What is your answer for the difference that women have that we are under an edict just like we have monthly cycles and childbearing, we are under a god-given edict that we desire a man in a way that we cannot stop, in a way that possibly men do not have, the way it's written in Genesis. I never hear this addressed.
Bishop I encourage you today. Keep teaching and keep sharing the gospel the way God has given you. Continue to be spirit lead. If nobody shares the gospel or this video you did your part.
My dad passed away 12 years ago. I have been listening to you pretending like it was my dad teaching me life lessons. Thank you for empowering us through your videos! 🙏
Wow, can you use this? Lol My Mom passed away 5yrs ago, my sis 7yrs. I have 4 siblings, hardly talk to them. Feel so alone. Thank God! I’m walking with God. He fills my heart. Amen❤❤
This is why I enjoy being at home and being myself because I am blessed with the opportunity to work on myself. Eating healthier, taking care of my mind, becoming a better woman, mother, sister etc
I can testify to this. I met my husband living my best life. I still enjoy developing various projects he found me working on. This marriage follows a 5 year period of being single after a series of toxic relationships. My husband is different from the men I met before. In my recent single years, I learned a lot about boundaries and order and peace. I also received grace to complete a 40 day liquid fast. That led to major deliverance. My life is a whole new experience now.
As a child i was abused mentally, verbally, physically. My father was not in our home, just step fathers. Mum was messed up. From a young age i developed crushes on boys and as a young adult, men. I ran to them for love i never had. But they sexually abused me too. I am finally starting my life over at 31. This video rings true. God has shaken me to my core. ❤❤
Thinking back to how broken i was when i discovered this channel last year, here i am today so much in love with myself, i have so much peace. The best thing a woman can do for herself is to choose herself with God in the forefront. I cherish and adore myself 😂 not kidding. Make the move sisters, your life will never remain the same again.
This why I’ve always noticed most women who are successful in relationships number one weren’t even looking and they were living life on purpose. That’s what happens when you let go and let God and work on being the best version of yourself. # you just glow different #
I agree. It happened when they weren't expecting it. I think some women are still stuck in the house waiting on a man to give them a life. I think women are still centering their life around men and don't realize it.
I needed this, Im starting to feel anxious for a husband. I have more self healing to do and my finances are not in order. Im also sensitive about rejection too. Geesh. Let me get busy on me.❤❤❤
Dear RC, I wanted to write you to thank you for helping me get my life together. Your RUclips channel is priceless and I'm sure has saved many women from further self destruction. 2.5 years ago, I was in an abusive relationship. Somehow I stumbled upon one of your videos and it changed my life completely. Within days I left that toxic man FOR GOOD. Within weeks I discovered my path in life, applied to grad school, got accepted, and started class. I have allowed your love for women to pour into me and become my own self love. I've stayed single, never settling for an inferior man. I've busied myself with my studies. This December I will graduate with my Masters degree and I will live my dreams and take care of myself financially. Amazingly, just like you predict in your videos (after a woman does her self work) I've met my King. I didn't need him or expect him, but here he is and I was able to discern him, recognize his high value because I've regained my Queen consciousness. I watched all your videos about Kings and safe men just to make sure. He checks off all the boxes. I believe God led me to your video 2.5 years ago. Then I did the hard work with your guidance and my life is completely transformed. You're a blessing and I feel blessed. Thank you so much for your work and showing the world what a real man is.
I love working on myself. There is such freedom to break away from things and people that have no business in my life. I am a widow going on six years, and I have been doing exactly what you are teaching us. I can not say it's been easy, but it is so worth every time I have been delivered from the old me and discover God's beautiful daughter. I
This is a WHOLE word and I will listen again! One thing you said that stood out and registered was “some of y’all spend all day on social media looking how to find a man, when you need to be working on yourself and your purpose.” Not your exact words but paraphrasing. I felt that! I don’t do it all day but I’ve done it enough. Thank you Pastor! 💙
This message was spot on! For me, as a woman who is working on herself, this message was confirmation that I’m right where I should be. I most definitely needed this! May God continue to bless you pastor 🙏🏾💕
I don’t know you but I will keep your marriage in my prayers… I did not have any women (except my mom) praying for me when I was going thru separation and a divorce…so I want to be to you what I needed…and that is a praying woman that believes in marriage…may all be well
Thank you bishop! I'm grateful for your teachings. This is beneficial to me as a woman who finally recognized my worth after 25 years of being in an abusive marriage, and who is on my self development journey; going back to school to upgrade myself, building a house for myself and taking care of my physical and emotional health❤
I have been married before and I was so unhappy while I was married it wasn't even funny! I am more happier now while I am single. I would pray and ask God to get me out of my married and I was so glad when he did!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Jesus!
