Secrets of a Champion Mindset | Molly Fletcher | TEDxBuckhead

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

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  • @julienewmans
    @julienewmans 2 года назад +527

    Great talk Molly. This was really a slap in the face for me. I would see those at college thriving and I always have this mindset that they're doing better than me because they're "better and faster" than me at learning without much effort. But they're probably been developing these skills since kindergarten with grit and perseverance and they do put a lot more effort into it than I do. Thank you so much, I've learned a lot from you + I'll share this with everybody. Best wishes!

  • @ethanblack6413
    @ethanblack6413 2 года назад +9

    "people who don't just get there, but stay there." This. Maintaining is such an important part of success.

  • @AmitKumar-pb8kg
    @AmitKumar-pb8kg 3 года назад +139

    Well I have listened a more than a thousand of Ted talks , but for this one. Must say" what an absolute phenomenal presentation." The body language is in complete resonance with her ideas .! Thanks molly ..! 🙏

    • @patrickmilyo6669
      @patrickmilyo6669 3 года назад

      Couldn’t agree more. Molly, you completely crushed it. Loved the personal stories, inspiring message on embracing drive over achievement and just your pure authenticity. Jerry McGuire better watch his back, he’s about to be replaced! Well done 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 3 года назад +1

      Amit, thank you. Your words mean so much...

    • @tarasuppleton
      @tarasuppleton 3 года назад

      I agree!!

    • @buckpauley
      @buckpauley 2 года назад

      true very true

    • @phillipnorris3rd
      @phillipnorris3rd 2 года назад

      A thousand TED talks? you are committed to TED!

  • @darioconsolata8691
    @darioconsolata8691 2 года назад +16

    "stop focusing on the competition against others and start focusing on competing against yourself." this sums up so much of what we should be striving for as people.

  • @justinesaxenn
    @justinesaxenn 2 года назад +65

    When you have the right mindset, then you will look for every single learning opportunity and learn. That is the key to growth and to success. Great talk because it spreads an extremely important lesson/point for parents, teachers and leaders.

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад

      Exactly, the best know there is always more to learn!

    • @lannydaslin
      @lannydaslin 2 года назад

      yes true, the mind can master anything

    • @jakobdewl
      @jakobdewl 2 года назад

      It's everything isn't it!

    • @erickjans
      @erickjans 2 года назад

      MINDSET MATTERS!

    • @sergeypestovskiy
      @sergeypestovskiy 2 года назад

      yes I agree.

  • @suebakernottly
    @suebakernottly 3 года назад +6

    This is why I love TED, we get to see great powerful women speak, and what makes it different from men, is authenticity. Beautiful Molly, just beautiful, women are strong too, stronger than men!

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Sue.

    • @suebakernottly
      @suebakernottly 2 года назад

      @@MollyFletcherCo I really got this, thanks Molly, It lit a fire under me!

  • @priowgirl119
    @priowgirl119 2 года назад +3

    She has got it right, going to watch this again!

    • @shastahasta
      @shastahasta 2 года назад +1

      awesome send PG!

    • @caroldendy851
      @caroldendy851 2 года назад +1

      @@shastahasta hah, you got it too!

    • @shastahasta
      @shastahasta 2 года назад +1

      @@caroldendy851 haha yes beat you again!

    • @caroldendy851
      @caroldendy851 2 года назад

      @@shastahasta Ill get 1st next time, lol

  • @---nameless---
    @---nameless--- 2 года назад +2

    We can have a growth mindset at any stage of our life!

  • @katarinabloom
    @katarinabloom 2 года назад +3

    I was praised for being smart for 15 yrs as a child and lo I failed in my Law entrance exam. It was heart breaking and now I still have time to change things before someone overestimates it.

  • @luisaesperanza
    @luisaesperanza 3 года назад +7

    I love seeing stories of daughters who have been motivated so positively from their fathers. Good talk.

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад

      Luisa, thank you. Great Dad no doubt.

    • @luisa.6520
      @luisa.6520 2 года назад

      i love this type of things too!

  • @andrea-harrison
    @andrea-harrison 2 года назад +1

    Molly, this put a fire in my belly that I haven't felt in so long! Thank you!!

  • @muhammad-baksh
    @muhammad-baksh 2 года назад +3

    Very powerful, mind transforming and if you think about it, "go out into the world and do something so you can talk about it". Sometimes its the simple stuff that gets you off the sofa.

