This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,212 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Thank you Cheryl. I recently had to accept that I'm unable to save my husband as he battles end stage liver failure. I thought I could fix it by becoming his living donor. In surrendering my belief, I've found clarity and the lessons this experience has taught me.
I'm honestly still trying to let it all sink in that the guy who I really want to be with will never work out no matter how hard we can try because we simply probably aren't even meant for each other. I'm still trying to process everything. I'm in battle between what I want and what's reality, I wish that certain things were true but they simply aren't and there's nothing in the world that I can do to change it, it is what it is. Even me saying it is hard to do when I want someone badly.
08samae Listen to your heart, make what you want clear. You can't get over your feelings if you dont face them. At the end of the day if you still want him you can try to make things work, or you can do somethig that makes you feel full. For me thats trying new foods and writing. Find peace and stability. Do something that makes you forget about your stress. You can't just forget but someday when you think about him you wont want him back because your happy and fufiled.
I accept things I can’t change but never dwell on it, life is too short and there will always be new opportunities. i struggle with things i did in the past and to let to ,its not easy ..a lot but that quote is an good mind set.
thank you so much my grandad passed away last year and iIcant get over it as he has been there my entire life. To make things worse about a month ago I broke something that I loved and it might not get repaired.
Thank you for bringing these words home! I can't really talk here about what's happening but it has to do with family. People that surround me, texts I read, videos I watch all repear these same lessons. And I finally feel like I am able to learn and feel through these lessons. Big hug from me!
Jozina, I'm thrilled that the video was helpful to you. There are over 100 more here on my channel. Check them out for more help and inspiration. Make sure to subscribe so that you're always notified when new videos come out. Big hugs right back to you!
I had to pause this on 2 minutes and 27 seconds. I really enjoyed the positivity I'm laughing even though I'm tired I want to cry but I'm still going through Step on 1.Ah love your spirit
Hi Jodie, I am so thrilled you found this video at the right time and that you found it useful. Wishing you the very best of luck with your surgery. Sending you healing strength and blessings. Thank you 🙏
My mother has cancer. I don’t have a permanent job. Therefore no stability or security. My partner left me. I’m 36. It’s a constant thought of setback making me feel pessimistic . I want to be optimistic but I just can’t
my girlfriend cheated me weve been together for 2 years and 2 months but she got pregnant with her ex. im absolutely shocked and devastated. didnt saw it coming we were sweet most of the time and we even planned to marry someday. still having a hard time accepting what is. break ups are really hard and they crush your spirit. any advise?
Marlon, I'm so sorry to hear that. No wonder you're shocked and devastated; not only must you feel betrayed, but since she's pregnant, there is a finality to it that there might not otherwise be. One thing is certain: it is possible for you to move on and start again. I'm happy to give you a copy of my newest book "How to Get Unstuck" as my gift to you; just go to CherylHunter.com/get-unstuck. Wishing you peace.
@@nothuman5687 No he has no reason to rush if he doesn't want to. Someone who isn't willing to wait for you isn't worth being in your life. In your own words: "U fucked up not" him.
Marlon I've been in a relationship with this guy when we first met we were colleges sweetheart shared everything we been there for each other , 2014 I got fortunate and employed permanent and he was struggling to get a job and on 2015 he hot his internship to become skilled when went to suprice him found him cheating with this woman I never saw it coming too , but I forgave myself and try and accept that's sometimes life throw the stones to the most fruit tree , I was sad, depressed lost myself in process but through my strong believe I got myself up and stop feeling sorry for myself and start to give myself more love more respect, you will make it too
1) break up are only child’s play compared to actual life altering situations and 2) I never believe for a second men are heart broken, men just use women as a means for an end, I just think men get ego hurt or are just bothered now they have to actually go out and find some other soft body to have in their bed. to men a woman is a woman and merely a means to an end.
My mother has schizophrenia, dad is a full blown narcissist, and have been this way all my life, I'm sorry but your advice does not compute. And I don't mean that in a negative way, I have no idea where to start with your advice. I'll keep looking for answers.
This was great advice. I appreciate that you grounded it in your own difficult past experience, that offered some validating comfort that you’ve been there.
I have been struggling with opiod addiction for a few years now. In and out of rehabs. Not being able to move on but some unfortunate events have happened that have really changed my outlook on my whole addiction. Its almost now i don’t really want to use drugs anymore.. but i know its not that easy. This video just jumped out at me b/c there are adversities that come up and they can all be perfect lessons if we allow them to be. Awesome Cheryl thanks!