One of your best conversations! You remind me of my beloved father who always gave me the same advice. Developing self worth, self respect and self esteem is a life long process, but my father’s words and your teachings keep me on the right path. God bless you and your work. Thank you.
I have been a narcissist for a long time, and I need help before it's too late. This is my first time listening to your sermons on how to work on herself. It's time for me to pursue my true peace and happiness
Thank you Bishop Blakes. Although I agree with this message, what happens when you've put in all the work and you're moving in your purpose, but still find it unsettling to be alone? Even after a woman has put all the work in and is moving in her purpose, at times she's going to feel that there is something missing. Why? Because she came from a covered place in a man. Her desperation is coming from not feeling covered. As a woman, I do have my own destiny and purpose to fulfill and I'm actively pursuing God's will for my life. But the challenge for me has been in what to do with the "feeling" of being uncovered. I don't think a man can identify with this, even in his sincerest desire to. Adam wasn't pulled out of a covered place. The woman was. Yes, we must work on ourselves. But we have to also be aware of how God made us. We have to be aware of our innate design and know what to do when we're feeling "uncovered". Bestest regards.
I needed this right now. I am working on me, I just realized that in the past few days, I have been under pressure to find a mate. Sudden feeling of loneliness. So glad to hear this! It’s a factory reset
I feel that as many women, it's just that if we're single or unmarried women, they are looked at as if there is something wrong with us. Society, even church folks can be MEAN!!! Yes, I agree to work on oneself first. I was one of those women who didn't want to be looked down on, so I made a mistake. It was a lesson, and I've learned, but I feel for those women who are going through it. I have chosen to work on myself and walk into my purpose.
God spoke to me. Since my break up Ive gained 30 pounds, can barely walk, wake up 15 min before work not giving time to myself nor to God. Eating out a lot, killing myself with food because I feel empty. I know what I need to do
If only the intro song was available for listening/download . It would definitely be an everyday affirmation song! Thank you Bishop for the amazing message 🙏
This teaching is necessary for single and married women. Along life’s journey we forget how we are created in the image of GOD to receive and live our best life in HIM. As well keeping GOD as our first love. GOD Bless You Pastor and your beautiful wife for dropping the jewels 💎 that demands productivity unto the LORD Jesus!!!
This message is so empowering and definitely what us women need to hear and do. I appreciate your biblical teachings and encouragement. Thank you Bishop, well received as usual!
I lost my Dad 23 years ago when I was only 13, two days before Christmas fast forward haven’t had the best of relationships and just got out of a really toxic/abusive relationship of 5 years on Father’s Day this year but I’ve been listening to you and you have helped me tremendously words can’t even explain. You are much needed and appreciated. Thank you 🙏 so much.
Mmmmm I knew of your teachings recently and you are what I had been looking for in my 30 yrs of existence. I madly wanted to get married, well I still do but I now take it more urgent to work on myself first. Hoping to come back with a testimony. Much love from Kenya, Africa.
Women get your finances right before you get locked down. If your man acts up you can leave and take care of your own rent etc. I see too many of my friends who are stuck because they can't afford a down payment on a place. Love yourself and get your life together first. Don't settle! Life is too short😢
Brilliant. I have been working with God to be in a deeper relationship with God & couldn’t be happier & more at peace as a single woman. Thank you for your clear wisdom! Love you
This addressed my recent relationship and the aftermath so thoroughly, I have no more desire to cry about it as I need to BE about it. I'm enlightened, encouraged and inspired! THANK you!
