HEALING A CRUSHED SPIRIT by rc blakes

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    HEALING A CRUSHED HEART by Bishop RC Blakes
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +372

    THANKS FOR STOPPING IN. Please LIKE 👍

  • @suskelleykelley7241
    @suskelleykelley7241 Год назад +697

    Never want or desire a man who doesn't want you!! It's his loss. Learn to love YOU more than a jerk

    • @GodsLove911
      @GodsLove911 Год назад +18

      ❤️💕💕 Frogs can't live with Royalty!!!!

    • @tynaangelici3023
      @tynaangelici3023 Год назад +36

      Thank you. this is what I’m dealing with right now.six months later still trying to heal.

    • @Sdollrossi
      @Sdollrossi Год назад +22

      Yeah but how does one begin to love themselves? It’s easier said than done I don’t know how to start

    • @rpw6033
      @rpw6033 Год назад +6

      Even if you are married to that man.

    • @k.prince6799
      @k.prince6799 Год назад +28

      @@Sdollrossi Queen you just have to know that you are valuable and worthy of the highest form of healthy love. Begin with The Word which teaches us how to love ourselves and others. Then set your standards/boundaries/consequences for relationships/friendships. Anyone who doesn't align with them should not be in the forefront of your life. Best wishes on your Self-Love journey. ❤

  • @letmebelovedwithoutthefake7100
    @letmebelovedwithoutthefake7100 Год назад +218

    🙌🏽 Heal Lord! Everyone that comes across this video. In the name of Jesus….🙏

  • @northshorelight35
    @northshorelight35 9 месяцев назад +24

    Yes. I have had my heart crushed. God answered my prayer though. He sent me the most amazing man ever and that man married me.

  • @kita-1116
    @kita-1116 Год назад +269

    Don’t let being crushed guide you into another bad/toxic relationship. Some people have sensors for broken women and are predators towards them. Love on yourself and remember to aim high... AND recognize those early red flags to save yourself future heartache. Don’t be a desperate/low esteem dater. ❤️

    • @amberensminger7247
      @amberensminger7247 Год назад +12

      This is amazing advise Ms.Kita I need to learn how to walk away when red flags presents themselves 💗

    • @meetai1774
      @meetai1774 Год назад +13

      These are WISE words I never knew these types of people existed and it’s true it was at my lowest broken point when a cruel person found their way in…. Do not let this happen to you if you are reading this❤️‍🩹 look to GOD not to others and He will heal you..

    • @kimberly0717
      @kimberly0717 Год назад +13

      Yes, most men can detect vulnerability or weakness due to their hunter instincts. My mom always told us to “never jump from the pot into the frying pan”.

    • @jimmylittle9295
      @jimmylittle9295 Год назад

      @@meetai1774 c

    • @shebrownsuga
      @shebrownsuga Год назад +2

      Amen

  • @soposh5671
    @soposh5671 Год назад +342

    “Nothing good comes from holding onto something that’s clearly dead”.. Wow!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +6

      Nothing but a bad smell

  • @lakeshasykes1860
    @lakeshasykes1860 Год назад +246

    Thank you so much for sharing this. My heart has been shattered for the past 6 months over the end of a 4 yr. situationship. My emotions and heart manipulated and abused. In counseling right now to help me to heal from this. Nothing more painful than realizing you didn't mean as much as what you thought you did to someone you loved. Thanks you RC Blakes Jr.

    • @coleenchapman8889
      @coleenchapman8889 Год назад +21

      Lakesha Sykes it’s the worst pain!!! I was blindsided by this revelation but trying to get stronger.

    • @kimberly0717
      @kimberly0717 Год назад +28

      Remember that is a issue with that person not you! Some people lack the ability to appreciate or value gifts. The right person will see YOU without you trying! 💞

    • @monicanicole738
      @monicanicole738 Год назад +11

      I’m here with you 😔💔

    • @T.pattzem
      @T.pattzem Год назад +8

      I feel this too , it sucks

    • @shadiamonforever21
      @shadiamonforever21 Год назад +8

      I’m sorry! Praying for your comfort and peace

  • @kadinsmomma07
    @kadinsmomma07 Год назад +105

    "Allowing your heart to break, so your soul can heal" 🥺😭😭

  • @d.l.w.3916
    @d.l.w.3916 Год назад +194

    Yes. Betrayal is a hurt that is incredibly hard. I’m there now.

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +7

      Move forward thru it.....
      there will be scars. Proof you survived.💕

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +11

      Yes, Betrayal is Personal & is unexpected ....it's not from an enemy. Those wounds cut deep. It's a slow healing process because this pain isn't physical. Forgiveness is where healing will begin.
      Been there, still healing...it's only by the grace of God. 🙏

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Год назад +7

      @@rosemariefrusteri4087 grace of God indeed. It was unbearable but I knew I had to cycle through the emotional hurt in order to move forward.

