INSANITY OF A WOMAN CHASING A MAN by RC Blakes
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- Опубликовано: 21 авг 2022
- INSANITY OF A WOMAN CHASING A MAN by RC Blakes
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Proverbs advises anyone not to set themselves forward in the presence of a king. Much better to wait patiently for the favor of the king to invite them to come nearer.
The woman who throws herself at a man has no security that his love is genuine. she cannot be sure he truly loves her because it as all her idea from the start. Maybe he is just using the opportunity, since he has had to make no effort to gain her, and when his own heart has desire of its own, he will of course choose the one who requires some effort to gain, and leave the volunteer in the heartache she made by her own efforts.
I respect my man's right to choose freely what and who he wants. it is not my place to influence his future in any way. Love that does not come to me freely is something less than love, it is manipulation, bound to fail when he breaks free to follow his own heart. Any man is able to make his own choices and eventually stands in his independence from chasers to take hold of his own choice.
Thank you brother for standing for the truth.
Very well said-- true. Let God be your matchmaker.
@@ThanksThanks-cm4ce he is using my enemies to test the strength of our loyalty to each other and that is serving God against their own wills. Lol
This is powerful.
Ooops accident on hit thumbs down, ithought I was hitting the comment. Not wearing my glaases, early in morning. I thought you had given great information before, this right here left me speechless, I feel in my heart God's Holy Spirit is Guiding your teaching of women empowerment, Thank you and Lady Lisa! 💗
Well said 🙌🏽💯🎯
Faith doesn't worry, Value doesn't beg and Virtue doesn't chase
Love this
Thanks for commenting.
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Me to, love this!
❤️
I love this ministry and song. Who is the artist and song.
“Men get invested in the pursuit. Men bond in pursuit. When you don’t give him the chance to pursue, you rob him of his opportunity to bond.” - paraphrased. Such powerful wisdom
All ur doing is allowing a PIMP to teach yall and hiding behind his color and BIRACIAL wife, stop getting used and taken advantage of bcuz deep down He knws he's jump PIMPN U DESPERATE WOMEN to get him seen and rich....and yall can't c nor read between the lines...OLD HEAD BLK WOMEN........LOL
Amen, Amen. I have listened to this message several times. Love this statement “what attracts a man does not attach the man”. Come on now! Come on! Beautifully put
Amen!
This is so powerful!💥That phrase should be owned, signed and displayed as a motto by Pastor R.C Blake
Thats deep!! I believe if we women all get this, there will be a shift in the dating game.
I was married to a King for 31 amazing years. I miss him dearly. He passed away almost 10 years ago. It still seems like yesterday because of the great memories he left me with. I value myself highly and is very comfortable in my skin. Ladies, do not settle or chase. Queens don’t do that. I’m still at an age to date, but when you were treated like a Queen it’s hard. If it’s meant to be it will happen organically. No chasing here. Ladies enjoy your life, don’t waste it looking for Mr. right and God will send you the right one at the right time.
Thank you for your comment . Blessings upon blessings to you Queen 🙏🏽👑💖
You are absolutely correct. I'm so sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathy, God bless you my sister in Christ. Just know he's with the Lord and at peace.....and one day soon you will spend eternity with him. 💜
Hallelujah. I believe it and I receive it.
Know Your Worth 💯.
In Jesus name.
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Very true
@@breakthrough1019 Thank you so much. Blessings to you as well my Sister. 🙏🏾🤗❤️
This generation is absolutely confused and society is encouraging that this mess is okay. That is the underlying root of this “ women shoot your shot” movement that I’m seeing lately. Frankly, it’s disgusting .
That being said, I’ve pursued ( maybe not chased because that word is excessive ) in the past and yes, men will accept you and sit back and entertain you even if they have no interest or care for you. For most men, any female attention is good attention and an ego boost. Ladies, let the man earn you, don’t serve yourself on a silver platter.
