Bangkok was a completely different ball game back in the 1990'ies. Pat Pong was my favourite. Today is is almost non-excisting. Nana was full on catering to every taste imaginable. I don't know these days. Khao Sarn Road was dirt cheap and great fun. In 2024 it's just another sea of forigners paying way to much for everything. Not going to stay there anymore. I miss the good old days before the damned internet!
Haha what? If you hook up with girls down prostitution streets YEAH!!! Derrrrr!!!! 99% of Thai women aren’t anything like this. I’d say a rather large percentage of western women are even more likely to be attracted to a man not for his personality and kindness but his wallet. My Thai wife pays for 50% of everything never asks for anything and gives me MORE than any western woman I’ve ever known!!! Many of my friends are happily married to beautiful Thai women too after being screwed over by their ex wives in the west their whole lives. The most common phrase I ever hear from men in Thailand with Thai wives is…” I wish I’d come here 20 yrs before!” I regret every minute I’ve spent in the UK last 20 yrs. been a dump since the early 00s and finally folks are waking up… 20 yrs too late… enjoy your lives there guys in your police state 😅😂😂😂 Couldn’t PAY me to have a relationship with a western women now I’ve seen what life is ALL about here. It’s called land of smiles for a reason guys.
And farangs willing to spend to impress. Aussie, Korean, Japanese, American, British, the list goes on and on. You're a fish and you've been hooked. Then hung out to dry😅😂
@@TSUNAMICali your only live once it's only money but when your paying a bar fine and some one else is fucking her and not paying bar fine that's a different story
Your story here is very similar to what I experienced with a once-upon-a-time Philippine province girl. The first couple of years was very enchanting. But, after four and a half years I had to walk away. As time passed, being able to differentiate the true from the false when it came to love, money, a large age gap, cultural differences and expectations, to say was complicated would be a gloss understatement. The teeter-totter swings of cognitive dissonance set in. And, in the end I found I was doubting and constantly second guessing myself. There finally came a time when my soul had overridden my head and said, "enough is enough." Yes, feeling like a walking ATM machine is shitty but, in insight I allowed it. Like many, I played the knight in shining armor, coupled with not setting healthy boundaries etc... etc... It's been about a year now and looking back, my list of mistakes were plenty, with valuable lessons about myself learned. I am glad I found your channel. Your story brings a lot of depth, insight and clarity. Thank you.
@@thailandunfiltered I’m just glad you were able to get out with your sanity. If you don’t understand the life style then tread carefully. SEA is a dream but can also become a nightmare.
It's all transactions. You have to remember these girls are sex workers. Bar girl massage girls freelancers what ever you want to call them they are prostitutes. They will extract money from you anyway they can. Would you realy try to date a prostitute in your own country..
With a large age gap , different cultures and I am guessing she was an attractive female and you a 5/10 , what made you think it could ever work? Your ego? Or was it just desperation?
Never understood why many tourists go there looking for a real love and commitment?. For god sake guys it a bar and nightlife. Then you came back broke and heart broken 😂
Those are idiots who thinks the woman from the bar loves them because he is handsome and generous. all they after is your damn money, its sad they couldn't find a girlfriend in their own country but to come here looking to bar girls as a girlfriend, loser!
I want to Pattya when I was 21. I'm 42 now. I had broken up with my first girlfriend in England and my had mum died a month later. I was in a mess. So I thought it would be a bright idea to go to Thailand😂. I was just sleeping around with as many beautiful girls as I could find. Then I met this most beautiful, nices girl I've ever seen in my life. We would talk for hours and have sex for hours lol.I still think about her to this day. I'm riddled with guilt leaving her there to this day. She was crying her eyes out when I said I was leaving. Sometimes I think I should of gone back for her. But I was conflicted. Was it the money or me she really wanted. I just don't know. I've had girlfriends back in England. But to be honest none of them come close to how I felt about her. If I could turn back the clock I would have just stayed with her for one night. She set the bar so high. No English women comes close to her.
I noticed all that when I visited Pattaya . Foreigners are surrounded by bar girls and what they are interested in is their pocket money making money for the bar owners. And If you pay more they would spend the night with you. It is their job to support their family in the province .
I've had similar yes. reality is these type of girls bar or freelancers even ordinary girls working say in a mall or shop will at a early point start asking for money .dropping hints and going moody with you..they don't love u but imagination is something that u feel that she does .Pattaya girls see farangs as millionaires spending holiday savings they have it in there minds your just a ATM machine with lots of money to give them .I've had every story given to me for needing money endless ..one point is no matter how much u give them its never enough....they have multiple men on the go as well your not the only one .
