When Men Refuse to Be the Second Choice
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- Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024
- When men refuse to be the second choice, they are asserting their self-worth and setting a standard for how they deserve to be treated in relationships. Being someone's second choice can lead to feelings of inadequacy and resentment.
This mindset encourages men to seek out partners who genuinely appreciate and cherish them, rather than settling for someone who sees them as a backup plan.
By demanding the respect they deserve, men can build stronger, more fulfilling connections.
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What would you do in his situation? Be honest!
Same thing! Buzz her out!
Never be a second to anyone!
I wouldn't do dating apps, just the natural way I guess, go and speak to a girl and either get her number or get rejected/experience.
I would just run as fast as I could!
Same. Don’t be someone’s backup plan. Man knew his worth.
@@BreakupBounce Definitely not take part in this dating game. Their dating style is like going to a casino: they don’t stop while they’re ahead.
"i don't play second chances" bro made all men feel proud with that sentence 👊
We salute you!
Gigachad!!!!
Me being the black guy would told him to feel comfortable in doing what he wants.
all the incels are proud, not real men
To be honest the whole thing just makes me sad. Since this was on camera we also have to keep in mind that this could be just staged af
I’m convinced that “keeping your options open” is the equivalent of “I don’t know what I’m looking for”
No... these girls know exactly what they want. The problem is, that men (Not saying you are, but in general) assign male virtures to them. Like the whole concept of the wall, where they "Learn their lesson" or something to that effect and then try to settle with the guy who was good for them, because after so many heartbreaks and terrible guys, now they know.
No... they have always known exactly who was good for them and who wasnt. They dont "learn" over time. Case in point, watch who they run to immediately after the bad for them, does the inevitable.
Basically, they're skydivers. There is a full plan of motion, before they ever set foot on that plane. "What youre gonna do is jump out and have a thrilling experience, then when you see the ground coming up at you at terminal velocity, yank that ripcord, so you float down to earth unharmed." So when they see the ground coming up to high five them and yanking that ripcord, that isnt depseration, it isnt because they learned anything... that was the plan all along.
That they will have their fun and as long as the wind is whipping through their hair, life is good. The reason I brought up the "Wall" as a failed concept, is because so many guys think its fertility window related, like "Oh shes 30, hitting the wall there." No... it isnt. Its when the calls stop coming in. When they stip getting those "WYD" texts at 1am from guys who look like Thor.
These women will still be doing this all the way through menopause, as long as thats still happening. Case in point, the city I live in, women tend to be attractive longer than one would think... and women pushing 50 are still like this. Dating with the utter abandon of a 20 year old who still has 2 decades to lock a guy down.
No, it’s the delusion she can find something better!
@@MTG9878Yes, but she is a solid 2...
She treat it like a dating app.
@@roverwellsa 2 is probably way too harsh, but also nothing to afford to be picky, the first guy was super handsome for her
I was dating this girl a few years ago who told me she was seeing other men and i told her straight away "i'm no longer interested, you can see as many men as you want but i won't be one of them". She acted like I was the one who was out of order. Dating has gone insane and its all because these dating apps and social media.
You were not out of order; you had self-respect. All men need to be this way.
That’s when you realize dating apps are not it for you. If anyone is getting multiple dates or scoring on those apps, I gotta respect the grind and confidence. But for some of us, we’re just not good enough given the format, and it might take years for us to find anything meaningful, let alone hook ups. That stuff will break you or lead you to think horrible things about women. There’s no rational excuse to be bitter and angry at half the global population, but I sympathize with those dealing with such hateful thoughts.
@@coffinfeeder7732 I've never used a dating app in my life and never will. I'm simply saying that because of these apps people treat each other so disposable.
It's gone insane bc 🧃
Andrew Tate is right about women.
>Looks good
>Smells nice
>Same work
>Same hobbies
>Invited her to hang out
"1$ drinks? Hell no, I am THE QUEEN!!!!!11"
Also is confident in himself, didn’t complain nor try to win her basically said okay
@@enriqueperezarce5485 yep. He took the L honestly. He's a keeper.
My man has good principles.
@onilion5679 he didn't take a L. She did. She missed out on a good person.
@@dewaynegeddis9098 I mean he took in a L, in the sense of getting rejected. Your right though he was a really good match for her
Perfect example of how Moden Women keep themselves single.
Yup and the next thing we hear is "Where have all the good men gone?"
