5ive THINGS TO NEVER DO WITH A BROKEN HEART by RC Blakes

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  • FIVE THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO WITH A BROKEN HEART by RC BLAKES
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  • @ewa5803
    @ewa5803 4 года назад +878

    Sometimes God breaks your heart, to save your soul...

    • @Sunshine-vq9nf
      @Sunshine-vq9nf 4 года назад +43

      So true , happened to me and I am so grateful.

    • @wandalipscomb-lee736
      @wandalipscomb-lee736 4 года назад +16

      Preach!!!!!

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +1

      @@wandalipscomb-lee736 ?

    • @wandalipscomb-lee736
      @wandalipscomb-lee736 4 года назад +15

      @@ewa5803 Sometime God Breaks your Heart To Save Your Soul Preach that word

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +4

      @@wandalipscomb-lee736 Ok!💚

  • @universallove878
    @universallove878 4 года назад +536

    Never put your heart into someone that is also broken. Hurting people hurt people 💞

    • @sexycaramel772
      @sexycaramel772 4 года назад +16

      So true, going through that now, , my Heart is in Pain.

    • @barryhansen1111
      @barryhansen1111 4 года назад +18

      Never put your heart into someone that is also broken, unless you're willing to suffer with them. Hurting people hurt people. You have to realize that you're getting into.

    • @sexycaramel772
      @sexycaramel772 4 года назад +6

      Thanks so much, finding the strength to move on with Life

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 4 года назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @sandracampbell389
      @sandracampbell389 4 года назад +1

      Amen so true

  • @dutchess3139
    @dutchess3139 4 года назад +608

    I have a broken heart! It is effecting me day and night. The tears won't stop. I have accepted he does not want me for more than sex and i deserve better than that. i gave him 10 years of my life and i'm done. I want freedom to look forward to my future with peace and joy! I FULLY EMBRACE MY HURT, PAIN, MY MISTAKES AND MY CIRCUMSTANCE! I WILL THRIVE!

    • @marshellbrown8613
      @marshellbrown8613 4 года назад +49

      Bless you, you are going to make it out of this season of pain

    • @dutchess3139
      @dutchess3139 4 года назад +20

      @@marshellbrown8613 Thank you for the word of encouragement.

    • @Sand24
      @Sand24 4 года назад +59

      You were with a demon who was a sex addict and a narcissist

    • @stephaniemorriar7578
      @stephaniemorriar7578 4 года назад +34

      You can make it. You're going to be surprised how you will thrive after moving on

    • @Tluv_1955
      @Tluv_1955 4 года назад +46

      Same with me I’m in the exact same situation I just broke down crying to let it out girl and keep ur head up 😇

  • @natashiajames233
    @natashiajames233 4 года назад +212

    Focus on your agenda , visions and goals. It outweighs the pain.

  • @TBugz-gb5zn
    @TBugz-gb5zn 4 года назад +168

    Acknowledge, except, let go, forgive, and move on

    • @valeriahaynes3332
      @valeriahaynes3332 4 года назад +14

      Evan though acknowledging, accepting, and letting go is easier said than to do it, it must be done. It also takes time.

    • @fitzpatrickstacey5021
      @fitzpatrickstacey5021 3 года назад +2

      Accept is true to move on

  • @natashiajames233
    @natashiajames233 4 года назад +409

    Don’t analyze your pain, it’s not logical. Don’t socialize pain, the streets don’t need to know. Predators are signaled.

    • @DKForeman
      @DKForeman 4 года назад +7

      #facts

    • @Ruth-vb3sx
      @Ruth-vb3sx 4 года назад +2

      I agree with Natasha

    • @paulahouse7940
      @paulahouse7940 4 года назад +9

      Thank you for this message now I understand

    • @paulahouse7940
      @paulahouse7940 4 года назад +3

      @@DKForeman this is a much meeded message

    • @happylindsay4475
      @happylindsay4475 4 года назад +1

      That was beautifully expressed- thank you so much.

  • @Bornfree1010
    @Bornfree1010 11 месяцев назад +38

    I have literally been binge watching Pastor Blake for 3 weeks. If I am not at work, I am listening. They are helping me.

    • @melissathompson2338
      @melissathompson2338 8 месяцев назад

      I agree..me too

    • @veeapril
      @veeapril 8 месяцев назад

      Totally agree

    • @mst8521
      @mst8521 7 месяцев назад

      Same I’m doing that now … I’m trying to get over a heart break 💔

    • @BelleMaria267
      @BelleMaria267 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same here. Can’t get enough of his teachings.

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад +190

    You mind heart is the most powerful organs in your body be careful who you give it too ...God alone should have your heart because people will destroy you 💔😥 God help us broken hearted People amen 🙏

  • @wandalipscomb-lee736
    @wandalipscomb-lee736 4 года назад +223

    Broken hearts take time to heal. My broken heart came from my Dad and ever man after has broken my heart. That's why I believe healing is necessary.

