So true I am still trying to heal my spirit because I am naturally light and she is natural dark and her emotions led me to the dark and my emotions led her to the light. 😢 no balance no fairness and she groomed me oe tried to I just couldn't look the way that she wanted me to... very rare if I could. She still wanted me to look the way that she wanted me to look I couldn't dress the way that I wanted to.
@@StarrSunI hope mine don't take long but I feel like it will. I have PTSD as is and ADHD, not a lot of friends or support group, spent a long time with them and they never like... helped me, it was like she enjoyed that I'm agoraphobic and depressive, it's like she enjoyed that I have high anxiety... She used those things against me a lot. I'd go to the VA for treatment and think I made breakthroughs but I'd return to her and I'd get set back dealing with her gaslighting bs, she never wanted to get help for her own issues which is common for narcs, they don't take responsibility for anything they do bad. For years this went on, 13 years. I finally gained the courage to leave her but I didn't know the reality many face when they are with a narc for a long time, and you may be facing it too. It's when you leave them or they discard you, overnight it feels like you woke up in an alternate universe, that's when the intense confusion, anxiety and depression kicks in. It's not that, you were in their universe and the longer you are over there the harder it is on you when you come back to your own, especially if you didn't cultivate your own while over there, powerful narcs will lead you into walling off your own existence... So the return can be very hard because they are taking good out of you and putting bad into you, the WHOLE TIME after the love bomb, the love bomb just breaks you open to expose you to all the bs they are gonna start putting in. Welcome back to YOU, it's gonna be tough, they do a number on some people... Like a serious one, but don't give up, one foot in front of the other you'll find yourself again. We got this.
That's true they have a low vibe bad energy that you can feel. A narcissist will never remove themselves from your life, you have to remove yourself from theirs. Small steps add up over time. Keep moving forward.
Yes I agree me too , I'm still healing and now I know what natc behavior is over 20 years of it I'm done , new leaf new chapter bc that page in my life is over with , I'm moving forward with my life with that door closed forever thank God , that lifestyle is bye bye down the pits of hell back where it came from , I'm free no second chances by a narc behavior ever again this channel has been helping me along my journey not to put up with it anymore
I’m 4 years out of the relationship. 2 years no contact. I can go months without caring about it but still sometimes I find myself mourning and crying over the person I thought I knew. I don’t know that I wil ever stop mourning the loss of my love and my best friend who turned out to never have existed. It’s something I can’t explain to people who’ve never been through this. I think I will still mourn the person I thought I knew for the rest of my life but perhaps less as the years go on. Thanks for all your videos Andrew.
Sorry to hear you're still crying. I read something I'd like to share. A narc is like a snake. They shed their skin and morph into a new version to mirror, imitate you. In the love bombing stage, in the beginning with the narc, they mirror, imitate all your good qualities so did you know, you are actually falling in love with yourself. You are NOT falling in love with the narc because it's not real. It's just a version they created. They are fake, mastermind con artists. Like the snake, they shed their skin and created this new version for you to fall in love with. It was never real. A good homeopath can help you completely heal from the deception and grief they created. I'm going through this deception and working with my homeopath. All the best!
When I look at my first ex narc, I always think I need to have a funeral. We're completely no contact, even when we're attending our adult children's events. Divorced almost forty years.
Just finalized a divorce from a covert narc yesterday. A bpd friend helped me see my marriage clearly. BPDs that have been burned by narcs are great allies.
Delighted for you, go out on a mad one and have a great time, the wake for my wedding dress...divorce party is being planned 😀 happy days walk in the light buddy
They can't avoid themselves ✅, and that's precisely why they can not ever be alone with themselves. Always someone...anyone to feed off. They carry on leeching off of whoever's spirit they can. They are dangerous on all fronts due to said shape shifting! ⚠️⚠️⚠️ Andrew, again you are doing an amazing thing here. Thank you!
Yes they do know. My husband told me before he abandoned me, " I know that I'm mean to you". I told him that he had the power to change that but he chose to keep his demons as pets instead!
I have PTSD from the narcissist I was married to. The saddest part is he "stole" the best years of my life And the fact I thought he loved me, When actually he hated me. He got custody of my little boys and then brainwashed them into not having anything to do with me. I loved my children immensely and showered them with love. I did nothing to them to cause them to turn on me. It's been 25 years since I've seen them. I have grown grandkids I've never seen. I toy back and forth whether or not to reach out to my boys. I tried numerous times in the past when they were young and got slapped in the face. They know my # and where I live. So I keep coming up with they just don't love me. 😢 Btw Andrew, I can think of many times that make me laugh 😉
I remembered when I was dating narcissist #3, she wanted to meet me for dinner to try and get us back together. She was very pretty and knew what she was doing. Well, I agreed, and we got back together. Then the dinner bill arrived, and she gave me that same stupid lost in space look. I just looked at her and paid the bill. We didn't last. Many narcissists are super attractive. I learned from that one.
You can grow, learn, and heal. But... You can't run away from yourself. Nobody can. Understanding what that means forms the foundation for acceptance. 😊 ❤
They are forever stuck with themselves. They know exactly what they are doing when they see your health declining, your financial state, you barely see your friends etc. They get pleasure in seeing you suffer. Great video Andrew thank you for saving my life today 😇🙏🫶
It was a long journey but I stand next to you Andrew. NarcHusband passed away end of July after 54 yrs marriage. My dogs and I (and adult children) are free. I continue to watch your videos because I don’t want any more Narcissists in my lifetime!!!
When my mother passed away in 1995, my (ex-)wife spent 12 hours raging at me about how much she hated my mother while we were driving from Denver back to Wichita, Kansas. Really cruel!
Hubby raged at me for 8 hours nonstop. Blood pressure was so high that I was critical. Eyes couldn't focus....rolling up in my head. Lived in Denver, went through Witchita plenty with hubby. Not much raging then. He was usually high on pot!
I never knew just how strong and resilient I was. I thought I had learned life’s biggest lessons. I chose the tough path my entire life. I had absolutely no idea the wrath and annihilation of the covert narc. My soul was intentionally broken for 10 years out of a 14 year marriage. He did not want me to recover. He would have loved the sympathy and supply if I had died. Finally in separation. About to embark on a divorce. My resilience is a miracle and I cherish life, I am grateful for being here today. And my heart is the same. ❤️🔥 I still can love. I still have love. I am of the light and my religion is truth. I give it all to God every morning and everynight. 🙏 ✝️🕯️
@ I must say I’ve been watching your videos a long while now. Learning and coping in stages. I found you out of sheer desperation. If you only helped one person in the world it is me, but I know you have helped hundreds of thousands even if it was one video here and there like myself, phases and stages. I thank you from the very bottom of my heart. Without you I could have never understood what was truly happening. It’s a full phenomenon. Thank you Thank you 🥀
Thanks, Andrew. The narcissist's lifestyle eventually catches up. There are consequences for a person who behaves dreadfully and spends one's life being continually vicious and wreaking havoc wherever they go. What I saw is the aging narcissist, in the face of his final time, continued to disregard what was expected to happen to his eternal soul. It appears to me that the narcissist fully, 100%, sacrificed himself to the dark side.