@@rilius7138 🎯 💯
Men are not exactly saints just to be in a relationship we can't compromise with our self respect and our individuality
@@sb853547 This very same applies to women. Yet it is only men that are basically expected to compromise their self respect if they want to be in a relationship.
They must stay single we don't date trash
Xavier: “You could not live with your failure. And where did that bring you? Back to me.”
YES.
She had a 1 in 14,000,605 and f’d it up.
He should just walk away. The red flags were there. Just walk away from the person with delusions of grandeur.
@@Sir_Gugharde_Wuglis yes absolutely. Just quoting Thanos for the humor
Wasn’t that Thanos?
"You're perfect, I just wanted to see if there was someone better than you"
The fact a lot of men and women can't figure out why thats so offensive is a pretty big issue in society
The fact that people can say that but not possess the self awareness to realize they are also subjectively worse than 99% of the dating pool based on societal standards. Like this fugly 304 acts as if she is choosing between restaurants and not seeing an actual person. Not appreciating the social chemistry of the first guy to instead seek out someone more "attractive" which loses it's definition in the process.
Nope, that’s just women
It’s not just offensive, it’s treating dating like Amazon shopping…..treating people like objects….being extremely materialistic. And gets us nowhere.
A man's approach is; yeah she ticks more boxes than not, let's give this a chance.
A woman's approach; he ticks all boxes except for 1, so it's a definite no 🙄
Why do people always want to rope men into women's bad behaviors? Thats part of the problem with modern women; us men are their scapegoats
A woman like that would always think of you as an option and keep waiting for someone better to come along. You are never her choice, you're always a placeholder. Know the signs early.
Most women are like that
I'm a man, we do this exact same thing lol, we date until we find someone that makes us feel the best in our decision to choose them, guaranteed hardly any man or woman got the person they wanted more than the others, the trick is building with that person so they become the person you want more than anyone else (including the person you previously thought you wanted more than anything that went nowhere)
@@AndrewDaniele87Agreed. A lot of things these guys say women do, men do as well. We’re both as bad.
@@apontutul
Most women and about 50% of young men as well. Just thinking who gives them the most, having no idea what love, care or respect is. Imagine some girl getting sick while with an average modern guy? He as well would just leave without care in many cases, due to lack of fun and benefits.
@@thesilvershota3091
No I don't think so. The issue is looking for who gives you the most benefits. I think it is much more extreme with modern women too, but common among men as well (just less common / not as extreme).
Dating for women is like shopping... dating for men is like a job interview
Awesome
HOLY CRAP
wow that is on the point
Mann!!
that's why I should no longer say "I can do anything" at job interviews 😂
So let me get this straight: She rejected the guy who was a perfect match for her on paper because she wants to keep her options open? Sorry, but that’s not how it works. It’s like going to a casino: you need to stop while you’re ahead, or you risk losing it all because you got too greedy. All she’s doing is slowly but steadily committing self-sabotage that eventually she will have nothing but regrets in the end.
Then she’ll blame men. Modern women are rotten
When your perfect match just isn't good enough... 😬 Being a woman these days sure is hard!
That's a lesson that's hard learnt. We had the chance to see it unfold in real time. In today's world, most of us fell in that trap before getting wise about it.
She'll figure it out once she's ran tbrough
Not a perfect match two teachers will be broke forever. Men should never be teachers. You can’t provide on that salary and she knew it
When a 3 acts like she's a 10
Dang Bro you are generous with your score!
@@MTG9878 I'm being nice lol
She looks like someone drew a face on their thumb and then put a wig on it...
Nah a 3.5 to be sure.
That first guy was handsome with a deep voice. She knew he was too high lvl for her so she decided to dump him first before being dumped
“Keeping options open” is an immediate red flag. I learned the hard way
The paradox of choice has spoiled humanity. And no way she was 26, she looked 35.
most women look like that. "Beauty" only lasts till 30 and even that is sparse. Then they just look like a rotting corpse
She was also like a 4-5. She has no reason to be so picky when she is incredibly mid.
all women look terrible past 25. attractive women are rare
Women start aging like milk after 25 😂
No way, im turning 35 this year and she looks too old for me.
She thought she was a 10 and had options. That guy was honestly too good for her. You can tell she was hurt by his rejection.....GOOD 😂😂😂
My wife was walking past and said “wait, she said no to him?!?”
Even if she was a 10 with options, it's still a dumb move tbh
@@RageNgSounds like your wife has good judgment. Good for you bro.