    • @nataliemoore9965
      @nataliemoore9965 Год назад +4

      I will pray that you move pass the pain

    • @nadinehammonds1312
      @nadinehammonds1312 Год назад

      Incest...."given men my heart but they gave me a dagger."

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 Год назад +113

    God will mend and heal a broken heart! They say time heal all wounds, that's God and his healing power by his stripes you are healed!

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 Год назад +360

    This will be a great topic to speak on because after going through a heartbreak and feeling disappointment your feelings do hurt but we have to remind ourselves that God will mend a broken heart he’s done it for me even though I’m still in my healing three after realizing I was a narcissistic Situationship I’m just glad God has kept me through it all and I am much wiser now🙏🏽💯💜

    • @nolajones366
      @nolajones366 Год назад +21

      Same here keep the faith God has it all under control

    • @jenniferadderley2566
      @jenniferadderley2566 Год назад +30

      I was also in a narcissist situationship. It's a blessing how God show his children through pruning and give us the knowledge to move forward with the lessons we learn from those type of situations. To become stronger and wiser. We are Queens that deserve much more with Godifidence. May God continue to strengthen you through the healing process, you got this God got you with his Greatness. In Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏❤ 👑

    • @almacolic
      @almacolic Год назад +8

      same here 🙏🙌♥️

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +11

      It's unfortunate, I understand it all to well.
      Keep movin forward & shining your light & love

    • @latoyam1785
      @latoyam1785 Год назад +16

      Thank you for sharing your journey! Gives me more hope! I wasted 3 years and when I walked away from a narcissistic relationship, I left heartbroken and disappointed! God is Good! He’s been pulling me through each day…..bad or good! I don’t wish this feeling on anybody! Narcissistic abuse is real and it just leaves you numb and confused! I gave my all and he was never satisfied! But there is light at the end of the tunnel with God! Finally moved to another state and finally feeling a sense of peace….God’s Peace! Thank You Lord!❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @lynnec8832
    @lynnec8832 Год назад +224

    He's the best. I'm watching from N. Cali.. I discovered Pastor Blake 4years ago, coming outta a dark, lost place Abusive relationship...... BUT GOD!! I watch his videos daily at least 2 a day.. impacted my life, role model father figure. Thank you Pastor. God bless everyone watching as well. ✝️

    • @BC-qb2vw
      @BC-qb2vw Год назад +6

      Watching from northern cali too! Blessings to you sis 🙌🏽

    • @jenniferjones3657
      @jenniferjones3657 Год назад +10

      Keep walking Sis. I have been through and restorative power of God is just amazing. Oh the peace that resides in my home. I would not trade this peace for nothing.

    • @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900
      @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900 Год назад +2

      God bless 🙌you. From 🇵🇱Poland

    • @LarennPBel
      @LarennPBel Год назад +2

      Yessssss I understand that. I started watching his stuff at the end of 2019

    • @constanceconnor7908
      @constanceconnor7908 Год назад +4

      God bless you as well. I'm so grateful for discovering Pastor Blake's I've had so much Devastation in my life over the past few years and I'm trying to patch my everything back together! Heart so health everything has been shattered but I know that God is working and better things will be coming. Always keep the faith

  • @KL-pq3mz
    @KL-pq3mz Год назад +160

    Yes. Been crushed almost beyond repair. Just ground zero devastation! So thankful for God and for this channel! Yes Bishop Blakes, your so right! On the healing journey to repair this brokenness. Never lose hope and faith in what can be! Never lose your shine ✨ and never give up. God has you! He has you! 💝💝

    • @haileywilliams2108
      @haileywilliams2108 Год назад +7

      I’m going though a crushed heat right now

    • @MODISHYE
      @MODISHYE Год назад +8

      Yes he does, it hurts for the moment but once you allow God to heal you , comfort and trust Him 100% He will restore you and give you the peace that surpasses all understanding.

    • @lelo46
      @lelo46 Год назад +4

      I am too. I would love to know what you’re going through…

    • @pendomayeka588
      @pendomayeka588 Год назад +3

      Painful but wise fatherly counsel.Bless you Bishop Blake's on time message

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Год назад

      God bless you sister.

  • @viviananderson7663
    @viviananderson7663 Год назад +20

    I am getting over a narcissist relationship. I didn't realize what was happening to me, until I started listening to your messages. I thank God I found your messages

  • @Sonya21786
    @Sonya21786 7 дней назад +1

    I have watched this over and over for continual healing. This ministry is such a blessing.

