HOW TO QUALIFY A MAN FOR YOUR LIFE BY RC BLAKES

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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    HOW TO QUALIFY A MAN FOR YOUR LIFE BY RC BLAKES
    Lisa and I are so excited to have you in our community. Our prayer is always that you are blessed beyond measure.
    In this conversation , we'll be discussing practical ways to qualify people for your life. If you're looking to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with the people around you, it's important to be intentional about who you let into your life. We'll cover topics such as
    1. Clarifying your values and goals,
    2. Observing behavior,
    3. Asking questions,
    4. Spending time together, and
    5. Trusting your instincts.
    By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of how to determine whether someone is a good fit for your life and how to build relationships that are supportive, fulfilling, and aligned with your values and goals. So, if you're ready to take your relationships to the next level, join the community and family for this one.
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Комментарии • 760

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +366

    THANK YOU FOR STOPPING IN🙏🏽 Please LIKE this video

    • @linajoseph4849
      @linajoseph4849 Год назад +2

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      @linajoseph4849 Год назад

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    • @linajoseph4849
      @linajoseph4849 Год назад

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    • @gwynnedjackson3871
      @gwynnedjackson3871 Год назад +1

      I have not been getting any notifications and wondering why? So glad I found this! I've missed your inspiring talks. Thank you! ❤️

    • @kalapaul2895
      @kalapaul2895 Год назад +1

      Bishop how do I get in touch with u by whatsapp?

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic Год назад +748

    I can't wait for this, as I am dating again after such a long time , I can move differently now , I am taking my time really get to know this man, the core of his soul :) I used to rush everything this is why I am not married yet because of my own wrong doing, giving men my time that did not deserve it. I have a great father but some of our father's did not teach us about men, I just assumed all men are like my father but I was so wrong. I will always take the time to type a message and tell you that you have saved my beautiful soul sir..thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @jennifers.798
      @jennifers.798 Год назад +25

      This is true for me too. ❤

    • @mohtee9628
      @mohtee9628 Год назад +30

      Story of my life as well. Besides, i just started talking to a new person, so I really want to observe and not jump the gun as I have always done.

    • @TheRoyalty1982
      @TheRoyalty1982 Год назад +54

      I have been divorced for 4 years currently still single and have not made it pass phone conversations because I am really listening now and honestly scared because it is different out here and I have chosen to do things the Lord's way all in this time and I have been allowing The Lord to keep me. It is scary out here.

    • @sinnamynnbrown9179
      @sinnamynnbrown9179 Год назад +5

      ❤️

    • @shinebabyshine.
      @shinebabyshine. Год назад +27

      Same here. My father was there but provided no guidance for dating. RC Blakes has stepped in with his wisdom 🙏🏽❤️

  • @portulacaoleracea3267
    @portulacaoleracea3267 Год назад +87

    I came from a traditional Chinese family. My mum has always taught me never to give my virginity away to anyone who is not your husband. I don't sleep around with any guy I date. I am keeping myself pure for my coming husband. All glory to the LORD Jesus Christ.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад +1

      SMART!!!

    • @SacreeNour
      @SacreeNour 2 месяца назад +1

      Best thing you can do! I pray you are blessed with a husband that honors you and God in all that he does!

  • @celestemattis7983
    @celestemattis7983 Год назад +302

    1)Be clear about your values and goals‼️2) Objectively observe their behavior‼️3) Ask questions ‼️4) Spend time with them ‼️5) Trust your inner guide‼️❤❤

  • @JanelJohnson_PMHNP
    @JanelJohnson_PMHNP Год назад +587

    - Qualifying someone means going through a process to determine if someone is a good fit for you
    - You must be clear in your mind and articulation about your value and goals
    - You need to know what your looking for in a relationship
    - Objectively observe there behavior
    - Ask questions about interests, value, goals
    - A man with bad intentions will not be okay with questions
    - Spend physical time
    - Trust your inner guide
    - If something is off, pay attention to that feeling and investigate further

  • @kalenagoodloe2745
    @kalenagoodloe2745 Год назад +284

    “Queens ask questions only Kings can answer”🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @AlmahEphraim
      @AlmahEphraim Год назад +3

      Yes, My King of Israel Answers All Questions. Single , CELIBATE &choose Not To Be Used Any longer 👉🏾🇵🇷💃 EPHRAIM

    • @amazngrace8778
      @amazngrace8778 2 месяца назад

      I Love that ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shelliemonroe7629
    @shelliemonroe7629 Год назад +44

    "Why are you rolling around in the bed with someone that's satisfied in the basement when you have penthouse dreams?" 🎤🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @positivevibe7346
      @positivevibe7346 4 месяца назад +1

      This remind me of my ex husband, he was so content in a single room while I was so miserable because I needed to achieve much more... I did acquire my desire afterwards. Wasted time but I thank God for grace and mercy. Blessing King

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +114

    HELLO FAMILY. Thanks for coming in tonight.