I have been in a 4 year relationship with a woman that has children with a very egotistical and materialistic man. I have grown to love them as my own, but it's a constant battle. There is no co parenting AT ALL and our family values and parenting technics are completely different (understandable) but when it comes to discipline and holding the children accountable we do not see eye to eye and it is slowly turning the children against us. They are children and are obviously going to take the easy way out, but I don't think I can let it go. We just got married and this situation is causing marital issues. I'm not sure if I can handle the fact that I can't change or make him or the children see. I know it's not my place, but I've steered clear of people like this my whole life and now I feel stuck and no longer home with the people that are suppose to be my family and it's making me want to leave for good.
During an extremely stressful period in October, i had both children in hardships... I love my career job., and was so proud to have it..... but the stressful time, i retired. Wait, what?.. is exactly what i thought! I never ever wanted to retire !!, but i did... im in very serious depression, and suffer. I lost all will to live, and hate myself for retiring myself!! I know i wasn't thinking correctly. Having insomnia, anxiety and horrible stress... but still. Why i thought retirement was the solution??.. im actually dying now, had suicide thoughts and attempts. I hate myself!, i don't care about my life. family or friends.. i just hate life now,... i want my job back! , my lifestyle back!! But, its impossible..... how? How do i move on from this?
My husband abused me covertly, verbally, and stole hundreds of thousands of dollars from me. We are going through a divorce. Thank God, I have a protective order. The divorce process is as abusive as he was, but I must get through it all to be free of him. I really loved this man and was completely devastated to realize that he is a covert narcissist and that I had been conned by him from the beginning. I have learned so much. The judge seems to favor him in her decisions, which is so difficult to accept, when I was the one abused. I am praying for a fair outcome that exposes his fraud !!!
My goodness, you have certainly been through so much! Prayers for your fair outcome and I hope that my message was helpful to you during this difficult time 🙏
Dear Cheryl. Thank you for sharing your light. Great video. You are a great inspiration in my life. It's very difficult to live in Brazil. Your words give me strength faith and courage. Believe. Twelve million unemployed. It seems the end of the world. I need to watch your videos. Short time. GOD Bless you, Cheryl. Your fan! ;) Santos City. São Paulo State. BRZ.
Dear Olavo, thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry to hear of the difficulties that you (and we all) are facing. As the video says, CULTIVATE FAITH. I truly believe that can help. God bless you, too. Thank you.
Thanks it was helpful,how to make peace,how to embrace it not sure how,faith comes easy had it since I was born,faith is the hope,just not sure how too.
Why would someone be denied fatherhood out of discrimination and then be robbed of seeing your kid being born, also not being able to see their face? I see no GIFT in that. It's just a lot of worrying and heartache.
Accepting that I have abandon those who love me and those who I love in one form or another. That I have also been abandon by everyone I love and those who love me in one form or another. I need to find a way to accept this mourn the loss of trust and faith in both directions, forgive myself and others, make amends where possible most of all accept that I abandoned myself first and I need to find myself so I can learn to love myself and forgive myself and heal myself . I need to accept that I need to let go of an idea of who I was, what I had and my entire reality of what I thought my reality even is or was. I guess I need to accept that i must learn that I am capable of taking care of myself and fulfilling all of my own needs as a person. I am learning to love myself and others without expectations or limits or conditions and control or an emotional tie to a particular outcome. I am able to release the need for any particular way the my life or my relationships unfold. I am able to allow each event to occur without getting stuck on the why and allow each person in my life to just be who they are and not who I want or expect them to be. I am capable of every possible growth that will benefit me as a person and I am worthy of taking care of I am also the best possible person to be in charge of taking care of me. I am worth my own love and care and I am always connected to that which connects all. Thank you
Hey Frances! It sounds like you know what you need. It's important to not get stuck in figuring out what you want to change in your life, and start to focus on how you can live the life you want. I believe in you!
Good clip.....how to get unstuck from a betrayal of a partner who you thought you'd marry and have kids with, and now they are gone and you have nothing. How do you get unstuck when you were so happy and wish your life should have been on another path to the one you find yourself on now?
Hey Sams! It's not easy when life throws you a curveball like that. Take it one day at a time. There's no quick fix for getting through this. Get reacquainted with old friends or hobbies that you've neglected, take time with yourself to grow and heal, try new foods and events that interest you. Just know that you WILL get through this and you WILL be stronger on the other side.
