7 SIGNS A WOMAN CAN GIVE HER ALL TO A MAN by RC Blakes

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 2 года назад +588

    “You cannot make him worthy, you cannot give a man what he needs to be your man. He either has it or he doesn’t.” Love this, thank you so much father in Christ 🖤

    • @Inga377
      @Inga377 2 года назад +4

      I concur!💕

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 2 года назад +1

      You can not make your Male Child your Marital Type of Lover, or, other Type of Obligor:
      neither could Mary, Jesus' Mother (although, Mary didn't Try: Mary simply attempted to maintain Control: similar to most Males):
      however, It's a Man's World "and You can't Raise a Man". 😶.

    • @chikFromMTL
      @chikFromMTL 2 года назад +1

      Indeed

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 Год назад +4

      That’s true. We, as women, spend years trying to build a man until we become mentally drained because these type of men are not pouring into us.

    • @gugumkhwanazi9482
      @gugumkhwanazi9482 Год назад +2

      I learned a lot at all times. Thank you. Thank you, Pastor RC BLAKES. we're so. Blessed to have you. We love you.

  • @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023
    @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023 2 года назад +486

    Giving a man your all definitely requires prayer and discernment.

    • @sherryilly6758
      @sherryilly6758 2 года назад +6

      Agreed 100%

    • @earthreign
      @earthreign 2 года назад +15

      You can pray in every language known to man and have the best discerning spirit ever given to a woman and still fall for the wrong man. What ruins most women is the fact that our flesh goes after what looks great, smells even better and can make us feel like a million bucks after the "Back Breaking ceremony"...yes I'm going to keep it 💯.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 года назад +3

      In total agreement💯💯💯💯🙌🏿👐🏿🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️!!!!

    • @naishabrignac9214
      @naishabrignac9214 2 года назад +3

      Amen 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes

    • @desiree2299
      @desiree2299 2 года назад +7

      Heck...and I'm gonna need to hear a clear response from The HolySpirit! I put Him in everything I Do now 😌

  • @ghutchin33
    @ghutchin33 2 года назад +102

    " The right man is a man that teaches you to truly appreciate yourself by how he makes you his priority ." RC Blakes Jr.

  • @Inga377
    @Inga377 2 года назад +18

    “If man can not celebrate you”. Red light!!

  • @roxilavelle5812
    @roxilavelle5812 2 года назад +265

    He needs potential AND character 9:09 He needs to have all the pieces in the box but he's probably going to need the right woman to put it together because the woman is the life-giver. 10:26 What man is worth you making a full deposit of everything you have into him? 10:42
    The woman has to be wise enough to know who to give all of her favor, all of her goodness, to....(lists what he has to have) 11:44
    Just because you're fond of a man doesn't mean he's worthy 13:17 Just because he needs you doesn't mean he deserves you. 13:48 There must be a vetting process.
    You must first understand your own value. 15:24 You cannot make him worthy. 15:33 He either has it or he doesn't.
    Assessment before investment. 19:08 Potential without... is... 19:37
    Don't throw your pearls before swine. 20:50 Resist dressing a pig up with your pearls...
    Now let's get to it. 22:32 Here are the 7 points:
    1) He is interested in the core of you and not the fringe benefits. He listens deeply to things you say lightly. He learns and remembers. Only the Creator gives a man an interest in your core. 22:49
    "What does this look like?" 27:15
    A) His conversation is explorative and non-sexual or -financial. 27:23
    B) He doesn't ask you for anything (help from you) 28:01
    C) He has a transparent and honest energy. Not a flatterer. 28:25
    D) He's proud to be in public and on social platforms with you 28:48
    E) He welcomes you into his world. Brings you to meet his people. 28:55.
    F) He makes the investment of time and resources to build the connection 29:07
    G) He adores you as you are and lovingly supports your desire for growth, but will love you even if you don't (lose weight, for example). 29:20
    2) He's already manifesting his potential as an individual. 30:03
    3) He supports your goals a much as you support his. 35:05. (If you got to hide your goodness/richness so he's not intimidated, he ain't the one.)
    4) He always makes you feel seen and heard. His energy is consistent. 39:37
    5) He lives his life like an open book before you. 41:55
    6) He is a man who helps you love yourself more. 44:45
    7) He has articulated the desire to make you his wife. 47:00

    • @NoraGeeGee
      @NoraGeeGee 2 года назад +6

      Thank youuuu

    • @roxilavelle5812
      @roxilavelle5812 2 года назад +29

      @@NoraGeeGee YES!!! You're welcome! I've gotten to the point where the first thing I look for on a long video is the comment where some lovely person gave me the points so I can decide if I want to listen. This time, there wasn't such a comment yet, so I got to do it! YAY! Glad to help and thankful for the appreciation! (I have 3 teens at home! I thrive on a little appreciation!