Of course she said no to him. These modern obese 304s have an inflated sense of self worth. Like let’s be real you’re on the lowest rung of the totem pole lady.
I wish more guys had the balls to say no and know who has their best interest
This reminds me of an old joke: A woman finds a wallet on the street, opens it, and there is... NOT ENOUGH!!
I'm sure that makes all your 40 year old workmates burst out in laughter
It should be: A woman finds a wallet on the street. Hoping there's $1000 in it, she opens it. There was only $40 so she threw it away.
@@vapingfury4460Whoa man, you’re a comedian. You sure got him with that one.
@@15sixmedia better than these two rockheads who have spittle on their face thinking they have wit.
@@vapingfury4460they’re called co-workers, beta.
"I want to keep my options open" 🤡
Ok, then don't date anyone. Then your options will always be open
Oh she'll "date" just never marry. The irony is she's pickier than any of her female ancestors but has been with more men than multiple generations of ancestors. Pickier but also way less pickier
That’s how it often is. Grass is seldom greener, people forget that they’re average, most people are average at best. We’re not the star of our own movie or book series,
Problem solved lol 🎉
Absolute clown
Lose some weight
Acting like she has all the options in the world when she hasn’t. She’s hard work.
Women today are unrealistic about what they’re worth.
And she is overweight and looks average at best. He on the other hand can find much better in looks and personality
She’s quite literally on a show where she has the options tho….thats like *the point* of not just ending it after the first
@@Kurotama11she’s an average looking woman. She’s not getting Ryan Reynolds. That’s what she’s looking for
More like a waste of time
"He's everything I want, but I'll gamble there's something better. Then I'll pass every guy after him, because they don't measure up to him."
🗿
And she was maybe a 3
@@roscoeshepardand she thought the 5 was too low so she went higher and stopped when the 7 said hell no. You might say she could get 6 but while he might agree to no strings attached there’s almost no chance of commitment.
All she succeeded in doing was proving how flakey she is
She's literally the elevator woman story
She's literally the elevator woman story
@rickrollrizal2747 elevator woman story?
@@AnonymousVenator the story is a woman enters a mall with one elevator that has a selection of men. The catch is, she can only visit a floor once and can't use the elevator to go back down. The first floor had bums. So she took the elevator and saw the 2nd floor had normal men. Each subsequent floors had better men so she kept taking the elevator all the way to 5th where the high value men are, 6 figure income, handsome, fit and all. The woman, thinking she could do better, took the elevator again and finally got to an empty floor with the exit sign.
She was waiting for a Tyrone or a Chad
Hypergamy is the downfall of modern women. Never satisfied, always looking for something better
Hypergamy has always existed. The internet (like all things) turns it up to 11
The abundance of choice provided by dating apps and online dating websites is the cause of it.
Women (and men) cheated before all that, but these days it's so much easier to find alternatives if any tiny thing is irking you about your partner.
@@Sakattack2023Pronkem is feminism denies it and ignores biology.if women would agree with the studies that women still are hypergamous, I wouldn't care. It's the lie men were fed that makes us bitter.
Women ☕
Hypergamy has always existed it's in their DNA modern woman's plight is hyper hypergamy
This is when a woman who's barely average at best makes Helen of Troy like demands
"I take more than i give" that's one hell of a tip, thanks!
Yeah she didn't have to say it. I saw the fatness.
Good on him. I lost my fiancé of 3 years just weeks before our wedding because she “could not come to terms with the fact I didn’t make a 6 figure salary”. She said I was a good man and was always there for her but she couldn’t overlook the money. Don’t settle for someone who feels they can do better when you’ve given your best.
Screw her
You haven't lost her, you were spared. For as much as it hurt, you'll be glad you did not marry her in the future.
She most likely will approach you when her options dry up, so remain wary and God bless you.
This @@lionheart4109
Took 3 years but still counts as a bullet dodged
Dodged a bullet buddy. Hope you are fine.
Damn, this guy just put confidence on me. Don't play 2nd chances!
If you're into the girl and she was into you, go for it
@@AndrewDaniele87
Being into someone only goes so far.
When they display that kind of behavior at the first meeting it's a red flag that you would be stupid to ignore.
