It’s like gathering the best fruit. U pick 6 that’s not bruised or rotten. We must be just as picky when it comes to having people in our life. We call people “picky” because we want them to be like us and settle for anything.
I respect myself tremendously. But, I attract nobody. Part of my self respect is to avoid negative people. Since I do not know who is negative and who is a postive person from looking at them, I simply do not meet people and become a background character that nobody notices. This assures I never have to encounter negative people. Nobody respects themself more than I do. But, I require no attention from others to be respectful of myself. I do not understand why so many people feel they need the attention of others to do anything. Why do they put their selves on display?
Same, I never thought I would make a good friend to me...while I'm busy giving benefit of doubts to my friends why can't I ever do the same for myself as a friend.
I have too, always been my harshest critic. However, now I no longer reprehend myself with the whip of the bitter word of beratement, as I have successfully managed to grow fond of myself (*^ -^*)
🌱 Timestamps 🌺 1:17 | « I'm my own best friend » 1:49 | « I know my priorities » 2:29 | « I respect others » 2:53 | « I know when I'm in the wrong and can show humility by apologizing » 3:12 | « I maintain healthy boundaries » 3:47 | « I stand by my values, regardless of a witness » 4:20 | « I know I have reasons to love myself » 4:50 | « I surround myself with people I know respect me too » Self-respect can help you become more respected by others. Remember to take care of yourself. I hope you're having a nice day btw 🤗
“When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It’s up to you. Encouragement should come from the inside.” - Jay Shetty ✨
I have never needed the affirmation of others. I always thought it rather trivial for people to do things to get approval from others. I do not care if anybody even knows me. I respect myself, for myself. Truthfully, I do not even know if others respect me, or not, since I do not care what others think. Why should I care what total strangers think of me. It is not as if I will ever come across these strangers again. If I do, they will not remember me. I do not even look at other people, save to avoid running into them when I am walking in a place that has lots of people.
@@rons5319 More importantly, keep yourself protected from others. That is, by far, the most important thing anybody can do when around humans. After all, humans are the most unpredictable animal in the cosmos.
I’ve had a friend like Susie and it took me 9 years to stand up for myself and let her go. She pretended like everything was my fault and that I was a bad person but as soon as she was out of my life I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. Do what your gut tells you. It’s seldom wrong 🙏🏽
Arguably, when we continue to say "Yes" to friends like Suzie, we ENABLE them to remain "broken children" forever... at least for far too long. The truth is, that sooner or later, EVERYONE has to adapt, grow up, and become a functioning adult in a difficult world full of trials, tribulations, and hard decisions. We're doing "friends like Suzie" NO favors by enabling childish behavior and sticking it out as that "safety net" to always clean up their messes, wipe their asses for them, and make trouble go away... It's crippling TO THEM... They won't thank you for the favor you ACTUALLY DO, when you cut that off... when you push them to step up for their own good. They won't appreciate having to do the hard things, and they won't like having to grow up. It's a hard thing, but we SHOULD put some limits and work on those boundaries at some point. It's one thing to be a good friend and help out with a contingency, once in a while... BUT that's ONCE IN A WHILE... NOT being a door-mat all the time, or replacing Mommy and Daddy. ;o)
Here's a tip that always works for me: saying "Thank you" to yourself. For example you just cleaned your room and sit down to rest. Take a moment to thank yourself for a clean room!
In my opinion self respect is not accepting less than you deserve, walking away when necessary, cutting users out of your life, doing what is best for you, saying no.
It was not until my mid-sixties that I demonstrated self-respect in personal relationships. In the decade since, I have less friends, but more peace and happiness. I have never been happier. Love to all!
This is the issue i am experiencing right now. My friend calls me everyday with loads of problems, but when i ask her things, she will just ignore me and it feels so bad... I always didnt know how to say no to her requests though im exhausted, but i have lately learnt how to set boundaries. Your video literally touched my heart to tell me that i deserve my own respect and should take care of myself :)
@@jackiesfree23 I reach out to her much less than before gradually, like I used to ask how she has been every few days before, but now if she doesn't find me then I won't find her. Also I began searching for more supportive people to be my friends to enlarge my social circle this year, and I have found a genuine friend that cares for me. I therefore invest more time into her instead of being with that needy friend. Hope this helps, and I believe you can do it! :) (Honestly it took me lots of courage and time to do this too)
Though not my own friend, I depend on myself tremendously. I am more self-reliant than 90% of the rest of the population. I require nobody to ever help me through anything. I will never ask anybody for help again. I have absolutely no friends and plan to keep it that way. The 21st century friend is nothing but a low level, opportunist, enemy. I require no enemy in my life nor any version of what a modern, "friend," is.
