Hello Pastor Blakes, Can you please do a video on how a woman proves to a man (or shows) she’s wife material? I met a man who says I need to prove to him I’m wife material, but I’m not sure how to do this? I, and many other ladies I am sure, would greatly appreciate your wisdom on this matter
Notes- 1. He puts himself on your schedule. 2. He is comfortable talking about heart issues. 3. He intuitively discerns things about you that you never told him. 4. He's comfortable going through the men in your life. (Ex: dad, brother, uncle, pastor) 5. You feel safe enough to tell him your secrets. 6. He has a spiritual affect on you that motivates the best in you. 7. He redefines what manhood is for you.
- He puts himself on your schedule (Healthy masculinity moves at the pace of femininity. He will not rush you) - He is comfortable talking about “heart” issues. He is emotionally vulnerable and in tune. - He discerns things about you that you never told him. When a man loves you, he learns you. - He is comfortable answering to the men in your life (Dad, Pastor, brother, etc.) - You will feel safe enough to tell him your secrets. He provides an energy that gives emotional comfort of being seen and valued. - He has a spiritual effect on you that motivates the best in you - He redefines what manhood is to you -
A man that is moving to fast for you is trying to confuse you. A man moving to slow for you is trying to manipulate your emotions. A safe man puts himself on your schedule. This insight is lifechanging, timely and powerful! Thank you RC Blakes!
❤this is all true ladies.. I made the mistakes and wasted my time with toxic men.. now I have a safe man. Thank you Bishop RCB. You taught me how to move as a woman that wants to be a wife. ❤ I am in a safe loving relationship. Marriage is on the table and I feel so secure.
My safe man proposed on Mother’s Day ❤ I just wanted to say when certain people found out who I was dating they said I was too pretty for him, that I could do better and I confidently said ladies y’all are broken! My man makes me feel secure, never let’s me worry about a thing, never let’s me touch my purse, is patient with me, puts himself on my timeline, compliments me daily, makes sure I eat HE IS EVERYTHING.. and y’all are stuck on physical appearance??? Haha good luck finding your boaz! Btw he is very handsome ( definitely wasn’t healthy weight wise but we’ve been doing that together and he’s lost 50 pounds ❤)
“a healthy and safe man does not criticize, nor does he humiliate you. He gently creates a growth culture in the relationship…. That produces evolution in you. You find yourself growing into the best version of yourself on this man’s watch.” - I felt that one 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for this message. I wasn't addicted to dangerous men, I literally didn't know how to identify a SAFE man. I had never been exposed to any, and I believe there are many women in the same position. Toxicity becomes your normal when that's all you've known.
Amen 🙌 I was incredibly blessed to have been raised by a "safe man" ... I am able to pick them out of a line up of 1k ... However I have lifelong friends that can't pick a safe man if their lives depend on it , they were raised by toxic men 🥺😞
I waited. It was hard. 46 now and I met the man God had for me. I’m in shock at how perfect he is. Just what I needed and more. And he says he needs me. It’s love. Marry me Brian Marra ❤️
Amen! I waited on God at age 55, and with a background of meeting players, I knew the moment God brought him into my life what a good man is. Wait on God! Thank you, Pastor Blakes. You are a blessing to society.
All I have ever known is unsafe men. As I have been doing my healing work and I have attempted to ask for what I believe I deserve from a man, I have been oh so misunderstood and shamed for it. For now I rather continue healing and stay alone until God puts the right man on my path. I understand that I can’t force a man to want to provide me with what I need,( safety, protection, provision) but I have the power to walk away if I don’t !
@Sun_Ocean_Sky Totally. Well said. I’m glad that you didn’t let those unsafe men kill your dreams for a safe man, and that you held on to what you needed and wanted. Bravo! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
The last part was so deep, replayed it over and over..."wait on God to give you the man that's best for you, Gods choice will bring you so much healing, get busy following you, building you, following purpose asking God to bring you the right person in your life" Be patient and wait on God. Be healthy enough to receive him... powerful ! ❤ Thank you Pst RC Blakes
Hallelujah, thank you in advance Pastor. I was just praying about this. After years of trauma, I know what unsafe men are like- but have no clue what the safe ones are like. i’m ready to be out of survival mode and experience safety, protection, & provision from a good man. ❤
Thank you so much, Pastor. Unfortunately, I married a man who is unsafe in every way. I have accepted the fact that he does not love me and I don't deserve him. He has taught me what love is not. I made a mistake in marrying him, for I deserve better than crumbs. Although I am legally married, I know I don't have a husband. For a husband does not betray, deceive, neglect, and emotionally abuse his wife. I have never felt safe with him. My main focus is to guard my heart and work on myself. I will continue to work to become the best version of myself as I emotionally detach and find my way out. Thank you for teaching us women what it is to be a REAL man. You are a blessing.
