1. A wife has a mind to help a man. 2. A wife maintains an attractive energy. 3. A wife is a husband's chief accountability partner. 4. A wife is interdependent. 5. A wife has a mind to be an amazing lover.
And there's always I'm sorry I meant to say Mr RC blades and I mentioned Mr Mike forgive me Ms RC so forgive me for getting your name wrong and everything else is up there I enjoy you all the time you help me out I just praise and thank the Lord for you and this Lisa you're wonderful people she's a beautiful woman she's real pretty and I'm glad that the Lord bless you with her and bless her with you God bless you and you have a wonderful wonderful day
@@falsehoodbasher7240I disagree. The Bible says, "He who finds a wife . . ." It doesn't say, "He who finds a random woman." We are already a wife when you are found.
ok Christian@@faithtvonline The Bible is corrupt and by that Quote you stated wife means *slave* sO have fun being a slave to a male who finds you to be "wife-worthy" I'm free of that bullchit😘
🤣🤣🤣 He said Let me leave that alone!!! Does anyone be cracking up, he is so funny. Nothing like getting wisdom and a great laugh at the same time. So blessed to have stumbled across you RC God is sooo faithful and this is life-changing
Well I mean he did say correct me if I’m wrong that you are a wife to god until he shows you your husband. So, you must Cary yourself and think as such so that you’ll be able to discover him!😊
I agree with all you ladies. I married at the age of 35. I just listened to another msg by RC and WOW I definitely was not ready to be a wife. My husband and I were friends before we got married. It was more like living as roommates. We're still friends which I'm happy about. One thing I've learned is don't be in a hurry and shut your mind of to what society thinks is norm. God Bless you sisters and your journies!!❤
If a woman is treated well, respected and loved unconditionally, submission comes naturally. I believe both men and women should be taught to submit to each other especially some unworthy men in the world. I can't submit to an unworthy man free of charge!
@@ed000 right? women *naturally* are born to submit to men. until man prove unworthy. unworthy men breed feisty and non submissive women. enough of this & The woman becomes independent. Step up and stop lecturing women. Become a worthy man and women will step into role
OMG you women are straight out delusional. The bible does say HUSBANDS submit to your WIVES. You are not a wife because you can get pregnant. I wish Blakes will keep it 100 with y'all.
Looking forward to this Bishop Blakes. You’ve equipped me following my separation and divorce, the night my ex-husband abandoned our home 9/2020, you came across my YT, as I’d never heard of you before…I know it was God. God has been good to me and my two sons as we are thriving and have relocated to from OKC to HOU and have started a new life and we’re happy, and I’ve had much success as well as my sons, one a full scholarship to college and the other an excellent HS student. I hope to visit your church one day. Your teachings empower women at every stage of life. As I open my heart to date again, I feel well equipped to navigate the waters as there are definitely some sharks out there and I’ve been able to spot them Head on!! However, I know in time the King God has for me will find me as I continue to thrive and walk in my purpose. Might I add, I’m in NO rush, as I’m embracing who I am being single and the woman that I’ve evolved into since being freed from a marriage that dishonored me and my children. Peace and Blessings to you and Lady Lisa!
Hi Lisa, I just read your post and I was truly touched. I experienced a separation in September 2020 and a divorce in June 2021. I have two children as well, and I know that God has sustained us and is truly blessing us beyond measure. I stumbled across Bishop Blake's, and I'm so glad that I did. His teachings are amazing and they definitely guiding me as I embark on my next phase of life. Sis, I wish you and your children joy and blessings. -LaTasha
@@GachaWitcha Thank you for sharing. I’ve embraced this season and know God has a plan for our lives even in unexpected life changes as divorce. I’m still Blessed and have so much to be thankful and hopeful for. Much peace and Blessings to you. May God continue to bless and keep your family💕
@Keneshia Heard Thank you for sharing. May God continue to Bless you and your family. May you embrace the strength and courage that I know is within you to make all the brave decisions you may need to on behalf of you and your children so you all may have the life that God has planned especially for you. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.💕You can do all things though Christ, as you step out in Faith God will navigate your path.
@@Beauty4ashes80 Thank you so much for the kind words. God is real, and he never leaves his children. I feel that we are going to be even better than we were before. Have a great evening!
@@tiabarring He came to the jazz festival down here in Jacksonville and went by my parents house! After I bit his head off. My spiritual sister said that you never know why God brought him back in your life. I then opened my heart. And sure enough 2 months later I became VERY ill with covid even though I had my shots and booster. He was RIGHT THERE! He came from Atlanta and stayed until I got better. I just returned back to work Sunday!
