my coworkers siad this exact thing about why she wanted to have 6 kids!!! so they can take care of her when shes old!!! i almost tripped out!!!! i gave it to her hard about antinatalism!! and she still ignored everything i said just pure evil!!!!!!!!!
@@ozzy2845 My parents are no longer here , I’m the youngest. If there was one question I want to ask them is why did they decide to have me. I’m struggling out here. 🥹
@@UnMisanthropeCynique When I had my kids , I don’t think I was being selfish. For me it was more so I didn’t have the intellect to understand that I wasn’t making a good decision. On top of that I was lied to.
I can't even lie, I really am resentful and even hateful of my parents for bringing me into a world of suffering. This world is built off the idea of slaving our life away for money, being misunderstood, hate/violence, racism, bullying, mental illness, and overall just being abused and/or uncared for. And even the simple act of being emotionally/mentally/psychologically neglected. This is why I am the way I am today. This is why I joined the antinatalism community. I am tired of being mistreated in this dark world, and then told I am the crazy one for reacting to the abuse that the world throws at me. I feel bad for everyone here, because all of us DESERVE better! I am tired of parents not caring, people not caring, nobody cares anymore. Everyone's only out for themselves and then when we feel mentally ill. We're constantly told that it's on "us" to pick up the pieces when someone else broke us. I am sick of it. Then, don't even get me started about the idea of how society is built in a way where we're just wage-slaves and manipulated to be a "good" person. Or to be a "hard worker" or to be a "productive member of society". I am so tired of this. And if we say how we genuinely feel then we get labelled left and right with all these hurtful words and it only hurts us further. Then, we wake up every single day with the realization that we can't do what we love. We have to waste SO MUCH of our time to do things that we don't even want to do. How can I support a life like that? This is ridiculous. Then parents don't even want us to be ourselves, our parents want us to be just like them. They don't want us to be individuals, they only got us for their own benefit. Not for our benefit. They are extremely selfish.
exactly. the ironic thing is that society virtue signals for better mental health but if you admit you have struggles, you are invalidated and told to “get over yourself”. People are disgusting.
I agree. It’s a cold world. You come to the realization that you only have your self in this world so then you go into some type of survival mode. I feel sorry for these kiddos .😓
I had a talk with my parents the other night. I told them they were selfish and they were only thinking about their own happiness when they had me. They felt bad. I don't feel bad about it. It's the truth. I've never been a bad child, actually I've always been the typical trophy child (cute looking, talented, sporty, clever, "friendly"). I realized my mom has been toxic with me since my childhood, sometimes she even blames me for her suffering and expects me to be her emotional caretaker. It has been this way since I was a child. I always fell for it, felt guilty, took the responsability and the blame. Not anymore. I'm done with the bullshit. Enough with other people; I need to be compassionate with myself. I'm sorry if what I'm going to say offends anyone (actually I'm not), but every time I suffer I remember my parents and their stupid and selfish decision to bring me here.
It’s good that you have your awareness early and that you got a chance to tell your parents all that was bothering you. My parents are not here anymore. I wish I had awareness instilled in me early . I’m struggling here.😭
Kids are expensive You have to feed them You have to constantly monitor them You have to take them to school pick them up. There’s lots more , but you may end up becoming a single parent because the other parent decided to cheat or simply go their own way. It’s a messed up world. If I can help someone else out from not having children I would do my very best. My situation is a perfect example as of to why not to have children too.
I don't want to blame my parents for my existence, but at the same time I sometimes think it would be better if I never existed at all, because I always think I'm too effed up to exist.
Yeah this is a great video, I love watching these videos where people just talk nothing but the truth. It inspires and motivates me to go further with trying to find out the truth to this existence that we're all living in.
Blame the system, the system/society makes people a certain way, bad parents are simply a product of the world they live in, it is like an endless cycle, everything around you that happens, is a reaction to a previous reaction to another reaction and so on, nobody is born a bad parent, it is a learned behaviour and tends to stem from misery and such.
well no the system is the result of the people maintaining it and that include every single humans that are part of that society so no excuses if they wanted to do better they would've done so years ago.
don't sugar coat it society is rotten as well, and no the best choice will always be to never have a child regardless because you can't control anything, and even if you taught your child properly it doesn't mean that they will not mess up nor that they will end up being "usefull" for society.