  • @cameronriley757
    @cameronriley757 2 года назад +1

    I'm shaping my mindset everyday and it's helping me see my weakness grows into a strenghtness day by day....

  • @tarasuppleton
    @tarasuppleton 3 года назад +3

    I needed this today, feeling flat being back at work wondering where I fit? Listening to Molly I feel like I fit where I want to fit. Thank you!

  • @iamdadubdab
    @iamdadubdab 2 года назад +5

    Honestly when I've thought of being successful, I've always thought about it in a bigger picture kind of way but I am definitely understanding how that can hinder me long term! Thank you Ms Fletcher, this is an incredible talk.

  • @aleenaaleenapearce9892
    @aleenaaleenapearce9892 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant! Thank you Molly Fletcher :)

  • @agathachristie7253
    @agathachristie7253 2 года назад +1

    Helping others to grow and evolve and become their best version of themselves is always important. Great job . Having an Evolved Mentality for Success is too important.

  • @gobigorgohome1161
    @gobigorgohome1161 2 года назад +1

    Could be one of the most straightforward and powerful talks on mindset. Molly takes it to the next level. You know if only schools taught this we might solve a lot of this countries issues.

  • @andrewmoore1272
    @andrewmoore1272 2 года назад

    This actually made me realize that I should put so much effort in order to achieve what I want in my life. I am so glad I stumbled upon this video, it really made an impact in my life.

  • @billy-martin
    @billy-martin 2 года назад +1

    I love how many of her stories are like 'I don't know if they really wanted that or they were just trying to get rid of me.' lol such tenacity.

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад

      "No" is just feedback and feedback helps you get better!

  • @alextwarburton
    @alextwarburton 2 года назад +2

    Wonderful part about her father setting her on the path of a champion. I hope to be that person for my children.

  • @nicopetey
    @nicopetey 2 года назад +2

    This talk has me so fired up! I don't know if it's her voice or her energy but she is definitely motivating me to go out and live!

    • @itsmesamrendall
      @itsmesamrendall 2 года назад

      you watched finally, how long ago did I send you the link to this?

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад +1

      Love to hear it Nico!

    • @itsmesamrendall
      @itsmesamrendall 2 года назад

      @@MollyFletcherCo nico is always getting the props lol

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад

      @@itsmesamrendall sounds like the props need to go to you for sharing my video with Nico ;)

  • @jessedurham5312
    @jessedurham5312 2 года назад +1

    I believe the amount of time we spend believing we can't is more than enough time to learn how you can. This is an amazing talk Molly, thanks!

  • @harrisonstenson8324
    @harrisonstenson8324 2 года назад +1

    This womans energy is incredible! So magnetic and powerful. Very pleased to have come across this talk as she is easy to be inspired by.

  • @bro7269
    @bro7269 3 года назад +2

    She is so right. I’m training for a half ironman triathlon. At my age it’s a long road and I know the celebration after crossing the finish line is a short lived event. It’s too much work for too little reward so you have to enjoy the process of getting a little better everyday. Get just 1% better everyday and see what happens!

  • @helenimnotready
    @helenimnotready 2 года назад

    I quite like you Molly Fletcher! From the practices picked up from your Father, to the Zigs of Zig, naturally driven by Sport & Performance, going out and doing something so you could talk about it and then delivering your observations & secrets like its just another fantastic energetic day here on earth. You are a wonderful role model.

  • @tigersallaroundus
    @tigersallaroundus 2 года назад +1

    This makes so much sense to me... I hate when I do things good and people tell me "it's because you are smart." I always said, "Noooo. It's because I try hard."

  • @deborahboyer1941
    @deborahboyer1941 2 года назад +1

    I need this Motivation is very important for me Really It's wonderful sharing.

  • @hooponopono8528
    @hooponopono8528 2 года назад +1

    I kinda wish this talk was longer, giving more details about the studies conducted and how conclusive their results were.

  • @rosemerle540
    @rosemerle540 2 года назад

    I am an artist, and people often say how they wish they were that talented or could do what I do- My response Is always ‘It is honestly just practice and tears’. Natural talent for anything is rare, persistence and dedication to something you aren’t naturally good at is even rarer, but by far more inspiring and empowering.