“He taught me what love is not” I know exactly what that sentence feels like. May God give you the same strength & courage he gave me to leave. Blessing to you!!!!
I'm willing to remain open-minded and continue to work on myself because these conversations have made me realize that valuing characteristics I've never personally observed in men and offering something I've never received from men requires more faith than I currently possess.
Thank you for this! I haven’t been in a relationship in several years and been working on myself but recently caught a mans attention. It only last 2 weeks because the man that approached me showed me the real him! We dated for 2 weeks, he rushed everything, had a temper when I didn’t play his game. I left him alone and blocked him! Im glad that i know my worth because i will not keep telling a man how to treat me!
I am blown away by this message. Idk how I came across it but I’m glad I did. I just told someone that the man I’m dating makes me feel safe and he meets every point you made. I’ve been praying for direction in this relationship and this was definitely needed.
"Safe men talk, answer and ask questions and are comfortable dealing with the issues of the heart.." "You can tell an emotionally available man when he is emotionally accommodating he is." Keeping this for life. ❤
Everything you're saying is so true, as I remember dating my husband and our past 14 years of marriage. He had all the signs of a safe man, and I can flourish within the life he has created for us. Submission is easier when you feel safe. ❤
When the relationship is in its beginning stages they all look safe. Just when you start letting your guard down, then you begin to notice inconsistency. They mess up here and there and you forgive them. Then it becomes a never ending loop of emotional abuse. May God help us women to learn and grow. Thank you RC for helping us identify vital issues in relationships.
I truly look forward to meeting the right man that God has in for me to remove the stigma and trauma I’ve experienced so far. The Lord Himself has been my safe man. I’m on a beautiful pilgrimage with the Lord! On the journey of manifesting His fruits in my life. Truly grateful and blessed for the wisdom and genuine care that your videos provide Reverend RC Blakes. Blessings to you your wife Lisa and all the women on this platform🙏🏾💕🕊️💎🙌🏾
RC is only 301 thousand subscribers from 1mn guys🙋♀️God is great, God is giving, RC was born to do this, He is living out His purpose and walks in the ways of the most High!
After having been with one toxic man after another most of my life, I finally understand what a safe man is-----it has taken me by surprise and has made me weep to know that a safe man does exist! I feel like I understand him because he understands me----and again I find myself tearing up because of the "naturalness" of his behavior ....in the words of Aretha Franklin---"you make me feel like a natural woman"
I will accept nothing but a safe man, had the other what a dissaster. Never.again does it enter my heart or mind to even deal with that kind of mishap. Thank God HE delivered me.
Hi Pastor Blake and First Lady Blake, thanks so much for your ministry. Women need a safe and a dependable men. We don’t need men that’s playing games with our hearts. Yes, we need a men that’ll make our lives better.
Let me tell you something...I love the intro to his videos when they're on them. You can just tell that the song is inspired by his wife Lisa and it's so beautiful. I'm just jamming but thinking about how remarkable his love for her is and that's possible for other women too. Thank you for all that you do Bishop!
If girls & women had to sing the intro song with maybe a few changes in words,but ladies sing it daily & it would change our self esteem power value love respect in a great 😃👍 ❤️ and healthy victorious way we live our lives 🙏😅👍💕 💪🎉🎉🎉!!!!!
I've decided to get back to dating, that is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank 🙏 you Pastor Blakes, you have no idea how precious this message is to me. Be blessed you and Lisa!
Fantastic Word Bishop Blake. I'm praying for that safe man. A man that talks, answer questions ,and comfortable about issues of your heart he becomes emotionally accommodating. That's awesome.