This actually came at the perfect time.. I went on a mission trip with my church and three other churches, and we went to help rebuild houses for people who needed it. We did many other things too, and it made me realize how I needed and now WANTED to work on myself and my self-confidence and self-respect. I teared up at Sign #7 because before now, I've never been able to find reasons to love myself. I always downgraded my abilities and had so little self-esteem and so much self-doubt, but I feel like I've already grown so much in the past week and I plan on continuing to do so. Self-respect rocks, guys. Believe in yourself! One side effect I've found of my own self-respect is that it's so much easier to be genuine to others. I was never really fake, but it's a much happier genuine now and I love that. Thank you, Psych2Go!
Also: how good of a person are we really if we do things for others to avoid conflict? Is such behavior really "good person behavior, or is such behavior rather a "I don't want the other person to dislike me, so I agree to every favor that they ask for"? I think we who try to avoid conflict are not really acting altruistically. We are just very, very afraid that someone will leave us if we don't do everything "right". And that's why we agree to put others over ourselves constantly.
I'm always doing this and I hate myself for it, I realize it's bad and I shouldn't do it, when I read or hear about it like now I totally agree, but when I find myself in the moments that count, where I SHOULD think about myself first rather than just avoid conflict, I always forget about it... one of my many big battles I'm fighting against myself
hello! I'm a narcissistic abuse survivor too and been healing since last year, congratulations!! for getting out of the relationship!! you are so strong!! I'm proud!! dont forget to be kind to yourself and I hope you're doing OK
I respect myself and depend only on myself. However, I feel no love for myself nor am I powerful. I am just extremely self-reliant. I do everything myself and by myself. I will never ask anybody for help on anything. I learn to do what must be done and do it. I learned the hard way, never let anybody help you for any reason. The person that helps you will hold what they did for you like a debt that you owe the person. I guess I do value myself because I can depend on nobody else, not even, "professionals." I learned a very expensive lesson there, as well. Never trust, "professional." Learn to replace your roof, repair your foundation, service your automobiles, repair and service everything you own, and how to do these things correctly. Then, forget everyone that has faked being your friend for a long time. You will find you have very little, if any, true friends. I found I have none. I do not plan on looking for any. I do not want to go down that complicated, hateful, manipulative, narcissistic path again. I have never had friends.
I used to give my homework to my classmates even though u hated it, thinking that I'm kind and helped them. Now i realized how i lacked self-respect and that they should be responsible
Same here as well. I've definitely learnt to say no (although Ive gotta implement the action more to suit my minimum needs), the only thing I am worried about is HOW I say no in situations where I can't make up my own words in a respectful enough manner. But I'm working on it.
I've gradually been learning to respect myself more. I wouldn't say I'm my own best friend, but more like my own acquaintance. I'm not quite there yet, but I will be in time :)
After watching this I realize I don't have a lot of self respect because the only one I can relate to is Sign #7 (I know I have reasons to love myself). But even then I struggle to find those reasons, so I'm just going to start working on it and hope for the best. Thanks for the info Psych2Go!
I respect myself tremendously. However, I do not like myself nor am I my own friend. What I am is the only person I an ever depend on for anything. Thus, I stay in top health, study constantly, and I am always tending to what needs to be done in my life, alone. I learned my lesson. I require nobody to be my friend, as they are today. Today's, "friends," are nothing but low level opportunist enemies. Nobody needs that in their lives.
I require no respect from anyone. I merely require to be overlooked and ignored. The only respect I get is from myself. In that, I get large amounts of respect in the form of what I consume, my cleanliness, my knowledge, and my overall haleness. Maintaining myself at my apex health is a form of true self respect. That is something the respect gained from others will never afford anybody. Self-respect is the only respect anybody needs.
@@Mojoballer How is staying in apex health, top cleanliness, and keeping your mind healthy not self respect? Being a dirty, fat, slob, with no relevant knowledge and being lazy can not possibly be self respect. It is the opposite of self respect. I know I respect myself whenever I am eating correctly, stay clean, study, and stay at apex health. I am not doing it out of disrespect for myself.
@@Mojoballer I only require to be ignored. I do not require to be acknowledged by others. My self respect is not dependent on the affirmation of others. I put very little value in the perception of what others think of me. To be overlooked, ignored, and not acknowledge is all desire from others.
Sometimes i dont understand what's your speaking about (because im not really good at english) even after using subtitle, but just hearing your warm friendly voice and watching the cute animation its just fun and calming.
I feel I have good self-respect. I think you don’t need to initially respect someone as it’s earned, but that doesn’t mean you don’t treat people as you would like to be treated, and be nice to people of course.
I have self-control and self-respect. However, I am a coward. One can have lots of self control and self respect but still be a coward. I am living proof of this paradox.
I don't know how much I REALLY respect myself. I'd advocate for myself when needed and I care about how things go for me and I want the best for me. However, I always get mad at myself, and don't treat myself great and don't talk to myself nicely. I'm super self critical and don't always like myself. I generally relate to the things in this video, but I also relate to things that are not self respect at all. Idk what this makes me.
