Your smiling face and your positive attitude is just what I needed. You have a God given talent for being a keen motivational speaker. Thank you for sharing your outcome planning strategy. It was so helpful!
Bobbie, I am 53 as well, and I relate so well to so many of the things you post. I lost 21 pounds last year, and have a goal to lose 50 more next year. I love, love, love your channel.
I hope you realize that you’re doing what God has called you to do (encouraging others by being vulnerable on RUclips)..thank you for taking the time to create meaningful content that is impactful. Happy New Year!
Bobbie, you are amazing! What an inspirational and informative video. I accomplished a couple outcomes I wanted to in 2019. Still working on formulating the results I want for 2020, one of which is to stop making excuses "because I'm old" (73! One of my daughters is always fussing at me for this one!). And I'm tired of hearing it, so I need to stop making the excuse because I want to do more stuff! Being retired and "older" shouldn't get in my way. I say "on to a happier, more active 2020". When I was setting up my calendar for the new year, I checked last year's calendar on the same date and noticed that I'm starting 2020 14 pounds lighter than 2019, even with recovering from total knee replacement. Your point is right on target for me. When I stopped putting so much pressure on myself to lose 25 pounds last year, I was able to concentrate on the things I needed to do versus pressuring myself to accomplish unrealistic goals. Thank you for always showing us positivity and what results will come from it! Happy New Year to you!
Actually, that’s the way most teachers lesson plan. But what is refreshing is that you limit your goals. That is such a shift. We are told we have so many things to change. Being able to concentrate on one to three things is definitely a mind shift. Thanks for all your work in helping us set SMART goals.
This is really life-changing for me! I ended up in the hospital with Congestive Heart Failure and spent Thanksgiving alone in the hospital while the rest of my family was together celebrating the day. I am on a low sodium diet (EVERYTHING has sodium in it!) and I have been feeling very deprived because of it. I've been feeling sorry for myself and my heart is so weak that I need a combination pacemaker/defibrillator and can barely shower and dress myself. All of a sudden I can't live alone and I can't live where I was living in my cute condo that made me so happy. I've been feeling really depressed. Thanks to you I know how to think about this and what to do to live my best life with a serious illness. Once I have my surgery and I go into recovery I am going to start each day thinking about you and thanking you for helping me and then I'm going to go about the business of strengthening my heart and getting as healthy as I can and accept the fact that my life has changed but I'm alive. I will stop and thank God every day that I'm alive for my husband, children and grandchildren. I'm going to find the happiness through my grief and focus on what's good and celebrate even the smallest improvement. I can't thank you enough for sharing your life with me so I can live mine whatever the outcome will be. God bless you, Bobbie!
Kathy Goodman You have taken the hardest step - shifting your thinking! Believe that you GET to change your lifestyle, not that you have to. When your health improves, you may see this health issue as a gift. - of waking up. May you have better days ahead 🙏🏼
Bobbie, this is a great way to look at goal setting. One of the things I need to change in my life is that it is ingrained in me to look at things negatively. Because that is the kind of atmosphere I was raised in, and living with chronic illness, my mind just naturally goes in that direction. I think this approach can really help me. Thank you so much for putting your heart into this. May you be blessed as you pursue your goals.
Negativity can be a habit! I’m glad you are trying to change that one. I know how hard it can be. I am POSITIVE you can do it when you focus on the outcome. Cheering for you Rebecca!
Thanks for the worksheet! I'll have to see it it might help this year. I tend to follow through things that interest me...like "start a RUclips channel" but goals that aren't funk like "eat healthy" or "go to gym" tend to fall off after about 4 - 6 weeks.
Thank you so much for this information...I have lost lots of weight over this past year...but for some reason I've been struggling this week. This is just what I need. And on this day, I had prayed for God's guidance...and now my prayer is answered. God bless you and this ministry...!!!
Thank you sweet girl! For the last 18months I've been doing low-carb/keto to bring my labs back into sync. I had hypoglycemia and rollercoaster sugar numbers cycling and worsening. My goal was to lose weight but improving my numbers/labs was more important. I have lost some weight but my numbers/labs are perfect, my energy has improved some and my overall health is better. Slowly healing 56 yrs of damage from the standard American diet. Tiny steps of progress is what keeps me going. Baby steps count. Any steps count. When we are looking for opportunities to change in tiny ways, everyday-we can see those opportunities and make a conscious decision to grasp the next rung of progress. Praying Blessings for your journey and planning girls! We can reach the outcomes one baby-step decision at a time. 💗💗💗
Thank you for this video. Excellent examples. I needed this talk. God Bless you. I think you're doing something He called you to do here - you're reaching so many!
