This Happens When You Date Women With Mental Issues
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A bad girl is expensive, a good girl is priceless.
Shout out to all the males who've dated dark triads, stay safe and hard.
Im 63 and I have Never Encountered a Woman" that doesnt have Issues....There all a Mental Case... We Just need to find One With Morals... They are almost obsolete "...
One of my grandmas was cool but now she dead n gone.
Well said….exactly right…..
All of them
Yet as men we are expected to do the work to understand women better. That, usually at the behest of …. You guessed it… women themselves. I would try more if I felt they would try and understand us a bit better…or at all. They may but in my experience it’s only been to invalidate, trivialize, and ridicule some universal traits that men possess. Some of which serve us well. Like logic, accountability, periods of silence, I could go on…
That shit hit me so hard when you said you kept dealing with the same spirit in different bodies.
I have had that exact same thought “the universe keep sending me the same person in different bodies”
Well now you know to keep it pimpin and never fall for the trap
@@devdev7366 Thanks for that man, you made it simple as day
I went through the same thing for years and years and years !!!!! Meeting the same person in a different body
Bro I can just recognize it, it’s like I’m supposed to fall for some girl and then she’s supposed to break my heart or some crap, like it’s written in freaking stone. But I realized the NPC pattern that’s being sent to me and I identify it instantaneously and move accordingly. Bro I’m not no BOT 😹🫵 that crap not hitting me bro I’m not catching no freaking heartbreak bruh
Lot's of women today never had a father growing up, hence why a lot now suffer from psychological problems. My mom was like that yet all of her girlfriends, lots of girls at my highschool were just completely nuts. A lot of them just end up thinking that all men are bad and all F up just because they never had a father figure and just manipulate and use them to their own advantage to get what they want.
Yeup it really does come down to the father relationship. The “I don’t need a man” anthem can be distilled to contempt, resentment and or hatred toward her father. Every woman I’ve dated that had daddy issues was incredibly manipulative and disrespectful.
I had a dad growing up and still have mental issues so you can’t be “fatherless activities “ to all women. Or “lots” cus a lot of us actually have had both parents and still have issues .
@@greenlybeanly2839exception not the rule. I’ve noticed that females always use the exception to justify their actions and it is downright heinous. Anyone with a good head on their shoulders notices this.
Amen if men only knew what I and other women went through when we were children and teenagers they would understand why we have mental health issues and they didn’t offer me any therapy when I was little to deal with my parents divorce and 19 years later my dad dies I had to watch my mom go through divorce with my dad and then she got married again to this man who was a Monster and so my mom got divorced again my dad was married 3 times he didn’t come back into my life until I was 15 and this was around the time my mom got married to that monster the verbal abuse that I had to deal with on a daily basis was something I wish on no one
if you even need to ask about the father, may as well turn around and forget it. To even get to the point of needing to vet the parents probabl indicates you have already detected an issue.@@andreas8201
Hey, you; yeah, you. Stop chasing women. Chase God. Be a man after Gods heart. Good luck and God Bless.
Wow, that should have been a verse in that song.😅
@@danxcastle5200 ☦️
Watch Kevin Samuels..he will answer all your questions lol...this is nothing new ;)
I'm not a you, i coincide with a view !.
@@jeansollot6419 ya but the god of the bible is most likely a lower Canaanite deity.
They'll try an transfer their mental issues "demons" on to you. I look back on dating a narc an couldnt imagine living like that, with no self reflection at all. And its so crazy how you can get so wrapped up in trying to fix everything as the man because you know you re doing the rights things but it never lasts when it gets better lol. I use that same energy on myself now and its starting to feel good even tho my life still isnt what I want it to be yet. Everything is better, even that well deserved rest and downtown after weight training is almost euphoric. Ive dealt with a handful of women after the narc, even ran into another one. Games to the max from all of them lol even the ones I was successful with. You cant be a genuine person with them, it will drive them away to the dysfunction they are. Im over the game for the most part. Peace and progression feels good.