I just wanna thank you for being my uncle in Christ🙏🏾❤️ I done said Cmon Unc about 5 times and I’m only at the middle of the video!🙏🏾 so happy to be listening to this in my wholeness 🙏🏾
Good morning, Brother Blake, I cannot begin to express how I impactful your message is to women. I am a 51 year old, married woman, with 2 daughters (28 & 26). I am a mentor to young woman & men, a leader in my profession, and a leader in my church. I share this to let you know your teaching of the Seven Signs of a Safe Man will be shared beginning in my house with my spouse. I am finding that men, young & older, have not been taught their “position” power. Hence, we find ourselves in a “crisis” of healthy, wholesome, loving relationships. The way God ordained and designed relationships to flow. Thank you for you sharing and May God continue to bless you and your wife as you bless other with God’s will, way, & work. Have an amazing day. 😊🙏🏾 A. J. McCrary It’s All About Choices, So Choose Wisely!
I have been married for 15 years. Never felt safe even once. Have been neglected in every way. I can't rest in my feminine because I'm so busy being masculine and having to take care of things. I feel like I have wasted all of my good years on him because now im disabled and cant do the things I used to. I have never been loved by a man like God loves. I am now focusing and praying that I can break free of this toxic environment, can get healthy and also learn to love myself.
Truly you are the Dad, many of us NEEDED but didn't have. God bless you mightily, your labor of love is not in vain. We are here, and we are listening. ✝️🙌🏽💥
Thank you! Some may not understand this wisdom now, but they will understand it by way of trial and error. 😢. The truth always remains true. I wish I could have understood this early in my life. 🎉🎉🎉
Good morning! I wish I heard this message 35 years ago - I would not have rushed my relationship and I may have kept a safe man today - nice hearing your message I definitely will pass this message forward. Thank you.
Thanks pastor. this is a much needed discussion. Sometimes we as women think that this is all we have in a man, a disruptive and toxic man. Safe is definitely not sexy. and it may not be appealing to the eyes. A safe man is solid. if he is not safe, he will wreck havoc for you!
I am already so excited about this topic. Can't wait to join live tmrw! Sometimes it's good to have balance and hear all the positives to look for, rather than all the negatives to avoid. If I'm running away from a certain kind of man, what kind of man do I run TO, you know?
This was so insightful. Wow. It's amazing how many of us women don't get to hear this until after the fact. It's amazing how much we don't learn growing up or even from experience. Thank you Bishop! God bless you!🙏🏼✝️❤️
I am so inspired and motivated by RC Blakes. He has so blessed my life and turned it around. I have increased in faith and learnt to lean on father 🙏❤ God continue to bless you and your ministry!
Thank u Uncle RC. I'm grateful for my time of singleness, though it was a struggle at times ( a lot), at the points where I became truly content w/ desire for marriage, God sent son to pursue me romantically. I'm grateful to be experiencing this rn. God is great!
I've been listening and learning from you for 2 years. This is one of the Best and Most important messages for women. We are so blessed to have you 🙏💕🙏
Dr. Blakes, I am a widow of 2 years and I met a widower of 3 years. February 2023 he spoke to me, asking me why do I not spoke when I pass him. I am not a fresh woman nor be I spoke to men that I work with. His spirit is what attracted me to him. He has a 14 year old son that he is raising. And I have all adult children. I feel safe with him. Our first couple of dates were always in the open of other people. I just introduce him to my 23 year old son this weekend. Thank you
Point 1- accomdates my schedule Point 2- comfortable talking about heart issues he is in tune with his and the lady's emotions( answer, ask questions dont frezee up...)
This speaks to my spirit. This message was for me. I am here in my life. No more bad boys for me. I want a safe, God fearing man. You have read into my life. Reflecting over it and the consequences I had to face had me make this decision before I heard your lesson. I praise The Most High for you. My discernment and your message let’s me know I am on the right track. I have deleted a many social media friends that has the spirit of lust and rushing on them. I don’t want that in my spirit
"If a man loves it he learns it." That is so true! No matter what the subject matter, men will typically learn all about something/someone that interests them. Absolutely right!