Enjoy your channel sooooo much. You didn’t let us down you just let us know you are human and we are not so different after all. We are not the only ones who don’t get it done. I find you are right that looking at the out come and how that will feel really helps.
Congrats to you for losing 50 lbs and maintaining it, that is no small feat! I lost 60 lbs with WW and now have gained back 25 lbs. I’ve been beating myself up daily over this I think this video is exactly what I need. Thank you so much, you have a gift for touching people❤️
I printed this. I also bought the Christian Planner for 2020 (which had a "goals" page) so I'm going to write this down in it. I totally agree that we should focus on the "Why"; even in our Christian walk. I will keep you posted!!
I truly believe that God sent me to your channel tonite! Boy, does this make perfect sense and just what I wanted to hear. Thank you. I liked, I subscribed, I am in awe. Thank you for this message. As soon as I stop crying and feeling sorry for myself, I will look at the list I wrote, then do it again so it makes sense.
thank you for your videos! I am 55 y/o and am tired of the relationship I have with food and my body. I am beautifully and wonderfully made & I want to finally believe it. Thank you for sharing your story
You are welcome DeAnna! I know...I wish I could just break-up with food, but sadly it doesn't work that way. I'm happy you are starting to make the changes necessary! Yes...You are beautifully and wonderfully made!
Wow! This may be the best video for inspiration to finally make the changes my heart desires, but my mind doesn’t cooperate. “All of this is a brain thing ... we have to change our thinking”. A million thank yous! Blessings to you Bobbi!!✨🙏🏼✨
You my dear are an outstanding motivational speaker! This will definitely get me going in a more positive mindset on accomplishing my plan, so thank you!
Loved this vlog, thank you for sharing! I write down affirmations almost daily, and they have made a difference in my life this past year. God loves us and is leading us in living the life He wants for us. Not perfect, but making progress!
Yesterday I wrote out my goals for this year and then I prayed that God would help me to fulfil them and this morning I came across your video and it resonated with me so I have printed off your work sheets, will let you know how I go, thank you and God bless
Thank you so much for your inspiration...l am 65 and every year I say to myself that I will lose weight and I am sitting here bigger than I have ever been on the cusp of a new year and again I have said "I am going to lose weight this year. I am so happy to say that YOU and your videos are the reason I really think I can do it this time. Please continue... you have no idea how much they help. Thank you!
Wow! I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. I'm 51 and I've been struggling with this extra 30 pounds for over a decade. I've become so frustrated with unattained goals. Also a Christian. I look forward to watching more of your encouraging videos.
THANK YOU so much for this video! It’s exactly what I needed to hear and it is so very helpful. I’m soooooo glad I found your channel! Your upbeat, positive attitude and great smile have really helped me so much! Happy New Year and God’s blessings on you and your family in 2020!!
Bobbie! This is a wonderful video!! You have hit the nail right on the head about goal setting and these steps you have outlined sound perfect!! I don't believe in New Year's Resolutions. I feel these don't work because a change has to come from the heart and mind not because everyone else is making resolutions. I am going to start outcome planning and use your outline (which is a smart idea!). Thank you so much for sharing this process! Two of your changes are exactly like mine: lose 30 pounds & spend quality time with my husband. I have not been doing very well on losing weight. I think this is the kick start, mind switch that I need. Your idea is brilliant and I am so excited!! Thank you, Bobbie! On another note: I love your sweater! It looks so warm and comfy! Is there a link to it! Blessings to you and your family!!
Hey Darrelyn! I love your two and I bet your hubby will love to know your “why”! I got the sweater from Eddie Bauer. It’s so comfortable and soft. Happy New Year!
I love this mind shift changes you suggest. I need to visualize the endgame. I love the idea of outcomes and keeping the whys positive. I have already set goals and steps. I am going to tweak them to change my mindset. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for sharing this👍💕 I’m new to your channel, just love your sweet spirit and open honest sharing 🥰 I’m also a believer & so happy I recently discovered your RUclips channel. Blessings & Happy New Year🙏🏻💕
Happy New Year and thank you! Love the idea on focusing on the outcome. I turned 60 in 2019 and had dreams that I would have finally reached these goals in regards to weight , that was the problem never taking action on those dreams. I’m new to your channel and appreciate your sincerity and content looking forward to what you will continue sharing in 2020!
Great idea ! I like the way you think ! You have inspired me to start my Weight Watchers journey and finally lose the unwanted weight ! Thank you for all your positivity and inspiration! I hope you and your family have a wonderful and blessed 2020 !