    • @kimberlyjefferson882
      @kimberlyjefferson882 2 года назад +5

      Omg thank you, i needed to reread it and couldnt make notes

    • @corabevill-thomas4632
      @corabevill-thomas4632 2 года назад +5

      @@roxilavelle5812 Thanks for making the points for us ❣

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 года назад +4

      Things to pray on for Manifesting our husbands.

  • @rosemjames6721
    @rosemjames6721 2 года назад +136

    I found out from my second husband. This man Loved me when I was at my worst. I was an acholic and a drug addict drugs. I ask him why me. He said I see a goodness and greatness in you. God sent him to me. I truly felt that in my heart. No matter what I did.he haven't leave me. And believe me I didn't some mess up thing. God so good. He had a plan for us. After we had been together for 8 years. He didn't do drugs. But he did drink. God lead me to a preacher that had his hand in God's hand. I Got Born Again. May 27th 1996. God gave my man a wife. He got Born Again Feb 8th 1997. We was married May 24th 1997. God delivered up from all our vices. We was married 25 years in God and he died Feb 3nd 2014. When a man can love at your worst.

    • @JP-sg1xb
      @JP-sg1xb 2 года назад +8

      Beautiful testimony.

    • @janetbatsietswe4057
      @janetbatsietswe4057 2 года назад +5

      May his soul rest in eternal peace, continue trusting in the Lord my sister.

    • @macareuxmoine
      @macareuxmoine 2 года назад +5

      So sorry for your loss. But still, to have known love 💕 🥰

    • @octaviacoaxum8459
      @octaviacoaxum8459 2 года назад +4

      🙏🏾 your story is beautiful

    • @kidchocolate9253
      @kidchocolate9253 2 года назад +6

      That truly was a love story worth sharing.

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 2 года назад +60

    Never help a man who refuses to help himself…

  • @sandraoswald6930
    @sandraoswald6930 2 года назад +75

    A worthy man brings clarity & peace. And, automatically receives respect from a woman.

  • @mayam6678
    @mayam6678 2 года назад +152

    I can so relate... still today, single at 69, with no children, I feel sad that I did exsactly that and was not appreciated. Thankfully GOD has been my strength and kept me whole throuout the years and blessed me with a kind hearth and great health.

    • @rodahmusyoka831
      @rodahmusyoka831 2 года назад +6

      God is good all the time Maya.

    • @watchwoman6957
      @watchwoman6957 2 года назад +5

      Maya! You did exactly what?

    • @ginatarro2552
      @ginatarro2552 2 года назад +7

      I'm single never married and no children. God has a plan.

    • @Pabinta
      @Pabinta 2 года назад +4

      May God bless you with the desires of your heart Maya. Praying for you. ❤️

  • @charitythapelo8611
    @charitythapelo8611 2 года назад +97

    "Only the Creator gives a man, an interest of who you are at your core." Night made, Sir!

    • @CK-solutions
      @CK-solutions 2 года назад +6

      This was meant for my spirit to hear also.

  • @nomfundomolefe5881
    @nomfundomolefe5881 2 года назад +157

    Let's share these teachings with our daughters, sisters etc in their twenties.. If I knew all this probably I wouldn't be divorced at 36years.. The teachings come handy while I am starting again

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 года назад +8

      If I had known what I know now Pastor Blakes, I would not have wasted my time and energy with clowns with crowns before🤡🤡🤡🤡. Now I can start on the right way and Gods Way to being HIS Queen Amen!!!!

    • @aceazar2806
      @aceazar2806 2 года назад +13

      23 years old and grateful to know RC Blakes and Jesus Christ

    • @mimi.w667
      @mimi.w667 2 года назад +3

      Here's a sister in 20s

    • @HidingPlainSight
      @HidingPlainSight 2 года назад +2

      Yes and aaaamen!!! 🙋

  • @faith7934
    @faith7934 2 года назад +23

    6. Helps You to love yourself more.
    I have a friend that does that.
    7. He that finds a wife. Girlfriend has limits. Make it public.
    5. Lives his life like a open book.
    4. Consistent and stable.
    3. He or she can handle you and everything about you.
    2. Already have an idea of what he is here for an is currently doing something about it.
    1. Not asking for a come up.
    My ex-husband used me and he resented me for making him my project.

  • @queenleo1332
    @queenleo1332 2 года назад +77

    No submissive until the blessed man arrives to become your husband in the name of Jesus Christ in his Will....Thank You Bishop RC Blakes....GOD's blessing continue to be among you and your family....

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 года назад +2

      what about if you have LDR bf and his talking all the time sex

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 года назад +1

      was he is serious to me or not

    • @JJ47436
      @JJ47436 2 года назад +2

      need some guidance and inlightment 🙏🙏🙏

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 2 года назад +2

      @@JJ47436 DUMP HIM NOW. He doesn't care about you. Find someone locally as well.