This is really good but also be in prayer because toxic charming men know how to play the role of a safe man … I would add evaluating the 7 signs over a good length of time to vet out if it’s charm
My whole definition of manhood certainly changed when I found your channel @RCBlakesJr and I am forever changed with the wisdom and knowledge you share, I grew up with no positive males around me and no father for wisdom, guidance, protection, upliftment or affirmation. Hearing many of your videos I now understand my life in a whole different way which has revolutionised my self view and self love. I give thanks for all your videos, your kindness and the sharing of truth, knowledge and positivity 🙏
Wow! Confirmation My best male friend has shared so much of what RC Blakes has said. I'm waiting and believe God to meet my safe man one day. I will in Jesus powerful name Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽
Watching this video not only enlightened me about a safe man but it also gives me hope and keeps me encouraged until I find my safe qualified man. I always have my pen and pad to take notes everytime. Thank you so much Pastor for this video. I have been following your teachings to apply it to my life as a young woman ! This video has made my morning❤❤ Blessings to you and your ministry
Hello R.C. Blacks, just now watching this, and this first statement resonates: A safe man is dependable. Love that, a safe man comes into a woman's life on a mission to improve her life and make it better! Whew!! I can say R.C. that in my self-mastery and inner work and healing I am at the point where my prayers and conscious have the taste for the kind of man you describe as safe, dependable, and embodies all seven points you mentioned! I continue to do the work with God and be accountable with healthy spiritual teachers, fathers, and leaders like yourself! Thank you for being prompt to share this with us. Many blessings!
Thank you Pastor for this work I really needed it. This was the first time I actually took notes. Please keep me in your prayers I pray for strength to be patient and wait on the Lord for a safe God sent men and to be healthy enough to receive him
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I appreciate all you have taught me and still learning and still working on myself
Hello Pastor Blakes,
Can you please do a video on how a woman proves to a man (or shows) she’s wife material?
I met a man who says I need to prove to him I’m wife material, but I’m not sure how to do this? I, and many other ladies I am sure, would greatly appreciate your wisdom on this matter
Wish there was ❤ reaction.
I will like and share Pastor Blakes...thank you for what you do
“lust rushes you, breaks you, and then ultimately abandons you” so powerful
Hollywood. That’s what they run on: lust & greed.
This literally describes my ex husband smh
wow🙌🏾
Powerful 😊
Absolutely True!!
Notes-
1. He puts himself on your schedule.
2. He is comfortable talking about heart issues.
3. He intuitively discerns things about you that you never told him.
4. He's comfortable going through the men in your life. (Ex: dad, brother, uncle, pastor)
5. You feel safe enough to tell him your secrets.
6. He has a spiritual affect on you that motivates the best in you.
7. He redefines what manhood is for you.
Thank you…cause I dont have a whole hour to spare!
@Angela Thank you for providing this great summary! I screenshot it, and will print it out and send to my women friends!!
❤❤❤❤Thank you for the summary you're amazing
Thank you ❤
Thank you 😊
- He puts himself on your schedule (Healthy masculinity moves at the pace of femininity. He will not rush you)
- He is comfortable talking about “heart” issues. He is emotionally vulnerable and in tune.
- He discerns things about you that you never told him. When a man loves you, he learns you.
- He is comfortable answering to the men in your life (Dad, Pastor, brother, etc.)
- You will feel safe enough to tell him your secrets. He provides an energy that gives emotional comfort of being seen and valued.
- He has a spiritual effect on you that motivates the best in you
- He redefines what manhood is to you
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Really brilliant summary, thank you so much 🙏
Thank you.
He does not provides excuses.
Thank you so much 😊
Absofuckinglutely ❤😂
A man that is moving to fast for you is trying to confuse you. A man moving to slow for you is trying to manipulate your emotions. A safe man puts himself on your schedule. This insight is lifechanging, timely and powerful! Thank you RC Blakes!
❤this is all true ladies.. I made the mistakes and wasted my time with toxic men.. now I have a safe man. Thank you Bishop RCB. You taught me how to move as a woman that wants to be a wife. ❤ I am in a safe loving relationship. Marriage is on the table and I feel so secure.
❤ thank you for sharing you positive testimony…keeps the hope alive!!!
@Lady Katt. Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!
My safe man proposed on Mother’s Day ❤ I just wanted to say when certain people found out who I was dating they said I was too pretty for him, that I could do better and I confidently said ladies y’all are broken! My man makes me feel secure, never let’s me worry about a thing, never let’s me touch my purse, is patient with me, puts himself on my timeline, compliments me daily, makes sure I eat HE IS EVERYTHING.. and y’all are stuck on physical appearance??? Haha good luck finding your boaz! Btw he is very handsome ( definitely wasn’t healthy weight wise but we’ve been doing that together and he’s lost 50 pounds ❤)
Girl I'm truly happy for you! ❤
“a healthy and safe man does not criticize, nor does he humiliate you. He gently creates a growth culture in the relationship…. That produces evolution in you. You find yourself growing into the best version of yourself on this man’s watch.” - I felt that one 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
When a man loves you he’s focused on you!!