I am so happy I found your channel. I too am 53, and am looking to take better care of myself and home this next year. Your worksheet is just what I need. I think the change in my thinking (my why’s) is just what I need.
GOD bless you Sis! I love this tool. I feel like this is just what I need. Thanks for thinking of your subscribers and putting the outcome process in writing. You are a blessing to many!!
I watched this on a Monday after the children returned to school. This is very much what I needed today. Thank you for your upbeat attitude, I love watching your videos.
I watched this the other day and hadnt commented but I think this is definitely a better way to motivate and stick to a goal. Thank you for sharing! I did notice that ulta on January 11th has clinique take the day off balm for $15 (3.8oz) just in case you wanted to grab some. Have a great rest of your week! Happy New Year🥳
Thank you for sharing this! What a different approach to things we want to accomplish! I've printed out the worksheets and I'm going to rewatch the video a couple of times. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! What a help this is! Sometimes we know what we need & want but just don’t know where to start with our goals- I love this practical approach! It’s so positive too(one of my goals is to be more conscious about positivity)! Happy new year & May God bless you & your family in 2020!
I so enjoy your videos and your perspective. This was your best one yet and so timely as I sit here and map out my 2020. I rewrote things based on outcome planning and yes, it looks different and far less daunting.
Thanks for shining a different light on this! I’m excited to try this as having goals just never seemed to work for me. I’m very much stuck in a rut and am eager to have my mindset changed! Btw on another note, in one of your videos’s I believe it was the “What I put in my adult kids stockings” 2018 that you shared a Brilliant idea! You said you bonded with your son by watching all the Marvel Movies in order. My 18 yr old son and I have been doing just that for the past month, so thank you 🥰
1st of all: thanks for the many laughs! I just laughed and laughed! Love your comical but useful approach! Next: I looked at your Outcome Planning worksheet: I think it is great that you wrote an example from start to finish AND provided a blank version!!
Hi Bobbie! I JUST found your channel browsing youtube. I LOVED this video so I subscribed. I am joining WW this coming Saturday. I am nervous but also excited. I hope to post more videos in 2020.
Thanks for the worksheets!!! 😍 I’m anxious to give this a try!!! God bless!!! Oh, I think printing & re-working this worksheet monthly just may be the nudge for permanent change for me. Thank you💙
Thank you for sharing this wisdom. I so badly needed to hear this. I'm a believer too. I have those same insecurities that hold me back from things I know that God wants me to do. Pray for me sister! God bless you!
Great Video! I am in the same situation, I lost weight in 2018 and stayed the same for 2019. I am not disappointed because I was able to stop taking my blood pressure medicine in 2019 and proud I could maintain the weight lose. I am now ready to make the effort to start loosing again I started a few days ago because why wait until January 1st. . Good tips! I am going to give them a try. Thank you for sharing and I will be praying for our success!
Thanks for the template, Bobbie. I haven't done my WW "why" after a year (-48lbs) because I didn't really get it. I'm going to use the template; it looks so doable, and what you said makes sense. Thanks for getting the ball rolling for me!
This is radically different from the MANY books I have read and strategies I have attempted in order to reach goals. I repeatedly have been puzzled and frustrated by my poor follow-through. I now realize that my thought process was "IF I want to A-B-C then I HAVE TO do X-Y-Z". The IF automatically introduced the possibility that maybe I didn't really want A-B-C. The HAVE TO instantly triggered my passive resistance. I am going to try it your way! Thank you!
This comes at the perfect moment for me. Christmas evening I suffered a heart attack along with AFib. I was already in the hospital for another issue when this happened. God was protecting me. Anyway, they were unable to do stents because I have too much blockage and will probably be looking at open heart surgery in the next 2 months. But now!!!! I need to change everything I do..every bit of food I take needs to be for health not pleasure. That's difficult. I believe in miracles so if your faithful supporters would remember me right now i would be grateful. Linda Frazier, 75 year old grandma
Oh Linda, I am so sorry. My heart skipped a beat when I read your comment. Wow, how amazing you were in the hospital already-God is good! I am praying for you and I hope you are able to make the changes necessary. Please take care of yourself. All, please pray for Linda!!!
Thank you so much for this. I have been taking a long hard look at my life, my husband, and our family. We need some major changes. The biggest one, being health. He is scheduled for a heart cath on Friday, and the unknown, is very scary right now. I have found, that youtube, definitely, holds you accountable, and that is a great thing. I appreciate, you taking the time to do this, and you will look super cute in your future leggings!