    • @clasierrandle2346
      @clasierrandle2346 4 года назад +2

      True story💔

    • @wandalipscomb-lee736
      @wandalipscomb-lee736 4 года назад +3

      @Neandra McIntyre I have the choice Trust God and push or stay in the blame place. Ye though I walk thur the shadow of death I will fear no evil...This is me speaking to me trusting God process. It been rewarding to understanding the why I was choosing the same man. Now I choose to live a full whole life by living God Promises

    • @godschildmuchluv25
      @godschildmuchluv25 4 года назад +5

      I destroyed everything that even reminded me of him. Our wedding pictures was the first to go.

    • @wandalipscomb-lee736
      @wandalipscomb-lee736 4 года назад

      @Neandra McIntyre Thank you. I have to come back every now and than to recharge my Spirit and remind myself God doesn't make mistakes💞🦋

    • @queensunshine11
      @queensunshine11 3 года назад +1

      Yes my dad, my step dad and now my husband!! Healing truly needs to take place!

  • @merolinekaka7714
    @merolinekaka7714 4 года назад +174

    Thank you, pastor Blake. I am married because you have helped me to step out of a relationship with a narcissist. I have my power back.

    • @itiswell
      @itiswell 3 года назад +14

      Wow Congratulations, this is amazing to hear. I don't know you but, I am happy for you. You give me hope. I was married to and have a child with a narcissist. I did did the final discard 30 days ago. We are together 9yrs and our divorce was over 2 years ago. Then came what I now know a many failed hoovering attempts. I had to cut it off and go NC. So reading our comment resignates in my spirit. Be Blessed!!

    • @alisonfranklin4494
      @alisonfranklin4494 2 года назад +6

      My God! My God! Meroline; I ended an 11 year relationship with a narcissistic. abuser!!! I’m liberated and free and my soul is in joy!!! I have my power back and life is going to be amazing with the blessings of God!!

  • @ewa5803
    @ewa5803 4 года назад +333

    1. Do not trivilize your pain. Do not put on a happy face when in reality you are crushed. To trivilize yout pain is to deny yourself the cleansing that aknowlegment brings. There is no healing in a LIE. If you deny or trivilize your pain you will be emotionally stuck. If you do that, you develop a tolerance for abuse and you will repeat it. Do not expect a healing from an abuser, it won't come and it has no power to heal you.
    Remember that the abuser intentionally works that you trivilize your pain.
    2. Do not memorialise the pain. Do not build a monument to this pain. Do not let your soul rot, release the past, press toward your future. Pain is involontary, but healing is intentional. Put a pressure on your conciouseness to leave a grave of history.
    3. Do not prioritize your pain. Do not make your pain your main focus. You have to give your life HIGHER focus, new vision for your life.
    4. Do not analyse your pain because you can never understand another man's heart and mind. When a affliction has no sense, the broken heart makes itself a cause, it is easier than live with un-answered questions.
    5. Do not socialize your pain. When you do that, you signal predators. It is like a blood in water for sharks. The broken heart pain has to be processed privately or in a closed circle.

    • @2888HA0264
      @2888HA0264 4 года назад +10

      Thank you for breaking down pastor blakes teachings.

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +7

      @@2888HA0264 💚THANK YOU💚 ps. Sorry for spelling. English is not my mother tongue🙂🤗

    • @Lil_drummer_girl00
      @Lil_drummer_girl00 4 года назад +4

      EXACTLY... Will you be doing this in ALLL of his comments?? Cause he throwing me with ALL THAT THANKSGIVING.... He should count how many times he does it...😑😤🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @christykumari
      @christykumari 4 года назад +4

      Thanks for typing all points...great help🙂

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +1

      @@christykumari 💚

  • @nejeudi6539
    @nejeudi6539 4 года назад +158

    I've been hurt so much to point I'm angry and bitter. I want to love again when I'm whole. I don't want to mess a good man up because I'm not ready.

    • @deesjourney3284
      @deesjourney3284 4 года назад +19

      Release your pain and bitterness. You're a Winner! Never give into to the anger. They'll win.

    • @deesjourney3284
      @deesjourney3284 4 года назад +6

      Claim God's Healing Hands over the hurt. God broke your heart to save your soul. Pastor RC Blake Jr.

    • @TBugz-gb5zn
      @TBugz-gb5zn 4 года назад +9

      It's time to forgive and move on. It happens. Dont be bitter it's a lesson. 💕

    • @7125joyce
      @7125joyce 4 года назад +6

      Pastor Blakes has a video on 4 keys to Develop The Skill of Self Love. This is awesome for I stayed up from 12:00 a.m. until 2:00a.m. taking notes. Sometimes we have to replay over and over again, until we get it in our heart, because I’m not trying to let another man use my body, my mind, or my time anymore. So I am working on me - to love me first after God. Oh, ask God to take the anger and bitterness because he said cast all your cares on him. This works!