@@AndrewDaniele87I used to be very delusional about my school crush a year ago, I thought that she was the cutest girl in the world, I didn't even think about her sexually because that's how perfect I imagined she was. She is still very good looking but I kbow for a fact that she'd never say anything remotely close to the things displayed in this video. Bottom line, feelings wind out overtime. And what's the point of commiting to someone who wasn't even gonna give you a chance in the first place?
it doesn't take confidence to reject a 3
@diztinger I'm not saying to commit, if she's into you, I don't see any harm in continuing talking with her, she is giving him a chance, he rejected her (in my opinion though, it kind of lacks maturity on his part, gives off the impression that if his partner does anything that goes against what he believes then there's going to be problems, though of course, if i came to that conclusion with so little info about him other than this one interaction, then that would be a pretty close minded judgment on my part)
"Dating is like experimenting and leave your choice open."
Nah girl, it's called cheating.
Dating doesn't mean exclusive though. Dating multiple people isn't for me thouugh, but that is how it works.
@@Zenoff64That's absolutely not how it works
@@LikeASirr4231 That IS how it works. Hence going on dates or after dating a while, going exclusive. Though you'd actually have to have a woman interested in you to do any of this, so I forgive you your lack of experience.
@ No need to be a rudeass, and a wrong rudeass at that, I've dated plenty of women and with every single one, we were exclusive from the start. Sorry you've only dated shitty women.
@@LikeASirr4231 You dated women who were lying to you to not hurt your feefees
I am 26 and if I walked beside her, you would think we are mother and son. I refuse to believe she is 26.
She's also identifies as 120lbs with an hourglass figure.
Def looks 36
It's a white woman thing I think. That's why so many white lights are becoming passport Bros and moving to Asia where they look kinda sus young
Yh I’m 24 and people always seem to think I’m nearer 30 and she looks old af compared to me
What? She's 26? I didn't catch that because I was eating
I dealt with a similar situation recently. Had to tell a woman that ‘I don’t wait around in anyone’s friend zone and if I’m not your first choice then I’m just not an option at all.’ Be strong, my brothers!
i remember Doing that to some lady Couple years ago, She wouldnt take no For an Answer, I had to Avoid her, Really toxic relationship
Good man
Aye. Just did it the other night. "Oh it probably won't work out"... Meanwhile, I was already there, reading her plain-as-day reactions to whatever I was saying. It was somewhat patronizing, but I let it go. When they purse their lips tight as they lay a verbal trap, RUN. RUN FAR, FAR AWAY and NEVER come back.
two years ago i realized this and im glad i did. i can’t believe i kept pursuing after she told me she had feelings for another person and myself
@@AlexHernandez-zg2ud Yeah man, that's a no win every time. Walk away proud.
Women would rather die alone than be fine with “good enough”
that king better than good nuff
She is a 3 at best. And her options will be open forever.
3?..
You must be really drunk
@@d.w.648 lol! Beer goggle rated.
@@d.w.648 She would be a solid 5 if she lost 60-70 pounds. Like this, she's a good 3.
@@d.w.648 she’s exactly a 3. no more, no less.
LOL!! TRUE! 🤣
Dating is not about experimenting and meeting multiple people, it’s about finding that one person you’re trying to spend your life with! What the hell is wrong with this lady 😂😂😂
I think people , especially women , should learn how to be satisfied with good enough.
When I talk about that with my parents who are still together after more than 3 decades and still rocking , who followed the textbook of 2 years and a half including one year living together , marriage and then kids (starting by me) , they say :
" You need to find somebody who is good enough for you in every aspect , and she needs to find you good enough in every aspect , and then you build a relationship around that"
It makes a lot of sense. You will always meet guys who are better on at least one aspect. One guy will be taller , another be richer , another funnier , but what matters is if somebody is kind , attractive enough for your taste and willing to build something.
A good relationship doesn't happen by itself , it is not something immediate. It has to be built.
Hypergamy.
Hypergamy and women ☕
And how do you find that person.....
@@otisjenkinsjr.3556 Pay attention, and get off dating apps.
She doesn't care about love/companionship, she cares about having the highest quality product she can find.
Cheap opportunist.
Well said!
Below average woman with above average standards…time to replace those batteries 🔋
She did nothing wrong. She’s entitled to do what she did, and doesn’t have to settle for anyone she doesn’t want to for any reason. Men need to stop being such blouses and get on with being men, instead of little cry babies.
She's better looking than him
@@narutofan4545 you think? Man, there ain’t enough Coors Light in the Rockies for her to become good looking
@@narutofan4545 i need some of what you're having
@@narutofan4545get out more
No woman would respect a guy she gave a second chance to after she rejected him.
