5 WAYS QUEENS HEAL THEIR HEARTS by RC Blakes

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  • 5 WAYS QUEENS HEAL THEIR HEARTS by RC Blakes
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Комментарии • 527

  • @sanjananair1702
    @sanjananair1702 Год назад +299

    1. Objectively observe the brokenness of the person who hurt you.
    2. Internally interrogate yourself
    a) did I damage/hurt myself
    b) what was deficient in me that I let them in
    c) what lies did I internalise
    3. Look back at yourself and learn what needs to be changed/adjusted in you
    4. Draft your own constitution (how u want to live, who u are, what u looking for) through meditation
    5. Release the hope for something that was never meant to be

  • @simplify_
    @simplify_ Год назад +124

    Ladies, financial security is no joke in today's world - make smart decisions that sustain security. You are able!

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Год назад +5

      This is one thing that my dad taught me because he wasn't there physically.

    • @notallabouttarot5194
      @notallabouttarot5194 Год назад +3

      Yes. This is what Divine is telling us all Queen conscious women to do.

  • @melnq8
    @melnq8 Год назад +438

    I need this. It's been a year since I literally ESCAPED an awful abusive relationship with a Narcissist. People keep trying to get me back out onto the dating scene but for the life of me I just can't. God gave me the strength to remove myself from a toxic relationship, and I believe you popped up in my recommendations when I needed it the most for the very same reason. He does indeed work in mysterious ways!

    • @lanarose2460
      @lanarose2460 Год назад +30

      Same happened for me, Sis. He is a true man of God. He has been a real source of feeding my soul into healing properly.

    • @christineecheverri4194
      @christineecheverri4194 Год назад +14

      Same!! Except I've only been out for 1.5 months. RC helped me escape too. Thank God!

    • @melnq8
      @melnq8 Год назад +1

      Hang in there sister's. Narcissists are without a doubt the work of the devil, being in relationship with one feels and/or IS like you've dated a demon
      Bishop Rc Blake's is definitely the instrument of God. When God has a job to do, he always chooses individuals through whom he does his work. He's helping us heal, and shed light where there once was darkness. Like a lighthouse in a storm, as is God, working through him being such a big help to many of us women that need to hear his words

    • @user-ku5vm5jb1h
      @user-ku5vm5jb1h Год назад +26

      People think they know best for you and that finding a partner is the only lifestyle on the planet. Don’t give in to that.

    • @hj0628
      @hj0628 Год назад +14

      Same. I attribute a lot of my healing to his teachings and validation. Keep yourself encouraged sis, through loving support and resources like this.. you will feel and see the difference soon. 🙏🏽❤

  • @sherrijones4357
    @sherrijones4357 Год назад +136

    I just started my healing journey at the age of 61. My volunteering days are over.

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Год назад +7

      Better now than never...

    • @lous.1548
      @lous.1548 Год назад +7

      there is no age for healing . Hope your journey will be full of joys

    • @Maryam-hb1cf
      @Maryam-hb1cf Год назад +1

      That’s beautiful ❤

    • @beckyfrancis481
      @beckyfrancis481 Год назад +2

      You are worth it.

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 Год назад +2

      I just got away from a narcissist and on my way to my healing and I’m 59 years old! Thank goodness it was short lived less than 3 months 😂Thank goodness ❤❤❤

  • @moniqueharriel757
    @moniqueharriel757 Год назад +112

    I prayed God would remove me from a toxic relationship. He answered my pray ! During my transformation I remained celibate for 5 years . During this time I was able to look deep into my spirit and understand how strong I am . I grew up with a loving father ! He taught me we teach people how to treat us . And to never ignore a man’s energy! I was so fixated on looks I ignored what I knew was not good for me . Sometimes God has to shake us up to wake us up . Now I am in one of the most beautiful relationships. My fiancé treats me like the true queen that I am . He is a true man of God ! On the beginning of our friendship I told him I don’t wear my scares on my face . He knew exactly what I was talking about . In that moment he held me close and said “ my love I got you “ and he does . I transformed myself into the true queen that I am . And God send me my queen . We’re getting married on my birthday next year . Pastor Blake’s thank you for your awesome teachings . I love you my God continue to bless you and your beautiful family ❤

    • @LadyHannahl
      @LadyHannahl Год назад +2

      Ow that was really beautiful♥️🌙I pray God that he blesses you both and your future children.Pray for me sis. Growing up I haven't had a good relationship with my Dad and that made me insecure.I don't know how to behave with a man. Currently I'm working on myself hoping one day everything would be fine.

    • @shellebaby2074
      @shellebaby2074 Год назад

      What do you mean don ignore a man's energy?

