The Other Side of Ego | Jonathan Gravenor | TEDxOcala
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- As he stared at the end of his life when diagnosed with cancer, Jonathan was hit with the fact he was not the man he thought he was - He had become the kind of man he would not want to be near. Two remarkable people appeared and taught him life's greatest lessons, and in that started him on the road to redemption that saved his soul and saved and his life. that started him on the road to redemption that saved his soul and saved and his life.
This television journalist seemed to have everything, until that everything included cancer. Jonathan writes about his intimate journey with a deadly disease. And he also tells a bigger story about how the disease launched him on a pilgrimage to become a better man. He uses his gifts, as a raconteur to show how some of the answers about how to survive his cancer were revealed in his quest for redemption.
He published his first book in 2017 - The Other Side of Ego. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Yes. The ego can be such a trap when we let ourselves make decisions that serve only it
Learn to give compassion to that part of you that is judgeful, the part of you that doesn’t understand and the part of you that isn’t as ‘spiritual’ as it desires to be.
It’s a big trip to think there is an ego to get rid of, the ego is an illusion, and an illusion is and never was real. You were never anything but the All.
I think this stuff just proceeds in cycles; contract, expand, contract, expand, and so on.
If you are Aware of falling into an ego trap, then you as Awareness, are not trapped.
But if you believe that you are the person, and not the Awareness, which is trapped. That will be your experience. And you will suffer.
What a beautiful wonderful talk, if only all men could open up like this and see the folly of their ways of thinking they have to be tough all the time. I see why this talk has been seen so many times, it is moving.
What an extraordinary human
I loved this, I loved them.. What a brilliant teaching.
Thanks for emailing me this, wow wow wow
This talk brought me tears.
Thank you for this amazing presentation, real eye opener
Your true self is the observer, observing your thought processes, words, and actions. That’s not your ego/personality. It’s healthy to separate your true observing self from your personality because once you start believing you ARE your personality, it’s kind of an unhealthy attachment? it’s healthy to remember you’re just observing how your mind intakes the things you experience in life. Helps you take life less seriously and become less stressed the more you remind yourself you are simply observing life unfolding. You are the universe experiencing itself basically. Every living thing has its own perception and personality (ego), but at the same time every living thing at the core is JUST the observer.
Simply a great message to hear today, thanks for sharing it.
You know I heard about this talk last year on a Jay Shetty podcast!
Perfect Ophilia, just perfect lovely share.
Not sure I agree, I believe we must be able to see ourselves and not just observe ourselves.
I love everything he said, and what you added.
I found out that the solution to the ego isn't trying to get in our heads and fix the problem. When you tell people "Be more confident!" "Fix your ego problems!" they continue going inside their head.
The solution is just being active, vulnerable and being very honest with yourself. I had a very difficult childhood. I was bullied, emotionally abused by my brother, neglected by my parents and effects of these continued to create more destruction in my social life. My high school social life was terrible because I was the quite kid with issues. I couldn't connect with other kids, I even could have a girlfriend but I didn't go for it because I hated myself.
Perfect thing to share, loved it
Basi - chill man, its not that deep
amazing BB thanks for the share
As soon as I look how end ego I am recognizing how important it is
Ben kind of agree but I think you overthink this ego thing
Being humble is the realization that you aren’t more significant or better than others. It’s the awareness that you are equally important to everyone else. It means you have personal boundaries in place, so no one takes advantage of you, but you acknowledge the differences that make each person authentic. And it’s the knowledge that every person is equally valuable and that your value is neither greater nor lesser than anyone else's.
Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less: C.S. Lewis
'Tis a gift to be simple, tis a gift to be free...The Shakers knew. I agree completely.
I've been studying the Bhagavad Gita and the message is the same - joy comes from selfless service to others and action with no expectation of reward. The ego is nowhere to be seen - but humility is.
Buddhism, especially the Mahayana, teaches the same. It is through compassion for others and ourselves that we find true happiness and fulfillment in this life.
It's a good reminder, especially in the midst of all the posts asking about how to stop comparing oneself with others!
For those who have suffered cancer, how did it change you?
I know some people get a renewed vigor and appreciation for life after they come out the other side but I think it did the opposite for me. It made me a bit reckless and care less.
I feel like a worse version of who I was before. I've become more withdrawn, more depressed and even more insecure about my looks. I'm lazier too because I'm so tired all the time.
It caused me to be selfish with my time. I don’t spend any time around negative people.
