Why You Have No Friends Anymore
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36 years ive been on this earth. Probably 1 solid friend, barely. I’ve never been happier. You dont need anyone but yourself and GOD.
We have to love people, however you cannot be around too many people.. It’s draining..
I love people. Just not the ones who suck my energy for personal gain. I run into good people every now and then. It’s clear as day. Evil people vs Good People; Jezebels vs. non Jezebels. This is like, nothing for me at this point.
Most people are demonically possessed that's why you don't need them. And no this isn't arrogance it's the truth. I believe NPD is actually another word for the worst of the worst of evil people that are highly unlikely to find repentance, but most people aren't NPD most have narcissistic traits caused by their disconnect from God, they could change their ways but alot don't want to face it. A lot of them don't even know what true repentance having a relationship with Jesus is. People who are truly chosen have a glass of water that's pure from sludge, sometimes they slip up but are covered by the grace of God and are refilled. People who are halfway sludge and fully sludged can change but they have to do allot of work to receive that grace, the more sludge they have the more of a reprobate mind they have which prevents them from changing anything
@@Johns.Insight Terry is more of a friend to me and ive never met the kid lol. That’s how REAL this is! Terry is spreading the good word
35 years here and i am almost alone. I don't need People, i walk alone. I am used to it. Some People are better off alone .
You will have many friends if you’re fake and just a clone of everyone else. But when you establish and express your own interests, opinions and beliefs, you’re giving people something to turn against or disagree with. When otherwise, they would have nothing to go against, like in the case of those who are fake. Real people have few friends, if any, because they’re real. Fake people blend in with the crowd, because they’re just whatever people want them to be, they have no identity of their own.
NPC's
FACTS
I'm careful❤
So true
Exactly why i have no friends.
Friends are an illusion they’re not real !
I definitely agree 💯 😊
Listen to the song “friends” by Whodini it says it all
I am 50. This young man teaches me a thing or 2! I approve this message. Every second of it!
I'm 55 agreed
@@user-ne8vl2uh8g 58 and agreed 👍
I think COVID and TikTok happened and created this dystopian fake society
I might look alone, but angels are all around me! 🙏🏻🧘♂️🕊
Friends are just people you share your misery with and waste your life with, if you want a friend in life get a dog: Dan Pena
If you have no friends it just means that you dont fall into the sheeple category. Nevertheless there are plenty of people who are willing to waste your time, time is all we have so dont let people waste it.
I’m alone and very content. The way people are today, I don’t even want to be around them.
Starting 2024 with no friends…with no surprise. The last friend was a slow fizzle out, why are people weirder then dam ever? OR am I just seeing things more clearly?
Cause of the internet
Same I’m a 1 man army , peoples are weird these days specially females
Weirder, colder and more narcissistic, and less loyal. It's dang hard to make friends this day and age. You're not alone 😪
I just seeing things more clearly bro trust me I I was just having this same discussion with someone close to me
you sound like me. im not sure why people are so difficult these days but its so scary.
Other people will just hold you back, or even worse, betray you. Watch your back.
I work 6 days a week and self-employed... I just do my own thing
NO FRIENDS..GOT THAT RIGHT.🦍🙏✨💎
Society is mostly emotionally stunted......
This is why I choose to be single. Finding a loyal woman that is truly committed to you is like finding a four leaf clover
The unicorn doesn’t exist
Is that why you spent hours in the gym getting a body that impresses women?
@@bjornlindgren1774just assuming working out is to get women is just you projecting.
@@bjornlindgren1774
I do it for myself. Not to impress anyone. I raise two autistic children on my own. So I have to be in shape to keep up with them.
Any woman that finds me physically attractive would be a plus.
Your friends will be disloyal to you and this is just part of the process of life pushing you toward a mate.
That's the way it goes.
What I learned at 44 and having practically no friends anymore, is that its the price you pay for not compromising.
Armies of friends left my life when I found Christ and then when I went into counseling and learned to love myself and protect myself. My so-called 'friends' found out they couldn't walk over me anymore, and left. I heard when Oprah lost weight, she said she had to get new friends because her old ones wanted her fat again. Interesting. Yeah, when you heal and level up, you're going to need new friends it's that simple.
Yes to all you said. When i started getting my life back on track and following Christ more. I lost tons of so called friends. I have one new age friend who didn't abandon me. Go figure.
Me too. I only have like one friend left from that old life and we're only friends because she loves my writing. lol @@livingforfree2
Amen to that.