I agree 100%. This young generation is lost. They are believing the hype and its a disaster. Brainwashed by the media and reality TV. Hook up culture that devalues everyone. What do you think if you were engaged? If there was a misunderstanding and break up? Is it OK to try and reconcile with your fiance? Is that chasing?
Amen to that
Yess 👏🏻
Wise words, Lord, give me the strength to survive this painful moment, I miss him so much…
Amen 💯💯💯💯
If he's running from you, don't chase him...PERIOD✨♥️
Amen.
Real talk... Hallelujah. 👏👏👏
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Fact 💯‼️👏🏿
When Will these women learn? Desperation is NOT a good look.
Men who say that they’re the prize has always felt SO uncomfortable to me! Not only is it feminine but it also felt VERY dark.
and women are the prize? LMAO what in the blue hell makes you women think you of that?
@@cheesecake3631 Very feminine and gay. Real men are hunters and go after the prize. Not the other way around. Any man who says that he is a prize can go kick rocks.
@@amyashleman106 Hide your narcissism behind the word femininity lmao classic woman. I’m not saying men are the prize, I’m just saying women aren’t either :))
@@cheesecake3631 I am a feminine woman, and believe women should get married and stay home. I am not a narcissist and you cannot call me that as you do not know me. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord. Most men these days are lazy and have sex with anyone and everyone thinking they are some prize. SMH.
@@amyashleman106 Also, more often than not, anyone who think of themselves as the prize will always end up being baggage instead, not excluding women.
Thank Bishop, I’m 58 and I have never seen a successful relationship behind a woman chasing a man. Even if he marries her, the brunt of everything will be on her back.
Amen! Been there done that.
Yes yes yes! I see this everywhere with these predominantly millenial age women who chase and then seduce the man only to have it fail
That's right you know whatcha talkin bout. You speakin facts!!!
“Virtue never chases” - RC Blake’s
Hallelujah. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
NEVER chase a Man EVER! You will suffer the Consequences if you do! Allow God first and foremost to connect the two of you. I rather remain single than to go against the Lord ever. His decisions for myself and my life matter ♥️🙏🏻
Amen
Truly
I am always so excited for Mondays and these lessons. I went from desperate and chasing to putting myself first. Ladies it takes time and it's hard but don't chase these fools. We are the prize. I finally got it. I am alone and my peace is my gift. I can't wait for this one. I pray everyday for God to help me each day not to ever look back. Don't ever go back. Thank you Mr. Blakes you have literally saved my life with these lessons Noone taught me. I had no Father and was at the will of these demonic narcassitic men I dated. They were the same just different people. i got wise to ex and did the block and delete and called police on him.. Queens don't tolerate disrespect. His Karma is coming and I don't want to be around for that.
Thank you for putting into words what many of us have lived. It’s time, in fact, way past time to take back our positions as Queens.
U said it all ❤️
Amen ❤️🙏🙏🙏.
Thank you.
Im the same changed thanks to Gods peace putting myself first 🙏
Way back in the day i initiated a relationship with a co-worker. We ended up having a situationship for a bit. One day we were arguing and he Said "You came to me ! I didnt come to you ! " Talk about hurt feelings ! Wow. But that was my LAST time doing the chasing ! Ugh.
Wow!!! How hurtful. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Lesson learned! Thanks
Real talk... Hallelujah. 👏👏👏
Know Your Worth 💯.
In Jesus name.
Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
@@melvinagdavis6870 Thank you. It was a lesson...
@@smallimpressionschildcare489 Yes!!!! You are welcome!
“Chasers are played as a game and never honored as a prize” that hit me hard! 😳😭 lesson learned though!
Because the chaser is EASY; and will always get played. It makes a lot of sense.