It is reprehensible that someone would choose to create a human being simply because they 'want to have kids'. Suffering and danger are not a gamble - they're guaranteed. A multiple-stabbing incident just took place in England, resulting in the deaths of three children (so far) and critical injuries of five others. It's a horrible thing, of course, but so too is withering away in agony in a hospice at the age of eighty. Something will get everyone eventually, and every parent has approved their offspring's pain.
You absolutely can blame parents. The system doesn’t shoulder all the responsibility of harm to humans. If you are poor you shouldn’t have sex. You should be focused on not being in poverty. If you are poor you definitely shouldn’t be intentionally trying to have kids. That’s planned child abuse. 😢
My father is 70 plus years old and he is still a selfish individual that only cares about himself even though he neglected his children many years ago. He doesn't understand the impact that it had on his children lives. I mentioned this to him and he became very defensive and he didn't even want to be around me for a while because I was speaking the truth. I hold no grudges against him but these are the type of people that should not have kids. One day he will get his wake up call. Stay motivated 💪🙏🏾.
My parents suck but i dont regret being born. I make the best of life. I work on imporving myself and making my life and the lives of people around me better. Thats why we should bring children to the world. To make it better.
We can try to make it better , but if life won’t allow us to make it better how do we do that? Especially for my race, as a African American. We get labeled criminals as soon as we speak. You HAVE to take those type of things into consideration before agreeing that we should bring children here. Some people are MORE privileged than others. Kids don’t deserve to grow up wondering things we have no answers for.
I think the worst toxic involvement I am/was in are relationships, not the substances. If you don't know how you can emotionally/physically survive on your own without someone, even if some elements of it are actually too crazy for u to handle, you are trapped in a dependent misery.
Yes, I argue with my parents about that and the rest. They didn’t care about me properly, they were selfish, abusive, didn’t give proper love and care, they used gaslighting to blame me about the stuff that they did total hipocrysy it was a nightmare durning childhood. I broke my relationship with dad because he was the biggest selfish hipocit and my mum probably too cause she always defend him. Yes this planet is full of suffering and some entities take on energy from this low vibrant emotions evil archons or how we can name it but there’s also spark of good god in our hearts we have to discover it and search in the process of evolution our consciousness.
The main problem of society is that there are no laws that state or limit people wanting to have children. Everyone has the "right" to have children whether society is fit for children or whether the children are healthy or sick.
That’s exactly what the main problem is… It reminds me of something I learned about , I think it was China in school was that they were only able to have 1 child. We need rules like that to help us really understand what life is about.
I want you all to think about this question. While watching a video on RUclips, I came across an anesthesia video. It was a comedy video. But something particularly caught my attention. They were under an effect like being between sleep and wakefulness and were not fully aware of their surroundings. Some of them did not recognize their mothers or friends, and some had no idea where they were. The reason it was funny was that they were speaking completely from their subconscious. In other words, it was as if awareness was not yet active. Since they were speaking from their subconscious, that is, under a dream-like effect, they could neither recognize their surroundings nor fully comprehend the situation. At that moment, I immediately understood that maybe our inability to fully understand this material reality is a metaphorically similar situation. Since the subconscious mind is the background program, it does not matter what is there. Because even a movie you watch can affect your subconscious and make you say nonsense. What really matters is your real self, which is there when you have completely overcome the material mind, subconscious nonsense and its effect. Do you think that real self could be in the same situation here while experiencing this material reality? Think of waking up and increasing awareness as the effects of anesthesia wearing off. Maybe that's why we can't know exactly what this reality is while we're here. Those who were watching the conversations of people under anesthesia were laughing at them. They were saying, you're going to laugh a lot while watching this video. As your awareness increases, think about how you felt when you thought this circus was real. Or when you were fully awake and watching these situations. My question is: what do you think about this, do you think people's and your situation resemble such a situation? Think about it a little, even watch a few videos and then write in the comments.
We were raised in an abusive, violent and dysfunctional household. Then my fathers friend ended up m__dering my father. After that my mother went on to have a romantic relationship with the k_ller. Then it was a string of abusive and viloent partners of my mother who messed us up throughout the years. True story! Great role models, upbringing and guidance huh?! Thank you for touching on these topics bro.
My indian neighbors have 2 young kids and yet they have the nerve to constantly fight and argue loudly over their marriage and issues.... These poor kids if they already hadn't it worse with having strict upbringing and parents yikes 💀 Once they are 18 they will never look back and see them again I believe LMAO
That’s the thing. They’ve come to realization late. Nothing last forever , not love , not marriages as least not here on this earth. It’s a sad reality.