How to deal with things that occur in the now, things you can not control, for example construction noise next door. You can accept it, embrace it, release it, but the neighbor keeps hammering away. Elvis just left building...?
how can anyone guarantee anyone say that there is ever meaning or gifts after such tragic or awful events? How can anyone claim there is a reason without concrete proof? That sounds off.sometimes there isn’t a reason or a pot of gold for our pain. Then what?
You are absolutely right: there is no inherent meaning to the tragic or awful events that we face. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Since that's the case, and we can't will the tragic or awful event to "UN happen," one possible place to stand is to INVENT an empowering meaning for the tragic or awful event. Without an empowering meaning, we suffer. With an empowering meaning we may still be sad, angry, frustrated, you name it, but the experience of suffering over "it shouldn't be this way" can finally end.
There's a great book by Dr. David Hawkins called "LETTING GO" that sums up the process very well. You might enjoy reading. The way I personally look at it, though, is that my fighting what's happening (even inside my own head) only makes ME suffer. It never changes what's happening. If you make peace with it (by surrendering to the fact that it is, in fact, happening, and you can't do anything about it), then at least you can move on and move forward. Blessings to you, Paul.
How do I stop wishing I had a material object that costs money? I have obsessed with Aibo the robotic dog since I was little. I have another robotic dog already named i-Cybie and I feel like it just isn't enough. I am a teenage female and I have autism and ADHD if that helps. Please and thank you!
Hey there! Thanks for reaching out. I hear you about the feeling that what we have just isn't enough. Here's the thing: when we focus on lack; when we focus on what we DON'T HAVE vs. what we DO HAVE, we'll always feel empty. Focus on what you have that you're grateful for, and cultivate gratitude. That's a place to start. I've got over 100 other videos which can help. Just check them out if you'd like!
I fell in love with a pregnant woman and i always wanted a family i have to accept the fact that she does have a another baby father and will be somewat connected to him forever idk why thats so hard for me to accept i want to be happy i dont want to end a relationship cause of this. Im a very spiritual open minded thinker i dont want my significant other connected to anyone else but it wouldn’t feel half as bad if we met and the baby was already here it was very hard watching the person your inlove with have another mans child. Please comment back lol
I think you came into this woman's life for a reason. And I think that whoever the father of her child is was removed from the picture for a reason too. Maybe you can be a better man to this woman, and a better father than that man could ever be. If its meant to be, then everything will work out perfectly. God has a plan for all of us. The fact that this baby has a different biological father, shouldn't matter bc you're in his/her life (and their mom's) for a reason. Make the best of it, and just enjoy your time with your family. The two of you can also continue the family! 👪 Hope this helps. 😀
Ihad audio illusion. I felt people were talking my thoughts aloud. I have not yet been able to accept it as untrue and think that people can actually read minds in general.
My toxic boss and his close net co workers lied about my character because I reported wrongful doings at work and they retaliated against me by transferring me 80 miles from home 160 miles a day and ruined my opportunities to promote it’s been three years of hell because I need the job for the benefits for my family….why does the universe allow evil ? Where’s Karma at? I’m tired of crying over it!
THE MOVIE THAT IM GOING TO PUT THIS YEAR, GOT PREDICTED BY THE SIMPSONS SHOW, THEY SAY THAT THIS YEAR SOMEBODY WILL PREDICT THE END OF THE WORLD MATHEMATICALLY, IM USING ONE EQUATION AND ONE MATHEMATICAL CONCEPT, AFTER I PRESENT TO THE PEOPLE THIS SIMPLE STAITMENTS, AND PROVING IT MATHEMATICALLY PEOPLE STILL DO NOT BELIEVE IT
Maybe she is not the one for you. You may be able to find another that is a more suitable partner for you. Sometimes good looking women can actually be horrible people when you really get to know them.
The challenge that I am facing right now is that I am unable to accept that I I am a ftm guy I am unable to accept that I have to transition in order to be male and unable to accept that was born female
All my entire life people remind me how short and young I look like a 12 Years kid while I am 23 years and it's difficult to get a job and it really bothers me and I don't know what to do
I can appreciate how much that would bother you. Keep all of your focus on getting the right job for you--the job you really want most. Generate the feelings in your heart that you would have if that job were ALREADY yours. Don't focus on what is right now--instead, keep all of your focus on your goal. Use all of your intention to keep guiding your mind back to that goal FULFILLED. Give thanks for it as if it's already happened. Don't let what anyone says or does sway your vision. You'll get there. And take to heart that when you get older and everyone around you looks old and tired, you can rub it in about how young you look! ;) Adding a little humor for levity here...go get 'em!
