10 QUESTIONS A WOMAN SHOULD ASK A MAN by RC Blakes
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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GREAT EVENING FAMILY! Please LIKE this video.😊🙏🏽♥️
Amen..Pastor
😊 Thanks a lot ❤
Didn't like the video...I LOVED IT! 👏🏼
Thanks Bishop! Sorry I was not myself when I first got here. Was still in grief& angry at world ! I still want to come visit y’all church soon. Still going on interviews now for Sub Teachers & Customer Service Reps! Pls pray I can get a Godly man soon too
Love Lady Lisa too!!! Smart Lady❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
1. What are your long-term goals and aspirations in life?
2. What do you value most in your relationships with others?
3. What was a challenging experience that has shaped who you are today?
4. How do you handle adversity or difficult situations in your life?
5. What motivates and inspires you in your personal and professional life?
6. What is a passion or a hobby that brings you joy and fulfillment?
7. What are your views on personal growth and self-improvement?
8. How do you balance/harmonize work and personal life?
9. What kind of legacy/impact do you hope to leave behind?
10. How would you describe your ideal partner/relationship?
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Thank you
Thanks 😊
Great message I will be back that was right on point Thank you Pastor Blake..
40:44 TY for texting this out!! I appreciate u..👍
“Grown boys want to make an impression, but grown men want to make an impact.” Yep that one, amazing! 👏🏼🙏🏽
Yep🥂
I loved ❤this one, too!
😘💭💜
True
Yep this this one!
Gurl you know it! :)
4:52 1. What are your long-term goals and aspirations in life?
15:50 2. What do you value most in your relationships with others?
20:40 3. Can you describe a challenging experience that has shaped who you are today?
26:30 4. How did you handle the adversity and difficult situations in your life?
32:05 5. What motivates and inspires you in your personal and professional life?
(What puts you in your best spirit?)
35:37 6. Tell me about a passion and hobby that brings you joy and fulfillment.
37:16 7. What are your views on personal growth and self-improvement?
40:51 8. How do you balance work and personal life?
43:54 9. What kind of legacy or impact do you hope to leave behind?
47:07 10. Describe your ideal partner or relationship.
I think a woman should be able to answer all these questions first. Unless you have substantial answers to these questions, how can you expect a man to answer them?
Thank you for providing these in the chat
You’re amazing! God bless you!
Thank you so much!!
Hey, thank you for this!
And indeed, a woman should be able to answer these too
Those questions are causing me to think about my own responses. 🤔 Thanks for posting.
I would encourage women to answer these questions as well. Having a great understanding of who you are. This questions are great. Thank you for sharing
I love your teaching. I am 67 and never heard ALL this valuable Spiritual Godly information, I am telling ALL females I encounter about your teachings. I Thank your wife and Family for sharing your time and Wisdom with us. ❤
I am 64, my fiancé is 66. We are getting married in November, and are watching these videos together. So very helpful.
I'm 55 stationed overseas single and watching this.. hopefully to I'll find someone to watching this together as couple
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Have a blessed Sunday to you. God has one for you. Trust him and his timing. Be safe
@@avelinatillery1213 how I wish we could meet as soon as possible....❤️❤️❤️
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Never tell a man what your ideal partner is because narcissists attack you with that! Careful answering that one if you ask it to them…make sure you are not dealing with narcissist!
Great advice.
One man I dated asked me to write down everything I wanted in a man, then asked what my love language is. Looking back, is was to give him an advantage
I LEARNED THIS FROM MY FIRST MARRIAGE...THESE QUESTIONS WERE NOT ASKED...I NOW UNDERSTAND THE ASSIGNMENT...👑
Same ❤
Me too
You are now a used woman. What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Sorry but you don't stand a chance now.
@@familythangz9783 since women are the gatekeepers to sex, it looks like it's your fault for allowing yourself to get pounded by the bad boys.
I’m so grateful for you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. ! You have literally been a godsend in my life. Thank you for your teachings & being a spiritual father to me. God bless you & your wife 🙏🏾
That profile picture ❤
Why is not telling you to watch out for men who cannot and do not want to PROVIDE and PROTECT? If he is so good a bishop, why does he skip this very important part about a good man? Black women are the only race of women taught not to expect a man to look after them. We are taught to always have struggle love and look after a man and not the other way around. This HAS to stop now. No more struggle love. No more breadcrumbs from sub standard useless males.
God sent
God didn't send him to chat fuckry.
Thank you Pastor Blakes. Would you consider doing a video for single mothers raising boys? ❤🙏🏽
It’s so amazing how God delivers me answers in different ways. I have been questioning how I should talk to men, and what questions would I even ask a man and God delivered the answer through you. Thank you for always being a vessel used for teaching and preaching to us daughters of God.
