one in the wild… best be assured, there’s a man around the corner who’s the claimed territory. Nearly every time I see an attractive female in public there’s a guy with her. Yet, I see good looking dudes by themselves plenty, all the time
0:01 Bro where's your ice water bottle? We can't start without it.. you got some moss up in that?
17:50 yeah. From 0 to 0.1.
Been single almost 7years
It's better to be single than to waste your time on with someone, and it ends after those 7 years
@@reiff12 bro mind your business, you have no idea who you’re talking to
@@reiff12 bro mind your business, you have no idea who you’re talking to
@@user-jk4mt1jd1r yep
Going to work for 5050 with a man is called letting Fear win.
A womans sole was created below - Led Zeppelin .
Man can u please talk about how I very strong man who is like a wolf but they look at me like an elk or a deer🥲I can really defend and fight hard yet they think I’m not him please explain what I can do without trying to hard to show my masculinity
what if you don't want to be un-single?
Get a pet, it's a lot cheaper and easier 😂
Divine timing Terry. I just saw the girl i like at the gym talking to some dude. Perhaps i have high standards but i dont like when the girls i like have guy friends. This video couldnt have come at a better time.
Hypergamy bro. The guy obviously had some game that you didn’t pull. If you liked her , why didn’t you try?
Hypergamy bro. The guy obviously had some game that you didn’t pull. If you liked her , why didn’t you try?
Hypergamy bro. The guy obviously had some game that you didn’t pull. If you liked her , why didn’t you try?
@dean4714 that's cap. I'm legit the most jacked guy in their 20s at 99% of gyms I go to. I'm not even bragging. I don't talk to nearly anyone cuz I'm laser focused when i train. I still caught her glances while I was lifting tho.
Them woman don’t know are lives started at age 30 and their lives decline after that age looks and everything