Hi Sarah, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a hard time right now. We all get down sometimes and we all have things we wish we could change, whether that's about our lives or our appearance. The sun continues to rise each day and it brings with it the chance to start anew. Every day is a blessing, even when it doesn't feel like it. Sending blessings your way - "This too shall pass." 🙏
Hi Nancy. The question then becomes, "WHAT CAN I DO?" There will always be shitty things that happen. We can't control that. We can control certain things however, and one of them is what we choose to do next. Wishing you peace.
I still don’t know how to accept the things I can not change, cuz I keep thinking maybe it will change, maybe this person will understand what’s right , maybe it’s temporary maybe it’s a moment, but year after years I see this one person is the same doesn’t change, and I’m irritated by this person over all, and I can’t accept it, everything this person does irritates me, cuz it all seems so wrong!!
I understand. The reason it's hard to accept these things is BECAUSE we cannot change them. Since that's the case, a good question to ask yourself is, "If I can't change the situation, what can I do that will bring me peace?" It sure beats the heck out of the alternative and being upset about what is...
I definitely agree with you. It is very hard. You can only advise people in life. I don't care if it isa spouse,sibling,child,parent,etc. You just have to do what you think is right.
I’m not saying your wrong at all…..problem I have is your telling people to say this or that to yourself yet…..to me this has no impact at all ? What do you do other than say something to yourself l?
Hey Shreya, your life is NOT a waste. You matter, you are important, and this world is better because you are in it. I challenge you to find something in your life that brings you joy and purpose and find a way to change the world with it. I believe in you!
For me,, I believe it’s work on it everyday. Say it to yourself everyday, all day. You must make a practice of the words to change your thinking. Saturate yourself with what you want to change. You might already do this and so keep on working on it. ❤️ it takes a long time. Make goals to change your thinking
"God - Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change - Courage to change the things I can - And the Wisdom to know the Difference".
Amen to that!
I do not accept and I'm an atheist!! Accepting is stupid and a big joke...I wont accept nor believe in god!!! You shouldnt either!!
@@cherylhunter booooooo
Amen.
My dog was my baby. After 12 great years with him, he passed away and as a Libra it's hard to sink in. RIP Balboa
Libra gang, and I’m Sorry to hear that 💞
1. Make peace with what is
2. Embrace it
3. Cultivate faith
Good stuff. I wish it came in a pill.
Same here..
Hahaha yes me too
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,212 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Thank you Cheryl. I recently had to accept that I'm unable to save my husband as he battles end stage liver failure. I thought I could fix it by becoming his living donor. In surrendering my belief, I've found clarity and the lessons this experience has taught me.
I'm honestly still trying to let it all sink in that the guy who I really want to be with will never work out no matter how hard we can try because we simply probably aren't even meant for each other. I'm still trying to process everything. I'm in battle between what I want and what's reality, I wish that certain things were true but they simply aren't and there's nothing in the world that I can do to change it, it is what it is. Even me saying it is hard to do when I want someone badly.
I am in a similar situation and struggling with accepting it. How are you doing now?
If you are broken hearted and have a big problem, always remember you are worthy enough!
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My boyfriend broke up with me and now i don't know where my life goes. Tried dating, tried travelling but at the end of the day i still want him back.
08samae Listen to your heart, make what you want clear. You can't get over your feelings if you dont face them. At the end of the day if you still want him you can try to make things work, or you can do somethig that makes you feel full. For me thats trying new foods and writing. Find peace and stability. Do something that makes you forget about your stress. You can't just forget but someday when you think about him you wont want him back because your happy and fufiled.
Do you want him back because of who he is, or who you would like him to be? Think very carefully about that.
That means a lot thank you
I wish i had a girl that thought about me like you do about him tho. Im sorry that youre suffering!
I accept things I can’t change but never dwell on it, life is too short and there will always be new opportunities.
i struggle with things i did in the past and to let to ,its not easy ..a lot but that quote is an good mind set.
thank you so much my grandad passed away last year and iIcant get over it as he has been there my entire life. To make things worse about a month ago I broke something that I loved and it might not get repaired.
God, give me strength and courage to accept things that can't be changed. Also, give me strength not to feel regret
Thank you for bringing these words home! I can't really talk here about what's happening but it has to do with family. People that surround me, texts I read, videos I watch all repear these same lessons. And I finally feel like I am able to learn and feel through these lessons. Big hug from me!
Jozina, I'm thrilled that the video was helpful to you. There are over 100 more here on my channel. Check them out for more help and inspiration. Make sure to subscribe so that you're always notified when new videos come out. Big hugs right back to you!