Being a people pleaser is not a solution. The problem is people aren’t being raised healthily and intelligently to honor individual and collective harmony.
DeadMF if I told you my story about how tf I got pregnant you would be in shock!! You gotta be careful out here and STAY to yourself because these kids don’t deserve NONE of this!!!
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Most parents dont give a damn about their kid, they just want someone to take care of them when they are old.
And to take shame out of their eyes by reproducing, proving that they are not barren
I certainly wont do that lol
I love my parents but thankfully I got 4 more younger siblings, who will take care of that somehow 😂
@ozzy2845 They are disgusting.
my coworkers siad this exact thing about why she wanted to have 6 kids!!! so they can take care of her when shes old!!! i almost tripped out!!!! i gave it to her hard about antinatalism!! and she still ignored everything i said just pure evil!!!!!!!!!
@@ozzy2845 My parents are no longer here , I’m the youngest. If there was one question I want to ask them is why did they decide to have me. I’m struggling out here. 🥹
parents are the root of all our suffering its their fault
Facts i hate parents.
I absolutely cannot IMAGINE bringing another soul into this realm
Get a life you cause your own suffering by choosing to not break the cycle is your doing that makes you miserable
“Directly after copulation, the devil’s laughter is heard.” - Arthur Schopenhauer
Yep, after trapping people into a wicked system.
Having a kid is evil man
Most parents don't even really know themselves.
So true. But it’s mainly because of the brainwashing & illusions we have.
Parents are just selfish bastards
@@UnMisanthropeCynique When I had my kids , I don’t think I was being selfish. For me it was more so I didn’t have the intellect to understand that I wasn’t making a good decision. On top of that I was lied to.
I can't even lie, I really am resentful and even hateful of my parents for bringing me into a world of suffering. This world is built off the idea of slaving our life away for money, being misunderstood, hate/violence, racism, bullying, mental illness, and overall just being abused and/or uncared for. And even the simple act of being emotionally/mentally/psychologically neglected. This is why I am the way I am today. This is why I joined the antinatalism community. I am tired of being mistreated in this dark world, and then told I am the crazy one for reacting to the abuse that the world throws at me. I feel bad for everyone here, because all of us DESERVE better!
I am tired of parents not caring, people not caring, nobody cares anymore. Everyone's only out for themselves and then when we feel mentally ill. We're constantly told that it's on "us" to pick up the pieces when someone else broke us. I am sick of it.
Then, don't even get me started about the idea of how society is built in a way where we're just wage-slaves and manipulated to be a "good" person. Or to be a "hard worker" or to be a "productive member of society". I am so tired of this. And if we say how we genuinely feel then we get labelled left and right with all these hurtful words and it only hurts us further. Then, we wake up every single day with the realization that we can't do what we love. We have to waste SO MUCH of our time to do things that we don't even want to do. How can I support a life like that? This is ridiculous.
Then parents don't even want us to be ourselves, our parents want us to be just like them. They don't want us to be individuals, they only got us for their own benefit. Not for our benefit. They are extremely selfish.
Come eree honey bun🫂♥️ you spittn facts on top of facts society and whatever this creator created disgust me
Well said! 💯
exactly. the ironic thing is that society virtue signals for better mental health but if you admit you have struggles, you are invalidated and told to “get over yourself”. People are disgusting.
You are so right in every aspect.
I agree 💯 I'm tired of this sick world being a wage slave, selling my soul to some stupid job when I'm just gonna be in a grave one day.
this was such a great topic... parents set up kids for failure if the parents havent left the rat race
I agree. It’s a cold world. You come to the realization that you only have your self in this world so then you go into some type of survival mode. I feel sorry for these kiddos .😓
@@marahthonmeeh9625 its so sad just for selfish reasons
I had a talk with my parents the other night. I told them they were selfish and they were only thinking about their own happiness when they had me.
They felt bad.
I don't feel bad about it. It's the truth.
I've never been a bad child, actually I've always been the typical trophy child (cute looking, talented, sporty, clever, "friendly"). I realized my mom has been toxic with me since my childhood, sometimes she even blames me for her suffering and expects me to be her emotional caretaker.
It has been this way since I was a child.
I always fell for it, felt guilty, took the responsability and the blame. Not anymore. I'm done with the bullshit.
Enough with other people; I need to be compassionate with myself.
I'm sorry if what I'm going to say offends anyone (actually I'm not), but every time I suffer I remember my parents and their stupid and selfish decision to bring me here.
