Fear of Letting People Down/Disappointing Them - Tapping with Brad Yates

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  • Опубликовано: 31 июл 2022
  • While the fear of disappointing people could motivate us to try harder and do better... it often stops us from doing anything, so as to avoid the possibility of letting them down. I hope you'll decide that the potential benefits are worth the risk. Let's address these feelings with EFT/Tapping.
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Комментарии • 55

  • @natachamusser
    @natachamusser 2 года назад +5

    In the last two weeks I have been feeling a deep sense of lost and sadness. I do 5 trappings a day, which really help. I have been feeling guilty of not being a stay at home mommy for my dog. After the divorce, I feel that I let her down, not being able to spend the time with her that I use to. I have never been able to have children, and I treat her as if she was my child.

  • @lynettemcmechan4207
    @lynettemcmechan4207 2 года назад +12

    Thank you Brad! I’ve been so stuck lately in a pattern of not doing anything for me “just in case” someone needs me to be there for them. So everyone else goes on with their lives and I am waiting so I am available for them. I think I will need to repeat this video a few times.

    • @wannabeskinnylegend5645
      @wannabeskinnylegend5645 Год назад +2

      This has been some of my screwy programming that I discovered just the other day as well!

  • @BinduMadhu
    @BinduMadhu 2 года назад +4

    You are an earth angel! There is that compassion combined with strength and love in your eyes that just shines through. Thank you!

  • @StreaminFreedom
    @StreaminFreedom Месяц назад

    Thanks Brad realized this was my block! Great video, felt the emotion of this long held challenge today. Now I feel much better.

  • @lisajames8305
    @lisajames8305 2 года назад +8

    wow brad i seemed to have missed this aspect of my programing before. i was surprised how deep and far back this goes for me. Will be working on this

  • @WezaMind
    @WezaMind Год назад +1

    7.26 you crack me up
    punchline!
    this is transformative for me, it's like waking up from sleep... thanks so much Brad

  • @kasia4919
    @kasia4919 3 месяца назад

    Thank You Brad ♥️🫂🌸🙏

  • @katyboyer266
    @katyboyer266 2 года назад +1

    Your timing is impeccable!!! Thank You, Brad! 🤗❤🙏🏼

  • @lovealways2609
    @lovealways2609 2 года назад +1

    The victory of pleasing others, sometimes comes at too high of a cost.
    yes.. i agree

  • @rebeccal.672
    @rebeccal.672 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for another great tapping session. I have really needed this one to help with a mother who is never pleased with me no matter what I do or dont do. Have a great day!

  • @deedee2455
    @deedee2455 2 года назад +5

    This is what I really need today. Thank you. :)

  • @kimberly-abriefongrief7777
    @kimberly-abriefongrief7777 2 года назад +3

    This is perfectly timed for my tapping and shifting with session 4 of Tap into Money- thank you Universe and thank you Brad for shining the Universe’s abundance! 🥰
    I love you my friend, even when (or perhaps even more!) when you say No 😉💜 The no’s always have hidden magic! THAT in itself, is a life-altering shift for me!!

  • @olivesingh4015
    @olivesingh4015 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so very much Brad.

  • @monicaenglander2868
    @monicaenglander2868 2 года назад +3

    Thank you, Brad. I needed this. I appreciate you and everything you do.

  • @dennistesdell3243
    @dennistesdell3243 2 года назад +3

    Quite common in so many peoples lives and mines. 👍

  • @PH_1964
    @PH_1964 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Brad 😊

  • @archanabhatt9077
    @archanabhatt9077 9 месяцев назад

    😊 I was feeling stuck and crying, realising that old deep hurt of disappointing others has surfaced. Found your video, and by the end of it I am laughing and giggling. Feeling lighter. Do thank you 🙏

  • @karenjoy511
    @karenjoy511 2 года назад +1

    Love your tapping help, Brad!

  • @sheexplorestheusa
    @sheexplorestheusa 2 года назад +1

    Exactly what I needed today, thank you! Helped me realize what I missed on a childhood trauma I tapped on many times previously, and thought I had cleared.

  • @treesforpeacenm
    @treesforpeacenm 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful, thank you so much

  • @WezaMind
    @WezaMind 2 года назад +1

    THIS ONE I NEEDED BIG TIME THANK YOU

  • @nicolasbogadot
    @nicolasbogadot 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for the video, Brad! They always pop up at the perfect moment. Sending you lots of love and gratitude for creating such powerful content.

  • @angelahernandez4932
    @angelahernandez4932 10 месяцев назад

    I didnt realize how much i needed this tap. The floodgates burst open😭 I will definitely be doing this a few times. Thank you🙏

  • @jessicaf6358
    @jessicaf6358 2 года назад +1

    THANK YOU for this (and all of these)! This topic isn't mentioned often.

  • @recathner2026
    @recathner2026 2 года назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @ilsevanoostenbrugge6463
    @ilsevanoostenbrugge6463 2 года назад +1

    Epic, as always. Thanks Brad, you were spot on....i so appreciate your work. (I will repeat this one a few times.)