    • @louiseottley4995
      @louiseottley4995 4 года назад +3

      It happens to all of us have faith

  • @keason754
    @keason754 4 года назад +47

    Heartbroken from so many things.. just want to heal. So tired of trusting the wrong people, just want God to heal it.. can't do this anymore

  • @alicea561
    @alicea561 4 года назад +125

    LET GO & TRUST GOD
    Trust in God through your pain. then the understanding will come. Only if you stick with God. If God always give us understanding for what he is doing or allowing in our life then we wouldn't need faith or we would never change.
    PAIN HAS ITS PURPOSE
    God doesn’t enjoy letting us hurt. He is a loving God who wants the best for each of us. He allows trials and suffering to occur in our lives for one purpose only-because it’s sometimes through the difficulties and the pain that He can take and shape us into the best we can be.
    just trust the process and forgive and keep pressing. So don't focus on the why. focus on God, Because he's the only one that can give us rest in peace through your pain.
    God is going to use your pain and the hurts you go through not to set you back but to fuel you forward.
    So the key is to ,let go, let God, forgive yourself, forgive others and work on self. Then understanding will come.
    Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose

  • @katrinabeatty4372
    @katrinabeatty4372 4 года назад +102

    My Life Is About To Be Amazing!

  • @Crgb777
    @Crgb777 11 месяцев назад +9

    14:25
    We think our closure is in the person that broke us, coming back to fix us. But this won't happen - and they usually arent qualified to heal or fix us anyways. Our closure is going to be in being able to acknowledge what we've gone through, feel it, process it, release the person who did that to you and move forward emotionally.

  • @ezera3201
    @ezera3201 4 года назад +119

    Bishop Blakes, Point #5, "dont socialize your pain" "when we do, "we signal PREDATORS!! Lord Jesus, your are absolutley correct. When you made this point, it really hit me....thank you Sir

    • @faithmumbi
      @faithmumbi 4 года назад +11

      Very on point.Being choosy with what to self disclose to whoever is very important particularly when you're vulnerable.
      Disclose everything to God only through prayer.

    • @ThePhoinix33
      @ThePhoinix33 4 года назад +6

      Tuned in late ,OMG yes indeed. This bullet point is spot on.Thanks for your comment 😇

  • @spectacularrichbeautybrilli
    @spectacularrichbeautybrilli 4 года назад +42

    DON'T MEMORIALIZE YOUR PAIN: Ooooo!!! @22:36 This message was so essential, even when we were not looking for it. PAIN: Don't Trivialize it, Memorialize it, Prioritize it, Analyze it, (don't sympathize it!) or Socialize it... IN ESSENCE, DON'T ENERGIZE YOUR PAIN. Take out the batteries and discard it. Thank you Pastor.

  • @leslielewis40
    @leslielewis40 4 года назад +81

    Thanks for helping those of us who don’t have dad’s to turn to for this information.

    • @ezera3201
      @ezera3201 4 года назад +1

      Leslie, I can relate.

    • @denisekennedy2556
      @denisekennedy2556 4 года назад +2

      U are a Blessing to me..Thank you

    • @weathamorris4251
      @weathamorris4251 3 года назад

      Or decent dads!

    • @sistersusie8569
      @sistersusie8569 3 года назад

      Life has been hard with no father, true, but God is faithful that is also true

  • @virgosrule71
    @virgosrule71 4 года назад +76

    I am healing from being the other woman. After listening to your Father Daughter Talks, I finally found the courage to break away from a 6 year affair with a married man. I’m heartbroken, mainly because I allowed myself to be a fool for way too long. Thank you so much for your talks that shook my Spirit into submission to God🙏🏽🌹🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @thelovely1553
      @thelovely1553 4 года назад +5

      I was one for 5 yrs and it ended last week, I cant describe my intense feelings for him but I know this is for the best and for me to do some soul searching

    • @virgosrule71
      @virgosrule71 4 года назад +1

      ladyluck lovely1 Thank for that and me too sis, Stay Strong! We got this🌹🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @ifkanoloshuwaaallah.2341
      @ifkanoloshuwaaallah.2341 4 года назад +7

      @Fire Ball the is man to blame equally.

    • @nemo7782
      @nemo7782 3 года назад +7

      @Fire Ball Easy to point the finger, harder to look in the mirror. The 'other' woman is guilty as is your husband. Still, WHY did he stray to her? Ask that question. Try to closely look at yourself and your actions. I think you might find that you are somewhat guilty all on your own. Not completely, of course, but you still have something to do with the matter.