The problem is they reject everybody. Even Brad Pitt isn't enough because they always think "what if". Society needs to fundamentally stamp out this behavior but feminism won't let that happen
I am printing this comment and framing it on my wall
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p yep hence they respect no one. Not even their fathers.
@@keiharris332 that's the craziest part to me. The amount that do things clearly disrespectful to their families/father, often on purpose, is astounding to me. I'd disown most of these hos
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p what if never happen, it is what it is its not what if. Were talking about a thing which doesnt exist and is on line of delusion what if what if what if, never. And it never happened and never happens who wouldve thought?
When I was dating, I told each girl that I’m not interested in being on a roster, or competing for attention. A lot of girls hated that. But I found my gf, soon to be fiancé after a couple dates and we saw we hit it off I asked her if she’d like to date exclusively because I’m not a choice im a commitment and I saw her the exact same way. She said yes, we never looked back. Love that woman to death she has respected and loved me more than I ever have in my entire life. Never settle boys. Find a girl who’s as serious on finding a relationship as you are, find someone who respects your boundaries and looks at you as an equal, and true PARTNER. Don’t waste your time with girls like this.
GOOD for Him
Refuse to be Dish
Of second Table.
That is a Man with Self-esteem.
She just proved herself unworthy of being chosen and she’s clueless about it.
And guess who’s she’s going to blame?
I’ve always been this way, NEVER take a woman back if you’ve been clear with your intent with her and she picks another guy first then circles back. She was betting on that man being better than you and discovered he wasn’t.
26 looking like 36… 😂
Run
@@notyourdad361 Get to the choppah!
Smart man.
She passed you over when you were showing obvious signs of connection. With that, you know she'd pass over her 10/10 because there may be the 11/10 unicorn somewhere.
come on man why so jealous?? im sure she can find a 15/10 somwhere......
Perhaps the man needed to be overweight like she is so it can be the perfect partner.
@kube410
OMgeeee what an incel comment
Thinking that this queen should settle for a 15/10 when she clearly deserves a 20/10
(Sarcasm obviously)
@@dinoblacklane1640 only 20/10??????
@@kube410and even if she finds the 20/10 she will think their will be a 21/10 somewhere never satisfied
Dang it was going so good until that $1 question. Bro dodged a gold digger.
Nah, he actually tested her if she's purely materialistic aka spending a lot to have good time.
@@GmanDaGlitcha that's the definition of a gold digger. 😐
You said nah but then just totally agreed with him?
Money is important for a happy life. It's not just about margaritas, it's about the life that'll be spent together in the long run without money. I still think she was too quick to judge, he might've been wealthier lol
@valentina-blossom you made no sense there because it doesn't take money to have fun or to "have a happy life." Money does not and will not buy happiness. It can buy fun items or boost your ego, but remember that those items will only last for so long until age catches up with you.
'Keeping my options open, I guess.' What a cruel thing to casually say.
It's not cruel. It's a normal, neutral statement.
Bruh that's called rejection don't be an incel. No is no
its not normal when you arent a narcissist female whose been socially conditioned to think youre a princess
@amjan Something being normal and neutral does not mean it can't be cruel.
@vixen878 Bruh, you are putting words in my mouth. Rejection is rejection. No is no. Any reasonable person agrees with that. But this is trying to straddle the line where you get to reject, but still keep all the options you rejected in case you change your mind later. That's not rejection. Also, baseless name-calling doesn't make your point more convincing. 'Don't be an incel.' I'm sorry bud, do you know me? You keeping tabs on my sex life? Why would it even matter how much fucking I'm doing? Would having a lot of sex make my opinion more valid? Ridiculous.
Dude, if you're reading this, believe me, you deserve a much better person next to you, and not this combination of commercialism and body positivity
Sic burn, outstanding comment sir.
Plz don't give false hope
Damn if she ever reads this she’s gonna need some copium cookies
@@thewanderingstranger6638 Go watch Jordan Peterson and then touch grass. It's good for you. Being terminally online is BAD FOR YOU.
@@Lethalclips-96 and a bottle of wine
" Treat me like an option and I will leave you like a choice "
" Treat me like a game and I will show you how it's played "
Wow, she ain't good-looking and overweight, and she's picky 🙄 . I'm glad he rejected her 😅
Wouldn't be an issue unless someone is a dense brick. In this case what killed it for her was her personality type + bad development.
@@jonintrovertednerd9988no what killed it is she's a 2/10 substitute teacher
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p
I mean. Seeing normal women in asexual categories doesn't insult them, it just shows that you have trouble being excited about women. Which is either a sign of poor libido or a sign of being barely into women/more so into men.