  • @brettswiferose50
    @brettswiferose50 5 месяцев назад +17

    Had my heart crushed by a soul tie and i asked God take this weight off of me, i wanted the pain to pass...I cried for 7days before God lifted it from me

  • @Shrimpylo
    @Shrimpylo Год назад +136

    I called off my wedding 5 months ago and this message was posted just in time. thank you Pastor Blakes

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom Год назад +17

      So much better to call it off, than to go through incredible pain... Then a divorce... I know!

    • @carterthegamernoob6128
      @carterthegamernoob6128 Год назад +11

      God bless you sister for your strength and healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @ellenjohnson5323
      @ellenjohnson5323 Год назад +9

      Thankfully you called it off. God will mend your broken heart.

    • @aminamaradesa9778
      @aminamaradesa9778 Год назад +15

      i admire your courage...

    • @lizashone1976
      @lizashone1976 Год назад +2

      Good for you!!

  • @DeemMeBeautiful
    @DeemMeBeautiful Год назад +90

    My God the level of revelation I’m receiving from this teaching!!! I was in the middle of a mental/emotional breakdown all yesterday!!! Dysregulated, Ruminating and obsessing smh This is so on time!!! God wants me HEALED

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +10

      Keep your eyes on Our Father. Be in the moment.
      You are never alone.

    • @robinc5226
      @robinc5226 Год назад

      Ugh. Same. Right now. So dysregulated. 😩😩😩

    • @lawandalh2387
      @lawandalh2387 Год назад

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @Albastar7869
      @Albastar7869 Год назад +1

      Same...so exhausted, but don’t seem to be able to stop this.

    • @charisselewis5401
      @charisselewis5401 10 месяцев назад

      I would like to know how you all are feeling now?

  • @amieklein6043
    @amieklein6043 Год назад +35

    I’ve fought for so long and I’m so so tired. My will is broken, trying to find my drive again and envision a new future. I just don’t want to be disappointed and burnt out again. Thank you for message as I keep healing.

  • @Banyi570
    @Banyi570 Год назад +15

    Your teachings have changed my life. No longer a slave to my weaknesses. I’m Queen conscious. Woke ❤

  • @heyonope7682
    @heyonope7682 Год назад +43

    This is for me, choose pain of holding on or choose pain of letting go... he can go ! Opening door to Gods best 🙏 🙌

  • @CH-tp3re
    @CH-tp3re Год назад +27

    11 years with a broken narcissist. The PTSD is real. I have God Our Lord Jesus Christ leading this healing I need ..

  • @lynellb
    @lynellb Год назад +17

    "u need to feel the pain"..so very true. As badly as it hurts, sit in the pain and process it. I learned so much from this experience. Be sure to include God in the healing...🙏🏾💕 Be patient with yourself and don't rush the process. 😘

    • @markesastewart4741
      @markesastewart4741 Год назад +1

      I have sista come this choosing to devorce beating myself ... Forgiving myself being kind to me failing forward to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically 🙏🏾💜💕😭💐 I'am above never beneath .. finally putting distance inspite of how I'am feeling.Embracing my new Direction.😘 sisterly love

  • @donnastotts6816
    @donnastotts6816 Год назад +61

    I've been there...CRUSHED, the rebuilding part has been tough, but I am reminded of a song that says, Lord, DONT MOVE MY MOUNTAIN BUT GIVE ME THE STRENGTH TO CLIMB!! In this process, I have had a LOT of quiet moments with GOD...he has NOW been able to Minister to me without all the EXTRA chatter...

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Год назад +38

    I had my heart crushed and someone feet wrapped around my neck(figuratively) . But God’s loving Grace saved me!!!

  • @imralljoshae5978
    @imralljoshae5978 Год назад +63

    Amen, God continues to pull me up from the pain I could never fathom!! I don’t wish divorce on anyone.

  • @jamekac.stuckey3228
    @jamekac.stuckey3228 Год назад +25

    I take full accountability for how I feel and what I’m going through right now. Again, I’m loving myself enough to walk away from the things that no longer serve me.

    • @nicoleoneal5115
      @nicoleoneal5115 9 месяцев назад +1

      I am with you on this, I am also taking full responsibility for my action that should have never been compromised,

  • @MsVMirka
    @MsVMirka Год назад +30

    10/13/2022- I choose to let go of the pain of holding onto the dead relationship I had. Though it is painful to move forward and deal with myself, I choose to grow through this. In Jesus name!!! Amen!

    • @susannabbosa9415
      @susannabbosa9415 7 месяцев назад +1

      I choose to do the same today, the27/11/23!Praise God!