    • @KimHeb.
      @KimHeb. 3 года назад +4

      A man cannot cheat alone. If more women learned to love themselves there would not be an option to break homes this way. A man does not stray because his wife is horrible, society needs to stop blaming the wives who are betrayed. The cheater is responsible for their actions and more so the person they are cheating with especially if they know. Personally, there is no excuse for not knowing if you're the other women especially if you are vetting the guy. Its all about self love and understanding the God will never give you some one else's husband especially if in his eyes you are braking up a home that has created a covenant (marriage) in front of him.
      Take time to heal, cut all communication and be strong when things feel hopeless and he will reward you for changing your heart and turning to him.

  • @QueenBeluchi
    @QueenBeluchi 4 года назад +47

    The way he can get off topic about a comment and jump right back into the subject, rarely losing his train of thought. A King, a talent, now that I know it exist i will pray for it.

    • @beatricerweyemamu5540
      @beatricerweyemamu5540 4 года назад +2

      Its really annoying I don't even understand why he pays attention and its important to him, and to those sending those comments they should know better...its unprofessional this is a presentation which we pay to watch internet is not free...!

  • @kellymcnabb3693
    @kellymcnabb3693 4 года назад +72

    Do men ever look at themselves like this....do they get soul ties???? Can they just move on to the next woman and be a blessing to her? I'm struggling right now with this soul tie.....and ruminating over the good things.....but my pain is horrible!!! I hurt. He sure walked away like I was nothing....absolutely nothing.

    • @JenyCampillanos
      @JenyCampillanos 4 года назад +4

      😢😢😢

    • @juliemiller4461
      @juliemiller4461 4 года назад +35

      Karma is real.....his day will come. Work on your healing with God and learn from your mistakes. You are a Queen....let the clown go !

    • @freddrickwilson3579
      @freddrickwilson3579 4 года назад +16

      Men have the same experiences with soul ties.. We're human!! Some men act like your talking about because they are hurting and we all reap what we do..

    • @kellymcnabb3693
      @kellymcnabb3693 4 года назад +12

      Thank you all for your validation......I've questioned myself over and over thinking that I might be the narcissist because of my out of the box behavior.....not feeling safe or loved. Frederick.....thank you for your male perspective......that means a lot. I feel jealous that shes getting the man that I invested several years into and now they will have all the fun.

    • @freddrickwilson3579
      @freddrickwilson3579 4 года назад +10

      Men also go through building a woman up.. Encouraging them,teaching,being kind,inspiring,showing there are decent men.. Only for some women to completely show disrespect,but use what's she's gained from the decent man to act right with a man that will never care..

  • @charmainecarter9356
    @charmainecarter9356 4 года назад +22

    Just deleted a lot of foolishness I was keeping in my phone. Thanks for your guidance.

  • @margaritabirgen
    @margaritabirgen 4 года назад +36

    when I socialize my pain I am signaling Predators! ...I am cooperating with my enemies for my own destruction! that is a lot of Truth right there..❤️
    Bless You Pastor Blakes. Thank you for Teaching us these Life Lessons.

  • @tornettatayourie5166
    @tornettatayourie5166 4 года назад +33

    I am so glad that the Lord is using Pastor RC Blakes to express His love to the hurting. God is expressing His love for us through your teachings. God bless you...!!

  • @edelweissdebergbaldrian7696
    @edelweissdebergbaldrian7696 4 года назад +79

    The man who broke me is the one who said he was trying to help me.

  • @shantellrenefelix2537
    @shantellrenefelix2537 4 года назад +69

    In that position now. I appreciate ur teaching, I had to get out, the heartbreak is undescribable

    • @Tluv_1955
      @Tluv_1955 4 года назад +12

      Me too feels like death keep ur head up

    • @shannonwhite6591
      @shannonwhite6591 4 года назад +6

      I can relate big time.

    • @TiaJoy1372
      @TiaJoy1372 4 года назад +4

      I don't really know what it feels like when your dying in pain but that's what my heart felt like, literally hurting( I really felt like a whole was in my heart, like a heart murmur) because of heartbreak so grateful to God that I'm in a different place

    • @stacyjohennessy
      @stacyjohennessy 4 года назад +4

      Thank you. Your messages are so healing and validating, the things I know but need to keep in practice/perspective. I cried, and the #5 was so solidifying...I told my ex(39)he was a predator, bc he started a snapchat flirting relationship with a girl(24)who posts all her woes via fb. Considered cheating(in my world) packed my stuff and left (6yrstogether), hard as hell. Still healing.

    • @yvettevazquez3561
      @yvettevazquez3561 4 года назад

      Unbearable

  • @chimma3711
    @chimma3711 4 года назад +10

    The pain is always worth it after you 've healed.

  • @blancheturner2832
    @blancheturner2832 2 года назад +4

    I am healing from a broken heart thank for this lesson amen

  • @dutchess3139
    @dutchess3139 4 года назад +38

    I TEAR DOWN THE STATUES OF THE MEMORY'S OF MY PAIN!