    • @acoo2009
      @acoo2009 Год назад

      I love this song, how do I purchase it?

    • @janek6843
      @janek6843 Год назад

      Love you pastor, you are a big blessing

    • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
      @ONLYLOVEIZATION Год назад

      Good evening Bishop. Thank you and God Bless.

    • @brendah.walker6837
      @brendah.walker6837 Год назад +1

      I've read some of these comments, what happened to Man and Women, meeting, and then let GOD Bless You and show You how to love each other through the WORD.

    • @gugumkhwanazi9482
      @gugumkhwanazi9482 Год назад

      I have been a QUEEN all my life, but I never qualified a KING . I have dreamt of a PENTHOUSE, only basement dreamers entered my life.

  • @DaniSpeakz
    @DaniSpeakz Год назад +79

    Wow! “being single is ideal because marriage is the sacrifice.”Amazing point!

  • @helensunney239
    @helensunney239 Год назад +115

    " Those who are presently on the verge of making a mistake, Lord turn them around. Give Them Clarity, cause this message to ring loud and clear in their hearts and in their heads in Jesus's name.":
    Amen!

  • @seekinghiskingdom1st009
    @seekinghiskingdom1st009 Год назад +82

    “Often your type is not your kind.” You are 100% right! Not anymore!! ❤ Thank you for ministering to the women of the kingdom. If the little ones could have this instilled at a young age, we will have a whole new generation ❤

  • @LisaBlakes
    @LisaBlakes Год назад +189

    Great Evening everyone! Thank you for joining us! Please hit that Like 👍icon.

    • @janek6843
      @janek6843 Год назад +4

      Ok beautiful, already done that, you too are a big blessing to this generation

    • @rockingmygray
      @rockingmygray Год назад +1

      👍🏾❤️

    • @DharminaIna
      @DharminaIna Год назад +1

      Who 🎶 sings this song 🎶?♡~

    • @RememberingMichaelJackson
      @RememberingMichaelJackson Год назад +1

      Blessings 🙏

    • @mentor7384
      @mentor7384 Год назад +5

      Behind every man there is a great woman...thank you for allowing Pastor Blake to educate us ..

  • @wonderfulwigswomen
    @wonderfulwigswomen Год назад +26

    You are the only RUclipsr with a 5 minute (song) intro people might actually listen to LOL

    • @trishapoirier8440
      @trishapoirier8440 4 месяца назад +2

      Right 😂😂 I was going to skip but then I was like hey this is pretty good lol

    • @melaninrx
      @melaninrx 4 месяца назад +3

      And I be pissed when the song is not on the video lol

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco3887 Год назад +289

    All I can say is I met the perfect liar but there were so many red flags 🚩 along the way. I accept full accountability for the role I played in my own pain. Lord have mercy 💔

    • @geminilady39
      @geminilady39 Год назад +12

      Similar story so did I. I'm OK though.

    • @deegirl6994
      @deegirl6994 Год назад +9

      He called me red flags. I believed that. He played played played me all along and then crushed my heart and threw me and acts and behave like he is the king, he is successful with a lot of best friends, best friends who are girls.. is very painful.

    • @addiesmith696
      @addiesmith696 Год назад +5

      😮 I know that familiar pain I got played at least 2x's he thinks he's a catch

    • @deegirl6994
      @deegirl6994 Год назад +4

      @@addiesmith696 so sorry to hear sis. You know the worst part is i keep seeing him in my dreams..every single day. Dont know when it will stop. He msgd me again 4 months ago and i started talking to him, expressed how much i missed him and he didnt respond at all after that..

    • @chaunteycarter8499
      @chaunteycarter8499 Год назад +2

      Me too!!!!

  • @kalenagoodloe2745
    @kalenagoodloe2745 Год назад +72

    BISHOP!!! The way you teach is impeccable- you connect and reach as a FATHER, PASTOR, HUSBAND, FRIEND, BIG BRO, my GOD!!!!!!!!!!