They're trapped in the Narcissistic Matrix and will never be a Neo. This was GREAT Andrew!! I was cheering out loud! And that's why an imprisoned Narc will continually proclaim "I didn't do it!!!" They know what they did/do and their "tiny pea brains" proclaim "it wasn't my fault".... 💥💥💥💥 I loved to see you in such a great mood Andrew🙏 Thank you so much, God bless you .... Love to all the Bright Shining Lights today and always...keep healing 🙌🙌
My narc baby mama never does. We live still live together. I'm clairvoyant and I see things...spirits etc. Since being with me God has allowed her to see things too. We sleep in separate bedrooms. She never sleeps well at night. Two years now demons have been manifesting in her room at night a s tormenting her. She is a fake christain and I know for a fact these demons are watching over her as her assigned tormentors should she die in her sin.and go to hell. They are sizing up their prey. God always deals personally with these people.
My narc baby mama never does. We live still live together. I'm clairvoyant and I see things...spirits etc. Since being with me God has allowed her to see things too. We sleep in separate bedrooms. She never sleeps well at night. Two years now demons have been manifesting in her room at night a s tormenting her. She is a fake christain and I know for a fact these demons are watching over her as her assigned tormentors should she die in her sin.and go to hell. They are sizing up their prey. God always deals personally with these people.
Know this vlog well folks. Anyone thinking revenge and I think at one point we all have been there, that the narc trapped in their mind is devastating. Dont do anything. They are hoping you do ! Another gift of narcissistic supply. Disappoint that expectation. Ruminate, comptemplate, introspect. Then compartmentalize it to less and less viewings. Continuing education to those who are programmed to forgive not a bad idea. But then, go make new memories. It will be almost painfully clear that self care doesnt allow narcs in your life.
I agree. Revenge is wasted energy in the external reality vs. all the internal work set out for you. If one is fortunate and the "enemy" has left the battlefield, tons of "unexploded ordnance" they've left in your memories to clear and because they were covert in tactics, you might have to go down tunnels and clear those out too. Well worthy task and as you say- "Make new memories."👍🙌
💯 Although it doesn’t seem like it at the time, life and death ABSOLUTELY DO catch up with them. When you live your life as a perpetual con artist eventually you cross the person who can and will destroy you. Either a more psychopathic narcissist or an enlightened empath. But even before that most people tire of spending time with someone who is so utterly self absorbed. The best way to eliminate narcissists’ affect on your life is to create a narcissist-free life. They are their own worst enemy and no further action on your part is necessary for their own inevitable self destruction.
@@InvisibleWarrior279yep, after I left the narc she moved in with some people who were not for her bs. Kicked her out and threw her stuff out on the street. She went on tiktok to whine and complain for new supply (that's how I knew it happened unfortunately I was still looking at her socials, mistake on my part but it was interesting to see, I almost felt bad for her), and quickly found it... Like literally the same night. It's crazy how they can people and situation hop so effortlessly...like he said in this video if they could mask every other second they would, because they can.
Just rescued my grandbabies from 2200 miles away each way. Just got home... Once I figured her out. .... She is TOTALLY being exposed all by herself. I agree don't project the future because they are demonized... This is excellent information
The narc can't SEEMINGLY get away from holding all the cards....but, once you gain THE WISDOM, there's no topping a ROYAL STRAIGHT FLUSH! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
Yes and we obtained that win on the up and up vs. the Narc's style of counting cards and marked decks. We went "all in" by being "all out!" 👍♠♥♦♣...🃏👍☕
Honestly, I don't think they have that. I refuse to believe they actually give af about people. Seems to me they really have no shame or remorse for what they do, they seriously lack empathy for other people. They manipulate, mask up, code switch, people hop, triangulate which like he says is some very cold sht to do with people and not everybody even has the ability to do it...its a very point blank narc trait, etc so effortlessly it's hard for me to believe they have one of those. Idk maybe I'm wrong. I'm definitely not that to the one I left though. And I don't want to be. I hope she's not thinking about me. Now hopefully I can stop thinking about her... Narcs leave their marks with people and discard them like nothing.
Something really weird happened yesterday, I decided to come back home a bit later than usual yesterday and when I got home I knocked on the door and the narcissist answered but didn't open the door but I could hear the sound of the locks , the narcissist made it seems like he was opening the door but didn't open the door and instead went straight into the living room leaving the door locked , thinking that the narcissist opened the door I tried opening the the door but turned out the door was still locked , I tried opening it again but same thing locked , surprised by what was going on. I knocked the door again but no one answered , so I stayed outside a while but in the next 20 or 30 minutes I went back to knock still no one answered, I came to the conclusion that the narcissist must be behind this so I stayed outside for like an hour 30 , then I went back and knock again this time the sleepy narcissist opened the door only to tell me that the door was opened the whole time ,but I remembered vividly that I tried opening the door three times didn't open and the narcissist is now telling me that the door was opened the whole time? trying to confuse me , that's called gaslighting I knew the narcissist wanted to steer up an argument So I just accepted that he opened the door even though I knew he didn't , him not opening the door was an abuse and him unwilling to admit that he didn't opened the door was also an abuse , these people are just unbelievable. The only reason the narcissist is this angry is bc I'm winning not just spiritually but emotionally mentally , physically and by God financially ..
Everything you're saying here has been my experience. So good to hear it put into words. Blessings to this community and thanks to you, Andrew, for bringing us together in this great educational format.
Great video Andrew❤ I was literally chuckling out loud at the end lol - I totally get what you mean about reaching the point where you can laugh to yourself at some of the antics you've experienced at the hands of the narcissist. It's so empowering when you're rid of these toxic people and are healed (or almost there) that you can laugh when you look back at how pathetic they really are. I'm also with you on the no second chances approach, another empowering life rule I've applied. Here's to a narc free life!❤
That’s what I do… been doing it for quite some time, since I reached the Pinnacle of Indifference. It truly IS empowering! Y’see, when you can laugh at yourself and even join in and OWN IT when others are laughing at your expense, you KNOW you’ve healed and NO ONE can get the satisfaction of laughing at you in a mean-spirited way. It’s just not as much fun for them. Laughing PERIOD helped me heal. Watching tv/ RUclips videos/ whatever.That’s where I learned how empowering it IS to laugh sometimes even at yourself! EVERYBODY embarrasses themselves SOMETIME, don’t hide from it… just laugh at it! 👍😆👍😁
love watching this channel been split up 3 month didn't realise what a narcissist was until this relationship everything has been a lie for 12 year its unbelievable how these people can live the way they do
Andrew you're so awesome man, I really thank you for all your videos and insight into the narcissist. I watch them often to remind myself of the abuse I endured for 20 years. It's crazy how everything you talk about hits home as if you lived my life. Much love from Canada.