    • @wonderfullyblessed2833
      @wonderfullyblessed2833 4 года назад +3

      In Jesus name I stand in agreement with you sister🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @7125joyce
      @7125joyce 4 года назад +3

      I’m still praying for you, my sister. It might help if you put praise music on - the ones that make you dance this is what I do to keep my spirit lifted when I get overwhelmed with life, and I think of all the times he spared my life when I was sinning. So forgive him like God has forgiven us one time or many times but God keep on loving us so rejoice and push forward! I guarantee if you do this a breakthrough will come sooner because your greater is on the way, I speak that on your life in Jesus name. Amen Remember Satan enjoy when we are down and he laugh at God saying I got this one but I believe God is saying not so, this is my daughter and you won’t have her joy!

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 4 года назад +12

    When an affliction makes no sense the broken would rather see itself as the cause than to live with the unanswered question of why? Powerful!

  • @cr4228
    @cr4228 4 года назад +16

    Yes, but enough is enough. It's bad enough that we allow others to hurt us (narcissistic abuse) but to carry on the hurt and pain is another hurt that just gets deeper. We must feel the pain in order to begin the healing. The healing comes from accepting the pain as a GIFT of WOKE. It will bring you forward. Do not trivialize the pain from a broken heart. Staying with a narcissist was the tolerating of the pain and denying it brought you to the broken heart (which was already breaking while taking the abuse.)

  • @GameOver-cg3jx
    @GameOver-cg3jx 4 года назад +17

    When you socialize your pain you're giving your enemies the tools to destroy you emotionally #GuardYourHeart

  • @tornettatayourie5166
    @tornettatayourie5166 4 года назад +8

    Pastor RC Blakes is interrupting storms. I am experiencing so much more JOY these days.

  • @zurigee6
    @zurigee6 4 года назад +14

    Wow,"Check your phone for a text". Making a person into an idol.

  • @inaciamartin5511
    @inaciamartin5511 4 года назад +42

    Thank you pastor these lessons are vital to me at this moment.
    I am happy I found you.

  • @nalaniaivao8679
    @nalaniaivao8679 3 года назад +6

    I was broken. Turned back to the Lord & laid my messy, sinful rags at His feet & He delivered me. I had to be honest with myself & realize how much He loved me to see my worth. Moving forward with the lessons. I'm healed, saved, & whole keeping my eyes fixed on Him because He's made my life path. Hallelujah

  • @7125joyce
    @7125joyce 4 года назад +13

    I just posted this message on Facebook because it’s so good. I want everybody to receive this healing- thanks again for letting God teach the world!!!

  • @natashiajames233
    @natashiajames233 4 года назад +19

    Stop 🛑 trivializing your pain. Accept, forgive and move on.

  • @kizzythompson3135
    @kizzythompson3135 4 года назад +27

    Blessings Pastor Blakes. Thank God for healing me from hurt and pain. It's been 3 years since being mentored by you on your RUclips channel. You've been a blessing.

  • @judithstevens4323
    @judithstevens4323 4 года назад +18

    Thank you pastor. I sooo NEEDED this message. I just got my heart broken by my new love interest. Please pray for me. I love you & you are looking good! Quarantine agrees with you!!

  • @jeanmarieboykins4417
    @jeanmarieboykins4417 Год назад +4

    Thank you Lord for allowing Bishop RC Blakes for keeping this teaching available on you tube!
    Received and appreciated!
    God Bless this Ministry🙏🏽💯

  • @katrinabeatty4372
    @katrinabeatty4372 4 года назад +17

    Healing Is Intentionally!

  • @7125joyce
    @7125joyce 4 года назад +16

    Amen - You are preaching! I’m healing from years of forgiveness. I praise God for you are confirming what God is teaching me!!.

  • @ewa5803
    @ewa5803 4 года назад +7

    Thank you Pastor. I am Roman Catholic from Poland. Your teachings bring me a lot of wisdom and comfort. I had my heart broken, everyday I try to heal it. It is a struggle but I am starting to see the fruits. Thank you for all that you do for womens hearts.

    • @You_can_do_itt
      @You_can_do_itt 4 года назад +1

      Hej, tez slucham od dluzszego czasu Pastora. Pozdrawiam 🙂

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +1

      @@You_can_do_itt 🤗💚

  • @amandabest5375
    @amandabest5375 4 года назад +10

    This is really helping me. I am actually proud of myself. I chose to push through this pain of this previous heartbreak. I use to wake up and go to sleep with it on my mind. But I pushed through and confessed Gods word over my life. All I have is hope in God to get me through. I speak everyday RESTITUTION at my door. Amen, thank you Pastor Blakes.