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Год назад

      @@shellebaby2074 Pastor Blakes has video on it. You'll see it in the titles. It basically means that a man will have a certain vibe. It can be good, bad or neutral. How healthy you are in spirit will depend on what kind of energy you're attracted to, or will chose to ignore (if it's bad).

    • @athenafarrell5127
      @athenafarrell5127 6 месяцев назад

      He delivered me too!

    • @marissachapman1022
      @marissachapman1022 2 месяца назад

      God has to shake us up to wake us up! I love it. This is so true. I am
      So happy for you. Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤

  • @queendippy1857
    @queendippy1857 Год назад +190

    Ever since I started watching your sessions, I'm healing, you are speaking to my life, everything you are addressing, approaching 40 yet always struggled in the area of relationship, even in marriage, I left a narcissistic husband. I'm finding myself through this session.

    • @Roro2023.
      @Roro2023. Год назад +12

      I just left a narcissist husband as well. Been 3 months. And I’m healing daily. I pray you continue to heal Queen. Stay empowered

    • @bridgettetraveler658
      @bridgettetraveler658 Год назад +7

      My sister u will be free & made whole! U through JESUS will be a complete person all by yourself! Be BLESSED & keep your head up! Keep smiling & don't get frown lines! I find when I feel alone or depressed get your praise going! It's something about praising GOD that can lift our Spirits above measure!!!

    • @BriW444
      @BriW444 Год назад +3

      @@Roro2023. I can’t wait til I get to 3 months and say I’m healed 🥺😪🙏🏾.

    • @dcnelsons
      @dcnelsons Год назад

      Ditto

  • @knowyourkismat
    @knowyourkismat Год назад +114

    “It is the natural inclination of an evolved and conscious man to protect and preserve womankind” -how beautiful. I pray I and all of us in the comments get ours soon

  • @victoriasheesley9558
    @victoriasheesley9558 Год назад +139

    After 5 years with a narcissist I’m working on healing and becoming a queen again. It’s very difficult recovering from trauma. I’ll get there with the grace of the lord

    • @QeenBee86
      @QeenBee86 Год назад +12

      Six years with a narcissist. I chose me this time around and walk away for good ‼️The healing ❤️‍🩹 process suck. However, BUT GOD 🙌🏽- he’s my healer ❤and nothing is too big for him.🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽

    • @yolandaburrage4848
      @yolandaburrage4848 Год назад +5

      Love your comment my sister stay strong

    • @609Georgiana
      @609Georgiana Год назад +6

      it may take longer than you want it to, but you will rise from the ashes. make it a point to do so, and you will be wiser for it!

    • @lolachlih3136
      @lolachlih3136 Год назад +1

      8 years with a narcissist left almost 2 years ago have been healing and with RC's sessions sure have helped me so much stay strong sis you got this!💖🙏

    • @onjanettehudson3669
      @onjanettehudson3669 Год назад

      @@QeenBee86 Wishing well, my sister….. HURTS LIKE HELL

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 Год назад +92

    Broken people break people; I’ve had that looping question too, going around keeping me stuck; kept the recurring thought “why did he do this to me?” Pastor explained it perfectly clear. I’m stuck no more. 😁Forgiveness is much easier now Thank God. Blessings to you and your family. 💗🙏🏻

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 Год назад +227

    "A queen conscious woman is calm, confident and present." ✔

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss Год назад +10

      Don't forget hopeful! 💖

    • @elindabeanland5917
      @elindabeanland5917 Год назад +2

      What a Word! I'm a Proverbs 31 Woman and a Queen in God! ❣️

    • @yneztulsen
      @yneztulsen 11 месяцев назад

    • @Markenyetta
      @Markenyetta 7 месяцев назад +2

      I started crying when he said that because I know exactly how being queen conscious feel but I allowed a broken person to brake my spirit so bad I am trying to get back to being the calm me

  • @Rashuana
    @Rashuana Год назад +52

    I will never let a traumatizing moment define me. Thank you God for blessing him with this powerful message.

  • @tonikae8593
    @tonikae8593 Год назад +66

    I just want to say that you’ve helped me so much on my journey to becoming a Queen conscious woman and I thank God so much for you and your teaching and I pray God continues to bless you ❤

  • @kayfleming5180
    @kayfleming5180 Год назад +82

    The love being poured into so many of our Hearts & Souls from Pastor RC Blakes is the love we needed from birth. We are beyond grateful. 🙏🏽❤️ Many Blessings to you, your beautiful wife, Lisa, and your family. ❤

  • @ambinodagreat
    @ambinodagreat Год назад +38

    Your podcasts are HEAVEN SENT 🙌🏾‼️‼️ Praise God for blessing your word and your spirit 🙏🏾