  • @sharriettefinley467
    @sharriettefinley467 2 года назад +38

    #1) Interested in me at the core, not only the fringes. #2) He is already manifesting his potential as an individual. Luke 19:17. #3) He supports my goals as much as I support his. Hallelujah!!! Praise God!!! Proverbs 31:28. #4) He always blessed me to feel seen and heard. 1 Peter 3:7. Consistency is one of my favorite words. 1 Corinthians 14:33. #5) He lives his life like an open book before me. #6) He helps me love myself more. Glory to God, in Christ Jesus. He makes me a priority. Proverbs 18:21. #7) He has articulated the desire to make me his wife. Wow!! I appreciate this message so much. I really needed this. Thank you Bishop Blakes💖🦋💖

    • @thelifeofamoya
      @thelifeofamoya 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much for noting this sis as I was driving while listening n couldn't make notes. God bless Bishop Blakes for making himself available to be used in this way. I can testify that I have invested all my time, energy and funds into a man that is doing the complete opposite of these 7 points. I thank God for his infinite wisdom and chastening love. He rescued , forgiven me & restored me. I am seeking after my purpose in Christ now and learning to be patient while the Lord prepares me for my future husband.

  • @rinawilliams6249
    @rinawilliams6249 2 года назад +21

    Wow!!!..."Only the Creator can give a man an interest to look at your core".This is soo profound!!!

  • @cassandrajones7023
    @cassandrajones7023 2 года назад +107

    Bishop this is so good, I have been listening to you and Queen Lisa for 4 yrs and I have been healed by your Father Daughter Talk and through your Queenology teachings this coming late into my life at 55 yrs old I am now 59 and engaged to my God given King and he is just what your speaking on tonight .. at dinner tonight my King played A song and sang it to me called you make me better the words of this song was from his heart ❤ Thank you

    • @chartimbe946
      @chartimbe946 2 года назад +9

      Cassandra Jones I too started late but we got it when we were supposed to have the knowledge.

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 2 года назад +8

      Girl your comment blessed me. So happy for you. God bless 💜

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 года назад +2

      @@heather7119 God Bless you my Sister Queen

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 года назад +2

      @@chartimbe946 in God's timing he's An on time God God bless you my Sister Queen

    • @cassandrajones7023
      @cassandrajones7023 2 года назад +2

      @@chartimbe946 Won't he Do it, it's all in his timing Amen He's A on time God .....

  • @musicmaker1311
    @musicmaker1311 2 года назад +30

    It’s almost as if I’m afraid to watch this bcz I already know I’ve yet to have 1/2 of 1 sign that I could give a man my all. I’ve actually given up on a real man wanting a real relationship/marriage with me. I think there’s great men still out there, just none that will want me. So tired of being initially approached/pursued only to hear, “I’m not looking for a relationship I just wanna be friends.”
    I will still watch & support because I adore this man and his beautiful wife!

    • @knowtruth2773
      @knowtruth2773 2 года назад +6

      Diddo.

    • @carlo9678
      @carlo9678 2 года назад +13

      Hi Love2Worship! Don't you dare believe that lie from the pit of hell. God made someone perfect just for you, believe that... And most importantly, Believe God! Because there's nowhere in God's Word where it says anything contrary to that. I don't know everything, but I do know this... If God will and can make a way out of no way - and God can and will of course, then God-created female-male relationships are nothing to God... They're a piece of cake! Sometime last year, I told God... That's okay, God. On the man tip, I'm good. Adding... God, you don't need to send a man into my life. I told God that I was content being alone. Because that is exactly how I've felt. LOL! But I promise you, God has a sense of humor. Because we make plans... And God laughs! After that conversation that I had with God, I went on with my life and didn't give it much thought. Except, the extra part I added (in my heart and mind, without speaking it aloud) telling God that the *only* man I would ever accept into my life would HAVE TO LOVE GOD WITH EVERY FIBER OF HIS BEING. I went on with my life without giving it a second thought. Enters 2022... On the 2nd day of this year, God spoke a man's name into my spirit (who I knew of but hadn't actually ever met and didn't know). I laughed out loud and told God... Dude, I don't even know him! And God told me... Well, you better get ready because it's going to happen fast. And on January 25th, the Man of God (who loves God with every fiber of his being) that God spoke to me about, who I didn't know, miraculously began communicating with me online. We're taking our time getting to know each other, but we pretty much check in with each other every day. LOL! God is such a trip! This Man of God and I live in the same state - about 4 hours away from each other. And the MOG and I have had a very similar experience; God told him about me too. Although we're excited and anxious to meet face-to-face, we've decided to give it time and continuing to communicate by text and email until April. LOL! And today, I'm still laughing at God... Why hurry for us to meet, right God? That's how I see it anyway. I mean, God SAID that this man is my husband... for life. If I don't forget, I'll come back to report what happens next. But always remember this: Don't give up on God. Because as you already know... God won't ever give up on you. Things change. Nothing stays the same. And for God, IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING! Take this time to lean in and enjoy the special time that you have to love on God. God's promises are true. God's timing is always perfect. And God won't forsake you... God hasn't forgotten you or your heart's desires.