    • @vidanaps714
      @vidanaps714 Год назад +1

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😔😢❤️❤️❤️❤️💔💔💔💔❤️❤️❤️💔💔💔

  • @Kristalwalker1972
    @Kristalwalker1972 Год назад +22

    My ex was so busy asking questions, I couldn’t ask. Now I see why it’s important that “I” ask. I’m not dating yet. I’m just preparing so I won’t make the same mistakes again. I’m too old to keep repeating these cycles. So I asked God to hide me until I’m ready.

    • @earleneworrell
      @earleneworrell Год назад

      I like what you said 🎉.

    • @sheritaaustin5176
      @sheritaaustin5176 3 месяца назад +1

      I like that, omg “God hide me until I’m ready” 🙏🙏🙏

  • @classylady4606
    @classylady4606 Год назад +60

    "QUEENS ASK QUESTIONS THAT KINGS CAN ANSWER..."
    THAT WILL PREACH!!

    • @abiolainioluwa3270
      @abiolainioluwa3270 Год назад

      "Queen asks questions that King can answer".
      Thank you for sharing so much Bishop Blakes

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco3887 Год назад +97

    This is why we love you so much. Although I have a loving father who’s been there for me in every way he knew how to be at least, he did not sit me down and give me the proper father/daughter talk. Thank God for you Pastor Blakes! 🙏🏽🙌🏽💐♥️

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney Год назад +4

      Same here.

    • @monicabrown2334
      @monicabrown2334 Год назад +3

      Same, we never had this talk

    • @helensunney239
      @helensunney239 Год назад

      🙏🏽

    • @aprilthompson5154
      @aprilthompson5154 Год назад

      I never had this talk with my dad either. I stumbled around trying to figure things out about these men, he would be critical and point out my mistakes. He should have offered guidance instead.

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney Год назад

      @aprilthompson5154 same. My dad actually told me
      1. I would never ask my wife what I heard you telling men on the phone.
      2. You're a bottom feeder if you're wanting me to meet a man he should be asking to meet me instead.
      I was over 18 by the time he told me either of these things. The second one I was 29 or so. The first one I may have been in earlier 20s.

  • @avisyarbrough5627
    @avisyarbrough5627 Год назад +56

    All jokes aside…I appreciate you and your wife Pastor Blakes for the teaching that you share with us. I wish I had this teaching before I got married. You’re teaching real good.🙌🏽❤️

  • @Keonahawk24
    @Keonahawk24 Год назад +28

    I was on the right path after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend who’s a alcoholic. Just when I thought it was over he comes calling and asking for a 100th chance. I ALMOST fell for it. As we’ve been talking for maybe almost a week now. Thank you for this video! God allowed me to see this so I can get back on track. Flee satan! In Jesus name

  • @kalenagoodloe2745
    @kalenagoodloe2745 Год назад +58

    “QUESTIONS REVEALS MOTIVES”

  • @DD-cc4vz
    @DD-cc4vz Год назад +49

    Pastor I learned this the hard way. Lesson learned and this is why I follow your teachings. You make me face my mistakes, dissect them to understand why I went there, understand it, learn from it, heal from it and forgive it. I’m attending The Queenology Conference in August - paid completely in full- not missing this❤

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco3887 Год назад +52

    Everyone may I ask a prayer request? Please pray for me to get this remote job where I can travel more. I would love to visit New Home and come to more events planned by Pastor & First Lady! Thank you in advance ♥️🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @geminilady39
      @geminilady39 Год назад +3

      🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

    • @stefblanco3887
      @stefblanco3887 Год назад +2

      @@geminilady39Thank you so much ♥️🙏🏽

    • @geminilady39
      @geminilady39 Год назад +1

      @@stefblanco3887 You're welcome 🤗

    • @charmj737
      @charmj737 Год назад +1

      Sending prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽🗣️🔥

    • @wondafaith8621
      @wondafaith8621 Год назад +1

      We understand. Praying.

  • @lydiaheelu2681
    @lydiaheelu2681 Год назад +76

    Imagine how radically different our lives would be if we had fathers who taught us this wisdom growing up. Even just a little bit of guidance would’ve made a difference 😢😢😢

    • @cjccjc7201
      @cjccjc7201 6 месяцев назад +3

      I have been saying this exact same thing, since I've been on my healing and shifting journey.
      Strength and Love sent.

    • @WarriorMichelle57
      @WarriorMichelle57 3 месяца назад +1

      Amen, my father passed away shortly after I turned 15.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад

      🙏. Yes!