I appreciate everyday I wake up and can put my feet on the floor without help.
I don’t do anything I don’t want to.
"And suddenly I realized the cancer was a lot deeper than my throat" wow. That is so powerful, it made me tear up. Thank you for your words
The lessons he learned during his road to redemption are a valuable lesson for us all.
The transformation he underwent is a testament to the power of the human spirit.
Jonathan's story serves as a reminder to never give up hope.
This statement holds so much truth and vulnerability. Your words have touched my heart. 😄
The metaphor of the cancer being deeper than just the throat is so poignant, it left me in awe.
Oh wow I teared up so many times and laughed so hard at moments, I am filled with so many things right now. This is not the ted talk I expected, but it is the ted talk I needed right now in my life.
i really got to get it dude thanks
It was a talk that left me many teachings, the ego is like a psychic structure, the result of our experiences and experiences from the earliest childhood, which progressively shape our idea of the self, the image we have of ourselves, many would appreciate seeing it too, I recommend it
Really, I heard his talk. I can understand perfectly your emotions. He is really a witty man with some serious sense of humour, but with his laugh his tears became more and more visible. His voice was literally shaking at times. But also it brought a shred of smile at moments. It is really a very heart touching pep talk.
OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.
Excellent Words Continue this way, My friend, more than these useful videos
I am crying so much, wondering about the man and his dog, and sad for the baby girl, omg this is powerful...
very emotional to say the least
same here buddy, very emotional
it truly is powerful
Fear of dying or losing someone you love. Facing the idea of dying can be difficult. Feeling fear is natural when you think about dying or losing someone you love. It’s normal to struggle with a fear of death. Yet, if these feelings become stronger, talk with your health care team about resources to help you cope.
Recognize that there are situations you can control and those you cannot. As hard as it sounds, many people find it helpful to let go of those things that they cannot change and focus on their reaction to events.
This could be the most heartbreaking and most inspirational TED talk ever, personally.
Thank you for such kind words
got me deep too
and me too
i cried and I dont do that ... ever
yes, it really is powerful
"... we can all die in just one minute, but we can all live a million amazing moments"
Beautiful
I have it written atop my notebook and each new one I get - so that I see, or at least open my eyes to try and glimpse the "Amazing".
Amen 🙏
@@theothersideofego amazing talk thank you!
@@F11994 thank uou
that was so important to me also
So I stumbled over the word "ego" a lot in the form of "let go of your ego", "healthy vs unhealthy ego", "the ego is important to function as an individual", etc. A lot of people here seem to get that there is an ego and that it can be unhelpful and give us unsatisfying emotions, thoughts or drag us in our growth. It seems all agreed that it is good to overcome your ego (temporarily) if it is not helpful in the moment.
Stumble over ego? Is it a physical thing?
Amazing JB, love that you found this.........
This guys talk is really good though.
Great work Jordan thanks for posting this.
Keep finding these gems, I really like them
Is the reaching of enlightenment not itself bound by the laws of karma?
Who decides who reaches enlightenment? Who DESERVES to reach enlightenment?
It’s common sense. Good often begets good. Bad begets bad.
It's Hindu mysticism, and I don't believe in it.
i don’t believe in karma, and the system concept never actually worked for me. its sounds nice though, like the universal checks and balances system.
The story of Jimmy Savile alone is incontrovertible proof against the existence of karma.
Karma is not a cosmic force, more of a probability. If you are often nice to people, its likely they will return the favor, thats how societies function. If you are awful to be around, you will have less friends, thats Karma. Be nice to people and in most, not all, cases they will be nice to you
"The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space".... Thank u sir for ur wonderful words
Thank you for watching ...
that is so true, loved this
That was an awesome comment.
@@Micscience thanks
@@theothersideofego "only one Life that soon is past only what is done with love will last"
How do i lower my ego/get rid of it forever?
Get into martial arts. Lol You’ll be humbled.
Get more in touch with reality. Then you will realise what a nothingness you are. By you, I mean everyone.
It comes down to being more in touch with reality and keeping life in perspective.
Sign up for some volunteer work. Don't tell anyone
Look into the book/audiobook by Eckhart Tolle called "the power of Now" . He's pretty good. Also his other book "a new earth" , but first one for sure. It was on Spotify and RUclips last I looked.
The ego is destructive. But having no ego makes you a target.
This is a good point. I think my ADD and learning disability plays into my insecurity because I always felt less than.