I'm pretty sure she looks alright, outside of having too much weight, which is just not healthy. Outside of it she looks okay, and I'm sure donkeys would drool to her if her weight was more average. As they do anywhere I go towards any somewhat young woman they see. Making them pathetic as well.
This is about the "looks" - With her the biggest issue is a mediocre common personality, badly developed on top of it.
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p Lol fr, she ain’t even a normal teacher. She just comes in when someone is sick.
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9pdoing cosplays btw while not looking like amouranth
She wasn't 'keeping her options open'
The moment he mentioned $1 margaritas, her tone immediately changed
Dude knows where to find a good deal, that's a positive in my eyes!
It's not about being pretty. It's about not treating men like objects. She wasn't nice. She will forever be single
they both teachers they both dont make alot of money so if they like to drink and you gonna get a good deal why not take it? she just figured she would see if there was anybody better
Brah. I'd go out with anyone here for 1 dollar margaritas. The place in my city that used to do them closed down 😔
Yup I noticed that too. Her vibe immediately changed when he mentioned those margaritas. She probably gold digging and wanting a “better” option.
I fucking hate it when women press the button then immediately say “I’m sorry!”
Many women grossly overestimate their options. Blame the dating apps.
*they grossly overestimate their LONG TERM options.
If all they want is a short term relationship they can get it well into their late 30s and early 40s.
(yes women can and will fake their age to extend their viability beyond "the wall" as people call it)
Hell nahhhhhh , Only blame women. they Are the Dating apps. lol
And the simps
For every woman you rate low there is plenty of men rating her high.
I find conventional attractiveness boring and understimulating. Yet, she is not my cup of tea.
@@nomoreraisins85% will rate her low and they just wanna sleep with her. Stop it
I like how he didn't try to be sneaky about it and just quickly press the button. He calmly told her that he was going to press the button and why.
That's what a true man does. Honest. Logical. Not cruel.
Man, this guy is him. He took it like a champ, came back again, and made us proud 👏🏽
Don't you get the impression that some women just press the red button to avoid being rejected? I mean, they can say anything stupid or find the perfect man, but they press the red button to avoid being rejected live.
Nah. If that was the case, it would be a small percent of women. Women are the sexual selectors and the internet has scaled hypergamy beyond repair. Most reject more often because of the illusion of choice.
Man, that's interesting. I haven't thought of that.
Yeah I definitely saw this many times, especially with women contestant
Of course that's the reason.
The button game is stupid.
No its just women only want 8/10 guys
"I take more than I give" hit that button like it's Family Feud dude!
I like how she said the biggest red flag ever like it was nothing
Yep, even without the disrespect of passing on him to scope out her options that one line should’ve been enough to slam that button through the floor
It's not about finding the best person. It's about meeting someone good and trying to make it work.
She perfectly embodies the "husband store" joke.
100%….especially crazy too, as many others have pointed out, for her age, she is a 3…
@Imakeplaylists-in1pw Its infuriating. They, of course, cant see the problem. They act like the men just arent the type of men they "need". Nobody is perfect. These women cant take their list of criteria and be liek "This guy is FINE". its "No guy matches all of my criteria, so there are no good guys!".. LIke.. what? Lots of good guys out there who jusr arent 6ft+, making 6+ figures, with a 6+ incher. haha.
Proud of that dude. Don’t simp men.
What she did is equivalent to her f**king around and going back to the one guy that treated her nicely.
These men are gentlemen to not take one look at her and not press the button immediately. They gave her a chance to prove herself
They are everything she doesn't deserve
You cannot have that one perfect partner
The mindset of chasing for the best will never let you settle.
As the old saying goes "perfect is the mortal enemy of good enough".
They think that good enough is settling because they have read womens magazines, watched Disney and Hallmark movies and all manner of other stuff that tells them that they are princesses to be coddled and adored by their men for minimal effort beyond simply being pretty.
These days most women don't even think that they need to make an effort in the relationship beyond being there with all their makeup on, and that this is enough for men.
“ will you please ask Xavier if he would build a relationship on fundamentally devaluing himself “ 😂
She's waiting for a 10/10 to sit down like ones actually gonna pick her lol
The problem is one did. On and off. For like three months. Ten years ago. On slow Wednesdays and somehow he became. “The bare minimum !”
That's if she can actually recognize one. I think she has no idea what she is even looking for,
@@MasterGhostf Him in a hotter guys body.