  • @heather7119
    @heather7119 Год назад +21

    Observe the brokenness of the person that broke you..... so true. I can tell you that doing this has greatly has helped me to forgive. Actually had me feeling sorry for them because I was able to recuperate and get a deeper understanding of myself and healing from God. Dude is still a hot mess, married and still trying to reach out with the same foolishness. BULLET DODGED and God is good. GREAT teaching, pastor. Thank you for all you do :)

  • @Queen360_Crown
    @Queen360_Crown 5 месяцев назад +5

    “you hung around for the party, even when you knew it wasn’t thrown in you honor “ boooooom!!!! Thank you pastor, my problem is solved ❤

  • @oliveevergreen5401
    @oliveevergreen5401 Год назад +7

    I will position myself to be able to take care of myself financially. I will maximize my potential!👸💖

  • @lizzyworld007
    @lizzyworld007 Год назад +17

    Needed this one tonight!!! I'm just over 2months post breakup I hear the new supply is pregnant 🙃 if I needed more reason to move on this was it 💯 lort help the ridiculousness lol
    be back in a hr notification,on🖤

  • @Treasuredbyaloma24
    @Treasuredbyaloma24 Год назад +25

    To my Spiritual Dad, you ALWAYS have a WORD. Thank You so much. I truly wish that I had met you 3 years ago. Better Late Than Never!!!!. Thank You!

  • @gabychavez2265
    @gabychavez2265 Год назад +16

    Im crying as you speak. Feels like your right in front of me. It was not my fault 😔 For any woman that has been in toxic emotionally abusive relationship we have to know it’s not our fault. ❤

    • @gabychavez2265
      @gabychavez2265 Год назад +1

      But we learn and we learn to love ourselves first. It’s a process but we can do it! Put God first 💜 he is only removing what is not good out of our lives.

  • @Ang_Nicole
    @Ang_Nicole Год назад +38

    I can’t wait to tune in for this one pastor. I truly need it right now. Thank you for all that you do ❤

  • @MsAmazonAmazing
    @MsAmazonAmazing Год назад +18

    This!! I thank you for speaking life, and hope with this message. Meditation has helped me greatly in my moving forward process. As a Queen, I loved a joker. The loss is his not mine and wont let him turn me into a bitter woman ..The gym, journaling and meditation w/ loving on my self more has helped me greatly ❤

  • @judyb0216
    @judyb0216 Год назад +2

    Yes. He was still broken and in therapy. Red flag.

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter Год назад +27

    Really looking forward to this message. Been on a healing journey now for the last two years.

  • @tiffanylcollins3631
    @tiffanylcollins3631 Год назад +41

    Don't just get the pain, get the wisdom.

  • @latenitetubing
    @latenitetubing Год назад +4

    my soul has been broken. stopped trying to understand why it happened, because it doesn’t really matter why. it is on the perpetrator. not me. this has helped me survive mentally and spiritually. the attacker is also a victim because the attacker does this against their own soul and goodness. yes it happened to us, but at the same time it’s not really our thing to harbor. it is the attackers. the attacker doesn’t get to live in your soul. this is the choice you can make as you survive an attack on your body, mind and soul.
    Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is a tough topic and I really deeply appreciate you tackling this from a biblical, compassionate and sensitive way. I’ve noticed many spiritual leaders shy away from this topic and it can make survivors feel even worse. It is always empowering to hear you speak. I’ve shared your content with many of the women in my life who have lost their calm. Love from Canada.. 🇨🇦 ♥️

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Год назад +1

      Agree! 💜

    • @skyylea9859
      @skyylea9859 Год назад +1

      I agree . I kind of wish more spiritual leaders would speak heavily on childhood trauma primarily sexual abuse because it’s a lot of blockage that a lot of survivors need help with unblocking ! I think that’s unfortunately my biggest struggle yet

    • @latenitetubing
      @latenitetubing Год назад +1

      @@skyylea9859 Blockage is an excellent word for this. I’m sorry you are going through something so difficult. You are not alone here. Sending much love 💕

    • @skyylea9859
      @skyylea9859 Год назад

      @@latenitetubing Thanks … I appreciate it. Much love to you as well .

  • @markesastewart4741
    @markesastewart4741 Год назад +27

    I seriously needed this because l'am committed to healing but I have moments I fill like running away but I have stiff conversations like I'm above never beneath not how I fill . I'am empowered the more to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically.. I appreciate you pastor Blake's I receive wisdom nuggets .I'am discovering why my ex husband or broken guys I attracted because of my brokenness. Thank you for healing and restoration becoming a whole woman 💜🙏🏾💕

  • @mspj6008
    @mspj6008 Год назад +58

    Peace is PRICELESS.

  • @judithakosuadankwanimako3963
    @judithakosuadankwanimako3963 Год назад +7

    Family please pray for me, im starting my divorce proceeding next month oo from my narcissistic husband.. 13 years of abuse with 2 kids..
    I have no money no lawyer, but I trust God completely...
    So please help by praying with me and for me..