Most things in life work best when they're in balance.
By being confident but also willing to listen and learn. Be respectful of others and but say something if someone is trying to walk over you.
People with an inflated ego usually don't know it. The fact that it concerns you probably means, you don't. Other people's opinions of you are none of your business. Treat them that way.
Ego is just a word for the self. It just is. It's your unique way of seeing the world, the bit of you that makes you yourself.
Takes a real man to drop his ego and still hold his head
I am not sure I can ever drop it - it is a practice to remain aware of its appetite and to work to not let it get the best of me. Thank you
@@theothersideofego How is your father doing?
@@theothersideofego no matter the age we can always change into a better person, and you proved it
this guy is amazing.
This guy is what men should be, open raw and vulnerable
I have just understood what is consciousness - THIS!
Not a bad concept. I like it.
I’d like to think of it as the warmth coming from transforming information; the ‘pull’ of its patterning, almost like a gravity.
The Vedantha philosophy has considered mind as the subtle form of matter where in the body and its components are considered the grossest forms.
So, it's sort of like, reality is information. Consciousness is the processing of that information, or "attention is all you need."
I agree that symbolic thinking is probably very important
This talk reminds me of some study I did. Performing acts of kindness and helping other people can be good for people’s health and well-being, according to research. But not all good-hearted behavior is equally beneficial to the giver. The strength depends on many factors.
I totally get this.
It can become ego-centered, like wealthy bragging their "charity and volunteering."
not gonna complain about what form of giving back people are doing
I don't know if you can really force yourself show some kind oflove like this...
so the idea is to try work towards showing genuine love towards others.
Jonathan's message and delivery was absolutely beautiful. It was a pleasure to hear what he had to say and I think more so it was important to hear. What a fantastic motivational speaker. What a fantastic and kind man.
This talk resonated with me on a profound level. It's a reminder that our struggles can shape us and lead us to meaningful growth. Thank you for sharing your emotional and inspiring story.
what a powerful reminder of the resilience and strength of the human spirit. It's amazing how someone's personal story can have such a universal impact. Thank you for sharing your journey.
I was deeply touched by this talk. It's a reminder that our emotions connect us as humans and that we can find strength in vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring us all.
This talk reminded me of the power of storytelling. It's through sharing our experiences that we can inspire others and create positive change. Thank you for sharing your emotional journey.
I couldn't help but be moved by this talk. It's incredible how a speaker's vulnerability can create such a deep impact on the audience. Thank you for sharing your story and touching our hearts.
This is not like Ted talks I have seen before, this one really made me feel.
I shed a tear
this is so amazing!
"I started to realize that I wasn't so scared of dying I had just been scared my whole life of living" that hit hard man
Thanks Colin, much appreciated that you felt it too.
got me too...
wow yes
That part hit me so deep, I realized what I had been missing.
Yes. I teared up
“For love to flourish, the light of your presence needs to be strong enough so that you no longer get taken over by the thinker or the pain-body and mistake them for who you are. To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.”
― Eckhart Tolle
love eckhart!
@@tarasuppleton he is great, yes.
amazing quote man!
The perfect words...
@@eleanorrigbywhatdoesitmean it is!
Be still my heart, what a beautiful man, so open and honest. I love this talk..
I want to thank everyone who took the time to watch this talk and comment. I have never found Doug. I have been told that often, people who are deemed to live on the edge of society move back home if they can connect with family again. I hope and wish for that to be true. I hope, if nothing else, my talk has moved you to connect with ALL people more. I know that in my life, I have tried to connect with people who I thought would give me something because they had so much. Most times, I was disappointed. Yet, the times I connected with those who had less, they seemed willing to give everything.
Thank you, amazing talk.
I hope you are right about the man, I hope he is with people who love him...
I googled you, and found your book, I have bought it.
Thank you ❤
Thank you for telling us about Doug, I hope he is okay too.
Someone sent me this, and I had watched it over year ago, and it was just as good today.
"I had a similar experience when I rediscovered that TED Talk. It's like finding a piece of yourself that resonates with its message."
"I'm so glad you rediscovered that TED Talk. It's a reminder that great ideas can transcend time."
"That TED Talk is like a breath of fresh air. Its message has the power to invigorate and inspire."
"That TED Talk is a masterpiece that has the power to change lives. I'm grateful you had the chance to experience it again."