@Doesntmatter-xc8ur lol no they didn't. A 10 never picked her
"I'm keeping my options open" is the equivalent to "i think i can do better than this"
a 3 thinking she can do better than a 7. the impossible maths.
and that sounds more like she would have cheated on him if she even gets to have a one night stand with someone better than him
Some women are just not to be dated tbh
She is absolutely the type to cheat if she thought there was even a slight chance to trade up.
She's a 3, and wants to make sure she gets run through as much as possible before "settling down". This is why men don't want them anymore.
Options...
Gosh, I have come to hate that word. When you're truly into someone, the last thing you should think about is having options. Love is not an option.
"options" when you don't know what you want and can't make a decision is just wasting everyone's time. People like that don't have the maturity to operate in this world yet - this is outside of wmn and even outside of dating.
Ya know this lesson here is universal. People, men and women alike, out here are not content with what they have. She screwed up by "exploring other optioms" despite the two of them hitting it off pretty well. Instead of exploring the good thing she had right in front of her, she tossed the dude aside to "see if there's anyone better than him."
Remember this! If an opportunity for something good comes along in your life, DO NOT SQUANDER IT to see if a BETTER opportunity comes your way...
Na....she looks 30+ bro😂😂😂
BRO same!!!
A 30+ Jewish school teacher.
And her baggage includes 5 angry cats, 4 teenage kids, 3 baby daddies, 2 student loans, and a partridge in a pear tree
She's probably almost 40 years old
I was thinking at least 32
Man knows his worth..... respect my guy!
The editing on this is out of this world! Great job.
She wasn’t pretty enough to get a second chance very good for him
Not even the pretty ones get them after they vibe with you like that and still says No!
If she's hot then it's even worse, she'll have many opportunities to dump you for a "better guy"
They're basically "looksmatched" but nobody's pretty enough to get a second chance when they treat you like that.
@@bigol9223no way, all those dudes could get better and balding dude could as well if he shaves that head, she's well below and out of shape for her age.
This is a perfect example of what happens in real life too. But there are many spineless men who will take her back.
They 'passed' the test.. to their ultimate disadvantage.
Hey I've been spineless more than once. It kind of sucks.
Smash and dash
@@doyleself6849 Aye it does suck. Now you must be like a rock. UNMOVABLE. Do not compromise for any woman. Stay good, friend.
Brilliant. He doesn't give chances. She should have locked him down whilst she had the chance
Having dignity and selfrespect feels fantastic!
Brother agreed to come back to seek revenge.
Yup. I was already there hahaha I could feel it before he even said anything.
Nice to see someone with self respect.
My son is called Xavier and if he grows up to have the conviction of this man I will be proud.
Make sure you teach him then ;) my daddy taught me!!! Even he is surprised when I call them out now.
Welp, you have some work to do, I believe in you!
1:13 then why press the button?
Yeah, she a liar b
- U don't get the same me twice.
- Don't ever let someone reject u twice.
These are the 2 phrases I think are a good guideline for self respect in the dating scene and a relationship involving many break ups in it.
I like the thumbs up at the end 😂😂😂
"You could not live with your own failure. Where did that bring you? Back to me" 3:34
The biggest lie and misconception about love and dating that I heard since my teens is that it is something to "learn from" and therefore we must have "different/multiple experiences" and such. Which simply fuels our body counts and that's all. I always called bullshit on that. The goal should always be "forever".
They're feminists. They want to ruin society
It IS something to learn from and get experience from. You learn to get to know yourself, you better yourself, you learn to care for others, to give, to forgive, to recognize and what it takes to love someone. But this isn't reached by dating multiple people. Dating a new person is a restart, falling back to level one and never getting anywhere. That's the logical fallacy in this case. You learn by sticking with one person, trial and error. That's what strengthens the bond. Not restlessly trying to find a perfect match.
@@VertigoMushroomsnope. You don’t learn from love. Love is love. You learn from failed relationships. OP’s point is that at times it’s unnecessary. You can find the right spouse whom you love forever early into dating if you’re patient. 30 bodies isn’t a necessity.
cope
@@jhonviel7381 dope
The internet has these women who are a 5 at best thinking they are a 10
a sub rejects a full time teacher. 😂
Now we understand why he's on the starting block and she's on the bench 😎
Her problem is that he isn't going to impress her friends.
that's a certified banger of a sick burn, my guy
The gym has gained another bro
Nah, that's for unconfident dudes needing to level up. That man is secure in himself and needs no gym or gym bros. He already has a crown.