Thank you for this message. I wasn't addicted to dangerous men, I literally didn't know how to identify a SAFE man. I had never been exposed to any, and I believe there are many women in the same position. Toxicity becomes your normal when that's all you've known.
Amen
Amen 🙌 I was incredibly blessed to have been raised by a "safe man" ... I am able to pick them out of a line up of 1k ... However I have lifelong friends that can't pick a safe man if their lives depend on it , they were raised by toxic men 🥺😞
So true. This was me but I'm learning.
Exactly.
So true! x
I waited. It was hard. 46 now and I met the man God had for me. I’m in shock at how perfect he is. Just what I needed and more. And he says he needs me. It’s love. Marry me Brian Marra ❤️
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾❤️
I'm so happy for you! I'm inspired ❤
Healthy masculinity moves at the pace of feminity🗣️📣
Feeling safe with someone is a necessity.
ABSOLUTELY!!
Safe men allow you to relax and to be yourself. You can enjoy him because he is honest and can trust him. What a gift that is!
Glory be to God.
A safe man makes you feel safe enough to be emotionally naked ❤️
❤❤
Yes. This.
A safe man will never deal with you in isolation... Keep bringing this wisdom Pastor Blake's.
I tell you
Amen! I waited on God at age 55, and with a background of meeting players, I knew the moment God brought him into my life what a good man is. Wait on God!
Thank you, Pastor Blakes. You are a blessing to society.
Every woman needs to listen to this. Best advice ever. After being with an unsafe toxic man you learn what a real man is.
If a man loves it he learns it!! That’s true!!
❤❤❤yes!
Yes
*A safe man is not going to rush you. He is going to move at your pace.
Yes
VERY TRUE!!!!! ❤❤😢😢🎉🎉
All I have ever known is unsafe men. As I have been doing my healing work and I have attempted to ask for what I believe I deserve from a man, I have been oh so misunderstood and shamed for it.
For now I rather continue healing and stay alone until God puts the right man on my path. I understand that I can’t force a man to want to provide me with what I need,( safety, protection, provision) but I have the power to walk away if I don’t !
@Sun_Ocean_Sky Totally. Well said. I’m glad that you didn’t let those unsafe men kill your dreams for a safe man, and that you held on to what you needed and wanted. Bravo! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
A safe man will motivate and empower you! Amen!! 🙏🏻
The last part was so deep, replayed it over and over..."wait on God to give you the man that's best for you, Gods choice will bring you so much healing, get busy following you, building you, following purpose asking God to bring you the right person in your life" Be patient and wait on God. Be healthy enough to receive him... powerful ! ❤ Thank you Pst RC Blakes
The outside world and my job is chaotic enough. I need my man to be my peace & safe space. I’m ready and will claim it in a heartbeat when I meet him!
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Hallelujah, thank you in advance Pastor. I was just praying about this. After years of trauma, I know what unsafe men are like- but have no clue what the safe ones are like. i’m ready to be out of survival mode and experience safety, protection, & provision from a good man. ❤
Yessss I feel the sane 💯 Amen 🙏
Well said! I’m in a similar space and enthusiastic for what’s to come in life ❤
Mee tooooo! ❤️
Shocked how I never saw the unsafety in my marriage, he mirrored my father. My perception of love was abuse on some level. Thank you.
I so can relate to your comment !!!!
My therapist sent me to this video. Wow. So many moments of tears streaming down my face. Thank you.
@Shannon
Ahhhhhh! Bless your precious heart! 🥰
Thank you so much, Pastor. Unfortunately, I married a man who is unsafe in every way. I have accepted the fact that he does not love me and I don't deserve him. He has taught me what love is not. I made a mistake in marrying him, for I deserve better than crumbs. Although I am legally married, I know I don't have a husband. For a husband does not betray, deceive, neglect, and emotionally abuse his wife. I have never felt safe with him. My main focus is to guard my heart and work on myself. I will continue to work to become the best version of myself as I emotionally detach and find my way out. Thank you for teaching us women what it is to be a REAL man. You are a blessing.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
“He taught me what love is not” I know exactly what that sentence feels like. May God give you the same strength & courage he gave me to leave. Blessing to you!!!!
@Ta Cowboys I have been saving my get up and go money. Financially, I know it is going to be a struggle to make it on my own, but it will be worth it.