  • @caur739
    @caur739 Год назад +32

    This resonates strongly......a broken world full of broken people

  • @anietieoduah9794
    @anietieoduah9794 Год назад +25

    I'm crushed. Definitely am there. It's been 4 yrs and I'm ready to move on. It's very lonely and sometimes hopeless. Lord help

    • @Godlywoman88
      @Godlywoman88 Год назад +3

      I can say the same. I've moved to a ew city 3 years ago, letting family and papers go. I have felt alone and as if there was no point for my life, along with many other emotions.

    • @valjean9581
      @valjean9581 10 месяцев назад

      I hope you're better now

  • @promisegrace2248
    @promisegrace2248 Год назад +33

    Been there I thank God for healing me it was not easy but the Heartbreak was necessary for me to open my eyes to see how mess up I was to praise God and give him the glory for healing me

  • @aliatianna888
    @aliatianna888 8 месяцев назад +3

    Idk. My heart has been heavy for a very long time. Just when I thought I met that special someone, disappointment came beating my behind again. I’m just now getting to the place where I can feel peace in my life. It’s taking time but I have so much to heal from. I’ve been single and not looking for about a year now. I plan to make it two. Next year My focus is on finishing school and meeting new friends 😊

  • @BC-qb2vw
    @BC-qb2vw Год назад +47

    Meditation has deeply helped me become aware of the obsessive and destructive thoughts and clears my mind and spirit so that I may hear and receive messages from the divine 🙌🏽 I believe with all my heart that anyone on a spiritual path will deeply benefit from
    Developing a meditation practice 💫

    • @a.b.2405
      @a.b.2405 Год назад +1

      I’m trying to be consistent with my meditation practice.

    • @charli2285
      @charli2285 Год назад +1

      Yes amen, thank you for blessing my spirit. Crushed heart!

    • @charli2285
      @charli2285 Год назад

      Tammy pastor tonight has been great with your wisdom!

  • @laceylynne5848
    @laceylynne5848 Год назад +15

    I think the only ‘good’ thing that comes out of having a crushed spirit and heart.. is it makes you look at yourself in every single way possible. God has kept me isolated for a while now. But I went from being on a platform, to being all by myself. Warfare. Everything. But God makes beauty out of all things He loves. I think the best lesson I learned out of my last relationship I have to fix me first. And that means without projecting my toxic energy onto other people. Blessings pastor. 🙏🏽💕

  • @AbsolutelyLinda555
    @AbsolutelyLinda555 Год назад +29

    Ur as real as it gets I’ll NEVER LET this WISDOM GO 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽thank you

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess Год назад +48

    Thank you for your time pastor and for fighting through the low energy.🥰

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Год назад +98

    Yesss. I needed this today. Was really in tears about how bad I messed up my past. Thank you

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +10

      Key word....."past". 💕👍

    • @francescahmulenga3265
      @francescahmulenga3265 Год назад +3

      Amen

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Год назад +13

      Be sure to forgive yourself since u feel u messed up your past, forgive YOU...God gives us brand new mercies everyday, if he can have mercy on you why can't you have mercy on you? 😘💕🙏🏾

    • @kekebrown4119
      @kekebrown4119 Год назад +6

      Yelp me too. I allowed people to break me down so many times because of my brokenness.

    • @jean_6524
      @jean_6524 Год назад +2

      @@kekebrown4119 Amen,it's painful when I realized I wasn't perfect at all in my past.I had many spirits back then and pride was one of them. I was some of those bad words ppl called me back then. I didn't care because I had a good job. So therefore I thought everyone should just almost bow for me. I could go on.. but I felt your message spiritually and wanted to share.

  • @krystinmcadams4594
    @krystinmcadams4594 Год назад +34

    I am happy to have found your channel. I def am crushed / broken / sour right now. Praying my heart out for a light at the end of the tunnel

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Год назад +17

    Very deep. I thought I had repented and was humble. After today's breakdown over my past. I really repented

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 Год назад +65

    I needed this tonight Pastor. Yes I have had my heart crushed. Recently, as in the last few years and got tired of holding onto a group of co workers opposite of my personality and Wickedness and evil lived in them...including boss and supervisor. It was causing sickness, illness, and confusion. I let go 7/29. I Feel FREE to Live again. 🤗

    • @nicholajoseph1433
      @nicholajoseph1433 Год назад +5

      I have the same identical situation. I had to hurry find a job to n my career field , and resigned in 6/30 . God bless pastor . Powerful msg

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Год назад +5

      Look into cassandra mack
      About work situations
      She's amazing
      Here on RUclips..
      I def had the work issue
      Still do...
      Her teachings have helped me understand i wasn't alone..
      She talks alot of work issues
      Friendship co workers
      Business pertners etc

    • @weireffie29
      @weireffie29 10 месяцев назад

      Thanks for such hope and encouragement.