How is the gym for unconfident dudes? People that insult others hobbies and passions are the unconfident dudes..
Clearly coping as well.
@@PAS2010Dor guys trying to run their best race. Mentally strong, physically strong, spiritually strong. It's not a bad trifecta.
So, all bros, who walk out of dating, walk right into gym? Why do they do that, for what purpose? Do they pump those muscles so that they could perform some heavy job or something? Or is it just some sort of fetish?
This reminds me of the story with the elevator and ten floors of different men. You can pick the man on the first floor or go up to the next to see if he's better. Once you go up, though, you can't go back down, and you have to stick with your choice of man once chosen.
And most of them go to the top floor which is empty... Sad reality!
That little wrist flick before hitting the button at the end was SWAGGY AF 🔥
And the best part is, I bet she's super attracted to him after he stood on his principles
I’m actually happy she was transparent honestly she is the type to cheat just because she felt like it
you can put a literal perfect match in front of a woman, but she will still want to eXpLoRe hEr OpTiOnS
Back in my day in high school (1997-2000), if you went on a date and both people had a good time, you were basically going out / in a relationship. This is way before dating apps so you didn't have endless choices. You connected with someone, you liked them, and you built on that. Your partner is just a reflection of who you are. If it doesn't work its because they are not a reflection of you and you two are vibing on different frequencies.
IKR. I'm around the same age. You might go on a few dates with different people, but if you found one that really clicked you stuck with it for a while. Might only last a few months but you gave it a shot before moving on so quickly.
Yeah dating isn't dating anymore... It's just "f***ing" now.
Perfect response to her. She can keep her options open and go away.
I may be one of the only people in this conversation who has some sympathy for her point: dating is not about finding one person and latching yourself on to them; in the early stages, it's okay to be meeting with others to find the person that best fits who you are. It's a grey area, but I think if the first date goes well and we set up a second date, any other dates are done and my full effort is going into that person.
That said, if you are talking to other people, don't be upset if they lose interest. It seemed like the guy checked all her boxes but she wanted to hold out for something else, so now she's got to deal with the consequences of that. Good on him for maintaining his self-respect.
She went to the 6th floor of the husband store.
A true descendant of Eve
@@JT-91 We all ate the apple. It shows in your self-righteousness, which happens to be present in every sin. You clearly cannot handle the weight of the gavel you stole from God; nor the Judgement seat you stole. The problem with self-righteousness is that we are all children and incapable of making the right call 100% of the time. "A true descendant of Eve" is weightless in itself when you are singling out one human out of all humans... You are just as much a true descendant of Eve as she.
It was self-righteousness that said "God should love me more than my brother." -Cain.
"Dating is like experience multiple..." Wtf? People are not dishes or candys, if you LIKE one person you wanna date that person, no matter if "maybe will come another great person" No, if you think like that, you really don't like the person.
Honestly, you hit the nail on the head. Dating apps have literally turned men into store items. They just shop around until they think they've found the best deal, possible. Even if they have to use coupons to pay for it.
@@aaronvoss38 turned women into the same... for chad
Its crazy how confident she is being way below average.
1. "I take more than I give"
2. "Even though I really liked the first guy, I want to keep my options open"
Dear men, for God's sake, run!!!
Xavier, the one true King has returned. Literally.
... There is nothing literal here. Stop saying "Literally" people. You sound like idiot journalists when you do.
Considering her heft, it's very impressive how she dodged her future husband like she's Neo.
The true King! Well done 💪🏻😏
The illusion of choice has disillusioned very sub par low value women into thinking:
1. they are higher value
2. they have access to these fantasy choices 💯👍🏻
Not an illusion you dunce, men want sex more than women and women can gatekeep that. Partly because men put women on guard from how many creepy manipulative dudes are out there
If I’m not somebody’s first choice, why be their choice at all?
She had the perfect match and she blew it. It's gonna haunt her for a few weeks😂😂
longer---cos it was televised and cos people like us will crap on it here. suffer.
When a 3 rejects a 7
He is barely a 7. More like 5,5 or 6 imo but levels above that sea plant😊
@@void0350You Kid, you look like your mum told you that rating systems actually matter.
@@LazyDarwin are you dumb
@@LazyDarwin ok stupid
What are you talking about😂, he is a normie
"KeEpiNg mUh oPshUNZ OpEn!"
By "options", she means her legs.