Itu bukan tentang kamu, itu tentang saya, itu tentang kita. Jadi, mana yang benar, tentang saya, kamu, atau kita? Wanita itu yang melakukan kesalahan, tapi mengajak suaminya untuk terapi. Sungguh wanita yang tidak memiliki otak. Saya yakin banyak wanita yang seperti itu. Wanita yang selingkuh, wanita yang berbuat salah, wanita yang malah menyalahkan suaminya, wanita yang tidak ingin berpisah, wanita yang malah ingin bersama-sama melakukan konseling. Istri seperti itu harusnya dikutuk agar cepat mati.
I am thinking like is therapy a way to keep cheats happy by coercing the other to stay with the cheats and in turn providing them with the confidence to keep cheating.
Can confirm, high school sweetheart after 10 years and two kids cheated on me. I forgave and another year later she left me for someone else. Once that trust is broken, even if it was for a good reason it will always be broken
Bro, just forget about women and the distractions in life and focus on praying to God and look after your afterlife. I ve been there in that same position and was a complete fool and lost a lot of my life and time for nothing. Nothing in this life is worth anything. Just focus on pleasing God. I hope God will guide you to the right path.
Does telling them fix everything? "Oh I cheated but that's ok I'm telling you. Btw I'm going to again tomorrow, see how nice I am telling you in advance."
I think he was step dad so and not very close to him so that's why she kept secret.. But she 100% feel sorry for dad and didn't like or forgive mother.. That's why she bring that up
That's not his daughter, funny thing is she cheated on her husband with this guy then cheated on him again with another guy. My one criticism about this show is how they handled this. The guy should have left her. But instead he married her. It was so weak.
@@Musikloveful I'm not saying isn't messed up. But what I'm saying is that this should have been this guy's wake up call. Their entire relationship started with her cheating on her husband with him. No matter what, that will always be a part of how they got together. The daughter knew and kept it a secret because this guy clearly wasn't seen like a father to her. So that scene where he says he considers her his daughter is a joke, because she clearly didn't feel the same way. The wife obviously didn't respect him. So leaving would have been the right move. But the writers...for some reason decided to have this idiot take her back and then marry her. The second season is such a let down compared to the first because the they clearly were playing favorites. Like the father who got cheated on then remarried, he girl he marries ends up leaving him for no real reason and then she becomes friends with the other girls. I loved the first season but man, the bias in the writers room was in full swing the second season.
"This isn't about you." You should have no agency. "This is about me." I should have all the say. "This is about us." But you should share in the blame. "We should get therapy." I'd like you to pay to have another woman (likely) help me convince you to not make me face consequences for my own freely chosen actions. "I need to know what you are thinking." I have no empathy, so I need you to feed me intel that will help me manipulate you. *The tears start only when the consequences become permanent*
If the daughter was narcissistic she would have told you.. and you certainly didn't watch the clip to the end. Sex is sex, but dishonesty is the end of every relationship
I wouldn’t blame her. It’s super hard for a kid to be in that position. Especially because it might lead to separation which is the last thing any kid wants.
@aguywithalotofopinions412 they can't understand. Once a kid was judged so hard they confessed their mothers cheating and now they're in a horrible position. The people who judged them forgot about them. I still remember the username and check on them
B.S. that daughter was just as self centered as the mom, and didn't respect him. She wouldn't respect any relationship in the future and would justify cheating, like the mom, for her own station, amusement, and opportunity. If she felt any guilt about hiding it from her step dad, she wouldn't have been so nonchalant in her reaction.
@@jasondominick5773 erm, what would you expect for an reaction? And always remind yourself that children try to be very loyal to their parents in such situations. It would have be lose-lose scenario for the daughter.
After growing up and knowing some unfaithful people I can tell you cheating is a series of choices never an accident. If I were this dude I would be gone so fast. No Trust...No Relationship. PERIOD!
Yeah, there's a big push in academia right now to try and "prove" that cheating is a mistake/accident somehow. Mostly, it revolves around reframing the definition of words because there's no legit way to even imply it's a mistake.
@johnowen9349 what they do is say that the action of cheating is different than the aftermath that follows. So they'll say the hurt you cause someone is an accident
My father was a serial cheater......my mom took him back because she wanted us kids to have a normal upbringing.......she didn't know until i was 35 that i had known everything since i was 9 and they had a blowout.....my sister didn't i did......and it definitly twusted my perspective of my father and made me a person willing to go to war for my mother. My father finally up and left us one day a week before i started my sophmore year of college....cleared the account a week ahead of rent and came back with his tail between his legs 2 weeks later. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I ended up pretty much raising my younger sister up through high school and college with my mom. My 20's were not a funtime i was a hateful, angry young man.......until i met my wife and thwn finally when i had my own child. Cheaters have a special hate in my heart......cause you hurt EVERYONE for a few minutes of pleasure.
@@Douglas-jn7bjwhat a bunch of BS. I spent time in academia in college and post college......academics are some of the most filthy, immoral, degenerates i have ever met in my life. The lab i worked at had a couch in one of the lofts for employees to "take a break".......one of our managers hit on anything with a hangdown, and our technical writer literally hit on me at the company christmas party 5 feet from wife......the wife i had just married 2 months prior......there was not a single happy marriage in that place except mine and honestly the best thing that ever happened to me in my life was getting laid off. I was salaried working 80 hours weeks and i could tell my wife was getting suspicious of my pretty much mandatory overtime on saturday and sunday which go from 4 -8 hours.......not because of anything illicit......but just cause the POS machines would spring leaks like a frigging looney tunes cartoon. I believe if i stayed there i would have had a breakdown or a divorce....or both......and the pay was crap.