Very relatable
You are just honest in a world who can't cope with it.
Same, I know what you mean. I also have a toxic mother.
It’s good that you have your awareness early and that you got a chance to tell your parents all that was bothering you. My parents are not here anymore. I wish I had awareness instilled in me early . I’m struggling here.😭
@@stefanegstrup3145 I feel like you truly get me. Thanks for your words. Sending love💯
That's the first blame i exist because my parents.... So agreed
Kids are expensive
You have to feed them
You have to constantly monitor them
You have to take them to school pick them up. There’s lots more , but you may end up becoming a single parent because the other parent decided to cheat or simply go their own way. It’s a messed up world. If I can help someone else out from not having children I would do my very best. My situation is a perfect example as of to why not to have children too.
They sheltered me to see me suffer in adulthood, bossed me around and gaslit me
Keep preaching the TRUTH
Always
I don't want to blame my parents for my existence, but at the same time I sometimes think it would be better if I never existed at all, because I always think I'm too effed up to exist.
Me to your not alone. The meaning of life is to suffer I now feel. And to live every moment till we are called back
Called back where just to reincarnated again@@TyTy-oy7fi
This world is rotten through and through.
Bringing children into a dystopian system is totally bizarre, ignorant, and selfish way beyond my ability to comprehend. It's absolutely wild.
Always good job Buddy 👌🏼
I also make content about antinatalism, this life, mental health and stuff.. 😉
Yeah this is a great video, I love watching these videos where people just talk nothing but the truth. It inspires and motivates me to go further with trying to find out the truth to this existence that we're all living in.
Blame the system, the system/society makes people a certain way, bad parents are simply a product of the world they live in, it is like an endless cycle, everything around you that happens, is a reaction to a previous reaction to another reaction and so on, nobody is born a bad parent, it is a learned behaviour and tends to stem from misery and such.
Exact, this is a more accurate view
well no the system is the result of the people maintaining it and that include every single humans that are part of that society so no excuses if they wanted to do better they would've done so years ago.
“Do you want a taste”??? Wtf lmao 😂
You a real brother. You be speaking a lot of things about my life.And my life experiencess. I am glad. That I have found your channel
don't sugar coat it society is rotten as well, and no the best choice will always be to never have a child regardless because you can't control anything, and even if you taught your child properly it doesn't mean that they will not mess up nor that they will end up being "usefull" for society.
Came across on my Facebook newsfeed that a girl on Tiktok was planning to sue her parents for bringing her here lol.
damn that was deep. topics noone really covers.
so deep and also being financial stable so the kids have something to fall back on
@@VicDamoneJr82 Life is BS.
People who think it's just providing food and medicine should just get a pet, seriously!
It is reprehensible that someone would choose to create a human being simply because they 'want to have kids'. Suffering and danger are not a gamble - they're guaranteed.
A multiple-stabbing incident just took place in England, resulting in the deaths of three children (so far) and critical injuries of five others. It's a horrible thing, of course, but so too is withering away in agony in a hospice at the age of eighty.
Something will get everyone eventually, and every parent has approved their offspring's pain.
The reality of the crazy world we live in. Unfortunately, some of us come to this realization TOO LATE. 😭
You absolutely can blame parents.
The system doesn’t shoulder all the responsibility of harm to humans.
If you are poor you shouldn’t have sex. You should be focused on not being in poverty.
If you are poor you definitely shouldn’t be intentionally trying to have kids. That’s planned child abuse. 😢
My father is 70 plus years old and he is still a selfish individual that only cares about himself even though he neglected his children many years ago. He doesn't understand the impact that it had on his children lives. I mentioned this to him and he became very defensive and he didn't even want to be around me for a while because I was speaking the truth. I hold no grudges against him but these are the type of people that should not have kids. One day he will get his wake up call. Stay motivated 💪🙏🏾.
Parents suck.
My parents suck but i dont regret being born.
I make the best of life.
I work on imporving myself and making my life and the lives of people around me better.
Thats why we should bring children to the world.
To make it better.
We can try to make it better , but if life won’t allow us to make it better how do we do that? Especially for my race, as a African American. We get labeled criminals as soon as we speak. You HAVE to take those type of things into consideration before agreeing that we should bring children here. Some people are MORE privileged than others. Kids don’t deserve to grow up wondering things we have no answers for.
I think the worst toxic involvement I am/was in are relationships, not the substances. If you don't know how you can emotionally/physically survive on your own without someone, even if some elements of it are actually too crazy for u to handle, you are trapped in a dependent misery.