    • @musicmaker1311
      @musicmaker1311 2 года назад +7

      @@carlo9678 wow, I pray Gods best for you both & rebuke any plan of destruction from the enemy as we know he hates marriage! I so appreciate your encouragement. I love God and although I trust Him, I’ve just shut of this area of expectation so I don’t get heartbroken again. God is amazing and my heart is His.

    • @carlo9678
      @carlo9678 2 года назад +6

      @@musicmaker1311 Thank you! Just remember, you're on your way! And that God is so pleased with the faith and trust that you have in Him! Whenever I get frustrated, I go back and yell to remind Him, saying ... God! YOU SAID in your Word (thus and such that I'm believing God for)!!! What I love about God is that His promises are true. God NEVER lies! Keep standing with God for every request your heart desires. He's no respector of person's... He'll come through for you, I just know it!!! And, you know what? I'm happy for you already!

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 года назад +50

      There’s a man that will love and adore you. I’m standing in prayer for that.

  • @razbliss3367
    @razbliss3367 2 года назад +30

    WOW !!!! Pastor, I'v been there 10 year's ago so sad... But I have learned . I'm still single, and I'm still working on my self and watch you every day all day for 4 year's . I'm happy and single. Thank you so much. I am very knowledgeable and I know the game.😀💕😇❤️😏😇

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 года назад +46

    Exactly!!🙏i just went through this with this Narcissistic man i was dating,now im on my way out this situation...and on my way to healing..Thank you lord Jesus for protection and coverage upon my life an waken me up and bringing me back to myself and removing my blindfold off my eyes so i can see this Narsitic delvish person that was in front of me trying to take me down and still my Joy, peice,and happiness.but you step right in on time and remove your child from out that Narcissistic
    situation ship..and i thank you lord!!!🙌🙏🙏

    • @October3074
      @October3074 2 года назад

      It's "narcissistic"

    • @naishabrignac9214
      @naishabrignac9214 2 года назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @je39981
    @je39981 2 года назад +51

    This video is literally an answer to my prayer. I nag my Dad all the time about "how would I know" and here is the answer. I do believe my question has already been answered but I can be stubborn at times. I sat down and wrote down notes and made sure to let it marinate in my spirit. All is well.

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele 2 года назад +34

    Discernment and definitely facts over feelings for sure

  • @lolamcclain1288
    @lolamcclain1288 2 года назад +38

    I am in complete expectation of what this message will drop in my spirit tonight!

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 2 года назад +37

    WOW. Bravo Bishop. I am feeling good because I had my 28 and 23 year old daughters listening to this. I always tell my daughters to respect their bodies. Thank you again Bishop ❤️❤️❤️

    • @j.j2846
      @j.j2846 2 года назад +5

      Your daughters are so blessed 💕

    • @loisthomas5465
      @loisthomas5465 2 года назад

      @@j.j2846 Thank you sweetie ❤🙏🏼

  • @bonitasmith6064
    @bonitasmith6064 2 года назад +20

    I'm ready for this teaching, because last year I gave my ex fiance my all because I didn't know what love Bombing was and he was a DEACON. He turned out to be a full blown narcissist 😢😢😢😢

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 2 года назад +2

      You gave your fiance your "all"? With all due respect if you weren't MARRIED to him, that was an error. May God comfort you with His peace! 🙌🏽

    • @bonitasmith6064
      @bonitasmith6064 2 года назад +2

      @@platinumbranch2056 Thanks, believe me I know this to be true. If I didn't walk in the flesh especially when I know the word of God this wouldn't have happened. I have taken responsibility and God has forgiven me. That's why I was able to tell the truth. Our trials and tribulations are to strengthen our faith and be a testimony. Appreciate you honesty and feedback. Blessings to you 💯❤️🙏

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 2 года назад +3

      @@bonitasmith6064 Thank you! And, I have been there as well. Our testimonies will be helpful to comfort others. 🙌🏽❤🙌🏽

  • @jr9941
    @jr9941 2 года назад +20

    Amen Bishop! "ASSESS BEFORE YOU INVEST"! I will definitely keep that phrase of wisdom! Love it and thanks for all your great teachings! ♥️

  • @poetz153
    @poetz153 2 года назад +9

    He’s done it again. Absolutely amazing. I have peace, I have an amazing future ahead of me, and I got God in my heart. I’m on top and going higher. I will see you at the top RC. God bless you. 🤗

  • @SamiAm9494
    @SamiAm9494 2 года назад +13

    This sermon was pure GOLD Pastor thank you so much!! I believe I have found the "one" or rather he found me! You confirmed alot of things for me regarding him and our future within this segment.

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA 2 года назад +28

    OUTSTANDING TEACHING!👍🏿
    Thank you dearly Bishop Blakes!❤

  • @macareuxmoine
    @macareuxmoine 2 года назад +11

    Excellent content. Whenever I turn to your material I find pearls. Too bad many of us women haven’t been taught that from youth. RC, you are parenting more than some fathers do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. So healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @tiatsele
      @tiatsele 2 года назад +1

      I couldn't agree more.