Yes.. She only care about she get caught.. I mean i personally have little respect for people.. For forgiving or acceptable but little respect for people who cheats.. Did mistake due to any reason but they later tell their partner.. Did kept them in dark delusional that their partner is faithful.. Take accountability of their actions.. But people like this are evil.. It's literally far worse then cheating to never tell them about your infilidty.. Atleast respect enough your partner they deserve to know that truth..
They rarely do. Their only remorse is the split second they realize that everything they've built together is now gone. Sure, she would ultimately get half. Unless she gets insane alimony, etc she'll be struggling. How many single mothers do you see thriving in the world. Very, very few.
If you look closely, the actor's hands and voice are shaking as he’s about to end the relationship. It's a great detail that adds realism to the scene.
That’s because he’s so furious that he’s almost afraid at what his own reaction to her betrayal will be. If she had come to him trying to blame him in some way there may have been a different outcome, although she tried to cry and get his sympathy and he then knew it was time to walk away as quickly as possible.
A buddy of mine has a buddy who’s in the armed forces. He got married, came home to his family and they had a baby. A few months after she was born he had her tested and found out the baby wasn’t his. She cheated while he was away and said it was his. Had no intentions to tell him, but only did it cause his relative told him to be sure since he was away.
He's a fantastic actor. Out of all of the scenes like this, he gets the controlled rage, confusion, and disbelief perfect. This is the only scene where I can see shaking hands. He does it so believably it actually seems like a subconscious bodily reaction to the stress and emotion the situation brings on and he does it masterfully. Bravo Adam Scott.
"Can't fathom what I've done." She didn't tell him for over a year. She wasn't going to tell him the next day. She was never going to tell him. She liked getting away with it. Any shame or guilt she's expressing is only for getting caught. My ex-wife acts the same way.
Don't feel bad for she's a narcissist and she knows what she did was wrong but she just doesn't feel anything bad about it right now she is feeling bad because she doesn't have a control on the situation
And goes to therapy 😂 Why would husband go to therapy she is the one who cheats And even worse hiding it.. If he never heard he would never know.. That's so bad..
@@danielkalloo3834 I love the criticism- as I truly deserve it. I don't love your lack of appropriate punctuation, but shall invite you to my party nonetheless.
@@melissachartres3219found the overweight sassy English teacher who gets pumped and dumped guys. We are not your student lady, correcting us does nothing it’s social media you goof.
There is no excuse for cheating, sexually or emotionally. Not happy in a relationship, talk to your partner, can't fix it, get a divorce. No cheating ia not a option, that is where I draw the line.
getting a divorce is the same as cheating, you are betraying your commitment to the other and you swore in front of your peers and relatives to only let death part you... what makes this funny is as you are going to cheat upfront and betray your commitment, you are somehow better than this character lol.. how amusing
She is not sorry she cheated she is only sorry she got caught. If a woman ever cheats on you it means conclusively she does not respect you as a man, always leave 100%.
This is genuine curiosity, so don’t take it as like a “gotcha” thing; what if the guy cheated? Would you also consider that a lack of respect? The reason I ask is I find the specification “if a woman cheats…” very interesting. I would imagine if anyone cheats, it’s a sign of disrespect. However, I suspect for you that only applies to women, hence my question.
@@kingcal52 Women have to be in their feelings and emotions to be with a guy or another guy if already got a partner, example if a girl is truly into her man then all other men are invisible, so if she is looking elsewhere then you are a place holder till she monkey branches, and she is definitely giving her best to another man if she is cheating, hence why when most women cheat they give their best to the man she is cheating with (dirty sex and attention for example), same for when a women is even seeking sexual attention from other men (emotional cheating). This is not the same for men biologically and phycological, we can love are woman and even be ready to die at a moments notice for them but we always want to be with other women sexually, hence why porn is so popular with men rather than women, we are not the same. A man can sleep with another women completely void of emotions and attachment, something women find very hard to understand as they rarely have true empathy for the male experience and only see the world through their own lens. Not sat=ying a man can just cheat if married, but if a man does 99% of the time it is void of real emotion and the guy does not give a dame about her, but a women 99% of the time requires emotional investment and arousal with a man to have sex, and if she doesn't then she should not be your partner in the first place And if a women can genuinely have sex emotionally detached then that is a parade of red flags and probably means she has lost the ability to healthily pair bond with a partner. Men and women are different, are made differently and view the world differently, ying and the yang, we are opposites. In short, men look for quantity but will often consolidate on one main girl for long term. Women look for security and stability from one man most of the time. Men look for replication value Women look for security value Hence why when a woman is dating a man and he finds out what you do he will appease her ego investments to get laid. If she is a boss babe and likes girl nights out he will say he likes a woman who goes and gets it and like having fun. If a woman says she still lives at home with her parents and likes to paint paintings, bread dogs and have a family of her own as a priority, the man will say that is awesome too and take necessary action. But I leave it to you which one the man will be taking more seriously most of the time after he gets what he wants.
@@kingcal52A lot of the guys are giving this advise to other guys from their own personal experiences, but if a guy cheats on you dump his ass too. Question back to you though…. Why bring that into it? If the genders in the clip were reversed and a bunch of women were dog piling in comments over it and someone popped in with your question what do you think the responses would be? If you’re really interested in what the opinion on that is why not find a clip of a husband cheating on his wife and read those comments instead of asking the question here?
It was his step-daughter - the amount of time, energy and resources that you pour into a child that isn't yours, only to find out that they've both deceived you is crazy.
What obligation did she have to tell him anything? She's not his biological father, so she feels no loyalty to him. If the mother was cheating with the biological father, that would be all the more reason for the daughter to keep quiet.