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 Год назад

      You got this, sis. Stay encouraged and keep praying.

    • @LadyBugShaun
      @LadyBugShaun Месяц назад

      How are you doing now?

  • @nawhatererr
    @nawhatererr Год назад +18

    I cant wait for this. Thank you. You have healed me this year. I keep learning from you

  • @1goodgirl593
    @1goodgirl593 Год назад +26

    Thank you, Pastor! Your teachings are penetrating my heart and soul and are an integral part of my healing process. Gob bless you and Lady Lisa!

  • @skyylea9859
    @skyylea9859 Год назад +4

    R.C. Is a godsend because lord knows I needed to hear this . When he said objectively observe the brokenness of the person that hurt you … that’s deep

  • @purplereignsupreme6990
    @purplereignsupreme6990 Год назад +13

    Bishop you will never know how many lives your words have changed. I thanknyou and God for the calling he put on you to helps us sleeping beautys. I am forever woke!

  • @victoriasullivan9369
    @victoriasullivan9369 Год назад +8

    "What lies did I internalize?" ...if we asked ourselves this question more often while processing our relationships and situations in life, omg, the amount of time n energy we could save. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @DoreenMorrison-b5q
    @DoreenMorrison-b5q Год назад +5

    My Ex Bf almost killed me, left me w a frac pelvis in 3 places and a wheelchair. It has taken much Work for me to be Whole physically & mentally. I sought out help wherever I could, prayed a lot. Also received the help of a Christian church & a Counselor!!!

    • @LadyBugShaun
      @LadyBugShaun Месяц назад +1

      I hope you are doing much better.. I wish he is in jail for doing all that to you.

  • @deborahpayton4105
    @deborahpayton4105 Год назад +7

    I simply love the intro song "She's A Queen". This is a great song to listen to daily. I like to buy a copy. Who is the artist?

  • @darawatkis7084
    @darawatkis7084 Год назад +16

    Excellent message Paster Blakes 🙏🏽🙏🏽I needed this so much. Just recently broke up with a Covert Narc. He was trying to break me into something that I wasn’t. Thank God that I dodged that bullet because it really could have been worst. Emotionally it’s been hard at times because I treated him excellent but yet he couldn’t see my worth. Your message makes me feeling good and confirms that I’m going in the right direction. It’s been five months healing ❤️‍🩹 I have no desire to get into another relationship. Focusing on me and fixing Me. Thank you again🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sophiagreene4535
    @sophiagreene4535 Год назад +9

    Though We Are Cracked! We are Still Standing! Thank you God for The Strength and Courage to Keep Standing! The Mercy and Restoration of a Good and Faithful God! Keep Standing Ladies! God is For us and Within us!

  • @fififi3714
    @fififi3714 Год назад +17

    You are truly the God sent truth to women Bishop !!! May God continue to bless you and Lady Blakes 💞 I'm aspiring to be a delivered queen conscious woman 🙏🏿

  • @cynthiamcrae-winborn6375
    @cynthiamcrae-winborn6375 Год назад +8

    I am fairly new to your channel thank you so much for caring as much as you do for all women. I have been in a toxic marriage for over 11 years I didn’t listen to the voice of GOD or paid attention to the signs He showed me I got married anyway. I paid the price for being in this marriage but GOD has been turning my life around and now I realize my worth even more. I decided to separate from the marriage it’s been a year now. Within that year I was willing to reconcile but I saw there were no changes within our marriage. He refused counseling that’s it for me I am moving on. I refuse to continue being broken-hearted by a man who wasn’t worth it in the first place.. Great topic !! Thank you so much. I Might have learned a few things and it was painful but I’m becoming more of a Queen conscious woman I know my worth, and it sure is worth more than what this man was dishing out . May GOD continue to bless you and your wife in ministry 🙏🏾

  • @catherinewicker9541
    @catherinewicker9541 Год назад +15

    Really looking forward to this tonight. I need to hear this from a spiritual stance. I thought I had met my God sent mate; however, I was all wrong. My spirit still hurts. I am so hesitant to get back out there. My God. I am still here and still hopeful and at peace.

  • @sheilahjohnnie4559
    @sheilahjohnnie4559 Год назад +8

    I asked God too remove the man I were dating and Jesus answer my requests because I queen knew when that's not for her it will should all sign and wonder from God

  • @patticiarose4526
    @patticiarose4526 Год назад +15

    I'm always blessed every time I listen to your teaching. I was abused many times... Thank God 🙏🏿 I'm in healing process each day. It's 4 yrs now strong enough to make a decision.