All of your preaching feels like I’m literally scolded by a dad and your videos 100% apply to my situation 😂 as a 30 yo woman, I really appreciate that. You must be a treasure for daughters. Cheers from Germany
Timely and true. I've spent too much time concerning myself with things and people that did not feed my soul. It's about time I prioritized my own self development.
Yes thank God. This a real message to help us women grow and develop ❤ Now…. Dear Brothers, Any time you’re looking at a Queen you’re looking at a responsibility. Our women of today for the most are so desperate, hey they may come cheap, but Queens for sure don’t come cheap. So brothers if you do not have yourselves together and have no means of finances, Please keep your eyes straight ahead and focus on your development as a man. You need no woman if you are not trying to become a man.
Thank You Pastor Blake's for all the Wisdom and knowledge you bring forth in this video. It's amazing. Every woman in the world needs to hear this video. It's uplifting. It will definitely build women up where It's needed. Thank you for committing to the building of women, where they've been torn down. You are a blessing. From our Master on High. All praises to our Father in Heaven above. Just outstanding!!
Bishop you're my spiritual father as God put in my spirit to listen to you! My husband of 30 yrs. who was a Beautiful man of God transitioned Dec. 30 2022 @6:10pm in my arms. So thankful and grateful for the time we spent together! Thank you for keeping me grounded. I'm so glad I know what a good man entails! Keep up the good work Spiritual father! Thanks to Lisa for sharing you with the woman that need your mentorship! God Blessings to you and your family!❤
I lived most of my life trying to make everyone happy at 62 I found myself discarded from my ex husband after 27 years of marriage my healing is remarkable going on the right direction I’m focused on my happiness taking care of my life. Your words are so profound and so accurate. Thank you
There is not a song being played that blesses me more than SHE. I Thank God for the vision that he have given to you. It was 3:00 in the morning when I heard it for the first time, I had to get up and began to Google until I found it. I never get tired of listening over and over. Sometimes with tears streaming. Thank you. Thank Dave Hollister. But it’s your ministry that blesses my soul. I know I will eventually meet you to shake your hands… the best is yet to come 😊🙌🏾🙏🏾
Praise God for restoring my soul completely in this hour, praise God for giving enough opportunities to grow and prosper! I therefore bind to hell pursuing a common purpose without first pursuing my individual purpose, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with anyone hindering me to prosper in my individual purpose first, praise God! Lord, I repent of the times I have forsaking my gifts and talents, while I bind myself to be a faithful steward over all you have giving me, in accordance with this word and john 15:8, luke 16:12, 2 timothy 3:6-7, amos 3:3, galatians 6:4, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Thank you for this message! I have been divorced 12 years and eventually realized I couldn’t wait around for a husband to make my life better. I am working to improve my income and create a fuller life. I really appreciate your wisdom and desire to share it. You are exactly right, when I have been impatient and tried to find a man it has not been the right thing for me. Then I have to regroup and remember my worth and value.
Thank you so much for all the amazing preaching you’ve done for us ladies. You’ve not only given us a WORD OF God but you’ve been secured in consistency. ❤ I thank God for destine teachers like you
🌱Maximize the life that God has given you as an individual. (It’s your responsibility to God to maximize the life that God has given you as an individual. Manage yourself. You’re responsible for your own personal growth and development.) 🌱Maximize your time to produce and multiply your fruit. (Joy, Self development destroys desperation) 🌱When you are working on yourself, it makes you detectable or discoverable to men that are on the same journey. 🌱The gifts you’re going to need most in life is inside of you. (Fulfillment, happiness, self respect knowing your identity in God) 🌱When you really work on you, you develop the emotional intelligence. 🌱You got to know yourself to love yourself to know when you’re not being loved properly. ~Don’t forget to LIKE and SHARE this video~ 🧡Thank Uncle R.C and Aunty Lisa for allowing God to use you both on a daily. May God cover, keep and bless you both beyond measure in Jesus name amen 🙏🏽🧡🌱
I’ve never had a father or father figure in my life , most men in my life are not strong Godly men these videos have helped me sooo much I listen and it’s like Gods is using you as a vessel to speak the words of a father to me and everyone else on the channel thank you for your work God Bless..❤
This is an on-time message. I'm working on stewarding what God has given me by building a community-based business for women and I'm struggling through the growth phase. This message is reinforcing that I have to steward the little influence that God gave me before I can move forward into everything else He has planned.