I used to be a masculine woman. I recall myself chasing a man (I was 23 at the time). When he rejected me, it felt like he pushed me down a flight of stairs. There were other instances were it worked because those men were feminine. And I was the one wearing the pants and playing "mom". These men never used their brains but when it came to the sheets and bedroom action, oh yes they were experts. I got tired at 28 and decided to work on Danae. Now at 41, I see the SIGNIFICANT difference in the way men behave around me (quality over quantity). The feminine ones run away from me and the masculine ones run towards me. It's more than the exterior, it's also an energy/spirit. Masculine IS NOT macho aka a misogynistic tyrant. Please ladies let's not confuse those terms. In my honest opinion, misogyny is a feminine man's manifestation of masculinity.
Pastor thank you for the message
TEACH SIS!
Love your comment! ♥️💝♥️
I had a similar realization the other day. A short was recommended to me, where a man and woman were on a date and the man left her to pay her portion of the bill when she refused to have sex with him. Reading the comments of the men, they all sounded feminine. It was so sad because, while not righteous, it was so clear that if they were truly confident in their masculinity, they would boldly say exactly what they want, not create a restaurant scene.😅 There's nothing like a man that stands firmly in who God has called him to be.
@@nca4794 EXACTLY
This is what every young woman needs to hear. You're the father's voice that many haven't heard. God bless you for telling the truth!
Hallelujah. Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen! Girl, the old woman needs to hear thos too!!! 🤣
Yes I agree God is using the Blakes Brothers to help guide women esp in this dark ungodly world.
@@aprillondy7326 lol keeps us straight too!
@Brenda.... Girl, I'm 50 and listening to Pastor makes me think deeper than ever! Sometimes as an older woman we make some of the same mistakes. Although I had the best parents ever, they never talked that deep about relationships. Continue being a strong Queen. 🥰
“What attracts a man, doesn’t attach a man”- R.C🤯
Thank you Pastor R.C Blake for your good word on insanity for a woman chasing a man
He always drops these nuggets of wisdom in his teaching. Nuggets or bombs I'm not sure which
Talking about hit a sista soul my goodness. I am honest enough to admit I have been going about this relationship thing all wrong.
As a Muslim , I concur with this message ,, let a woman be a woman and a Man be a Man , don’t discombobulate the law of nature
The Key "Law of Nature" You Cannot rework God's Foundation! Amen!
Thanks for the lesson 🙂 very helpful 👍
Yes sister, Ameen to that xx And I love the word 'discombobulate' yes that's exactly what it is
Ameen sister! ❤🤲🏽
This is not in Islam , this is Christian western sexism .
Chasing a man means lowering your values. I have been down that road and all I got was heart break 💔. I learned the hard way but I'm grateful 🙏
Just wanted to share a true story that NO ONE has to believe. An 80 yr old widow at my mom's church is recently engaged to a wealthy 80-something year old widower. Every time he visits her, he brings her HUGE gifts and they are getting married soon. Ladies it is NEVER too late for God to bless a man with a good wife, and a woman with her true husband. This gentleman pursued the widow. Another wedding I went to a few years back was a 60 plus yr old lady who had never been married. She was out doing God's work and her future husband saw her and began to pursue her. They are still happily married now. Don't allow age and desperation to mess with you. God will answer your prayers so as long HE is the head of your life, and Marriage and Men are not your false gods. Love ya! Thanks Pastor RC and First Lady Lisa. May the Lord continue to bless this ministry.
Pastor Blakes has spoke before in previous videos about how a woman shouldn't chase a man. However this lesson never gets old. Thank you Pastor Blakes for taking time to make sure we receive this knowledge. It's very relevant yesterday as it is today.
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
I no longer chase men cuz it got me nowhere and left me with a broken heart time and time again
Some men, start with the pursuing, this is even without any sexual or physical intimacy involved. Once they get you hooked then they start to misbehave and make you feel like you’re the one chasing them. This was my last experience with a guy who I had to cut off after watching the video of Pastor RC and Pastor Lisa from a few years back. That video really helped me process my thought and come to a decision best for my heart, dignity and future.