@@doriannorman1205 Many thanks, for your reply! Sounds like your spiritual sister was correct! You two have a natural, gravitational “pull” towards one another. How loving of him to remain with you while you were ill. I wish the both of you infinite blessings! Thank you so much for sharing. God bless…
I thought I was a successful wife for 16 years. As I continue to listen to R.C, I’m seeing all the subtle red flags I passed and I’m trying to forgive myself as I start my life for the first time and refer back to the person I started out as a young girl..
Praise God and God bless your journey. And stay close to RC. It's working for me and my Journeys sounds the same. This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Pastor you hit the "nail on the head". I was married to him, but he was never married to me. He's gone now, but the scars are left! And I am struggling to reclaim my dignity, courage and self-respect!
Keep doing the work! This too shall pass… It’s not easy but it’s WORTH IT YOU ARE WORTH IT . Be proud of yourself for standing up for yourself and remember the best is yet to come.
Colleen My husband left in 2011 3mo after my mother passed. My world was flipped and I never heard of RC til now. I waited 2yrs waiting for him to come back. I feel for you...scars are deep...we will get through with God's help!!!❤ Stay in the word!!! God Bless
@@denisealex213 the kings are being prepared by the Lord and great mentors. I'm not concerned about the clowns I just pray the too turn around one day.
Please Bishop Blake's, can you have a part 2,3,4,5, I really appreciate this and need it, because I need a better understanding, of how to have a wife mind set, I know God is preparing me for marriage, and God is always intentional about his perfect will for my life, there are many of us who really need this, thanks for taking the time to teach us, man of God, God bless you!
I trust him bc he leads me, and he leads me bc I trust him... now read that again. I loved this message. Thank you for sharing. That's exactly what I keep teaching those who need to hear!
EVERYTHING YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT , was the same thing my boyfriend has told me…but I thought he was full of it….BUT now I realize he was correct on everything.🥰🙏🏾
I love you so so much!! You are the father I never had, you’re the father every little girl should experience. You’ve adopted me and don’t even know it!! Everyday I have to watch your videos I say my Spiritual Father got a message for me you’re growing me up helping me evolve on my spiritual journey, I love your “I mean business” attitude!! Thank you so much for all that you do! I thank your wife for assisting God in building up such a great man!! You are gifted, you are such a blessing!! I’m glad you answered to Gods calling & purpose for your life!!! I hope to meet you soon!!!
Am a young man of 26 and never heard the rich word you are teaching, i am so happy God led me to you Sir, i am learning, i will watch and repeat until these concepts are a part of my being.
I've learned so much from you. As a young girl who grew up with both parents and then my father suddenly left. The hurt just won't go away and I am glad that you are walking me through everything that a father should. Thank you!
Thank you pastor for this message !!! You hold women accountable and teach them at the same time!!! You help us women grow to be better each day!!! You are a blessing
❤️❤️❤️ So much good information!!! You laid it out and made it plain!!!💯 A lot us (both men and women) are not ready for marriage!! You have definitely given us the tools to determine that!!
I receive this prayer in JESUS NAME!! And my heart, mind, & actions come in agreement with being the wife spoken of here & in a timely manner in JESUS NAME Amen
Does he receive my help? 🧐Is he emotionally mature enough? This blew my mind when you said this. Been there before. The " Macho Man" stage. He can point out each crumb I am missing so he thinks that is what his purpose is. To teach her, with him knowing everything. A 💛key 🗝️ Wives always ask hard questions with soft tones. I've been told " don't talk to me like I'm 5 years old", I'm not slow". Whew! This was a good listen before work @ 6am. Thank you Pastor Blakes. I speak peace.
This has been my best experience yet with the word you bring to us. I have tears of gratitude literally 4 everything I get from spending time listening. I pray that all women who need this message be directed here and somehow never ever ever give up hope.
Ooh my gosh U just confirmed Pastor what I was always thinking. My EX actually resented me for trying to help him. It was the craziest thing to me. I couldn’t understand why a man wouldn’t want his woman to help him. Ooh but now I know! Thank U so much!!
This entire video made me smile. #5 Had me screaming lol. I had to rewind. You were adamant about the husband and wife bedroom time Bishop Blakes. As always, appreciate your time doing these videos. I have your books. My husband will find me one day.