    • @juanitawilliams9263
      @juanitawilliams9263 Год назад

      PRAISE GOD for sending HIS LOVE HEALING WISDOM and Understanding through BISHOP BLAKE! Thank you for your DEDICATION and USE of your ANOINTING for WOMEN and MEN ALL OVER THE WORD being DELIVERED from SOUL TIES!
      LOVE YOU THANK GOD FOR YOU!
      YOU ARE SIMPLY THE BEST❤️ ❤❤

  • @lakeenyam
    @lakeenyam 4 года назад +13

    This has definitely been me, being born to a family of narcissist I was trained to hide my pain. This was a greatly needed message. Thank you pastor!

  • @katrinabeatty4372
    @katrinabeatty4372 4 года назад +14

    Forgetting those things that are behind!
    Press Toward Your Future!

  • @Ms.Haleyy
    @Ms.Haleyy 4 года назад +18

    Not only did I get something out of this (and everything you put out) but I can share it too. There are so many of us out here hurting & hopefully growing. I am so glad you continue to guide us in growth.
    -All the way from Alaska with love and respect for you and your family. Thank you. God bless.

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 4 года назад +26

    I’m going through heart break right now it literally feels like death I can’t explain it just crying to the Lord to heal me. I know with God anything is possible love u pastor ur video came right on time 💜🙏

    • @huemanvoice8991
      @huemanvoice8991 4 года назад +5

      You will be fine. God heals and takes the trash outta your life. Right now you feel like you can't move on.. But I promise you.. You will move on. Sadly we can't skip this pain. Its a powerful way in order for you to appreciate God's help wen it comes.. Love doesn't hurt. Remember that!.. I wish you the best sis. 💕

    • @BeautyWorld85
      @BeautyWorld85 4 года назад +1

      tanya 4everloyal You will get through trust God and everything will fall into place.

    • @markesastewart4741
      @markesastewart4741 3 года назад

      Thank you pastor I can see clearly now this is my second time listening .I let go completely help me Jesus

  • @marshellepayne4020
    @marshellepayne4020 4 года назад +9

    Ended something yesterday, long over due. Thank you for the advice. Moving on and forward. I deserve better and I’m healing so I can claim it

  • @dnewt3551
    @dnewt3551 4 года назад +9

    Pastor Blake’s God is truly using you! I’m receiving my freedom from this conversation. Thank you! 🙂

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 4 года назад +5

    Bless you for being a spiritual father to women, and staying close to the heart and ear of God!!!

  • @SAFFRONSAVANTSTRATAGEM
    @SAFFRONSAVANTSTRATAGEM 4 года назад +9

    "Put pressure on your consciousness to move away from the grave of your history." 💚

  • @cjay2658
    @cjay2658 4 месяца назад +1

    I appreciate this message because my heart was broken recently by a man.

  • @toni_60505
    @toni_60505 4 года назад +7

    Tht type of pain hurts like nobody's business! A deep pain tht wont go away easily. Thts why we need to be careful of who we allow in our lives.

    • @BreaLinn
      @BreaLinn 3 года назад +1

      100% correct

  • @wisdomknowledgelover6293
    @wisdomknowledgelover6293 2 года назад +3

    This is sooo good...The pain has been tremendous I kept wanting my ex husband to really really love me and to keep all his promises...There is no logic or sense as to why someone who promised to love you won't but continued to attack me instead...I finally had to just accept that he just won't and lied...I had to stop feeding into it by fighting with him through texts...I had to stop and tell him I would no longer read his texts or text him as he continued to be disrespectful...It hurts but there is no choice...I must survive...

    • @wisdomknowledgelover6293
      @wisdomknowledgelover6293 2 года назад

      He tried to change my identity...I had to fight to embrace my identity from God and embrace who He says I am.

  • @SaraX2024
    @SaraX2024 4 года назад +5

    "It wasn't so bad." That typical excuse I had about my childhood until I was 30 and began my healing journey.

  • @hopevictorria7556
    @hopevictorria7556 3 года назад +4

    I tried holding back tears, but I just couldn’t!! Thank you Pastor!!!

  • @dana6922
    @dana6922 4 года назад +4

    Psalms 34:18
    The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
    Amen! This message came in my devotional the day after he moved out after 6 years. Thank you so much Pastor. I have just found your messages in the last 3 weeks since he moved out. Bless you for your knowledge and sharing it. 💖

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 4 года назад +7

    I loved this Teaching A Broken ❤can literally kill your Spirt,🙏for those who have hurt you acknowledge it ,But you HAVE to move on .Life is worth living,Recieve the lesson and Give it to GOD.....

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 4 года назад +8

    When you socialize your pain you’re signaling predators...true!

    • @markesastewart4741
      @markesastewart4741 3 года назад

      I'm moving forward pastor Blake's in a major way I received and taking responsibility for my actions . Choosing to forgive and apologizing to my self . God is birthing divine purpose out of my pain. I thank God for you! I'm growing getting better ❤️💯😍 becoming the best version of me.