  • @BeckyJade
    @BeckyJade Год назад +6

    Hello this is the first Christian video I have watched in a while as I had a breakdown after caring for my mum. Please can I ask you to pray in for me my name is Rebecca Jade Mawson. I was hit in the face by a man 2 nights ago after he smashed my phone. It was horrible. I don't know him that well but I have been vunerable since my mum died. I'm getting there but I need prayers not His to strengthen me. Thank you I love you

    • @orlanrichards
      @orlanrichards Год назад +3

      Prayers going up for you during this season of your. You got this🙏💪

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 Год назад +11

    Thank you for speaking life which helps me into my healing journey after survival of years of abuse failed relationships and marriage . Im choosing me til God opens my heart to love again to bring a king 🤴 🙏 it's a spiritual juprney to heal.

  • @Jasmine-qw7tj
    @Jasmine-qw7tj Год назад +17

    Thank God for my counselor because she told me about you. This is some real good teaching and this brought some comfort and change in perspective on my healing journey. You're truly a gem!!! God restore me!! Thank you Pasto!!

  • @ilovehousemusic2637
    @ilovehousemusic2637 Год назад +1

    Queenology Africa would be amazing Pastor! That’s a great idea

  • @sharonscott8774
    @sharonscott8774 Год назад +36

    Hello everyone. May God’s Grace and Mercy continue to chase after each and every one of us. May his Peace and Joy reign in our hearts.

  • @deja14
    @deja14 Год назад +10

    Hardest thing ever …. Forgiving someone who isn’t even sorry…. Observing the brokenness of the person who broke you…. My ex husband shot me last year and maaaan it’s really hard to understand his demons and past but MAN ITS HARD

    • @LadyBugShaun
      @LadyBugShaun Месяц назад

      Oh wow... Shot you? Hopefully, he was imprisoned. I hope you are doing better.

    • @deja14
      @deja14 Месяц назад +1

      @@LadyBugShaun he was definitely sent to prison. I am doing great tho. Thank you.

    • @LadyBugShaun
      @LadyBugShaun Месяц назад

      @@deja14 glad you're OK. May you never experience anything like that ever again.

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 Год назад +10

    I love when you say she's positive and bounces back from trauma. That is absolutely it, that's the differentiator.

  • @lizzsibs
    @lizzsibs Год назад +12

    This Bishop Blakes is what I really needed to hear. You sure have the anointing for ministering to women and you got no idea the impact you're making all over the world. Every woman needs to listen to one of your teachings. May the oil on your head never run dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lisabowman877
    @lisabowman877 Год назад +17

    This song will go to the top of all the charts! I absolutely love the song! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @opallight8069
      @opallight8069 Год назад +3

      The song is a Ministry in itself ❤️

  • @anabella4296
    @anabella4296 Год назад +11

    Thank you Pastor! 🙏🙌 😊 💓 You train us to REIGN 👑 🙌 ✨

  • @lynellb
    @lynellb Год назад +9

    I loved it when he said "the vase has taken a heavy blow, withstood the pressure and still standing" yesss! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕 I'm still here! 💪🏾💪🏾💕🙏🏾

  • @1974Ny
    @1974Ny Год назад +7

    #5 spoke directly to my soul...release what was never meant to be. I appreciate you Pastor Blakes.

  • @brittanybutler-lamar6450
    @brittanybutler-lamar6450 Год назад +6

    Wow! I'm just now realizing this in my own 7 years of marriage....🥺

  • @gc2137
    @gc2137 Год назад +6

    For the first time by listening to this Bible study, I'm realizing that most of my life (and I'm over 50) I have lived from adopted and not true identity. God bless you and thank you Pastor 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @alicerodriguez3550
    @alicerodriguez3550 Год назад +5

    Some women have grown up with good fathers and mothers, especially those raised in the church. Therefore, those women were likely protected from very toxic men, and tend to be trusting, especially in the religious setting. We should also be teaching those women(especially young daughters), who are not yet jaded by toxic men, what signs to look for so they are not blindsided. If we are to be students of men, we need a man to write the full curriculum and teach the life long course on avoiding wolves in sheeps clothing. Additionally, toxic powerful men have a protective system of people who lie for them, lure for them, and who knowingly help them deceive unsuspecting women. It's not the one man, it's his team, his court of enablers who help him create the appearance of integrity. When a vicious deceptive army of enablers (a toxic family system) is activated to stalk a target, no woman stands a chance unless a real man steps in and tells the truth, exposing the lies and deceit. A non-cynical, healthy woman will likely always be blindsided by powerful deceptive men. Such a woman rarely understands the depth of malevolence in wolves, especially religious wolves, because she was taught to trust the so-called man of God. If good men tear down and expose their deceptive systems, those men who lack integrity will be left naked and exposed. Hopefully your podcast, The Code, will dissect and dismantle the toxic systems men use to destroy innocent women.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Год назад +2