  • @ximenajantonio
    @ximenajantonio 2 года назад

    I love what she says around the 6:20 mark, just reaffirms all that stuff abut being better than the person you were yesterday.

  • @danilomcvi
    @danilomcvi 2 года назад +1

    Great talk, make us think about how the mind works and what we should to to change the mindset to become better overall.

  • @deepfocus1540
    @deepfocus1540 2 года назад

    I am a college student and from my personal observations of my peers, and myself i am a strong believer in this idea of " mindset" the mind is a very powerful tool and if manipulated correctly, it can bring you to incredible pinnacles.

  • @salsadevrees
    @salsadevrees 2 года назад

    This Champion mindset thing is EXACTLY what I need. I never understood why I couldn't bring myself to achieve anything if I didn't get it right the first time, and to be honest it always bothered me. But this makes sense, and I'm going to start working on it. Thank you!

  • @AngryboySi
    @AngryboySi 2 года назад +1

    Completely and absolutely inspiring to me!

  • @simonoshlor
    @simonoshlor 2 года назад

    This really does explain why a lot of people fail, while feeling like "something special". In that sense I know people who would "rest on their laurels" thinking that they cannot fail. And when they do the result is a severe inferiority complex. Molly, your talk really points this out clearly, and provides the solution. Thanks.

  • @PedroSilva-gv1xl
    @PedroSilva-gv1xl 2 года назад +1

    very good this content of this video contribution friend, the explanation is absolutely good it helps me a lot with this information

  • @robertlcbranson6834
    @robertlcbranson6834 2 года назад

    That's incredible. I think the most powerful aspect is how she phrased, applied, and exemplified the concepts. It's so simple, yet so powerful.

  • @jhbarnes
    @jhbarnes 3 года назад +2

    Keep the drive alive. Amazing words of good wisdom Molly!

  • @granmabecker
    @granmabecker 2 года назад +1

    Love it, there's so much passion and earnestness in her voice it's hard to not feel the force of what drives her!

  • @keiseanreyvalencia6459
    @keiseanreyvalencia6459 2 года назад

    This proves that thinking only your goal and getting better everyday, work hard no matter how slow the progress whent the time comes you can be a champion. Thanks molly for sharing this great advice and motivation.

  • @jessyclaston
    @jessyclaston 2 года назад +1

    Powerful words and thoughts! Love the Zig material!

  • @marleydocker59
    @marleydocker59 2 года назад

    LOVE THIS - Smart and powerful talk.

  • @asherrobb881
    @asherrobb881 2 месяца назад

    Amazing, started clapping behind the screen. Ive been focused on titles and trophies leading to more negativity and dissapointment instead of i want to be better every single day. Thank you speaker, i will adapt this into my pursuit.

  • @ursulayildrim
    @ursulayildrim 2 года назад

    I so agree with the secrets of a champion, I am my only competitor. Though in all honesty it took me awhile to realise that. Today we have someone like Molly sharing her knowledge from inside the action. We are very lucky to have access to her in this way. Thank you.

  • @lucyiberard1219
    @lucyiberard1219 2 года назад +1

    Such fierce determination, even at that age! Well done Molly, it's clear you were destined for success.

  • @whatmotivatesyou6449
    @whatmotivatesyou6449 2 года назад

    I really needed this after the day I've had. I got knocked so far down I don't know how I'll get back up, this video has helped me so much I need to pick myself up just because I'm at the bottom now doesn't mean I'll always be.

  • @nicoyou11
    @nicoyou11 3 года назад +2

    What an incredible talk! Fear of failing can stop so many things you want to do in life. But as you say, drive to get a little better every day is the way! Thank you!

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 3 года назад

      Thanks Nicolas, and remember - failure is just feedback!

  • @claire-mortimer
    @claire-mortimer 2 года назад

    What an absolute inspiration this woman is. I love her drive and motivation.

  • @bellathomas3440
    @bellathomas3440 2 года назад

    Thank you for reminding us we are responsible for our own outcomes and how we not only train our body but our minds.

  • @Verma_1.4
    @Verma_1.4 2 года назад

    I agree. I teach mindset in our home. I see a difference in my kids.

  • @carllokit
    @carllokit 2 года назад

    I just love hearing this lady's voice! Her confidence and just the energy within her whole demeanor is amazing.