"That TED Talk is a masterpiece that captures the essence of the human spirit. I'm glad you rediscovered its brilliance."
Someone sent this to me again, and I watched it again, and again I cried for so long. My heart broke and became even bigger at the same time. So beautiful.
I’ve seen a lot of TEDx talks, but this one... it's just on another level. The raw honesty and vulnerability of Jonathan’s story is something else.
Dude this is the deepest Ted talk ever I've got so mutch more work to do in my life and none of it is earning money
thank you, and thank you for doing good work
@@theothersideofego is this really you? Because if it is I just want to tell you that I had a pretty bad day today, started distancing from the people that are the ones that love me, but this speech gave me another perspective to life I was forgetting and lacking. Thank you sir, this was beautiful. May God bless you.
@@iloverussia111 hi you are kind, sorry I dont monitor my account that much, yes learning that the best love is what we give and not what we get helped me a lot.
My significant other has trouble understanding the virtue of humility. I showed them this talk, and they think it has nothing to do with humility. No matter what argument I come up with, they still see it as a sign of vulnerability and incompetence. Do you have any insights to help me?
By staying humble, you are receptive to opportunities to improve.
Humility is the ability to be skeptical of yourself. If you cannot maintain a certain amount of enlightened skepticism of your own personal motivations, you will constantly lie to yourself and others. Arrogance is the trait of being unable to question your own motivations.
Humility is more USEFUL than arrogance. Just like skepticism is more useful than blind faith. It allows you make calculated and accurate decisions with the amount of information you have. And it keeps you from ignoring important variables, because you accept the fact that you might be wrong, you are able to make decisions with an eye to angles you might not have seen if you were being closed minded.
Humility is a function of reason. Without it, you are handicapping your ability to stay reasonable.
Get a copy of Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People. Don't let the title turn you off. I found it to be an essential "manual" for interacting with other people.
Saw this again, more powerful this time than the 1st, and it was powerful the 1st time.
I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me appreciate the speaker's storytelling skills even more. It's a chance to analyze their delivery, body language, and use of visuals. Each viewing unveils new layers of communication excellence.
Some TED Talks are so impactful that they become a source of inspiration and motivation. Re-watching these talks helps me stay connected to that initial spark and reinforces my commitment to personal and professional growth.
Re-watching TED Talks gives me a sense of continuity. It's a reminder that personal growth is not a one-time event but an ongoing journey. Each time I watch, I build upon my previous knowledge and continue to expand my understanding.
I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me apply the ideas to different areas of my life. The first time I watch, I may focus on one aspect, but subsequent viewings allow me to see how the concepts can be relevant in various contexts.
I'm grateful for the ability to re-watch TED Talks online. It's like having access to a vast library of knowledge and inspiration. Each time I watch, I discover something new and find motivation to further explore the topic.
A friend sent me this. I'm so glad we have people like this, not ashamed to be open and honest.
It's obvious this man is awake - BUT - How do we know that we are spiritually awakening ourselves, what are the signs?
Changes in cognition; not knowing what you are or who you are.....
loosing all attachment to prior beliefs, desires, fantasies..........
Thinking in ways you've never done before.
Seeing the characters in your movie in an entirely different shade of lighting.
My friends don't want to hear about spirituality and meditation.
How do I become more humble and diminish my ego.
Basically it comes down to being quiet. Don't brag about things you've done.
No need to lie. But it's, in my opinion, about not crowing your own awesomeness to make sure everyone knows. Keep stuff to yourself. You know how awesome you are, show people how awesome you are, don't tell them. Let them come to their own conclusion about your awesomeness. I think that helps keep ego in check and at least the appearance of humility.
Work at a soup kitchen. Not once or twice, but for weeks. It will humble you. A wise man one told me, "I complained because I didn't have any shoes, until I met the man who had no feet."
Diminishing ego and being humble isn't about thinking lowly, or less of yourself, it is about thinking about yourself less.
There is nothing more humbling than volunteering at a hospital. I recommend starting with adults. I play games at a kids hospital about twice a month. It puts things into perspective.
This man is full with pearls of wisdom coming out of his mouth non stop. I'm stunned. This talk will resonate with me for a long time. It really helps you clarify what really is important. Thank you Jonathan.
This is worth everybody’s time and energy. So valuable!!! Spiritual banquet.
This talk has grabbed me hard, I need to know what happened to the man and his dog, and Jonathan were is he now.