Nine times out of ten, if a woman gets hooked, she's probably slept with him. That was my experience when I was disobeying God. No more. Abstinent till marriage!
yes Olaide Sanni how right you are! My guy was coming full blast last Aug when we first met. My God love bombing, texting several times a day, visiting every month (he lived in another city than me). Though he’s been very generous to me over the year we have been in a relationship, spending several holidays together, going to his family events, taking a vacation together and him taking care of things around my house, giving me money and paying for food, groceries and maintenance I need he will go days and now weeks without contact. Though we both have shown each other evidence of past texts and calls to the other sometimes not going through I can’t keep accepting the fact our services are THAT bad. My needs are not being met and I will have a conversation with him WHEN HE REACHES OUT-because I will not reach out anymore -as a matter of fact I’m giving him a one week deadline-if no hear from him-I’m blocking!
AYODEJI ADEKIA SANNI
MAY 17th, 1946
Secretive, very attentive,clean, intelligent, amusing,hard worker. ???
It’s called Love Bombing and it mostly happens with narcissistic men. Women have to know the game and play it well.
I’ve experienced this. Nothing physical happened either, I think they just like the attention 🤷🏼♀️
What a HARD lesson to learn, but ladies, learn it we must. This used to be me, thank God for deliverance.
Thanks for commenting.
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I've never known that as a woman my job is to approve or dis-approve a man who presents himself to me!
Unfortunately, you have a generation of women that were never affirmed in their womanhood by fathers or those in their family that told those women they were worth pursuing. If a woman's self esteem was never developed she doesn't think she is worthy of being pursued by a husband. Many women started chasing love and security in their childhood, which in turn allows them to think the only way to be loved by a man is to chase and pursue it.
Truth
Very well said.
So sad. I pray our eyes will be opened
Phew 💥
Baby, I’m going through this right now! He stood me up AGAIN so I stopped calling and texting 3 days ago. I think that he wants me to chase him😂 shiiii he for the streets now💯
Girl don't bother. I haven't heard from mines in 2 in a half weeks. I text and called no call back or text to check on him and then I stopped....the ball in his court. Not doing it. Smh 😒 . What is for you shall come to you with no barriers. At 42 divorced I have no time for games anymore.
You said for the streets! I’m screaming!
This topic I need to hear! I am a single woman (37). In my workplace there are a lot of married men. And every single one of them told me that it is a shame that I am single, because I am a good woman and they said that many not so good women are in marriage. I guess this was a compliment, but I felt so bad... because I dont chase men. And also two of my married male coworker said that I have to do something, like chase a man if they dont chase me, because I dont have many time left to have children. The pressure is big for us women. Please pray for single women! God bless you pastor!🙏
Any update?
@@faithwisdom788 Hi, I dated a guy (the friends set us) and he was kind, polite but he was inconsistent (we heard each other every other day) and after two months I break up with him because of that.
Then, I joined a society for singles and I met a man there. He is chasing and pursuing me all the time, calling me every day, he is totally in to me.. But I view him just as a friend...it strange but I cant viewing him as a husband.
But I will keep going on with my life, keep working on myself and trust in dear God that my husband will found me and I will know that he is the one.
He was speaking so many jewels and truth, I wish I found this earlier than the age of 26. This would have saved me a lot of time and wasted spiritual oppression. I have argued with countess little hurt ego boys that believe they are too good to pursue a woman. I love that he uses scripture and not baseless assumptions and misogyny.
When I was younger, I chased my ex. We got married then I learned from my experience as I matured. Best teacher is the experience. Now I am happy and know me better.
I love this message! I’m 38 and think it’s weird to chase a man at ANY age! I don’t care what this World says, Ain’t no Woman suppose to be Chasing no MALE, if you got to Chase him he will Confuse YOU! Be Strong and Trust the Timing!
Am I the only one addicted to Pastor's videos? It's like we know each other 🤣🤣🤣❤️... Ps please don't stop, keep them coming. All the way from South Africa.