"love yourself and treat yourself like your best friend, you have beed there for you throuout your life, respect your values and morals like you will repect others, believe and hug yourself with kindness like you would do to another, it is not selfish but it is how you treat yourself that you would see the beauty in another or in this world"- it helped me when i had a hard times, but i remebered that no matter what, i am there for myself even when no one did, and i can do this. what is selfish is to ignore those, it is selfish to yourself
"Respecting yourself will allow others to Respect you!" Well remember the saying, "You can't give what you don't got!" Aka if you do Not have empathy you cannot give it! If you do Not have gentleness you cannot give it! If you do Not have love you cannot give it! If you do Not have Respect you cannot give it!" It's just that way! 👀🧐🤔
Thank you for this content! I like the last part, "I surround myself with people I know respect me too". As i am growing up and older, i noticed i met more diverse people and not all showed the same level of respect.
Thank you for this it's really helpfull to me. My friend had recommended this video to me to watch. I also being used up by my classmates I never had guts to say no to my classmate's request. But now I do what I want. And I don't pressurize myself to follow someone's dreads.
In one thing he treated me so bad too and by me one thing he better not been saying anything about me about anything about me one thing he's lying about everything what he's telling you it needs to quit I love the man to Destin he never told her ex-girlfriend's like this oh he wants me so hard he can't never quit for no reason he think it's funny it's not it's not a game to play with somebody's heart like this I'm I was his best friend lover and everything one thing he used to me I never used him he needs to grow up and stop being a crybaby about everything I was I was crying a lot yes my heart got broken I hate when my heart gets broken like this he thinks everything's funny jokes I keep taking them back trying to trying to make it right and keep it keep it in a good relationship you can't keep anything in a good relationship anymore and I don't ask very much nothing off of him once in the right way I might ask for a pack of cigarettes sometime I'm hungry not very much I don't ask for and ask for love he quit loving me he hates me he must put a bag over my face when we have sex and then it's not right how he treats me like that kiss me like I'm a format I try to hug him and kiss him he don't want that you don't want anything from me sometime I help him all I can he don't help me very much sometimes he does I had to turn him goodbye today from this girlfriend butt hope he has the best life he wants I hope he finds the grass is greener on the other side I never needed her I never heard of them I never did anything to hurt him like he did to me he cheated on me 15 times that's cool no it's not two kids you think that's cool you know it's not it's been dating me hiding that girl's back 5 years it's hurt it's hurtful he thinks this is a game he's playing no it's not
I thought I wouldn't have any self-respect but clearly I do. I have checked off 4 out of 8 of these. ☺️ Well done to me.👏🏽 Let's keep it up and get the other 4 qualities.
I am responsible for absolutely everything in my life. I do everything myself and by myself. I never allow anybody to help me, whether it be just a regular person or a, "professional." I learned the hard way. Depend on nobody. Be extremely self-reliant. Trust no one. Disallow everyone to become close to you. Never help anybody else. Someone that seems to want to become your friend is merely someone that wants to invade your life. They have no plans for a true friendship. The 21st century person is incapable of friendship. They are either on their highest guard against becoming someone else's victim, or they are the one looking for a victim. Both types of people make extremely poor candidates to become a, "friend." I have no friends. I learned it is better to have nobody in life, and I do not.
I have done my inner work and I know I love myself because I have learned to set boundaries with people even though they are loved ones is hasn't been easy but it's worthy
this animation is so cute and calming!! I'd love to see more of these!! Keep it up Psych2Go! you're doing so well with the daily uploads! thank you so much for your hard work!
If there's one thing I've learned about what high value really means, it's how you value yourself. How you take care of yourself and others. How much you respect yourself and others. It's not about how much you make in salary, what car you drive or how many friends/followers you have on social media. If you are just a generally good person, you have more value than you and others think.
I have been having a real self confidence crisis lately for no reason and it's at the point where I see each of the 8 points and I'm like "yeah... wait am I tho?"
Amazing video! This one cleared my mind about a friend that called me "complicated " for being an organized person...i don't put names on her, but today I'll put another limit
I really love the art style of this animation. The colors used really gets you in the zone with the said topic. But also PSI’s art style here is just so cute 🥰
Don't worry dude. There comes a point where you'll feel you've had enough of taking extra responsibilities that aren't related to your own problems for solely you and your life. And when it causes you the most problems, you learn to identify your own true priorities and where the problem is at. From there, you eventually become more comfortable with saying no, as you know it would cause you further problems
I'm starting on my healing journey and I realized I wouldn't have checked off any of these before... I'm still struggling with a few of these, especially the boundaries one because of my toxic parents. However if anyone out there is struggling down their healing path, remember that you aren't alone and healing will be hard. It's been two months and I'm still going, but I'm feeling genuinely happier now. I wish everyone the best of luck and hope you do ok !
