External Hormones VS. Internal Disharmony | a Detrans Story, with Gerda
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- Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
- Gerda is a young Polish woman who has struggled to fit into her own skin. She opens up about her gender troubles and how she decided to transition and detransition.
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Discomfort about the body during puberty is normal. What activist teachers are doing to kids is downright criminal.
Totally and it's made so much worse for a large proportion of girls and young women whose bodies do not conform to the body types we mainly see modeling clothes or makeup or on the stage, so it's no wonder that the pear shaped woman often has a lot of distress as they develop - not that they are in any way less a person than the tall slender model body type, but sadly much of society will treat them as less than, some of them will internalise this and end up hating their physical bodies and all of this plays straight into the hands of the proponents of the trans industry who are undoubtedly a predatory bunch, their forefathers being Alfred "Table 34" Kinsey and John 'whoops I burned his d1ck off' Money - both of them were Nonces and yet here we are following their ideas decades later. NAMBLA lives!!!! Especially with these adult aged children we now have created courtesy of Lupron. It must of been a nonce who came up with that idea because it's a nonce control drug FFS!!
Another detransitioner who confirms that the 'cure' to the awkwardness of puberty is simply the normal advances of physical and mental maturity which makes me consider that gender ideology is, in part, biased towards maintaining trans identifying individuals in a childlike, static condition
Oof.
@@clairehann2681 Yep. That OP hits you hard, doesn't it?
@@paulondawula1011 it's really upsetting
It is. It’s to open a path to removing age of consent, they want kids screaming “My body my choice”
Then the MAP’s are free to their perversions.
Let’s not forget sterilization and population control.
These politicians on the Left do not care about the innocence of children
I really admire that Gerda has chosen to speak up despite her anxiety. She has an important story to tell. I hope one day she is able to see how beautiful she truly is.
She has a beautiful smile.
Slavic mentality is nostalgic to me. It's a very different world perspective and weight is put on other subjects than the West. It's not just the cultures, it's also the language which makes grand topics seem irreverent, whereas in English topics become very contentious quickly. It's hard to explain.
A million-dollar smile!
Slavic is indeed beautiful culture. Its very similar to old school British/ English Conservative.
We need that now more than ever.
What a lovely, articulate, thoughtful woman! Great interview. Hope we will hear more from her, and even someday see her books published in English.
I hope it's not too late: I AM HERE FOR GERDA ❤❤❤
Another story of one who thought trans was the answer, only to find it was not. These stories are so 💔I am thankful for every person who has the courage to share, so that others may learn ❤
Except noone should ever think it could possibly be the answer.
@@yourdad2126 … F'ing YT just deleted my comment because I spoke the GD truth 🤬
@@NinjaKittyBonks Ah yes the free speech
@@NinjaKittyBonks ɯoɔ˙ʇxǝʇuʍopǝpᴉsdn ƃuᴉsn ʎq ǝqnʇnoʎ uo ƃuᴉɥʇʎuɐ ǝʇᴉɹʍ uɐɔ ᴉ
@@____uncompetative …. ʎzɐɹɔ s”ʇɐɥʇ 'ǝpnp
She has such a beautiful smile - I’ll never understand how anyone can hate themselves or their own body so much… especially one with such a gorgeous smile!
- it’s heart breaking these stories💔
at 1:05:00 i see it too, Señor Boyce! i was just getting ready to say she glows. however, whyever, whatever is inside that she has made peace with is definitely pleased in some way, and it shows ❤️
congratulations on the one finished book and the trilogy in the making! maybe having a rebirth via the writing and finished project under your belt has planted a seed for continuing happiness, even if relative, from here on through to the future. much love! 🥰
How the heck did she manage to get this proficient in English? Her personality and her story are amazing but I just can't get over how good her English is.
She’s European. They still teach for proficiency out there.
we young Poles are usually good english speakers
Thank you!
What a lovely spirit. I hope you find peace as a woman. ♥️
Gerda, jesteś wspaniałą i śliczną dziewczyną. Życzę Ci wszystkiego dobrego w życiu. Mam nadzieję, że moja córka kiedyś zobaczy ten wywiad i zrozumie, że zmiana płci nie jest rozwiązaniem jej problemów. P. S. Polecam Alpicort E na włosy. Mnie pomógł po terapii hormonalnej.
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You're lovely Gerda. All the best for the future.
Interesting.
I'm being persecuted at work by the HR department because I refuse to go along with Critical Theory's LGBTQI+ acronym and Woke theory.
The grouping of all these different mostly unconnected states of being in one acronym stinks of Oppression politicking.
The graphs about attendance at gender clinics I've been digging up reveal how huge the spike in adolescent girls is.
Gert's early onset of puberty seems to be a feature of affluence that is very overlooked. Gert sounds like puberty ambushed her. That and the effect of technology enabling 'geeks' to avoid the big wide world as Haidt has discovered.
Such a waste.