After a divorce it is so important to regain one's sense of balance and redefine oneself after being robbed and plundered by an unscrupulous partner. I do believe that regaining a solid foundation is vital and an important tool to thrive and survive in the aftermath of divorce or separation. No one is born married and we all die alone and appear b4 Jesus alone so we need not feel afraid of aloneness, its not the same as loneliness. We are beautifully crafted even b4 birth, so regaining one's sense of the spirit-man or spirit-self is important. We need to go back to the heart of our true Father in heaven n connect with blue prints plans for our respective destinies b4 giving our priceless hearts away. Its about regaining control. Its about praying for God to most of all be in control of the new emerging woman in each of us.
Pastor RC Blakes!!!! You hit a Spiritual and Practical Home Run with this one !!!!!!!! I learned a lot!!! The truth should set us all free!!!! I’m going to win with these gems you left. I laughed and accepted this truth! You are so right!!!! The bed isn’t made for books or newspapers! The wife and husband need every inch of that space in the bed; to make magic happen, no matter what is going on in the world.
He needs to be full enough to receive your help. This is very important point. Especially considering the dynamics of some men misunderstanding the role of leadership. On one hand, I call the shots. On the right hand, I make most of the decision making but I also receive input from my wife.
Dear Lord please show and help me to think and act as a wife should. My birth parents gave me away and my adopted parents split when l was 5 years of age and my mother was out of control, angry, violent and shouted a lot. I never saw a husband and a wife interact, only snippets from friends homes briefly. I have nobody to look up to or ask. I will be 43 and l have had to learn to be on my own. Now l see l am hurt and argumentative, lacking in faith and probably realising how desperate l am. How wretched is me.
To be honest I think I'm just too messed up from a NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP that has done me in a way that I feel I'm better but then something comes back and tell me back down pray for me. I would like preparation to be a wife yeah.
Omg y'all and this narcissist bs. Strangely enough I once dated a narcissist who accused me of being a narcissist. NARCISSIST IS THE NEW WORD WOMEN USE TO COVER THEIR BS.
@tami sing i was in a relationship w a narcissist and I sometimes feel the same way. I have this mentality that ALL men are now. Im working on me. RC Blake's and others I listen to on RUclips are part of the healing process. I do go to therapy as well. Dont beat yourself up. Learn from the mistakes and live your best life ❤❤❤
It's gonna take some time to heal, a good amount of it actually, but you can do it. Draw closer to God, read scripture, sing songs of praise, be careful what you watch on TV, go to church, and most importantly pray in the spirit at all times asking God to heal & strengthen you. Abstain totally from sex and re-purify yourself for your future husband. You can do this! It won't be easy but it's surely worth it!
I’m sorry but there are too many messages on women being a wife, and nothing on men being a husband- women are being prepared for boys that don’t know how to be men let alone husbands. It takes two!!! Ladies please divest from this and stop trying to find your worth in a marriage. Find happiness within yourself and trust what’s for you will not pass you by.
At this point in my life .. and failed relationships, learning to love ME knowing who I am, understanding what gods best for me, knowing the difference between healthy love and toxic love .. we have to, need to connect, spiritually and mentally, I need to know your character as a man, date you for a season to see all of who you are as friend no sex before we can commit.. Can I trust you with what I share with you.. etc.. and so much more.
Wow, this teaching is so excellent...off the charts...as so many you do. May you be blessed and may your marriage continue to be blessed, as you have given so much to the hearers. ❤
I believe thus far, this has been my favorite message from Mr. RC Blakes, from here on out, I’m putting my mind frame in a psychology of a wife mind frame, this message has blessed me tremendously 🙏🏾 God bless you all! and all the future wives out there.
I've been married for 2yrs and married late in life for the 1st time. 9 days into the marriage my husband mask feel off and I seen a man that I didn't know. I could only with stand his emotional abuse for 6 months. We've been separated for 1yr and 11 months,trying to work on the marriage, so I thought. I don't know what to do. I'm tired of the hurt. Asking for prayer 🙏.
My mother started teaching me to how to be a wife at a very young age. When I was in what I call a spiritual cocoon, God revealed I was a lot like Rebekah and what I needed to be for my future husband. I told God he can have the one who he claimed to be as my husband back. Far too broken and decided that I was the enemy. Straight up delusional.
Amen to everything. My daughter is 18 you will never catch me shopping where she shops, I could if I wanted to. I can fit those clothes, but my time has passed, and I gladly bow out because I had my time and I know my place. Age appropriate clothing is more flattering.
