Do you have the courage to disappoint people?
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- This is a video on living with integrity.
It's about the courage to disappoint people, even when it hurts.
This is about finding what we love, and not just liking what we're told to like.
In life there are two types of people: those who stop making waves and go along with the status quo and those who stand outside that circle of complacency and ask questions, who see things differently.
If you want to live a life true to yourself, you have to develop the courage to disappoint people.
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Same here. Recovering people pleaser. Thanks for the video
You're welcome :)
@@JustinBrownVids There's this book by the same title "The courage to be disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitage Koga. The book is based on the principles of psychology by Alfred Adler.
@@vivekamar99 one of my favorite books. I had this book in mind when creating the title of this video.
Well-said! Integrity is on the journey to internal peace. It is the road less taken but prepares one to live & die well.
Yep live & die well! Well said
Justin, you are one hell of a disruptor-RM-guide, your insights and COURAGE matter MUCH MUCH MORE than conformistic BS. You rock, please keep on rocking.
Thanks so much!
So TRUE!!👍🏻👍🏻
I burned out by living others burdens on me. But with spiritual awakening I was set free. This is a great video for anyone in need for inversely inner self care ❤
Thanks so much Sonya. Happy you've experienced a spiritual awakening that has set you free.
This is a great message. Integrity 🙌
Much appreciated.
Thank you very much!
Thank you for sharing! This has been very helpful.
Absolutely true!
Great message brother 👍
Thanks!
Good morning, thank you for this message, I needed to hear this.
Good morning :) Glad it was useful.
Awesome 😃
For the sake of my peace, yeah 🙂
For sure :-)
Thank you Justin for validating my journey... or rather the journey of all those trying to be authentic in a world that mainly prioritizes how much $$ you have, how many "friends" or assuming values or behaviors that are destructive... It is good to know that I/we are not alone.
You're definitely not alone ☺️
Such a smart handsome man😍❣️😘
Haha much appreciated :)
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Unfortunately I found myself to be a people pleaser I just don’t like to disappoint others even if that means upsetting myself but I’m in the progress of changing 👍🏻
Hi,
Yes, well said :D It is a lonely road, but with time I met some people, who love doing what are actually doing. We've got in basic lots of common, that's why it's a perfect working team, like a family XD :D But in privat life, I haven't got many friendships or family members, they want to play and I am just simple not. If I am not able to choose wisely my words and full with emotions, find better to stay in silence. Never ever be again a people pleaser, it was full of expectations and a wicked kind of self created illusion, as how I to lived it. It is give away my power, play like i don't own my life, without accept the consequences, what I made with my decisions
Glad the message resonated, Helga.
Nie mogę żyć własnym życiem. Hana g. Mi je zniszczyła. Upubliczniła mnie i najbardziej intymne szczegóły mojego życia. Nie mam żadnych szans na normalne życie. Ona wyjechała do Francji i używa do woli a ja gnije w Polsce w klatce społecznej wyobraźni. Nienawidzę jej i jej ziomków. Nie mam normalnego życia i żadnych szans na życie. Jestem tą sytuacją bardzo zmęczony i sfrustrowany życiowo. Nie potrafię wybaczyć jej ale przede wszystkim sobie że ja kiedykolwiek spotkałem .🙁
No I don’t- that’s why I’m still married for 40 years. The grass isn’t greener, and hubby is a good man.
Maybe the problem isn’t that the grass isn’t greener on the other side, or that you assume your husband is a good man. Maybe the problem is that you don’t have enough self esteem or clarity in what paths to take. And if you have ideas that keep coming through, maybe you don't have the sense of security to foresee details on how to bridge your life/identity from one end to another. I say research ‘attachment style theory’ and what words like courage and bravery mean. There’s always risks involved, even with your life right now there are risks involved if you continue deciding to stay that come through. I don’t know your history, complex thoughts and feelings, your husband, life, anything, my intent isn’t to disrespect but rather disappoint people. My whole life I’ve felt like I haven’t disappointed people, I’ve been constantly living for others. It’s stressful. It’s also worrisome. And I think there’s a reason why we’re both here, commenting on this video. We either searched for it or it came up to our recommendations, meaning we’re struggling with security/happiness.
@@oscardiaz9966 I know what your saying. But I chose to make the marriage work. My husband could of left me, I was out partying with friends for years, but he didn’t have the guts to leave either. At the end of our ups and downs, we realised we still loved each other, and the thought of going our seperate ways, was daunting, and financially crippling. I think people divorce over nothing these days. Marriage is to be respected. I knew a lady who was married 5 times, and her life was a mess, because she convinced herself she wasn’t happy, and needed a new husband, and each time she paid the consequences. To love and respect is a choice- not to convince yourself, you maybe unhappy. Happiness is a choice. Work through a marriage. Too many people, seperating over nothing.
@@teresagaylor3995 Your values, beliefs, purpose was parting??? Out with friends? Not judging, only thinking you're confusing what he is talking about. Have a direction towards a fulfilled, happy, healthy and successful life I think you was confused when you were doing those things. He is talking about clarity, purpose, goals, not pleasure and indulging yourself in a destructive way. Again not judging. You did what you thought was right at that time. And maybe you needed to do what you thought was right to make a mistake to fail and to rise again stronger and be happier with your husband. Maybe your bounds are stronger now with that bump than without.
You mean be a Narcissists.
I don't think you and him have the same understanding of matters. "When you're ready the teacher will show up". He can only tell that, he can't understanding it for you but you have right to think for yourself.