@fudgematthew33 Because he takes care of her, that's why. The idea that you would allow your parent to knowingly disrupt the stability you have is crazy. I mean, she got your stepdad looking stupid as hell and you smiling in his face everyday is fucked up.
@@BobaDavis and she could turn around and say, "Who asked you to do all that? I had nothing to do with my parents breaking up and my mother dating you. Other kids have their own parents. Why can't I have mine?" Take it from someone who's been there - nobody's more ungrateful than a single mother and her kids.
Accountability is kryptonite for many people. Important to remember that this is staged, acting onscreen- but that people who dodge accountability are very real.
The worst part about it is that he didn't broke up with her. He gaved her a second chance and stayed with her just a few episodes latter. Great actor btw, but his character is total simp lol.
See, that's a brilliant take, friend. The character he plays and the actor are two different people. I may not have liked the new Star Wars trilogy, but I watched Daisy Ridley and John Boyega and Adam Driver and Oscar Isaac all acting their hearts out and doing a damn fine job, all things considered.
with all the std's out there and some that take about 10 yrs to show themselves, which antibiotics might not cure, how the f**k could ya even touch her again
It’s a double standard but it’s true. It’s one of those unfortunate truths we don’t like to talk about. Because everyone knows it’s true but you don’t want to admit it.
Yeah, as bad as cheating is, even if you forgive that, the issues with her being comfortable lying to you is even worse. You can't trust her with money, with your possessions, with your personal info, etc. There is no reason for either party to want to stay together the trust will never come back
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Detox yourself.. If you knew how she feels (free, elated, relieved, lustful for other guys whose only point of attraction is not being you) and what she thinks.. you'd understand that in fact you're in a madmax race to save your soul.. Do it while wounds are fresh.. use pain to your best advantage.. Otherwise you'll become just another batteryto fuel her going forward.
Infidelity is an unforgivable sin in a relationship. Trust is the foundation and if that is broken then so is the relationship. People should never tolerate that sort of behavior and the consequences should be made clear to everyone involved.
This woman reminds me of an aunt who always tells us things and lectures us when things come to her own daughter he makes excuses. Now in 2024 my aunt is getting married again for the 4th time.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
that's a tough situation, and in time your anger towards her may fade, but you cannot stay in that relationship.. there are simply some lines you cannot allow to be crossed.
They're hardwired to want more and different. Every new height of effort you make will become the bare minimum they will accept, every goal post reached will be moved farther away with only minor acknowledgement of your previous effort if any, and then they are the ones done poorly when you either give up or fail to reach the new finish line. Women are easy to understand, we just choose not to as a defense mechanism against despising them.
It's mostly since birth control in about 1960. Women are drowning in their impulses and lack of restriction by either circumstances or moral character.
@@johnowen9349 You say women are simple after giving yourself away as a clear incel. You have absolutely zero clue what you’re talking about lol. You clearly have been eating that red pill stuff up religiously and it’s hilarious
If your girl cheats on you my brother, from one man to another, you ought to leave her! It doesn't mean she's in love with someone else, it does mean she no longer loves you though. In fact a lot of the time (especially in cases where she fucked your brother or whatever) she actually despises you. Be the better man & leave her.
Helpful hint about how to handle this situation, from a couple that had been together for almost 30 years… don’t cheat. Honor your vows. Be a man, be a woman that you can be proud of in 10, 20, 30 years. It really is not all that hard!
Oh dw about the proud part. Most cheaters will stay proud of themselves no matter how much they cheat. Because to them their partner is the problem, not them.
It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. But you walk away, suffer the consequences of splitting everything up and pursue peace of mind without the concern of betrayal. If she did it once (and didn't get caught), she's done it again. WALK.
The audacity that she expects someone to just think that it's not a big problem and she can somehow explain it and he would forgive her as if nothing happened and they will put this behind.
Been there. Upon finding out, I thought I would die then and there. And just watching this scene brings back loads of pain. To my fellow mates who went through this type of heartbreak, I feel you brothers.
When they beg for you to take them back and forgive them...and that fails...they end up blaming YOU. And if you do take them back, they will cheat again. It stings but you have to leave them and cut your losses.
I'm so glad they didn't drag it out. Don't reward someone with a long and happy life as a family if they have gone out of their way to destroy it. Cheating isn't easy. Lying about it for years is one of the hardest things to do. You have to be very purposeful in order to do all of it.
This happens every day to good men because their wives truly believe they are a prize that their husbands would see past her cheating. Divorce is the only option. He needs to go silent on his daughter. She kept her mother’s lie and treated her father like trash.
As soon as the "Its Us" gets thrown out, no matter who said it....That is grounds for a Divorce, because if the "Us" meant anything it wouldnt have happened.
She immediately gaslights him, then tries to deflect responsibility. She never actually admits to making a mistake or regretting it, just that he needs to get over it.
Oh how much i hate cheaters who go the „ i am so sorry, i didn’t mean to, cry cry cry“ route. Either have the balls to tell the person you supposedly love as soon as it happened, or leave them and dint make them doubt the last year. If you have the balls to sleep with someone else besides your partner also have the balla to tell them afterwards or leave them. This is just pathetic, weak and disgusting
I actually saw a study that is cited by experts that claims men cheat more in marriage. The problem was that it relied on the honesty of the men and women participating. Women will carry those lies to the grave. Look at how many men are finding out they raised someone elses child.
Immediately with the tears.. I have everything handled through my lawyer and most likely I wouldnt speak to my daughter either due to her keeping a secret.