Did you see what crocked panhandling billionaire Oprah did for her disgusting "charity" that is supposedly supposed to kind of maybe help Maui but the ceo earns a huge grip of cash as do others in the "charity" billionaire Oprah wants regular people to donate to. What a narcissistic human being
The Holy Spirit is the Comforter and the living power of God that we receive when we accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Saviour. Jesus Christ, King of Kingsgs and Lord of Lord's is everything for us and more. The presence of the Most High God is the intimate circle that we gain when we accept Jesus Christ as our Savior. The false counterfeit relationships that the people who are in darkness participate in and offer can not deceive us any longer your eyes are opened with the divine wisdom of God!!!
Simply because you surpassed them and they can’t stand to see you do better than them.
I hate fake people. Especially if theyre 25 and above. They had years and years to find themselves and grow but no, they decided that they wanted to be asleep and be a basic ass person. I was basic as a 18-21 year old but then i decided it was time to wake the f up and start improving my life. People who dont want to improve after age 25 are lost and probably helpless. They decided they didnt want to do what it takes to be somebody.
I’ve seen 32+ fake friends with no lives😂
Glad I learnt this early I’m 21 and have started taking my life serious. Life is short and everyone shouldn’t waste time.
Yeah! At near 40, I don't have the time or energy to teach people basic social skills I learned as a teenager. If they haven't figured it out now, they likely never will.
I swear, at 17 most people seem to make a choice to reject, deny, avoid, and repress reality, and then it gets entrenched because they thought it was super cool to not give a damn.
People out here have lost the ability to bond and have brotherly love...to spend time together working on things conversing matters of life... I miss the old days. I remember being a kid and neighbors would bring food and talk for hours...what is this bullshit? There was a time healthy people were everywhere. Good Christian families who were genuine. This ain't life...its anti life.
Social Media played a huge role in that and its sad.
@@Melbester9yup I’d say smartphones & social media have made people mindless zombies
I feel the same. Unfortunately some like me had family also turn thier backs on us. For me it happened during the covid situation but i could see it coming before that.
Family can be just as bad as fake friends, my own brother stole 10K from me that lousy SOB
Imagine people being concerned about whether you get laid or not :/ oh does he have a girlfriend, I always see him alone.. like what??? What’s it to you!?
Some of the things I’ve overheard about me just going about my business is wild. People are nuts, so pressed about what you’re doing or not doing, always trying to shame you or throw shade, it’s pathetic and disgusting
Frrr tho peoples always wanna know your move menn
Your packs out here bro, don't worry we got your back.
Snakes in the grass bro look out that's why 😉👌
I came to realize the truth back in 2019, I remember I was in the club, a bit drunk I might add, and I asked myself what was I doing there. All that he’s saying I came to understand and I’m glad that I’m not crazy for thinking I should be working harder and harder rather than partying in my 20’s. Society has a way of making me feel crazy for thinking like this, but I’ll be sticking to it.
All my good friends are dead. I remain, thus everyday I must live with them in mind. Stay as free as possible.
Same here. I think about them every day. I miss them terribly, all four of them. I have a few friends, but rarely see them. But they are not as close as the ones I lost. I do have plenty of family and three cats. 😊
😂😂 the part where you said people can't just sit with themselves for 2 minutes is so true..and I be all like ...omg what I wouldn't give for just 2 minutes alone to myself without someone or something needing something ..sorry binge watching after long hard day work
A good Tupac song is:
"I aint got no friends"
This guys a real one, he sees the light. If your here, you’ve been chosen, now do something with it, be effective. The masses will indulge in impulsive low class pleasure, we will not.
Let’s do it.
💯 until the end!
I'm 70 yrs old and haven't had any close friends since highschool.
I am 24 and I don’t have any friends too
@@Islamiciman Sometimes it's better like that. 💯
@@ladyree7575I’m 29 and I have no friends IRL. Got plenty of friends online though.
People are more real Online than IRL. You just have to find the right places.
@@ladyree7575i have never been on social media. I had my friends in high school, and then college. Once I started working - just family. Friends all went their own paths, which I think is natural.
This guy is truely wise. Every person's reality is "Thier Present Moment." If you can barely afford to travel, why are you traveling dudes/dudettes?! Is it really OK to dismiss your unfortunate-present reality and replace it with having fun?? The wisest man says, "No," and then solves the problem of his unfortunate-present reality.
