R*ped Under Anesthesia

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2023
  • Dea shares her personal experience as a survivor of sexual assault by a medical professional, that being her pain management doctor Dr. Leng Ky. This story sheds light on the importance of raising awareness about such issues within the medical community and promoting a safe environment for patients.
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  • @tarab3746
    @tarab3746 7 месяцев назад +5432

    MAAAAAJOR respect for putting their names out there! It disarms them little by little every time their name is spoken. I’m proud of you.

    • @fettacheeny4382
      @fettacheeny4382 7 месяцев назад +20

      was thinking this too !!

    • @ellissageorge725
      @ellissageorge725 7 месяцев назад +76

      I REALLY combed google for more information about what happened with Isaiah, Sonya and Tracy and it freaked me out to see them mentioned absolutely nowhere. If they were charged for anything, it's not in the news coverage. Makes me sick to think they're still out there :-(

    • @SouthJerseyBaitReviews
      @SouthJerseyBaitReviews 7 месяцев назад

      Thats because it probably didn't happen and this whole story was either made up or she could have maybe got sexual assaulted from someone else and this is her way of coping. I don't wanna be that guy but if u can't find public record court info then it didn't happen cause thats not hidden information or there wasn't enough evidence to prove there was any sexual assault or to press charges.@@ellissageorge725

    • @haleighmunson7139
      @haleighmunson7139 7 месяцев назад +23

      Agreed. My only concern would be negative recourse for the podcast/the victim. If they haven’t been charged/found guilty there could be a defamation lawsuit possible here I believe, but not certain.

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat 7 месяцев назад

      @@haleighmunson7139truth is known as an “absolute defense” in defamation cases. She’s safe 😇

  • @southpaw612
    @southpaw612 7 месяцев назад +3840

    My jaw dropped at how she was just giving out their names and where they go to school. It takes a lot of guts to do that, even after going to court, who knows what they could do? Good for her, she is braver than most.

    • @alyssahamlett
      @alyssahamlett 7 месяцев назад +95

      There isn't shit they can do, sue for defamation ha I wish they would

    • @jewelvh2294
      @jewelvh2294 7 месяцев назад +20

      Fuck yeah dude

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat 7 месяцев назад +19

      @@alyssahamletttruth is an absolute defense in defamation 😇

    • @alyssahamlett
      @alyssahamlett 7 месяцев назад +21

      @@DiligentThroat Do you hear what you're saying? You're trying to say that they could Sue. And win for defamation when it's not defamation in the first place. Because it has to be a lie for it to be defamation. I'm really not sure what you're not comprehending.

    • @allisonb8912
      @allisonb8912 7 месяцев назад +27

      @@alyssahamlett no, I'm pretty sure they're saying they should sue because they will lose, since Dea is telling the truth, therefore not liable for defamation.

  • @DeaDiabola
    @DeaDiabola 7 месяцев назад +1714

    Ah, I also misspoke - there were FOUR of us total who testified and gave victim impact statements. I should have said, "three other people". I was a little (okay, quite a bit) nervous about this whole thing. I wish I had explained some things a bit better, but this won't be the last time I share this story. I'm ready to put it out there as many times as I can. I never want this to happen again. None of us do.

    • @laurenn1382
      @laurenn1382 7 месяцев назад +107

      You explained it so so so well, you should be proud of yourself ❤

    • @carmenhughes3613
      @carmenhughes3613 7 месяцев назад +49

      You did a great job and girl you said your age and I was in shock I thought you were like 22 maybe

    • @DeaDiabola
      @DeaDiabola 6 месяцев назад

      Well hello my new best friend lmao. Thank you so much! Hopefully I can keep this going for another decade or so! @@carmenhughes3613

    • @eleanorperez964
      @eleanorperez964 6 месяцев назад +13

      you did great Dea, thank you so much for sharing your story. I wish you many blessings and healing. 🙏

    • @vrazalico455
      @vrazalico455 6 месяцев назад +6

      You did great, i hope you heal from all that ams those docters will get what they deserve in life for being that bad

  • @MorgueInTheVoid
    @MorgueInTheVoid 7 месяцев назад +2068

    Just looked him up and he was sentenced to 17 years in prison but he deserves WAY MORE.
    Literally did this to four women between the ages of 19 to 32 from the years 2015 to 2020... This dude is evil and he should have never been allowed in the medical field.

    • @htownfinest6167
      @htownfinest6167 7 месяцев назад +7

      He was acting you I see

    • @aaronlover9814
      @aaronlover9814 7 месяцев назад +150

      Four *that we know of*

    • @theofficialmbc
      @theofficialmbc 7 месяцев назад +19

      @@htownfinest6167 he was what?

    • @deeali9757
      @deeali9757 7 месяцев назад +9

      whats his name?

    • @Yourmomashley8
      @Yourmomashley8 7 месяцев назад

      @@deeali9757 The animal's name is Dr. Leng Ky

  • @BradAaronTaylor
    @BradAaronTaylor 7 месяцев назад +2391

    It's not often I gasp at the title of a video.. but this is definitely one.
    How can human beings be so evil?