In the beginning, when the narc starts his life long tyraid of abuse and unacceptable behavior, hardly anyone sees it. As the years go on, he gets sloppier, and he spirals out of control, more people have been targets, more inappropriate words and behavior are noticed in the workplace, neighborhoods, families, friends and intimates. When people see this individual coming or know that person was invited to a gathering, people cringe and wait for the narcs nasty bomb to hit and ruin things, because ruining things is the narcs calling card/signature trademark, you can count on it. Narcs can charm their way in and out of situations, knowing how to get the unaware to do things for them. They quickly block the reality of them doing something wrong, rewriting their phony script to blame others. I have seen others catch onto a narc, but I have never witnessed a narc at the end of life. I just know we are all better off without being exposed to their toxic vortex of existence. Remove all toxicity from your life, heal, be well, own your best life. ☀️✨💖✨🙏🏻💜🌿🦋✨🌟✨ You’ve Got This!
The whole rewriting history is total BS. They have to take situations and flip it round that somehow they never did wrong and you're the bad guy for even questioning them. Keep as far away from these people
My Narc mother organized my father’s ashes scattering for next week - even though I told her my vacation was booked at that time. She waited for 18 months after his death to organize anything for him - and she only did so after I cut her off. It’s sad to reflect that this is just one massive manipulative hoovering tactic. They are evil, and it will always be with them. So happy I have the chance to let all the pain and hurt go.
Wow.. so much truth.. sadly, almost 100% relatable to my experience. He was so jealous of my relationship with my son ( his stepson) because his family was one big Jerry Springer episode.. so glad to be out, healing, and moving forward every day.. Thanks for another great video.. have a wonderful evening!
VIDEO... 💯 HAIR ! .... 💯 Andrew, your record is flawless! You call it, every single time. Spot on. Same situation, different narc. It's like they all have secret access to the same playbook. Narcissists are vile and soul-less. They're stuck on an endless loop. Same mask, different day. Thank you again, Andrew. We all love you! ❤️
I think they don’t have a conscience that bothers them. Andrew, I love you & admire you for your bravery & your desire to help all of us! I truly believe you have saved lives❤. Thank you a zillion times over!
Amen Andrew !! It’s said that “Wherever You go, there YOU are” … #1 Can’t get away from themselves !! I’m so glad I’m no longer wrapped up in that place with THEM.
Morning. I am married 36 years and I’m in a four year battle trying to divorce this demon. He has and is doing everything you’re saying. We going to trial soon. I’ve been studying since 2016 and it’s been hell but I’m free and living my best life for the first time in the 54 years . My mom was covert and I married a malignant narcissist sociopath. Thank you for your wonderful page. I am an INFJ and I’m a warrior. I will win, I’ve won already because I’m free.
Another GREAT one Andrew. Came across this the other day: People who have caused you harm will fabricate narratives about you, your past, and your personality. They engage in this behaviour because acknowledging the truth about you would compel them to confront the reality of their own actions.
I've been watching your videos daily for about six weeks. I hit rock bottom in May and have been trying to heal myself one day at a time. It is and has been a difficult time for me. I walk away from your videos . Tomorrow, will be a better day, and I will get to the top of the mountain. Thank you for your guidance and inspiration.
Unfortunately had the example of my sister's 1st marriage ( DV ) example of what to avoid. Never understood it as my Dad never physically abused our Mom. I believe both of her children were also in DV situations because - " children learn what they live. " 😔
My lying/cheating/controlling (ex-)wife ruined our finances by supporting her gambling addict boyfriend during our 26 years of marriage. It’s awful that the courts reward unfaithful women (and punish men).
@@emmarae4322 you believe? You need to leave... The sooner you rip that bandaid off and get to true healing the better. Don't let him rip it off for you, if he really is a narc it won't be softly... They never let people down softly. When they discard they don't put you in the trash they THROW you in there.
SCRIPTURE QUOTING! I saw a toxic narc doing that yesterday and I LMAOed for I just couldn’t help myself, knowing the amount of sheer HATRED and just downright CREEPY levels of obsession and STALKING that I’ve ALSO seen coming from this person. When someone engages in scripture quoting, pay CLOSE attention to their actions and whether they TRULY match up with someone who BELIEVES the scripture they’re quoting. That will tell you everything you need to know 👈🚨🚨🚨 ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜
Hi Jen, The ex friend who was a narc acted very religious and Godly, especially on social media. He would quote scripture, and in the dark at night, perform spell work (dark magick). I'm much more of a spiritual person than religious, and I was always supposed to listen to his religious thoughts ,but if I said my beliefs, there would be rage fits then the silent treatment. Take note, all while he did dark things in the name of God. He thought of himself as a Healer. Yea, as you said, pay close attention.
@@Divinely_Guided444 ABSOLUTELY! A friend should show the same respect for YOUR beliefs that you show for THEIRS! If they detest your beliefs SO MUCH that you fear expressing them at any point around them, they’re definitely NOT your friend. These days, people can be HYPER aggressive over… even SMALL things. Keep only people you trust who SUPPORT you, and all that you are and aren’t, around you 👍😉🫶☮️❤️💜❤️💜💫✨🕊️🫂🫂
@jennifernewton4637 I can only hold my tongue for so long, then I will make my voice known. I'm authentic and respectful to a point. This was just one of the things we clashed on. Trying to have any type of relationship with a narcissist is like mixing oil and water. Enjoy your evening Jennifer. 🌻💜✨️🫂
The vile ex narc (I refuse to call him mine) swore his life to me that he didn't cheat on his wife. I didn't even ask him about it, it wasn't my business. Now I know that he did and he had a guilty conscience about it. Empty vessel, no regard or care for anyone but themselves.
Your comments on the ageing narcissist is like a light bulb moment to me , it is so accurate....those thoughts that enter my head periodically do make me laugh too 😁 bizarre teenager like behaviour at times 🤷 I think he thought our intellectual levels were matched....... delusional. Thank you for making me smile.....we need that 🙏💜🌟😉
I almost slipped today...thought long and hard if to, or not to. After keeping myself busy....I'm so happy I chose not to. I do miss all the people but...I must be dead to all now and...I am ok with that!
Last December 27th, I watched these videos and locked my house. That was when the sister came with a couple and two sheriff's deputies to take about twenty boxes from the front yard. That proved the correct decision. I did not feed that strange hoover with my emotions. Good for you.