I respect myself. I don't see what all of these have to do with that though. I have a problem with setting boundaries because I was never taught that it was a thing, and was never allowed to have any boundaries. I was raised to be a doormat, even though a part of my screamed all the time about it. If someone needs something, I have to do it, or be hated by my family and friends. If family comes to my house and sees something they want, they just take it, no matter what I want. I have to hide everything I think they might want, then hate myself for being in a situation where I have to do that. I have no idea what loving myself is other than in the xxx meaning. I was raised to hate myself, and I do. There's nothing I like about myself, and there's nothing anyone else likes about me either that I'm aware of. How I even have a friend is beyond me. If I could surround myself with people who respect me, I'd be on another planet. No one does. Of course no one respects anyone or anything anymore either. That's one of the giant source problems with all of humanity right now.
Doing things for someone else denys them of the experience their shirking. Sharing the experience is with them will guide them to respecting themselves.
I just have the same issue, she and me just not much of a match. I realized that in this friendship I continuously worry for her as she's so clueless at some point and dependent. I can't seems to set my boundaries right when it comes to her. I just chose the worst one to approach the problem while feeling relieved. I hope she can learn more by herself and connect with me again when she's ready.
You and the whole Psych2go team deserve more than Respect. I am really happy because of your videos which really helps me a lot to keep my mental health up❤.
1: I don’t have any friends besides family. Even I’m just an acquaintance to myself. 2: Yesn’t 3: Kind of. Depends on what kind of person they are. 4: … Next question please 5: No 6: Unless I’m in front of my family, yes. 7: Not exactly sure about that one. _I_ don’t even know what good traits I have 8: yes I feel more like a machine than a person most days. But I know I can be empathetic. Like the Iron Giant
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When you respect yourself you realize you may attract less people, but you’ll always attract the right people
It’s like gathering the best fruit. U pick 6 that’s not bruised or rotten. We must be just as picky when it comes to having people in our life. We call people “picky” because we want them to be like us and settle for anything.
'222’ just right. Thanks.
Exactly 💯
I respect myself tremendously. But, I attract nobody. Part of my self respect is to avoid negative people. Since I do not know who is negative and who is a postive person from looking at them, I simply do not meet people and become a background character that nobody notices. This assures I never have to encounter negative people. Nobody respects themself more than I do. But, I require no attention from others to be respectful of myself. I do not understand why so many people feel they need the attention of others to do anything. Why do they put their selves on display?
I knew this but I needed a reminder. Thank you.
" i have to treat myself as a friend ".. that's something I had never thought of.. I've always been my greatest criticizer..
Same here. Definitely the eye opener I needed
Same, I never thought I would make a good friend to me...while I'm busy giving benefit of doubts to my friends why can't I ever do the same for myself as a friend.
I have too, always been my harshest critic. However, now I no longer reprehend myself with the whip of the bitter word of beratement, as I have successfully managed to grow fond of myself (*^ -^*)
Just discovered I'm in a toxic relationship with myself
Same 😓
🌱 Timestamps 🌺
1:17 | « I'm my own best friend »
1:49 | « I know my priorities »
2:29 | « I respect others »
2:53 | « I know when I'm in the wrong and can show humility by apologizing »
3:12 | « I maintain healthy boundaries »
3:47 | « I stand by my values, regardless of a witness »
4:20 | « I know I have reasons to love myself »
4:50 | « I surround myself with people I know respect me too »
Self-respect can help you become more respected by others. Remember to take care of yourself. I hope you're having a nice day btw 🤗
How??! It’s only been 2 minutes since the video came out
Or not
Thank you 😊
Thank you!!
Half Of Them Then
Only Because I’m Having A Good Day Lmao
“When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It’s up to you. Encouragement should come from the inside.” - Jay Shetty ✨
Thanks for the lovely quote ^_^💖
What will encouraging myself do when I already feel helpless
I have never needed the affirmation of others. I always thought it rather trivial for people to do things to get approval from others. I do not care if anybody even knows me. I respect myself, for myself. Truthfully, I do not even know if others respect me, or not, since I do not care what others think. Why should I care what total strangers think of me. It is not as if I will ever come across these strangers again. If I do, they will not remember me. I do not even look at other people, save to avoid running into them when I am walking in a place that has lots of people.
Love yourself. It's the most important love.
@@rons5319 More importantly, keep yourself protected from others. That is, by far, the most important thing anybody can do when around humans. After all, humans are the most unpredictable animal in the cosmos.
I’ve had a friend like Susie and it took me 9 years to stand up for myself and let her go. She pretended like everything was my fault and that I was a bad person but as soon as she was out of my life I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. Do what your gut tells you. It’s seldom wrong 🙏🏽
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Me too we love true thank you
If u don’t desire the best, then u won’t have the best.