    • @nicokl5593
      @nicokl5593 7 месяцев назад +44

      I gasped too! This is Shocking

    • @Ragdollcatlover
      @Ragdollcatlover 7 месяцев назад +9

      Me too

    • @garlicbread6489
      @garlicbread6489 7 месяцев назад +83

      How can men be so evil

    • @amberh4470
      @amberh4470 7 месяцев назад +17

      literally, this is so terrifying

    • @mackenziex3axl
      @mackenziex3axl 7 месяцев назад +32

      I feel like this happened to me before too. When I got my X-ray the male tech was playing with my hair and everything. And I had a bad feeling 😅but the lady at the desk said my bf could come back and watch the whole surgery. I get back to the room day Of the surgery and the doc instantly kicked him out. There’s a few other things I noticed that I’m too embarrassed to mention…but this is common.

  • @Ragdollcatlover
    @Ragdollcatlover 7 месяцев назад +2015

    How absolutely awful and how brave for this young woman to talk openly about this.

    • @dieauferstehung
      @dieauferstehung 7 месяцев назад

      this girls lying, its clear as day, attention seeker

    • @user-fm6jw2md3h
      @user-fm6jw2md3h 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@dieauferstehung well, she's 100% not lying. He confessed to doing it. I don't know if you're trying to joke or are just really bad at reading people. You seem to be the only one seeking attention here.

  • @qor9ecp
    @qor9ecp 7 месяцев назад +1047

    I hate that victims always have to make sure to overly explain themselves because people always try to find a way to blame the victim for the abuser's crime.

    • @MellowJelly
      @MellowJelly 7 месяцев назад +35

      Yeah it's so sad she had to explain why she trusted her doctor and didn't see red flags when he asked her about sexual assault. That should be obvious

    • @sarahfranco6802
      @sarahfranco6802 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@MellowJellywth

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@sarahfranco6802what?

    • @kileydavis4227
      @kileydavis4227 7 месяцев назад +3

      People who go through traumatic things could also have an upbringing where they had to over explain

    • @fabianbiere5653
      @fabianbiere5653 7 месяцев назад

      Those people should be ignored anyways silver lining is that they can prob remember important evidence which is still f'ed cuz ofc they would prefer to forget and heal

  • @chynnhowe
    @chynnhowe 7 месяцев назад +707

    The therapist coming up with the “trauma hallucination” is so evil. I can’t imagine how debasing and frustrating that would be.

  • @alexey5481
    @alexey5481 7 месяцев назад +1355

    This happened to my ex gf in the mental hospital. They sedated her and took advantage of her; she never reported it because she has a history of mental illness and had been 5150’d when it happened - she had zero credibility.
    It is devastating the way vulnerable people are so frequently violated.

    • @WaffleSalad
      @WaffleSalad 7 месяцев назад +72

      That’s unfortunately why they’re taken advantage of. They’re vulnerable and often not listened to. Disability, mental illness, and past abuse are some things abusers look for when they’re looking for their victim

    • @anaxstela
      @anaxstela 7 месяцев назад +37

      this exact thing happened to me in a mental hospital when i was 15:( i was already in there for depression,anxiety and SI. I don’t know how they could do that to someone especially with already knowing what’s going on in my brain .

    • @ashleighgibson3960
      @ashleighgibson3960 7 месяцев назад

      They do that type of shit all the time.. sick ass ppl

    • @fastdeliveryl708
      @fastdeliveryl708 7 месяцев назад +6

      Wow .. thats true . Ppl takes advantage of the ill.

    • @SonyeoMargit
      @SonyeoMargit 7 месяцев назад +2

      😢

  • @jordyncarti6674
    @jordyncarti6674 7 месяцев назад +1818

    a lot of medical professionals don’t deserve their job.

    • @mostblunted_211
      @mostblunted_211 7 месяцев назад +38

      A lot ‼️ including staff doctor’s nurses and teacher’s a lot of people don’t deserve a job let alone someone that loves them 💯

    • @sparksflylove
      @sparksflylove 7 месяцев назад +39

      As someone that works in healthcare (surgery) this is so so so true to a terrifying point.

    • @DevHazy
      @DevHazy 7 месяцев назад +12

      Yep I also work at hospital. Can confirm.

    • @Ida-Adriana
      @Ida-Adriana 7 месяцев назад +18

      Do you know that it’s perfectly legal in the US to perform pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent?! There’s lots of articles about it.

    • @bambilanz
      @bambilanz 7 месяцев назад +2

      Amen.

  • @missbeaussie
    @missbeaussie 7 месяцев назад +1169

    The fact he didn't lose his licence for this is disgusting.

    • @kibbq
      @kibbq 7 месяцев назад +131

      i just read an article that said he did and was sentenced to 17 years in prison. still not enough time though

    • @user-vh2et9fr5x
      @user-vh2et9fr5x 7 месяцев назад +45

      No she says that he did lose his license .

    • @robynw8223
      @robynw8223 7 месяцев назад +26

      He did lose it. Look him up online

    • @perc-ai
      @perc-ai 7 месяцев назад

      @@kibbq rape is not murder chill lol

    • @Marsfart
      @Marsfart 7 месяцев назад +128

      @@perc-aiits still an absolutely horrific act that only monsters plan out to this degree. Dont downplay it.

  • @cuppkate
    @cuppkate 7 месяцев назад +619

    I recently underwent surgery and the thought crossed my mind before I went under anaesthesia… How awful is it that we cannot even trust those who vowed to care for us.