  • @jamescoley3543
    @jamescoley3543 2 года назад +5

    I love all these videos. I use these videos to do a self assessment to check and see if I'm on the right path as a man and as a husband.
    I thank God that my wife introduced me to R.C Blakes videos, while we was dating.

  • @joannahulitt3161
    @joannahulitt3161 2 года назад +11

    Thank you RC my close friend told me to listen to you and I have been doing nothing but getting fed every since. Currently going through a divorce and it was definitely a horrible situation because it wasn’t god ordained. I was the more spiritual one going to church with my daughter and zooming church due to pregnancy. My husband was always unavailable and gone. I spent Mother’s Day alone I did most things alone. Paid half of the bills and all of my personal bills alone and didn’t work for six month after my son was born he passed away soon after birth. About nine weeks after birth I had to be rushed to the hospital due to minor complications. All was well just a lot of pain. My husband never ever kept his word. He always ran to his family and friends discussing things about our marriage. He very much so treated it like a high school relationship. I hadn’t worked in 6 month and paid for a movers truck to move our family to a different state. We went and got things set up and was going back and forth because his father was ill at the time.
    About a week and a half later I returned to Texas to handle business and finalize moving I was about to leave my job but something within me kept telling me don’t do it. On Nov 2 (the same day my close friend and her baby were killed in a horrific accident) he called four hours later to tell me he wants a divorce.
    I’m leaving out so many details but I must say I have grown closer to god in this process started back attending church and loving my daughter and myself. We were left homeless and my husband didn’t care. So cold and seems like something was hovering over him. But I realized quickly that was the real him. And because I ignored the fast relationship the ring and everything I entertained.
    Now seeking god more. Now happier. Now more opportunities coming my way. Now looking forward to new life and life more abundantly

    • @avadonadelle2815
      @avadonadelle2815 2 года назад

      Amen!!! It's going to get better and better! God bless you and your daughter! 🙏🏽❤️😇

  • @kimberlyserrano4047
    @kimberlyserrano4047 2 года назад +3

    My God, this is so true and I would dim my light so he could shine. 5 years I gave my all, now I am 50, on dialysis because of stressful jobs, high blood and diabetes. Ieft this situation in October and have been asking God to remove him out of my life. I still feel like no one will want me because of the dialysis, it's hard...please pray 4 me...

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 2 года назад

      I know of a man who can help you out with your problems you might be facing now

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 2 года назад

      What sApp him

    • @kimberlyserrano4047
      @kimberlyserrano4047 2 года назад +1

      @@thetarotcottage7262 I also know a man that will and can help and his name is God. I don't know what type of scam u r tying to try but I am not the one...you will pay 4 your devious deeds.

    • @alicehardy8040
      @alicehardy8040 Год назад

      Jesus is your answer

  • @chantalmarie8361
    @chantalmarie8361 2 года назад +3

    This is one of the most powerful dating messages I will ever hear, and it made me laugh on several occasions! Thank you.

  • @clare3791
    @clare3791 2 года назад +11

    I love you RC and Lisa ❤️you’ve helped me tremendously on my journey ❤️

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 2 года назад +11

    Thank you so much, always timely. Divine confirmation. ❤
    You can't give a man what he needs to be your man, he either has it or he doesn't. Phew. A word!!!

  • @teatime3318
    @teatime3318 2 года назад +9

    I'm am so ready for this. 😃
    WOW! What a way to spend the evening, listening to a conversation with such elevation. Thank you.

  • @feliciaperkins1713
    @feliciaperkins1713 2 года назад +6

    What an awesome Valentine's gift! Very resourceful thank you so much!

  • @stephanielewis9667
    @stephanielewis9667 2 года назад +2

    When u know the nature of a person, they behaviors won’t surprise you!!! That was good rite there.

  • @jd869
    @jd869 2 года назад +4

    It is amazing how Bishop Blake is always on poimt! Continue to do God's work! 🙌

  • @slrhall75
    @slrhall75 2 года назад +3

    This was SUCH a blessing. I’m passing on to everyone that will listen. Bless you!

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 2 года назад +8

    Happy Valentine's Day Pastor and Lisa Blakes❤🧡💚💙God bless you both!! I love your teachings, shows me how to walk, talk & behave like a Queen should💃🏿🙋🏿‍♀️👑👑 be AMEN!!!!!

  • @stacy-ann9457
    @stacy-ann9457 2 года назад +6

    Thank God I no longer take on projects. 👌 I'll wait for the God sent one.

  • @amina0816
    @amina0816 2 года назад +5

    This is so so true! The man that I’m with now is all of this and more!! 👑♥️

  • @rhondaedwards664
    @rhondaedwards664 2 года назад +8

    Awesome message! Thanks for your powerful words of truth and encouragement ❤️. Have a wonderful Valentine's day Bishop and Lady Blakes!!!