  • @fefeanng7
    @fefeanng7 6 месяцев назад +3

    I’m over the broken hearts seriously after all these years of having them I mean damn, I only have one 😢. Thank you for this Sir

  • @nataliemoore9965
    @nataliemoore9965 Год назад +4

    God keep giving me the strength and healing

    • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
      @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Год назад

      Hello my name is Natalie too🙏. He will give us the strength and healing to move on😞😇

  • @zuli7hernandez80
    @zuli7hernandez80 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Lord, thank you Jesus for guiding me to this video in this moment. To guiding me to pastor Blake’s channel…this has brought me so much inside, knowledge, wisdom, healing…
    There are no coincidences. The Holy Spirit directed me here
    But tonight more than ever I needed this bc I’ve been really struggling with mending my broken heart/crushed spirit
    My mind has being obsessive
    And I’ve been hurting so much n can’t stop thinking abt him despite the fact that he hurt me so much, it’s been almost 5 mths since the break up (the fact that his my neighbor makes things that much harder bc I’m reminded everyday of what happened, pain, and the fact that he has already move on. It hurts like hell!!)
    But I thank you pastor Blakes. Thank you Jesus for his words
    This has helped me tremendously!
    This is so wonderful! ❤
    Thank you father god 🙏🏼
    In Jesus name I pray 🙌🏼
    This too should pass. I will heal. I will be patient n I will trust in you lord
    Amen

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Год назад +24

    Man of God, I praise and thank you, you are a TRUE BLESSING, ALWAYS!!!!

  • @caranasser3710
    @caranasser3710 Год назад +5

    It’s been about a year and a half. I’ve prayed and done everything I can think of and Im still devastated. I keep expecting it to get better.

  • @chosen1612
    @chosen1612 Год назад +8

    Mine heart has been crushed more than I like to admit but it wasn’t until the last time that I really stop and realized everything wasn’t normal… I had a wounded heart… But God…I finally stopped to reflect, learn and grow through the pain….lots of nights of tears… I’ve now been single for over 4 yrs healing and loving myself.., I feel confidence have forgiven myself yet still growing and healing but wiser 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
    Thanks for your messages 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️

    • @tommyfoster5616
      @tommyfoster5616 Год назад +1

      How u do it ,,, 😢😭🙏🏽

    • @chosen1612
      @chosen1612 Год назад

      @@tommyfoster5616 1. Lots of prayer 2. Strong conviction to do what’s right for me so I’m not played again… don’t believe the nonsense… 3. Journal thoughts a feeling…
      Why be with someone that doesn’t really care about you and playing games… you know the difference… if you go for the games you will end up hurt again…

  • @user-ih5hh9ox2o
    @user-ih5hh9ox2o 3 месяца назад +1

    My heart has been crushed and still crushed, I'm seeking God

  • @lorrainedemarco4927
    @lorrainedemarco4927 Год назад +7

    Excellent message! Every time I'm feeling weak and wanting to look back to my past, I just turn your messages on and listen to them and they guide me right back to God again. Thank you for investing your time and effort in us women, who find ourselves on the wrong path in life. Thank you for always pointing us back to God and reminding us that God can heal us and bring us the life that we hunger for one day. We just need to take your messages and actually apply them in our lives! Again, thank you 😊

  • @onelelabase1778
    @onelelabase1778 Год назад +16

    I chose the pain of letting it go a couple of months ago, and after watching this video I broke down for the first time since
    I really thought I had this under control
    I have a lot of work to do.

  • @nathaliejimenez110
    @nathaliejimenez110 Год назад +7

    You mentioned around 23:30 about how..” you left my channel because somethings you didn’t want to hear.” I watched your channel probably more than 5 years ago. Today I am watching this in the process of healing from such a pain - I could’ve avoided if I would’ve watched more videos and had an open heart to God and trusting His path. Amazing that you said this. Grateful for your messages and my Heavenly Father’s huge mercies!

  • @arikawi
    @arikawi Год назад +33

    Ahhh yes, thank you sweet Jesus for this one tonight. And thank you to the good Pastor Blakes for his obedience to the Lord regarding what to speak to us about, every time. I’m praying in advance that the good Lord will grant us all the healing that we may need, and mend our broken hearts. Amen.