    • @JosieMarie-vg9ei
      @JosieMarie-vg9ei 7 месяцев назад +73

      It also sucks that most doctors are men. I would feel so much more comfortable knowing my doctor/anaesthesiologist was a woman. Because statistically women are wayyy less likely to sexually assault you.

    • @sandram1644
      @sandram1644 7 месяцев назад +25

      If you have a family member whose a doctor you can ask for them to be present, my dad’s brother was always on the room when one of us got surgery, also if you have a general practitioner that you trust they can also be present and they’ll give you better info than surgeons would.

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@sandram1644why is that your solution rather than doctors not being predators?

    • @ThePathOfLeastResistanc
      @ThePathOfLeastResistanc 7 месяцев назад +12

      This was always my secret fear under anesthesia and I had never even heard of it being a thing that happens

    • @phoebeb.332
      @phoebeb.332 7 месяцев назад +2

      While it does happen, most professionals are doing their best to be just that. Eyes wide open and trust our guts.

  • @lennalooor
    @lennalooor 7 месяцев назад +1213

    I now have a new fear, being a woman is unbelievably scary

    • @mostblunted_211
      @mostblunted_211 7 месяцев назад +43

      Being a human in general is but I do agree I wouldn’t want to be a women 😅

    • @Ashleyyyy_xx
      @Ashleyyyy_xx 7 месяцев назад +1

      Just learn to defend yourself

    • @bunnyskye7593
      @bunnyskye7593 7 месяцев назад +8

      ​@Ashleyyyy_xx yeah do that, but also lock doors at night, keep your phone on you to call emergency services if needed, walk with a friend, do all that because that is also a defense strategy

    • @bela_vee
      @bela_vee 7 месяцев назад +1

      what about disabled women? petite women? incapacitated women, like the lady in this episode having been under anaesthesia? stop putting the blame on women @@Ashleyyyy_xx

    • @miserabletry
      @miserabletry 7 месяцев назад +140

      @@Ashleyyyy_xx lmao defend yourself when you're unconscious? you're trippin

  • @dietdrkelpdaddy
    @dietdrkelpdaddy 7 месяцев назад +150

    Nobody is writing out his name so I will so everyone sees it DR LENG KY

  • @jaderose9784
    @jaderose9784 7 месяцев назад +359

    I recently found out that the doctor who delivered my baby & gave my prenatal care, was just charged for sexual assault that occurred in the same hospital that I delivered in. I have so much respect for this woman speaking up about what happened to her.
    Sending you infinite healing, protection and blessings. 💛

    • @saracampbell4323
      @saracampbell4323 7 месяцев назад +16

      Yuck. That gives me the ick so bad. I’d feel violated even if I wasn’t actually violated just from hearing what happened to someone else. I hope it didn’t ruin your birth experience too much mama. ❤

    • @sidechicksexposed
      @sidechicksexposed 7 месяцев назад +7

      Don’t go to a guy obgyn..

    • @ainovuorenmaa9786
      @ainovuorenmaa9786 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@sidechicksexposedThats not ok to say.... There are wonderful male ob gyn, and theres no reason to say all of them are horrible

    • @stupiddrunkbitch4
      @stupiddrunkbitch4 Месяц назад

      @@ainovuorenmaa9786damage reduction

  • @callmedaddyifyougetlost
    @callmedaddyifyougetlost 7 месяцев назад +217

    “it feels like someone else owns your body” i emphasize so much with her in my own sa experiences. she’s so strong for sharing her story

  • @christinesullivan2907
    @christinesullivan2907 7 месяцев назад +429

    I work in the dental field and I’m not saying all doctors are unethical it’s just the fact that everyone of them I have worked for is.

    • @ellazmutze9800
      @ellazmutze9800 7 месяцев назад +13

      did anyone you know do something like this? or was it just small unethical things?

    • @christinesullivan2907
      @christinesullivan2907 7 месяцев назад

      @@ellazmutze9800small things luckily nothing this bad

    • @draculena
      @draculena 7 месяцев назад +32

      @@christinesullivan2907 what kind of small things? anything that violates people while they're under is so terrifying :(

    • @perlaexiga9750
      @perlaexiga9750 7 месяцев назад +3

      Wutttttt

    • @ashleyb7739
      @ashleyb7739 7 месяцев назад +40

      @@draculenanot to speak for them but I’m assuming they are speaking in terms of HIPPA violations, theft of personal items, ect. While still unethical and an incredible abuse of power, I believe that offenses like these are not on the same scale as physical assaults.

  • @TaraRihana86
    @TaraRihana86 7 месяцев назад +202

    Though it was such a horrible topic; this woman was so eloquent and a natural speaker. She did an AMAZING job telling her story. She really seems like such a cool person that has an awesome fierceness inside her and I hope she goes on to live her absolute best life!

  • @jkopf927
    @jkopf927 7 месяцев назад +588

    This is so scary. Dev, have you heard of all of the allegations of sexual assault during surgeries- that don’t even involve the reproductive system- because of the consent you sign that allows pelvic exams? Definitely read about it, it’s wild and scary.

    • @ashleysartattack5600
      @ashleysartattack5600 7 месяцев назад +24

      I heard that story last year and I was in such shock about it!