Pastor Blakes, this word was EVERYTHING I needed in this season of my life! Thank you for your spiritual guidance and teachings ! Can’t wait to see you in New Orleans in August! Blessings!
I love you as a dad and although my dad was there in my life every day and never missed a special moment he never told me about men other than be their help mate and peace. That advice lead me into a very narcissistic and horrible relationship with a narcissistic man who told my dad she wanna be the man I will let her. He meant he would use me! I didn’t find this out until I was only a shell of myself and looking for answers. My dad had a conversation with me about it then. Apologized for not being more of a protector.
Thank you, thank you Bishop Daddy Blakes for teaching us Queens on how to keep adjusting our crowns!! So very important!! I did not know or grow up with my biological father, so I was deprived of proper relationships with men!! I have adopted you as my spiritual dad❤❤
You have put so much perspective into my life. Never had a father figure never knew many things about life, men, dating, loving God above any & everything. Thank God good sound people like yourself for providing knowledge to us all. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love that I found your channel when I need it the most. It's crazy, before I saw this video, I told my friend. I repented to God and ask him to help me with my journey of working on me. And so far God is allowing me to do that and I feel so good knowing I'm working on me and know that future will look brighter because of my hard work on myself.
You are right can't no man make me happy I have realize that and now I am totally in love with myself and working and development me with God is first.
I love your channel. It's very empowering, and it's been helpful for my growth. You are a Godsent and I very much appreciate you. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏🩵🕊💙🙏🩵
I want to truly thank you for your lessons. I didn't grow up with a father and I've made lots of mistakes over the years. I've just come to the realization that the little girl inside of me has been driving my decisions. After coming to this realization, I started making changes and speaking up for myself and also making decisions that reflect the love that I have for myself. That's when I found your videos. Your messages really calm my soul and encourage me in a warming, fatherly way. I wish I grew up having a father speak to me like this but I'm grateful for my father above and earthly fathers like you who pour positivity and love with substance into us. You are necessary and appreciated 🥹
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1. Women desperate due to society/family putting pressure on women when it comes wanting/needing a man. What you said was the truth. 2. I made sure to finish my education. I didnt think I would go to college or get a degree. I am here to say not only did I get my education but I obtained a Masters Degree. It took my years but I did it! 3. I think of the phrase "check yourself before you reck yourself".
I agree! I am thankful to God for working on myself. I studied for and passed the PMI CAPM exam. I constantly want to improve myself. All Glory to my God & King Jesus. 0:05
When we have God in our lives we need nothing else!!! He is the way, truth and the life!! Even though we lack human connection, we fill that lack with the wisdom and knowledge of God's word through the Holy Spirit! Stop looking for people to give you answers, look for it in Gods word for he never changes!!! People change all the time but God never will let you down!❤ I love you Lord❤❤
Hello. I been working on myself. One day I was inside of a place called atlanta restoration house and I had been reading the bible. I went straight to proverbs about he who find's a wife.
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What is your answer for the difference that women have that we are under an edict just like we have monthly cycles and childbearing, we are under a god-given edict that we desire a man in a way that we cannot stop, in a way that possibly men do not have, the way it's written in Genesis. I never hear this addressed.
Bishop I encourage you today. Keep teaching and keep sharing the gospel the way God has given you. Continue to be spirit lead. If nobody shares the gospel or this video you did your part.
ALWAYS SHARING IN JESUS NAME 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ✨️ ♥️ 💖 🙏 🙌 ❤️
I just shared to my niece. Thank you for you wise and loving words of wisdom
True facts I am now celebrating me and it feels good loving on me now
My dad passed away 12 years ago. I have been listening to you pretending like it was my dad teaching me life lessons. Thank you for empowering us through your videos! 🙏
Now that is such an amazing honor for me. Thank you
I really needed to hear this message. Thank you so much for this message.
Wow, can you use this? Lol
My Mom passed away 5yrs ago, my sis 7yrs.