Andrew; you are going from strength to strength and your light is glowing! Thank you so much for everything you do. I love your watching your videos and they really help and support us all 🌷❤️
Angel when you was asking us about the nurse what they worry about the narcissist the you said themselves and I said relationships you know I was lol laughing about it I was rolling and I'm glad you said it thank you Andrew and have a blessed day
@@jennifernewton4637Hi Jennifer lots of Love sent,hope you have a pleasant evening,,👌☘️💖🫂🌼💜😊💃💐💐💐it's 10 15,pm here I'll be in bed soon,Catch up soon😊💜🌼💜⭐💎🤗🌺
Yeah Andrew I had to be my own lawyer for a while right in the middle of cancer. He filed papers on me to force me to sell my dad’s home. He paid for nothing. My narc sister wanted money to go to the Casino. So she forced me to put his name on the house to pay her. Tried kicking me out 3 times until I paid her for my dad’s house, got screwed out of my inheritance and any money from the house. And now my narc sister wants to sue me too, I have to disappear off the planet time and time again geeze enough is enough
We all had been though it 😭 However, knowing the longer I stay in the relationship with the ex narc the worse it will be for me helped me heal. I’m still in the healing path, I spend time by the koi pond I built, as I was writing that a thought pop in my head: Not the narc as he claimed. He’s still living rent free in my head part time and it’s been 9? Months. This too shall passed my friend 💯💜💐🎈🎈🎈🎈
Thank you Andrew.. Sometimes we feel so powerless but at least we know we have resources like this channel and others like it 24/7. What a lifesaver for so many.
Thank you for another great video, Andrew. I’m not all the way healed, but I am getting there! Your videos are helping me tremendously. Thank you 🙏🏼 My ex called me a narcissist right before he abandoned me. He left because I figured out that he had lied to me about going on vacation with his ex (whom he triangulated me with for two years) for an entire year. I’m fairly certain that he knows he’s a narcissist and was projecting. Could you possibly do a video about this subject?
I woke up 5 months ago but I'm still healing and still processing my journey and finding myself of an independent thinking human being. I was awake but asleep drinking up the manipulations. It took me to the brink where I could have possibly lost my life. Your videos have been helpful in healing me through my journey trying processing everything. One thing I learnt about the NARCS, without us empath, they will ceases to live. We are their blood, without it, they die. Thank you. ❤
I love your work. It's so spot on. Thank you for what you do. I am WAY down the line from my NPD ex, but I just ran into a NPD at work. I saw it right away. But even still, these videos help remind me of what I've already learned. So helpful. That said, I also love your evening videos. Please don't stop doing those completely. I rather enjoy the atmosphere of them.
Thank you Andrew. Never stop telling us the truth about narcs behavior. I have been stuck for seven years and experienced every kind of abuse, you describe so well, just hoping she will finally change. I’m now finally sure it will never happen. Since I accepted to loose everything I was stolen, a new strong energy blessed mi heart and now I’m happily walking to the final countdown 🙏
Andrew! I love it when you do that head turn grimace after giving the title of video. And I also love when you end your videos with "Bye Everybody!!!".❤ Great videos my friend. Keep up the great work. Namaste🙏👍🏽
Thanks, Andrew, for helping me survive trying to once again extricate myself from the grips of a toxic person. You speak the absolute truth and it is so very healing for the soul. Truth and empathy cannot be found in a narcissistic home! 🙏☺️🌺
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They don't break other people's hearts. They break other people's souls. That is why recovery is often long-lasting.
So true I am still trying to heal my spirit because I am naturally light and she is natural dark and her emotions led me to the dark and my emotions led her to the light. 😢 no balance no fairness and she groomed me oe tried to I just couldn't look the way that she wanted me to... very rare if I could. She still wanted me to look the way that she wanted me to look I couldn't dress the way that I wanted to.
Hey Rubyyy!!! How are you doing?! 🙌🙌💯‼️☝️😁☀️💫🫶☮️🫂🫂🌺🪻🌸🌼🌻⭐️🫂🫂❤️💜❤️💜
@@StarrSunI hope mine don't take long but I feel like it will. I have PTSD as is and ADHD, not a lot of friends or support group, spent a long time with them and they never like... helped me, it was like she enjoyed that I'm agoraphobic and depressive, it's like she enjoyed that I have high anxiety... She used those things against me a lot. I'd go to the VA for treatment and think I made breakthroughs but I'd return to her and I'd get set back dealing with her gaslighting bs, she never wanted to get help for her own issues which is common for narcs, they don't take responsibility for anything they do bad. For years this went on, 13 years. I finally gained the courage to leave her but I didn't know the reality many face when they are with a narc for a long time, and you may be facing it too. It's when you leave them or they discard you, overnight it feels like you woke up in an alternate universe, that's when the intense confusion, anxiety and depression kicks in. It's not that, you were in their universe and the longer you are over there the harder it is on you when you come back to your own, especially if you didn't cultivate your own while over there, powerful narcs will lead you into walling off your own existence... So the return can be very hard because they are taking good out of you and putting bad into you, the WHOLE TIME after the love bomb, the love bomb just breaks you open to expose you to all the bs they are gonna start putting in. Welcome back to YOU, it's gonna be tough, they do a number on some people... Like a serious one, but don't give up, one foot in front of the other you'll find yourself again. We got this.
Absolutely 💯
@@jennifernewton4637 I'm fine, my dear Jennifer. I hope you are well too. You helped me a lot. I carry you forever in my heart 💓
48 days no contact after dealing with flying monkeys and hoover. Still strong and Narc free.
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When I keep reading these stories of strength and resolve, I know many others are inspired as I am. They help!💪💪💪👍
Every minute away from them makes you stronger.
Stay Stong and Blessed😎
Keep it up dude!
living with a narcissist is like a nightmare that doesnt end...you feel the bad person all the time
That's true they have a low vibe bad energy that you can feel. A narcissist will never remove themselves from your life, you have to remove yourself from theirs. Small steps add up over time. Keep moving forward.
I cohabitate with my brother. He's a covert narcissist. My mom's death is his fault.
They stay busy trying to run from themselves 🙄
Yes ma'am this is very true
This evil is everywhere. My eyes were opened 2 1/2 years ago and wow the journey has been hard. The grieving is also a hard part of the healing.
Yes I agree me too , I'm still healing and now I know what natc behavior is over 20 years of it I'm done , new leaf new chapter bc that page in my life is over with , I'm moving forward with my life with that door closed forever thank God , that lifestyle is bye bye down the pits of hell back where it came from , I'm free no second chances by a narc behavior ever again this channel has been helping me along my journey not to put up with it anymore
I was blind but now I see
Be kind and patient with yourself.❣️
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I'm in that shit festival as we speak
He doesn't care who he hurts because he always considers himself the victim!
I’m 4 years out of the relationship. 2 years no contact. I can go months without caring about it but still sometimes I find myself mourning and crying over the person I thought I knew. I don’t know that I wil ever stop mourning the loss of my love and my best friend who turned out to never have existed. It’s something I can’t explain to people who’ve never been through this. I think I will still mourn the person I thought I knew for the rest of my life but perhaps less as the years go on. Thanks for all your videos Andrew.
Exactly how I feel it’s been 2 years also
Sorry to hear you're still crying. I read something I'd like to share. A narc is like a snake. They shed their skin and morph into a new version to mirror, imitate you. In the love bombing stage, in the beginning with the narc, they mirror, imitate all your good qualities so did you know, you are actually falling in love with yourself.