Snoop's "bridging the gap" talk is what it's all about. Don't ever level down to meet our friends. It's up to them to keep rising up to meet us. If they don't peace out.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so is their lifestyle.
damn. im very conflicted about my friends. even just simply trying to talk to them is difficult. they claim they love me. but when i want to talk on the phone they are always "busy" and im not being superstitious. they always use the busy excuse when they dont have anything going on. or they will plain just ignore my text and act like nothing happened. ive learned a long time ago everything has an expiration date. including people. im wasting time on these people who cant even take the time to talk to me for 5 minutes in a day.
I’m just annoyed by damn near everyone nowadays that’s why I’m alone
People suck these days
Today society of people who call themselves are your friends aren’t really your friends they are your friends to use you and then disappear that’s why I prefer being alone most of the time and people are sneaky and some people party , drink, smoke their lives away and then complain about the position their in life 💯
Hit the nail on the head young man. I have no friends.
And I have no friends either and they are a waste of time
i just discovered your content but thanks for being on here making these videos bro. i dont exactly resonate with 100% of what you say but it’s nice to see someone with your particular outlook speaking your mind. makes me feel less isolated
Wow!! So much Truth In this Message!! I have invested every dollar I have for the last 5 years building my off grid property, the last few weeks have been Hard! I have been feeling so Overwhelmed and Sooooo Fed up with this sacrifice period of my life!! I Really Needed to hear this message!!! Thank you Terry! I Am Putting this Vid On Repeat!! 🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀
don't care about friends or this world next video
Having friends is a waste of time in my opinion because they don’t not really care about you and they only care about themselves and they can’t not be trusted either and they rather but to much pressure on you and make you so stressed and frustrated and they might think it’s funny as well and this is why it’s hard for being the chosen one because we as the chosen ones we always shuffling and having a very hard time and everyone puts pressure on us all
When you don't have a lot of people in your life you won't have to worry about wasting your time with them you won' t have to worry about them switching up on you you won't have problems you won't get used or let down and disappointment because less is better and you can accomplish more by yourself because there is no one to hold you up and stop you.
Who has really ever walked with you through thick and thin. I can not think of any, but one ! His name is Jesus, never lied , can’t love me more than the sands on the ocean. 💫👑💫❤️🔥👍
Let them leave, you are too good for them, they don't deserve you.
Great life lesson Terry!!! And amazing video.
I have only 3 real friends in my life right now and I could not handle no more at this moment.
Only see them 2 or 3 times a year maximum and that's perfect.
They are my true real friends who won't betray me.
And as for the rest I got rid of all the other's back in 2023.
As I only use gmail and RUclips on social media.
And I have stop completely going to Fakebook!!!
As I was stalk to much on this platform!!! Anyway...
All of this to say that in 2024 I will focus on me and forget about the rest.
Excellent video as always Terry!!!
Thank you.
Simon's
I like to spend most of my time alone. It’s comfortable to me and my mind always keeps me entertained with its never ceasing questioning of reality
The new generations dont have any work ethic and Zero Morals!!! Pathetic and lazy. The last days gotta be coming soon. Its sickening. You are a very RARE BREED. i appreciate all of your talks. Thank-You❤
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Yes terrible and ridiculous
I am very thankful for my brother and my dog! Real ones. 😁🙏🏻👍🐶
Do a show on internet addiction. Its quiet soul destroying effect. Entertained to death.
@RexJacobus-bb1vw How profound. Thanks for sharing.
But living life on the internet is so much more real, the sunsets more wonderful, the women more attractive. The action never stops. Yesterday i looked at the sunset and it seemed kinda washed out. It needed to be photoshopped.
Really? I thought the internet was always here. I was born with an Android in my hand. @RexJacobus-bb1vw
People mostly have many friends when young. It's not the same when older ect. I've still a few but distance is the difficulty.
The best friends never have fewer than four legs.
If only i was half the man my dog thinks I am.
You got great messages blessings to you 🙏🏻 But I'm more contempt with my own company; anyone else is a bonus, but tbh I love chilling on my own, less drama less bs.
Thank you for dropping all of your wisdom and knowledge in quite happy without friends guess when you start to elevate and grow into your authentic self friends and family start to fall away which I’m fine with I love my peace! Many friends who I once had were fake only friend I have is my cat and dog they make the best of true companions ❤
The world needs to hear... and listen to this message.
You are right distractions every where, leisure and pleasure a break is good but focus and drive very important,
I haven’t heard a man talk these actual words ever. You’re mature and get it….and have security within yourself. Ya I get it’s easier to cheat and have all these options but like that’s how you’re choosing to spend your time? That to me just shows where you stand with yourself. The respect you give to yourself and the future you’ll have because of that mindset. Like you said it’s just bad habits…and instant gratification of happiness/dopamine. I was happy to hear you touch on this thank you!!