God Bless You Pastor Blakes; you are a Powerful Man of God and to listen to you and your brother(Pastor SR Blakes)daily has helped revolve me into the God-Fearing Woman God intended for me to be! And I want to publicly tell you THANK YOU FOR THAT AND MAY GOD FOREVER KEEP YOU BOTH!🙏🏾🤎
Good morning from Finland 🇫🇮 Thank you again. This was so good. Wise words. I'm in a relationship with a Muslim man. Have had our ups and downs, but we've found the balance. Or getting there. You've helped me a lot. Thank you ❤️
Good morning sir, this is ABSOLUTELY ON POINT, SIR!!! Thank you so very much for sharing this invaluable informative information!!! It was greatly appreciated!!! 💜💜💜🥰
😂😂😂did bishop just said « that’s a T-shirt right there »? I love you Lisa and Rc Blakes for your wisdom and commitment to help us. You’re both a blessing to my generation and the next.
Just want to say before starting the vid - the advertisement at the beginning - so chuffed you are getting sponsorships Bishop RC. Excited to watch the rest of the video x
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1. A wife has a mind to help a man. 2. A wife maintains an attractive energy. 3. A wife is a husband's chief accountability partner. 4. A wife is interdependent. 5. A wife has a mind to be an amazing lover.
You my dear are a godsend ♥️ 🫂
I am in agreement with all of the above 💯👍❤️.
In Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
And there's always I'm sorry I meant to say Mr RC blades and I mentioned Mr Mike forgive me Ms RC so forgive me for getting your name wrong and everything else is up there I enjoy you all the time you help me out I just praise and thank the Lord for you and this Lisa you're wonderful people she's a beautiful woman she's real pretty and I'm glad that the Lord bless you with her and bless her with you God bless you and you have a wonderful wonderful day
In that order!!!!🙌🏽🙏🏾
Main takeaway: a woman should never convince a man she is wife material. A husband recognizes his wife, and vice versa. Let God lead the way. 🙌🏾
No one’s “ wife material “
You’re given The chance
to be, when he rings it 💍
@@falsehoodbasher7240I disagree. The Bible says, "He who finds a wife . . ." It doesn't say, "He who finds a random woman." We are already a wife when you are found.
ok Christian@@faithtvonline
The Bible is corrupt and by
that Quote you stated wife
means *slave* sO have fun
being a slave to a male who
finds you to be "wife-worthy"
I'm free of that bullchit😘
🤣🤣🤣 He said Let me leave that alone!!! Does anyone be cracking up, he is so funny. Nothing like getting wisdom and a great laugh at the same time. So blessed to have stumbled across you RC God is sooo faithful and this is life-changing
Yes I love his sense of humor🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@conniegray1944 Me too 😂😂😂
Yeeess🤣
💯💯🤣🤣🤣
Yes!
I’m not a wife, however, preparation is Key to understanding of what a wife is suppose to be!
Addie I'm in same boat. I'm 52 and want to marry again. God Bless
Yes! I’ve been preparing to be a wife & a mom! We are magnets to our circumstances!! ❤️
Same here!
Well I mean he did say correct me if I’m wrong that you are a wife to god until he shows you your husband. So, you must Cary yourself and think as such so that you’ll be able to discover him!😊
I agree with all you ladies. I married at the age of 35. I just listened to another msg by RC and WOW I definitely was not ready to be a wife. My husband and I were friends before we got married. It was more like living as roommates. We're still friends which I'm happy about. One thing I've learned is don't be in a hurry and shut your mind of to what society thinks is norm. God Bless you sisters and your journies!!❤
If a woman is treated well, respected and loved unconditionally, submission comes naturally. I believe both men and women should be taught to submit to each other especially some unworthy men in the world. I can't submit to an unworthy man free of charge!
Exactly. The "independent woman
syndrome" is created by *men* . So
Idk why people keep lecturing women
"submit, submit, submit" it ain't go work
@@ed000 right? women *naturally*
are born to submit to men. until man prove
unworthy. unworthy men breed feisty and
non submissive women. enough of this &
The woman becomes independent. Step
up and stop lecturing women. Become a
worthy man and women will step into role
I agree😊
True. He needs to proof to be worthy of my submission.
OMG you women are straight out delusional. The bible does say HUSBANDS submit to your WIVES. You are not a wife because you can get pregnant. I wish Blakes will keep it 100 with y'all.