@@tacowboys6890 Thank you.
@Prime-Romulus Hope you can get a legal separation. Then, he will probably have an affair, and then you can get a biblical divorce.
I'm willing to remain open-minded and continue to work on myself because these conversations have made me realize that valuing characteristics I've never personally observed in men and offering something I've never received from men requires more faith than I currently possess.
❤
Amen
Same! Amen
Wow,you are definitely on the right track by the fact that you realize where you are. God's speed to you.
“The righteous man who walks in integrity…” Yes, please.
"A Man that learns you Loves You"! Sheesh what a truth!!
Thank you for this! I haven’t been in a relationship in several years and been working on myself but recently caught a mans attention. It only last 2 weeks because the man that approached me showed me the real him! We dated for 2 weeks, he rushed everything, had a temper when I didn’t play his game. I left him alone and blocked him! Im glad that i know my worth because i will not keep telling a man how to treat me!
I am blown away by this message. Idk how I came across it but I’m glad I did. I just told someone that the man I’m dating makes me feel safe and he meets every point you made. I’ve been praying for direction in this relationship and this was definitely needed.
Very happy for you
Wishing U an abundance of happiness.
"Safe men talk, answer and ask questions and are comfortable dealing with the issues of the heart.."
"You can tell an emotionally available man when he is emotionally accommodating he is."
Keeping this for life. ❤
Everything you're saying is so true, as I remember dating my husband and our past 14 years of marriage. He had all the signs of a safe man, and I can flourish within the life he has created for us. Submission is easier when you feel safe. ❤
I love when he calls Lisa by name and talks about her.
I don’t know about other women, but I love safe men. I don’t enjoy the roller coaster ride that unsafe men give us.
Great video!
When the relationship is in its beginning stages they all look safe. Just when you start letting your guard down, then you begin to notice inconsistency. They mess up here and there and you forgive them. Then it becomes a never ending loop of emotional abuse.
May God help us women to learn and grow. Thank you RC for helping us identify vital issues in relationships.
"Love learns and discerns you" stands out!!! Thank you for this word. Blessings!
Loving and healthy masculinity learns a woman.
I truly look forward to meeting the right man that God has in for me to remove the stigma and trauma I’ve experienced so far. The Lord Himself has been my safe man. I’m on a beautiful pilgrimage with the Lord! On the journey of manifesting His fruits in my life. Truly grateful and blessed for the wisdom and genuine care that your videos provide Reverend RC Blakes. Blessings to you your wife Lisa and all the women on this platform🙏🏾💕🕊️💎🙌🏾
Dont hold your breath. You will be dissapointed
RC is only 301 thousand subscribers from 1mn guys🙋♀️God is great, God is giving, RC was born to do this, He is living out His purpose and walks in the ways of the most High!
After having been with one toxic man after another most of my life, I finally understand what a safe man is-----it has taken me by surprise and has made me weep to know that a safe man does exist! I feel like I understand him because he understands me----and again I find myself tearing up because of the "naturalness" of his behavior ....in the words of Aretha Franklin---"you make me feel like a natural woman"
God gifted me with a precious safe man in a moment I was so happy with myself, it was a miracle. I'm blessed... ❤ Thank you RC 😊
Lust is a rush and breaks you so truth Bishop
I will accept nothing but a safe man, had the other what a dissaster. Never.again does it enter my heart or mind to even deal with that kind of mishap. Thank God HE delivered me.
I’m now single after 30 years and this has helped tremendously
Me too 19 years.😊
It was never a money issue for me when its come to a potential partner, it has always been his HEART.
My spouse of 15 years recently told me he understands why I was in an abusive relationship. Wow this message was right on time.
Hi Pastor Blake and First Lady Blake, thanks so much for your ministry. Women need a safe and a dependable men. We don’t need men that’s playing games with our hearts. Yes, we need a men that’ll make our lives better.
Point 6 - He has a spiritual effect on me that motives the best within me
Let me tell you something...I love the intro to his videos when they're on them. You can just tell that the song is inspired by his wife Lisa and it's so beautiful. I'm just jamming but thinking about how remarkable his love for her is and that's possible for other women too. Thank you for all that you do Bishop!
Do we know the name of the song in the intro ?
@@triplethreat9168 I don’t 😭😩, I just keep rewinding it on the video 😅🤣.