Exactly.
PREACH 🗣🗣💥
Yes, I argue with my parents about that and the rest. They didn’t care about me properly, they were selfish, abusive, didn’t give proper love and care, they used gaslighting to blame me about the stuff that they did total hipocrysy it was a nightmare durning childhood. I broke my relationship with dad because he was the biggest selfish hipocit and my mum probably too cause she always defend him. Yes this planet is full of suffering and some entities take on energy from this low vibrant emotions evil archons or how we can name it but there’s also spark of good god in our hearts we have to discover it and search in the process of evolution our consciousness.
The main problem of society is that there are no laws that state or limit people wanting to have children.
Everyone has the "right" to have children whether society is fit for children or whether the children are healthy or sick.
That’s exactly what the main problem is… It reminds me of something I learned about , I think it was China in school was that they were only able to have 1 child. We need rules like that to help us really understand what life is about.
@@marahthonmeeh9625 Agree.
I want you all to think about this question. While watching a video on RUclips, I came across an anesthesia video. It was a comedy video. But something particularly caught my attention. They were under an effect like being between sleep and wakefulness and were not fully aware of their surroundings. Some of them did not recognize their mothers or friends, and some had no idea where they were. The reason it was funny was that they were speaking completely from their subconscious. In other words, it was as if awareness was not yet active. Since they were speaking from their subconscious, that is, under a dream-like effect, they could neither recognize their surroundings nor fully comprehend the situation. At that moment, I immediately understood that maybe our inability to fully understand this material reality is a metaphorically similar situation. Since the subconscious mind is the background program, it does not matter what is there. Because even a movie you watch can affect your subconscious and make you say nonsense. What really matters is your real self, which is there when you have completely overcome the material mind, subconscious nonsense and its effect. Do you think that real self could be in the same situation here while experiencing this material reality? Think of waking up and increasing awareness as the effects of anesthesia wearing off. Maybe that's why we can't know exactly what this reality is while we're here. Those who were watching the conversations of people under anesthesia were laughing at them. They were saying, you're going to laugh a lot while watching this video. As your awareness increases, think about how you felt when you thought this circus was real. Or when you were fully awake and watching these situations. My question is: what do you think about this, do you think people's and your situation resemble such a situation? Think about it a little, even watch a few videos and then write in the comments.
We were raised in an abusive, violent and dysfunctional household. Then my fathers friend ended up m__dering my father. After that my mother went on to have a romantic relationship with the k_ller. Then it was a string of abusive and viloent partners of my mother who messed us up throughout the years. True story! Great role models, upbringing and guidance huh?! Thank you for touching on these topics bro.
Im sorry to hear that 🥲
i was just thinking of something like this and when i opened youtube i found you uploaded this lol
Thanks for sharing
Everyone screwing everyone over but we forget we are all one there is only love. But not on earth
Dmf love you xx
What you think about puck off backpack and fly to warm country and walk behind yourself without end?
wut u tink bout lemon shoe with go fast he to above?
My indian neighbors have 2 young kids and yet they have the nerve to constantly fight and argue loudly over their marriage and issues....
These poor kids if they already hadn't it worse with having strict upbringing and parents yikes 💀
Once they are 18 they will never look back and see them again I believe LMAO
All breeder never regret for their stupidness lol
@simonshura9144 The Indians are poor.
That’s the thing. They’ve come to realization late. Nothing last forever , not love , not marriages as least not here on this earth. It’s a sad reality.
Being a people pleaser is not a solution. The problem is people aren’t being raised healthily and intelligently to honor individual and collective harmony.
We are not doing good
Lol just when we had the discussion on insta😂
To be fair, when I had kids I was still wrapped in the mind games of society. I didn't realise that having kids was not fair to them.
Which part of Africa are u from love ur accent 💜
South Africa ❤️
I think they deleted the comment about abortion. Why won’t they let us have these open conversations?
I Think they just automatically mute out certain words which are deemed explicit or offensive.
@@theprisoncalledlife Yeah to keep us from speaking our truths.
It’s also crazy , because I was a premature baby!! But I didn’t know this until I turned 32 🙇🏾♀️. 😥
Periodddd
Best video yet. Thanks MF
@@JohnSixteenTwentyFour ❤️
DeadMF if I told you my story about how tf I got pregnant you would be in shock!! You gotta be careful out here and STAY to yourself because these kids don’t deserve NONE of this!!!
😳I would like to hear that