“Inferior men don’t want wives because they don’t want to be held accountable.” THAT PART. Lol
A man bonds when you and he are in harmony. 💎💎💎
3. A wife is her husband's chief accountability partner. 💎💎💎
Oh indeed 🙌🏾❤️
Looking forward to this Bishop Blakes. You’ve equipped me following my separation and divorce, the night my ex-husband abandoned our home 9/2020, you came across my YT, as I’d never heard of you before…I know it was God. God has been good to me and my two sons as we are thriving and have relocated to from OKC to HOU and have started a new life and we’re happy, and I’ve had much success as well as my sons, one a full scholarship to college and the other an excellent HS student. I hope to visit your church one day. Your teachings empower women at every stage of life. As I open my heart to date again, I feel well equipped to navigate the waters as there are definitely some sharks out there and I’ve been able to spot them Head on!! However, I know in time the King God has for me will find me as I continue to thrive and walk in my purpose. Might I add, I’m in NO rush, as I’m embracing who I am being single and the woman that I’ve evolved into since being freed from a marriage that dishonored me and my children. Peace and Blessings to you and Lady Lisa!
Hi Lisa, I just read your post and I was truly touched. I experienced a separation in September 2020 and a divorce in June 2021. I have two children as well, and I know that God has sustained us and is truly blessing us beyond measure. I stumbled across Bishop Blake's, and I'm so glad that I did. His teachings are amazing and they definitely guiding me as I embark on my next phase of life. Sis, I wish you and your children joy and blessings.
-LaTasha
@@GachaWitcha Thank you for sharing. I’ve embraced this season and know God has a plan for our lives even in unexpected life changes as divorce. I’m still Blessed and have so much to be thankful and hopeful for. Much peace and Blessings to you. May God continue to bless and keep your family💕
@Keneshia Heard Thank you for sharing. May God continue to Bless you and your family. May you embrace the strength and courage that I know is within you to make all the brave decisions you may need to on behalf of you and your children so you all may have the life that God has planned especially for you. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.💕You can do all things though Christ, as you step out in Faith God will navigate your path.
@@Beauty4ashes80 Thank you so much for the kind words. God is real, and he never leaves his children. I feel that we are going to be even better than we were before. Have a great evening!
Thank you from Annie for your words of wisdom and honesty.
“A wife is not fulfilled where she is not necessary.” Amen
My husband and I are reuniting after 40+ years!! We both never remarried! Thanks for this!!
That's amazing. Congratulations to you both.
Awesome!
Really! Wow! Can you share a little about how you two reconnected? What drew you two back together?
@@tiabarring He came to the jazz festival down here in Jacksonville and went by my parents house!
After I bit his head off. My spiritual sister said that you never know why God brought him back in your life. I then opened my heart. And sure enough 2 months later I became VERY ill with covid even though I had my shots and booster. He was RIGHT THERE! He came from Atlanta and stayed until I got better. I just returned back to work Sunday!
@@doriannorman1205 Many thanks, for your reply! Sounds like your spiritual sister was correct! You two have a natural, gravitational “pull” towards one another. How loving of him to remain with you while you were ill. I wish the both of you infinite blessings! Thank you so much for sharing. God bless…
I thought I was a successful wife for 16 years. As I continue to listen to R.C, I’m seeing all the subtle red flags I passed and I’m trying to forgive myself as I start my life for the first time and refer back to the person I started out as a young girl..
Praise God and God bless your journey. And stay close to RC. It's working for me and my Journeys sounds the same. This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Pastor you hit the "nail on the head". I was married to him, but he was never married to me. He's gone now, but the scars are left! And I am struggling to reclaim my dignity, courage and self-respect!
Keep doing the work! This too shall pass… It’s not easy but it’s WORTH IT YOU ARE WORTH IT . Be proud of yourself for standing up for yourself and remember the best is yet to come.
Colleen My husband left in 2011 3mo after my mother passed. My world was flipped and I never heard of RC til now. I waited 2yrs waiting for him to come back. I feel for you...scars are deep...we will get through with God's help!!!❤ Stay in the word!!! God Bless
You're not struggling. You're doing it. That's the only option. Slow progress is still progress! Remember that!
You hold up ya head....he don't know himself. It's his loss. It's his problem not yours 😐🤨
You will succeed bc you want to succeed
Many blessings
Be a wife before the wedding 💎💎💎
Can you do the reverse? The psychology of a husband. Curious to know those points.
Great teaching! The physical is only temporary, but your inner beauty is everlasting.
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Man of God, leading woman to embrace her true self and level up !!!! Such a 🙌🏾 🙌🏾
SAY IT❗️👑
And who is preparing these men???
@@denisealex213 the kings are being prepared by the Lord and great mentors. I'm not concerned about the clowns I just pray the too turn around one day.
BLESSING!!!!!