Another divine quality, life-changing, stimulating, and penetrating words of wisdom from our greatest pastor, Bishop RC Blakes Jr.! Feeling so happy and blessed here in the Philippines! Thank you so much, Bishop, for the good things that you have done for us. You have resonated with so many King-conscious/Queen-conscious, (from being Broken-Unconscious to healing and becoming whole and complete) Filipinos worldwide as well, Bishop RC. We love you, Bishop RC Blakes Jr.
The part about men who promote chasing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 they love to say “that’s why your single now” it’s the famous line of manipulators these days who want you to see yourself the way they WANT to see you
Yes. I have seen them exchange the word chase with “compete”. They say “You women need to “compete” for a man”. That is the same thing as chase. It is not our job to perform for a man and try to win his heart.
@@ms.a806 Absolutely, and the more women continue to perpetuate the narrative that “keeping a man” or even having a man is an indicator of success the more men will believe they have advantage to say some of the manipulative things they do
This is the kind of advice that only a Father filled with God's wisdom can give to a daughter. This is deeply appreciated. Perspective reset. Thank you ❤️. Remain in your feminine power just as God ordained ladies.
This is EXCELLENT!!! When my daughter is a little older, she will have to listen to all of your videos, this is so important!! Thank you! This was always intuitive for me.
I was just thinking about the men in my family.. all feminine men.. and they actually don’t really have anything to fill a woman up. All surface stuff. Makes my stomach a little sick. This video makes me realize that these teachings are so important. I didn’t have any men around me to teach these things.
Same here. It’s pathetic.
It's biological.. MEN are hunters. Its in them
Just forget there words,they don't respect if a woman chases.
Not a single lie was told while making this video lol! You brilliantly broke this down, if a woman doesn’t hear this and understand. She isn’t ready! I know this is the truth I live it. I am also receiving therapy to heal. One thing I know for sure be careful what you chase after because he’s not your husband! Your husband should never ask for half or lay up and have you paying for things or cheating with other women and all the things that go with a broken man. I can go on, God bless you all!
"I got to get outta here B4 I get into trouble" WORD‼️💯 😂🤣💜
This is my first time ever leaving a comment, I've been watching your eye opening content for over a year now but this message hit home the most. I've attracted narcissists and feminized men in the past and gave my money, time, and body away trying to earn/chase their love. I realize how silly I was back then. I know I had been operating in my masculine energy for too many years and thought that being a provider, protector, and pleaser were the things that defined my worth as a woman desperate to be seen for who I was. I realize how it's made me believe less and less in the possibility of real healthy relationships. I'm still learning how to get back in touch with my feminine and how to recieve. I love me but I struggle with believing a man could genuinely love me if not for some form of benefit. I know it's something I have to work on, but I have faith that I am stronger than my conditioning. Thank you R.C., I needed this.
Another great message! One of the main points you made…most women haven’t sat down to take the time to work on self and becoming a wife and let God bring the husband. So true. Focus on yourself and God will provide the husband you need after all he knows what’s best and he has designated someone just for you. Thank you Bishop Blakes and God Bless You! 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you pastor Blake’s for teaching me how not to be as a man, signed a 17 year old that’s seeking the wisdom of God. So blessed to have found your channel
“Chasers are viewed as predators. Chasers are played as game, and never honored as a prize” -RC Blakes
Brilliant!!!
My husband left me a year and half ago, he just took his bag the one night and vanished without saying anything. He has been planning it and I did not know it. The funny part is ,I knew his pin code for his phone and that week I just decided not to go through his phone and was so at ease. Had I gone through his phone and found his scheming with his partners in crime, it probably would have ended out differently but it was the Lord's doing and it was marvelous in my eyes. It's been more than a year now that I have not seen him, and trust me ,I have never called him to ask why he left ;or he must come back.. NEVER!! He had done me a great favor by leaving...now the other night he send a message saying he is coming to our city, he wants to see his daughter and I am welcome to come with. I said" I am good" you can see your daughter. Forward ever and backwards never!