I have 4 siblings, hardly talk to them.
Feel so alone.
Thank God! I’m walking with God.
He fills my heart. Amen❤❤
My condolences…my dad too has passed on…so Bishop you my dad now lol
Sending you positive prayers and strength for God to heal you
“A desperate woman is always a target for manipulation”~ Bishop R.C. Blakes Jr.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
That used to be me! Thank God He has changed my mind set ❤
💔 how wrong, women are weaker, how fucked up
Self development destroys desperation. Awesome.
This is why I enjoy being at home and being myself because I am blessed with the opportunity to work on myself. Eating healthier, taking care of my mind, becoming a better woman, mother, sister etc
I can testify to this. I met my husband living my best life. I still enjoy developing various projects he found me working on. This marriage follows a 5 year period of being single after a series of toxic relationships. My husband is different from the men I met before. In my recent single years, I learned a lot about boundaries and order and peace. I also received grace to complete a 40 day liquid fast. That led to major deliverance. My life is a whole new experience now.
This is a powerful testimony, I appreciate you sharing this.
Wow 🎉🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is an awesome testimony!! Thank you for sharing this!!
Wonderful testimony of your faith and development!❤ Many blessings in your marriage!
🙏🏻God bless you, can you tell how you fast, in which way. Juices ?
As a child i was abused mentally, verbally, physically. My father was not in our home, just step fathers. Mum was messed up. From a young age i developed crushes on boys and as a young adult, men. I ran to them for love i never had. But they sexually abused me too. I am finally starting my life over at 31. This video rings true. God has shaken me to my core. ❤❤
Sending prayers and love
Praise God for you and your new life! Be and stay encouraged! Keep going FORWARD
You’re in a good place sis! Keep working on you!! 🤗
I am so sorry for all this. Good thing is that you have already started over working on yourself❤
Thanks for your words. I had the exact same Story. Same age !
Thinking back to how broken i was when i discovered this channel last year, here i am today so much in love with myself, i have so much peace. The best thing a woman can do for herself is to choose herself with God in the forefront. I cherish and adore myself 😂 not kidding.
Make the move sisters, your life will never remain the same again.
Amen
I am right there with you. I thank you, God for You and for sending us a wonderful messenger. ❤
Thank you❤
Thank You 🦋
This why I’ve always noticed most women who are successful in relationships number one weren’t even looking and they were living life on purpose. That’s what happens when you let go and let God and work on being the best version of yourself. # you just glow different #
I agree. It happened when they weren't expecting it. I think some women are still stuck in the house waiting on a man to give them a life. I think women are still centering their life around men and don't realize it.
@@season.of.renewel yes
I needed this, Im starting to feel anxious for a husband. I have more self healing to do and my finances are not in order. Im also sensitive about rejection too. Geesh. Let me get busy on me.❤❤❤
I’m with you and praying for your fullest healing in God!!🙏💕
Same here
Yea don’t be anxious for one he will come when it’s time. Being anxious will only attract the wrong males.
Focus on yourself.
Dear RC,
I wanted to write you to thank you for helping me get my life together. Your RUclips channel is priceless and I'm sure has saved many women from further self destruction.
2.5 years ago, I was in an abusive relationship. Somehow I stumbled upon one of your videos and it changed my life completely. Within days I left that toxic man FOR GOOD. Within weeks I discovered my path in life, applied to grad school, got accepted, and started class.
I have allowed your love for women to pour into me and become my own self love. I've stayed single, never settling for an inferior man. I've busied myself with my studies. This December I will graduate with my Masters degree and I will live my dreams and take care of myself financially.
Amazingly, just like you predict in your videos (after a woman does her self work) I've met my King. I didn't need him or expect him, but here he is and I was able to discern him, recognize his high value because I've regained my Queen consciousness. I watched all your videos about Kings and safe men just to make sure. He checks off all the boxes.
I believe God led me to your video 2.5 years ago. Then I did the hard work with your guidance and my life is completely transformed. You're a blessing and I feel blessed. Thank you so much for your work and showing the world what a real man is.
Amen.