  • @dwconsultingsolutions309
    @dwconsultingsolutions309 3 года назад +6

    I absolutely love your AUTHENTIC delivery, Molly! Your content captures the essence of success. A perfect example of following Mr. Ziglar’s guidance. I met you at The Honda Classic in Palm Beach Gardens a few years back as you keynoted for their Professional Women’s Day. Bought your book, A Winner’s Guide to Negotiating, and chatted a bit after the event. Happy to share your awesome 18min of wisdom! Many thanks for your inspiration. 👏👌

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 3 года назад +2

      Thank you for staying connected...loved the Prof Women's Day events.

  • @dylanparker4404
    @dylanparker4404 2 года назад

    There is something behind these mindsets that motivates us to choose one or the other, the wish to be good. If we wish to be good (i.e selfless and work for the betterment of society) we will choose the right mindset naturally.

  • @johnwillig9174
    @johnwillig9174 3 года назад +4

    Bravo Molly! Fabulous presentation and lessons for everyone at all ages!

  • @emmatshields
    @emmatshields 2 года назад

    This talk is spot on. I have been working on a positive mind set for many years and am dramatically turning my life around. I start out each day with positive affirmations, it put my personality in drive mode..

  • @beckeralan2
    @beckeralan2 2 года назад

    Loved this, Molly! Thank you for taking the time!

  • @erikhall7110
    @erikhall7110 3 года назад +3

    Really impressive presentation!
    One sentence in particular really resonated with me (when you were speaking about the ‘best’): “They don’t have a rear-view mirror” 👍🏼

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 2 года назад

      No rear view mirror - just big windshield :)

  • @phillipnorris3rd
    @phillipnorris3rd 2 года назад

    Ive seen this posted on a few channels, but never bothered to watch even though I was curious. But wow this is one powerful talk. Thanks!

  • @mystory8289
    @mystory8289 2 года назад

    Definitely needed this. What a Legend. Thank you, Molly

  • @rustyacton
    @rustyacton 2 года назад

    I like what this says about the role of a relationship within yourself. Fostering a connection to your higher self and being your own competitor. Learning to drive your own behaviour for performance and in life. There are two integral parts of me in simple terms. What I do and what I don't do contributes to the quality of my life. Listening to others and observing contributes to teachings of life. Basically you have to get out of your own way.

  • @emmajchance
    @emmajchance 2 года назад +1

    Simply amazing. A must watch vid. A positive mental attitude is easily the #1 contributing factor to success and well-being.

  • @robertcardenas58
    @robertcardenas58 3 года назад +2

    I needed to see this. Thank you.

  • @sandycrisp4518
    @sandycrisp4518 2 года назад

    Molly, thank you for this plethora of experience . You have laid this out so perfectly. Inspiring to say the very least.

  • @halilibrahim4830
    @halilibrahim4830 3 года назад +1

    Even if I don't understand mainly what you said , but I have understood that , whatever comes in life on our way we need to overcome what situation is hard for us .

  • @vivianpatgreen
    @vivianpatgreen 2 года назад

    I was already impressed by the book of Carol Dweck, Mindset, it gave me so many new insights and ideas. This video is a confirmation that the growth mindset is very important to all of us. Thanks, great video :).

  • @iammatrixmike
    @iammatrixmike 2 года назад

    Best TED talk I've heard by a mile!

  • @julie-chan
    @julie-chan 2 года назад +1

    This is such a great video to learn and understand human behavior. A shared idea on the subject for people like me. High performing and "here let me sabotage this for you." This is about pushing through and challenging a 'set mind' far different from mindset. This can be used for all walks of life!

  • @nikhilgoyal007
    @nikhilgoyal007 2 года назад

    Loved it, thank you!!

  • @samanthacollins1551
    @samanthacollins1551 2 года назад

    Great and very interesting speech, I like Molly Fletcher and love to listen to her. Thanks for sharing.

  • @josehern2724
    @josehern2724 2 года назад

    Thank you, we have to be motivated and positive, we are champions when we achieve our goals.

  • @CarleenGodwin
    @CarleenGodwin 2 года назад

    I fully agree on the need to strengthen the mentality. Very good talk.

  • @ankebloem
    @ankebloem 2 года назад

    There is so much positivity to be gained in just BELIEVING that you're capable of achieving the things you want!

  • @11ThaoNguyen11
    @11ThaoNguyen11 2 года назад

    Great talk ! Molly expresses better than any good book on the subject, how the growth mind-set applies to social interaction skills, as well as creative and sporting endeavours.