Narcissist will marry a chaser.
I'm not Christian but I've benefited from your content so much. Thank you so much Pastor for taking the time to teach our generation. It is so refreshing to see a man using his platform to uplift and empower women, instead of exploit and belittle them.
God bless you and may you continue to benefit from the Christian teaching 🙏
Greetings my fellow ladies and Queens! Truly blessed to have this community with our Pastor Blakes at the helm! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
Tonight’s teaching is going to be 🔥💯…This is the kind of teaching churches need in Singles’ Ministry ✨✨✨
Amen!!!!!
Hallelujah. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
IF THIS ENTIRE 52 MINS WASNT A WORD!!! Eyes wide open. So grateful for your teachings pastor. To god be the glory for working through you.
🤦🏿♀️Ohhh Lord!
You gone make some ladies M- A - D!
Bring it Bishop!👊🏿
Yes, a necessary lesson
The truth hurts.
Oh my. This was 💯 spot on. What happened to me for 30 years trying to tell marriage counselors that roles were reversed. I did everything for him. He was a narcissist and took so advantage of my care. After decades of trying to make it work my emotional and mental health was being destroyed. I had to get out. I hope and pray God forgives me I’m thankful for the lesson learned.
I was just saying to an older woman today I WILL NOT CHASE A MAN! i dont chase I attract...whats for me will find its way....the quote i have on my phone display screen
Ladies, if you are one of the ones who RJ is talking about, don't despair. It's time to explore possible underlying issues of abandonment trauma and / or attachment issues. If you are willing to look into these issues, you will discover real freedom (emotionally, mentally and physically) from this behaviour. Because you will discover that you were ALWAYS enough, and the people you chased could NEVER have given you what you thought you wanted or needed. Instead, you will attract what you want and need, and be in a more powerful place in life.
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This teaching was completely on point about my 25 yr old daughter and the current relationship she’s in now. And when you said that this type of man is a feminine man. You confirmed for me my suspicion. I’ve already told her that he was. Powerful I wish she was ready to hear this.
Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
Amen I feel the same way my daughter so blind right now she won’t understand this powerful content
Sometimes you have to go through it to learn the truth. But this generation is so different from the 80s and 90s.
@@VeeesFlaws Oh yes! You have to go through it to the point of what I call "come to Jesus moment" and for your mindset to say I need to be doing something different to be able to receive these messages .
Yes! I need a masculine man
25:42 virtue is how a woman honors her own value
38:27 Women are not emotionally built for romantic disapproval
45:30 You should have never chased a man in the beginning, you should have perfected yourself as a woman and allowed God to bring a husband to your space
48:12 Prayer 🙏
50:26 The best is yet to come for you
I have been in this situation with my ex-fiancé. He pursued me, then we got engaged. We were happy. But after 3 years, he ended our relationship. This was very unexpected, and he even said so. Eight months after the breakup and no contact, he reached out to me. Sure sounded like reconciliation to me, but with a little time, I realized I was wrong. I began to pursue him. I know this is wrong. I know this! Now, 14 months after the breakup, I’m in the heartache again, and feeling worse than before because I devalued myself.
I have the soul ties book and this has helped me. I’ve been working on breaking the soul tie and renouncing inner vows. I’ve been learning about living in the flesh, and how to stop that and live by the spirit. I will keep listening to your content, and praying, and believing, and get back to valuing myself. I can’t believe I’ve gotten myself here. I appreciate prayers. Thank you so much.
For me this is a refresher course. At 45 in September and single for the 1st time in 10 years, I really need to watch these weekly. It is so easy to step over your own boundaries when you come into contact with a man you want to get to know.
ThNk you Mr Blakes
ThNk you
Same here- after my wonderful husband passed away 6 months ago.. I nearly started chasing a man. Thank God for Bishop Blakes!🙏
What attracts a man does not attach a man. 🤯….Virtue attaches a man and virtue never chases …. PREACH
Great message I wish my mother sat down with me to tell me this. Now at 56 and listening to your teachings Bishop Blakes I now know better. Thanks for your teachings.