I love working on myself. There is such freedom to break away from things and people that have no business in my life. I am a widow going on six years, and I have been doing exactly what you are teaching us. I can not say it's been easy, but it is so worth every time I have been delivered from the old me and discover God's beautiful daughter.
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This is a WHOLE word and I will listen again! One thing you said that stood out and registered was “some of y’all spend all day on social media looking how to find a man, when you need to be working on yourself and your purpose.” Not your exact words but paraphrasing. I felt that! I don’t do it all day but I’ve done it enough. Thank you Pastor! 💙
This message was spot on! For me, as a woman who is working on herself, this message was confirmation that I’m right where I should be. I most definitely needed this! May God continue to bless you pastor 🙏🏾💕
❤❤On point for me too!!
God bless you Bishop and Lisa Blakes❤❤
Same here 🥹
Bishop I thank God for you! I'm going through a separation after 29 years of marriage and your messages are helping me so much
20 years for me sis process of divorce. He's a keeper and a sustainer. Sufficient grace 🙏🏾
Same here separated after 10 years of marriage
I don’t know you but I will keep your marriage in my prayers… I did not have any women (except my mom) praying for me when I was going thru separation and a divorce…so I want to be to you what I needed…and that is a praying woman that believes in marriage…may all be well
God has you all in his loving care and his arms.
I applaud you women! It takes courage and vulnerability to share something so personal. 🤗🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor for everything you do and for this important reminder in this video. I appreciate you!
Desparate Women are easy to manipulate....now that's a whole sermon!
I literally just finished reading this chapter from "Queenology" hours before this message! Come on now God!💌🙌🏾🙏🏾
I'm working on myself at 39yrs after lots of mistakes ..
I wanna live the rest of life loving me... It's never too late
Watched this video 4 times today just to make sure it sink in. Thank you so much bishop 🙏🏻 just know you’re my spiritual father!
Thank you from helping women to mend our brokenness through deliberate spiritual and practical engagement. Bless you both❤❤❤
My christian father never told me anything about life. He never talked to me. Never..you are the father figuer I never had. Thank god
Thank you bishop!
I'm grateful for your teachings. This is beneficial to me as a woman who finally recognized my worth after 25 years of being in an abusive marriage, and who is on my self development journey; going back to school to upgrade myself, building a house for myself and taking care of my physical and emotional health❤
Yes I needed this
Working om me❤
You just blessed me!
I have been married before and I was so unhappy while I was married it wasn't even funny! I am more happier now while I am single. I would pray and ask God to get me out of my married and I was so glad when he did!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Jesus!
God, let this video spread out around the world. You are so right! All girls especially before they get married should hear you
Pastor please teach the same for the male! God bless..
“All you’re producing is limbs and leaves, no fruit” WOW! That hit home!
Yes, sir ( Bishop Blake's). " if you delight yourself in Me. I will give you the desires of your heart".
One of your best conversations! You remind me of my beloved father who always gave me the same advice. Developing self worth, self respect and self esteem is a life long process, but my father’s words and your teachings keep me on the right path. God bless you and your work. Thank you.
Aprendo cada vez que lo escucho. Como un buen padre enseña a su hija. Muchas gracias desde La Habana, Cuba
I have been a narcissist for a long time, and I need help before it's too late. This is my first time listening to your sermons on how to work on herself. It's time for me to pursue my true peace and happiness
Wise single ladie are not desparate, women working on self development are not desparate, , Pastor, my tonque is tied, God bless you for teaching us!
Thank you Bishop Blakes. Although I agree with this message, what happens when you've put in all the work and you're moving in your purpose, but still find it unsettling to be alone? Even after a woman has put all the work in and is moving in her purpose, at times she's going to feel that there is something missing. Why? Because she came from a covered place in a man. Her desperation is coming from not feeling covered. As a woman, I do have my own destiny and purpose to fulfill and I'm actively pursuing God's will for my life. But the challenge for me has been in what to do with the "feeling" of being uncovered. I don't think a man can identify with this, even in his sincerest desire to. Adam wasn't pulled out of a covered place. The woman was. Yes, we must work on ourselves. But we have to also be aware of how God made us. We have to be aware of our innate design and know what to do when we're feeling "uncovered". Bestest regards.