  • @laniebryan7375
    @laniebryan7375 4 года назад +1

    OMG! The world is ENTERTAINED by your PAIN! That’s DEEP!

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess 4 года назад +8

    Pastor I have read many many many many spiritual things to get guidance in order to heal my pain. Your sermon was the absolute breakthrough , absolute breakthrough with the tools that I needed to help me to be complete with it! thank you and I love you more than words can say!❤️

  • @susanfranklin1593
    @susanfranklin1593 4 года назад +4

    I've learned so much from you Pastor Blake, you have been my Soul Healer. Just purchased Soul Ties, Father Daughter talk and Queenology. I have chosen you my Pastor for Life..

  • @solidsix6766
    @solidsix6766 4 года назад +3

    Pastor, although I'm crying as I send this message, thank you for your words. They touched my heart. Healing will come.

  • @lorigabriel5880
    @lorigabriel5880 4 года назад +8

    I've been listening to u for a short period of time .I could honestly say u have changed my way of thinking..thk u so much

  • @maryrutkowski7195
    @maryrutkowski7195 3 года назад +2

    This talk blew my mind especially your statement: "The person who hurt is probably the least qualified to help heal you." How I wish I had read this four years ago when I discovered, by accident, my husband's almost two year affair - emotional and physical. It would have changed my whole approach to this event and trajectory. But no matter... I learned the hard way that he can't really help heal me... as much as he'd like to (well, eventually he did.... at first he was happy to help blame and let me take the blame). I learned a lot about myself and him through asking for his help. Finally I realized it was not going to lead to any healing for me, him and us to ask him for help. Asking God to heal me... going to Al Anon meetings and prayer and friends and family have been much more healing ... Time and God ... Time passing and leaning on God and remembering "Rejection is (often) God's protection." Thank you, thank you for this phenomenal talk Rev. RC Blakes. Bless you.

  • @natashiajames233
    @natashiajames233 4 года назад +41

    Deposit what’s dead and move on with your life! Healing is moving away from the grave of your history. Lord 🌈

  • @doriscrumpton2980
    @doriscrumpton2980 4 года назад +5

    I believe often times when we experiences a broken ❤️ it intensifies when we complies that from other painful ❤️ breaking events that we have had in life from that we never healed from. You must focus on God and keep busy doing things that help others and keep busy keeping your mind off the thing that caused your pain. Do something that take your focus off the pain. In due time the pain will be gone. Just keep moving loving God and yourself. Forgive them and fill the void. Be Blessed 🙏♥️ Love yourselves and put God first

  • @ronnara28
    @ronnara28 3 года назад +2

    When you socialize your pain, you signal predators!! Whew this is helpful.. Thank you Pastor

  • @sylviataylor4173
    @sylviataylor4173 2 года назад +2

    You are a force Bishop RC Blake. Thank you!

  • @ashleybush5132
    @ashleybush5132 4 года назад +8

    WHEWW THAT WAS A WORD...GOD BLESS YOU‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @marcycane1793
    @marcycane1793 4 года назад +5

    Straight from God! Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is a GREAT word.

  • @gwendolynhill3430
    @gwendolynhill3430 4 года назад +2

    I JUST STUMBLE ACROSS YOU ON RUclips. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. MY MOM ALWAYS TAUGHT ME THAT A MAN WILL DO TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO TO YOU. I'VE BEEN SINGLE FOR ALMOST SEVEN YEARS. I REFUSE TO BE A (DOORMAT) TO ANY MAN. I AM A QUEEN. MY JOURNEY HAS STRENGTHEN ME.

  • @moodey_gnomeymoosic
    @moodey_gnomeymoosic 10 месяцев назад

    I quit from the cruch long time ago but I love your way of speaking. You inspired me with your wisdom Thank you. This attitude of yours gives peace

  • @lisathomas2171
    @lisathomas2171 4 года назад +8

    Thank you, you opened my eyes again, God Bless You! 🙏🏾

  • @jenniferjones5909
    @jenniferjones5909 4 года назад +3

    Bishop Blakes, this teaching is so rich and necessary. I took notes. I’ll be viewing this video again for deeper clarification. Thank you and continued blessings. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @shavondabledsoe3808
    @shavondabledsoe3808 3 года назад +1

    Gm Pastor Blake’s! I was dating a gentleman for a few months,we started out as friends for a year and eventually started dating. Everything thing seemed absolutely right. But as time went on, he revealed to me that he was born a female. My spirit fought and wouldn’t let me have peace as I was trying to process this, because I thought it was a joke. He even asked me does it bother me that he was born a woman! It absolutely does!!! I ended that quick fast and a hurry!!! I’d rather lay alone than having the wrong spirit laying beside me🙏

  • @user-zm5uw4ro9s
    @user-zm5uw4ro9s 7 месяцев назад

    I'm broken now thanks you for the revelation as I was to go out .
    Amen

  • @GLRWIN
    @GLRWIN 4 года назад +3

    This man always soothe my spirit. I wish I could meet you pastor in person. I never want your videos to end.😊😊😊 it’s amazing how much you help all of us through a computer screen

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 4 года назад +7

    Thank you Pastor🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽... always a pleasure to listen to you, such thought-provoking content. Appreciate you!