What value do you bring to the relationship?
We love listening, no matter how long you take. We appreciate you, Bishop. 🙏🏾
Enjoyed the message. I learned a lot.
Amen! I could listen to him daily! Along with judge Toler ❤has helped me so much🙏 how I found him I don’t remember but I’m thankful!
Grown BOYS want to make an impression but grown MEN want to make an impact! I love this! 💯
“Be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God….” (2 Corinthians 6:14-16)
You're helping so much woman of God right now! Thank you Pastor Blakes!
I NEEDED this! Thank you for being obedient and letting God use you, you’re truly deeply helping sooo many 🥹🙏🏾🙌🏾
Pastor Blakes you do not take too long😂 it is simple to speed up the playback. Love you lots from Trimidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🙏🏾
Thank you for taking your time in teaching, Pastor Blakes. I appreciate you and Lady Lisa Blakes.
This is a great summary of how to look for someone with emotional maturity. If you've only been exposed to emotionally immature people it maybe hard to spot. I would love to know your take on how people who grew up with emotionally immature parents and family members can spot healthy people without them seeming completely alien. What to do when what's good for you feels unfamiliar? and how to trust that and how we can grow emotionally ourselves.
As long as you don't bring your emotional damage to him. Nobody damaged goods.
I simply love your tone, wisdom, humility and the advice you are giving the world. You don't condemn anyone and that is so refreshing because of the adverse things a lot of us have gone through. Thank you, Pastor/brother. I'm sharing with the next generation, wishing I had this teaching when I was a youth. God bless you and your family and those who NEED your teachings.❤❤❤.
Mom's need to let go of their grown sons as well. Stay out of their marriage or relationship so they can grow up. Also don't advice you son to walk away from his children. Mess up the relationship with his children. You are speaking the truth on this topic and thank you for backing up by scriptures.
Really needed to hear this at the ripe young age of 66. I'm going to answer these questions first and then God will be able to move. ❤ I'm so grateful The Holy Spirit led me to your channel. This is much needed content and I have grand daughters that will hear these talks!!!!😊
Let’s Gooooo 66 !!!
✨🏆🙌🏽
You still have a chance bump that demon you said you can't find someone
*who said
Thank you for mentioning that boys need to be able to deal with challenges and that they can’t be sheltered. I would like for you to touch more on single moms with boys. I am a single mom with boys and to God be the glory they are awesome young men. I willing to hear sound wisdom to help my sons continue to grow in who they need to be as young men. ❤🙏
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@@ez-g3090 okay 🤖 maybe ya mother should of swallowed. 🤡 🤣🤣 sounds like somebody needs a therapist. Punk!
*These questions are a brilliant way to delve into meaningful conversations with a man. It's about understanding each other on a deeper level and nurturing a strong bond.*
Not me! I’m not dating to have sex. Absolutely not! Thank you for educating and informing.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Bishop RC Blake’s……Be a high valued woman that attracts a high valued man which produce an high valued couple Such a powerful outlook❤❤
I honor you Bishop RC Blakes Jr 🥰❤️😎☺️ This was GOLD, sir!! ABSOLUTELY PURE GOLD! 👌💯🔥🔥🔥🙌🤓✨😁😯💡I'm grateful for your wise teachings! 😊❤
This is an HR hiring interview. Just make sure you too can answer these questions ladies
Does he have a job? How does he make his money? Does he love God? Did he have a mother and a father in his upbringing.
Uncle Pastor Blakes !!! I am a Muslim Lady but I love your platform ! You are a breath of fresh air and inspirational to all women from every background. I Personally had a great family background and wonderful parents (I am grateful to Allah). They raised me well and I truly know my worth. however, listening to you affirms my lifestyle and my evolution into becoming a woman with standards and morals. I also praying for you and your beautiful family especially aunt Lisa. always have us in your prayers too. I am still single and I need a God fearing man and man that would lead me and a man I feel comfortable and trust lead me. Thank you.
I hope you also consider the biblical foundation R.C. Blake's is talking from 🙏
@@carismacatalyst1289 In Islam we respect all religion especially Christianity as we have the same/similar teaching. Thank you
Except falsification of Jesus.
They teach a different Jesus invented by their religion
Thank you for your blessing us with your relationship wisdom! I only wish I had found you 40 years ago 😂
I’ve needed all these lately and wish I’d know Pastor Blake’s before I was married, but I needed the lesson. This is helping me date at 45, wish I’d started 20 years ago with these keys…
Thank you!! This was absolutely amazing. Wishing that l had this knowledge years ago!