Want a joke? I'm from Russia, and I once saw a fairly large group on a social network, mostly a psychologist and her "flock" of women, who were discussing this family couple "Ed and Madeline" (the film, by the way, "Big Little Lies") at a seminar. So, in this group, this film was discussed and cited as an example of "excellent therapy and healthy relationships, where Madeline is an unfortunate victim, and Ed is a good guy, he turned out to be "emotionally" mature enough to accept it. It's scary that now this is considered the norm. As I understand it, a husband is a bronze statue that must endure and swallow any insult.
I completely agree, My experience in America is that men need to accept being emotionally abused as natural consequence of having women in their life, almost as if Women are incapable/ aren't responsible for living as moral or honest creatures with any level of dignity or respect.
Don’t tell a man that you love him when you cheated on him. Liar is what on her face now. And the daughter that keep this from her dad and can talk about it to her mom. Might as well disowned her and move on. This entire family is lost.
So, the daughter knew about it and mentions it that casually because her dad isn’t home, and never thought to tell her dad about it? That man has every right to walk away from the both of them and never look back.
One of my best friends, a woman, had a husband who cheated. She made the mistake of forgiving him, and he cheated again. Then they went through a divorce, but thankfully she has a good husband and is happily married. She told me to never give a cheater a second chance.
I always find it funny how mad people get when the person they cheated on finds out😂. How dare you be upset about this hurtful thing i did to you and got over
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"I Cheated on you, so now both of us need to go to therapy!" 😂
movie title please?
It's easier to gaslight a guy into accepting the unacceptable when you have professional help.
@@iwankenjoy9572 Big little lies
Itu bukan tentang kamu, itu tentang saya, itu tentang kita.
Jadi, mana yang benar, tentang saya, kamu, atau kita?
Wanita itu yang melakukan kesalahan, tapi mengajak suaminya untuk terapi.
Sungguh wanita yang tidak memiliki otak.
Saya yakin banyak wanita yang seperti itu.
Wanita yang selingkuh, wanita yang berbuat salah, wanita yang malah menyalahkan suaminya, wanita yang tidak ingin berpisah, wanita yang malah ingin bersama-sama melakukan konseling.
Istri seperti itu harusnya dikutuk agar cepat mati.
I am thinking like is therapy a way to keep cheats happy by coercing the other to stay with the cheats and in turn providing them with the confidence to keep cheating.
If this ever happens to you, drop her instantly. She doesn't respect you, she never will and she will cheat again.
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I should have listen to people after my girlfriend did that to me. After all said and done 2 weeks later she was f**king him again.
@@billyhill727 first time it happened to me I was willing to keep her as well. Tough lesson.
Can confirm, high school sweetheart after 10 years and two kids cheated on me. I forgave and another year later she left me for someone else. Once that trust is broken, even if it was for a good reason it will always be broken
Bro, just forget about women and the distractions in life and focus on praying to God and look after your afterlife.
I ve been there in that same position and was a complete fool and lost a lot of my life and time for nothing.
Nothing in this life is worth anything.
Just focus on pleasing God.
I hope God will guide you to the right path.
"to get my ears checked..." Just a perfect line
Like that line just blew me away lol
It's OBVIOUSLY his fault somehow.
What's the movie name?
I don’t think anyone can be this witty IRL in a similar moment. That’s soul crushing. Your mind is not there at that moment.
@@auntiesemite9295 Only after the therapist tells him so.
She would have NEVER told him. and his daughter would have kept it a secret too. so disgusting.
Oh yeah, I would have been even angrier at the kid. He was getting zero return for loving her, she's the one who owed him the most.
Does telling them fix everything? "Oh I cheated but that's ok I'm telling you. Btw I'm going to again tomorrow, see how nice I am telling you in advance."
@@acehawk8458 It's more respectable than them trying to keep it hidden forever. It could at least be amicable at that point.
Her daughter will also learn it from her mother and she will cheat as well. She is probably cheating on her boyfriend already
Drop them both out of your life.
The daughter kept that from him is another red flag, guess she learned it from her mother
I think he was step dad so and not very close to him so that's why she kept secret..
But she 100% feel sorry for dad and didn't like or forgive mother.. That's why she bring that up
That's not his daughter, funny thing is she cheated on her husband with this guy then cheated on him again with another guy. My one criticism about this show is how they handled this. The guy should have left her. But instead he married her. It was so weak.
@@masterDarts4188 i know its not his daughter but mothers daughter, so it still messed up
@@Musikloveful I'm not saying isn't messed up. But what I'm saying is that this should have been this guy's wake up call. Their entire relationship started with her cheating on her husband with him. No matter what, that will always be a part of how they got together. The daughter knew and kept it a secret because this guy clearly wasn't seen like a father to her. So that scene where he says he considers her his daughter is a joke, because she clearly didn't feel the same way.
The wife obviously didn't respect him. So leaving would have been the right move. But the writers...for some reason decided to have this idiot take her back and then marry her.
The second season is such a let down compared to the first because the they clearly were playing favorites.
Like the father who got cheated on then remarried, he girl he marries ends up leaving him for no real reason and then she becomes friends with the other girls.
I loved the first season but man, the bias in the writers room was in full swing the second season.
@@masterDarts4188 are series now trying to justified cheating especially women I seen many tv show that justified this action
"This isn't about you."
You should have no agency.
"This is about me."
I should have all the say.
"This is about us."
But you should share in the blame.
"We should get therapy."
I'd like you to pay to have another woman (likely) help me convince you to not make me face consequences for my own freely chosen actions.
"I need to know what you are thinking."
I have no empathy, so I need you to feed me intel that will help me manipulate you.
*The tears start only when the consequences become permanent*
Nice breakdown!
Nailed it!
Perfect breakdown
Wow, bravo.
And then she goes full Tuskan Raider
Like mother, like daughter. The narcissistic self-centered apple doesn't fall too far from the tree.