Please Bishop Blake's, can you have a part 2,3,4,5, I really appreciate this and need it, because I need a better understanding, of how to have a wife mind set, I know God is preparing me for marriage, and God is always intentional about his perfect will for my life, there are many of us who really need this, thanks for taking the time to teach us, man of God, God bless you!
YASSS! You said this all right. I need another video explaining every part of this video to really understand everything. Both parts!
Yes please
This is confirmation for me, I’ve always had a wife mindset. The problem is finding that whole husband, or better yet that whole husband finding me 🙂🙏
I trust him bc he leads me, and he leads me bc I trust him... now read that again. I loved this message. Thank you for sharing. That's exactly what I keep teaching those who need to hear!
EVERYTHING YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT , was the same thing my boyfriend has told me…but I thought he was full of it….BUT now I realize he was correct on everything.🥰🙏🏾
'a man is attracted today and distracted tomorrow' - an AMAZING word!
Your teachings have been so instrumental to my healing post separation and divorce from a covert narcissist. God bless you!
I love you so so much!! You are the father I never had, you’re the father every little girl should experience. You’ve adopted me and don’t even know it!! Everyday I have to watch your videos I say my Spiritual Father got a message for me you’re growing me up helping me evolve on my spiritual journey, I love your “I mean business” attitude!! Thank you so much for all that you do! I thank your wife for assisting God in building up such a great man!! You are gifted, you are such a blessing!! I’m glad you answered to Gods calling & purpose for your life!!! I hope to meet you soon!!!
2. Maintain a beautiful spirit and attractive energy. 💎💎💎
Wives ask hard questions, with a soft tone and a smile! Facts!!! This is so true!!!
Counting the hours,,, u don't know how this is impacting the paradigm of my soul
Am a young man of 26 and never heard the rich word you are teaching, i am so happy God led me to you Sir, i am learning, i will watch and repeat until these concepts are a part of my being.
I've learned so much from you. As a young girl who grew up with both parents and then my father suddenly left. The hurt just won't go away and I am glad that you are walking me through everything that a father should. Thank you!
Pastors don’t preach about this. Awesome message.
We need a part 2 in Jesus name this is food to the soul
It really is. Love his teachings! 🙏🏾 Amen! I’ve been a wife for 18 yrs and what he’s saying is so true, even though I’m longer happy in it anymore.
Yup part 2
Thank you pastor for this message !!! You hold women accountable and teach them at the same time!!! You help us women grow to be better each day!!! You are a blessing
Thank You , You don’t know how much you’ve helped me as I grow into a man
That's right a Queen moves in silence
Mr. Blake's, you are an amazing man of God. You keep it real and you meet people right where they are, and that is a big part of Christ's character.
Oooooohwee! This was so good! Informative & very beneficial for nearly every woman, married or single. God Bless your ministry Bishop Blake's!
5. A woman has to have the mind to be an amazing lover. 💎💎💎
Amen can’t wait to see this! Thank you for all this pure wisdom Man of God !🙏🏽🙌🏽
Thank you 🙏🏽
Wisdom, Knowledge, and Understanding💎💎💎 I can’t wait to hear this‼️
❤️❤️❤️
So much good information!!! You laid it out and made it plain!!!💯 A lot us (both men and women) are not ready for marriage!! You have definitely given us the tools to determine that!!
Pastor be having me dying laughing! Take them bibles and Joyce Meyer books out the bedroom. 😂😂😂
I receive this prayer in JESUS NAME!!
And my heart, mind, & actions come in agreement with being the wife spoken of here & in a timely manner in JESUS NAME Amen
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
1. A wife has a mind to help a man 💎💎💎
Does he receive my help? 🧐Is he emotionally mature enough? This blew my mind when you said this. Been there before. The " Macho Man" stage. He can point out each crumb I am missing so he thinks that is what his purpose is. To teach her, with him knowing everything. A 💛key 🗝️ Wives always ask hard questions with soft tones. I've been told " don't talk to me like I'm 5 years old", I'm not slow". Whew! This was a good listen before work @ 6am. Thank you Pastor Blakes. I speak peace.
Your talks are truly inspiring, and I learn so much from them.
Pastor I pray that you will have a lesson about The Psychology of a Husband. These man out here need it even more than the women.
Thank you for being so consistent with blessing us women with gems. It’s truly appreciated.
Have to bring it!! Get your groove on!! I'm not telling anyone anything.
Thank you, Pastor. I love the way you deliver GODS' word. Be blessed.