True.. very good point 😊
An excellent and poignant point that you raise. Thanks for sharing it!
I needed this right now. I am working on me, I just realized that in the past few days, I have been under pressure to find a mate. Sudden feeling of loneliness. So glad to hear this! It’s a factory reset
I feel that as many women, it's just that if we're single or unmarried women, they are looked at as if there is something wrong with us. Society, even church folks can be MEAN!!! Yes, I agree to work on oneself first. I was one of those women who didn't want to be looked down on, so I made a mistake. It was a lesson, and I've learned, but I feel for those women who are going through it. I have chosen to work on myself and walk into my purpose.
❤❤❤😅 thanks for letting me know what I should have known 40 years ago. Keep it coming 😊
I know right!
God spoke to me. Since my break up Ive gained 30 pounds, can barely walk, wake up 15 min before work not giving time to myself nor to God. Eating out a lot, killing myself with food because I feel empty. I know what I need to do
Wishing you the best in your healing journey 🥰
If only the intro song was available for listening/download . It would definitely be an everyday affirmation song! Thank you Bishop for the amazing message 🙏
I love it also, Dear Bishop what's the title can we download it?
It's by Dave Hollister you can download
@@anitafinley8950 Thank you🙂
The song is called 'she' by David Hollister 😊
Your message is amazing and the song lifted me up this morning ❤️❤️❤️
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That’s a WHOLE WORD right there …. “We often desire things we don’t qualify for…” You preaching better than they shoutin!
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This teaching is necessary for single and married women. Along life’s journey we forget how we are created in the image of GOD to receive and live our best life in HIM. As well keeping GOD as our first love. GOD Bless You Pastor and your beautiful wife for dropping the jewels 💎 that demands productivity unto the LORD Jesus!!!
Yes I need to work on myself... Love for myself ❤
This message is so empowering and definitely what us women need to hear and do. I appreciate your biblical teachings and encouragement. Thank you Bishop, well received as usual!
I lost my Dad 23 years ago when I was only 13, two days before Christmas fast forward haven’t had the best of relationships and just got out of a really toxic/abusive relationship of 5 years on Father’s Day this year but I’ve been listening to you and you have helped me tremendously words can’t even explain. You are much needed and appreciated. Thank you 🙏 so much.
Mmmmm I knew of your teachings recently and you are what I had been looking for in my 30 yrs of existence. I madly wanted to get married, well I still do but I now take it more urgent to work on myself first. Hoping to come back with a testimony.
Much love from Kenya, Africa.
This was like a dose of holy and divine medicine. Thank you, Pastor R.C. Blake🙌🤟
I feel his frustration as I am also at what we are allowing ourselves to "put up" with!!!
This is the best teaching I’ve heard heard for single women. We desperately need this in the church.
Women get your finances right before you get locked down. If your man acts up you can leave and take care of your own rent etc. I see too many of my friends who are stuck because they can't afford a down payment on a place. Love yourself and get your life together first. Don't settle! Life is too short😢
Brilliant. I have been working with God to be in a deeper relationship with God & couldn’t be happier & more at peace as a single woman. Thank you for your clear wisdom! Love you
This addressed my recent relationship and the aftermath so thoroughly, I have no more desire to cry about it as I need to BE about it. I'm enlightened, encouraged and inspired! THANK you!
Bishop to KNOW Your Self is to love YOURSELF. NOW I see me. Know Your Self=Know Yourself to love Yourself. ❤
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All of your preaching feels like I’m literally scolded by a dad and your videos 100% apply to my situation 😂 as a 30 yo woman, I really appreciate that. You must be a treasure for daughters. Cheers from Germany
Pastor Blakes you are truly anointed. Your wisdom is limitless. I wish I would have discovered you years ago. Wow, what a word!
Timely and true. I've spent too much time concerning myself with things and people that did not feed my soul. It's about time I prioritized my own self development.