      Wisdom! And to add, for some women who were raised deep in religion, the whole teachings made her vulnerable (the 70 x 7 thing and turn the other cheek, submission etc etc etc) Her own love of God, weaponized against her… to forgive abuse and just keep loving more… and more… and more. And practice your whole childhood doing it. No even healthy anger allowed. Christianity murders the mother bear of self and children protection. In all my years in religion (I’ve left religion for Creator-connecting DIRECT without toxic filters) I’ve never heard interpretations like this. Ever.
      The church itself and what is taught in it needs to be a MASSIVE discussion. Religion was an extremely toxic force in my life for so long… Religion is filled with spiritual abuse. What was found out about the Southern Baptist church moving sex abusers for many decades (just like the Catholic Church) didn’t surprise me one bit. The concept of forgiveness and submission and male leadership is weaponized against women and children--doing massive harm to their spirit and lives and potential. I’m free now.

    • @alicerodriguez3550
      @alicerodriguez3550 Год назад +1

      @@juneelle370 Amen Sister Queen! He whom the Son sets free is free INDEED! Rules without relationship leads to rebellion and religion without a pure heart, leads to abuse. Jehovah Shalom, always intended to have loving relationships with His daughters.

  • @mariemissial6680
    @mariemissial6680 Год назад +2

    A broken man will brake a woman. Without realizing he did it. Because he is consumed in his brokenness

  • @busyv3124
    @busyv3124 Год назад +6

    Anointed message! Christ takes away the shame and the guilt. Hallelujah! You offered deliverance to so many. I’m praying a hedge of protection for you and your family. ❤

  • @monica3787
    @monica3787 Год назад +3

    Thank you for not SHAMING the women who have been traumatized and broken through life events. Aiding and helping them blesses God. Help us please sir. Please do not ever insult us for being so broken........ Many pastors play the shame blame game. Glad u don't.
    THIS. MESSAGE. US. VERY. PROFOUND !!!

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 Год назад +11

    Still healing after getting out of my toxic relationship to a narcissist for almost 2 years now and thanks to you Bishop for all that you do now im finally on my journey to healing May God Bless you🙏

    • @charmee4045
      @charmee4045 Год назад +1

      I am two years out as well, feels so good. It takes time to heal. I am waiting for the right one, not the next one.

  • @keyscott-hale939
    @keyscott-hale939 Год назад +7

    This is literally a breath of fresh air. Thank you King RC Blakes ..

  • @lightyourway4929
    @lightyourway4929 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this. It sure is helpful.

  • @rachelroyster5807
    @rachelroyster5807 Год назад +6

    Healing is the children’s bread. Thank you and thank God for your obedience.

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic Год назад +3

    I feel like part of the healing process for me right now is writing this comment, I woke up feeling unworthy went to RUclips and found this. I have been used by men because they only see me as a sex object , the mask a man can carry just to get you in bed is something I WAS NOT AWARE OFF. met a man and the cycle started again within 2 weeks i cut him off because this is not how a man is supposed to make me feel drained and it has only been 2 weeks, i write this because i haven't had sex in a while and I don't know why I gave my body to him, I guess it was pressure from him..I take full accountability for my actions but what I am proud of is cutting him off telling him exactly how I am feeling in a calm loving manner, I wanted to ghost but that behavior in people needs to change as well, I wished him well..he ended up ghosting me and that is when I decided I need to do healing and find a good conscious loving man but it starts with me.
    ladies keep your head on there are men that are very unhealthy and just wants to hurt us, reset your standards and go live your life while healing. thank you for reading from South africa xoxo

  • @VCurtis7
    @VCurtis7 Год назад +11

    Wow! That awesome intro song! Powerful!
    Good word of wisdom! Thank you Bishop!

  • @yolandamorton2096
    @yolandamorton2096 Год назад +41

    A three month relationship I’ve been in may be ending due to our culture differences and I’m really sad tonight, as he’s a lovely man. I could really benefit from your wisdom tonight Pastor Blakes.😢

    • @rosalindwashington7376
      @rosalindwashington7376 Год назад +3

      What are the cultural differences?

    • @yolandamorton2096
      @yolandamorton2096 Год назад +4

      He’s Nigerian and I’m American.