Emotionally charged talks have the power to inspire, challenge, and transform us in profound ways.
Don't shy away from the emotions that arise after watching a talk. They can be a source of personal empowerment.
Emotionally charged talks have the power to make us feel alive, connected, and inspired.
Being emotionally charged after a talk is a reflection of how deeply it resonated with you and touched your soul.
thanks for sending me this
My sister lost her 5 year old. Listening to this I could see my little niece as being that young girl he met. She was so wise for her age, so giving. This has made me cry so much, tears I don't want to end. Bless you sir bless you for bringing this to the world.
wow, thats just awful, how is she dealing with it now
OMG, i am so sorry for you and your family
thats tragic.
wow, this is so sad, I am so sorry for you and your family
I have never cried watching a talk before, but right now I can't stop. This is so tragic yet so beautiful at the same time. If you have any empathy in this world then this talk is for you. I am sharing - LOTS!
This reminds me of a quote I love "It's not your life expectancy it's what you expect of life.." he is such an elegant man, so full of real emotion and care. Bless him and his journey
love that quote
This TED talk could not have come to me at a better time
Damn fine talk!
This is the best TED talk that I have ever come across!
amazing clarity and empathy, blessings to all
I stumbled across this but it’s changed my thinking for the better.
Someone's love made me reconnect to that inner voice...
Walked out one morning
in search of valour
I saw a moviestar
humbing around blatantly
in a starshaped manner,
occupied by his own steps.
I quickly turned
and found a soldier
blinded by a just cause
grown sour.
I frowned and saw an athlete
curled up and tense
to achieve the love
of his long lost father.
I walked on
and met a business man
smiling without joy
and speaking without heart.
Almost giving up I sat down
now seeing a man with scars
and a face that defied
the firm despair of time.
I was reached by a smile
and offered my hand,
cause in my search of valour
I found the homeless man.
So great!
I am a soldier a sailor a father and a homeless man
@@silascochran9705 Thank you for your service sir. I will keep you in prayer.
Wow beautiful we can use all the help we can get a smile is good enough sometimes
@@gregthompson1743 thank you for being out there and your concern I'm doing well
I feel humbled beyond words yet want to comment; over and over, my heart keeps saying thank you. The most moving and life-useful TED talk I've seen, compellingly told. I am grateful for your experience and your gifting us by sharing it. I'm also so happy for you and your daughter about you reconnecting.
Thank you Anna, you are very kind. A few months ago I moved across the country so we are in the same city now. It is so cool. Your words are really appreciated.
When you talked about the little girl I lost it and had to pause the video. This is such a powerful talk. If you feel your life is going nowhere or you are doing nothing, watch this and it might inspire you to do better.
This is the probably the first time I have ever cried listening to a TED talk.
I started working in the hospital this year, and to protect myself from all the suffering of my patients I had become emotionally numb.
You helped me realise why I had chosen medicine in the first place.
Jonathon - I truly hope you are well. Bless you for opening the eyes of many.
thanks, you are very kind
@@theothersideofego Thank you for accepting the invite to talk, Jonathan. Yours is such a blessing and the most inspiring TED Talk I've watched and listened to so far. I also hope that you and your family are well, the same goes for Doug and Molly.
"God took the wrong one that day." - This made me recall the many times I told God that He (or She) made a mistake in giving me life, knowing how I'd disappointed my parents and other people many times. It's such a struggle to live, love, and forgive oneself.
This is the first ted talk that made me cry like a baby. Thank you for your beautiful story.
Jamille you are very kind thank you
This was one of the best speeches, with a great balance of wisdom, poetic expression and humor, I have ever listened to.
The first 3 minutes I judged, the next four I had realized once again how wrong I truly realized I am, thank you for the gift of realization and acknowledgement
I think awareness is the first step - thank you for your kind words
I love his talk - BUT! How can we all actually help the homeless?
I've been in this situation (homeless). You can only help the ones that want help and believe me there are a lot that don't.
Always vote for a more compassionate government that has policies that actually adress wealth inequality & the associated crisises (housing, welfare etc...)
Sleeping on the street should be illegal if you have been offered suitable accommodation.
This is my understanding from some small amount of work with people in these communities. Homelessness and risk of homelessness is a spectrum. You've got everything from long term involuntary homelessness, typically young men who can't get social housing and won't meet the rules of shelters (drugs, crime etc), to a certain population who choose to live outside the system, I.e they don't apply for or receive centrelink, refuse public housing and so on, these are usually older men. In the middle are family's who justly get priority for social housing, and younger singles who are disenfranchised, who may go between the street and social housing, shelters, or refuges.