🤝
I feel ya💯
Honestly, at 21, I’m content with just increasing my value as a man and then trying to date years down the road.
You are so fortunate to do so. If only I knew back then what I know now. 33 years old and at least I managed to not get rekt, but came close multiple times. Always women. They are programmed to destroy men, so it seems, in the west. Stay safe young fella.
ps. you will find yourself in situations where you connect with a woman through your social network. Women have a way of making you forget that you are taking time to yourself. The attention feels great. Be extra vigilant in these times. The devil often sends agents to those on a good path.
@@M3DIT4TE “If only I knew back then what I know now” I relate to this even though I’m younger than you. Yeah I started working out at 11-12 years old but, there’s some other self improvement stuff I’ve learned recently and it’s like “Man if only I had a 10 year window of time to do this other self improvement stuff, oh wait I had that and wasted it” it’s not a good feeling to know how much potential I’ve wasted. It’s like missing an upgrade in a video game.
All I can do is just move forward and put those other things I missed out on into practice from here on out. Better late than never I guess. If you could share what you wish you would’ve did back then I would appreciate the advice.
It looks like youtube may have shadowbanned my first reply. That says a lot doesn't it.
I'm at 33 and I don't look back at my life as any wasted time, it was all relevant and useful to become who I am today, so neither should you.
There's nothing I would change about my past. Life would have been much much easier without going through life thinking I was the problem when in fact I was being gaslight from what seemed to be every angle.
Protect self. Ask important questions. Seek answers with vigor. Are you prepared to die tomorrow? If not why not? What will you think if you are immobilized on a hospital bed with 1 day to live?
These are rhetorical questions. Just something to consider.
That’s how I went about it, ever since growing up into manhood my mother has teased the thought of me hooking up with some girl just so I can pass down my genes and create a family of my own to call her grandkids. But there’s no woman out there in my age demographic who holds onto those traditional values true to their heart to ever be capable of loving, just considering how poisoned our current society is the only solution is to stay poised.
Proverbs 6:24-26, “To keep you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulterous woman. Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life.”
You cant fix them because they arent broken. Theyre just built that way.
Here is another little tip. An existence rooted in quality routines will scare a lot of the types you wouldn't wanna dabble with away.
This vid hit personal Joel, there is a lot of truth in what you say. I dated a schizophrenic girl some years ago. It was an unique, revelatory experience but also a very spiritually draining one. I paid no mind to her condition at first but as time went on, it became evident she was a really unstable person. She was a very lonely person too, I was the only person she truly knew at college. She was also into substances (pills, weed) so I tried to show her a healthier lifestyle, going for walks, hitting the gym etc. In retrospect I think I was trying to change her but nearing the end of our relationship I realized I was never going to succeed.
Even if you have good intentions you can never force someone to change, it has to come naturally. I cherish what I learned in those months, but I’d never date a person like that ever again.
That's very sad. But schizophrenia is a serious chemical mental illness can't be helped. Anyone can have it rich poor persons of any race socio economic status. I can understand not being able to deal with that. I'm not sure I'd be able to handle something like that in a partner no matter how much I loved them. It would also be horrible to pass such a devastating illness on to your children. I pray for healing deliverance and generational curse of breaking of such a devastating illness.
They all have a screw loose just varying degrees
Friend zone all women from the west
better yet gtfo the west. The women control the govt and most of the corporations now.
Great decision
Yes younneed to friendzome woman before they friendzone..you.
They are wicked
Witches of the west
Yes, there comes a point when your bodycount is just too high and we are done definitively.
I've seen mental illness in some young girls. I can't say too much, but yes, I've seen it. So very sad for young men these days. You are right.
You are speaking the truth and I understand each single word that you are referring to. Your daily topics are always interesting and l really like your channel
Women are Cray ❤
It does take time but there are little red flags that you can’t miss. Your gut will tell you
Everyone has something nowadays I’d be careful with these mental health people and their diagnosis nonsense
Yes that's true there's real genuine mental illness and then there's emotional and psychological issues due to trauma abuse that can be helped with therapy and prayer I'm a living testimony to that.