  • @veronicajones8914
    @veronicajones8914 2 года назад +23

    What an awesome and on time word. Your transparency, wisdom and knowledge has truly blessed me this evening.I lost my husband of 37 years to covid on 4/18/20. I can say that I saw some of my mistakes and vow if given another chance that I will do things differently. Thank you so much for speaking truth and for imparting into so many women. I speak for all women. We appreciate you.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 года назад +1

      Sorry for your loss

    • @veronicajones8914
      @veronicajones8914 2 года назад +1

      @@ladyzinada5341 Thank you ❤️

    • @ShirleyLaTour
      @ShirleyLaTour 2 года назад +1

      So sorry for your loss. May God keep, protect and heal every hurt, every wound. And if you desire marriage again, that God send a double blessing your way and you are able to receive him, in Jesus name! I rejoice with you now, Hallelujah!
      I am waiting on my king too, second chance after divorce🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ChickenHawk-f1g
    @ChickenHawk-f1g 3 месяца назад

    I found a man at 63 who is also 63 and is a man of substance financially and has goals for a bright future he has excellent character. I am struggling because he is not the flashy roller coaster ride I'm used to but I'm hanging in there because been there done that. This man really deserves me and I am going to get used to being respected and treated well.

  • @cheyluv6256
    @cheyluv6256 2 года назад +11

    His conversation is explorative, he adores you as you are, he makes the investment of time & resources....all major points!

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 2 года назад +7

    Another good topic, thank you! In accordance with this word and proverbs 31:10-12, proverbs 18:22, acts 16:16-19, matthew 7:6, 1 samuel 16:7, luke 19:17, ecclesiastes 4:9-10, proverbs 31:28, 1 peter 3:7, 1 corinthians 14:33, 1 kings 10:2-3, proverbs 18:21, proverbs 25:1-12, 1 peter 3:1, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I choose not to be with and bind to hell being with any random opportunist who only uses me for one's personal gain. My best I will give to God and after that to a man worth investing in, a man who can set a firm foundation for the both of us where I can build a home for the both of us. I do not like to be underestimated by any man, nor placed on a pedestal which is God his place. I pray for a godly man that is interested in my core personality and not in what my fleshly manifestations represent. And so it will be, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @ldaisysharvest8658
    @ldaisysharvest8658 Год назад +1

    I appreciate this thank you. Because once you’ve been through so many bad relationships, its hard to recognize a good man. Now that I know I have one, I am relieved. May the most high continue to bless you😇

  • @stephaniemarkham405
    @stephaniemarkham405 2 года назад +2

    Hi from the uk. I'm an avid listener and I'm spreading the word to my sisters. What you said about your wife not seeing her beauty really touched me. Thankyou for sharing your wisdom 🙏

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 2 года назад +6

    A super excited about this one. I can't wait to hear from Pastor / My RUclips Dad🙏🏾🤗❤. I'm sure this one will be just as good as the father-daughter talk. Let Your Heart Break in order for your soul to heal🤗🤗🤗. Truly a blessing can't wait to hear from him.

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 2 года назад +5

    Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mariamagnusdottir2749
    @mariamagnusdottir2749 2 года назад +19

    I believe that God has appointed the right mate for us if we give him our everything. He and only he, knows what is best for us and that only he knows us perfectly!! Thank you RC Blakes for your wonderful videous 🙏

    • @overcomerbtboj
      @overcomerbtboj 2 года назад

      💯💯💯- totally agree with all you said- God has to acknowledged as our Husband first - we make Him our King and Husband first- every day i pick out a ring 💍 and tell God He is my Husband every day

    • @maxinecollins4333
      @maxinecollins4333 2 года назад

      This is so awesome thanks for the love you share with us. God's love be with you 🙏🙏😇😇💓

  • @RacialEqualityMatters6648
    @RacialEqualityMatters6648 2 года назад +5

    Great message Pastor Blakes! I needed this word from God about the man who would be my husband. Unfortunately, there are not many men who demonstrate the characteristics you mentioned. However, God is faithful I will continue to ask, seek & knock. Pray for me. 🙏🏽

  • @SunShine-qq2jw
    @SunShine-qq2jw 2 года назад

    Teach the truth, it took me three marriages to see the truth. I was so blinded. Guess what, I am not BLINDED ANYMORE!! HALLELUJAH

  • @jodyayers4592
    @jodyayers4592 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much, you have been the dad I never had. You say things I knew deep down. But the clamor of the world said otherwise. So I doubted myself. But you have said, what I only thought. But never heard from others.
    Thank you. ❤

  • @AnnettepSalmon
    @AnnettepSalmon Год назад

    Just because you can help him doesn't mean he deserves you.❤❤

  • @angelalaurel5622
    @angelalaurel5622 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much it resonated
    I prayed and asked my husband for a candlelight dinner at home
    He would bbq a nice steak and roasted potatoes put on music
    I would make a veggie and pick out a movie
    What I didn’t do was ask God to provide a peaceful healing safe time for the both of us to enjoy each other and be able to be ourselves and be volnerable
    God gave to us much more ✝️☮️😇🕊

  • @tq325
    @tq325 2 года назад +4

    Assessment before investment. Preach!

