This is good advice. Conflict is inevitable and I like these guidelines for dealing with it when it arises. It makes me feel a little bit less afraid of it.
Lisa Ylot There weren’t enough medical studies on the affects of smoking near children and pregnant women at that time to know it was harmful. Good try at the “oh but he did this”.
@@Saint-Johnn I wasted two hours of my life with a woman who had that attitude. Now she's pissed of at my husband and I because we are refusing to take sides and point out that no one is right, no one is wrong, attitudes towards each other needs to change. She wants us to keep what she says confidential but expects us to tell her what her husband said.
That's usually the case with these vintage things. Honestly the average woman had it pretty good back then. We weren't just pushed around, woman weren't weak. They were strong and stood up for themselves just like Mrs. Adams did here.
“So stupid that I’m in charge of my own department” dayyyummmmmmm got em lol😂😂😂. On a real note I also thought this might be sexist but this was some very sound advice that remains ageless.
Excellent advice..but what do you do when one half of the couple cannot accept true responsibility for saying vicious, cruel, and hurtful things? Who ends up making his wife cry during every argument, and, though he apologizes when it gets to that point, he still denies any wrongdoing and turns it around on his wife, claiming she's too 'weekend's and, when she tries to explain what he said that hurt her, he denied saying it, accused her of putting words in his mouth, and goes on a half hour rant about how she can never shut up and has to have the last word. (If anyone does have a true and helpful comment, please offer it. It will be appreciated by this wife I speak of, I know her well and I've no more ideas or advice for her)
It's worth it when you pick a companion well and get to know each other and how to work with one another. Idk. I see a lot of people say they despise relationships and responsibilities.
How do you avoid conflict in your place of employment? Also it must be nice to never have conflict with your friends, family or whatever community or church group you belong to.
Oluwapolola Lamidi Also divorce was very rare back then but only necessary in the case of abuse, neglect. or drunkenness. Jackie Kennedy is a really good example because President JFK cheated on her all the time, even with Marilyn Monroe. Jackie's only rule though was "Don't embarrass me in public."
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"You're not the ninny, I'm the ninny...!" 😂
Holy cow. The Adams' are actually great actors.
For a five minute clip, the Adams couple had great chemistry. They were adorable. And Mr. Caine was a horse's ass.
Woah. I don’t think I’ve ever saw acting this intricate and good. I’m shocked
The Adams couple is super cute
This is sensible advice for any generation.
This is just not for marital conflicts but every conflict in general.
Mr adams looks like a cross of tom hanks and matthew perry
he sounds like Fred Flintstone
Anne Cabrera He kinda...sounds like Perry too!
Ron Masak. I remember him as Sheriff Metzger on Murder She Wrote.
Tanya Cabrera Yes yes, exactly !!
I recognized him from a ton of old sitcoms but never would have known his name.
my, the adams are great actors
This is actually solid advice
This is good advice. Conflict is inevitable and I like these guidelines for dealing with it when it arises. It makes me feel a little bit less afraid of it.
monica and chandler hahah
Madison Piker hahaha omg it does look like them
I KNEW THEY LOOKED LIKE SOMEONE. IM DEADDDD
Mr. Adams is played by actor Ron Masak (best known for Murder She Wrote).
Thank you so much. I KNEW I knew him from somewhere. :)
It's Mort! I still have all the seasons on CD!!
“...Might be bad for you & the baby” as he smokes his pipe right next to her
Lisa Ylot There weren’t enough medical studies on the affects of smoking near children and pregnant women at that time to know it was harmful. Good try at the “oh but he did this”.
@@Saint-Johnn I wasted two hours of my life with a woman who had that attitude. Now she's pissed of at my husband and I because we are refusing to take sides and point out that no one is right, no one is wrong, attitudes towards each other needs to change. She wants us to keep what she says confidential but expects us to tell her what her husband said.
I thought it was going to be sexist but was actually pretty good advices
That's usually the case with these vintage things. Honestly the average woman had it pretty good back then. We weren't just pushed around, woman weren't weak. They were strong and stood up for themselves just like Mrs. Adams did here.
mr adam looks like chandler...
Im the ninny!
Mrs. Adams reminds me of the mum in Malcolm In The Middle.
Aira Vitash Lois hahahha
YES!!!! Omg!!!
It's that long "horse face" of hers.
Low key all I want is enough money to have a place to live and build my family, and a vehicle to get from point A to point B.
Mr Kayne is demeaning.
“So stupid that I’m in charge of my own department” dayyyummmmmmm got em lol😂😂😂. On a real note I also thought this might be sexist but this was some very sound advice that remains ageless.
this is still good advice. even today
This was actually pretty good
Mrs Adams looks like Amy Winehouse
She is cute and smart.
I was thinking of Rita Moreno. But yeah, now I see it.
Sooo glad we spent the money on Marriage Counselling and took the full 16 sessions instead of being cheap and only taking 8-12.
Yea I woulda slapped tf outta mr Cain when he brought up paying her moms rent
Carly Gardner Yea abuse works both ways
Oh, come on if someone's family gets financial support then that family has to be quiet and accept the decisions of the bread winner.
Actually, this was a good lesson.
Adams are nice.
What's a ninny? ninie? neney? nenney? ninney? nennie? nenie?
A ninny is a foolish person. :)
Thx
Wow! Fantastic advice!
Great, simple advice!
The Adams couple remind me of the couple in Clerks 😂
Excellent advice..but what do you do when one half of the couple cannot accept true responsibility for saying vicious, cruel, and hurtful things? Who ends up making his wife cry during every argument, and, though he apologizes when it gets to that point, he still denies any wrongdoing and turns it around on his wife, claiming she's too 'weekend's and, when she tries to explain what he said that hurt her, he denied saying it, accused her of putting words in his mouth, and goes on a half hour rant about how she can never shut up and has to have the last word. (If anyone does have a true and helpful comment, please offer it. It will be appreciated by this wife I speak of, I know her well and I've no more ideas or advice for her)
Great video!
This shit is so true... this sounds like our fights lol
I think the first couple are reading from cue cards.
Mr Kayne sounds like Mark Consuelos
Thought he sounded like guy from old show playing Felix Unger in "The Odd Couple"
Mrs Adams looks like Sarah Silverman
Very good advice lol.
I hate conflict. Staying single
It's worth it when you pick a companion well and get to know each other and how to work with one another. Idk. I see a lot of people say they despise relationships and responsibilities.
Conflict is how you grow.
Same.
I’m ok with conflict, but so happy by myself. But, I do find more happiness in others relationships. Am I just strange?
How do you avoid conflict in your place of employment? Also it must be nice to never have conflict with your friends, family or whatever community or church group you belong to.
Wow
The Adams look like Ron Livingston and Melissa Rivers kinda!
Maybe if the husband's employers paid their workers a decent wage, there would be a lot more happy marriages. The employers were greedy even then.
Kayne reminds me of my ex >:(
This is why couples stayed together back then
Oluwapolola Lamidi Also divorce was very rare back then but only necessary in the case of abuse, neglect. or drunkenness.
Jackie Kennedy is a really good example because President JFK cheated on her all the time, even with Marilyn Monroe. Jackie's only rule though was "Don't embarrass me in public."
a divorce was not easy to get back then. also not socially acceptable.
Lol my last name is Adams