Arguably, when we continue to say "Yes" to friends like Suzie, we ENABLE them to remain "broken children" forever... at least for far too long. The truth is, that sooner or later, EVERYONE has to adapt, grow up, and become a functioning adult in a difficult world full of trials, tribulations, and hard decisions. We're doing "friends like Suzie" NO favors by enabling childish behavior and sticking it out as that "safety net" to always clean up their messes, wipe their asses for them, and make trouble go away... It's crippling TO THEM...
They won't thank you for the favor you ACTUALLY DO, when you cut that off... when you push them to step up for their own good. They won't appreciate having to do the hard things, and they won't like having to grow up.
It's a hard thing, but we SHOULD put some limits and work on those boundaries at some point. It's one thing to be a good friend and help out with a contingency, once in a while... BUT that's ONCE IN A WHILE... NOT being a door-mat all the time, or replacing Mommy and Daddy. ;o)
You're so right. The body will tell when something is wrong.
Here's a tip that always works for me: saying "Thank you" to yourself. For example you just cleaned your room and sit down to rest. Take a moment to thank yourself for a clean room!
Currently cleaning my room
In my opinion self respect is not accepting less than you deserve, walking away when necessary, cutting users out of your life, doing what is best for you, saying no.
This is not only self respect, may be the necessary ego to achieve success, too.
It was not until my mid-sixties that I demonstrated self-respect in personal relationships. In the decade since, I have less friends, but more peace and happiness. I have never been happier. Love to all!
Never, ever be desperate to have a friend or be in a relationship.
Wish i could read this 4 months back.
This is the issue i am experiencing right now. My friend calls me everyday with loads of problems, but when i ask her things, she will just ignore me and it feels so bad... I always didnt know how to say no to her requests though im exhausted, but i have lately learnt how to set boundaries. Your video literally touched my heart to tell me that i deserve my own respect and should take care of myself :)
Hey copper wire how exactly did you set boundaries with her? I’m trying to learn the same
@@jackiesfree23 I reach out to her much less than before gradually, like I used to ask how she has been every few days before, but now if she doesn't find me then I won't find her. Also I began searching for more supportive people to be my friends to enlarge my social circle this year, and I have found a genuine friend that cares for me. I therefore invest more time into her instead of being with that needy friend. Hope this helps, and I believe you can do it! :)
(Honestly it took me lots of courage and time to do this too)
Your character is defined by what you do when no one is looking. This is, by far, the best definition I have ever seen for this.
I always respect good people as much as I can, no matter what they look like or what there beliefs/opinions are.
Good way to be 😊👍🏻
I've been called friendly and bubbly,but I still have boundaries set in place!
Yes. Most of them. Thank you. Glad to hear those two words still exist hand in hand.
"I care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself." - Charlotte Brontë
Though not my own friend, I depend on myself tremendously. I am more self-reliant than 90% of the rest of the population. I require nobody to ever help me through anything. I will never ask anybody for help again. I have absolutely no friends and plan to keep it that way. The 21st century friend is nothing but a low level, opportunist, enemy. I require no enemy in my life nor any version of what a modern, "friend," is.
Self love, care and respect is a must.
This actually came at the perfect time.. I went on a mission trip with my church and three other churches, and we went to help rebuild houses for people who needed it. We did many other things too, and it made me realize how I needed and now WANTED to work on myself and my self-confidence and self-respect. I teared up at Sign #7 because before now, I've never been able to find reasons to love myself. I always downgraded my abilities and had so little self-esteem and so much self-doubt, but I feel like I've already grown so much in the past week and I plan on continuing to do so. Self-respect rocks, guys. Believe in yourself! One side effect I've found of my own self-respect is that it's so much easier to be genuine to others. I was never really fake, but it's a much happier genuine now and I love that. Thank you, Psych2Go!
We had a face it Friday And then the teacher said think of a negative thought that has been bothering me
I told the thought that was bothering me
"You know you have reasons to love yourself" that melted me 💜
I love your little outro of those three little dudes dancing in harmony. It feels really peaceful and nice and I think it's really fitting.
It’s when you have self respect that you start to see who’s your true brother or sister
Also: how good of a person are we really if we do things for others to avoid conflict? Is such behavior really "good person behavior, or is such behavior rather a "I don't want the other person to dislike me, so I agree to every favor that they ask for"? I think we who try to avoid conflict are not really acting altruistically. We are just very, very afraid that someone will leave us if we don't do everything "right". And that's why we agree to put others over ourselves constantly.
That’s sad T^T
But true
That’s a very true statement.
I'm always doing this and I hate myself for it, I realize it's bad and I shouldn't do it, when I read or hear about it like now I totally agree, but when I find myself in the moments that count, where I SHOULD think about myself first rather than just avoid conflict, I always forget about it... one of my many big battles I'm fighting against myself
Loneliness and trauma makes me like this. Working on it though.