Welfare thats liveable and a sufficient supply of public housing would go a long way to reduce numbers.
The single most powerful talk I have ever seen, thank you thank you thank you
Thank you very much
@@theothersideofego I loved this sir.
I am grateful that the spirit saved this for me to see. Beautiful.
Unlike any TED I have ever seen, it speaks to a place in us which is much deeper.
Thank you William!
@@theothersideofego very welcome
I heard this somewhere recently- “ When you treat yourself like a king, that is self-respect. When you want everyone around to treat you like a king, that’s ego.”
It doesn’t get better than this.
So much truth to this!!!
We are nothing and yet we are everything when we let go of all of it
It doesnt get better than this for sure.
This is amazing thank you for your insight.
This is a treasure and the speaker is amazing.
This definitely is one of the greatest stories/speeches I have ever heard, I was holding my tears the whole time 😢
Why were you holding them?
@@danielaspassova781 That's how social conditioning works.
There's a whole crowd telling men "to be men", not showing their "weak" side (i.e. emotions) and to toughen up if there's something going not so great in their life.
But I guess you already knew the answer 🙂
@@StillnessManifesto I think maybe we need to contemplate that vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness ...
And by the way, funny enough... most of my Instagram followers are women, but RUclips Analytics shows 86% of my listeners are men 🙂 so yeah... About time to let down the fake fronts we put on ourselves every day and start looking deeper into our souls.
@@StillnessManifesto Just a stab - but maybe the shaming and negative opinions is caused by their fear and not malice.
And it's way more humbling for me that people share to me and can feel what I felt when I went through my struggle. Makes me realize I am never alone.
Jonathan is a remarkable man and you can learn a lot from him, he is a true hero and we need to follow his example.
I felt his words in my heart.
You are too kind - thank you for this
Absolutely brilliant. A true pleasure to hear this plight for humanity.
Why am I tearing up 😟 I feel sad and happy that I am living at the same time. Thank you Jonathan for sharing your story!
Jonathan’s encounter with Doug really illustrates the power of empathy and human connection. Sometimes the people we least expect teach us the most important lessons.
The story about Doug really moved me, I want to help more but how. If you are a former homeless person, let me know what I can do?
My BF was homeless after his parents threw him out - he made his way back, he now carries few pre-made packs with toothpaste and a toothbrush, deodorant, disposable razors and shaving cream, socks, hand/feet warmers, etc. When he sees someone who needs help he gives them a pack and cash if he has it on him.
But the best and most truly invaluable thing i do is for the homeless people he meets is he stops and has a real conversation with them.
buy a hat gloves and thicker socks, as well as some food to give out....
when I was homeless my friends mom saw me there, and somehow she got me to talk about what was going on in my situation. She listened and asked a few questions. Very sweet and kind lady. She told me a story about how she went through something similar. She then INSISTED on purchasing my cart for me. It wasn't much, but I will never forget it.
There needs to be more opportunities for homeless or otherwise desperate people to do community oriented work.
I cme here for learning and din't expect I'm gonna cry. But I guess it's the best way to learn. Amazing talk.
thank you for your kind words - I learned through Doug and Molly and the little girl and I cried - I discovered that I don't want to follow the man who teaches me with books, and lectures - I want to learn from the men (or woman) that teaches me by living the life I want to live...
This is easily the best talk i ever listened to. What a great man. Im speechless.
You are very kind - thank you
He's shown that with determination and a positive outlook, anything is possible.
I thought I was gonna hear about a cool dmt trip but now I’m crying
Thanks and I understand this after meeting mother several times
me too lol
Me too ❤
haha yeah
cadance cunningham LMAOOOOOOO
This talk has given me so much....I'm learning to not avoid the pain and the grief..
Here's an empowering belief. A person's belief and a person's nature go hand in hand as do a person's nature and will, but most importantly the beliefs, nature and will of the collective generate the very reality in which we live. Only correct beliefs can set us free.
thank you for your kind words
Collective beliefs steer the world we share.
TEDxOcala's insights struck a deep chord.
I've been watching this for the past 2 years, at least once a week, it helps me ground myself in my own humanity.
Thank you, Jonathan Gravenor, for sharing your touching story! It shows there’s so much more to life... and people than meet the eye.
thank you
“You’re not what you have and you’re not what you do.” Just a reminder for everyone out here still watching this video.