You are NOT falling in love with the narc because it's not real. It's just a version they created. They are fake, mastermind con artists. Like the snake, they shed their skin and created this new version for you to fall in love with. It was never real.
A good homeopath can help you completely heal from the deception and grief they created. I'm going through this deception and working with my homeopath. All the best!
When I look at my first ex narc, I always think I need to have a funeral. We're completely no contact, even when we're attending our adult children's events. Divorced almost forty years.
My final words to him was " You are no good to anyone nor yourself the way you are. Now get out of my house!
Really like what you said to him.
You handled it well. I just ripped into my narc and told her that she was a fraud and an abuser and to get the f×ck out!!
Run for the hills! 🥳🥳🥳
Just finalized a divorce from a covert narc yesterday. A bpd friend helped me see my marriage clearly. BPDs that have been burned by narcs are great allies.
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That's interesting to hear and am glad they could see it in someone when it presents.
Delighted for you, go out on a mad one and have a great time, the wake for my wedding dress...divorce party is being planned 😀 happy days walk in the light buddy
That is bipolar disorder and borderline disorder. , but you made your decision I hope it is what you wanted and not your so called friend
Does BPD refer to Bipolar disorder? Just curious.. wishing you well
I can’t wait til i get to the point where i can laugh at a situation w the narcissist. Looking forward to that moment.
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Same here, but the awakening has happened and the path is much more clear at this point.
They can't avoid themselves ✅, and that's precisely why they can not ever be alone with themselves. Always someone...anyone to feed off. They carry on leeching off of whoever's spirit they can. They are dangerous on all fronts due to said shape shifting! ⚠️⚠️⚠️
Andrew, again you are doing an amazing thing here. Thank you!
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I agree, ❤Andrew is awesome! 40 years of being married to one. I'm not proud of this but I'm healing anyway, now that I have the knowledge.
Yes they do know. My husband told me before he abandoned me, " I know that I'm mean to you". I told him that he had the power to change that but he chose to keep his demons as pets instead!
They are truly miserable,what a sad existence to monitor someone else 24/7 and you cant focus on yourself.
Thank you, Andrew. I'm new here, just got away from a narcissistic relationship 7 weeks ago. You are an inspiration and a lifeline. ❤
I have PTSD from the narcissist I was married to. The saddest part is he "stole" the best years of my life And the fact I thought he loved me, When actually he hated me. He got custody of my little boys and then brainwashed them into not having anything to do with me. I loved my children immensely and showered them with love. I did nothing to them to cause them to turn on me. It's been 25 years since I've seen them. I have grown grandkids I've never seen. I toy back and forth whether or not to reach out to my boys. I tried numerous times in the past when they were young and got slapped in the face. They know my # and where I live. So I keep coming up with they just don't love me. 😢 Btw Andrew, I can think of many times that make me laugh 😉
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I remembered when I was dating narcissist #3, she wanted to meet me for dinner to try and get us back together. She was very pretty and knew what she was doing. Well, I agreed, and we got back together. Then the dinner bill arrived, and she gave me that same stupid lost in space look. I just looked at her and paid the bill. We didn't last. Many narcissists are super attractive. I learned from that one.
The narcissists will never be able to get away from themselves that's for sure. Nobody can. Have a great afternoon Andrew ☺️🙌💜❤️
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You can grow, learn, and heal.
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You can't run away from yourself. Nobody can.
Understanding what that means forms the foundation for acceptance.
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@@chazbickel4518 very true! 🤩💯🙏
They are forever stuck with themselves. They know exactly what they are doing when they see your health declining, your financial state, you barely see your friends etc. They get pleasure in seeing you suffer. Great video Andrew thank you for saving my life today 😇🙏🫶
Absolutely. Imo. Most have a multimorbidity that includes the sadism you mentioned. Escape these reptilians and let life live again.
It was a long journey but I stand next to you Andrew. NarcHusband passed away end of July after 54 yrs marriage. My dogs and I (and adult children) are free. I continue to watch your videos because I don’t want any more Narcissists in my lifetime!!!
Love this channel! Andrew you rock! 🥳🥳🥳
When my mother passed away in 1995, my (ex-)wife spent 12 hours raging at me about how much she hated my mother while we were driving from Denver back to Wichita, Kansas. Really cruel!
Hubby raged at me for 8 hours nonstop. Blood pressure was so high that I was critical. Eyes couldn't focus....rolling up in my head.
Lived in Denver, went through Witchita plenty with hubby. Not much raging then. He was usually high on pot!
I never knew just how strong and resilient I was. I thought I had learned life’s biggest lessons. I chose the tough path my entire life. I had absolutely no idea the wrath and annihilation of the covert narc.
My soul was intentionally broken for 10 years out of a 14 year marriage. He did not want me to recover. He would have loved the sympathy and supply if I had died. Finally in separation. About to embark on a divorce. My resilience is a miracle and I cherish life, I am grateful for being here today. And my heart is the same. ❤️🔥 I still can love.
I still have love. I am of the light and my religion is truth. I give it all to God every morning and everynight. 🙏 ✝️🕯️
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@ I must say I’ve been watching your videos a long while now. Learning and coping in stages. I found you out of sheer desperation. If you only helped one person in the world it is me, but I know you have helped hundreds of thousands even if it was one video here and there like myself, phases and stages. I thank you from the very bottom of my heart. Without you I could have never understood what was truly happening. It’s a full phenomenon.
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Thanks, Andrew. The narcissist's lifestyle eventually catches up. There are consequences for a person who behaves dreadfully and spends one's life being continually vicious and wreaking havoc wherever they go. What I saw is the aging narcissist, in the face of his final time, continued to disregard what was expected to happen to his eternal soul. It appears to me that the narcissist fully, 100%, sacrificed himself to the dark side.
Thank you Andrew. You nailed it !!
They're trapped in the Narcissistic Matrix and will never be a Neo. This was GREAT Andrew!! I was cheering out loud!
And that's why an imprisoned Narc will continually proclaim "I didn't do it!!!" They know what they did/do and their "tiny pea brains" proclaim "it wasn't my fault".... 💥💥💥💥
I loved to see you in such a great mood Andrew🙏 Thank you so much, God bless you ....
Love to all the Bright Shining Lights today and always...keep healing 🙌🙌
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Yes thats why narcs envy when God wakes you up to who you truly are and pulls you off the hampster wheel and out of toxic cycles.
Yep, they hate oneness so no they can't be neo...many narcs are agents.
Of course they know what they've done. They plan what to put you through hoping you will never figure what's going on.
💗💃 Some of these toxic people don't sleep well and/or have nightmares every night.
My narc baby mama never does. We live still live together. I'm clairvoyant and I see things...spirits etc. Since being with me God has allowed her to see things too. We sleep in separate bedrooms. She never sleeps well at night. Two years now demons have been manifesting in her room at night a s tormenting her. She is a fake christain and I know for a fact these demons are watching over her as her assigned tormentors should she die in her sin.and go to hell. They are sizing up their prey. God always deals personally with these people.