Thank you! after stepping out of an 8 year long narcissistic relationship, I've worked very hard on myself and now, I relate to all of these signs! 💕
hello! I'm a narcissistic abuse survivor too and been healing since last year,
congratulations!! for getting out of the relationship!! you are so strong!! I'm proud!! dont forget to be kind to yourself and I hope you're doing OK
I respect myself. I value myself. I love myself. I empower myself. ❤️
Claiming the energy
@@SoulEater_Crona Sounds like it’s time to stop dreaming.
I respect myself and depend only on myself. However, I feel no love for myself nor am I powerful. I am just extremely self-reliant. I do everything myself and by myself. I will never ask anybody for help on anything. I learn to do what must be done and do it. I learned the hard way, never let anybody help you for any reason. The person that helps you will hold what they did for you like a debt that you owe the person. I guess I do value myself because I can depend on nobody else, not even, "professionals." I learned a very expensive lesson there, as well. Never trust, "professional." Learn to replace your roof, repair your foundation, service your automobiles, repair and service everything you own, and how to do these things correctly. Then, forget everyone that has faked being your friend for a long time. You will find you have very little, if any, true friends. I found I have none. I do not plan on looking for any. I do not want to go down that complicated, hateful, manipulative, narcissistic path again. I have never had friends.
I used to give my homework to my classmates even though u hated it, thinking that I'm kind and helped them. Now i realized how i lacked self-respect and that they should be responsible
It took me years to unlearn the people pleasing behavior (not yet perfect). Also I need to not feel guilty at all whenever I say no to someone.
Same here as well. I've definitely learnt to say no (although Ive gotta implement the action more to suit my minimum needs), the only thing I am worried about is HOW I say no in situations where I can't make up my own words in a respectful enough manner. But I'm working on it.
I've gradually been learning to respect myself more. I wouldn't say I'm my own best friend, but more like my own acquaintance. I'm not quite there yet, but I will be in time :)
Have a nice journey :)
Thank you for these HEALTHY ATTRIBUTES OF SELF RESPECT ! Something we can aim for , in a toxic world .
Learn to give your absence to those who don't respect your presence.. ....
After watching this I realize I don't have a lot of self respect because the only one I can relate to is Sign #7 (I know I have reasons to love myself). But even then I struggle to find those reasons, so I'm just going to start working on it and hope for the best. Thanks for the info Psych2Go!
You're not alone man...I'm also struggling with this self-Respect/Love or esteem...But I think it can be healed I we put some efforts into it 💫
Same
I respect myself tremendously. However, I do not like myself nor am I my own friend. What I am is the only person I an ever depend on for anything. Thus, I stay in top health, study constantly, and I am always tending to what needs to be done in my life, alone. I learned my lesson. I require nobody to be my friend, as they are today. Today's, "friends," are nothing but low level opportunist enemies. Nobody needs that in their lives.
I require no respect from anyone. I merely require to be overlooked and ignored. The only respect I get is from myself. In that, I get large amounts of respect in the form of what I consume, my cleanliness, my knowledge, and my overall haleness. Maintaining myself at my apex health is a form of true self respect. That is something the respect gained from others will never afford anybody. Self-respect is the only respect anybody needs.
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@@Mojoballer How is staying in apex health, top cleanliness, and keeping your mind healthy not self respect? Being a dirty, fat, slob, with no relevant knowledge and being lazy can not possibly be self respect. It is the opposite of self respect. I know I respect myself whenever I am eating correctly, stay clean, study, and stay at apex health. I am not doing it out of disrespect for myself.
Yeah that’s true, but Respect from people is also important.
@@Mojoballer I only require to be ignored. I do not require to be acknowledged by others. My self respect is not dependent on the affirmation of others. I put very little value in the perception of what others think of me. To be overlooked, ignored, and not acknowledge is all desire from others.
so relatable, everyone needs a healthy dose of self-respect now and then. Kudos and keep it up!
Sometimes i dont understand what's your speaking about (because im not really good at english) even after using subtitle, but just hearing your warm friendly voice and watching the cute animation its just fun and calming.
I feel I have good self-respect. I think you don’t need to initially respect someone as it’s earned, but that doesn’t mean you don’t treat people as you would like to be treated, and be nice to people of course.
“Self-control is the chief element in self-respect, and self-respect is the chief element in courage.” ― Thucydides
I have self-control and self-respect. However, I am a coward. One can have lots of self control and self respect but still be a coward. I am living proof of this paradox.
If you stay quiet just to keep the peace around you than what about the peace inside you
So just speak your mind!! 💜
This new art style is AMAZING!!! man I love the soft textures and the simplified characters! I love it!