Bobbie I am a fairly new listener since Christmas. I was feeling your pain about the how to fill adult children's stockings and you gave me some great ideas, thank you! I really enjoyed this video about goal setting. Could you please do a more detailed one on how you use the GTD method? I am feeling overwhelmed to start but my cousin swears by it. I think you could ease my anxiety! Thank you for your sweet smile and spirit, it lifts my day!! Warmly, Machelle Vaughn
I'm so grateful to have found your channel. You are so realistic and encouraging. I hope that you are closer to your desired outcome at this point. You give me hope that I can make changes and have the outcomes I want. Thank you!!
You are so right. I started keto in 2018 at 204 pounds in a size 18 and I did have some goals but then I learned that the scale lies so I had to take that off the list. But then my goal was to be in a size 10 by July 2019 and that did not happen. So now my goal is to be attended by this July and it’s doable because I’m only one size away. Thank you for the information
This video is uncanny. I've been thinking about this same thing. You've done a marvelous job explaining how to achieve change. I just would like to thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Happy New Year. See you next time.
Wonderful video Bobbi! I can see this method helping me to attain the home I want but never seem to be able to achieve. It's great for helping me maintain my weight loss but I see it helping me get "unstuck" in other areas of my life. Thank you so much for sharing!
Just wanted to say "Hi"! We worked together many years ago in Colorado and I have thought about you often since then wondering how you're doing. I just found you on here a couple of months ago and it's been fun to see some of your life. Thanks for sharing! Diane
This is a great perspective and one that I will start using NOW. TODAY. I needed this. I always love your bubbly personality. Thanks you so much for sharing this video!
You are so sweet, love your why answers. Makes more sense. Love the leggings comment. Hope you get to model them for us.💕. Love the color of your hair is it lighter than usual? Looks pretty on you. Please have a happy and healthy New Year, and continue your great videos, so enjoy watching them.
Your smiling face and your positive attitude is just what I needed. You have a God given talent for being a keen motivational speaker. Thank you for sharing your outcome planning strategy. It was so helpful!
Bobbie, I am 53 as well, and I relate so well to so many of the things you post. I lost 21 pounds last year, and have a goal to lose 50 more next year. I love, love, love your channel.
I hope you realize that you’re doing what God has called you to do (encouraging others by being vulnerable on RUclips)..thank you for taking the time to create meaningful content that is impactful. Happy New Year!
Bobbie, you are amazing! What an inspirational and informative video. I accomplished a couple outcomes I wanted to in 2019. Still working on formulating the results I want for 2020, one of which is to stop making excuses "because I'm old" (73! One of my daughters is always fussing at me for this one!). And I'm tired of hearing it, so I need to stop making the excuse because I want to do more stuff! Being retired and "older" shouldn't get in my way. I say "on to a happier, more active 2020". When I was setting up my calendar for the new year, I checked last year's calendar on the same date and noticed that I'm starting 2020 14 pounds lighter than 2019, even with recovering from total knee replacement. Your point is right on target for me. When I stopped putting so much pressure on myself to lose 25 pounds last year, I was able to concentrate on the things I needed to do versus pressuring myself to accomplish unrealistic goals.
Thank you for always showing us positivity and what results will come from it! Happy New Year to you!
Actually, that’s the way most teachers lesson plan. But what is refreshing is that you limit your goals. That is such a shift. We are told we have so many things to change. Being able to concentrate on one to three things is definitely a mind shift. Thanks for all your work in helping us set SMART goals.
This is really life-changing for me! I ended up in the hospital with Congestive Heart Failure and spent Thanksgiving alone in the hospital while the rest of my family was together celebrating the day. I am on a low sodium diet (EVERYTHING has sodium in it!) and I have been feeling very deprived because of it. I've been feeling sorry for myself and my heart is so weak that I need a combination pacemaker/defibrillator and can barely shower and dress myself. All of a sudden I can't live alone and I can't live where I was living in my cute condo that made me so happy. I've been feeling really depressed. Thanks to you I know how to think about this and what to do to live my best life with a serious illness. Once I have my surgery and I go into recovery I am going to start each day thinking about you and thanking you for helping me and then I'm going to go about the business of strengthening my heart and getting as healthy as I can and accept the fact that my life has changed but I'm alive. I will stop and thank God every day that I'm alive for my husband, children and grandchildren. I'm going to find the happiness through my grief and focus on what's good and celebrate even the smallest improvement. I can't thank you enough for sharing your life with me so I can live mine whatever the outcome will be. God bless you, Bobbie!