  • @davinityt.741
    @davinityt.741 2 года назад +6

    Thank you once again Pastor Blake’s, You answered my prayers of what to do about my situation. I thank GOD for you, and my blessings which are coming will be shared with your ministry. GOD bless you and First Lady Lisa.

  • @joanbarrington9914
    @joanbarrington9914 Год назад

    As far as l am aware, l don't know of any other source of enlightenment as explicitly accurate and valuable as your teachings in this video. I am so respectfully grateful RC. God bless you and your lovely First Lady Lisa.

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 года назад +2

    There is no man or woman that is perfection , we seek to become better people, I have yet to be attracted to a man based on financial status, his spiritual being has been what’s attracted me , that don’t mean he is the right choice, since even those with spiritual discernment I have found are not worthy of what god has put in me , since they have shortcomings that were detrimental to me,
    What I have learnt is that if you have broken consciousness you cannot make right choices , when you heal , you are less inclined to even entertain a man just to say you have a significant other , abstinence has taught me value of self RC Blake’s and subs bless .

  • @downwiththeclique7239
    @downwiththeclique7239 2 года назад +2

    I love to pause your videos and get a whole reflection going on my past or current situation. Thanks for the advice

  • @ChaiTogether
    @ChaiTogether Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing about Lisa’s past. I can relate ❤

  • @nialeilakande
    @nialeilakande 11 месяцев назад

    Listening to this right now as I am soon turning 50 dating again and I don’t want to waste my time this time around

  • @jaywill6783
    @jaywill6783 2 года назад +4

    Amazing message for Valentine's Day. Just amazing.

  • @pendomayeka588
    @pendomayeka588 2 года назад

    Pastor Rc Blakes sir you are wisdom personified this is priceless teaching never taught to some of us who came from broken homes .I will pass on the batton to the younger generation.God bless you and keep you

  • @IrisStephens-t7j
    @IrisStephens-t7j 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Pastor after failed relationships and having just met a nan I'm praying is the right one this information is invaluable.

  • @dialahnteefelder6699
    @dialahnteefelder6699 Год назад

    My goodness isn't this the truth.. I could listen to Mr. Blake's all Day so inspiring 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 2 года назад +1

    Yes Pastor
    And of all these consistency I like the most in a man, not wishy washy I want a sober reliable man .

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 года назад +6

    Great message!!i needed to here this.🙌❤️🙏

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 2 года назад

    Wasn't nothing little about that message. That message just made a man a serious contender and not a question... praise God!!

  • @latoyahloper7752
    @latoyahloper7752 2 года назад +3

    Thank you JESUS! God bless you all! I needed this, I have been back and forth between two men one financially stable and kind and the other one financially educated sold out to God but still getting himself together as being ready to be a husband.

  • @kalapaul2895
    @kalapaul2895 2 года назад +6

    This message is great...nd powerful. I told yall tht there's no one like bishop rcblakes..this man is anointed for this. I love this message. I know i won't be makin certain mistakes bcuz the bishop does take his time to sit nd teach us, nd his words does play in my head daily.

  • @alexissmith4339
    @alexissmith4339 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely great show. I haven't been listening in awhile cause I have worked alot on myself through some of Bishop RC BLAKE messages, but glad I tuned in

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 2 года назад +1

    So deep! I love all that you do for us ladies Pastor BLAKE'S and momma Lisa BLAKE'S. We are grateful to you both. Thanks for sharing love to all your Spiritual daughters Pastor BLAKE'S for valentine's night. 🥰 mother BLAKE'S a Blessing to allow her to let you come on to bless us. We are so Grateful. ☺

  • @ameenahblogs
    @ameenahblogs 2 года назад

    signing up for another project--I know that many of us are tired of 'projects', thank you RC

  • @aredfield2179
    @aredfield2179 2 года назад +3

    May God continue to bless you Pastor RC Blakes this Truly Blessed My Soul! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @yolandawright789
    @yolandawright789 2 года назад +1

    A high value couple!! You preaching today!!

  • @lavonneward6068
    @lavonneward6068 2 года назад

    Value is the word God gave me for 2022 !! We breath LIFE !

  • @cherylcoleman9524
    @cherylcoleman9524 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this powerful message , your teachings help me navigate differently as I date I am woke because of your teachings

  • @jvincy32
    @jvincy32 2 года назад +1

    Oh my goodness I needed this. I surely messed up this one. I knew better but settled for no reasons. Give and give but he showing no effort that he is worthy.

  • @angelinaryan8870
    @angelinaryan8870 Год назад

    Thank you RC Blakes. You and Lisa are so wise and caring. God Bless.