  • @NaLucj
    @NaLucj Год назад

    Thank you so much Brad! 💗

  • @SS-li5ej
    @SS-li5ej 2 года назад +2

    Thank you

  • @Gympiedillons4
    @Gympiedillons4 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Brad

  • @lisasunshine773
    @lisasunshine773 2 года назад +2

    Perfect timing!! 😊

  • @janewright2800
    @janewright2800 2 года назад +1

    This tap Needed!!!🙏💚

  • @trueopinion1775
    @trueopinion1775 Год назад

    I don't remember doing this 2 weeks ago, I'm taking this as a sign that I need to do this again, thanks 💓

  • @henriquetasilva4439
    @henriquetasilva4439 2 года назад +1

    Brad, muito obrigada! ❤🙏

  • @sakyqueen
    @sakyqueen 10 месяцев назад

    ❤ thank you, this fear really held me back. I am so afraid that I cried,I am really thankful for this video to bring me relif

  • @trueopinion1775
    @trueopinion1775 2 года назад

    Thanks 💓

  • @vinaynagaonkar8592
    @vinaynagaonkar8592 2 года назад +1

    Great

  • @lodenco691
    @lodenco691 Год назад

    Thanks Brad! On the flipside, if you are a codependent or product of a narcissistic family your pattern may be to continue to try harder and harder and abandon yourself in order to please other people.

  • @greenfingers359
    @greenfingers359 4 месяца назад +1

    For me the fear of letting people down, which I dowsed for is one the my current blockers, so I'm tapping on this but the angle for me is also fearing of messing up which has also brought shame ( couple of fear of failure). I was scolded for being put back a year when I was grieving the loss of my grandparents which also triggered a PTSD since the age of 7. A also felt bad about a traumatic event that took place before then that reinforced the feeling of having let down and failing. Then I suffered from non-Hodgkin's as a teenager and survived it after lots of rounds of chemo. This has often times lead me to overcompensate ( the opposite for not doing anything) to do too much, to not let either divorced parents down growing, always proving my self-worth. I'm picking lots of your wonderful videos out to help heal my inner child. I'm so forever grateful. Is there a suitable tapping video for fearing letting people down but from the angle of having to feel to overcompensate and people please ? Thank you

    • @tapwithbrad
      @tapwithbrad  4 месяца назад +1

      I hpe you find this one helpful: ruclips.net/video/_Oi0dxsR8pE/видео.html

    • @greenfingers359
      @greenfingers359 4 месяца назад

      @@tapwithbrad thank you ❤

  • @mangoweasel
    @mangoweasel Год назад

    I really needed this. Maybe there is hope for me yet. I see and existential therapist. Today I told him about some task issues I face. After awhile a realization was made that I have a fear of disappointing others which is a root cause to my task issue. Which I guess is more of a CBT thing...he mentioned so in an unenthused manner and continued the session as if it just simply wasn't interesting enough/ in his wheelhouse. So I left feeling like I disappointed him too. :/ . I didn't want to offend him, but that really cut me deep. Really deep. Like I sat in my car and cried about how dumb I was to bring that up to him even though we have been working together for almost two years now and he was disappointed because I wasted his time.
    I didnt know where to turn and found this video. I've never done this tapping thing before. I'm not really a physical person. Nor am I super into repeating things, but out of desperation to stop this feeling, I followed your instructions. Completely new to your content.
    I feel alot better now. It was a moment I almost never have. To quiet the internal, just listen say and digest what is being said. When you make yourself say it out loud. It just hits different. I don't know why. Maybe it's because I am home alone. But repeating stuff, normally the correlation between the words and self being said never connect. This time it did though.
    Thank you. You turned my horrible day into a tolerable one. Please make more content for those like me that need it and happen upon it.

  • @SaraLo110376
    @SaraLo110376 Год назад

    If they're disappointed I can refer them to some tapping videos on RUclips. LOL Perfect. Just discovering you. Good stuff! Thank you!

  • @Si2Si2Si3
    @Si2Si2Si3 Год назад

    it is day 11 and 11:11 when i finished this video xD idk what it means, but i like it
    oh Brad and you are definitely an angel, that is for sure, i prayed for you and told God to let us be friends on heaven one day hahah
    God bless you!

  • @elaineiveson3770
    @elaineiveson3770 Год назад

    The refer them to tapping videos on RUclips if their disappointed had me laughing 😂🤝

  • @heather482
    @heather482 2 года назад +1

    I can heal.

  • @itsnaah
    @itsnaah 2 года назад +1

    Hey Greg. Is there any for when others let you down so badly?

  • @pinkifloyd7867
    @pinkifloyd7867 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @austinamymusic
    @austinamymusic 2 года назад +2

    ✨️💛✨️

  • @DubaiUAE_5
    @DubaiUAE_5 2 года назад +1

    Seems I can't be well does EFT help in it

    • @janewright2800
      @janewright2800 2 года назад +1

      Find appropriate tapping for you on UTube as Brad has them all x best wishes🙏💚

    • @tapwithbrad
      @tapwithbrad  2 года назад

      I hope some of these help: ruclips.net/user/results?search_query=brad+yates+never+better

    • @DubaiUAE_5
      @DubaiUAE_5 Год назад

      @@tapwithbrad thaks

  • @neon_quest
    @neon_quest Год назад

    Thank you so much for this.🩷
    I could slightly tell what my anxiety was about (that's how I found your video) but your words made me understand it a lot better.
    I've been dealing with these feelings for a long time, just pushing against the resistance until I was overwhelmed, but you can't achieve long term goals like that. I will repeat your words until they come naturally to me.