Kathy Goodman You have taken the hardest step - shifting your thinking! Believe that you GET to change your lifestyle, not that you have to. When your health improves, you may see this health issue as a gift. - of waking up. May you have better days ahead 🙏🏼
@@debbs542 Thank you.
Bobbie, this is a great way to look at goal setting. One of the things I need to change in my life is that it is ingrained in me to look at things negatively. Because that is the kind of atmosphere I was raised in, and living with chronic illness, my mind just naturally goes in that direction. I think this approach can really help me. Thank you so much for putting your heart into this. May you be blessed as you pursue your goals.
Negativity can be a habit! I’m glad you are trying to change that one. I know how hard it can be. I am POSITIVE you can do it when you focus on the outcome. Cheering for you Rebecca!
Thanks for the worksheet! I'll have to see it it might help this year. I tend to follow through things that interest me...like "start a RUclips channel" but goals that aren't funk like "eat healthy" or "go to gym" tend to fall off after about 4 - 6 weeks.
I hope it helps!
Best video of the year. I’m a big you tube watcher. And you definitely hit home. 55 and need to lose the 50 lbs. I will watch this over and over 🎉
Thank you Lisa. You can do it. Set-up your outcomes! You are worth it!
Bobbie Koppe well thank you ! We are all here to encourage each other for sure. Plus I think you’re a riot !
Thank you so much for this information...I have lost lots of weight over this past year...but for some reason I've been struggling this week. This is just what I need. And on this day, I had prayed for God's guidance...and now my prayer is answered. God bless you and this ministry...!!!
I'm glad I could be an answer to your prayer!
Thank you sweet girl!
For the last 18months I've been doing low-carb/keto to bring my labs back into sync.
I had hypoglycemia and rollercoaster sugar numbers cycling and worsening.
My goal was to lose weight but improving my numbers/labs was more important. I have lost some weight but my numbers/labs are perfect, my energy has improved some and my overall health is better. Slowly healing 56 yrs of damage from the standard American diet. Tiny steps of progress is what keeps me going. Baby steps count. Any steps count. When we are looking for opportunities to change in tiny ways, everyday-we can see those opportunities and make a conscious decision to grasp the next rung of progress. Praying Blessings for your journey and planning girls! We can reach the outcomes one baby-step decision at a time. 💗💗💗
Love your positive attitude...thank you so much for touching my heart!
Thank you for this video. Excellent examples. I needed this talk. God Bless you. I think you're doing something He called you to do here - you're reaching so many!
Thank you Steph. I feel blessed to be on RUclips. It's a lot of work, but I truly do love it! Thanks for encouraging me!
Enjoy your channel sooooo much.
You didn’t let us down you just let us know you are human and we are not so different after all. We are not the only ones who don’t get it done.
I find you are right that looking at the out come and how that will feel really helps.
Congrats to you for losing 50 lbs and maintaining it, that is no small feat! I lost 60 lbs with WW and now have gained back 25 lbs. I’ve been beating myself up daily over this I think this video is exactly what I need. Thank you so much, you have a gift for touching people❤️
Super interesting take on goal setting. Thank you for sharing it! I totally agree that it always comes down to how we think about it!
I printed this. I also bought the Christian Planner for 2020 (which had a "goals" page) so I'm going to write this down in it. I totally agree that we should focus on the "Why"; even in our Christian walk. I will keep you posted!!
I truly believe that God sent me to your channel tonite! Boy, does this make perfect sense and just what I wanted to hear. Thank you. I liked, I subscribed, I am in awe. Thank you for this message. As soon as I stop crying and feeling sorry for myself, I will look at the list I wrote, then do it again so it makes sense.
thank you for your videos! I am 55 y/o and am tired of the relationship I have with food and my body. I am beautifully and wonderfully made & I want to finally believe it. Thank you for sharing your story
You are welcome DeAnna! I know...I wish I could just break-up with food, but sadly it doesn't work that way. I'm happy you are starting to make the changes necessary! Yes...You are beautifully and wonderfully made!
I printed your sheet. I filled it out. Noticed immediate differences with my behavior. Thank you!
You are a gem Bobbi! Thank you.
Thank you! I enjoy your channel.
You’re speaking to my soul 😁
Wow! This may be the best video for inspiration to finally make the changes my heart desires, but my mind doesn’t cooperate. “All of this is a brain thing ... we have to change our thinking”. A million thank yous! Blessings to you Bobbi!!✨🙏🏼✨
You my dear are an outstanding motivational speaker! This will definitely get me going in a more positive mindset on accomplishing my plan, so thank you!
Yay, starting 2020 in a new positive mindset. Happy New Year!