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I don't know how much I REALLY respect myself. I'd advocate for myself when needed and I care about how things go for me and I want the best for me. However, I always get mad at myself, and don't treat myself great and don't talk to myself nicely. I'm super self critical and don't always like myself. I generally relate to the things in this video, but I also relate to things that are not self respect at all. Idk what this makes me.
I just wanna thank u for all the hard work u put in this account. Everyday new videos are coming and are helping others and me, ty^^
"love yourself and treat yourself like your best friend, you have beed there for you throuout your life, respect your values and morals like you will repect others, believe and hug yourself with kindness like you would do to another, it is not selfish but it is how you treat yourself that you would see the beauty in another or in this world"- it helped me when i had a hard times, but i remebered that no matter what, i am there for myself even when no one did, and i can do this.
what is selfish is to ignore those, it is selfish to yourself
This is the video I need😞 im learning to love and respect myself
"Respecting yourself will allow others to Respect you!"
Well remember the saying, "You can't give what you don't got!" Aka if you do Not have empathy you cannot give it! If you do Not have gentleness you cannot give it! If you do Not have love you cannot give it! If you do Not have Respect you cannot give it!" It's just that way! 👀🧐🤔
I relate to all of them. The greatest self respect you can have for yourself is to be a helping hand to people in need.
I am getting better at respecting myself, but I don’t think I’m quite to the point of being my own best friend yet…
Thank you for this content! I like the last part, "I surround myself with people I know respect me too". As i am growing up and older, i noticed i met more diverse people and not all showed the same level of respect.
I've been wrong before, but I don't have anyone to apologize to afterward.
~Tucker
Thank you for this it's really helpfull to me. My friend had recommended this video to me to watch. I also being used up by my classmates I never had guts to say no to my classmate's request. But now I do what I want. And I don't pressurize myself to follow someone's dreads.
Starting to work on humility and boundaries
So awesome that it seems like every time you come out with a new video, it's just what I need to hear. Thank you so much for what you do🤗💙
In one thing he treated me so bad too and by me one thing he better not been saying anything about me about anything about me one thing he's lying about everything what he's telling you it needs to quit I love the man to Destin he never told her ex-girlfriend's like this oh he wants me so hard he can't never quit for no reason he think it's funny it's not it's not a game to play with somebody's heart like this I'm I was his best friend lover and everything one thing he used to me I never used him he needs to grow up and stop being a crybaby about everything I was I was crying a lot yes my heart got broken I hate when my heart gets broken like this he thinks everything's funny jokes I keep taking them back trying to trying to make it right and keep it keep it in a good relationship you can't keep anything in a good relationship anymore and I don't ask very much nothing off of him once in the right way I might ask for a pack of cigarettes sometime I'm hungry not very much I don't ask for and ask for love he quit loving me he hates me he must put a bag over my face when we have sex and then it's not right how he treats me like that kiss me like I'm a format I try to hug him and kiss him he don't want that you don't want anything from me sometime I help him all I can he don't help me very much sometimes he does I had to turn him goodbye today from this girlfriend butt hope he has the best life he wants I hope he finds the grass is greener on the other side I never needed her I never heard of them I never did anything to hurt him like he did to me he cheated on me 15 times that's cool no it's not two kids you think that's cool you know it's not it's been dating me hiding that girl's back 5 years it's hurt it's hurtful he thinks this is a game he's playing no it's not
Great! I cantick them all. I knew I had self-respect but it was still interesting to hear. Thanks.
I thought I wouldn't have any self-respect but clearly I do. I have checked off 4 out of 8 of these. ☺️ Well done to me.👏🏽 Let's keep it up and get the other 4 qualities.
“Character - the willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life - is the source from which self-respect springs.” ― Joan Didion
I am responsible for absolutely everything in my life. I do everything myself and by myself. I never allow anybody to help me, whether it be just a regular person or a, "professional." I learned the hard way. Depend on nobody. Be extremely self-reliant. Trust no one. Disallow everyone to become close to you. Never help anybody else. Someone that seems to want to become your friend is merely someone that wants to invade your life. They have no plans for a true friendship. The 21st century person is incapable of friendship. They are either on their highest guard against becoming someone else's victim, or they are the one looking for a victim. Both types of people make extremely poor candidates to become a, "friend." I have no friends. I learned it is better to have nobody in life, and I do not.
It's something I always do and hearing these....made me proud of myself!!
This animation is beautiful, big thanks to Rose for this video.
I have done my inner work and I know I love myself because I have learned to set boundaries with people even though they are loved ones is hasn't been easy but it's worthy
this animation is so cute and calming!! I'd love to see more of these!! Keep it up Psych2Go! you're doing so well with the daily uploads! thank you so much for your hard work!
If there's one thing I've learned about what high value really means, it's how you value yourself.
How you take care of yourself and others.
How much you respect yourself and others.
It's not about how much you make in salary, what car you drive or how many friends/followers you have on social media.