My narc baby mama never does. We live still live together. I'm clairvoyant and I see things...spirits etc. Since being with me God has allowed her to see things too. We sleep in separate bedrooms. She never sleeps well at night. Two years now demons have been manifesting in her room at night a s tormenting her. She is a fake christain and I know for a fact these demons are watching over her as her assigned tormentors should she die in her sin.and go to hell. They are sizing up their prey. God always deals personally with these people.
Know this vlog well folks. Anyone thinking revenge and I think at one point we all have been there, that the narc trapped in their mind is devastating. Dont do anything. They are hoping you do ! Another gift of narcissistic supply. Disappoint that expectation. Ruminate, comptemplate, introspect. Then compartmentalize it to less and less viewings. Continuing education to those who are programmed to forgive not a bad idea. But then, go make new memories. It will be almost painfully clear that self care doesnt allow narcs in your life.
I agree. Revenge is wasted energy in the external reality vs. all the internal work set out for you. If one is fortunate and the "enemy" has left the battlefield, tons of "unexploded ordnance" they've left in your memories to clear and because they were covert in tactics, you might have to go down tunnels and clear those out too. Well worthy task and as you say- "Make new memories."👍🙌
@JHavaJoe2-m1z oh man the analogy soooo well said. The enemy won't come back. They know we have knowledged up. 🤜🤛✊️!
💯 Although it doesn’t seem like it at the time, life and death ABSOLUTELY DO catch up with them. When you live your life as a perpetual con artist eventually you cross the person who can and will destroy you. Either a more psychopathic narcissist or an enlightened empath. But even before that most people tire of spending time with someone who is so utterly self absorbed. The best way to eliminate narcissists’ affect on your life is to create a narcissist-free life. They are their own worst enemy and no further action on your part is necessary for their own inevitable self destruction.
@@InvisibleWarrior279 DAMN ! I like your ....no love your discernment. It's like fresh air in my lungs and clean air for my wings of freedom !👏🤘
@@InvisibleWarrior279yep, after I left the narc she moved in with some people who were not for her bs. Kicked her out and threw her stuff out on the street. She went on tiktok to whine and complain for new supply (that's how I knew it happened unfortunately I was still looking at her socials, mistake on my part but it was interesting to see, I almost felt bad for her), and quickly found it... Like literally the same night. It's crazy how they can people and situation hop so effortlessly...like he said in this video if they could mask every other second they would, because they can.
Just rescued my grandbabies from 2200 miles away each way. Just got home...
Once I figured her out. .... She is TOTALLY being exposed all by herself. I agree don't project the future because they are demonized...
This is excellent information
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Loop d loop … around and around… 1 common denominator… the devil 😈
She hasnt left her home in over two years monitoring me. That is truly sad and pathetic.
Can you move so she spends another 2 years monitoring the wrong place?
Bingo! The narcissist' can't get away from themselves,! Wow!! This video is so on point! Thank you Andrew! ❤️
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I get so much better everyday listening to you Andre’s 😊🎉
Hey Andrew. Thank you your dedication in helping to heal many wounds
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The narc can't SEEMINGLY get away from holding all the cards....but,
once you gain THE WISDOM, there's no topping a ROYAL STRAIGHT FLUSH!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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Brilliant,,💎⭐💜💎⭐💜💪Marie,
Yes and we obtained that win on the up and up vs. the Narc's style of counting cards
and marked decks. We went "all in" by being "all out!" 👍♠♥♦♣...🃏👍☕
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Right, all in & all out!
No room for hokey pokeying around when it comes to the narc. 👍☕
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@@marieeakin8534 "That's what 'they're ( Narcs)" all about !🎵🎶🦵🦶
Great video Andrew!
I think one thing a narcissist cant get away from is thinking about the one that got away.
Wishing everyone clarity and peace..
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Honestly, I don't think they have that. I refuse to believe they actually give af about people. Seems to me they really have no shame or remorse for what they do, they seriously lack empathy for other people. They manipulate, mask up, code switch, people hop, triangulate which like he says is some very cold sht to do with people and not everybody even has the ability to do it...its a very point blank narc trait, etc so effortlessly it's hard for me to believe they have one of those. Idk maybe I'm wrong. I'm definitely not that to the one I left though. And I don't want to be. I hope she's not thinking about me. Now hopefully I can stop thinking about her... Narcs leave their marks with people and discard them like nothing.
@@Siegefyathey are thinking of you , but not in a good way. Keep moving forward.
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God Bless you ..you are an inspiration
Thank you Andrew
THEY ARE FAKE AND IF YOU KEEP FORGIVING THIM THEY WILL KEEP DOING THE SAME THINGS OVER AND OVER
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Something really weird happened yesterday, I decided to come back home a bit later than usual yesterday and when I got home I knocked on the door and the narcissist answered but didn't open the door but I could hear the sound of the locks , the narcissist made it seems like he was opening the door but didn't open the door and instead went straight into the living room leaving the door locked , thinking that the narcissist opened the door I tried opening the the door but turned out the door was still locked , I tried opening it again but same thing locked , surprised by what was going on. I knocked the door again but no one answered , so I stayed outside a while but in the next 20 or 30 minutes I went back to knock still no one answered, I came to the conclusion that the narcissist must be behind this so I stayed outside for like an hour 30 , then I went back and knock again this time the sleepy narcissist opened the door only to tell me that the door was opened the whole time ,but I remembered vividly that I tried opening the door three times didn't open and the narcissist is now telling me that the door was opened the whole time? trying to confuse me , that's called gaslighting I knew the narcissist wanted to steer up an argument So I just accepted that he opened the door even though I knew he didn't , him not opening the door was an abuse and him unwilling to admit that he didn't opened the door was also an abuse , these people are just unbelievable. The only reason the narcissist is this angry is bc I'm winning not just spiritually but emotionally mentally , physically and by God financially ..
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Very strange but I get it i get confused too when you think you know whats going on and it gets turned around
Ooh some of them love doing twisted stuff like that....look after yourself ❤
Your right they can’t get away from the truth but the truth always has a way of catching up hope your doing well Andrew.
Well done, Andrew ❤ on sharing your wisdom
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Everything you're saying here has been my experience. So good to hear it put into words. Blessings to this community and thanks to you, Andrew, for bringing us together in this great educational format.