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад +1

      @@WarriorMichelle57🙏 I’m sorry to hear this.

  • @mrsp1997
    @mrsp1997 Год назад +30

    I love how real you are, sir! "Wipe your lips off and quit popping bubblegum....slow your happy butt down! 😂 This is great teaching!

  • @abbib7347
    @abbib7347 Год назад +35

    VALUES and GOALS must align!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Aarona_TheVirgo
    @Aarona_TheVirgo Год назад +6

    I'm actually done thinking about men right now 👎🏽💯

  • @dawnyeathawalcott3777
    @dawnyeathawalcott3777 Год назад +8

    If u ask questions and get no answers...why stay in the relationship???

  • @alittlesincerity_111
    @alittlesincerity_111 Год назад +20

    Thank you for the affirmation. 🙏
    After my last partner I am no longer comprimising my standards for any man. It is HARD and boring but I can’t continue in these toxic cycles.

  • @soppres7406
    @soppres7406 Год назад +10

    "Marriage is a down grade, single is the ideal" Scream it so the people in the back and the slow ones can hear

  • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
    @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Год назад +17

    QUEENS ASK QUESTIONS THAT ONLY KINGS CAN ANSWER‼️‼️PERIODT💃🏽💃🏽

    • @broiechristianorr1276
      @broiechristianorr1276 Год назад +1

      HELLO!!!!
      He’s helping us! Come on through here sir 🔥🔥🔥

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm Год назад +8

    I learned your introduction song. I loveeeeee it!!!!❤❤❤❤
    Can you let us know the artist who is singing ?
    This song would be a beautiful wedding song 🎵

  • @felisawoodson
    @felisawoodson Год назад +17

    RC Blakes is funny and serious at the same time. WE NEED IT! Thank you so much for taking the time out to correct us and get us in order. I appreciate you.

  • @kalenagoodloe2745
    @kalenagoodloe2745 Год назад +10

    BISHOP!!!!! The “BAE” takes me out allllllll the time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🔥

  • @sharoneh8929
    @sharoneh8929 Год назад +13

    You are preaching. "My type is not my Kind." It is tight but it's RIGHT 👍🏾. Thank you for real talk💯💯💯

  • @tanyabrowning2436
    @tanyabrowning2436 Год назад +32

    I am excited to join this session. I have been separated and now recently divorced. I am ready to get to know someone on a deeper spiritual level.

    • @tjohnson5760
      @tjohnson5760 Год назад +3

      So am I, Sis this is my same story too, separated then divorced last year. I have high standards so finding a suitable person continues to be a struggle. I’m not pursuing but the guys who do show interest miss the mark, so I’m enjoying my singleness. Tonight should be a good one for sure 👏🏽

    • @tanyabrowning2436
      @tanyabrowning2436 Год назад +6

      @@tjohnson5760 I know there are people in a similar situation like ours but, I'm happy you left me this message because I felt alone since 06/23/23 which was my official divorce. Alone as far as nobody to talk to about it I have family, but I haven't been able to converse with anyone about how I am feeling. I am going to enjoy my singleness too until the boxes are checked :)

  • @Queeen_Tori
    @Queeen_Tori 7 месяцев назад +9

    My dad was addicted to drugs for the first 28 years of my life. Growing up without that fatherly guidance, acknowledgment, wisdom and love I sure have bumped my own head so many times in search of this “approval” then God spoke, he has given me all of this through YOU Bishop. God said to me, “you may not have the father that gave you life that you have many fathers, including me.” the bitterness, the resentment, all the anger has completely left my body and my energy and I am taking accountability for myself RC. Thank you so much for all that you do to serve the rest of the world you are needed and you are appreciated.

  • @shareenakram1315
    @shareenakram1315 Год назад +7

    Man can tick all the right boxes in the beginning,they are on the best behaviour..but as time goes by their true colours always comes out

    • @cw8365
      @cw8365 3 месяца назад

      I’ve found this to most definitely be true. Time seems to be a teller of things such as this. For many in time the good behavior mask falls off, although I do believe there are still good men. We a women just have to pace ourselves versus hopping into something blindly.

  • @msm3668
    @msm3668 Год назад +16

    'Asking a brother questions is the polite way of testing him.' This is good.