This has been my best experience yet with the word you bring to us. I have tears of gratitude literally 4 everything I get from spending time listening. I pray that all women who need this message be directed here and somehow never ever ever give up hope.
4. Interdependent on each other 💎💎💎
Ooh my gosh U just confirmed Pastor what I was always thinking. My EX actually resented me for trying to help him. It was the craziest thing to me. I couldn’t understand why a man wouldn’t want his woman to help him. Ooh but now I know! Thank U so much!!
Excited about this teaching.
This entire video made me smile. #5 Had me screaming lol. I had to rewind. You were adamant about the husband and wife bedroom time Bishop Blakes. As always, appreciate your time doing these videos. I have your books. My husband will find me one day.
A woman has to be careful not be a PHD woman with a GED Attitude. This psychology will never make you qualified to be a wife. 💎💎💎
This was AWESOME and definitely deserves a part 2!
After a divorce it is so important to regain one's sense of balance and redefine oneself after being robbed and plundered by an unscrupulous partner. I do believe that regaining a solid foundation is vital and an important tool to thrive and survive in the aftermath of divorce or separation. No one is born married and we all die alone and appear b4 Jesus alone so we need not feel afraid of aloneness, its not the same as loneliness.
We are beautifully crafted even b4 birth, so regaining one's sense of the spirit-man or spirit-self is important. We need to go back to the heart of our true Father in heaven n connect with blue prints plans for our respective destinies b4 giving our priceless hearts away. Its about regaining control. Its about praying for God to most of all be in control of the new emerging woman in each of us.
Let’s go ! I’m here early
I really enjoyed every second of this informative video we need a part 2 thank you for your words of wisdom pastor Blakes🙏
Pastor RC Blakes!!!! You hit a Spiritual and Practical Home Run with this one !!!!!!!! I learned a lot!!! The truth should set us all free!!!! I’m going to win with these gems you left. I laughed and accepted this truth! You are so right!!!! The bed isn’t made for books or newspapers! The wife and husband need every inch of that space in the bed; to make magic happen, no matter what is going on in the world.
He needs to be full enough to receive your help. This is very important point. Especially considering the dynamics of some men misunderstanding the role of leadership. On one hand, I call the shots. On the right hand, I make most of the decision making but I also receive input from my wife.
Am not married but looking forward to hear this word.
BISHOP BLAKES!!! THANK YOU. ONCE AGAIN A GREAT SPIRITUAL TEACHING😊
Yes, love all of this 🙌🏽 he'll get it from somewhere if not from you 🤷🏽♀️
Dear Lord please show and help me to think and act as a wife should. My birth parents gave me away and my adopted parents split when l was 5 years of age and my mother was out of control, angry, violent and shouted a lot. I never saw a husband and a wife interact, only snippets from friends homes briefly. I have nobody to look up to or ask. I will be 43 and l have had to learn to be on my own. Now l see l am hurt and argumentative, lacking in faith and probably realising how desperate l am.
How wretched is me.
God will answer your prayers... just allow him to work on you... tell him to work on you
You Are The Truth Pastor❤️Once again thank you for another encouraging piece of advice!
Thank you Bishop, your messages are always refreshing and renewing my thinking. Yes to part 2 and 3. God bless you and your family.
watching your videos when I do my morning cardio yesssss best meditation and starts my day off right w intention
To be honest I think I'm just too messed up from a NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP that has done me in a way that I feel I'm better but then something comes back and tell me back down pray for me. I would like preparation to be a wife yeah.
I was married to a narcissist for 30yrs years. I will tell you that in time you will heal and stay close to God.❤️
Omg y'all and this narcissist bs. Strangely enough I once dated a narcissist who accused me of being a narcissist. NARCISSIST IS THE NEW WORD WOMEN USE TO COVER THEIR BS.
@tami sing i was in a relationship w a narcissist and I sometimes feel the same way. I have this mentality that ALL men are now. Im working on me. RC Blake's and others I listen to on RUclips are part of the healing process. I do go to therapy as well. Dont beat yourself up. Learn from the mistakes and live your best life ❤❤❤
It's gonna take some time to heal, a good amount of it actually, but you can do it. Draw closer to God, read scripture, sing songs of praise, be careful what you watch on TV, go to church, and most importantly pray in the spirit at all times asking God to heal & strengthen you. Abstain totally from sex and re-purify yourself for your future husband. You can do this! It won't be easy but it's surely worth it!