    • @JayEhl-gl8rk
      @JayEhl-gl8rk 7 месяцев назад +29

      This made me feel physically ill

    • @madisondye-oe2qd
      @madisondye-oe2qd 7 месяцев назад +1

      😊

    • @sarahfranco6802
      @sarahfranco6802 7 месяцев назад +1

      Huuuuuuuuh

    • @ashleysanchez7543
      @ashleysanchez7543 7 месяцев назад +46

      I literally just saw a video about this from a certified OBGYN! Apparently, this was actually STANDARD FREAKING PRACTICE for med students to perform pelvic exams on sedated women EVEN IF THE SURGERY HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH!!! I guess when you sign consent forms for surgery, you'd also be signing consent to have this done! I still can't fathom how this still happens in some states! I want to say the OBGYN's video I watched said either 20 states still does this or it's only banned in 20 states unless the surgery has to do with reproductive health. Either way, this shouldn't be done period! There are plenty enough wide awake and willing women to have med students learn without the patient being drugged and sedated!

  • @JA-pf4wv
    @JA-pf4wv 7 месяцев назад +71

    I got SA's under anasthethia getting my wisdom teeth out at 18. They found male DNA inside me but conveniently they couldn't match it to any medical staff. They blamed it on me having s*x with my boyfriend at the time. I had been out of state for over a week with family so it literally wasn't possible for it to have been intimate with him but they refused to believe me. The hospital 100% covered it up to avoid a lawsuit :( I wish I could have gone back in time and fought harder for myself but I had just had all four of my wisdom teeth out and had to spend the day getting a ra*e kit done. It was horrible and I was drained. It was such a bad experience I'd never report another SA again if something ever happens to me again. I don't have any faith in the justice system.

    • @cyclopshot
      @cyclopshot 5 месяцев назад +9

      I'm so sorry that happened. That's so traumatic and horrible. How did you find out you were assaulted? I have been holding off on getting my wisdom teeth out for fear of something happening while i'm under anesthetics.

    • @RussellTheTrader97
      @RussellTheTrader97 2 месяца назад +1

      that sucks!

  • @TMichelle555
    @TMichelle555 7 месяцев назад +150

    Even if you don’t see yourself as vulnerable, we as women are vulnerable because some ppl just look at you and think “ah yes, i can take advantage of her simply because she’s a woman” and that’s a fear men will never understand

    • @leqm98
      @leqm98 7 месяцев назад +8

      very well said

    • @laureanoballestas811
      @laureanoballestas811 7 месяцев назад +4

      Men have that feeling too. It’s not specific to women fyi

    • @goldengoddess834
      @goldengoddess834 7 месяцев назад +32

      @@laureanoballestas811 Why do people do this? When we talk about things that happen to women there's always that person that goes "but men experience this too--" or something and this happens vice versa. Stop taking away from the topic at hand.

    • @abbiereynolds8016
      @abbiereynolds8016 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@laureanoballestas811 Yes but who do they have to fear? Other men, never women. So at the end of the day, men are still the issue.

    • @oceanics.3597
      @oceanics.3597 7 месяцев назад +18

      @@laureanoballestas811not true, next.

  • @liv6316
    @liv6316 7 месяцев назад +55

    The word hysterical has historically been used to gaslight women too

  • @emmadobyns6220
    @emmadobyns6220 7 месяцев назад +95

    It’s always appreciated when they drop the names of the people involved. I know a lot of people can’t afford doing that for legal and safety reasons but when the person can it’s helpful to those in the area who might potentially be put in proximity to the harmful people in this story for whatever reason. Even if the doctor was arrested and put in prison there are too many people in this equation who got out unscathed.

  • @kenmagoesblep
    @kenmagoesblep 7 месяцев назад +107

    it's stories like dea's that make me absolutely terrified of going under anesthesia. it's absolutely horrifying that doctors like this exist, and that people around them back them in their crimes.
    I'm so proud of her and the other victims for coming forward, I hope they'll find the healing they deserve :(

  • @breornot2bre
    @breornot2bre 7 месяцев назад +156

    YOU ARE. A. FUCKING. FIGHTER! I admire your bravery. I live in Denver, CO and there was a case of a dental assistant named Rouhallah who did this to little girls- and it disgusts me. It takes courage, a spine of steel, and a gift from the heavens to do what you’re doing! ❤❤❤

    • @erikthaos7178
      @erikthaos7178 7 месяцев назад +4

      I think her case also happened in colorado.

    • @user-wy6fy3sr1q
      @user-wy6fy3sr1q 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@erikthaos7178oh really??!

    • @gigismalls3683
      @gigismalls3683 7 месяцев назад

      No way this happened in denver

  • @annag4635
    @annag4635 7 месяцев назад +149

    I can’t even describe how awestruck I am of your composure while recounting such a series of horrors-it was an honor to hear your story ❤

  • @cassiemanz
    @cassiemanz 7 месяцев назад +64

    The title alone made me gasp out loud and I haven’t even watched it yet. There’s really no words for how horrific that is, it makes me feel sick

  • @Barbievel
    @Barbievel 7 месяцев назад +168

    I love how professional and nice the interview room looks now!! Proud of how far you’ve come girl ❤️

  • @FoundationalAmericanBadass
    @FoundationalAmericanBadass 7 месяцев назад +261

    Rape sucks, if you have to take it under any circumstance other than YES, then it's not a good thing... smh

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 7 месяцев назад +6

      Facts

    • @JemmaThomas-se7sb
      @JemmaThomas-se7sb 7 месяцев назад +44

      Yeh and it's ok for a man he just caries on like nothing happens we live with it forever