    • @melnq8
      @melnq8 Год назад +8

      @@yolandamorton2096 I get that. I lived through the conflict of cultural differences growing between my Mom (American/Christian), and my Dad (African Arabian/Muslim) and I experienced that myself in my last relationship. I have many soul sisters that have married men of different cultures. It is possible if you are of the same faith, equals spiritually, or else you are setting yourself up for a life of misery with the devil constantly infiltrating your relationship and family life. There's many verses that touch on this but here's one: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 Год назад +7

      @@yolandamorton2096 Cultural differences are as big as you make them. They only have a profound effect if there are expectations or aspects of the culture the other person isn't willing to embrace. What are you guys struggling with?
      I'm Nigerian American and I don't discriminate ethnicities. If the attraction is there, then I'm open to exploring if we are compatible. I have dated Indian, Latino, Black, and white men. I was in a 3 month situationship with a Mexican man and he later revealed to me that it wouldn't go anywhere because he believed having the same culture was important for a relationship. Though we connected in faith and had the best deep conversations about life, he wanted a Hispanic woman🤷🏾‍♀️. I know sooo much about Mexican culture. I grew up in LA with some of my best friends being Latinos. I understand a good amount of Spanish and can speak a little bit too. My neices/nephews call me tía, my Mexican friend's 1.5 yr old daughter calls me tía and I speak Spanish to her. I can make Nigerian, Mexican, and even some Korean dishes. Our cultures actually have a lot of similarities. But he never got to know that side of me 🤷🏾‍♀️. His loss. I don't argue with people that aren't interested in taking me seriously. Don't ever take rejection as an opportunity to "prove yourself." All I could do was respect his decision, dust off the hurt and keep it moving. And through my healing, I've realized he reallyyy wasn't right for me, which I couldn't see before. I was too busy focusing on what he wanted. I needed to stop with the anxious attaching and focus on my needs and what I want. No longer tolerating crumbs.
      And now I'm talking to a Caribbean American man who is open about how much he likes me. I'm happy to see where it goes.

    • @tysgem7
      @tysgem7 Год назад +6

      @@amaragrace94 Glad you’ve moved on and thank him for his early honesty. The worst is to drag along the relationship knowing his heart isn’t in it. Good for you; on to better times and people. ☺️

  • @gc2137
    @gc2137 Год назад +7

    This Bible study is such a true blessing Pastor, thanks so much! As a mental health professional who continues to do my own work for self healing, I appreciate your take on us doing self Inquiry and processing how trauma affects us in the present moment. Praise God for His unconditional Love toward us and His Power to make us whole in Him! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @moniqueharriel757
    @moniqueharriel757 Год назад +5

    One word describes you King Blake’s . Blessing ❤❤

  • @evemacintosh64
    @evemacintosh64 Год назад

    Another great teaching, your teaching and wisdom from the Lord are truly a blessing to many of us. I am highly favored and blessed and I will continue to be a blessing to many women and use what I learn from you.God bless you and your family!

  • @rositayoung2725
    @rositayoung2725 Год назад +4

    Pastor and your wife Lisa. I just tonight found out by a very negative family member, that my son the one I gave birth too. Has gone on Facebook and spoke very negatively about his ( according to him)horrible childhood! He has stop speaking to me again, for several months now. The first time he stopped speaking, was doing Conv 19 for over a year! That was pretty bad for me. I had to really dig deep inside myself to save myself! Now, he's gone public( Facebook)! Revenge came first to my mind but the Holy Spirit told me right away, " Revenge is mine,says the Lord"! So I thought, God if I can't tell him off, then, please tell me what to do! I got on the phone and there you were with this video! God always make a way out of no where! Thank you for this in formation. Its very helpful.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Год назад +3

      Before dismissing all he says, listen and pray about it. Parents sometimes need to make very important apologies and amends. It doesn’t make you a bad person to admit bad mistakes! Obviously if he’s lying that’s another issue completely. I just suggest not to so quickly dismiss his grievances. It take bravery to introspect and apologize for what you are responsible for. It’s equally wrong to take responsibility for what you’re NOT responsible for. We all have to own our side of the street.

  • @lynnlamont8942
    @lynnlamont8942 Год назад +5

    I appreciate that we as women can find ourselves👑🤗

  • @veronicaatkins4417
    @veronicaatkins4417 Год назад +3

    “Her crown may have a crack in it but it is no less valuable “

  • @kirahale0216
    @kirahale0216 9 месяцев назад +3

    Ive been broken for so long i am breaking my family😢😢😢 I found your videos a few days ago and i love them. I want so badly to change and heal myself and my family

    • @LadyBugShaun
      @LadyBugShaun Месяц назад

      What do you want to heal yourself from? How are you doing today?

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 Год назад +11

    Yes my past will never define my past but to learn and return to my Queen conscious . Thanks Pastor Blake's and Lady Lisa God bless to speak life very inspiring 🙏 🙌

  • @msjones2877
    @msjones2877 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much!, I finally realized why I have been having such a hard time and have been consistently angry for something that was so short-lived. I thought I forgave the person but I really did not. God bless you and thank you.

  • @sandramallory4382
    @sandramallory4382 Год назад +6

    This video is one of the most powerful ones he has ever made. I listen to it every day.