Love Gerda ❤️ such a brave soul. 👏
Love you 💚💚💚
Thank you Gerda. Wishing you the very best. I’m so glad you stayed. 💓 You have made me a more compassionate person by helping me to understand this human experience we call life even more.
just in at 1:00 -- what a charmer! she's adorable ❤️
*** most of our customer service phone calls are based non-stateside, so when there is a bit of a lull or i'm feeling a bit talkie i do like to inquire about where they live, what things are like there, or just simply how things are in general with them. i like to know their name, i have them spell it so i can pronounce it properly, and i try and make a person-to-person connection because fate would have us crossing paths, albeit superficially, so i like to take the opportunity to be a pretty shiny part of their day, opposed to the grumbly, unhappy, complaining customer that usually is the type to need phone call assistance...
* i started my period May of 5th grade -- learning a trad dance for Cinco de Mayo school assembly afterschool and whoa what the hell is this??! late bloomer (if at all) everywhere else, a sexually active friend in jr high achool kicked me down a month or two of her birth control to grow my boobs (!!!) - backfired cuz Ma flipped my mattress (every 6 months, you know!) and found those and Our Bodies Ourselves under there!!! i had my dad crying sitting on the floor of my bedroom thinking i was having sex already and i was like oh puh-leez Dad gimme a break! BOOBS!!!
anyhow -- didn't get over the boobs thing until i was in my early 30s when i finally ditched all padded buffers and taught myself how to stand up straight with a slight "fcuk it!' attitude...
so many of us have had a slightly "Carrie" kind of experience. most don't end in a bath of pig blood and a locked and burning gym full of our schoolmates, teachers, etc, but yeah -- puberty is a clustercuss all around! the only Rites of Passage we have left, for the majority of us... ❤️
Gerda, I listen to most everything in 2x speed and I was able to understand you perfectly... I don't think you have much to worry about re speaking English. You speak it well and have a very good command of it. Hope you enjoy the new job!
All this trans stuff feels like a perfect storm. Social media, kids having more online "friendships" than real life ones, puberty being awkward and embarrassing, trying to fit in with your peers, just so much at once. It's a lot to take when you're young. Adults are not blameless. So many pushing this crap onto kids instead of letting them just learn and grow and be themselves. It's truly hideous.
Gerda is just lovely by the way. She's been through so much in her young years, I hope she finds peace.
near 17:30 can't help but think of Nina Hagen's cover of The Tubes' White Punks on Dope, TV Glotzer -- she rewrote the lyrics, in German, to reflect the couch potato happiness TV (esp from the West in Berlin of late 1970s / early 1980s) can bring us...
Nina Hagen is fabulous!
I view gender dysphoria as an itch you can't scratch. You can claw at the sensation, but the itch persists regardless the treatment.
I can see what you're getting at, but my intuition tells me this description fits a much broader umbrella term that includes gender dysphoria. still searching for the language myself though. thanks for sharing!
@@northstar92 Yes, most addictive thoughts and behavior are attempting to satisfy something with ineffective results.
Take for instance Reintegrative Therapy. It deals with trauma and as a result, some homosexual men lose their same-sex drive. We are only starting to plumb the depth of trauma therapies.
@@chrisazure1624 I don't know about gay men, but lesbians speak a lot about straightbians - women who are not genuinely homosexual but may pretend or sincerely think they are due to mental health issues and/or trauma.
Don't google it though, this term is coopted by the woke crowd, I think now it means "a person who identifies as both straight and a lesbian" or something like that.
@@gerda5721 I know a lot of women who were married to men and later declared themselves lesbian. I think it is more emotional driven for women (trauma being a big part of that as well).
I still find it fascinating that people are starving in parts of the world, NATO is weaker than its ever been, BRICSIP / BRICS are stronger than they've ever been, people are seriously talking about preparing for Nuclear war, even on the richest countries fuel has doubled, energy costs are up an average of 360%, building material costs are up between 400 and 600% and we're still dealing with this childish crap.
Emmie seems like a nice young woman who was led astray at a very vulnerable time in her life. Thank goodness Emmie’s parents did not allow her to take hormones. Very interesting video interview, thank you.
I can very strongly relate to everything she said about developing in puberty, getting sexual attention from strange men, getting improper attention from uncles, and feeling like it must be the fault of me and my body.
Gerda if youre reading this, i love your accent! that is all
What a lovely person.
Yup. Those "friends". Everybody loves to know a unicorn, or better yet, have one.
@NinjaKitty in your opinion do you consider socially constructed gender to be coupled or decoupled (independently variable) from sexual orientation?
@Uncompetative… Not sure I fully understand you question, but will give you my thoughts and let's see where that takes us 🐱
1. Gender = A secondary way in which to describe ether a male or female person. There are exactly 2 genders and approx. .04% of humans are intersex. There are variations in chromosomes, but not versed well in them.
2. Socially constructed = This has zero to do with whether a person is male or female, but rather how they present him / herself to the world. A tom-boy girl may prefer wearing blue-jeans, rather than a dress. A boy may allow his hair to grow very long and put in pony tail or something. This would also include mannerisms of any degree of variation between a more typical male or female person, as has been the "norm" since the dawn of human civilization.