True!!!! I wrote a book about maintaining virtue. This was right on time. We women sometimes get extremely sad when a man loses interest and quickly moves on.
I have no words!! All I can do is wave my hands and tell God thank you for this word that I so thankfully needed🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This was a Wonderful confirmation to where my heart is at… I’m 60 years old, recently lost my husband after 40 years of marriage and I agree 100 % that a woman should not chase a man at no terms.
Sex catches but it does not keep! You would think this is common sense but as the saying goes “common sense ain’t so common.”
Chasing a man is a waste of time and energy.
Ladies Remember: What you do to get him is what you’ll have to do to keep him. If you have to chase him, you will forever be chasing. If you have to convince a man to stay chances are he’s already long gone.
Your self respect is crucial.
When you don’t respect yourself don’t expect a man to.
I'm a married woman but I listen to you all the time & still find many gems of wisdom. I share your videos & knowledge with the single young women in my family. They have started sharing it with their friends. Thank you for all you do!!
I just shared his channel with a woman who needs it.
This is beautiful 😍
Acquire Value without Price.....Powerful ❤❤❤
Whew! I needed to hear this in my 20's. Even though I was pursued, I didn't hold out long enough. Very few of us sat down and still long enough to let God do His job- Ouch!right, right again. Mr. Blake's these words truly were edifying, they didn't have to be written or organized. They were honest, real and the TRUTH. God bless you
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I looove that song on your intro!!! Every time I hear it, it ministers to my spirit… Such a special anointed 🎵song❤️❤️❤️
He’s right in the past when I chased I never got the man most of them want to use you if you chase them. I no longer do that now and I have found man who are angry because I’m not chasing them that’s how I know that they are toxic. I match energy💕
Nowadays, there are so many women that are willing to chase that some men have grown accustomed to that kind of behavior. They think you're crazy if you don't put forth all the effort & feed their ego. It's weird to say the least.
@@dii-N-sd I know it’s part of the culture now it’s like it’s normal. Social media got them thinking it’s okay too.
The sperm chases the egg, the egg doesn’t chase the sperm.
My personal mantra: I'm not going to chase you. Yes I'm single, celibate, patient, and that's perfectly OK.
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I will never understand the foolish trend of women chasing men. How can theses women even have the strength to chase down grown men?? When I get home from working on the nursing unit; I am so tired that the only things that I can chase are my hot bath and a meal. Where are these women getting all this energy from???🤷🏽
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🤦🏿♀️ WOW!!
Some of us had a family of origin where our fathers and mothers neglected and then sometimes noticed us or abused us... its a powerful driver... seeking validation ... resolving childhood issues thru familiar dynamics.
Good question about the energy.
I’m tired 😴 just hearing the word “chase” Lol 😂 that indicates running to me and unless I’m exercising or physically running from a criminal I’m not running so chasing somebody is out of the question.
Thank God I was pursued by my husband. The older I got the idea of chasing a man was not an option.
Ask that again???
Thank you RC Blakes, you are truly God’s gift to women. My life has changed tremendously since I started listening to you. I went from being desperate for any guy to living in my femininity and knowing my value as a woman. Im focused on self development in every sphere of my life, spiritually, physically, mentally and Im a happier person, and a more peaceful person than I have ever been. I believe when the time is right God will send me my man, but I’m no longer searching
I was listening to this all the way in Antigua 🇦🇬 (Caribbean), this was one of my favorite videos. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. 😊
When a woman or young lady chases or pursues a man, she generally loses herself & her ability to live life in a free, fun, and light hearted manner. Instead of chasing men, our focus should be on making sure that when a man/husband pursues us he finds something worth catching. As Bishop Blakes has said in the past, men chase and pursue, women attract and approve.