The song is everything! I’m ready for it to be released in Spotify so I can replay it
If girls & women had to sing the intro song with maybe a few changes in words,but ladies sing it daily & it would change our self esteem power value love respect in a great 😃👍 ❤️ and healthy victorious way we live our lives 🙏😅👍💕 💪🎉🎉🎉!!!!!
Safe men talk! Amen. (Emotionally available)
I've decided to get back to dating, that is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank 🙏 you Pastor Blakes, you have no idea how precious this message is to me. Be blessed you and Lisa!
Fantastic Word Bishop Blake. I'm praying for that safe man. A man that talks, answer questions ,and comfortable about issues of your heart he becomes emotionally accommodating. That's awesome.
if he loves me he will learn things about me ALELUYA!!!❤🎉
Learn to wait on God…….Facts Bishop….. I’m the meantime I’mma keep working on my flowers 💐 in my garden. Thank you Bishop 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
I just wanna thank you for being my uncle in Christ🙏🏾❤️ I done said Cmon Unc about 5 times and I’m only at the middle of the video!🙏🏾 so happy to be listening to this in my wholeness 🙏🏾
We all need a safe man by all means John 4
Good morning,
Brother Blake, I cannot begin to express how I impactful your message is to women. I am a 51 year old, married woman, with 2 daughters (28 & 26). I am a mentor to young woman & men, a leader in my profession, and a leader in my church. I share this to let you know your teaching of the Seven Signs of a Safe Man will be shared beginning in my house with my spouse. I am finding that men, young & older, have not been taught their “position” power. Hence, we find ourselves in a “crisis” of healthy, wholesome, loving relationships. The way God ordained and designed relationships to flow. Thank you for you sharing and May God continue to bless you and your wife as you bless other with God’s will, way, & work. Have an amazing day. 😊🙏🏾
A. J. McCrary
It’s All About Choices, So Choose Wisely!
I have been married for 15 years. Never felt safe even once. Have been neglected in every way. I can't rest in my feminine because I'm so busy being masculine and having to take care of things. I feel like I have wasted all of my good years on him because now im disabled and cant do the things I used to. I have never been loved by a man like God loves. I am now focusing and praying that I can break free of this toxic environment, can get healthy and also learn to love myself.
Yes men can discern game a mile away of another man😮 truth is love. Thank you🕯️🙏♥️
Truly you are the Dad, many of us NEEDED but didn't have.
God bless you mightily, your labor of love is not in vain.
We are here, and we are listening.
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You are so right. My wonderful husband of forty years has all these qualities. Thank you so much for sharing. Women need to hear this and take heed.
Amen pastor. There are many good men out here.
YES THERE ARE.
fat man says it all. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
Righteous man who lives in integrity Aleluya!!!! ❤
This needs to be played on repeat! Thank you for all your good work.
Thank you! Some may not understand this wisdom now, but they will understand it by way of trial and error. 😢. The truth always remains true. I wish I could have understood this early in my life. 🎉🎉🎉
Good morning! I wish I heard this message 35 years ago - I would not have rushed my relationship and I may have kept a safe man today - nice hearing your message I definitely will pass this message forward. Thank you.
Thanks pastor. this is a much needed discussion. Sometimes we as women think that this is all we have in a man, a disruptive and toxic man. Safe is definitely not sexy. and it may not be appealing to the eyes. A safe man is solid. if he is not safe, he will wreck havoc for you!
I am already so excited about this topic. Can't wait to join live tmrw!
Sometimes it's good to have balance and hear all the positives to look for, rather than all the negatives to avoid. If I'm running away from a certain kind of man, what kind of man do I run TO, you know?
This was so insightful. Wow. It's amazing how many of us women don't get to hear this until after the fact. It's amazing how much we don't learn growing up or even from experience. Thank you Bishop! God bless you!🙏🏼✝️❤️
Timely message. Thank you Jesus for meeting me here
I am so inspired and motivated by RC Blakes. He has so blessed my life and turned it around. I have increased in faith and learnt to lean on father 🙏❤ God continue to bless you and your ministry!
Thank u Uncle RC. I'm grateful for my time of singleness, though it was a struggle at times ( a lot), at the points where I became truly content w/ desire for marriage, God sent son to pursue me romantically. I'm grateful to be experiencing this rn. God is great!
Thank you! ❤😊 "Safe men are emotionally available to you aka emotionally accommodating to you!"