Your comment beautifully captures the heart of the video's message.
This quote encourages us to nurture our internal richness.
Your comment echoes the wisdom shared in the video about the true nature of identity.!👍
True words, our identity isn't defined by possessions or actions.
A much-needed perspective shift in today's materialistic culture.
This was by far the BEST Ted Talk I have ever watched. I've gained far more than I would've imagined from a video I was hesitant to watch. I'm so glad I did!
Thank you Ashley - you are very kind
Ashley Faria that’s what I wrote when I shared it on FB!
I agree 1000%
Couldn't agree with you more!
agree 100000%
This talk describes the start of awakening. It is not a singular process or declaration that one is anew or awake. It is a series of events and then a regular practice of seeing every thing with a fresh mind, seeing true values and authentic relationships with others and most important with self.
This is one of my favorite talks ever.
Thank you for your kindness
@@theothersideofego wow thank you.
@@gobigorgohome1161 very welcome
This one of my favourite things now, this was beautiful, heart breaking, ethereal and sadness, it was a balance I never knew I needed to see before to apply to my own morals. Thank you for this.
OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.
Very good comment my friend, amazing!!
I agree with you this video also made me emotional
Same here. This is amazing, indeed.
Me too, OMG I can't stop thinking about that poor little girl.
These words really touched my soul, the wisdom that this man has is very great.
Like others here, I have seen this talk several times. It never fails to teach me a new lesson on life. This is a real and raw look inside the human condition, my human condition, at what is important. Bless you, Jonathan. This talk is so powerful.
Incredible talk, I was crying with you there most of the talk. That was real words from the heart! Thank you for sharing!!
*THANK YOU FOR ANOTHER BRILLIANT TALK*
thank you
has he done more?
What a beautiful man, he is so genuine and authentic. I feel his pain and his discoveries of what's true for all of us. Just to simply be and love. Thank you for this.
Just one of the best, what a find thanks for sending.
I wonder what became of the man and his dog...
The little girl bit really made me cry a lot
I would love to learn where he is now?
Great man and a great talk.
My favorite talk of all time, so moving so authentic, so needed, thank you Jonathan
I bought your book and got it Tuesday, I finished it Wednesday. I loved it it was inspiring and raw. You didn't leave any scar alone on your soul. I would love to see you talk.
thank you so kind,
@@theothersideofego you are so welcome kind sir
What an extraordinary man, with an extraordinary message. Thank you for your brilliance and your wisdom and reminding me of mine. xxx
"He reminds us of the power of love and its ability to transform individuals and societies."
"His extraordinary message encourages us to live in harmony with nature and the world around us."
"He reminds us that true happiness comes from within and is not dependent on external circumstances."
"His words have the power to shift our perspective and inspire positive change."
"His message challenges us to let go of attachments and find freedom in the present moment."
My greatest fear is being misunderstood. And yet, I've never been good at being my vulnerable self. I don't want my life to be a message that is not mine.
The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose is a reminder of the importance of being open to self-discovery and embracing our passions, even if it means exposing our innermost selves.
I agree wholeheartedly. The emotional depth that accompanies the discovery of one's true purpose is a reflection of the profound impact it can have on our lives and well-being.
The emotional impact of discovering one's purpose is a testament to the transformative power of self-exploration and the pursuit of personal fulfillment.
The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose can be seen as a strength, as it signifies our willingness to embrace our passions and live authentically.
I'm glad you feel the emotional weight of discovering one's purpose. It's a reminder of the richness and depth that can be found when we align our lives with our true calling.
and thought-provoking. Jonathan's story is a testament to the human spirit. 🙏
I have seen this talk several times, I still cry each time and still get something new each time. If you want to feel your heart, watch this...
You are very kind
@@theothersideofego so are you
awesome
awesome
awesome
I am so glad I clicked on this video. Really.
I saw this in 2020, and then heard it on a Jat Shetty podcast, and it reminded me how it made me feel so deeply, so here I am again today listening and crying.
TEDx talks can serve as beacons of hope, reminding us that resilience and hope can prevail even in the most challenging circumstances.
Indeed, the power of words should never be underestimated. A well-delivered TEDx talk has the potential to ignite inspiration and drive change.
The talk left me feeling inspired and motivated. It's amazing how a single speech can have such a profound impact.