If the daughter was narcissistic she would have told you.. and you certainly didn't watch the clip to the end. Sex is sex, but dishonesty is the end of every relationship
I wouldn’t blame her. It’s super hard for a kid to be in that position. Especially because it might lead to separation which is the last thing any kid wants.
@aguywithalotofopinions412 they can't understand. Once a kid was judged so hard they confessed their mothers cheating and now they're in a horrible position. The people who judged them forgot about them. I still remember the username and check on them
B.S. that daughter was just as self centered as the mom, and didn't respect him. She wouldn't respect any relationship in the future and would justify cheating, like the mom, for her own station, amusement, and opportunity.
If she felt any guilt about hiding it from her step dad, she wouldn't have been so nonchalant in her reaction.
@@jasondominick5773 erm, what would you expect for an reaction? And always remind yourself that children try to be very loyal to their parents in such situations. It would have be lose-lose scenario for the daughter.
After growing up and knowing some unfaithful people I can tell you cheating is a series of choices never an accident. If I were this dude I would be gone so fast. No Trust...No Relationship. PERIOD!
Yeah, there's a big push in academia right now to try and "prove" that cheating is a mistake/accident somehow. Mostly, it revolves around reframing the definition of words because there's no legit way to even imply it's a mistake.
@johnowen9349 what they do is say that the action of cheating is different than the aftermath that follows. So they'll say the hurt you cause someone is an accident
My father was a serial cheater......my mom took him back because she wanted us kids to have a normal upbringing.......she didn't know until i was 35 that i had known everything since i was 9 and they had a blowout.....my sister didn't i did......and it definitly twusted my perspective of my father and made me a person willing to go to war for my mother. My father finally up and left us one day a week before i started my sophmore year of college....cleared the account a week ahead of rent and came back with his tail between his legs 2 weeks later. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I ended up pretty much raising my younger sister up through high school and college with my mom. My 20's were not a funtime i was a hateful, angry young man.......until i met my wife and thwn finally when i had my own child. Cheaters have a special hate in my heart......cause you hurt EVERYONE for a few minutes of pleasure.
@@Douglas-jn7bjwhat a bunch of BS. I spent time in academia in college and post college......academics are some of the most filthy, immoral, degenerates i have ever met in my life. The lab i worked at had a couch in one of the lofts for employees to "take a break".......one of our managers hit on anything with a hangdown, and our technical writer literally hit on me at the company christmas party 5 feet from wife......the wife i had just married 2 months prior......there was not a single happy marriage in that place except mine and honestly the best thing that ever happened to me in my life was getting laid off. I was salaried working 80 hours weeks and i could tell my wife was getting suspicious of my pretty much mandatory overtime on saturday and sunday which go from 4 -8 hours.......not because of anything illicit......but just cause the POS machines would spring leaks like a frigging looney tunes cartoon. I believe if i stayed there i would have had a breakdown or a divorce....or both......and the pay was crap.
What is PERIOD??😂😂😂
She doesn't even have any remorse that she cheated on her man . Thats a real shame
Yes..
She only care about she get caught..
I mean i personally have little respect for people.. For forgiving or acceptable but little respect for people who cheats.. Did mistake due to any reason but they later tell their partner.. Did kept them in dark delusional that their partner is faithful..
Take accountability of their actions..
But people like this are evil.. It's literally far worse then cheating to never tell them about your infilidty..
Atleast respect enough your partner they deserve to know that truth..
I mean cheaters this is basically all cheaters.
They rarely do. Their only remorse is the split second they realize that everything they've built together is now gone. Sure, she would ultimately get half. Unless she gets insane alimony, etc she'll be struggling. How many single mothers do you see thriving in the world. Very, very few.
They never do
Most people don't feel remorse when they cheat. They're only sorry when they get caught and have to deal with consequences.
If you look closely, the actor's hands and voice are shaking as he’s about to end the relationship. It's a great detail that adds realism to the scene.
Yeah, I noticed it, great acting indeed!
I saw it right before he set his coffee cup down too.
That’s because he’s so furious that he’s almost afraid at what his own reaction to her betrayal will be. If she had come to him trying to blame him in some way there may have been a different outcome, although she tried to cry and get his sympathy and he then knew it was time to walk away as quickly as possible.
That’s just called decent acting
Yea, tbhe guy is an amazing actor.
Scott Adam I think's the name.
So sorry that she got caught. Typical. It’s divorce time
So happy she got caught.
Or... and open marriage
@@InteractiveIdea No.
@@normified why not? It's fun and no more cheating. It introduces transparency and understanding between partners. It can work very well.
@@InteractiveIdeaAfter she cheated? Hell no. But before the relationship crashes, sure it may work.
Leslie Knope would have never done him dirty like this.
Best comment in here.
Never
Yup😊
I had a buddy this happened to. Straight up, she cheated and ambushed him with it in therapy. He walked out and never went back.
A buddy of mine has a buddy who’s in the armed forces. He got married, came home to his family and they had a baby. A few months after she was born he had her tested and found out the baby wasn’t his. She cheated while he was away and said it was his. Had no intentions to tell him, but only did it cause his relative told him to be sure since he was away.
@@Caliboi310 typical army marriage story. as a vet, i stopped counting the amount of divorces due to wives cheating on their husbands while deployed.
@@Caliboi310 that's God's punishment for fighting for Israel
As he should have done.
@@inyobase127 These stories always make me happy 😂 y'all go to poor countries to Una live goat farmers for their country
He's a fantastic actor. Out of all of the scenes like this, he gets the controlled rage, confusion, and disbelief perfect. This is the only scene where I can see shaking hands. He does it so believably it actually seems like a subconscious bodily reaction to the stress and emotion the situation brings on and he does it masterfully. Bravo Adam Scott.