Thai love thai and farlang money 😂 just tell her one morning my money as all gone 😢 stand well clear of the door , because she's leaving without a goodbye, no money no Honey 😂😂
The reality of Pattaya Jomtien further on. MONEY MONEY MONEY is the majority of Thai women's ❤. Not U, your MONEY. BELIEVE ME, BEEN THERE DONE THAT, HAVE FAMILY IN HUAYYAI SINCE 1992. WAS MARRIED TO A THAI WOMAN SINCE 1992 FOR 25 YEARS. Have many falang friends who were married for many years to and most all of their marriage's went south and all got financially screwed to.
Your a customer it's business for the ladies and it should be business for you not romance or love 😍 short time pay your and bye bye looking for love is delusional and silly not realistic 😊
Just think like that: u pay for companionship and donating ur money for a good purpose sharing ur money like Jesus Christ did with bread and die miserably like him.
WALOB …. chatting for an hour ? .. and then walk off for a drink .. yeah like that happened.. an hour standing there , so she wasn’t working …. You need to come up with better 💩 than this
Joe needs to repent and get right with God and pray for a proper wife and be patient and put his hand to the plough of the Lord's work, not chase after heathen women in a heathen land hoping to find Jesus that way!
Bangkok was a completely different ball game back in the 1990'ies. Pat Pong was my favourite. Today is is almost non-excisting. Nana was full on catering to every taste imaginable. I don't know these days.
Khao Sarn Road was dirt cheap and great fun. In 2024 it's just another sea of forigners paying way to much for everything. Not going to stay there anymore.
I miss the good old days before the damned internet!
I don’t understand how people can go to Thailand with all these expectations. What makes you special is your money.
In this story he thought red light districts were going to be glamorous and he could find romance. It is utterly ridiculous
@@liamburns8554 haha, if only they knew. If you’re there looking for love or find a connection. Good luck.
@@liamburns8554 what you see on RUclips is nothing like what you see in real life.
@@Ivoeur same in my Scotland if you have money woman will want you
Haha what? If you hook up with girls down prostitution streets YEAH!!! Derrrrr!!!!
99% of Thai women aren’t anything like this.
I’d say a rather large percentage of western women are even more likely to be attracted to a man not for his personality and kindness but his wallet.
My Thai wife pays for 50% of everything never asks for anything and gives me MORE than any western woman I’ve ever known!!! Many of my friends are happily married to beautiful Thai women too after being screwed over by their ex wives in the west their whole lives. The most common phrase I ever hear from men in Thailand with Thai wives is…” I wish I’d come here 20 yrs before!”
I regret every minute I’ve spent in the UK last 20 yrs. been a dump since the early 00s and finally folks are waking up… 20 yrs too late… enjoy your lives there guys in your police state 😅😂😂😂
Couldn’t PAY me to have a relationship with a western women now I’ve seen what life is ALL about here. It’s called land of smiles for a reason guys.
Im going in October and leaving my heart at home for sure.
ITS ONE LARGE BROTHEL and money hungry Thai women
And farangs willing to spend to impress. Aussie, Korean, Japanese, American, British, the list goes on and on. You're a fish and you've been hooked. Then hung out to dry😅😂
@@TSUNAMICali your only live once it's only money but when your paying a bar fine and some one else is fucking her and not paying bar fine that's a different story
Your story here is very similar to what I experienced with a once-upon-a-time Philippine province girl. The first couple of years was very enchanting. But, after four and a half years I had to walk away. As time passed, being able to differentiate the true from the false when it came to love, money, a large age gap, cultural differences and expectations, to say was complicated would be a gloss understatement. The teeter-totter swings of cognitive dissonance set in. And, in the end I found I was doubting and constantly second guessing myself. There finally came a time when my soul had overridden my head and said, "enough is enough." Yes, feeling like a walking ATM machine is shitty but, in insight I allowed it. Like many, I played the knight in shining armor, coupled with not setting healthy boundaries etc... etc... It's been about a year now and looking back, my list of mistakes were plenty, with valuable lessons about myself learned. I am glad I found your channel. Your story brings a lot of depth, insight and clarity. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing your experience
@@thailandunfiltered I’m just glad you were able to get out with your sanity. If you don’t understand the life style then tread carefully. SEA is a dream but can also become a nightmare.
It's all transactions. You have to remember these girls are sex workers. Bar girl massage girls freelancers what ever you want to call them they are prostitutes. They will extract money from you anyway they can. Would you realy try to date a prostitute in your own country..