This is a great idea. I’m definitely going to implement this. 😊
I’m just now seeing your video and love them and then I find in this video that you’re a believer 😢 you are now my adopted spiritual aunt lol
Awww, that's so sweet! Thank you Victoria! All for Him ⬆️ !
Loved this vlog, thank you for sharing! I write down affirmations almost daily, and they have made a difference in my life this past year. God loves us and is leading us in living the life He wants for us. Not perfect, but making progress!
Yesterday I wrote out my goals for this year and then I prayed that God would help me to fulfil them and this morning I came across your video and it resonated with me so I have printed off your work sheets, will let you know how I go, thank you and God bless
I love this! The idea of focusing on the outcome I want rather than on the end goal gives me hope. 💓 Ty Bobbie! HNY! 🌟
There’s always hope Bea! ❤️
Great advice! I will watch again for inspiration. You kept 50lbs off!! Wow! thats a huge achievement! Please do more of these videos.
I need to watch this multiple times. So much good info!
I just started WW and your channel popped up. Oh what an inspiration you are to me.
Wowser !!! This is a fantastic way to plan !!! Thx soooooo much for sharing !!! xoxo
Great ideas!! Thanks!
Thank you so much for your inspiration...l am 65 and every year I say to myself that I will lose weight and I am sitting here bigger than I have ever been on the cusp of a new year and again I have said "I am going to lose weight this year. I am so happy to say that YOU and your videos are the reason I really think I can do it this time. Please continue... you have no idea how much they help. Thank you!
I’m so glad this has been helpful to you. 2020 is YOUR year Deborah! 🤗
Wow! I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. I'm 51 and I've been struggling with this extra 30 pounds for over a decade. I've become so frustrated with unattained goals. Also a Christian. I look forward to watching more of your encouraging videos.
I like your name 💕. I hope this will help set up attainable outcomes for you.
What a great perspective!! Thank you for this video! Saving to watch again later!
I love this, Bobbie. THANK YOU!!!
THANK YOU so much for this video! It’s exactly what I needed to hear and it is so very helpful. I’m soooooo glad I found your channel! Your upbeat, positive attitude and great smile have really helped me so much! Happy New Year and God’s blessings on you and your family in 2020!!
Bobbie! This is a wonderful video!! You have hit the nail right on the head about goal setting and these steps you have outlined sound perfect!! I don't believe in New Year's Resolutions. I feel these don't work because a change has to come from the heart and mind not because everyone else is making resolutions. I am going to start outcome planning and use your outline (which is a smart idea!). Thank you so much for sharing this process! Two of your changes are exactly like mine: lose 30 pounds & spend quality time with my husband. I have not been doing very well on losing weight. I think this is the kick start, mind switch that I need. Your idea is brilliant and I am so excited!! Thank you, Bobbie!
On another note: I love your sweater! It looks so warm and comfy! Is there a link to it!
Blessings to you and your family!!
Hey Darrelyn! I love your two and I bet your hubby will love to know your “why”! I got the sweater from Eddie Bauer. It’s so comfortable and soft. Happy New Year!
I love this mind shift changes you suggest. I need to visualize the endgame. I love the idea of outcomes and keeping the whys positive. I have already set goals and steps. I am going to tweak them to change my mindset. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for sharing this👍💕 I’m new to your channel, just love your sweet spirit and open honest sharing 🥰 I’m also a believer & so happy I recently discovered your RUclips channel. Blessings & Happy New Year🙏🏻💕
Happy New Year and thank you! Love the idea on focusing on the outcome. I turned 60 in 2019 and had dreams that I would have finally reached these goals in regards to weight , that was the problem never taking action on those dreams. I’m new to your channel and appreciate your sincerity and content looking forward to what you will continue sharing in 2020!
Great idea!!! I will definitely try this !!!
Makes total sense 🤗
Thanks for sharing. Like this thought process. Haven't really heard it put this way before. Happy New Year! 🎉
I love your idea!!! Thank you Bobbie
Great idea ! I like the way you think ! You have inspired me to start my Weight Watchers journey and finally lose the unwanted weight ! Thank you for all your positivity and inspiration! I hope you and your family have a wonderful and blessed 2020 !
Thank you for this Bobbie, you had alot of helpful tips. I do want to focus more on the outcome rather than the goal. Great advice 😊
I am so happy I found your channel. I too am 53, and am looking to take better care of myself and home this next year. Your worksheet is just what I need. I think the change in my thinking (my why’s) is just what I need.