    • @SandraStachowiczLtd
      @SandraStachowiczLtd Год назад

      If you have doubts and need to "test" a man's character that's because you don't trust him and he's not the one

  • @sharniceperryman1968
    @sharniceperryman1968 Год назад +3

    He DON’T WANT A JOB🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @linjoki
    @linjoki Год назад +27

    Pastor.. I have listened to your videos for years. However, I am now going through heartbreak because fir some reason, all that knowledge went out the window and now I'm stuck with a 8 month old, with no financial support. Pray for me 🙏

    • @geminilady39
      @geminilady39 Год назад +1

      🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

    • @Drjanmo
      @Drjanmo Год назад +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @priscillakanini5617
      @priscillakanini5617 Год назад +2

      Hugs!,you will be ok🙏

    • @msm3668
      @msm3668 Год назад +3

      Sis, I know how you feel; been there. What I've learned was that my precious gift of a child is my responsibility. And, if the father doesn't take responsibility...that's HIS misfortune.
      So, I 'pulled up my 'boot straps' (figuratively speaking) and got my 'big girl' self out in the workforce and did what I had to do to support MY child.
      No, it's not always easy. However, making good choices and doing the rights things pays off, BIG TIME! Praying for you.🙏🏼
      The amount of respect and assistance (however small it was) I received was priceless.
      When others see you putting forth a positive effort and not playing the 'blame game' it speaks volumes of your character.

    • @linjoki
      @linjoki Год назад

      @@priscillakanini5617 kanini mambo? 🇰🇪

  • @DG86-2
    @DG86-2 Год назад +10

    A man that says he CAN'T find a gig doesn't want to work 😂😂😂! Bishop, you know what your talking about 💯! I have heard some lines in my day! Praise God for growth, healing and leasons learned ❤

  • @lilithian666
    @lilithian666 Год назад +6

    Started again and so many risks, i need guidance

  • @marthalopez6662
    @marthalopez6662 Год назад +18

    Thank you so much Bishop RC Blake’s Jr. for this teaching 🌺

  • @emily16338
    @emily16338 Год назад +9

    Father God any man that is not of you remove from my life Amen. Any man that is from you God may he propose in one month 🙏🏽 Amen

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 Год назад +9

    U are so right. Most of the women who need to hear this message aren't listening to u. I've heard men complain about ppl who enter this country illegally get jobs quickly & move up in life. I see some ppl who are immigrants working hard & saving their money. They're usually not fake rich, like many of us. It's good to learn from all races of ppl! Thank u so much Bishop. This is a great message!!!

  • @jamilabarnes845
    @jamilabarnes845 Год назад +5

    I’m so glad you made this point about the church pushing marriage!! Single in the church is the new leprosy!! They act like you hold no value in the kingdom if you aren’t married

  • @vivavidadela
    @vivavidadela Год назад +21

    Right on time because after my divorce from a narcissist I feel like I’m still a little naive. I need to keep listening to you that got me out of that mindset I was in. I need to keep learning even after getting rid of the ungodly marriage I was in.

    • @dodd1976
      @dodd1976 Год назад +5

      I can relate Queen same here RC got me out of it and now my divorce. Take your time it's no rush. ❤️

    • @loismartin9634
      @loismartin9634 Год назад +4

      ​@@dodd1976Praise God 😊

    • @realestatecoach8626
      @realestatecoach8626 Год назад +4

      Wow! Praise God! Thank you for helping us Lord!

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 Год назад +12

    Indeed I observe how people behave it’s always the key Bishop🎉

  • @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347
    @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347 Год назад +5

    I started asking questions 4 years ago. The look on faces--I really wanted to laugh. Shocked. It also revealed that know one had asked them questions.

  • @shemireyahlilly5521
    @shemireyahlilly5521 Год назад +4

    28:25 " batting eyes and popping gum etc.." Bishop Blakes is hilarious 🤣

  • @melodyrodriguez29
    @melodyrodriguez29 Год назад +16

    I can't wait!! Thank you Jesus!!!

  • @naygirl334
    @naygirl334 Год назад +9

    I’m in my 50’s now, and I have been practically destroyed from be married to narcissist. I saw all the red flags, but i still thought it was ok, because my father was a narcissist. So in that sense, I didn’t know any better. But I now plan on being single for the rest of my life. And I’m ok with that. Because for the first time in my life, I am enjoying my PEACE. But I listen to you regularly anyway. Because I enjoy your messaging. I have grand daughter and thanks to you, I can one day refer them to your teaching when they become old enough to date. Which is Something i never had. So I thank you and Lisa so much for this Time Capsule. God Bless you Sir.