I had to pause this on 2 minutes and 27 seconds. I really enjoyed the positivity I'm laughing even though I'm tired I want to cry but I'm still going through Step on 1.Ah love your spirit
Thank you so much, that is so kind!
Very Practical and Useful Advice!! About to undergo serious surgery!! Thanking God for leading me to this video!!💕
Hi Jodie, I am so thrilled you found this video at the right time and that you found it useful. Wishing you the very best of luck with your surgery. Sending you healing strength and blessings. Thank you 🙏
Hi how did ur surgery go ❤️❤️
@@graceslaying1019 That's very kind of you to ask. Yes, @Jodie Herscheid, please let us know. Wishing you both the very best.
@@cherylhunter cheryl...I do not accept nor believe in god!! Accepting and believing in god is a big fucken joke!! I'm not accepting!!!
My mother has cancer. I don’t have a permanent job. Therefore no stability or security. My partner left me. I’m 36. It’s a constant thought of setback making me feel pessimistic . I want to be optimistic but I just can’t
my girlfriend cheated me weve been together for 2 years and 2 months but she got pregnant with her ex. im absolutely shocked and devastated. didnt saw it coming we were sweet most of the time and we even planned to marry someday. still having a hard time accepting what is. break ups are really hard and they crush your spirit. any advise?
Marlon, I'm so sorry to hear that. No wonder you're shocked and devastated; not only must you feel betrayed, but since she's pregnant, there is a finality to it that there might not otherwise be. One thing is certain: it is possible for you to move on and start again. I'm happy to give you a copy of my newest book "How to Get Unstuck" as my gift to you; just go to CherylHunter.com/get-unstuck. Wishing you peace.
2 years in a relationship, boi I'm glad she cheated on u. She was probs waiting for u to marry her. U fucked up not her
@@nothuman5687 No he has no reason to rush if he doesn't want to. Someone who isn't willing to wait for you isn't worth being in your life. In your own words: "U fucked up not" him.
Marlon I've been in a relationship with this guy when we first met we were colleges sweetheart shared everything we been there for each other , 2014 I got fortunate and employed permanent and he was struggling to get a job and on 2015 he hot his internship to become skilled when went to suprice him found him cheating with this woman I never saw it coming too , but I forgave myself and try and accept that's sometimes life throw the stones to the most fruit tree , I was sad, depressed lost myself in process but through my strong believe I got myself up and stop feeling sorry for myself and start to give myself more love more respect, you will make it too
1) break up are only child’s play compared to actual life altering situations and
2) I never believe for a second men are heart broken, men just use women as a means for an end, I just think men get ego hurt or are just bothered now they have to actually go out and find some other soft body to have in their bed.
to men a woman is a woman and merely a means to an end.
My mother has schizophrenia, dad is a full blown narcissist, and have been this way all my life, I'm sorry but your advice does not compute. And I don't mean that in a negative way, I have no idea where to start with your advice. I'll keep looking for answers.
This was great advice. I appreciate that you grounded it in your own difficult past experience, that offered some validating comfort that you’ve been there.
Very nice. Thanks. This is just what I needed to hear right now. This offers me a way out of the suffering that I have been in for a long time.
Cheryl Ma'am, you're just amazing!❤You made me feel so better by your wonderful words!Thanks a lot, Ma'am! :)
I'm thrilled to hear that, Deblisa. There are hundreds more videos on my channel to watch while you're here. Enjoy!
I have been struggling with opiod addiction for a few years now. In and out of rehabs. Not being able to move on but some unfortunate events have happened that have really changed my outlook on my whole addiction. Its almost now i don’t really want to use drugs anymore.. but i know its not that easy. This video just jumped out at me b/c there are adversities that come up and they can all be perfect lessons if we allow them to be. Awesome Cheryl thanks!
You are most welcome, Christian. I'm happy that it helped in some way.
What lessons do you think addictions teach us?
I have been in a 4 year relationship with a woman that has children with a very egotistical and materialistic man. I have grown to love them as my own, but it's a constant battle. There is no co parenting AT ALL and our family values and parenting technics are completely different (understandable) but when it comes to discipline and holding the children accountable we do not see eye to eye and it is slowly turning the children against us. They are children and are obviously going to take the easy way out, but I don't think I can let it go. We just got married and this situation is causing marital issues. I'm not sure if I can handle the fact that I can't change or make him or the children see. I know it's not my place, but I've steered clear of people like this my whole life and now I feel stuck and no longer home with the people that are suppose to be my family and it's making me want to leave for good.
EMBRACE IT!!! Its not gonna go away. In fact... its gonna get worse.