@crazigrl85 Your name says it all 😂
Ever get burnt so badly that you lose muscle mass? I looked sad at the end. Well sad for me at least. That only happened once. Basically changed me, I went from passing blame to being like (I know better, I am the gatekeeper). My self awareness leveled up.
yea bro, trying to get back to it
They will steal your light, mojo, connection to the almighty, whatever you wanna call it. Just a piece though. It can suck getting that piece back but in doing so you become stronger, more steadfast, more discerning. @@bobc9786
As a woman who has mental issues I can assure you I never entered a relationship wanting to use or abuse my partners. I realized I’m better alone, looking to Jesus than a man and it’s been a lot of help so far I’m working on myself as a woman , not all of us do that and I wish they would & take accountability for their actions .
More women need to take your advice. God bless you ma'am
I've never met a girl that thinks she's better off alone. They all get another partner quickly when they break up.
Every women Ive ever known has had mental issues. My mom and sister first and second. Girlfriends, wives etc..etc.. they all destroyed me, but I am still here . MGTOW
"Baby Come Back" by Player. What a poisonous song!
The simp theme song
Anytime I hear that song it reminds me of that car scene with Megan Fox and Shia LaBeouf in the transformers movie
These songs were written for the very woman that started women down this cold hearted road, Gloria Steinman, and the men that were around in the 60s and 70s benefited from the free sex that was given out by the women who listened to her
😂 same @@brandonjackson3641
What tribe does Steinman belong to, and who created feminism?
Technically by nature the Yin is CHAOS and DARK. (Doesn’t necessarily mean “bad”)
They are supposed to be disordered and without direction to a degree…
but the big issue is, women disrespect men as a recreational sport these days… and we’re the Yang supposed to bring the order to their chaos, to shine a light into their world. Without that proper respect for a man’s light and order she will be lost in the world
I think women in leadership positions is detrimental to society. At least to the scale we are seeing today. They don't go through the same character development as men do. Not nearly in the same numbers. And they vote/create policies that they don't feel the consequences for. This is a huge problem that feeds the entitlement.
U use your light to shine to the world, not for some chick, the worldly people will appreciate you, as the ying and yang balances 🤝🏽
@@AminXLifeyeah as a man you are in the world, not of it. The world-womb-matter-maternal-matrix is feminine, equal opposite of light of the spirit. Woman ARE the world. So yes, bring the light of spirit into the world through purpose, and naturally a woman attracts to that. But it goes to say, if you put a woman and the world in general before your purpose, you lose out on both.
@@Insight-music beautifully said
Your insight is incredible. I'm a woman and I certainly have dealt with my share of mental health issues but I'm consistently working on them. This video makes me feel shameful for the circumstances I went through without any choice of mine (Childhood trauma). Your words reminded me that there are insightful, self reflective men in the world and not just those who fuel a gender war to take their channel forward. Thank you for your presence in this world.
“You better run boy” 💀
I’m a male with multiple mental health issues partially from narcissistic abuse as a child & teenager. I am one of Gods chosen. 💪🏻
If it's a Cluster B, Run. Learn the signs. They literally TELL you stuff like I'm not good for you blah blah, and are full on weirdos right from the start if you are awake enough to see it.
I dated a borderline for 10 years. Almost killed me and I’m still digging out of the hole she left me in.
@@andiwithani1215 same. Was with a sociopath or whatever for 10 years. All I cared about after that was a non cluster B brain.
@@andiwithani1215 after that experience I didn't care about ambition or hypergamy or any of that! Just looks, responsible person and non psycho. 😆
@@AngelKrystalStar honestly, I used to date really beautiful women. Looks aren’t AS important now. That’s what got me into that mess in the first place
@@andiwithani1215 right??!!! And as a women it's masculine to care about looks too apparently 🤦 at least we intimately know "the species" to be able to stear clear
Great video man!! I totally 💯 know what you’re talking about. I was involved in a relationship exactly as yours for 7 years & no matter how much love, attention & constantly trying to please her it was never enough & didn’t matter. She ended doing me dirty at the end and like you, there were lots of warnings around me which some I noticed but I thought I could help her which is why I stood around so long.