"Can't fathom what I've done."
She didn't tell him for over a year. She wasn't going to tell him the next day. She was never going to tell him. She liked getting away with it. Any shame or guilt she's expressing is only for getting caught. My ex-wife acts the same way.
Not that she couldn’t fathom what she did it’s because now she’s exposed and is held accountable
Accurate, except don't expect them to apologize. Expect them to blame you.
You made me do this! I wouldn't have done it if you had just...
"Where are you going?"
"To get my ears checked...."
Damn, what a line!
Don't feel bad for she's a narcissist and she knows what she did was wrong but she just doesn't feel anything bad about it right now she is feeling bad because she doesn't have a control on the situation
And goes to therapy 😂
Why would husband go to therapy she is the one who cheats
And even worse hiding it..
If he never heard he would never know..
That's so bad..
Let’s go to therapy so I can blame you for making me cheat 😢
For having made me cheat...
@@melissachartres3219 you really had to be that one person right... people like you are so fun at parties smh
@@danielkalloo3834 I love the criticism- as I truly deserve it. I don't love your lack of appropriate punctuation, but shall invite you to my party nonetheless.
@@melissachartres3219found the overweight sassy English teacher who gets pumped and dumped guys. We are not your student lady, correcting us does nothing it’s social media you goof.
It’s why therapy is such a waste of money…
There is no excuse for cheating, sexually or emotionally.
Not happy in a relationship, talk to your partner, can't fix it, get a divorce.
No cheating ia not a option, that is where I draw the line.
getting a divorce is the same as cheating, you are betraying your commitment to the other and you swore in front of your peers and relatives to only let death part you... what makes this funny is as you are going to cheat upfront and betray your commitment, you are somehow better than this character lol.. how amusing
@@James_36top ten dumbest takes of all time
@@balocke2063 according to a dumb hypocrite yes
When the trust is broken. Burn the relationship and move on. This goes for men AND women - don't stay with a cheater.
She is not sorry she cheated she is only sorry she got caught.
If a woman ever cheats on you it means conclusively she does not respect you as a man, always leave 100%.
This is genuine curiosity, so don’t take it as like a “gotcha” thing; what if the guy cheated? Would you also consider that a lack of respect? The reason I ask is I find the specification “if a woman cheats…” very interesting. I would imagine if anyone cheats, it’s a sign of disrespect. However, I suspect for you that only applies to women, hence my question.
@@kingcal52 Women have to be in their feelings and emotions to be with a guy or another guy if already got a partner, example if a girl is truly into her man then all other men are invisible, so if she is looking elsewhere then you are a place holder till she monkey branches, and she is definitely giving her best to another man if she is cheating, hence why when most women cheat they give their best to the man she is cheating with (dirty sex and attention for example), same for when a women is even seeking sexual attention from other men (emotional cheating).
This is not the same for men biologically and phycological, we can love are woman and even be ready to die at a moments notice for them but we always want to be with other women sexually, hence why porn is so popular with men rather than women, we are not the same.
A man can sleep with another women completely void of emotions and attachment, something women find very hard to understand as they rarely have true empathy for the male experience and only see the world through their own lens.
Not sat=ying a man can just cheat if married, but if a man does 99% of the time it is void of real emotion and the guy does not give a dame about her, but a women 99% of the time requires emotional investment and arousal with a man to have sex, and if she doesn't then she should not be your partner in the first place
And if a women can genuinely have sex emotionally detached then that is a parade of red flags and probably means she has lost the ability to healthily pair bond with a partner.
Men and women are different, are made differently and view the world differently, ying and the yang, we are opposites.
In short, men look for quantity but will often consolidate on one main girl for long term.
Women look for security and stability from one man most of the time.
Men look for replication value
Women look for security value
Hence why when a woman is dating a man and he finds out what you do he will appease her ego investments to get laid.
If she is a boss babe and likes girl nights out he will say he likes a woman who goes and gets it and like having fun.
If a woman says she still lives at home with her parents and likes to paint paintings, bread dogs and have a family of her own as a priority, the man will say that is awesome too and take necessary action.
But I leave it to you which one the man will be taking more seriously most of the time after he gets what he wants.
Cheaters are like that not matter which gender they are.
Infidelity is a greater problem than just a lack of respect.
@@kingcal52A lot of the guys are giving this advise to other guys from their own personal experiences, but if a guy cheats on you dump his ass too. Question back to you though…. Why bring that into it? If the genders in the clip were reversed and a bunch of women were dog piling in comments over it and someone popped in with your question what do you think the responses would be? If you’re really interested in what the opinion on that is why not find a clip of a husband cheating on his wife and read those comments instead of asking the question here?
She wants to know what he thinks about it… so she can plan her next best angle that protects her life plans
I’m not a parent but I can imagine it hurts more knowing your daughter kept it a secret too
It was his step-daughter - the amount of time, energy and resources that you pour into a child that isn't yours, only to find out that they've both deceived you is crazy.
@@BobaDavis don't seriously date a single mother. They're for recreational purposes only.
What obligation did she have to tell him anything? She's not his biological father, so she feels no loyalty to him. If the mother was cheating with the biological father, that would be all the more reason for the daughter to keep quiet.
@fudgematthew33 Because he takes care of her, that's why. The idea that you would allow your parent to knowingly disrupt the stability you have is crazy. I mean, she got your stepdad looking stupid as hell and you smiling in his face everyday is fucked up.
@@BobaDavis and she could turn around and say, "Who asked you to do all that? I had nothing to do with my parents breaking up and my mother dating you. Other kids have their own parents. Why can't I have mine?" Take it from someone who's been there - nobody's more ungrateful than a single mother and her kids.