Wow, I wish I had listened to this about three months ago, to save a world of heartache and confusion. But I know it now, praise the Lord!
I'm waiting on God. The counterfeit always comes before the blessing Thank you for excellent advice.
I've been listening and learning from you for 2 years. This is one of the Best and Most important messages for women. We are so blessed to have you 🙏💕🙏
Dr. Blakes, I am a widow of 2 years and I met a widower of 3 years. February 2023 he spoke to me, asking me why do I not spoke when I pass him. I am not a fresh woman nor be I spoke to men that I work with. His spirit is what attracted me to him. He has a 14 year old son that he is raising. And I have all adult children. I feel safe with him. Our first couple of dates were always in the open of other people. I just introduce him to my 23 year old son this weekend. Thank you
Keep on teaching And counseling. .❤ . .God be with you every step of the way . . Opening the eyes of the blind . . Healing the hearts of the wounded
Point 1- accomdates my schedule
Point 2- comfortable talking about heart issues he is in tune with his and the lady's emotions( answer, ask questions dont frezee up...)
This speaks to my spirit. This message was for me. I am here in my life. No more bad boys for me. I want a safe, God fearing man. You have read into my life. Reflecting over it and the consequences I had to face had me make this decision before I heard your lesson. I praise The Most High for you. My discernment and your message let’s me know I am on the right track. I have deleted a many social media friends that has the spirit of lust and rushing on them. I don’t want that in my spirit
"If a man loves it he learns it." That is so true! No matter what the subject matter, men will typically learn all about something/someone that interests them. Absolutely right!
This is really good but also be in prayer because toxic charming men know how to play the role of a safe man … I would add evaluating the 7 signs over a good length of time to vet out if it’s charm
Safe men motivate and empower you!! So true!!
My whole definition of manhood certainly changed when I found your channel @RCBlakesJr and I am forever changed with the wisdom and knowledge you share, I grew up with no positive males around me and no father for wisdom, guidance, protection, upliftment or affirmation. Hearing many of your videos I now understand my life in a whole different way which has revolutionised my self view and self love. I give thanks for all your videos, your kindness and the sharing of truth, knowledge and positivity 🙏
Beautifully said. I agree 💯. I’m waiting on God. 🙏🏽
Wow! Confirmation
My best male friend has shared so much of what RC Blakes has said. I'm waiting and believe God to meet my safe man one day. I will in Jesus powerful name Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽
Thank you Bishop! This was powerful! I'm going to use these points in prayer and wait on God.
Watching this video not only enlightened me about a safe man but it also gives me hope and keeps me encouraged until I find my safe qualified man. I always have my pen and pad to take notes everytime. Thank you so much Pastor for this video. I have been following your teachings to apply it to my life as a young woman ! This video has made my morning❤❤ Blessings to you and your ministry
Amen!! I declare and receive it!! Righteous connections!!
Hello R.C. Blacks, just now watching this, and this first statement resonates: A safe man is dependable. Love that, a safe man comes into a woman's life on a mission to improve her life and make it better! Whew!! I can say R.C. that in my self-mastery and inner work and healing I am at the point where my prayers and conscious have the taste for the kind of man you describe as safe, dependable, and embodies all seven points you mentioned! I continue to do the work with God and be accountable with healthy spiritual teachers, fathers, and leaders like yourself! Thank you for being prompt to share this with us. Many blessings!
Excellent advice!!! A fine description of how a truly "safe" man conducts himself
Thank you RC Blakes. This one need to be listen more than once! I share!
Bishop Blakes, I thank you and First Lady Blakes for teaching broken women how to heal and become healthy and whole! Thank you so much! ❤ 🙏🏾
I have been in two toxic/abusive/detrimental relationships. Bishop, thank you, everything you are saying is valid.
I never met a safe man then JESUS!!! running my mind as you discuss this Bishop
I just finished watching the replay. This was a masterpiece. Thank you my Bishop. Indeed I will wait on my God to raise a good man for me.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Pastor for this work I really needed it. This was the first time I actually took notes. Please keep me in your prayers I pray for strength to be patient and wait on the Lord for a safe God sent men and to be healthy enough to receive him
This was so good! Who wants a safe man? 🗣️ME!! 🖐🏾
I Love this Song Its So full of Empowering Words for Us Women ❤
What is the name of the song ? Do you know ?
🌸I would appriciate to know the title of this awesome song as well🌸
Lovely greetings from Germany🦋