Good luck to you and anyguy who may be going through similar situations.
Hes speaking the truth. I married a covert narcissist, she destroyed my life. I paid a very heavy price both emotionally and financially. They are monsters. And now I'm 58, a broken man with most of my life behind me.
Over time, you will learn everything, about them . 3 to 6 months in, you should know everything about them. Then you have a pretty good idea.
I give you alot of credit for being able to talk about alot of negative topics like narcissism on almost a daily basis Joel. My energy would be depleted even thinking about past experience I've been through. You're saving the inexperienced. Give you credit.
Thank you for the video ❤
Been there bro,i dealt with her femnazi crap,depression,bi polar,self harming a bunch of times,she knew i was stable and strong emotionally,but it never helped,it nearly ruined me,luckily I ended it and got out in time,it took me 18 months to get my soul back,I genuienly wish her all the best,I'm just glad I ended it when I did,hopefully she woke up and sees the world for it really is now.good vid mate,it's going to trigger some people,but only those who are stuck in bad choices.
How long did you date her? I was with my crazy 9 months, and then I dumped her.. Luckily I didn't stay too long, and she badly wanted to get pregnant with me
3 years too long!it's over,thank god!peace,be safe n wise.@@Vision-dd8fl
WOW…as a woman, I was on the receiving end of a sociopathic narcissist. The damage he caused was extensive. And yes, it does tear you down and destroy you.
You cannot FIX anyone but yourself.
There is help. Dr. Les Carter, Lisa Romano, Kim Saeed, Dr. Ramani. Take care of yourself.
We aren’t all users or abusers.
Yawn
@Eyechi9635 How dare you
@@justinedse8435 Greta's in the house!
I can speak as a 62-year-old man married 37 years, yes, all women are crazy and nuts, some more than others.
@@justinedse8435 Greta's in the house!
Have y’all noticed woman use the word narcissist or toxic far more than men 😂 probably because they embody those traits at a higher rate then men
Especially small towns like Binghamton NY where they have a lot of women and their daughters on antidepressants and then they drink on top of it,these people have hearts of ice.I learned the hard way because they could act normal in beginning,but the more you get to know them it comes out thru actions.So fellas keep them arms length until they earn it.
If only I had discovered this channel back in 2019 I wouldn’t have gone through the torture chamber oh well at least I’m experienced.
Can't get mad at yourself, that's dating chicks yo. Lol would you rather: 1. Experience all the things that you've experienced up until today? or 2. Still be a Virgin. Hmmmm?
I’ve gotten the Jezebel spirit a few times in different body’s and it ALWAYS started hot and ended in chaos.They will always lead you on and then turn on you out of nowhere leaving you heartbroken .
You speak the truth. I've experienced the same story
I’m glad you’re talking about this Terry. 😮
I’ve encountered 3/5 women that I’ve met who were on bipolar medication, adhd, antidepressants, and trauma. I just walk away. I always picture a pitcher of water that I carry, and when the woman has mental issues, she’ll drain my pitcher (energy) and I would have none left for myself.
Same here, that adhd one is no joke either.
Great video Terry!
I agree with 100% well done much love. Much appreciation much respect blessings on your journey
Good content bro. Allot of dudes watch from Australia 🇦🇺🤙🏾 cheers
One word, liberalism.
Thank You For
Your Service
I dated a girl who was fatherless. Her father died When she was young as he was an alcoholic.. OMG the relationship with her was chaos.
01. She had been on Anti Depressants.
02. Her body count 13 at the age of 24
03. Agressive, Combative Personality
04. Narcassisct traits
05. Lots of male friends
06. Low quality female friends
07. Drinks alcohol often
08. Was going to bars and clubs
09. Never apologized for anything
10. Several large Tattoos
11. Hated being told what to do, or a man setting boundaries
12. Lots of chit testing & manipulative behaviour.
After 8 months I kicked her out of my house after she went into an agressive rage with me.. I never contacted her again. These fatherless girls are broken and crazy!