With a large age gap , different cultures and I am guessing she was an attractive female and you a 5/10 , what made you think it could ever work? Your ego? Or was it just desperation?
It's the age gap. I don't get why everyone ignores this very important factor
Never understood why many tourists go there looking for a real love and commitment?. For god sake guys it a bar and nightlife. Then you came back broke and heart broken 😂
Those are idiots who thinks the woman from the bar loves them because he is handsome and generous. all they after is your damn money, its sad they couldn't find a girlfriend in their own country but to come here looking to bar girls as a girlfriend, loser!
Joe is just another simp
I want to Pattya when I was 21. I'm 42 now. I had broken up with my first girlfriend in England and my had mum died a month later. I was in a mess. So I thought it would be a bright idea to go to Thailand😂. I was just sleeping around with as many beautiful girls as I could find. Then I met this most beautiful, nices girl I've ever seen in my life. We would talk for hours and have sex for hours lol.I still think about her to this day. I'm riddled with guilt leaving her there to this day. She was crying her eyes out when I said I was leaving. Sometimes I think I should of gone back for her. But I was conflicted. Was it the money or me she really wanted. I just don't know. I've had girlfriends back in England. But to be honest none of them come close to how I felt about her. If I could turn back the clock I would have just stayed with her for one night. She set the bar so high. No English women comes close to her.
I noticed all that when I visited Pattaya . Foreigners are surrounded by bar girls and what they are interested in is their pocket money making money for the bar owners. And If you pay more they would spend the night with you. It is their job to support their family in the province .
Guys all you are is a ATM MACHINE,and you are the only one next IN LINE !!!
Everyone is a BUTTERFLY EVEN THE BAR GIRLS..
my girl is different
@@paulmcfarlane3250 🤣Deam on.
Good insight. Any GF, In any country, will cost money so be understanding here.
Good show mate- Pat-a- yaaaaaarh 🎉
Amazing!!
I've had similar yes. reality is these type of girls bar or freelancers even ordinary girls working say in a mall or shop will at a early point start asking for money .dropping hints and going moody with you..they don't love u but imagination is something that u feel that she does .Pattaya girls see farangs as millionaires spending holiday savings they have it in there minds your just a ATM machine with lots of money to give them .I've had every story given to me for needing money endless ..one point is no matter how much u give them its never enough....they have multiple men on the go as well your not the only one .
Interesting story, but for me personally, money and love don't mix, period: it's either one or the other.
Thai love thai and farlang money 😂 just tell her one morning my money as all gone 😢 stand well clear of the door , because she's leaving without a goodbye, no money no Honey 😂😂
Why do Farang go red light area to find wife?
True
Always asking the same. Even if she is not working in a bar or night club, but as a "freelancer", she still is a w*ore...
The good nightlife is not where all the shiny lights and bells are
The reality of Pattaya Jomtien further on.
MONEY MONEY MONEY is the majority of Thai women's ❤. Not U, your MONEY.
BELIEVE ME, BEEN THERE DONE THAT, HAVE FAMILY IN HUAYYAI SINCE 1992. WAS MARRIED TO A THAI WOMAN SINCE 1992 FOR 25 YEARS.
Have many falang friends who were married for many years to and most all of their marriage's went south and all got financially screwed to.
All falangs are walking ATM machines to Thai women period.
What a sappy story. There's a different girl just around the corner.
sweeet...imagine a country with no social security...you are in one
That's not Pattaya.
Sin city
More fiction. Maybe you should write a book?
Your a customer it's business for the ladies and it should be business for you not romance or love 😍 short time pay your and bye bye looking for love is delusional and silly not realistic 😊
Fill your boots then go home - simples
Romance?!?!?! You've gotta be sh!tting me!
Just think like that: u pay for companionship and donating ur money for a good purpose sharing ur money like Jesus Christ did with bread and die miserably like him.
BKK > Pattaya.
Yeah Bangkok is awesome. So I think this story is bull💩.
@@cameronrussell9362bangkok not as good as pattaya and more expensive even the food in Bangkok is rotten
@@paulmcfarlane3250 Yes, true. Stay away from Bangkok.
WALOB …. chatting for an hour ? .. and then walk off for a drink .. yeah like that happened.. an hour standing there , so she wasn’t working …. You need to come up with better 💩 than this
Joe needs to repent and get right with God and pray for a proper wife and be patient and put his hand to the plough of the Lord's work, not chase after heathen women in a heathen land hoping to find Jesus that way!