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 7 месяцев назад +45

      @@JemmaThomas-se7sb its not okay for a man or woman( but I think I know what you are trying to say...and I understand your pain, miss). I'm a male victim myself. We just got to be careful not to generalize, when statistics show that, some men & women get away with it.....some men and women don't. The justice system seems to be fickle, which is very unfortunate

    • @JemmaThomas-se7sb
      @JemmaThomas-se7sb 7 месяцев назад +22

      @@magvs_mæstro216 there's no justice when it comes to this sending you much love

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 7 месяцев назад +15

      @@JemmaThomas-se7sb Back at ya. Peace & love

  • @idontknowwhatimdoing6071
    @idontknowwhatimdoing6071 7 месяцев назад +34

    Holy fuck. The moment she mentioned he was a pain doctor I realized how wildly psychopathic and premeditated this abuse was

  • @mollyanna000
    @mollyanna000 7 месяцев назад +87

    this is one of the most shocking and gut wrenching stories i’ve heard, what a horrible thing to deal with

  • @arizona9071
    @arizona9071 7 месяцев назад +95

    How is there not more media talking about this?? This story is truly heartbreaking, and the world should know about these people so no one ever tries to go to them for therapy or anything regarding their medical concerns!! People should know about this doctor so that when he gets out, people will know truly what a monster he is!!!

    • @rawrruby
      @rawrruby 7 месяцев назад +4

      Doesn’t fit the narrative

    • @jackieluna
      @jackieluna 7 месяцев назад

      If people can’t trust doctors, people will stop going. If they stop going, how will big pharma make their money? The media is METICULOUSLY curated to benefit the few. Not the many.

  • @dominigurl19
    @dominigurl19 7 месяцев назад +45

    Beyond disturbed. Looking into Isaiah Torres and school of the rockies to alert them to this. He cannot be allowed to be a nurse and in a position to harm others. The therapists have to be stopped too. Wish I knew where they work currently. This is so evil

    • @olivegoddess1
      @olivegoddess1 7 месяцев назад +1

      Do you know if it’s the school in Canada or Colorado?

  • @Vyoomz
    @Vyoomz 7 месяцев назад +22

    I started this video expecting to skip through 45 minutes of fluff conversation to hear the story but this girl really told an experience for over an hour straight. She is strong, beautiful, and has survived. ❤

  • @Laughwithmeoratme
    @Laughwithmeoratme 7 месяцев назад +30

    Look how much social credit he has now. We stand with YOU GIRL!!! 💯 PERCENT your trauma was no hallucination and u deserve every amount of justice possible.❤

  • @kirarawhiskers8606
    @kirarawhiskers8606 7 месяцев назад +48

    What the fuck. Never heard of this and I can't believe it wasn't made a bigger deal. It's absolutely horrible and I'm so impressed by the courage and resilience of this guest. I hope the victims get every single penny this man has ever made.

    • @laLouve22
      @laLouve22 7 месяцев назад +2

      it happens a lot...for my friends it was with her dentist

    • @alexad7592
      @alexad7592 4 месяца назад

      yea because the money will fix everything

    • @haz.fellie
      @haz.fellie 15 дней назад

      @@alexad7592 It'll help them with moving forward and alleviate stressors in their future so they can focus on recovery from this incredibly traumatic event

  • @salma31000
    @salma31000 7 месяцев назад +27

    I looked it up .. the dr even had a victim who was assulted 10 yrs ago that the news talked abt imagining how many ppl he hurt .. and he's only getting 17 yrs... that's nothing .. he needs to be there for life

  • @nancyferguson6011
    @nancyferguson6011 7 месяцев назад +25

    I was SA by a doctor during a pelvic exam....... When he was found out he just moved to a different state. 42 years ago and I still remember............I think it is not uncommon for survivors of SA to experience more than 1 incident

  • @shannonmariya
    @shannonmariya 7 месяцев назад +53

    I hate this world, we have corrupt doctors, nurses, judges, lawyers, literally name any profession and there will be someone with bad intentions. Where are the people who want to help one another and save lives :(

    • @Untouched77
      @Untouched77 7 месяцев назад +4

      They're out there

    • @yota8325
      @yota8325 7 месяцев назад +3

      There's always bad apples everywhere. But not everyone is evil

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@yota8325there are still too many

  • @MissAiahWest
    @MissAiahWest 7 месяцев назад +24

    I'm floored. I admire Dea so much and her story is just one of the many. Thank you for giving her a space to be heard.

  • @gigismalls3683
    @gigismalls3683 2 месяца назад +5

    Wow. Just wow. As a Surgical Tech this absolutely baffles me. There are multiple members in a surgical setting for a reason, this is insane.

  • @bigb853
    @bigb853 7 месяцев назад +31

    When your inner voice talks to you, listen! Us woman have such strong intuition......prayers for this baby girl.

  • @dianaseile4092
    @dianaseile4092 7 месяцев назад +16

    How horrific, my heart goes out to all the survivors of this experience. Thank you for putting out a video informing the wider public on this issue and putting Dr Leng Ky name out there.

  • @kengelina
    @kengelina 7 месяцев назад +31

    This is so horrifying - I was scared of going under anaesthetic before this due to all the stories of women being given smear tests by students without permission while unconscious, but this is so far beyond horrific.
    She spoke so well about her experience - my heart goes out to her.