  • @Rashmi_Motivation
    @Rashmi_Motivation Год назад +6

    Let all broken heart heal🙏

  • @naticat15
    @naticat15 Год назад +26

    This is SO timely. Speaking straight to my heart ❤️ Thank You.

  • @fakouabynum2385
    @fakouabynum2385 Год назад +5

    often times we love and live in the fantasy of the personality of the person- job, money, looks, lifestyle (who dsnt value them) instead of waking up to who the person is in character. Hence, the unending abuse and pain. Find yourself first and ur values are the core foundations of all kinds of relationships

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 Год назад +2

    Everywhere I go I see happy couples. This is what I desire.

  • @AbsolutelyLinda555
    @AbsolutelyLinda555 Год назад +13

    Thanks for sharing your DEPLETED ENERGY 🙏🏽UR APPRECIATED 🥰FEEL BETTER 🙏🏽

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways Год назад +10

    GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR BLAKES & MRS. BLAKES!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @shannonmcgill8206
    @shannonmcgill8206 Год назад +4

    I have been abandoned repeatedly and rejected, left without resources and feeling like I needed to lie when people asked me where my husband was. The crushing part was that I went through that more than once. 😭

  • @alisha4232
    @alisha4232 Год назад +2

    I lived in a marriage for 25 years of heart ache that he put me through. It took me three years of counseling to get my life back. And become a better woman.

  • @kingdomcome5262
    @kingdomcome5262 Год назад +11

    Just reading the comments here ❤️🙏🏼 I'm in a season of my life of healing. I think what hurts is to finally come to the realization that when someone doesn't care about you, used you, called you out of your name.. and all you were simply doing was remaining obedient to God's instruction, but got taken for weak. Then you broke completely. It's a hard reality to face. From being so confident to God slowly picking me back up. 🙏🏼🕊️☀️

    • @bluebirdwing6021
      @bluebirdwing6021 Год назад

      I so get this. God sees. He sees. 🎉

    • @tamisharowland4933
      @tamisharowland4933 Год назад

      I feel like you're talking about me I'm trying to heal I was in a 17 year relationship I have two kids with him it's so hard I'm doing this by myself and all I do is cry and pray I feel so stupid because I stayed for so long

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Год назад +1

      @@tamisharowland4933 You're not stupid. You hoped, you loved, you thought the kids needed that father in the home and you sacrificed. It's ok to be confused. I sure went through it too. It's so painful to find out when you finally do get out, that you caused for more damage than you ever could have guessed. You only realize this when you're on that other side, attempting to heal. Oh my, have I found this out. I felt foolish and made a fool (by his cheating and the nasty way he did it) for some time too. Now I give myself grace and love. What I'm going through to get to full healing is bad enough, I won't let myself or let the devil make it all the worse.

  • @cindydelu4055
    @cindydelu4055 Год назад +6

    I NEEDED THIS! Father God, heal us all.

  • @khatanialemon1295
    @khatanialemon1295 Год назад +20

    I feel my heart is crushing. What is sad about it is that I see everyone is happy with their life except me. I been crying most of the time. I been this way for a couple of months. I don’t have nobody to talk too.

    • @Tameka_White
      @Tameka_White Год назад +3

      I’m so sorry for what your going through.

    • @susanmunyi5680
      @susanmunyi5680 Год назад +7

      You have someone close to you that you can imagine talk to God who created you and who loves you so much God sees you hurting even if you don't feel His presence at the moment I assure you God is closer to you than you can imagine.

    • @allyb5156
      @allyb5156 Год назад +1

      Khatania do you have a church home ?

    • @donnastotts6816
      @donnastotts6816 Год назад +2

      Praying for you sis......you'll be alright. Keep your head up and look to the hills ....consider therapy, its helped me a LOT.. be blessed

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Год назад +2

      I haven't had anyone to talk with.....so, I started writing.....I have years of journals. Try it....it's therapeutic. God bless you. Remember, you aren't alone.

  • @maiangellove8949
    @maiangellove8949 Год назад +35

    It feels good to be happy alone. God bless you Pastor!💕

  • @theresanatiemumba9962
    @theresanatiemumba9962 Год назад +12

    Am sharing this message with my girlfriend she just got a massive heartbreak.. she is struggling to let go but i believe upon her hearing this message something will shift within her ..Thank you Pastor , you have really been helping us

  • @Lifeisfun84
    @Lifeisfun84 Год назад +10

    This man is spot on … always! ….. I was like why am I so hurt still after 6 months …. Everything he says was on my mind , so glad he explained this….. just keeping moving don’t stay stuck , stay with the proces …. Your feelings are not final…. Stay focus on the outcome… 🙏🏾