Thank you for this video very helpful
During an extremely stressful period in October, i had both children in hardships... I love my career job., and was so proud to have it..... but the stressful time, i retired. Wait, what?.. is exactly what i thought! I never ever wanted to retire !!, but i did... im in very serious depression, and suffer. I lost all will to live, and hate myself for retiring myself!! I know i wasn't thinking correctly. Having insomnia, anxiety and horrible stress... but still. Why i thought retirement was the solution??.. im actually dying now, had suicide thoughts and attempts. I hate myself!, i don't care about my life. family or friends.. i just hate life now,... i want my job back! , my lifestyle back!! But, its impossible..... how? How do i move on from this?
These are great steps
Thanks for the video!
My husband abused me covertly, verbally, and stole hundreds of thousands of dollars from me. We are going through a divorce. Thank God, I have a protective order. The divorce process is as abusive as he was, but I must get through it all to be free of him. I really loved this man and was completely devastated to realize that he is a covert narcissist and that I had been conned by him from the beginning. I have learned so much. The judge seems to favor him in her decisions, which is so difficult to accept, when I was the one abused. I am praying for a fair outcome that exposes his fraud !!!
My goodness, you have certainly been through so much! Prayers for your fair outcome and I hope that my message was helpful to you during this difficult time 🙏
Dear Cheryl. Thank you for sharing your light. Great video. You are a great inspiration in my life. It's very difficult to live in Brazil. Your words give me strength faith and courage.
Believe. Twelve million unemployed. It seems the end of the world. I need to watch your videos. Short time. GOD Bless you, Cheryl. Your fan! ;) Santos City. São Paulo State. BRZ.
Dear Olavo, thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry to hear of the difficulties that you (and we all) are facing. As the video says, CULTIVATE FAITH. I truly believe that can help. God bless you, too. Thank you.
+Cheryl Hunter Thank you so much, dear Cheryl. You are Amazing. your fan! God Bless you!!
God bless you, too, Olavo. Thank you.
Thanks it was helpful,how to make peace,how to embrace it not sure how,faith comes easy had it since I was born,faith is the hope,just not sure how too.
Why would someone be denied fatherhood out of discrimination and then be robbed of seeing your kid being born, also not being able to see their face? I see no GIFT in that. It's just a lot of worrying and heartache.
Accepting that I have abandon those who love me and those who I love in one form or another. That I have also been abandon by everyone I love and those who love me in one form or another. I need to find a way to accept this mourn the loss of trust and faith in both directions, forgive myself and others, make amends where possible most of all accept that I abandoned myself first and I need to find myself so I can learn to love myself and forgive myself and heal myself . I need to accept that I need to let go of an idea of who I was, what I had and my entire reality of what I thought my reality even is or was. I guess I need to accept that i must learn that I am capable of taking care of myself and fulfilling all of my own needs as a person. I am learning to love myself and others without expectations or limits or conditions and control or an emotional tie to a particular outcome. I am able to release the need for any particular way the my life or my relationships unfold. I am able to allow each event to occur without getting stuck on the why and allow each person in my life to just be who they are and not who I want or expect them to be. I am capable of every possible growth that will benefit me as a person and I am worthy of taking care of I am also the best possible person to be in charge of taking care of me. I am worth my own love and care and I am always connected to that which connects all. Thank you
Hey Frances! It sounds like you know what you need. It's important to not get stuck in figuring out what you want to change in your life, and start to focus on how you can live the life you want. I believe in you!
Sometimes the hardest part is to embrace it
Very true, Jack, thanks for watching.
Thank you so much I think this will help
Good clip.....how to get unstuck from a betrayal of a partner who you thought you'd marry and have kids with, and now they are gone and you have nothing. How do you get unstuck when you were so happy and wish your life should have been on another path to the one you find yourself on now?
Hey Sams! It's not easy when life throws you a curveball like that. Take it one day at a time. There's no quick fix for getting through this. Get reacquainted with old friends or hobbies that you've neglected, take time with yourself to grow and heal, try new foods and events that interest you. Just know that you WILL get through this and you WILL be stronger on the other side.
@@cherylhunter most of my friends desserted me!
@@cherylhunter Not sure all my friends left me as I was depressed for too long also.
How to deal with things that occur in the now, things you can not control, for example construction noise next door.
You can accept it, embrace it, release it, but the neighbor keeps hammering away.
Elvis just left building...?
If i decide not talking to friend/Ex which my co Worker, does it count as the first step (Make Peace with it) or it's the way arround ??