    • @MG20024
      @MG20024 3 месяца назад

      Where can I read about this please?

  • @madisonblakely4013
    @madisonblakely4013 7 месяцев назад +15

    i’m glad you told her at the end she did a great job talking because i agree I couldn’t believe the video was over because i followed along and listened to her so well. she’s amazing for being brave enough to tell us her story and spread awareness.

  • @ragenmason5768
    @ragenmason5768 7 месяцев назад +76

    Absolute nightmare fuel. I commend her for being so strong and being able to talk about this. How sick and disturbing, disgusting and absolutely horrible!!!!

  • @AshatHome
    @AshatHome 7 месяцев назад +13

    My heart goes out to her and the other victims. I deal with chronic pain issues and have been SA'd in my past so this entire story hit me hard. I'm glad she is loudly and publicly giving the names of those involved!

  • @nuclearana
    @nuclearana 7 месяцев назад +35

    1:06:49 this made tear up. it’s so amazing that this channel has helped people have an amazing place to share their stories when so many other people in life have shut them up or made them feel like they don’t have a voice

  • @onlinenow1
    @onlinenow1 7 месяцев назад +10

    It made cry to hear her talk about what she went through. She is an incredible strong and brave human being, I am glad that she got some kind of justice even if the damage is irreparable. I've been SA'd as well and I totally relate to the impotence you feel when you see how the abuser just goes on with their lives and how scary it is to speak up about someone who has a "good" image, being so afraid that no one will believe you. She's much stronger than I am. I hope she can move on from those experiences and live a beautiful life because she deserves that.

  • @Blahlalovely
    @Blahlalovely 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for putting these things out there and for giving names. 🙏🏼 My heart goes out to her and the other victims. You are so strong!!!

  • @brittanyzahn7939
    @brittanyzahn7939 7 месяцев назад +11

    This woman is a badass! Major respect for dropping their names! I hope she continues her healing journey. I was sexually assaulted in college and have kept it really hush hush in my life. I was talked out of coming forward by a councilor at the university and I regret it every day. Hearing someone be so vocal about what happened to them, really makes me feel stronger and braver to talk about what happened to me. So I just want to tell her thank you for sharing. It really meant a lot.

  • @colleenmcbride3656
    @colleenmcbride3656 7 месяцев назад +23

    I was also waved away by the police when I was raped by an adult at 15. Thhey actually laughed at me when I told them when they asked why I was there.

  • @cschweitzy
    @cschweitzy 7 месяцев назад +24

    Absolutely terrifying. The trauma Dea has gone through is unspeakable. I’m so proud of her.

  • @ritacita
    @ritacita 7 месяцев назад +17

    i'm in shock. this is my worst fear as someone who was already SAed. thank you so much for opening up

  • @user-tn1pm2wv4o
    @user-tn1pm2wv4o 7 месяцев назад +12

    i started tearing up when she said she has EDS, as i just got my diagnosis. I've been through a lot of SA, and the unfortunate reality is that disabled people are more likely to be abused. Our vulnerability makes us an "easy" target. People like you speaking up helps give us our power back

    • @asirablood7576
      @asirablood7576 6 месяцев назад +1

      Autistic women are more likely to suffer both EDs and SA. I'm an older undiagnosed autistic, and I've suffered both.

  • @saracampbell4323
    @saracampbell4323 7 месяцев назад +17

    That’s a brave absolute bad ass woman. Girl, if you’re reading this- I know how scary what you’re doing is and I’m in awe of you. ❤

  • @Vickysojkova
    @Vickysojkova 7 месяцев назад +5

    i’m so glad she shared her story she is so strong for that i was in a similar situation and this video helps feel less alone so thank you for sharing her story

  • @ChaiLatte13
    @ChaiLatte13 7 месяцев назад +61

    Oh my god this is awful. Such a betrayal of a patient/doctor relationship.

  • @mariaisabel-rx4in
    @mariaisabel-rx4in 7 месяцев назад +6

    You are extremely strong ,thank you you help me to put on perspective this" WE GO AORUDN WALKING through BAD PEOPLE , WE SHOUD NEVER PUT THE GULT OF THOSE SITUATION ON US, WE JUST LEARN HOW TO PUT NEW LIMITS, AND LIMITS IS THE WAY TO BUILT A HEALTY PERSPECTIVE" THANK you , and you aren't broken remember that, I put it big so people can read this and feel identify

  • @meghan6734
    @meghan6734 7 месяцев назад +5

    You are so brave for sharing, I cant imagine that level of confusion and gaslighting

  • @jadarobinson9555
    @jadarobinson9555 7 месяцев назад +4

    this story is absolutely horrific she is so incredibly brave for being able to recall this on camera. i can’t imagine how awful that was, she’s so strong and beautiful.

  • @greyg3474
    @greyg3474 7 месяцев назад +29

    this podcast was so incredible. Hope she knows how strong and brave she is!!!

  • @callunya
    @callunya 7 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for sharing your story, Dea! You’re brave and this was a video that needed to be made. Best wishes to you!