    • @antheaburt7805
      @antheaburt7805 Год назад +1

      There is still a lot of good men out there ,God will lead the right one for you to you at the right time,God bless you ❤

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 Год назад +11

    This was a really Good Message Bishop!! I really appreciate your Messages❤ Bless You and the Family❤

  • @lesleyking3661
    @lesleyking3661 Год назад +10

    I admire and adore these teachings!
    Praise God for revelation knowledge!
    Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅

  • @susanakaan810
    @susanakaan810 Год назад +6

    I agree with you Bishop it's more important for the woman to qualify a man, the woman has more to loss and she is the one that has to submit to the leadership of the man, because where he leads she will have to follow especially if she wants peace.

  • @ivymontgomery5964
    @ivymontgomery5964 Год назад +10

    I CAN BE HAPPY AND SUCCEED BY MYSELF!!

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney Год назад +7

    Thanks for the advice and wise counsel. I've always been good at questions but shared values was a lot more difficult to come by and I was always feeling behind the clock. Thanks for the endorsement of singleness in particular. I think that was the most valuable takeaway for me. Oh and in Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 we say "what sweet in goat mouth sour in he bam bam" that's exactly what you said when you said what feels good today doesn't feel so good tomorrow.

  • @kayfleming5180
    @kayfleming5180 Год назад +7

    Pastor told us to “wipe that grease off our lips.” 😂 Great message, especially regarding asking questions. I don’t interrogate, but I definitely investigate.

    • @pattygeee2298
      @pattygeee2298 Год назад +1

      Right…. I investigate and observe

  • @mlady7106
    @mlady7106 Год назад +4

    Thank 💜 You RC Blake's for this message.
    Can you do a video of { Must } questions to ask during the Dating stages and a { Must } questions when considering
    a person for a relationship.
    Take Care 💜

  • @virginiagifford3453
    @virginiagifford3453 Год назад +8

    Pastor Blakes. I have been following you for a long time. And like I child I hear but didn't follow. But how I'm listening, taking it all in and praying to God. I'm being still. Learning about myself. When the the time is right it will be right. Continue to do what you do. Thank you and Lisa.

  • @divinecreation1217
    @divinecreation1217 Год назад +3

    Out in the field and I must say it can be tempting to settle for a cute face and 6’ but these guys are usually non believers and just see me as another to add to the roster. Can’t settle!

  • @shebrownsuga
    @shebrownsuga Год назад +2

    The key to see them for who they are is to not have sex with them whatsoever. Then you can see clearly. I don't care if it's 6months to a year, do not, I repeat do not have sex with them. Sex blinds you completely! Then you will be able to hear and see them clearly for who they are.

  • @islandqueen2425
    @islandqueen2425 Год назад +3

    RC Blakes Jr.....that intro song is EVERYTHING! 🔥

  • @galejordan4570
    @galejordan4570 Год назад +4

    I agree, you have to test a man out in different scenarios and situations, ask questions, ask them again but also compare the answers to their actions...... listen to the questions they ask you, especially of there are about your finances or if you have a home and he doesn't, if he is covertly seeking a shelter, while he has never thought it necessary to own or rent anything, in other words, he doesn't have a place to take you too. Observe, listen..... spend time with them and without them, there is where you gain clarity and discernment.........

  • @maganizo4405
    @maganizo4405 Год назад +9

    This is exactly what I needed. I was on the verge of making another mistake, my intuition was so strong, this helped me make a wise decision.
    Thankyou so much Bishop🙏🏾

    • @marcilk7534
      @marcilk7534 Год назад

      Trust that intuition. I’m going through the same thing.

  • @angelaellis4144
    @angelaellis4144 Год назад +3

    😂😂😂😂😂😂I love it!!! He said close yours eyes dry your lips off and spit the gum out😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lynnemarylou7611
    @lynnemarylou7611 Год назад +16

    I've heard some magnificent teaching from you pastor RC Blakes and I've purchased and shared your books with other women in Ireland and UK which are a complete godsend... this particular video is outstanding and very concise and I'm going to send it on to my fellow sister's
    Thank you Lisa for being the Queen that you are... and bringing out the full potential King in your husband... praise God for the two of you and showing us how it works when we put our full trust, faith and obedience in God.

  • @mychannelafc
    @mychannelafc Год назад +2

    17:00 🎯 Relationships either bring you forward or backward. You either descend into one or ascend into one.