In ancient times human tribes were limited to 150 member so humans are just not meant to be around lots of strangers...
Mens best friend is a pet Dog .😊
Bro you’re the most solid yet coolest 😅💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I like starting my day with facts like this keep 'em coming Terry.
This must be something we learn as we grow and spend a lot of time away from the mess out there bc i do and think the way you describe and have for a long time. Glad theres others out there doing the same
I am watching a lot of your videos and taking notes 📝. Accountability is important.
Love ya Terry, always been a real one bro ❤️
Man I love your videos. I feel like the people around me and the system doesn't allow me to acknowledge these things, this part of myself - truth. I find myself stressing and worrying about how to navigate this world but your videos make this part of me feel so seen and how simple it really is, the world we live in just doesn't want to look at the truth.
Satan rules women, get over it
Most people today are your friends if they can get something out of you but you need something , sorry they are busy .
God bless you dear brother Terry 🙏🏻 you are always speaking the truth and you are truly an inspiring person.. by the way, I am always watching your daily videos . Keep it up and may god always guide you for the right always 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Social Media has truly led society astray. People are sheep, they constantly need validation from either their friends or significant others they will truly just parrot anything that is told to them and play it off as if it’s their opinion on a certain subject. I love standing alone and have my own opinions
The fewer friends you have, the tighter the pack of warriors you'll have.
Better to have four quarters than a hundred pennies.
THE ONLY FRIENDS I HAVE I WORK WITH. I CONSIDER THEM ASSOCIATES. I DO HAVE THIS ONE GIRLFRIEND THAT I'VE BEEN TALKING TO FOR A WHILE...
I listen to your videos most days and find them helpful on the whole. I recommend them to others too but I ask that you consider the way you tend to generalize females. A lot of us are on our grind: working on qualifications; saving money; working out and, like you, building our empires solo as we have become jaded and disillusioned when trying to find an appropriate person to build with. It’s not MvF, it’s high vibrational v low vibrational 💗 ☮️
i dont like generalizing females either. but alot of u females do not understand the hatred for men right now. its pretty bad. feels like we are being punished for the men from the pasts wrongdoings.
but yes there is hard working high vibrational girls. but they are more rare than the good men.
@@bleacchy maybe review where you’re meeting such individuals
i literally don't have any friends or family
Great video terryjoel,you are greatly apraciated.
Micah 7:5
[5]Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.
Sirach 6:7-8
[7]If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him.
[8]For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble.
All that is done away with. We entering a new season.
Matthew 24:11-12
[11]And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many.
[12]And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.
That the *wicked* is reserved to the day of destruction. *They shall be brought forth to the day of wrath!* (Job 21:30)
The LORD preserveth all them that love Him: *but all the wicked will He destroy.* (Psalm 145:20)
A good man obtaineth favour of the LORD: *but a man of wicked devices will He condemn.* (Proverbs 12:2)
@@theendtimesarehere - Right. Kal halal Yahawah ba ha sham Yahawashi.
Shalawam king. My husband says that a man can have more that 1 wife. Is that true? According to the law show me and examples. Cause he is just getting into the truth. Our heritage as Israelites. Thank you thank you
@cordeliazebulon12 - you need to go to your husband for all that. He teaches you. You follow his lead. But yes according to the law a man can have multiple wives. It isn't sin. Here is the law
Exodus 21:10
[10]If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.
Deuteronomy 21:15
[15]If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be hers that was hated:
1 Kings 11:3-4
[3]And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.
[4]For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father.
It isn't sin. But it isn't wise in this day in age. Because the laws of God are slack right now.
Read 1 Corinthians 7th chapter.
In the kingdom yes, Israelite men will have multiple wives. And in Jacob's trouble.
Isaiah 4:1
[1]And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
@@yashiyahatlas8496 thawadah. I hear you. Jacob's trouble?
630 am and this dude making me realize life is going how it should be going. i thought being a loner @ 19 was bad. but im making money right now. and im studying for a certificate. i need to learn to sit in a dark room by myself.
Was the same with me in 8th grade. Had a summer with partying, but school wasn't well and i immediately concentrated on bringing my mind back to learning. I liked going to school. For me education always has been igniting inspiration. I hate the modern school system, where all that has been killed. Children are not inspired today. Cause everything is bored out. We have lost a clear view on what has an reality worth and what not. Truth and reality is relative in the end, but it's not about, what is ULTIMATELY real in the end. It's what you can USE it for! In your LIFE! And when children in school are not inspired to learn that life in fact IS learning, they get sluggish, lazy and not themselves.