  • @itsmesamrendall
    @itsmesamrendall 2 года назад

    The story about the basketball coach towards the end really drove the message home, well done.

  • @otherworld11
    @otherworld11 2 года назад

    really, really, outstanding counsel....

  • @MichelleHiskey
    @MichelleHiskey 3 года назад +2

    Love me some Molly Fletcher! Great talk. You always deliver!

  • @sebastianroseter
    @sebastianroseter 2 года назад

    THIS IS POWERFUL - wow loved that this appeared today, I really needed to hear it.

  • @Sfdota
    @Sfdota 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for phenomenal presentation :D

  • @jackiehathway
    @jackiehathway 2 года назад

    Couldn't agree more, mindset is everything.

  • @dpesca
    @dpesca 2 года назад

    Such amazing self-confidence, especially in terms of knowing that she could build that business up! Definitely taking all the advice I can get from her.

  • @danielaavendano1
    @danielaavendano1 2 года назад +1

    Incredible video has motivated me too much since you are absolutely right, we should always have a champion mentality and thanks to these secrets I can know it, thanks to you for sharing it, I loved it and I recommend it.

  • @ianmunene2061
    @ianmunene2061 2 года назад

    The truth is that I love everything you do is simply spectacular! VERY GOOD VIDEO

  • @lamarjacobs
    @lamarjacobs 2 года назад

    Most of our cases of disappointments happened because of the ungrateful feeling when you expect the good things from others but they didn't appreciate your help or work after that your mind is remind you that lots of people didn't deserve your presence with them suddenly you begin to hate the outside of society and getting ill person.

  • @relhen30
    @relhen30 3 года назад +2

    Ohhhhhhhh ok. I watch a lot of Ted Talks and subscribe to more than one of their podcast. But this one hit me differently. I saved it before the end to watch again and again.
    I really really love this.

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 3 года назад +1

      Thanks so much, Bert, that means a lot!

  • @albertocastillo2918
    @albertocastillo2918 2 года назад

    I have managed to find this content that seems to me a detailed and analyzed explanation, thanks for the dedication!

  • @gianisherenow
    @gianisherenow 2 года назад

    Wow, after watching this I am really energised to get out there! Great talk!

  • @darksolstice1754
    @darksolstice1754 2 года назад

    I like hearing Molly Fletcher's insights. She's an amazing woman and always motivates me

  • @msamymorin
    @msamymorin 2 года назад

    Great talk Molly! You are truly an inspiration 😍😍

  • @nataliyabelova
    @nataliyabelova 2 года назад

    This is powerful, thanks Molly!

  • @gsusmakama
    @gsusmakama 2 года назад

    Excellent words from Molly Fletcher, I will follow your advice, I want success in my life

  • @01entertainmenttv73
    @01entertainmenttv73 2 года назад

    The value of this video is immeasurable.

  • @caidendrew
    @caidendrew 2 года назад

    This is amazing!!! I have such great respect for anyone who puts their own wheels in motion to be great at trying to change their life big or small.

  • @WorkHardPlayHardMarketing
    @WorkHardPlayHardMarketing 3 года назад +1

    Great Job Molly! I met you at the PPAI show in Vegas years ago when you spoke. Keep Motivating! This was terrific.

    • @MollyFletcherCo
      @MollyFletcherCo 3 года назад

      Loved PPAI...thanks for staying connected.

  • @kirstenviesitle
    @kirstenviesitle 2 года назад

    NOW THIS IS WORTH SHARING! AWESOME MOLLY!

  • @thomasmthomson
    @thomasmthomson 2 года назад

    This is such an amazing talk Molly, I think it's safe to say you've well and truly accomplished your goal of motivating others as a speaker.

  • @inachanda2647
    @inachanda2647 3 года назад +2

    This is amazing, thank you so much Molly!

  • @paulgreen9712
    @paulgreen9712 2 года назад

    Such incredible self-assurance, particularly in terms of knowing she could grow the business! I'm definitely going to take all of her advice.

  • @jasmarkov9553
    @jasmarkov9553 2 года назад

    Absolutely great video, I'm very glad to see this, thanks for sharing

  • @audreylstamford
    @audreylstamford 2 года назад

    Awesome talk Molly, glad you have finally achieved all this for yourself, Zig would be proud!