Take your time to heal. I promise, there is a light at the end of the tunnel ♥️
I’m sorry but there are too many messages on women being a wife, and nothing on men being a husband- women are being prepared for boys that don’t know how to be men let alone husbands. It takes two!!! Ladies please divest from this and stop trying to find your worth in a marriage. Find happiness within yourself and trust what’s for you will not pass you by.
At this point in my life .. and failed relationships, learning to love ME knowing who I am, understanding what gods best for me, knowing the difference between healthy love and toxic love .. we have to, need to connect, spiritually and mentally, I need to know your character as a man, date you for a season to see all of who you are as friend no sex before we can commit.. Can I trust you with what I share with you.. etc.. and so much more.
Wow, this teaching is so excellent...off the charts...as so many you do.
May you be blessed and may your marriage continue to be blessed, as you have given so much to the hearers.
❤
Good Evening Pastor RC Blakes, So Glad To Catch You Live Sir. 🙏
I would love to hear psychological evaluation of faithful high value husband
Please and thank you in advance!
I believe thus far, this has been my favorite message from Mr. RC Blakes, from here on out, I’m putting my mind frame in a psychology of a wife mind frame, this message has blessed me tremendously 🙏🏾 God bless you all! and all the future wives out there.
Thank you! I loved “a wife asks hard questions in soft tones” hmm…yes! ❤️
Amazing message!
I've been married for 2yrs and married late in life for the 1st time. 9 days into the marriage my husband mask feel off and I seen a man that I didn't know. I could only with stand his emotional abuse for 6 months. We've been separated for 1yr and 11 months,trying to work on the marriage, so I thought. I don't know what to do. I'm tired of the hurt. Asking for prayer 🙏.
My mother started teaching me to how to be a wife at a very young age. When I was in what I call a spiritual cocoon, God revealed I was a lot like Rebekah and what I needed to be for my future husband. I told God he can have the one who he claimed to be as my husband back. Far too broken and decided that I was the enemy. Straight up delusional.
Thanks Bishop ✨ First and Family
The lesson was awesome.
ShaloM 📜 everyone
This was soo good and ive been married a decade . i had the psychology of a wife as a young lady and didnt even know what that mean at the time.
Thanks so much for this teaching it has truly opened my eyes and helping me on my journey into me
Amen to everything. My daughter is 18 you will never catch me shopping where she shops, I could if I wanted to. I can fit those clothes, but my time has passed, and I gladly bow out because I had my time and I know my place. Age appropriate clothing is more flattering.
God Bless You Pastor Blakes; you are a Powerful Man of God and to listen to you and your brother(Pastor SR Blakes)daily has helped revolve me into the God-Fearing Woman God intended for me to be!
And I want to publicly tell you
THANK YOU FOR THAT AND MAY GOD FOREVER KEEP YOU BOTH!🙏🏾🤎
Good morning from Finland 🇫🇮
Thank you again. This was so good. Wise words. I'm in a relationship with a Muslim man. Have had our ups and downs, but we've found the balance. Or getting there. You've helped me a lot. Thank you ❤️
Get out while you still can
I must have been really tired, I missed this I fell asleep. I didn't hear the notification. Just now watching this.
New wife checking in…. I need a report card for myself thank you Bishop Blake’s 💯🙏🏽🥰
Thank you for your wisdom tonight sir, very grateful 💎💎💎
Good morning sir, this is ABSOLUTELY ON POINT, SIR!!! Thank you so very much for sharing this invaluable
informative information!!! It was greatly appreciated!!! 💜💜💜🥰
Thank you for this message!!!! It is much needed 🙏🏾
Awesome! Yes part 2!!!!
46:55 and on. Actually the complete and entire video 💯.
Wow this really opened my eyes to things I've always heard and known but it makes more since once broken down! Thank you for helping me grow.
😂😂😂did bishop just said « that’s a T-shirt right there »? I love you Lisa and Rc Blakes for your wisdom and commitment to help us. You’re both a blessing to my generation and the next.
Whoa; that was what he use to tell me, "I don't need you telling me what you want" or "You don't tell me what to do".
You are a father i never had, than you may God bless you and thank you for the truth always
Yes yes yes Sir to part 2 and 3 ! We appreciate you more ! God bless you
Just want to say before starting the vid - the advertisement at the beginning - so chuffed you are getting sponsorships Bishop RC. Excited to watch the rest of the video x
Much love from New Zealand to you RC and Lisa!!
As a man, this is so true. Not so much 10 years ago lol but now, yes.
I enjoyed this presentation, while getting a good laugh as well. Thanks Papa Blakes!
this right here was sooooooo good Uncle RC. thank you, thank you, thank you.