Damn I see why I left that crazy ass chick I just had alone I told her ass to delete my number and don't ever contact me again and I meant every word! She just kept trying to ease back in every few days but only wanted me to come over if she wanted something smh her father died too maybe last year and I get it I lost ppl too but she always brought it up and how she just going thru this and that smh like hell nahhhh I'm so glad I left that girl alone!!!
if she had childhood trauma run. she cant be saved
@@innocehnt75 Her father was an alcoholic and he died when she was young. Apparently lots of arguments in the mother/father relationship. Also there is a possibility my ex might have experienced sexual abuse when young.
What a lovley crib you have. You’re so on your grind. You got it goin on man, and you’ve been taught some harsh lessons and you’ve learned a lot from that. Been coming here on and off for years. Over the whole thing, you just have a lot of good perspectives. I’d love videos on a whole range of topics cuz you have a lot to offer. Shout out and much love from England 🏴 ma man. Know your worth dood. 💪😎 I almost wish I had a homie like you. Somebody who gets it. Who learns from mistakes and just what life will throw at you.
Chasing my own dreams straight up, no girl. I just got done dirty too. She had mental issue diagnoses for sure. Peace out. Too bad for the next guy and she was on to that quick style.
I married her without telling my parents three months in South Africa now she with my friend. Haunting my dreams man crazy shit bro
You came back for the whoopie pie lol 😂😂😂❤
The West Coast Wolverine just subbed with 3 more legit Masonry channels Boom 💥 and even an add played while I was typing thisb💯✌️👍💪🙌
Thanks for the shout-out 😅
Preaching to the choir brother buy I apreciat you friend!!!
Salute My dude!
This is so true and so real
Thank you for your share, one thing that resonated with me that you said was how you said that dating a girl with mental issues & taking anti depression medication will never work & that it will ruin your life is real, I too have lived it. No matter how good or confident I am or how good I am doing in my life, that will not change anything. I too am done with all that, let the noob, the fool, the simp, & the save a hoe have it, the result will 100 times out of 100 always be the same.
I dated a girl who was on anti depressents meds.. Was absolute chaos
Boy you be speaking facts
Great video man. You definitely should have your own show. You remind me of like a Donnie Darko thing.
Everything said here was spot on. She was on antidepressants and anxiety pills. She said similar things and my heart said I can help/save her. My mind knew what what was going on but my heart overrode my mind. This was last night, now💔
I dated a chick who stabbed me twice. And then got back together thinking the worst was over and it went bad again. Changed me 4 life
Holy crap
I should’ve realized this when she said that “her ex hurt her so bad that she admitted herself to a mental institution” I mean grippy socks, grippy box but damn it’s not worth it when she did exactly what she said her ex did to her to me. I wonder if that story about her ex was even true
0:01 Thank God for that bottle of ice water.. so refreshing
You're getting close to 100k
Also i never text with girls. I will just text
" ok . See you monday " and thats it. I prefer to do everything in person. And i will judge you based on what i see in person.
VERY good process to follow! Me too!🙌
Zoom culture sucks. Trying to find an apartment for a week and haven't been able to see a real person!
5.00 minutes.
Yes hmmm ! At that age you thought you could fix her . But remember, the family that they have, will keep drawing them in, to this evil stuff , you just got to find someone better. And go single for a while , until you find a better person.
💯 true
I Agree!
I went through this the second half of 2023 , i fell for it got attached to her 1 yr old kid still recovering my mind
Don't ignore her Cut Marks. No matter how big her T & A are.
Facts.
At first, she will thank you for saving her from cutting.
Later, she will blame you as the reason she's cutting.
Ive been through s#t you would not believe. I was younger then. And since my mom and dad did not have a good relationship, i saw shit that should not go on.
I had to make everything up myself completely separate from that BS.
Truth hurts sometimes, Its ok.
Thanks for these videos. I live alone, but I'm am thinking about dating again. Its been too long since Ive dated. I want to stay aware of the current mental health and habits of modern women. From the videos Ive watched, its far less of a risk to stay single, but I do want a family... Decisions, decisions...