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Great video Andrew❤ I was literally chuckling out loud at the end lol - I totally get what you mean about reaching the point where you can laugh to yourself at some of the antics you've experienced at the hands of the narcissist. It's so empowering when you're rid of these toxic people and are healed (or almost there) that you can laugh when you look back at how pathetic they really are. I'm also with you on the no second chances approach, another empowering life rule I've applied. Here's to a narc free life!❤
That’s what I do… been doing it for quite some time, since I reached the Pinnacle of Indifference. It truly IS empowering! Y’see, when you can laugh at yourself and even join in and OWN IT when others are laughing at your expense, you KNOW you’ve healed and NO ONE can get the satisfaction of laughing at you in a mean-spirited way. It’s just not as much fun for them. Laughing PERIOD helped me heal. Watching tv/ RUclips videos/ whatever.That’s where I learned how empowering it IS to laugh sometimes even at yourself! EVERYBODY embarrasses themselves SOMETIME, don’t hide from it… just laugh at it! 👍😆👍😁
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@@jennifernewton4637Sometimes someone will say something and I'll respond with :
"I must be living under a rock." Then we both laugh. 😅
love watching this channel been split up 3 month didn't realise what a narcissist was until this relationship everything has been a lie for 12 year its unbelievable how these people can live the way they do
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You really help me get through the day. Thank you for your constant support ❤
Andrew you're so awesome man, I really thank you for all your videos and insight into the narcissist. I watch them often to remind myself of the abuse I endured for 20 years. It's crazy how everything you talk about hits home as if you lived my life. Much love from Canada.
In the beginning, when the narc starts his life long tyraid of abuse and unacceptable behavior, hardly anyone sees it. As the years go on, he gets sloppier, and he spirals out of control, more people have been targets, more inappropriate words and behavior are noticed in the workplace, neighborhoods, families, friends and intimates. When people see this individual coming or know that person was invited to a gathering, people cringe and wait for the narcs nasty bomb to hit and ruin things, because ruining things is the narcs calling card/signature trademark, you can count on it. Narcs can charm their way in and out of situations, knowing how to get the unaware to do things for them. They quickly block the reality of them doing something wrong, rewriting their phony script to blame others. I have seen others catch onto a narc, but I have never witnessed a narc at the end of life. I just know we are all better off without being exposed to their toxic vortex of existence. Remove all toxicity from your life, heal, be well, own your best life. ☀️✨💖✨🙏🏻💜🌿🦋✨🌟✨ You’ve Got This!
The whole rewriting history is total BS. They have to take situations and flip it round that somehow they never did wrong and you're the bad guy for even questioning them. Keep as far away from these people
My Narc mother organized my father’s ashes scattering for next week - even though I told her my vacation was booked at that time.
She waited for 18 months after his death to organize anything for him - and she only did so after I cut her off. It’s sad to reflect that this is just one massive manipulative hoovering tactic.
They are evil, and it will always be with them. So happy I have the chance to let all the pain and hurt go.
Thank you Andrew 🙏
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Wow.. so much truth.. sadly, almost 100% relatable to my experience. He was so jealous of my relationship with my son ( his stepson) because his family was one big Jerry Springer episode.. so glad to be out, healing, and moving forward every day.. Thanks for another great video.. have a wonderful evening!
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Jerry Springer show so funny😅😅 but I am sorry you had that experience
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Andrew, your record is flawless! You call it, every single time. Spot on. Same situation, different narc. It's like they all have secret access to the same playbook. Narcissists are vile and soul-less. They're stuck on an endless loop. Same mask, different day. Thank you again, Andrew. We all love you! ❤️
I think they don’t have a conscience that bothers them.
Andrew, I love you & admire you for your bravery & your desire to help all of us! I truly believe you have saved lives❤. Thank you a zillion times over!
Amen Andrew !! It’s said that “Wherever You go, there YOU are” … #1 Can’t get away from themselves !! I’m so glad I’m no longer wrapped up in that place with THEM.
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Thank you, Andrew. The best video yet! I have hope. Thank you for the love that you are giving 😊
Just got back from vacation with my narc im exhausted shoulda stayed home
Morning. I am married 36 years and I’m in a four year battle trying to divorce this demon. He has and is doing everything you’re saying. We going to trial soon. I’ve been studying since 2016 and it’s been hell but I’m free and living my best life for the first time in the 54 years . My mom was covert and I married a malignant narcissist sociopath. Thank you for your wonderful page. I am an INFJ and I’m a warrior. I will win, I’ve won already because I’m free.
Thank you, Love your Channel
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You are your authentic self! You are living your best life. You gave that to me as well!
Thank you for passing these truths along!
Another GREAT one Andrew.
Came across this the other day: People who have caused you harm will fabricate narratives about you, your past, and your personality. They engage in this behaviour because acknowledging the truth about you would compel them to confront the reality of their own actions.
Thank you for sharing that tidbit of wisdom. 🙂
I've been watching your videos daily for about six weeks. I hit rock bottom in May and have been trying to heal myself one day at a time. It is and has been a difficult time for me. I walk away from your videos . Tomorrow, will be a better day, and I will get to the top of the mountain. Thank you for your guidance and inspiration.
My ex narc is in the county jail...after he beat & tortured me for 6 hours...almost 8 yrs and all of that still spooks me...
I hope you are doing well.I know the exactly what you went through.
Stay strong?
Praying for you to have inner peace 🙏💐💜
Most don't make it out alive , don't go back ever , something bigger for you than that
Unfortunately had the example of my sister's 1st marriage ( DV ) example of what to avoid.
Never understood it as my Dad never physically abused our Mom.
I believe both of her children were also in DV situations because - " children learn what they live. " 😔
Thank you Andrew. Sometimes we feel so powerless but atleast we have resources like this channel and others like it 24/7.
So many gems in this one Andrew, maybe because you described in detail to a tee in places exactly what went on in my life for 38 years.
Your videos have improved dramatically since the early ones in content and energy and presentation. Thank you so much!
Amen Andrew you hit the nail right on the head perfectly said keep spreading the news on these people
My lying/cheating/controlling (ex-)wife ruined our finances by supporting her gambling addict boyfriend during our 26 years of marriage. It’s awful that the courts reward unfaithful women (and punish men).
They betray you with their exes. Mine won't let go of his ex. I truly believe it will be the end of our relationship.
@@emmarae4322 you believe? You need to leave... The sooner you rip that bandaid off and get to true healing the better. Don't let him rip it off for you, if he really is a narc it won't be softly... They never let people down softly. When they discard they don't put you in the trash they THROW you in there.
@@Siegefyaso true they throw you in the trash.
I am so sorry 😞, I will be praying for you.
Thanks Andrew and have a good Day 🙂👍
SCRIPTURE QUOTING! I saw a toxic narc doing that yesterday and I LMAOed for I just couldn’t help myself, knowing the amount of sheer HATRED and just downright CREEPY levels of obsession and STALKING that I’ve ALSO seen coming from this person.
When someone engages in scripture quoting, pay CLOSE attention to their actions and whether they TRULY match up with someone who BELIEVES the scripture they’re quoting. That will tell you everything you need to know 👈🚨🚨🚨
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Hi Jen, The ex friend who was a narc acted very religious and Godly, especially on social media. He would quote scripture, and in the dark at night, perform spell work (dark magick). I'm much more of a spiritual person than religious, and I was always supposed to listen to his religious thoughts ,but if I said my beliefs, there would be rage fits then the silent treatment. Take note, all while he did dark things in the name of God. He thought of himself as a Healer. Yea, as you said, pay close attention.