  • @lisaharris5473
    @lisaharris5473 Год назад +8

    Pastor, I listen to your videos at least 2 or 3 times a day, to all scenarios in my Life from filing divorce in 2019 till now, still in court it has REALLY BEEN HELPFUL, no father as a leader 22 years of a marriage with to be said in my 40s... God knows 🙏 this has changed me Forever...blessings upon your ministry

  • @suzannepownall6400
    @suzannepownall6400 11 месяцев назад +1

    Amen 🔥

  • @BlessedByTheeMostHigh
    @BlessedByTheeMostHigh Год назад +2

    Here for the playback! I love the intro song! 🤎

  • @kendradamm1428
    @kendradamm1428 Год назад +13

    Become comfortable with discomfort. Very good advice!! I needed this tonight. Thank you.

  • @jaywill6783
    @jaywill6783 Год назад +7

    Amen, it hurts like nothing else

  • @nma78112
    @nma78112 Год назад +1

    I have been there and am currently there right now Pastor Blake's, I have been crying out to My Father God to comfort me for yet another failed relationship.
    I am tired, I believe I can do better through God's wisdom in my judgement on choosing men.

  • @RLC8093
    @RLC8093 Год назад +1

    I remember being in a broken place and never seemed like the pain was going to end, but let me tell you, take it 1 day at a time and it gets easier, but make sure you heal completely because if not you will fall into the same trap over and over until you finally get it right. After i was set free I said to God, I FINALLY GOT IT! AND BE GETTING BLESSED EVERY SINCE. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!

  • @viettehunter2854
    @viettehunter2854 Год назад +26

    Yessssssss...I'm in this place! Divorce & the death of my mother...I feel like I'm on this journey alone! Brokenhearted!

    • @princesssawyer9345
      @princesssawyer9345 Год назад +5

      I’ve been there, exact same place as you 3 years ago! Stay close to God! It’s the only way you will get through! To God be the glory🙌🏾 I can say I’m in a much better place

    • @kmack3202
      @kmack3202 Год назад +3

      May God continue to bless you, I was at that exact point a year ago. By his Grace I’m still standing

    • @judithvenable3113
      @judithvenable3113 Год назад +3

      I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and I pray for your strength as you journey through both situations. Divorce is a type of death, too, for so many hopes and dreams that you may have had for your marriage. However, after a season of pain and time for reflection and grieving, you will regain your joy. God can give you double for your trouble and "make your latter days, your best days." Think about Job and how he gained so much more after so much loss. Keep God at the forefront and talk to Him honestly about your feelings - the good, the bad, and the ugly. He already knows everything about you and is faithful to bless you in every area of your life!! You are not alone!

    • @viettehunter2854
      @viettehunter2854 Год назад +2

      @@judithvenable3113 Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I will keep God first!

    • @viettehunter2854
      @viettehunter2854 Год назад +1

      @@princesssawyer9345 Thank you so much!

  • @shanievans2371
    @shanievans2371 Год назад +6

    Happy and blessed to be here…joining from The Bahamas 🇧🇸. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @tracylondon844
    @tracylondon844 Год назад +2

    MY HEART HAS BEEN CRUSHED, BUT I THANK GOD FOR BEING THE HEALER

  • @jenniferb5342
    @jenniferb5342 Год назад +28

    Just purchased the book Father Daughter talk. Thank you to the person who recommended it!❤️

  • @fatman7916
    @fatman7916 Год назад +4

    Good evening to all. Waiting for this presentation. Rose

  • @lisam6907
    @lisam6907 Год назад +15

    Such wise words..I really needed to hear this as I’m going through it

  • @lorettamarshall7577
    @lorettamarshall7577 Год назад +2

    Yes, I am embarrassed RC Blake , I really am this is the best word that I didn't want to admit Amen.

  • @erickazinnerman8525
    @erickazinnerman8525 Год назад +5

    The intro song 💗💗 so beautiful and powerful

  • @kbraxt2613
    @kbraxt2613 Год назад +4

    Absolutely have! Had my heart crushed.

  • @user-pf6lt5iv5y
    @user-pf6lt5iv5y 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank RC music trigger me to start to reminisce …..out came the pain he does not want me never did 😢❤

  • @thanksmuch8547
    @thanksmuch8547 Год назад +1

    I found the only way to heal my crushed heart was when I hear Jesus Christ voice tell me he loves me first thing in the mornings when i open my eyes.
    When i hear my Heavenly Father sing his songs of deliverance over me in the nights after my divorce.
    When he touches me with healing my physical, emotional pains and promises me.
    There is so much Jesus has done, is doing & will do for those who love him and pray to him.
    It is not natural in my sinful life to want to read the bible as we are not aligned with God's Word but i pray to stay close to Jesus & he creates desire in the right places, he takes away sinful desires& opens up the scriptures to us for us to understand them in depth. What we don't understand, Jesus explains to us, through his Holy Spirit, or even sending his angels.
    So Jesus, true groom, our maker is our husband, who cleans our body & moves in with Father & make themselves known to us bringing more healing, grace, mercy through Holy Spirit.
    Directional purpose comes from Jesus Christ.