Hi Bro
Your spor on in everything you say.
Your only a youn man but you have been awakened, you have walked through the valley of the shadow of death and had your eyes opened.
Well done 👏 for surviving and passing your knowledge to others that are going to need it, and that's for sure.
I'm much older than you and I wished I had your knowledge and level headiness back in my day.
I could not begin to tell you of the horrors I have been through with these women.
But I kept on repeating the karmic Cycle.. untilone day I had a light bulb moment and gave myself to Our Lord
I am telling you now, do not get dragged into anybody dark Webb, men included.
Stay in your light, power..and pray 🙏 too God that he stays with you when you get dragged into their spiders Webb.
Thank you bro.
Peace&Love&Light Namaste 🙏 ♥️
Truth ❤
There are good women still and we know that. But for the women who complain on tik tok or anything like that about their relationships with men or being gaslit is a red flag. They need to just learn from mistakes instead of putting their mental issues on display for the whole world.
I’ve also learned that after my last comment that I’m single by choice and if the right one comes along then may work but it’s good to work on yourself as a whole first before jumping into relationships.
You mean there are women who DON'T have mental issues?
Dammit he's right !!! It just happened to me but luckily I caught on!! Man this dude just really spoke exactly what I just went thru lol I must of told her to delete my number and and I did the same lol I had too !!! Glad I did get to actually dodge that bullet!!
They gift smiles to pull then dont let go after with negative taxing
So true! Same goes for man. I got done dirty with someone I didn’t even like or date.. all because this mental person is obsessed with me and I rejected him. Now I’m being stalked..pathetic man can’t take rejection.
Come to south florida brotha. You live in the wrong spot. They need more sunlight
One thing my best friend who has a PhD told me. We are all crazy. No one is 100%. We are all crazy in some way and I have yet to meet a man or woman in my almost 50 years on this earth who did not have some type of metal issue in one way or another. Men blaming women women blaming men but in reality everyone is screwed up and it’s the reason people keep jumping from relationship to relationship looking for this undamaged person who does not exist
I’m a women and can vouch for you !
What a nightmare.
Yes totally.
I've got to say this respectfully, chosen and anointed people need to date and marry and form business relationships with each other and going to drop another one The chosen and anointed women need to try harder to seek out and form relationships with chosen and anointed men and not just follow the crowd.
I go exercise classes, group activities and solo activities
good conversations help
At first with a new friend ship caution
I cant even tell anyone my address as live alone
Some who get around normally dont have a clean image and their conversation and cheap jewellery gives them away, sometimes bad skin
You get infected. You get what you settle for. Happened to me.
To a T, bro.
While we were friends, it was great. A year later, we started dating. i constantly thought about ending the relationship because it did NOT vibe right.
In short, January, all of it sucked. Should have listened to my head and heart. That alarm bell was straight dinging.
Girl I just broke up with was hiding she took meds for her BPD. I had a feeling something was off tho
Tell me about it.the woman that I'm interested in is starting to give me red flags here.im just going to feel it out and see if it's even worth my time to continue this relationship.
Yup
I feel like your talking to me w almost every video title .... Stop playin. 😅
And they said mental issues can’t spread from human to human 😂
realest video out there man. i just got out a relationship with this young chick, think she was barely 18 and she apparently had so much sexual trauma. told me some story about how her dad abused her when she was a kid and I didnt really care until it came time for us to have sex and she couldnt stop crying. i just broke up with her on the spot at that point cuz she just seemed too damaged. such a waste of time for some already used up goods man
TJJ, you need to build your X acc brother... Not even kidding. Thank me later man.
TJJ army, let's boost him to 100k subs quick. Let's go! Don't be bitches!
it's only the first time. has to be.
i dont know how its possible but every single female ive dated in the past 2 years were one of these females... ive had my last straw at the end of 2023... this valentines day wouldve been a year with the last one im so thankful i got rid of her even though it almost cost me everything literally
he was running
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