  • @mikkamorado238
    @mikkamorado238 2 года назад +1

    I dont know what I wouldve done without hearing this message. Thank you Pastor
    YOU JUST SAVED MY LIFE

  • @janewambui5736
    @janewambui5736 4 года назад +1

    I am so encouraged. I am healing. God bless you so much

  • @amoryalsani2212
    @amoryalsani2212 4 года назад +4

    thank you pastor,im so broke right now he left me and my son

  • @veronicasantoscoy7252
    @veronicasantoscoy7252 4 года назад +4

    You are always on point Pastor. God bless you❤️🙏🏽✝️

  • @whendidmanbecomeexpertoverGOD
    @whendidmanbecomeexpertoverGOD 4 года назад +1

    What a wonderful community of people!! Not afraid to share experiences to help each other to heal and learn from every life lesson. Thank God for bringing RC Blake here to bring us together for testimonies. 🙂

  • @millicentsimelane3193
    @millicentsimelane3193 4 года назад +1

    I truly believe God wanted me to see this, thank u man of God😇😇😇

  • @Popeline0702
    @Popeline0702 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Pastor Blakes I appreciate your work so much and learned so much from your videos

  • @kenyattahill2758
    @kenyattahill2758 4 года назад +3

    Thank you Pastor Blake for sharing you knowledge and wisdom. Thank you for being a willing vessel used by the Master! May God continue to bless you

  • @lucyharris1138
    @lucyharris1138 4 года назад +1

    This is the third time I’ve watched this video. Found it 3 days ago. I get more out of it each time. I don’t have adequate words to express my gratitude for this wise counsel.

  • @isabelleallemand6063
    @isabelleallemand6063 4 года назад +2

    Dear RC Blakes. Thank you so much for your videos.Much love and blessings !💖

  • @matthewsworld878
    @matthewsworld878 4 года назад +5

    Thank you I really needed this word tonight 🙏🏽

  • @brittneyberry4934
    @brittneyberry4934 4 года назад +5

    I so needed to hear this word. I left my abuser and I feel very broken on today. After being physically and verbally abused I finally got up the strength and nerve to call the police and my abuser is guilting me for him being in jail. Im ready to accept my part in this. Ready for my healing. And I do feel the Lord near me at this time.

  • @bobbijokramm955
    @bobbijokramm955 3 года назад +1

    Thank God for u R.C. Blakes‼️🙏❤ u have started the snow ball of change deep with in me that saved my life‼️ I am successful in most areas of my life but relationships until I learned from u‼️💯 ur an angel directly from GOD🙏

  • @godthoughts4Ume
    @godthoughts4Ume 4 года назад +2

    Yes, thank you❣May Contnued Blessings from the Heavens Above, to You, Your Family, and Your Ministries❣

  • @awilliams1730
    @awilliams1730 4 года назад +7

    Pastor this was an amazing lesson. Man this was so good.

  • @feliciacarrington681
    @feliciacarrington681 4 года назад +28

    I am praying that this soul tie will be broken,I'm cried out,I really like this guy,and me being so vulnerable, after the narc,I was starved for attention,this police man used his material possession, and his high rank and had ny ego feeling like he liked,me to find out he only wanted sex,he dont call,text I asked him,what do you want a wife,a girfriend,a booty call etc...He told me he wanted all of them above, this man, wanted to hin unprotected sex,I feel like I should have learn my lesson,coming out of a narc situationship.

    • @hikerhobby1204
      @hikerhobby1204 4 года назад +7

      : Felicia, I’ll be praying for you too. It’s so hard. Please go easy on yourself. Jesus, please give Felicia the Peace that only You Can Give! God Bless You Sweet Lady.

    • @Sand24
      @Sand24 4 года назад +11

      He was demon not a man

    • @ewa5803
      @ewa5803 4 года назад +1

      Same...

    • @Miss.Melody83
      @Miss.Melody83 4 года назад +5

      I've learned to just not have sex with a man. It's too much of a risk involved. When a man is given sex a woman really does lose her power.

    • @ExistNNature
      @ExistNNature 3 года назад

      Try listening to Tibetan or Crystal bowls while sleeping. You will get through this.

  • @juditholoo3535
    @juditholoo3535 4 года назад +1

    Oh thank you so much. I keep getting built and become stronger each day by your teachings. You're soooo real.. God bless you and give you life in abundance.

  • @patreasemcfarlane9
    @patreasemcfarlane9 4 года назад +2

    Man of God I love your teaching