Yes Queens!!! Let's continue to adjust our crowns and wear it well! I will never go back to looking for happiness in toxic men! Create that happiness within yourself! I am praying that God will send the right man to add to my happiness, add to my value, speak life into my spirit, and build a legacy with me! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽
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You are absolutely right, I used to call my first husband the little girl his mom and dad never had.i did chase, the era I grew up in you were an old maid if not married ( I'm 64) these women who listen to you are sooooo blessed to have you, I can't go back in time, but these women can have a great life by listening to you.
TRUTH HURTS some people can't handle it! But, I APPRECIATE YOU and THANK GOD FOR YOU 🙏🙏🙏🙏and THE MESSAGE because, this Generation is lost🤦♀️🤦♀️
Excellent message! Thank you for breaking it down so clearly. I grew up without the presence and guidance of my father in my life. Thank you Bishop RC for all you do to edify us women!
I am woman and I totally agree with every thing you said! My mother taught me that very early on. You do a great job with this kind of teaching! Sorry for your frustration at times, I can understand why. I am not happy with this generation the way it is and I'm old school at age 58. I been divorced 28 years and have not had one date in 28 years. I wish to marry again but the right man has not found me yet to pursue me. Pray this right special man finds me, for I have waited 28 years! Thankyou and God Bless You!
I'm looking forward to this good preaching..This reminds me of all the things my Mother & Grandmother taught us🙏👍😇💕
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Also must add ladies when man tells you he doesn't know what he wants. He's not sure if wants relationship or he tells you he needs his space. Leave the situation immediately break away from him. It's bunch foolishness men know what they want. So often us women fall that kind of foolishness as well.
Chased a man or 2 in my life& it never ended well. But oh I have so much wisdom now. Thankful for this reminder though.
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OH my goodness...the marine spirits are definitely involved in many cases.
Thank you! I receive it! I know THE BEST IS YET TO COME FOR ME🙏🏼
Not sure why, but typically I do not leave a comment on your videos, probably because there are so many I dont think you will ever see them. Of all the videos I've watched and all the wisdom I have received, this video right here has touched my soul. I've been watching you for a few years now. God bless you and sister Lisa. Keep up the God work.
Definitely needed to hear this I'm tired of giving the wrong signals and not getting the results, the rest is on me after receiving knowledge.
I agree! This is the push I needed to bring me back from that insanity. Smh. 🙌🏽
Excellent conversation!!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! So needed to hear this message!! 😊
The introduction song in itself is so powerful!!!!!!!!!
I love to hear it in the beginning of your lessons/messages.
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Hi! Do you know the name of the song or if it is available for download? Thanks!
@@dturner6599 No I don’t. I wish I did. I am going to search and see if I can find it.
I am sooooo happy to be here on time for this word!!! I already know whatever you’re going to say is God sent & much needed!!🖤🖤🖤
Real talk... Hallelujah. 👏👏👏
In Jesus name.
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Love this!!! You are so right!!!!
Thank you so much! God bless you and yours.
Unbelievable!!!! So simply Crystal clear.... how could we have been so blind.... my heart is always grateful that God brought you to me through you tube. 💛 thank you so very much Pastor. I wait for you to bring us God's word often. It keeps me learning every time you speak. God bless you all. Amen. And Amen.
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OUCH!!! I’m ready to hear this good word!
This was amazing. Thank you and may God continue to bless you.
I'm So Glad I Listsn To This This Just Woke Me Right Up Thank You R C Blake's
I really listened and agreed with your other two videos of not chasing a man. I think you tied it up very thoroughly in this one. I have chased before and I had to learn it the hard way. We all want step by step directions and in your message, we have just that. I believe that there is no other way to do it for our safety our peace, our financial, and our joy. And the Lord will remind us that we’re going the right way, in the times we aren’t pursued. I’ll be listening to this again and again. Thank-you
Amen and thank you for the Word.
Great wisdom here ! What a blessing you have been to my life. So many need to hear your messages
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much!