If you are just a generally good person, you have more value than you and others think.
1. and the boundaries one I've had issues with. ever since this new journey of mine, they are not issues anymore - WIP anyway :) . Thank you
I have been having a real self confidence crisis lately for no reason and it's at the point where I see each of the 8 points and I'm like "yeah... wait am I tho?"
Love this, I got them all!!!
Amazing video! This one cleared my mind about a friend that called me "complicated " for being an organized person...i don't put names on her, but today I'll put another limit
0:40 “thank youuu!” Lol that fake voice when you know you could’ve done it yourself.
The narrator's voice is always captivating that is why i always watch this channel whenever there is a update
I really love the art style of this animation. The colors used really gets you in the zone with the said topic. But also PSI’s art style here is just so cute 🥰
I keep struggling with this, even to the point of isolating my self for many years even after the pandemic. I need to disepline my self more.
Don't worry dude. There comes a point where you'll feel you've had enough of taking extra responsibilities that aren't related to your own problems for solely you and your life. And when it causes you the most problems, you learn to identify your own true priorities and where the problem is at. From there, you eventually become more comfortable with saying no, as you know it would cause you further problems
💜💜💜 this channel, helps me understand myself more! Thank u 🤗
I'm starting on my healing journey and I realized I wouldn't have checked off any of these before... I'm still struggling with a few of these, especially the boundaries one because of my toxic parents. However if anyone out there is struggling down their healing path, remember that you aren't alone and healing will be hard. It's been two months and I'm still going, but I'm feeling genuinely happier now. I wish everyone the best of luck and hope you do ok !
I am still in practicing phase but you know the words practice makes perfect. Hope i can grow more 🥰
I respect myself. I don't see what all of these have to do with that though. I have a problem with setting boundaries because I was never taught that it was a thing, and was never allowed to have any boundaries. I was raised to be a doormat, even though a part of my screamed all the time about it. If someone needs something, I have to do it, or be hated by my family and friends. If family comes to my house and sees something they want, they just take it, no matter what I want. I have to hide everything I think they might want, then hate myself for being in a situation where I have to do that. I have no idea what loving myself is other than in the xxx meaning. I was raised to hate myself, and I do. There's nothing I like about myself, and there's nothing anyone else likes about me either that I'm aware of. How I even have a friend is beyond me. If I could surround myself with people who respect me, I'd be on another planet. No one does. Of course no one respects anyone or anything anymore either. That's one of the giant source problems with all of humanity right now.
Ooh.. i really enjoy your video, I really like it
Thank you for the video I do have self-respect.
Be my own homie... it sounds so simple yet I never thought about it
I really do like this video thanks for posting it
I have all of these things!
Really loved this! 🌼
This is the cutest animation I’ve ever seen 🥺⭐️ thank u so much for this incredible videos 😭🫶
Doing things for someone else denys them of the experience their shirking. Sharing the experience is with them will guide them to respecting themselves.
I treat all people with respect even though they don't respect me, it's up to them.
I just have the same issue, she and me just not much of a match. I realized that in this friendship I continuously worry for her as she's so clueless at some point and dependent. I can't seems to set my boundaries right when it comes to her. I just chose the worst one to approach the problem while feeling relieved. I hope she can learn more by herself and connect with me again when she's ready.
Its hard to show respect when others hurt you when you open yourself to them
sure i have people like susie in the intro, but i make them pay me for looking at my work lmao
It hurts so much when your own parents say you don't deserve respect because you're their child. Dang
Don’t claim their disfunction as your own. Desire to do and be better.
“Self-respect is the root of discipline: The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.” ― Abraham Joshua Heschel
Hi everyone.
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Oh Sketch2Go?!
You and the whole Psych2go team deserve more than Respect.
I am really happy because of your videos which really helps me a lot to keep my mental health up❤.
Getting there 😊
Found this on the "MUST WATCH" playlist
Excellent set of rules - and not everyone knows all of them!
Informative, practical and fun!👍
The friend's voice impression caught me off guard at the beginning lol
Numbers Six and Eight are the pillars that best represent my ow self-respect
Have a great Day 🤩❤️
I got some self respect to learn
I love the video style,the drawings! I would had stopped answering those phone calls ages ago xD
I guess i have to keep respecting because i love myself
I just realized that, I'm being too kind to my friend but I still want to help them
thanks
If you show respect you will get respect !!!!!😊😊😊
This is the way to go !
1: I don’t have any friends besides family. Even I’m just an acquaintance to myself.
2: Yesn’t
3: Kind of. Depends on what kind of person they are.
4: … Next question please
5: No
6: Unless I’m in front of my family, yes.
7: Not exactly sure about that one. _I_ don’t even know what good traits I have
8: yes
I feel more like a machine than a person most days. But I know I can be empathetic. Like the Iron Giant