Calls to action in TEDx talks can be incredibly empowering. They inspire us to channel our emotions into tangible steps towards making a difference.
I was moved by the speaker's call to action. It made me realize that I have the power to create positive change in my own life and the world.
Agreed, it's rare to see someone put their emotions and struggles on display like that.
Fantastic speech, I had to listen to it twice in a row. I had literally every emotion possible. Thank you!
thank you - you are very kind
I cried while listening to this talk.. what a story.. thank you!
S G Same here
I did not expect a talk on Ego on TED to be so emotional and real. This is just so beautiful, a must watch!
I didnt either
i know.
Incredible information thanks to this video now I know more about the subject, without a doubt very important, thanks I will share it with all my friends
good comment, i agree
I agree with it!
Everything that you spoke well reflects on you! All your words come from your heart because you feel them. You feel them because they are your first-hand experience.
"humility is not thinking less about your self, it's thinking about yourself less“
🔄🔄🔄
I couldn't agree more! Humility is about recognizing that we are all interconnected and that our actions and words have an impact on others.
Well said! Humility is not about thinking less of ourselves but about thinking of ourselves in a broader context. It's about embracing a mindset that values the well-being and happiness of others.
Absolutely! Humility is about recognizing our own worth and capabilities while also acknowledging the worth and capabilities of others. It's about fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.
I love this perspective! Humility is about having a balanced view of ourselves and recognizing that our worth is not solely defined by our own accomplishments. It's about valuing others as well.
Well said! Humility is not about self-deprecation or denying our own potential. It's about recognizing that we are part of something greater and approaching life with a sense of humility and gratitude.
Deeply moving truths and raw emotions, this is without a doubt one of the best Teds I have ever witnessed. I am left with questions, but also answers, and maybe that is life, we keep asking questions, and when we ask the right ones, the answers appear. Bravo Mr Gravenor
"Thank you for sharing this talk! It's a great reminder that ego isn't always a negative thing."
"I appreciate how the speaker emphasized the importance of balancing ego with humility. It's a delicate dance."
"This talk made me reflect on my own ego and how it impacts my relationships. Very thought-provoking."
"I found the speaker's personal anecdotes to be incredibly relatable. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in my ego struggles."
"Ego can be such a destructive force, but this talk shows that it can also be a catalyst for personal growth."
This could be one of the most honest talks I have seen, he stripped himself down and showed his warts and scars and all. he didn't seek redemption, he just looked for truth and meaning. This talk will help change people. But I need to know - where are Doug and his dog and what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?
Yes it is great ! I like it too
Great talk, indeed.
Me too bro I need to know what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?😁
Very much agree with you this is definitely a great talk
Nice video. I love it. Thanks for uploaded this inspirational TED talk This video is very important for me.
Every time I watch this video, I cry. It was a amazing and beautiful talk.
Wow, this is so emotional; the discovery of one's true purpose can provide a sense of purpose and meaning in even the most difficult of circumstances. And also leaves you in such a vulnerable state.
This man is a legend. 5 years ago published this talk, and still everything applies as we're speaking about it today. Great job! This will live forever. True legend!
So true! It's a beautiful journey of self-discovery. 🌺
It's true that discovering your purpose can leave you in a vulnerable state. When you are exploring your deepest desires and passions, it can feel like you are exposing a part of yourself that you've kept hidden for a long time. But vulnerability can also be a source of strength and resilience. When you are willing to be vulnerable, you open yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities that you may have never considered before. And ultimately, this vulnerability can lead you to discover your true purpose and live a more fulfilling life.
Finding your purpose can be a source of strength and resilience in times of adversity.
he journey of discovering your purpose can be full of surprises and unexpected twists. 🤩
those words were really deep. especially the one where he told about his relationship with his daughter, that is so raw and honest. just wow
Wishing you all the inspiration and growth from this talk
May this journey to redemption bring us all closer to our best selves.
A real gem of a talk. Grateful you sent it.
This journey reminds us it's never too late to evolve and grow.
I hope it's brought positive change into your life as well.
I cried a lot because I realized so much of what you said is exactly what I needed to hear.
I have thought - since I was ill and finally reached out for help - that none of us are alone - there is always many people out there who understand exactly what we are going through
Powerful stuff! Please read his book “The Other Side of Ego”....an eye opener
I cried man, I can really feel his words by the way he speaks. 😭 Im glad ive learned so much from this man
Thanks Kevin...