  • @tiabarring
    @tiabarring Год назад +4

    I’m thankful, God loves a cracked pot!

  • @carismacatalyst1289
    @carismacatalyst1289 Год назад +4

    "She will repair the damage of her soul and will return to her Thron"
    Thank you Sir!

  • @arlynnshankle8365
    @arlynnshankle8365 Год назад +7

    I'm looking forward to this too!

  • @josephineperez7225
    @josephineperez7225 Год назад +7

    And yes our brother KING R C BLAKE AND HIS QUEEN INTO MY LIFE . Helping me just in this time. I am slowly moving forward with HOLY SPIRIT 🕊🔥♥️. I’m hearing listening and Asking for ❤️‍🩹 healing and physical THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS IN JESUS NAME . My song 🎧 COME HOLY SPIRIT CAUSE HE IS GENTLE AND STRONG.

    • @manesiapennmon8722
      @manesiapennmon8722 Год назад

      You are without a great blessing and empowerment to many broken women. I pray God will continue to help your Queens heal.🙏😊

  • @joellabarkus66
    @joellabarkus66 Год назад +6

    Lord thank you fot every bit of the content that has been spoken here. Continue to bless this man of God and his wife Lisa in Jesus name. 🙌🏾

  • @marypickney7490
    @marypickney7490 Год назад +3

    I just start my healing journey at the age of 61 . Getting a divorce, I been with narcissist for 20 years married 16 years. It was toxic I had no idea what was happening. 4 years ago I found your RUclips channel. And I am getting all the information I needed.
    Thank God for you Pastor RCBlakes
    for your honest. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @MsDreya22
    @MsDreya22 Год назад +4

    Your words of wisdom soothe my soul and gives me confirmation to my thoughts and feelings and the questions I so much needed to have answered. God speaks in great timing I really needed this. I spent the past 6 years with a narcissist. Trust me my soul is so broken 😞 and like pastor said we don’t forget our value despite the cracks🙌🏼

  • @kimberlymay9497
    @kimberlymay9497 9 месяцев назад +2

    Was involved in a unhealthy relationship but I refuse to give up on love. I know it’s a healthy loving man out there for me ❤ these videos have helped me soooo much! Their not going to go on with their life and think I’m a stay in the bed depressed, no sir pray about it until it’s gone and move on ❤ Kind of glad I went thru it so the next time, I can end it much quicker!!! Amen 🙏

  • @sheliasmith2884
    @sheliasmith2884 Год назад +4

    I thank him so much he has helped me to heal from a toxic relationship I just got out of at the age of 59 I thought I was good to go and got hurt the pool of men here in Mississippi is not good at all I thank God for this man and Lisa.

  • @KKP20111
    @KKP20111 Год назад +4

    Thank you, RC Blakes, for those wise and precious words! 🙏💯❤️

  • @Lebo-Aaliyah
    @Lebo-Aaliyah Год назад +4

    Yes! Queenology Africa sounds amazing Pastor. God willing 🙏🏿

  • @lukreecelupe8849
    @lukreecelupe8849 Год назад +3

    There used to be a societal polarization that we are all familiar with namely Black&White. Nowadays, however through out my empirical study I can see polarization like never before between Female&Male. Males are taught to hate women and vice versa. Where is the end to that?? It becomes scary to watch! 😢

  • @sinayehlanjwa6019
    @sinayehlanjwa6019 11 месяцев назад +1

    Watching from South Africa😊
    I absolutely love your teachings

  • @thelmahaggerty5271
    @thelmahaggerty5271 Год назад

    Amen needed to hear this message

  • @AP-sz4mx
    @AP-sz4mx Год назад +4

    Hello family.Checking in from Claymont Delaware

  • @MsBuffalo
    @MsBuffalo Год назад +3

    Please come back to South Africa soon! And yes we really need Queenology here in Africa so please please please come back.

  • @tapashyarasaily1373
    @tapashyarasaily1373 Год назад +3

    The intro gives me goosebumps everytime...just beautiful ❤️

  • @1muddonna
    @1muddonna Год назад +3

    "You've been living a counterfeit vision with an adopted identity." Wow. That hit home.

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall Год назад +3

    Watching again on my way to a healthier and better person. Thank you Lord for going deep and healing area's in me that I never gave permission to you before. Thank you Pastor RC.

  • @egyptakilithegoddess6977
    @egyptakilithegoddess6977 Год назад

    Wow this was so profound... Thank you

  • @sheilahjohnnie4559
    @sheilahjohnnie4559 Год назад +3

    Thanks For Invite Me Blessings Night I Understand The Assignment Sir

  • @antoniarobinson7272
    @antoniarobinson7272 Год назад +3

    I really need to hear this message tonight. I always be filled with your powerful messages. God Bless You and First Lady!🙏🏿🙏🏿