Thank you for the advice
You are most welcome. Thanks for watching.
Very insightful.
You made me laugh at times throughout this video so thankyou! :)
Thank you, I'm glad that you enjoyed it!
how can anyone guarantee anyone say that there is ever meaning or gifts after such tragic or awful events? How can anyone claim there is a reason without concrete proof? That sounds off.sometimes there isn’t a reason or a pot of gold for our pain. Then what?
You are absolutely right: there is no inherent meaning to the tragic or awful events that we face. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Since that's the case, and we can't will the tragic or awful event to "UN happen," one possible place to stand is to INVENT an empowering meaning for the tragic or awful event. Without an empowering meaning, we suffer. With an empowering meaning we may still be sad, angry, frustrated, you name it, but the experience of suffering over "it shouldn't be this way" can finally end.
@@cherylhunter I just took a screenshot of your comment so I can look at it whenever I feel distraught about any given circumstance. Beautiful quote❤
Great words
I loved your video and hearing that you went through. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for tuning in Bailey!
I said something bad and lost a girl and all people close to me. I don’t even know why I said it. Now I’m a suicidal wreck
CAN YOU PLEASE KINDLY EXPLAIN TO ME FURTHER HOW CAN YOU MAKE PEACE WITH WHAT IS? I KNOW THAT THIS IS THE SOLUTION BUT WHAT IS THE METHOD? THANKS
There's a great book by Dr. David Hawkins called "LETTING GO" that sums up the process very well. You might enjoy reading. The way I personally look at it, though, is that my fighting what's happening (even inside my own head) only makes ME suffer. It never changes what's happening. If you make peace with it (by surrendering to the fact that it is, in fact, happening, and you can't do anything about it), then at least you can move on and move forward. Blessings to you, Paul.
You are amazing and inspirational. Thank you for this
Thank YOU Hailey. I am so glad that my message can inspire you.
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I broke the tip of my favorite knife, it hurt so bad :/
How do I stop wishing I had a material object that costs money? I have obsessed with Aibo the robotic dog since I was little. I have another robotic dog already named i-Cybie and I feel like it just isn't enough. I am a teenage female and I have autism and ADHD if that helps. Please and thank you!
Hey there! Thanks for reaching out. I hear you about the feeling that what we have just isn't enough. Here's the thing: when we focus on lack; when we focus on what we DON'T HAVE vs. what we DO HAVE, we'll always feel empty. Focus on what you have that you're grateful for, and cultivate gratitude. That's a place to start. I've got over 100 other videos which can help. Just check them out if you'd like!
I fell in love with a pregnant woman and i always wanted a family i have to accept the fact that she does have a another baby father and will be somewat connected to him forever idk why thats so hard for me to accept i want to be happy i dont want to end a relationship cause of this. Im a very spiritual open minded thinker i dont want my significant other connected to anyone else but it wouldn’t feel half as bad if we met and the baby was already here it was very hard watching the person your inlove with have another mans child. Please comment back lol
I think you came into this woman's life for a reason. And I think that whoever the father of her child is was removed from the picture for a reason too. Maybe you can be a better man to this woman, and a better father than that man could ever be. If its meant to be, then everything will work out perfectly. God has a plan for all of us. The fact that this baby has a different biological father, shouldn't matter bc you're in his/her life (and their mom's) for a reason. Make the best of it, and just enjoy your time with your family. The two of you can also continue the family! 👪 Hope this helps. 😀
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Ihad audio illusion. I felt people were talking my thoughts aloud. I have not yet been able to accept it as untrue and think that people can actually read minds in general.
My toxic boss and his close net co workers lied about my character because I reported wrongful doings at work and they retaliated against me by transferring me 80 miles from home 160 miles a day and ruined my opportunities to promote it’s been three years of hell because I need the job for the benefits for my family….why does the universe allow evil ? Where’s Karma at? I’m tired of crying over it!
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You're welcome.
THE MOVIE THAT IM GOING TO PUT THIS YEAR, GOT PREDICTED BY THE SIMPSONS SHOW, THEY SAY THAT THIS YEAR SOMEBODY WILL
PREDICT THE END OF THE WORLD MATHEMATICALLY, IM USING ONE EQUATION AND ONE MATHEMATICAL CONCEPT, AFTER I PRESENT TO THE PEOPLE THIS SIMPLE STAITMENTS, AND PROVING IT MATHEMATICALLY PEOPLE STILL DO NOT BELIEVE IT
How'd this work out? Which day is the last?