  • @ANGAFACE1
    @ANGAFACE1 2 года назад +1

    Let me first start off asking RC What is the instrumental song playing at the end starting at 55:11, how can we get the full version, I've played it back like 5'xs. Anyway, this is a clear and 100% description of the person I've been dating for a few months (No Sex-yet) at my pace he said, GOLDEN! He's All 7 of your points and the alphabets points too. I did my homework and vetted him, ALLL reports were clean, so he's also done the work as a man to BE THAT MAN!! Nervous YES! happy and can breath easy DEFINITELY! but when R.C. stated the man should be interested in my core/ bring me into his world-friends-family/adores me as I am/supportive/spiritual inquiring/honorable/consistent energy/open book/discussing his plans as an individual and our plans together for marriage and forever I almost shed a tear. My work and waiting has not been in vain. Thank you GOD!!!

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy 8 месяцев назад

    22:51 interested in the core of you and not just the fringe benefits of you. How much do they see you and hear you?
    36:07 Supporting her purpose and passions, just as much as she supports his.✨
    42:57 Many won’t pass this test! ✨ I’m grateful for the heart and integrity of honest people.

  • @tammyjo1256
    @tammyjo1256 2 года назад +4

    I'm excited too! This will be good

  • @monahosokawa4327
    @monahosokawa4327 2 года назад +1

    I've seen a few of your videos now and always walk away with great ideas. Would like to see more addressed to men on how to better treat women. Thank you

  • @paradiselivinginpurpose
    @paradiselivinginpurpose 2 года назад +3

    "WOMEN ARE DRAWN TO NEED."
    "...BUT JUST BECAUSE HE NEEDS YOU DOES NOT MEAN HE DESERVES YOU... "
    "THERE MUST BE A VETTING PROCESS OF ANY AND EVERY MAN THAT YOU WOULD ALLOW TO COME INTO YOUR LIFE.."
    "YOU NEED A VESTED PARTNER, AND NOT ANOTHER PROJECT"
    Bullet points!!!!

  • @Hikingdiaries
    @Hikingdiaries 2 года назад +5

    Hello Pastor, I have purchased your Kingology book and loved it. I want to buy another 3 but when I go onto Amazon there are none left. Do you know when you’ll be re-stocking? I can only buy from Amazon as I’m based in the UK 🇬🇧

  • @tressiemckoy4407
    @tressiemckoy4407 2 года назад +4

    I receive this blessed word in Jesus name!! I come into agreement with it and I stand on God's word concerning it. Thank you RC for your time, this beautiful blessed word and wisdom I've gained from it. Happy Valentine's to you and First Lady Lisa. Continued blessings to you both, peace be with you. HALLELUJAH thank you Jesus

  • @danyellmariewhitford2392
    @danyellmariewhitford2392 2 года назад

    I HEARD EVERYTHING!!! Kind Sir…..STREAMLINED clarity!!!! Including the BEAUTIFUL BANGIN BEATS-- instrumental!!!!! I holistically your on top and going higher!!! It’s been 5-7 years with you and I’m grateful to the utmost high you are apart of many moons!!! And a couple chapters of depth and introspective work that has allowed me to manifest things in the present but meditates with you 3-4 years ago!!! I love you Sir, Lady Jakes and Family!!!! Affirming, confirming and sharing Gods Word through your sound power!!!! A big Hallelujah and Aseeeeee!!!! 🙏🏽✨🍃🖤🕊🌸

  • @sherryilly6758
    @sherryilly6758 2 года назад +6

    This reading is so spot on gave me chills the whole way through....it was just what I needed. Thank you so much for your insightful thoughts. It is so so good. This is the guidance that I have been needed to help me break my past patterns.

  • @marceystevens8275
    @marceystevens8275 2 года назад

    Thank you, RC, you and Lisa are providing a great service for young women who don’t know themselves and cast their pearl before swine. Otherwise those swine might destroy them

  • @anissawhite3114
    @anissawhite3114 2 года назад +2

    Happy Valentine's day. Mr.and Mrs. Blakes

  • @krystletownsend6403
    @krystletownsend6403 2 года назад +4

    I poured my life into a man who was not worthy.

  • @indianewman8869
    @indianewman8869 2 года назад +3

    You've blessed my life with your word tonight. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @veronicabrooks6635
    @veronicabrooks6635 2 года назад

    I am taking deep breaths of Joy unto Heavenly Father. I am unmarried for along time. GOD HAS HIS BEST FOR ME ♥️ THANK GOD FOR YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS

  • @aprilhiggins5197
    @aprilhiggins5197 2 года назад

    All I can say is "Thank You" pastor for this wisdom. Lifetime tools for the toolbox.

  • @earthreign
    @earthreign 2 года назад +3

    Everyone wants what you & Lisa Have, however they don't want to go through all that you went through to get what you all have. We live in a Microwave society and no seems to understand that it takes time. They want the man making six figures, but women often forget or simply don't think to ask themselves, "What does the man that they want, want in a woman?"

  • @jadacruz5284
    @jadacruz5284 2 года назад

    Ah man, this video is power packed with wisdom from start to finish! The information that you share in this video covers everything! There's no stone you left unturned with this one @rcblakes I can't wait to meet you and Lisa. It should be a law that everyone hears this!