GOD bless you Sis! I love this tool. I feel like this is just what I need. Thanks for thinking of your subscribers and putting the outcome process in writing. You are a blessing to many!!
So glad I found this video! Thanks Bobbie - Happy 2020!
Thank u Bobbie this i feel is gonna help alot of people not just myself
OMG! This is so wonderful. Thank you for sharing.
Love this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I watched this on a Monday after the children returned to school. This is very much what I needed today. Thank you for your upbeat attitude, I love watching your videos.
I watched this the other day and hadnt commented but I think this is definitely a better way to motivate and stick to a goal. Thank you for sharing! I did notice that ulta on January 11th has clinique take the day off balm for $15 (3.8oz) just in case you wanted to grab some. Have a great rest of your week! Happy New Year🥳
Thank you for sharing this! What a different approach to things we want to accomplish! I've printed out the worksheets and I'm going to rewatch the video a couple of times. ❤️❤️❤️
Glad it was helpful!
Bobbie - thank you so much! I'm just now getting a chance to watch this and it was excellent!
Thanks Bobbie. Exactly what I need. My journey to making a better me starts NOW! Happy New Year!!!
Yes and new Year and a new Fay! You are welcome. Happy New Year!
Thank you! What a help this is! Sometimes we know what we need & want but just don’t know where to start with our goals- I love this practical approach! It’s so positive too(one of my goals is to be more conscious about positivity)!
Happy new year & May God bless you & your family in 2020!
I so enjoy your videos and your perspective. This was your best one yet and so timely as I sit here and map out my 2020. I rewrote things based on outcome planning and yes, it looks different and far less daunting.
Thanks for shining a different light on this! I’m excited to try this as having goals just never seemed to work for me. I’m very much stuck in a rut and am eager to have my mindset changed! Btw on another note, in one of your videos’s I believe it was the “What I put in my adult kids stockings” 2018 that you shared a Brilliant idea! You said you bonded with your son by watching all the Marvel Movies in order. My 18 yr old son and I have been doing just that for the past month, so thank you 🥰
That's wonderful! I wish there was another series like that, but we can't come up with one.
1st of all: thanks for the many laughs! I just laughed and laughed! Love your comical but useful approach! Next: I looked at your Outcome Planning worksheet: I think it is great that you wrote an example from start to finish AND provided a blank version!!
I’m so glad it may be helpful to you! You are welcome!
Hi Bobbie! I JUST found your channel browsing youtube. I LOVED this video so I subscribed. I am joining WW this coming Saturday. I am nervous but also excited. I hope to post more videos in 2020.
Thanks for the worksheets!!! 😍
I’m anxious to give this a try!!!
God bless!!!
Oh, I think printing & re-working this worksheet monthly just may be the nudge for permanent change for me.
Thank you💙
You are welcome. I do believe this does need to be reworked on a regular basis. I’m glad I could nudge you in the right direction! 💕
Thank you for sharing this wisdom. I so badly needed to hear this. I'm a believer too. I have those same insecurities that hold me back from things I know that God wants me to do. Pray for me sister! God bless you!
Great Video! I am in the same situation, I lost weight in 2018 and stayed the same for 2019. I am not disappointed because I was able to stop taking my blood pressure medicine in 2019 and proud I could maintain the weight lose. I am now ready to make the effort to start loosing again I started a few days ago because why wait until January 1st. . Good tips! I am going to give them a try. Thank you for sharing and I will be praying for our success!
Genius!! Thanks for the excellent advice and printable. I’m so excited for this new year and new decade.
Don’t you love fresh starts? There’s just so much hope with a new year ahead!
This is such a good way of thinking of goals. I'm going to give it a try. Thanks!
Thanks for the template, Bobbie. I haven't done my WW "why" after a year (-48lbs) because I didn't really get it. I'm going to use the template; it looks so doable, and what you said makes sense. Thanks for getting the ball rolling for me!
This is radically different from the MANY books I have read and strategies I have attempted in order to reach goals. I repeatedly have been puzzled and frustrated by my poor follow-through. I now realize that my thought process was "IF I want to A-B-C then I HAVE TO do X-Y-Z". The IF automatically introduced the possibility that maybe I didn't really want A-B-C. The HAVE TO instantly triggered my passive resistance. I am going to try it your way! Thank you!
It is different but it has worked for me. It’s certainly not fool proof I’m much more likely to work for my outcome. Go for it Malinda!