But l truly believe God’s Timing is perfect! God Bless you Pastor Blakes!
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💯 Amen.......🙏😊🙏💯 Greetings to all. Thank you Pastor RC Blake's for sharing your amazing, insightful and powerful channel: messages, prayers and scriptures.
May the Lord enlighten me, individuals with divine wisdom, knowledge and understanding.
Amen!!! At 24:52 … Psalms 119:71 “ It is Good for me that I have been afflicted; that I might Learn Thy Statutes!!!”
I would ask these first before you answer for them. My “husband” mirrored all the things I wanted and turned out to be the r opposite of what he presented after we got married. WATCH them.
Good Evening Pastor and Lady Blakes 👑👑❤️⚜️
Thank you again for speaking my woman's heart. Nzinga from 🇹🇹🤗
Amen!🙏🏾 “I Receive it!”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾… In Jesus Christ Mighty Name! Amen!🙏🏾
Dr. Blakes, thank you for teaching us what many churches and parents fail to teach us. May God bless your family and ministry.
Good evening at this time I’m keeping my eyes on the big prize and that’s Jesus Christ After they answers all those questions the way you liked and you continue dating then you get married then the mask come off then you’re dealing with a narcissist no thank you I’m good.
You are so right Kelly. They learn what you're looking for, present themselves as those things, impress you, you get married. THEN....BAM! You realize it's all fake.
@@Faithy22 💯🙏🏽Sis the 10 questions should be Jesus JESUS Jesus repeatedly 😂 lol
Yep. They always tell you what you WANT to hear just to put up a front
I feel you. They know what to tell what you want to hear. The only way how to know if it’s real watching if their words match with their actions.
I am a new subscriber and have been listening for the past 4 hours. I am so grateful for your wisdom and that god led me to your videos! Thank you so much for your good words. This is a life changer!
Thank you RC. Great teaching as always!!
He looks so excited! Congratulations on your new equipment! :D
Thank you, Bishop. I'm in my waiting season for my KINGDOM HUSBAND SPIRITUAL ANOINTED SPOUSE COMING. Please keep me in prayer 🙏 ❤️ ♥️ 🙌 Blessing Lady First Lisa. I learned a lot I took notes as well BLESSINGS 🙌 🙏 💯 ✨️
9:54 This hits home so hard…and I’m 53!!
Very Very informative and your perspective from a male, GODLY is great. May God continue to bless you 🙏
I could listen to your videos literally all day. Never get tired of everything you teach us
No, Mr. Blakes lots of women do not want sex. They have goals to be the significant other. I tell men I do not date because they come to church, hold the Bible but playn on getting you (women) on her back with no fear of God in their hearts.
Powerful teaching!!!!! Thank you BishopRC Blakes!!!
My goodness Bishop, you must be in my head. I am 47,soon to be 48 and I am tired of the games. I want to be respected. Hence why I set boundaries and standards.now, period!!!!!
47??? Really???? So you ain't have no standards for three decades?
This was Awesome! And powerful! Some Questions I have Never asked a Man. Cause I had not asked myself. Truly, appreciate the education.
Mr. Blakes you are so funny 😂I’m learning and laughing at the same time .
I'm realizing that sometimes even asking these questions won't matter if you're with a narcissist. They will lie and tell you amazing stories that they know sound good to future fake you with no intention of following through. A lot of them would have the careers, money, ambition and potential that could be used to build together and yet it's still a trap reality will be very different. This has been my unfortunate experience.
They are not thet good keep a clear head and observe look for red flags and eliminate.
Love this 🥰🙏🏽
Your messages are always on point. Thank you Pastor Blakes
Thanks for posting and sharing this 'let the holy bible speak' wisdom.
THANK YOU!...
HOLY SPIRIT 💙 💙 💙 💙
FOR THE UPLIFTING, ENCOURAGING AND EMPOWERING.... MESSAGE ❤
Thank you Bishop!! I appreciate you and your teaching!🙏🏾
Bishop RC Blake This was amazing and thoughtful Thank you 😇
Seniors are dating to find a partner. We are retired. Live on a fixed income & disabled physically.. Help
Advice?
I never asked and ended up in a fruitless marriage for 14 years. Thanks to therapy I have moved forward and focusing on my 2 beautiful kids
Its so funny every time, in every video, where he says "that man's a child/thats a child/youre a child" 😅
Amen! It’s not wise to assume!
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All I can say is "WOW!" I shared this video with many, including my daughter and even my ex-fiancé. He's my EX because when I would ask him about his finances, and he would get angry. That was strike one. He hung up on me during conversations THREE times because he was angry. Strike two. He didn't talk gentle to me. Strike three. There were many other strikes. I paid attention to the red flags. He didn't have any intention of taking care of me because he was looking for me to take care of him. Thank You Jesus that I paid attention! I not desperate and I am too old to start from the bottom! You got to be where I am or above...