  • @dorothyboice2935
    @dorothyboice2935 Год назад +4

    Pastor R C Blake’s and Lady Blake’s Excited to being informed on this subject matter. Finally, my life is back to some normalcy! Lol

  • @purplelily6950
    @purplelily6950 Год назад +4

    It's no coincidence that I got married the year I turned 30. I don't know if I was in love. But, he was there and he was willing, so I married him. We're divorcing now.

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp Год назад +2

      You settled that’s why… if you don’t know if you were in love then you didn’t love him.

    • @sheritaaustin5176
      @sheritaaustin5176 3 месяца назад

      Oh no I’m sorry to hear,what happened ?

  • @l.christinejones8164
    @l.christinejones8164 Год назад +3

    Close your eyes, dry your lips off, spit that gum out, and ask this man some questions." Pastor Blakes, TEACH IT SIR! 🔥

  • @tressiemckoy8510
    @tressiemckoy8510 Год назад +8

    Such a huge blessing Mr Blakes, to have you here for us, your encouragement, your prayers your realness, it's everything, thank you Jesus,thanks Mr. Blakes ❤❤❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥👏🏽✨️☝🏽👑⚓️💯

  • @Exquisitepalate
    @Exquisitepalate 10 месяцев назад +4

    When I get weak I come to your channel to reset. Thank you Pastor!!!!!!

  • @kalindiyamuna7835
    @kalindiyamuna7835 Год назад +5

    You deserve all of God's blessings and favors for your wonderful insights. So sincere and warming like a fathers love. Thank you

  • @nicdunn9834
    @nicdunn9834 Год назад +2

    Isn’t it true you both have to be attracted to one another and love one another? You can’t just choose a guy because he fits a lot of everything else your looking for. It seems I always find guys who are either into me and I’m not him or I am into him and he’s not into me. It’s always one sided and I’m doubtful there is someone for me. I’ve asked God and I don’t understand why the one hasn’t appeared. I don’t see myself settling for just a nice guy I’m not attracted to . That’s just a friend to me.

    • @PShah-s3e
      @PShah-s3e Год назад

      I can so much relate to u on this it give frustrating and helpless feeling

  • @TheTrevifountain
    @TheTrevifountain Год назад +7

    “Marriage is a downgrade” powerful statement my brother!!! You caused me to think of (in short) of the time after a war that King David and his warriors had returned from. Pieces of land and or property was apportioned out to others but not to David, after which God turned and expressed to David, “I am your SHARE!”
    Thank you for this beautiful discussion. You are a gift to my heart!! ❤

  • @rockingmygray
    @rockingmygray Год назад +5

    My GOD you preaching today!! 🎯💯🗣️🎤…. wow I ❤️it …🎉🎉🥳⛪️

  • @ericarobinson4849
    @ericarobinson4849 Год назад +4

    Amen 👏🏾 Great message. I recently ended a relationship….Our values & goals didn’t align & it created alot of friction and frustration in the relationship. My self worth is non negotiable….I refuse to settle because im aware of what I bring to the relationship so if I’m not met half way I have to leave.

  • @acoo2009
    @acoo2009 Год назад +5

    So true, it's so risky for us women😢

  • @kalenagoodloe2745
    @kalenagoodloe2745 Год назад +3

    BISHOP, I haven’t met you a day in my life, however, I LOVE YOU AND LADY LISA!!!! Sir, your videos have empowered me SO!!!! AMEN!!!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!!!

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 Год назад +2

    'Single' is the ideal. Marriage is a sacrifice.

  • @kaleema1987
    @kaleema1987 Год назад +5

    “What feels good today usually causes pain tomorrow” you got that right wooo Lord! 😅

  • @dodd1976
    @dodd1976 Год назад +3

    😂😂😂 Dry your lips off.. I just love this

  • @fashionforwarddd
    @fashionforwarddd Год назад +7

    Thank you for saying singleness is the ideal because it is, in this wicked world God said (its in the Bible) single ones will do better. 1 Corinthians 7:38.
    Manipulative men have convinced women they are of no value in their single state when single women are the most featured and sought after resource. God gave women value the moment he made us. No one can take that away. A good marriage may amplify your value but very few women have been able to enjoy that.