The girl I like, doesn't have feelings for me. And it hurts whenever I see her with her new boyfriend
Maybe she is not the one for you. You may be able to find another that is a more suitable partner for you. Sometimes good looking women can actually be horrible people when you really get to know them.
Amazing
Thank you so much, Bryan!
The challenge that I am facing right now is that I am unable to accept that I I am a ftm guy I am unable to accept that I have to transition in order to be male and unable to accept that was born female
I hope is easy. 🤗
It takes conscious thought, but after doing it for a bit can become more natural 😊
what am i going to do about it now? Maybe just staying on my bed crying until next year😊
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Give us this day oh Lord The Vivifying forces of Light :
Let us not stray into the wicked by paths of our imagination Amen 🌟🙏🏽
Excellent video!!
Thank you. I'm happy you enjoyed it. There are hundreds more here on my channel; I hope they make a difference for you!
All my entire life people remind me how short and young I look like a 12 Years kid while I am 23 years and it's difficult to get a job and it really bothers me and I don't know what to do
I can appreciate how much that would bother you. Keep all of your focus on getting the right job for you--the job you really want most. Generate the feelings in your heart that you would have if that job were ALREADY yours. Don't focus on what is right now--instead, keep all of your focus on your goal. Use all of your intention to keep guiding your mind back to that goal FULFILLED. Give thanks for it as if it's already happened. Don't let what anyone says or does sway your vision. You'll get there. And take to heart that when you get older and everyone around you looks old and tired, you can rub it in about how young you look! ;)
Adding a little humor for levity here...go get 'em!
@@cherylhunter you are amazing Cheryl you just brought strengths in me,thank you God bless you
EMBRACE IT?
Sounds crazy, I'll admit...until you do the work to do it. Then it works wonders. Did you try it yet, Paul?
I hate my life all the things in it where i live my age (right now ) my looks everything😭
Hi Sarah, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a hard time right now. We all get down sometimes and we all have things we wish we could change, whether that's about our lives or our appearance. The sun continues to rise each day and it brings with it the chance to start anew. Every day is a blessing, even when it doesn't feel like it. Sending blessings your way - "This too shall pass." 🙏
Thank you for this amazing speech it really made me feel better thank you for helping everyone you are one of a kind and amazing thank you ❤️
What if it's natural and you can't pretend ain't there coz there are people who keep on reminding u about it...
Hi Nancy. The question then becomes, "WHAT CAN I DO?" There will always be shitty things that happen. We can't control that. We can control certain things however, and one of them is what we choose to do next. Wishing you peace.
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Hi, Magatha Ebai, thank you so much for your kind words 😊.
I was born into a family I don’t belong in
I still don’t know how to accept the things I can not change, cuz I keep thinking maybe it will change, maybe this person will understand what’s right , maybe it’s temporary maybe it’s a moment, but year after years I see this one person is the same doesn’t change, and I’m irritated by this person over all, and I can’t accept it, everything this person does irritates me, cuz it all seems so wrong!!
I understand. The reason it's hard to accept these things is BECAUSE we cannot change them. Since that's the case, a good question to ask yourself is, "If I can't change the situation, what can I do that will bring me peace?" It sure beats the heck out of the alternative and being upset about what is...
I definitely agree with you. It is very hard. You can only advise people in life. I don't care if it isa spouse,sibling,child,parent,etc. You just have to do what you think is right.
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I hate myself, my voice especially not even girly at all
Its so much worse than that.
My son's diagnosis of ASD
Thankfully your son has a wonderful mother who can help him navigate this world with his unique abilities. You've got this!
@@cherylhunter thank you very much for your support and kind, encouraging words 😊
I’m not saying your wrong at all…..problem I have is your telling people to say this or that to yourself yet…..to me this has no impact at all ?
What do you do other than say something to yourself l?
My marriage.
Am I the only one who feel like my life have been a complete waste.. anyone?
Hey Shreya, your life is NOT a waste. You matter, you are important, and this world is better because you are in it. I challenge you to find something in your life that brings you joy and purpose and find a way to change the world with it. I believe in you!
Instead of telling people what to do, try to explain how to do it.
For me,, I believe it’s work on it everyday. Say it to yourself everyday, all day. You must make a practice of the words to change your thinking. Saturate yourself with what you want to change. You might already do this and so keep on working on it. ❤️ it takes a long time. Make goals to change your thinking
It's easy for you. You are a beautiful blonde woman without any disabilities. But what about guys who lost a leg at war and shit.
someone will love u completely if u believe in urself. That is so attractive! Not all women are the same ❤
Getting scammed
Thank you