  • @cristinal919
    @cristinal919 7 месяцев назад +7

    She is so well-spoken and elegant I'm so so so impressed. So proud of her strength and wisdom.
    I try to convince myself that trauma and obstacles help us build character (maybe it almost FORCES that onto us). Maybe it's true, maybe it's not, but she has in my eyes become a very interesting and amazing person, whether partially through her trauma or not. SOOOOO many kudos to this beautiful woman, and wishing her all of the healing and happiness. You're genuinely doing amazing 💜

    • @cristinal919
      @cristinal919 7 месяцев назад +3

      Maintaining that eye contact in the courthouse, that was one of the most satisfying but infuriating things I've ever envisioned in my mind. Like.....oh my fucking god. Your strength is amazing, and I'm so freaking proud of you.

  • @emmathompson6412
    @emmathompson6412 7 месяцев назад +7

    This episode hit me in so many places . I’m an SA survivor, and so is my girlfriend. She has scleroderma, and it punched me in the chest when I heard this guest say that’s what she has, because I know exactly how difficult that disease is. It makes me so sick that anyone would ever take advantage of a chronic pain patient, I wish nothing but healing and love for this guest, and for all of the victims of this monster

  • @samanthaortega8872
    @samanthaortega8872 7 месяцев назад +5

    Dea, thank u very much for sharing your story. You have made me feel so good ironically, well your words gave me the answer, since I was r4ped I wanted to be the same as before, but you were right, I have to grief my previous self, I´m never going to be the same person and that´s ok, my new broken self deserves some love, I don´t need to look for someone who is no more in this world, I have this new life and I´m gonna make it mine, only mine. You have healed some of the scratches on my heart

  • @nikkidelrey_
    @nikkidelrey_ 7 месяцев назад +38

    My heart goes out to you Dea & to anyone else this has happened to. It’s so sick I am so angry how awful people can be. Dea, you’re a badass that shed light on this topic that needs to be discussed. Thank you for your honesty ❤ (& thank you Dev)

  • @kayleed9932
    @kayleed9932 4 месяца назад +1

    Been thinking about this video for the last 3 months, THANK you for coming on the show

  • @Xandraiyahs
    @Xandraiyahs 7 месяцев назад +11

    I hope she knows she was able to help atleast one person, obviously more but its nice to see people talking more openly about heavy topics like this

  • @miagreer9707
    @miagreer9707 7 месяцев назад +23

    I love this channel bc they just get straight into it, it shows how focused they are on the interviewees story I think.

  • @zunairafaiz372
    @zunairafaiz372 4 месяца назад +1

    Dea's courage in sharing her story is incredibly inspiring. Her strength shines through as she bravely speaks out against such a horrific violation of trust. Sending love and support to Dea as she navigates her healing journey.

  • @AdvncdFinesse
    @AdvncdFinesse 2 месяца назад

    So glad Your story is being shared and going viral, these stories MUST be heard! It won’t stop otherwise.

  • @CreatingFamilyCode
    @CreatingFamilyCode 7 месяцев назад +25

    To any woman reading this in the United states please know that going under anesthesia doctors have allowance to do any kind of examination and "teaching" procedures to new doctors. If you don't want that you always have the right to randomly deny them allowance for any kind of pelvic exam etc

    • @graciedays
      @graciedays 7 месяцев назад

      In relation to only that specific body part they are having surgery on right?

    • @nataliedersch9345
      @nataliedersch9345 7 месяцев назад

      @@graciedaysNo, thankfully in the state I live in it’s illegal. But if you’re under anesthesia they can just teach students pelvic exams on you. Even if you’re getting surgery on an arm

  • @boulderbigsly
    @boulderbigsly 7 месяцев назад +10

    I'm very grateful that she shared her story, but I have to say, this really shook me

  • @vibes.with.Eunice
    @vibes.with.Eunice 4 месяца назад +2

    I admire how brave you are ❤ . Thank you for speaking about this and shedding light on this topic that people try to downplay

  • @Bm-qu4xd
    @Bm-qu4xd 7 месяцев назад +6

    I am so lucky that I have been able to get through life without SA and because of stories like this I have become so much more equipped to help teach my children consent, what's right/wrong and how to self advocate. These stories have a greater impact in protecting those that haven't experienced SA than I think people realize so THANK YOU

  • @sydney2816
    @sydney2816 7 месяцев назад +11

    wow this is actually the most horrific story i’ve ever heard. it’s genuinely a horror movie. I really really hope that she has a good support system and can find a way to heal. i feel horrible.

  • @megandelcamo8843
    @megandelcamo8843 7 месяцев назад +34

    Isaiah Torres. Let's make sure people know about what he did

    • @Bunnybwise
      @Bunnybwise 7 месяцев назад +7

      We need Tracy’s name out there too fucj that she needs her license revoked

  • @Badgalkitty101
    @Badgalkitty101 2 месяца назад

    Dea you have so much heart and soul, I pray that you will continue to be the genuine person you are so you can truly blossom into your full potential. This was such a courageous step into your beautiful blossom, being a voice for those who have also felt unheard in their life because of their past or mental health. Your story proves that just because you struggle with mental health, it doesn’t mean what you say is untrue or what you say doesn’t matter. You are a person with a purpose and you definitely matter. Continue to be full of life! Thank you 🙏🏽✨

  • @cooperjackson4348
    @cooperjackson4348 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for having the strength and courage to share your story. We need to be informed about thess monsters!!! You're super brave!!!