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General thoughts: I could not care less how one wants to "present" themselves to the world, just don't ask me to partake in a lie. So, if a person wants to call themselves "non-binary"... I am not hearing it! If one says their preferred pronouns are "They / Them".... I will NOT use them. I see these as strictly acts of narcissism and a means to control others, so I will not partake in them for any reason or at any time.
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Not sure if that helps to answer your question, but gives you the ground in which I stand on these issues, so let me know what you think 🐈
at near 22:00 -- i have an Austrian friend near 60yo now who had a terrible bicycling accident when she was 14. she thought her diacomfort around boys was due to the social ripple effect of her healing time, which sounded pretty long and extensive -- facial tattoos, acceptance as-is in the punk community, kept things at bay until she was near 50. she told the story of how visiting a trans friend gave her the a-ha! moment and within a year maybe stayed with us en route to her FTM chest surgery. by this time he was already identifying male, had the T drug pulsing through, was stateside at this time, growing facial hair etc and seeming to enjoy the transition. since then, standing proud, shoulders back and confident. as far as i know is extremely happy in his skin 10+ yrs later. seems a typical yet a-typical example, i think...
Trans due to a bike accident. That’s distressing.
@@karinelaxa959 good point! 😮
...who knows, really, how my friend sincerely feels inside about his choices leading him to the present... i tried to emphasize that, from an outside point of view, my friend IS happy. that DOES happen now and again in these situations. they are fewer and farther between with today's (appalling) numbers...
however, the bike accident could very well have caused brain injury which set this path to task. i hadn't thought of that until now...
with this in mind, my friend seems to have been provided an idea rather than his own self-awareness, and if it had not been the a-ha! trans moment, what equivalent a-ha! to our lovely calmversant's would have come to his attention? if it had been more difficult to choose name change, hormones, and chest surgery, what other expressions of his general discomfort would have been made?
i figured that making this decision at the age of 50 was in a lot of ways commendable. i hope he is geninely happy, of course. the relationship he was in at the time of removing hs breasts was with a man who often said he was a lesbian in a man's body 😉...
my favorite facial tattoo(s) my friend has are over his feint, light-haired eyebrows : caterpillars with top hats!
(N.B.! i have absolutely no tattoos! i'll be 48 next month!!)
@@chelebeaqueen Didn't need to be a physical head injury that set her off on this path. Trauma of any kind, physical or emotional is at play. The bike accident at age 14 with a long painful period of isolation at a critical stage of adolescent development would be a major trauma. Discomfort of puberty exacerbated by any disfigurement of an accident could cause an adolescent to hide emotional pain behind a masking image - punk, and images - tattoos. Now behind 'trans', in an effort to make that hurt little girl disappear. She's still in there, no matter how many masks she puts on.
@@awakened3651 yeah, agreed. i just never considered the head injury possibility before . if there was one / when there is one that can send things spiraling in all kinds of trajectories. pondering the 'new'er info about HS (and beyond) football players (as well as other athletes) who have suffered multi concussions...
and arguably my friend could have ended up in the same kind of quandary withOUT any trauma! 😉
We polish people don't like complening but we are honest, perfecionist and we take the interlocutor/conversation/questions seriously we don't do the small talk we do long talk even in stanger we want real honest conversation
I'm scared - this is happend in Poland !? I didin't see it. I think she do this in England, it is so scary
It happened in Poland.
Benjamin, I had a dream you punched me in the face.
That wasn't me!
storytelling HEREZJA !!!
pozdrowienia :P
Chciałam się kiedyś wkręcić w granie w DnD i nawet odważyłam się napisać do jakichś obcych ludzi na grupie poświęconej RPGom, ale urządzili mi 2,5-godzinną rozmowę rekrutacyjną przed przyjęciem do drużyny z testami psychologicznymi włącznie, po której pękłam i stwierdziłam, że never again. 😵💫
Pozdrawiam również!
@@gerda5721 Co?? xD Dali ci kwestionariusz do wypełnienia ? Co tam było?
@@krzysztofcichecki8199 Nie, to nie były kwestionariusze, wszystko odbyło się słownie. Musiałam przejść przez testy badające moją zdolność do szybkiego podejmowania decyzji, jakieś zagadki logiczne rodem z rozmów kwalifikacyjnych w korporacji, testy na kreatywność, tego typu rzeczy. Bardziej mnie to zestresowało niż jakakolwiek rozmowa o pracę w moim życiu. xD
@@gerda5721 Chciałem tylko napisać że jest mi strasznie głupio że ludzie ci takie rzeczy kazali robić xD to jest strasznie absurdalne i w ogòle nie jest potrzebne do grania w dedeki ani w żadną inny tego typu grę
@@krzysztofcichecki8199 W porządku, zdaję sobie sprawę, że nie są reprezentatywni dla całego środowiska i po prostu miałam pecha. :D Myślę, że kiedyś jeszcze spróbuję się wciągnąć, zwłaszcza, że brakuje mi roleplayingu. I bardzo chcę zagrać w Zew!
1:18:13 - no, impossible.
Trzeba będzie to nadrobić.
Now you're just messing with us Benjamin, you're on the wrong side of the screen! What's going on?