Never wife up a woman with a past. She'll disappoint you sooner or later.
And vice versa.
@@B.A.B.G. men control relationships... Not women.
Never wife up a woman that was born after 1985
Yep that’s why society criticizes promiscuous women
@@B.A.B.G.nop
Zero remorse. Leave her.
You realise he's an actor and will just do what's written in the script ?
@@dalriada7554they clearly spend all day on Reddit pay them no mind
"I cheated on you, WE got a problem".
Tipical from women! 😂
Typical from cheaters in general lmao
I’ve never heard of man say that after he cheated. Women cheat more anyways.
Accountability is kryptonite for many people.
Important to remember that this is staged, acting onscreen- but that people who dodge accountability are very real.
The worst part about it is that he didn't broke up with her. He gaved her a second chance and stayed with her just a few episodes latter.
Great actor btw, but his character is total simp lol.
See, that's a brilliant take, friend. The character he plays and the actor are two different people. I may not have liked the new Star Wars trilogy, but I watched Daisy Ridley and John Boyega and Adam Driver and Oscar Isaac all acting their hearts out and doing a damn fine job, all things considered.
with all the std's out there and some that take about 10 yrs to show themselves, which antibiotics might not cure, how the f**k could ya even touch her again
Lame. Taking back a cheater just signals to the whole world that you can be betrayed without consequences.
God dammit i was hoping he would leave her
@@thefakecat8340 Hollyweird loves to do this with cheaters and no accountability.
I would leave my wife and my daughter. Ultimate betrayal.
It’s a double standard but it’s true. It’s one of those unfortunate truths we don’t like to talk about. Because everyone knows it’s true but you don’t want to admit it.
I’ve never seen this movie but from the clip I gathered that it’s his step daughter that she already had from a previous relationship.
that's not his biological daughter so it's fine.
Accountability is Kryptonite for some women
not some most. to a tune of id say 95% or higher
@@danielkalloo3834 generalize much ?
@@johare94 hate the truth much?
You spelled all wrong
All women!
He’s right about the “Us” point. Sounds a lot like she was deflecting some of the blame, when she made all of the choices to be unfaithful.
Yeah, as bad as cheating is, even if you forgive that, the issues with her being comfortable lying to you is even worse. You can't trust her with money, with your possessions, with your personal info, etc. There is no reason for either party to want to stay together the trust will never come back
People are only sorry when they get caught.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Detox yourself.. If you knew how she feels (free, elated, relieved, lustful for other guys whose only point of attraction is not being you) and what she thinks.. you'd understand that in fact you're in a madmax race to save your soul.. Do it while wounds are fresh.. use pain to your best advantage.. Otherwise you'll become just another batteryto fuel her going forward.
Those tears aren’t for the person she betrayed. They are because she is actually being held accountable for her betrayal
2:04 that was the face of "now i know you're lying"
I'm guessing that's more accurate about how a lot of women treat their marriages and their husbands than most of them would admit.
3:30 the trembling hand ouuuch
My x-wife cheated for years. I stayed in the marriage to protect my daughters. In retrospect, I should have divorced her immediately
Your Mental Health and Peace is Above All
And your Responsibility is with your Daughters
Infidelity is an unforgivable sin in a relationship. Trust is the foundation and if that is broken then so is the relationship. People should never tolerate that sort of behavior and the consequences should be made clear to everyone involved.
Sucks for people who doesn’t know until it’s too late
IRL this would be a quick movie....he would have packed his bags, and left.
This woman reminds me of an aunt who always tells us things and lectures us when things come to her own daughter he makes excuses. Now in 2024 my aunt is getting married again for the 4th time.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should
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Remember, as long as they are strong and independent. It is OK
Never ever forgive a cheater... Thump rule👍🏻
The fact his own daughter knew and didn't tell him. How could he ever trust either of them again.
that's a tough situation, and in time your anger towards her may fade, but you cannot stay in that relationship..
there are simply some lines you cannot allow to be crossed.
Remember, this is really common. She is not angry about cheating, she is angry abiut getting caught.
Why are so many women so hopelessly addicted to Chadrone and the streets?
They're hardwired to want more and different. Every new height of effort you make will become the bare minimum they will accept, every goal post reached will be moved farther away with only minor acknowledgement of your previous effort if any, and then they are the ones done poorly when you either give up or fail to reach the new finish line. Women are easy to understand, we just choose not to as a defense mechanism against despising them.
@johnowen9349 leave the west then. But no, well don't say I didn't warn you.
@@aegontargeryan1499 That's not limited to the West. It's female nature across the species.
It's mostly since birth control in about 1960. Women are drowning in their impulses and lack of restriction by either circumstances or moral character.
@@johnowen9349 You say women are simple after giving yourself away as a clear incel. You have absolutely zero clue what you’re talking about lol. You clearly have been eating that red pill stuff up religiously and it’s hilarious
'I made a decision that broke vows, so you have to hear how its your fault every week, and pay for it'
If she cheats, leave her. No amount of therapy will change the fact they did that to you and will most likely do it again.
They always apologize when they get caught .
Great acting on both sides.
The fact that you had to find out through a slip of tongue by the daughter. UGH. Syanara, baby.
If your girl cheats on you my brother, from one man to another, you ought to leave her! It doesn't mean she's in love with someone else, it does mean she no longer loves you though. In fact a lot of the time (especially in cases where she fucked your brother or whatever) she actually despises you. Be the better man & leave her.
Just do not get married; it is less painful.