I commend you for taking a stand and not settling!!!
Awesome content and wisdom as usual, thank you Bishop ❤ God Bless 😇
I thank God for you!!! May he continue to use you for his Glory❤
Yes Sir, I had to go through to learn so many of your valuable life and relationship lessons!
Pastor you taught me about dating for data!
How it's Crucially Important to be Equally Yoked Spiritually, Mentally, and at least feasibly emotionally.
Both of us taking Accountability, having Self Respect, in order to have Respect for others, and the list goes on!
Communication, Understanding, Morals and Values, able to Compromise, and having Realistic expectations.
Relationship's are Not meant to be Fun and games, if you're both seeking a potential future Together!
Thank You Pastor Blakes. God Bless You, Lisa and your entire Family.
🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
Amazing information!!! Bless you🙏🏾
August 26th is my birthday 🥳 🙌🏽 ♍️ 🫶🏽
Happy birthday, cheers to a beautiful year
Happy Birthday Queen🎉🎉
@@nicolebingham821 thank you so much!! Aww 😊
The volume is very low bishop. Can barely hear. Turned up my volume to max
Thank you so much. I've been spiritually, mentally and physically motivated
Pastor Blakes always great for me to just take the Time to LISTEN an DRAW from THE WISDOM that You give for WOMEN AND MEN.
BLESS YOU AN LISA!🙏❤️🙏😊
True, one can only walk together when one is committed to a same vision. Lord, in accordance with this word and amos 3:3, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone with whom I do not share same long-term goals with, thank you God, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Excuse yourself to the ladies room to read what you wrote. Make sure that you don't pull the paper with these questions outta your purse 📜 in front of him when you ask these questions 😆 Thank you Pastor, God Bless you and your family 💕
😅 i for sure am going to print them out for my daughter to keep in her purse 😊
Be funny if the guy also had a similar set of questions to ask the woman. Then you would suddenly look at each other then break out laughing.
@@alij5424 😂 yes that would be funny something they'd always remember
Mr Blakes, your videos are never too long. I love listening to you. God Bless
These questions are great but I think we can take the real answers by observing.Actions tell the truth about someone not the words.
Always love to listen every word from u Bishop. God bless u and ur family. Thanks, I've learned and still learning from your teachings and counciling.
Too bad he doesn't teach the truth.
Thanks for this important message. Love your life teachings. Be blessed, tuning in from Tanzania! 💗
I met maybe one men like the one you are describing, and he is married 😄
Thank you!! All women need to hear this and the younger the better😊😊😊😊
Thank you so much for sharing this information. As a divorcee, hoping to start dating again, I will definitely be adding these to my list. Most importantly, answer them for myself.
You are teaching and Preaching at the same time!!!
Preach!!! 25:25 28:40 45:13 45:38
Knowing each other on deeper level is very essential to finding the man who’s right for you. These are valuable questions to ask when getting to know a man. His answers to these questions will tell you a lot about his character, beliefs and mindset. Amen 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏 YOU are speaking the truth Bishop 🙏💯
Hi Pastor and First Lady Blakes thanks so much for this video! Truth! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Where's the intro song😢
It's become my mantra.
this was amazing as usual
thank you
What advice do you have for a 70 year old woman who doesn't want to be married again and choose not to date, but just have a friend (s) with no sex involved. Is that a plan that is unreasonable?
I am waiting for that myself
Thank you for such strong, inspiring & honest content
You teaching have taught me so much. Thank you. Praise YAH for you!! Congratulations on the new equipment. The volume is kind of low. Maybe it’s just my devices.
This information was so awesome make me understand I haven't ask questions that is really important. Thank you so much.
A lot of people nowadays are not thinking of long term relationships or marriage even its enough to grab some momentary pleasure while you can!
This is excellent wisdom as usual, thank you so much! God bless you and your family!
I want to know how to discern these answers by watching his actions. Much better than words.. IMHO
I respect and honor all that you teach💕🙏✝️ much love to you and your wife 💕
These are great. The outcomes applied to my former marriage and are being asked in my dating life. 💯
The volume on this one is unusually low.
I LOVE THIS REAL TALK BLESS HIM LORD WITH MORE WISDOM THANK U BROTHER
Yesssss say that louder!
“Work is not all there is to life.” Yes
God wants us to work but He also wants us to rest😴…..
Because He did and He created the whole world.!
That is why God set aside the Seventh Day for us to rest and worship.