  • @zerotomillions1016
    @zerotomillions1016 Год назад +2

    At 8:00, do you see NOW how pastors use FEAR to keep women from getting married? They use slick words that sound good but are anti-biblical. The Bible, for example, does NOT use the word "single" to describe someone without a spouse. It uses the word "unmarried". Single means: to be whole within yourself and connected and one with GOD. So if you want to know if someone is ready to be married, just find out if they are single.
    Also, ladies, there is a difference between a man, a married man, and a husband. If you marry a man, you will only have a married man not a husband. Many marriages fail because most men get married without getting ANY husband training.
    Every man that is eligible to be married does not qualify to be a husband if he has NOT first had another man teach him how to be a REAL man, leader, husband, father, and provider. A husband is "good ground" with the capacity to "appreciate" or increase a woman's value and financial productivity as it says in Matthew 13:8 "But other fell into good ground, and brought forth fruit, some an hundredfold, some sixtyfold, some thirtyfold."
    Brothers, there is a difference between a woman, a married woman, and a wife. If you marry a woman, you will only have a married woman not a wife. Proverbs 18:22 says he who finds a "wife" finds a good thing and obtains "favor" of the Lord. Notice the scripture says he who finds a wife, not a woman. The word "good" in that verse means: something of value. When a wife and husband marry, they have the capacity to increase the wealth in their family exponentially. The husband increases his wife's value (some 30, 60 or 100 fold). However, because a wife come with the "favor of GOD" she does not "add" to her husband's value. She multiplies on the "powers" level up to the Billion dollar or 10 to the 9th power level.
    I have courses on Dr. Will Enterprises that will teach you how this works in depth such as the "King Maker Master Class," "Money DOES Grow on Trees", and "There's GOLD in them Heels" but you will NEVER find a pastor who recommends them to his members.

  • @langutamacheke2412
    @langutamacheke2412 Год назад +4

    Asking questions is a polite way of testing. Questions reveal motives 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 11 месяцев назад +2

    So glad I follow his sermons. Came at the right time. I fell for a church guy. But outside of church, we are not aligned. Thank you Lord for your probing spirit.

  • @gwenbradford6134
    @gwenbradford6134 Год назад +1

    I ponder why are there so many MEN..who have someone in THEIR BEDS ..teaching mainly single women...they can't even identify with THE STRUGGLES OF SINGLE WOMEN. Just saying.

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA Год назад +6

    Salute and a BIG🫡Thank you Bishop Blakes for your invaluable life lessons. 🙏🏿

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 Год назад +4

    Thank you for the wisdom Paps.
    Please help us understand how to figure out our value and worth.
    Even when we know our values, we often trip on knowing what we deserve.

  • @kevinelehman6501
    @kevinelehman6501 Год назад +2

    Thank you
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    Thank God for you❤
    Be blessed for ever 🙏

  • @Kimmypooh2627
    @Kimmypooh2627 13 дней назад +1

    That’s why I don’t fall into the trap of go with the flow. People say oh you asked too many questions. If you don’t ask questions how the hell you would know if the person in front of you is a time waster or someone you want to move forward with.

  • @Asilkalp88
    @Asilkalp88 Год назад +3

    You are incredible because I was just looking for such wise lead.Thank you.

  • @Momma766
    @Momma766 Год назад +2

    Men who are NOT for you , or just people in general will Insist that you don’t need to approve of them. Your approval has never been sought after which means it has no value. If you think poorly of something they do or say it’s because it’s above your comprehension or just flat out invalid. They hate your approval because it’s typically for things better than what you already have which is kryptonite to the hater. People who seek your approval value you enough to treat you like you matter. This means displaying emotionally valuable offerings like time, kindness, compassion and support, sacrificing things, arriving early, balancing their goals for you to be a priority. Better to make someone else disappointed and deal with it later than upset you the valuable one. This in tandem with consistency will show you a persons true character. Bad people can never put someone first.

  • @FPT84
    @FPT84 Год назад +2

    So many TRUTHS TRUTHS TRUTHS! Women...we need to STOP wasting time with wrong types of ppl!

  • @renitacody8841
    @renitacody8841 Год назад +3

    Another very excellent video to know you are on the right track and also for those who need a true understanding of a relationship in Jesus Christ. The HolyGhost/Holy Spirit will guide you in all truth.

  • @kittkat1996
    @kittkat1996 Год назад +2

    "stop popping that gum and wipe that greese off your mouth" Love it!!!

  • @avisyarbrough5627
    @avisyarbrough5627 Год назад +2

    I can not with the popping gum and grease off lips 🤣

  • @nicdunn9834
    @nicdunn9834 Год назад +2

    I don’t think I’m destined to be with anyone because the heart has to choose not just the mind. It’s also hard finding someone who loves you back. Another reason I don’t jump into relationships. My dream of a true love is far fetched