Helpful hint about how to handle this situation, from a couple that had been together for almost 30 years… don’t cheat. Honor your vows. Be a man, be a woman that you can be proud of in 10, 20, 30 years. It really is not all that hard!
Oh dw about the proud part. Most cheaters will stay proud of themselves no matter how much they cheat. Because to them their partner is the problem, not them.
This is where women need to be reminded of why they should be afraid to be unfaithful.
It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. But you walk away, suffer the consequences of splitting everything up and pursue peace of mind without the concern of betrayal. If she did it once (and didn't get caught), she's done it again. WALK.
The audacity that she expects someone to just think that it's not a big problem and she can somehow explain it and he would forgive her as if nothing happened and they will put this behind.
My man!!! That's how it must be handled! Perfect
I agree with the comments but props to the actors for doing such a great job at portraying it so masterfully
Been there. Upon finding out, I thought I would die then and there. And just watching this scene brings back loads of pain. To my fellow mates who went through this type of heartbreak, I feel you brothers.
Accountability is like kryptonite to women.
the fact his hand is shaking shows how talented of an actor he is
Get Rid of Her!✅💯
I am SO happy to see a scene where the guy reacts like this. Absolutely handled it like a man and refused to let her gloss over what she'd done.
When they beg for you to take them back and forgive them...and that fails...they end up blaming YOU. And if you do take them back, they will cheat again. It stings but you have to leave them and cut your losses.
"You said he wasn't home!" Girl that's not the PROBLEM.
Movie name please
Big Little Lies - Season 2
I'm so glad they didn't drag it out. Don't reward someone with a long and happy life as a family if they have gone out of their way to destroy it. Cheating isn't easy. Lying about it for years is one of the hardest things to do. You have to be very purposeful in order to do all of it.
The truth always comes out sooner or later.
The worst part is this is a normal thing that happens in reality.
This happens every day to good men because their wives truly believe they are a prize that their husbands would see past her cheating. Divorce is the only option. He needs to go silent on his daughter. She kept her mother’s lie and treated her father like trash.
They say " it's your fault I cheated". While you are sitting at home wondering where she is. Once a 304, always a 304.
304 😂😂😂
She’s sorry she got caught not sorry she cheated. Throw that trash away and eventually find someone younger and prettier than her.
As soon as the "Its Us" gets thrown out, no matter who said it....That is grounds for a Divorce, because if the "Us" meant anything it wouldnt have happened.
He's good
The actor i mean
The trembling hands are a great touch
No pun intended
Nor innuendo...
She immediately gaslights him, then tries to deflect responsibility. She never actually admits to making a mistake or regretting it, just that he needs to get over it.
Oh how much i hate cheaters who go the „ i am so sorry, i didn’t mean to, cry cry cry“ route. Either have the balls to tell the person you supposedly love as soon as it happened, or leave them and dint make them doubt the last year. If you have the balls to sleep with someone else besides your partner also have the balla to tell them afterwards or leave them. This is just pathetic, weak and disgusting
"I think of her as a daughter." She doesn't think of you as a father though. If she did, she would have told you.
Enough biological daughters who put their mom’s needs and wants about their dad’s right to be treated as a human
@Forit26 I would never forgive that. Not even to a daughter.
if by "Therapy" she means a divorce lawyer, then yes
I actually saw a study that is cited by experts that claims men cheat more in marriage. The problem was that it relied on the honesty of the men and women participating. Women will carry those lies to the grave. Look at how many men are finding out they raised someone elses child.
“I love you so much” if you did you wouldn’t have cheated.
Immediately with the tears.. I have everything handled through my lawyer and most likely I wouldnt speak to my daughter either due to her keeping a secret.
She doesn't know the meaning of " us".
They only cry when they’re caught
3:51 She's crying because she got caught.
"You misheard that" Wow so not only did she have an affair but she insults him further by gaslighting him. I would just file for divorce.
Want a joke? I'm from Russia, and I once saw a fairly large group on a social network, mostly a psychologist and her "flock" of women, who were discussing this family couple "Ed and Madeline" (the film, by the way, "Big Little Lies") at a seminar. So, in this group, this film was discussed and cited as an example of "excellent therapy and healthy relationships, where Madeline is an unfortunate victim, and Ed is a good guy, he turned out to be "emotionally" mature enough to accept it. It's scary that now this is considered the norm. As I understand it, a husband is a bronze statue that must endure and swallow any insult.
I completely agree, My experience in America is that men need to accept being emotionally abused as natural consequence of having women in their life, almost as if Women are incapable/ aren't responsible for living as moral or honest creatures with any level of dignity or respect.
Adam Scott is such a great actor. The guy can do anything.
So Ben grew some balls after he left Pawnee.
Don’t tell a man that you love him when you cheated on him. Liar is what on her face now. And the daughter that keep this from her dad and can talk about it to her mom. Might as well disowned her and move on. This entire family is lost.
La hija es tan culpable como la madre, por también haberle ocultado.
This is a great show, and Reese Witherspoon directed it herself so you can tell she is not afraid to make herself play flawed characters.
So, the daughter knew about it and mentions it that casually because her dad isn’t home, and never thought to tell her dad about it?
That man has every right to walk away from the both of them and never look back.
the hand tremble was just good acting right there
Once a cheater always a cheater
She's not sorry for what she did. She's sorry for getting caught
She's SOOOOOOOO sorry and she loves him SOOOOOOOOOO much.
Sorry she got caught.
One of my best friends, a woman, had a husband who cheated. She made the mistake of forgiving him, and he cheated again. Then they went through a divorce, but thankfully she has a good husband and is happily married. She told me to never give a cheater a second chance.
I always find it funny how mad people get when the person they cheated on finds out😂. How dare you be upset about this hurtful thing i did to you and got over