This comes at the perfect moment for me. Christmas evening I suffered a heart attack along with AFib. I was already in the hospital for another issue when this happened. God was protecting me. Anyway, they were unable to do stents because I have too much blockage and will probably be looking at open heart surgery in the next 2 months. But now!!!! I need to change everything I do..every bit of food I take needs to be for health not pleasure. That's difficult. I believe in miracles so if your faithful supporters would remember me right now i would be grateful. Linda Frazier, 75 year old grandma
Prayer to you Linda!!
Oh Linda, I am so sorry. My heart skipped a beat when I read your comment. Wow, how amazing you were in the hospital already-God is good! I am praying for you and I hope you are able to make the changes necessary. Please take care of yourself.
All, please pray for Linda!!!
Praying for you Linda.
@@MindfulMidlife Thank you so much❤ You are a blessing Bobbie.
Praying for you Linda! God has you in the palm of His hand.
You are beautiful. Thank you. This kind of reminds me of the concept of a vision board where we focus on the desired result.
Thank you so much for this. I have been taking a long hard look at my life, my husband, and our family. We need some major changes. The biggest one, being health. He is scheduled for a heart cath on Friday, and the unknown, is very scary right now. I have found, that youtube, definitely, holds you accountable, and that is a great thing. I appreciate, you taking the time to do this, and you will look super cute in your future leggings!
Nearly Organic Noshing good luck to you guys for Friday
Leslie Molengraaf Thank you! 🙏🏼
Bobbie I am a fairly new listener since Christmas. I was feeling your pain about the how to fill adult children's stockings and you gave me some great ideas, thank you! I really enjoyed this video about goal setting. Could you please do a more detailed one on how you use the GTD method? I am feeling overwhelmed to start but my cousin swears by it. I think you could ease my anxiety! Thank you for your sweet smile and spirit, it lifts my day!! Warmly, Machelle Vaughn
Bobbie, this is brilliant!! Thank you so much for sharing -- and for the printable. I am totally going to try it!
Im going to try this. So thankful for your channel and advice!
Yay! Let me know how it goes!
You are a blessing! Happy New Year!
Such a good point I definitely have been the person to write down WAY TOO MANY goals!!🙈🙈
I'm so grateful to have found your channel. You are so realistic and encouraging. I hope that you are closer to your desired outcome at this point. You give me hope that I can make changes and have the outcomes I want. Thank you!!
You are so right. I started keto in 2018 at 204 pounds in a size 18 and I did have some goals but then I learned that the scale lies so I had to take that off the list. But then my goal was to be in a size 10 by July 2019 and that did not happen. So now my goal is to be attended by this July and it’s doable because I’m only one size away. Thank you for the information
Thank you. This is super helpful. I am going to give this a go. - Jerusha
I am about your height. My weight is in middle. Great tips. Thanks and Happy New Year.
This was awesome! Thank you so much!!
You're so welcome!
Bobbie you’re so hilarious.l am so happy l found your channel.God bless you and your family.Thanks for your great advice. 😍🥰😘❤️
I am crying while watching this. Thank you😊
Thank you for sharing this Bobbie. I have been doing this in my mind too, but this year I’m going to write it down.
This video is uncanny. I've been thinking about this same thing. You've done a marvelous job explaining how to achieve change. I just would like to thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Happy New Year. See you next time.
Great minds!!! Happy New Year!
I love this approach. I'm excited to give it some thought and come up with my outcomes. I love the thought of visualizing vs. some random goal.
Wonderful video Bobbi! I can see this method helping me to attain the home I want but never seem to be able to achieve. It's great for helping me maintain my weight loss but I see it helping me get "unstuck" in other areas of my life. Thank you so much for sharing!
Just wanted to say "Hi"! We worked together many years ago in Colorado and I have thought about you often since then wondering how you're doing. I just found you on here a couple of months ago and it's been fun to see some of your life. Thanks for sharing! Diane
Oh. My. Heart. Wow, that’s a blast from the past. Was this your name then or is this your married name? I loved Horn Creek!
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Thanks!
This is totally off topic, but you look so pretty in this video. I like the lighter hair color; I think it brings out your eye color.
This is wonderful! Thank you.
This is a great perspective and one that I will start using NOW. TODAY. I needed this. I always love your bubbly personality. Thanks you so much for sharing this video!
You are so sweet, love your why answers. Makes more sense. Love the leggings comment. Hope you get to model them for us.💕. Love the color of your hair is it lighter than usual? Looks pretty on you. Please have a happy and healthy New Year, and continue your great videos, so enjoy watching them.
I am a Christian also! I'm very glad I am getting great inspiration from you!
Hi Chari! I'm so glad this inspired you!
Thank you! Your video was very helpful for me. It really helped me to write down the end result and feeling I will have when I reached my goal!