Great video Terry!
Thats True! Thanks!
Awesome video once again. 😊
The moment when you really experience that you have created yourself being whatever way you are, at that same moment you will never have to be that way again. -Werner Erhard EST
Thanks Terryjoel i needed this tonight.
Just lost another so called friend.
Amen to that my brother.
This is facts 🔥🔥🔥
It's the unions stalking. The illegally invested their pensions in housing and goods, real estate agents and all stores. Since, they received corporate welfare, which is fascism, thats why they illegally stalk people,for profit, and they are in trouble. They stole 3.8 million from me, and injured me, stole my wages and home of 40 years, building infrastructure. A Walmart neighbor and another new teacher ended up with it. Btw, the post offices are in on it, to see whom gets what from whom. They are in big trouble. Watch the audits and see how they act, public workers. In RI a judge got caught stealing 1 million from a dead man's estate, and they are all in on it. Shame those in debt to foreign equity firms. They are addicted to power, shame they and it will spread,and they all will be exposed. Reparations, with 20 percent interest
Lastly, they will use God or Jesus as a weapon, along with faketriotism, as a cover. They dont follow gods words at all.
I hear you. I feel it too.
You’re right.
Crushing this channel Terry
Thanks for telling it like it is
Damn dangerous business these days
Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets. (Psalm 55:11)
*Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, and shame shall cover her* which said unto me: Where is the LORD thy God? *Mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.* (Micah 7:10)
That the *wicked* is reserved to the day of destruction. *They shall be brought forth to the day of wrath!* (Job 21:30)
The LORD preserveth all them that love Him: *but all the wicked will He destroy.* (Psalm 145:20)
A good man obtaineth favour of the LORD: *but a man of wicked devices will He condemn.* (Proverbs 12:2)
Nothing wrong with traveling sometimes. Actually travel as much as you can while you're young.
I just need God bro
*That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised Him from the dead, thou shalt be Saved.* For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto Salvation. For the scripture saith: *Whosoever believeth on Him shall not be ashamed.* For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon Him. *For whosoever shall “call upon” the name of the Lord shall be Saved.* (Romans 10:9-13)
*Sirs, what must I do to be Saved?* And they said: *Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be Saved,* and thy house. (Acts 16:30-31)
Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you *The Gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; *By which also ye are Saved,* if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *Christ died for our sins* according to the scriptures 📖; *And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day* according to the scriptures. 📖 (1 Corinthians 15:1-4)
For I am not ashamed of *The Gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto Salvation to every one that believeth;* to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (Romans 1:16)
*That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised Him from the dead, thou shalt be Saved.* For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto Salvation. For the scripture saith: *Whosoever believeth on Him shall not be ashamed.* For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon Him. *For whosoever shall “call upon” the name of the Lord shall be Saved.* (Romans 10:9-13)
Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you *The Gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; *By which also ye are Saved,* if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *Christ died for our sins* according to the scriptures 📖; *And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day* according to the scriptures. 📖 (1 Corinthians 15:1-4)
For I am not ashamed of *The Gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto Salvation to every one that believeth;* to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (Romans 1:16)
So true
Stoicism is key its a lost art finding way back.
I have one good friend left that goes all the way back to my High School days. Many friends from those days I still keep up with, but they still do things like get DUI's, smoke pot, and other stupid things so I keep a couple of arms length away from them. I have an adult son that I have a close relationship with.
For the past 22 years I've seen that 2024 became Greed driven and Narc Egotism psychology Sad but remember God got us 🙏🏾 AMEN
Because I'm solid and they are swiss cheese 😂 💯
Carve ur own path 😊
My sister has down syndrome, I can atest to that. Better morals soulful and gets more done and enjoys life more. Most folk are stuck in there ways
Oh your from Toronto I thought you’re from the states good looks tho been watching your videos keep at it your doing a good job ?
ive always said i never believed in friends and people tell me im stupid or roll their eyes. theres always an interior motive when somebody wants to be around you, or they want to have sex.ive always thought about it this way, and its always been the case. Seriously my mind has warped since going sober, its been a very tough and lonely road, but i wouldnt trade it for anything. im also fairly young and learning a lot about life in general. its seriously a spiritual war out here and some people are just soo out of touch and theres really nothing you can do but keep evolving. society is focused on the complete wrong things and it frightens me.
well said m8 its a damn shame it is
Your my friend 🎉