  • @duaajaved3935
    @duaajaved3935 Год назад +5

    I have been through this, Thank you RC blake for your teachings. I made a few mistakes in the past because I didn't know any better, got my heart crushed, loved people who never loved me back, lived in fantasies, settled for bare minimum quite literally because I was lacking a mans love. But now no more, I'm becoming aware of myself, my values, my worth. People might come in your life, who would not treat you right, who won't respect you and stuff but I will never let myself down for anyone, especially someone who won't earn it.

  • @rosieneal1530
    @rosieneal1530 Год назад +7

    Thank you and I pray that God bless you and give you the health and wholeness in Jesus name.

  • @RLC8093
    @RLC8093 Год назад +5

    This man is truly God sent, his videos has really helped me overcome the worst heart break of my life, God truly speaks through him! Thank you Blakes, God is going to bless you even more for being obedient and doing HIs will. I'm back in the light ladies, no more darkness Hallelujah!

  • @GloAlston
    @GloAlston Год назад +8

    I would like to listen to the opening song on repeat, it’s so empowering and someone to aspire to be!

  • @BrittanyPOPins
    @BrittanyPOPins Год назад +10

    Love this. It doesn't have to apply to just romantic relationships, but life situations as well 👏👏👏

    • @lscrap9567
      @lscrap9567 Год назад

      Yes, that's what I just said too

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Год назад +6

    We need the pain to learn the necessary lessons. Yes we do. Thanks Pastor. I pray that we do learned from our pain 👏🏿

  • @nomzamojele7100
    @nomzamojele7100 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much Sir i have transformed a lot because of your teachings. God bless you

  • @JudionSmith
    @JudionSmith Год назад +11

    This is so amazingly profound. Too many of us seems broken beyond repair, but there is hope in knowing that God loves us too much to leave us broken. I had my experience for years to the extent of self-destruct and self-sabotage. It was a conscious decision not to heal. I was waiting for an apology, but one early morning the still small voice woke me up and said 'unless you forgive, you will never be free'. After my healing I was commissioned to speak on 'Matters of the Heart'.
    Life will hurt us all in different ways and at different times, but it is how we respond that determines whether we become a permanent victim or an overcomer who is healed, centred and whole. Pain will ooze out of our body one way or the other. Whether we become easily frustrated or angry. No more pretending it's not there. Its time to feel and then heal. The world will benefit more from the healed version of us. It is time to soar to new heights. Time to release the weight we are constantly carrying at the expense of a purpose worth pursuing. Healing is the new high and forgiveness is the new drive. Let forgiveness kick start the process. Sometimes, the misconception of forgiveness is what makes it difficult at times. As a result, I was inspired to write '12 Fundamental Truths about Forgiveness' to clear up the misconceptions. It is available on AMZ. All the best everyone. Let us stay close to Him who heal the broken hearted and bind up their wounds. x

  • @CC-br9qg
    @CC-br9qg Год назад +3

    God bless. This message has brought me great comfort today in letting go and not giving up on myself and my higher purpose in life. Thank you so much.

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 Год назад +8

    Thank you, Jesus and thank you, Bishop for this changing word 🙏 🙌 ❤️

  • @phoenixrising8007
    @phoenixrising8007 Год назад +2

    Listen and enjoy your fav music instead of dancing to someone else’s tunes. Seek those who enjoy your tune

  • @ivetterivera9917
    @ivetterivera9917 Год назад +2

    I’m at work in tears already. I’m all those things you describe.

  • @lscrap9567
    @lscrap9567 Год назад +4

    This seems to be true in other relationships too. I need to be delivered from people, ie friendships that have been plagued with betrayal. God is moving me on but sometimes the discomfort shows itself. Thank God foe healing.

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Год назад +5

    Makes perfect sense. Thank you God!

  • @dwayneross6518
    @dwayneross6518 Месяц назад

    Thank you, this message was a God moment for me. Exactly what I needed to hear and re-hear to heal. God bless you!

  • @yvetterichardson9118
    @yvetterichardson9118 Год назад

    Awesome! Thank you Bishop Blakes!

  • @jenniferadderley2566
    @jenniferadderley2566 Год назад +4

    Amen 👑 🙏❤