  • @krissylynn6466
    @krissylynn6466 7 месяцев назад +13

    This was such a terrible story. I'm so glad she fought thru it all. Such a strong woman

  • @yee5816
    @yee5816 7 месяцев назад +5

    so brave for sharing this. this is absolutely insane and so scary

  • @alisonhall7362
    @alisonhall7362 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Dea - late to your story, but just wanted to say how brave, incredible, wise, and strong you are. Couldn't admire you more. Keep going, beautiful girl!

  • @ashleysartattack5600
    @ashleysartattack5600 7 месяцев назад +8

    Lord! I just read the title and that’s literally my worst nightmare! And I’ve been thinking about that a lot because I’ve been getting multiple surgeries for a tumor that gas been spreading. I’ve had such bad experiences with doctors, but I cant imagine!

  • @lilasthma420
    @lilasthma420 7 месяцев назад +19

    i’m so proud of her, her story is so hard to hear, i can’t imagine her pain. The amount of disgusting people in the world is horrifing. i can never imagine why someone or a group of people could ever do something like this.

  • @mariajackson940
    @mariajackson940 7 месяцев назад +8

    This is absolutely terrifying. So many people in this situation failed her and the other girls!

  • @ArkansasMomof2
    @ArkansasMomof2 7 месяцев назад +2

    This girl is amazing. I have an autistic daughter. You're brave and beautiful for sharing your story.

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for bringing this to the light

  • @thesoulporpoise
    @thesoulporpoise 7 месяцев назад +30

    i am sick to my stomach by these perpetrators, its something you can barely allow yourself to believe a human, MULTIPLE people at that, is capable of doing.
    Dea, thank you for being so candid and sharing your experience and saying their names with confidence, that is not easy and everyone watching recognizes that. This should have never happened to you or any of the other survivors and your bravery in coming forward is seriously astounding and inspired. I wish you nothing but the best in life, you are more than just a survivor of your traumatic experiences. I have faith you will continue to grow and do so much more in life outside of this!!!

  • @barbaranaiman9783
    @barbaranaiman9783 7 месяцев назад +20

    Dea you did a wonderful job telling your story. I’m sure this happens to more people than we can ever imagine. Devorah thank you for giving people a voice to be heard on your podcast that without this it would never be heard and would be kept silent. Also your plant and picture look wonderful.❤️👌👍

  • @abbiehiggins4676
    @abbiehiggins4676 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. That is absolutely INSANE! I don't know how humans can do things like this. I wish you nothing but the best of luck to you as you continue to heal and grow. ❤

  • @aimysmall4369
    @aimysmall4369 7 месяцев назад +23

    I know this doesn’t help much in the grand scheme of things, but I recommend checking your providers licenses on the department of health provider credential search. It will show you if theyve had their license revoked or suspended. It will also show if they have had any previous enforcement action. Recently A local provider was arrested for assaulting women, but his license had already been suspended years prior from similar reports. His coworker was letting him bill insurance under his name and somehow all of this went unnoticed for years. And even now that the main guy is in prison, the other guys business is still up and running. You never know, so it’s best to check. It’s so sad to think his victim list was growing despite him already being reported.

    • @negra_cucurumbe
      @negra_cucurumbe 7 месяцев назад +2

      I think this depends on the website bc some are self reporting

  • @melodievanier1157
    @melodievanier1157 7 месяцев назад +4

    My favourite guest, love her personality and vibe❤ You're a warrior and super brave and strong❤❤❤

  • @Chromeize
    @Chromeize 7 месяцев назад +28

    What really gets me about this, aside from being the most evil disturbing thing that can happen to a woman - is knowing this psycho had women nurses/assistants whatever in on it with him. To be a woman watching another woman be r'd under drugs and going along with it is pure nightmare fuel. No one can be trusted it seems, and its sick.
    Edit: Oh so the nurses weren't there. Idk tho, I still feel like they knew at least. I don't trust them.

  • @alynanatalia
    @alynanatalia 7 месяцев назад +2

    this has always been a fear of mine. she is so strong to be able to speak on this. a lot of victims stay silent for the rest of their lives out of fear or guilt. no one deserves to go through that!

  • @fashionspy96
    @fashionspy96 7 месяцев назад +51

    The more episodes i watch, the more i believe i should be trusting NO ONE 😳

    • @kimbertree
      @kimbertree 7 месяцев назад +2

      FACTS!!

    • @bellla333
      @bellla333 7 месяцев назад +4

      get ready to be labeled a conspiracy theorist 😂💀💗

  • @kaylamarie4926
    @kaylamarie4926 7 месяцев назад +3

    this is so terrifying and traumatic. thank you for sharing your story!

  • @chloechantal
    @chloechantal 7 месяцев назад +20

    for a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL to take advantage of the absolute most vulnerable position you were in is scary.

  • @MoraiBear
    @MoraiBear 3 часа назад

    Omg’s! I cannot even begin to imagine what all of you went through!
    And thank you for putting their names out there: show the public where the monsters are.
    Your strength and power are incredible!

  • @amymarie2730
    @amymarie2730 7 месяцев назад +20

    The prison should contact you if they are possibly or for sure going to release him early and you can write a letter to the court telling them why you do not want him released. I had to go through this and it worked they didn't let him out early.

    • @casey5683
      @casey5683 5 месяцев назад +1

      They usually do contact you when an inmate who’s case you were the victim of is going up for parole or release and you are allowed to respond.