@@Divinely_Guided444 ABSOLUTELY! A friend should show the same respect for YOUR beliefs that you show for THEIRS! If they detest your beliefs SO MUCH that you fear expressing them at any point around them, they’re definitely NOT your friend. These days, people can be HYPER aggressive over… even SMALL things. Keep only people you trust who SUPPORT you, and all that you are and aren’t, around you 👍😉🫶☮️❤️💜❤️💜💫✨🕊️🫂🫂
True."Practice what you Preach" is still a good quip to remember.
@jennifernewton4637 I can only hold my tongue for so long, then I will make my voice known. I'm authentic and respectful to a point. This was just one of the things we clashed on. Trying to have any type of relationship with a narcissist is like mixing oil and water.
Enjoy your evening Jennifer. 🌻💜✨️🫂
@@JHavaJoe2-m1z ABSOLUTELY Jhava!!! That is SO TRUE! ☝️😉👍💯‼️‼️
The vile ex narc (I refuse to call him mine) swore his life to me that he didn't cheat on his wife. I didn't even ask him about it, it wasn't my business. Now I know that he did and he had a guilty conscience about it. Empty vessel, no regard or care for anyone but themselves.
You're an inspiration Andrew. Thanks for the continued understanding and encouragement. 🙏
Your comments on the ageing narcissist is like a light bulb moment to me , it is so accurate....those thoughts that enter my head periodically do make me laugh too 😁 bizarre teenager like behaviour at times 🤷 I think he thought our intellectual levels were matched....... delusional. Thank you for making me smile.....we need that 🙏💜🌟😉
I almost slipped today...thought long and hard if to, or not to. After keeping myself busy....I'm so happy I chose not to.
I do miss all the people but...I must be dead to all now and...I am ok with that!
Last December 27th, I watched these videos and locked my house. That was when the sister came with a couple and two sheriff's deputies to take about twenty boxes from the front yard. That proved the correct decision. I did not feed that strange hoover with my emotions. Good for you.
Andrew; you are going from strength to strength and your light is glowing! Thank you so much for everything you do. I love your watching your videos and they really help and support us all 🌷❤️
Andrew you are brilliant. Thankyou 🙏🌺💜👏
Angel when you was asking us about the nurse what they worry about the narcissist the you said themselves and I said relationships you know I was lol laughing about it I was rolling and I'm glad you said it thank you Andrew and have a blessed day
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Ah Andrew i felt the energy,just finished yard work,and hey presto here you are,much Appreciated,💜💜💜🙏🙏🕯️
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Good afternoon Flower! 🙌🙌👋😁💫🕊️🫶🌸🪻💐✨🍀🌻🌺☮️❤️💜🫂
@@jennifernewton4637Hi Jennifer lots of Love sent,hope you have a pleasant evening,,👌☘️💖🫂🌼💜😊💃💐💐💐it's 10 15,pm here I'll be in bed soon,Catch up soon😊💜🌼💜⭐💎🤗🌺
Sorry Jennifer comment gone,it was full of Love and respect,must have a Narc moderator 🌺☘️💎🤗💜⭐💜⭐💃🌹😊
and WE appreciate You! 👍💥🙏❤
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Thank You you have just illustrated the blue print the diagram of a narcissist at work. The narc constantly at work.
Yes i went threw the court system, $853 per month $300 of it was spousel for three years. Slept in car three years
Thank you so much for helping me in the healing process ❤
Thank you Andrew!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉you are a blessing!!!
Yeah Andrew I had to be my own lawyer for a while right in the middle of cancer. He filed papers on me to force me to sell my dad’s home. He paid for nothing. My narc sister wanted money to go to the Casino. So she forced me to put his name on the house to pay her. Tried kicking me out 3 times until I paid her for my dad’s house, got screwed out of my inheritance and any money from the house. And now my narc sister wants to sue me too, I have to disappear off the planet time and time again geeze enough is enough
I'm so heartbroken 😢 thank you Andrew from Germany ❤
We all had been though it 😭 However, knowing the longer I stay in the relationship with the ex narc the worse it will be for me helped me heal. I’m still in the healing path, I spend time by the koi pond I built, as I was writing that a thought pop in my head: Not the narc as he claimed. He’s still living rent free in my head part time and it’s been 9? Months. This too shall passed my friend 💯💜💐🎈🎈🎈🎈
@@hongtruong4576 Thank you from the heart ❤ God bless you 🙏
We feel your pain, just hang in there the moment of awakening is coming. Be strong.
@@hongtruong4576Thank you for your strength..
Thank you Andrew.. Sometimes we feel so powerless but at least we know we have resources like this channel and others like it 24/7. What a lifesaver for so many.
There is so much more hope to be found, the hope will find you.
He has 4 kids with 3 other women; ALL of those kids are grown, married with children of their own, and they want nothing to do with him!
Thank you for another great video, Andrew. I’m not all the way healed, but I am getting there! Your videos are helping me tremendously. Thank you 🙏🏼 My ex called me a narcissist right before he abandoned me. He left because I figured out that he had lied to me about going on vacation with his ex (whom he triangulated me with for two years) for an entire year. I’m fairly certain that he knows he’s a narcissist and was projecting. Could you possibly do a video about this subject?
I woke up 5 months ago but I'm still healing and still processing my journey and finding myself of an independent thinking human being. I was awake but asleep drinking up the manipulations. It took me to the brink where I could have possibly lost my life.
Your videos have been helpful in healing me through my journey trying processing everything.
One thing I learnt about the NARCS, without us empath, they will ceases to live. We are their blood, without it, they die.
Thank you. ❤
Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️
Thank you brother
Just expose them ! They can’t control anyone to be silent .
Your best supply is the truth, so give, give, give!
I love your work. It's so spot on. Thank you for what you do. I am WAY down the line from my NPD ex, but I just ran into a NPD at work. I saw it right away. But even still, these videos help remind me of what I've already learned. So helpful. That said, I also love your evening videos. Please don't stop doing those completely. I rather enjoy the atmosphere of them.
Thank you..🙏💜😌💯
I always felt selfish if I didn’t fall in line.
Thank you Andrew. Never stop telling us the truth about narcs behavior. I have been stuck for seven years and experienced every kind of abuse, you describe so well, just hoping she will finally change. I’m now finally sure it will never happen. Since I accepted to loose everything I was stolen, a new strong energy blessed mi heart and now I’m happily walking to the final countdown 🙏
yep that's big news, needed to here you say that they can't get away from themselves.
Truer words have not been spoken. ❤
Greetings Andrew ! Have a great day and thanks for the video 😊
Andrew! I love it when you do that head turn grimace after giving the title of video. And I also love when you end your videos with "Bye Everybody!!!".❤
Great videos my friend. Keep up the great work.
Namaste🙏👍🏽
Thanks, Andrew, for helping me survive trying to once again extricate myself from the grips of a toxic person. You speak the absolute truth and it is so very healing for the soul. Truth and empathy cannot be found in a narcissistic home! 🙏☺️🌺
Some get to forty years and look like they are pushing eighty years.