Make it plain pastor, and bring it back to the basics. I'm taking notes! Praise God
Yes thank God. This a real message to help us women grow and develop ❤ Now…. Dear Brothers, Any time you’re looking at a Queen you’re looking at a responsibility. Our women of today for the most are so desperate, hey they may come cheap, but Queens for sure don’t come cheap. So brothers if you do not have yourselves together and have no means of finances, Please keep your eyes straight ahead and focus on your development as a man. You need no woman if you are not trying to become a man.
Self-loving myself 💗💞💕. Again, I greatly appreciate your words.
Thank You Pastor Blake's for all the Wisdom and knowledge you bring forth in this video. It's amazing. Every woman in the world needs to hear this video. It's uplifting. It will definitely build women up where It's needed. Thank you for committing to the building of women, where they've been torn down. You are a blessing. From our Master on High. All praises to our Father in Heaven above. Just outstanding!!
Bishop you're my spiritual father as God put in my spirit to listen to you! My husband of 30 yrs. who was a Beautiful man
of God transitioned Dec. 30 2022 @6:10pm in my arms. So thankful and grateful for the time we spent together! Thank you for keeping me grounded. I'm so glad I know what a good man entails! Keep up the good work Spiritual father! Thanks to Lisa for sharing you with the woman that need your mentorship! God Blessings to you and your family!❤
What a touching message this is Diane 🙏🏽♥️ Thank You
I lived most of my life trying to make everyone happy at 62 I found myself discarded from my ex husband after 27 years of marriage my healing is remarkable going on the right direction I’m focused on my happiness taking care of my life. Your words are so profound and so accurate. Thank you
Teach Pastor TEACH!
OH YOU TAUGHT THAT!
Talking REAL & POWERFUL POW POW POW! Sending this to all of my daughters.
ANOTHER POWERFUL MESSAGE!!! THANKS BISHOP!!!
There is not a song being played that blesses me more than SHE. I Thank God for the vision that he have given to you. It was 3:00 in the morning when I heard it for the first time, I had to get up and began to Google until I found it. I never get tired of listening over and over. Sometimes with tears streaming. Thank you. Thank Dave Hollister. But it’s your ministry that blesses my soul. I know I will eventually meet you to shake your hands… the best is yet to come 😊🙌🏾🙏🏾
Every single message is always powerful. Thank you pastor ❤ so glad I found you.
Praise God for restoring my soul completely in this hour, praise God for giving enough opportunities to grow and prosper! I therefore bind to hell pursuing a common purpose without first pursuing my individual purpose, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with anyone hindering me to prosper in my individual purpose first, praise God! Lord, I repent of the times I have forsaking my gifts and talents, while I bind myself to be a faithful steward over all you have giving me, in accordance with this word and john 15:8, luke 16:12, 2 timothy 3:6-7, amos 3:3, galatians 6:4, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Thank you for this message! I have been divorced 12 years and eventually realized I couldn’t wait around for a husband to make my life better. I am working to improve my income and create a fuller life. I really appreciate your wisdom and desire to share it. You are exactly right, when I have been impatient and tried to find a man it has not been the right thing for me. Then I have to regroup and remember my worth and value.
Amen! I am in a healthy relationship.. I come back to videos like this to renew my mind ❤ Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom Bishop
Thanks for being the man God created in this Season🙏🏾💯🏖️
Thank you so much for all the amazing preaching you’ve done for us ladies. You’ve not only given us a WORD OF God but you’ve been secured in consistency. ❤ I thank God for destine teachers like you
Although I didn’t have this understanding through my own father I am grateful and thankful for your love and fatherly tenderness❤
🌱Maximize the life that God has given you as an individual.
(It’s your responsibility to God to maximize the life that God has given you as an individual. Manage yourself. You’re responsible for your own personal growth and development.)
🌱Maximize your time to produce and multiply your fruit. (Joy, Self development destroys desperation)
🌱When you are working on yourself, it makes you detectable or discoverable to men that are on the same journey.
🌱The gifts you’re going to need most in life is inside of you.
(Fulfillment, happiness, self respect knowing your identity in God)
🌱When you really work on you, you develop the emotional intelligence.
🌱You got to know yourself to love yourself to know when you’re not being loved properly.
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🧡Thank Uncle R.C and Aunty Lisa for allowing God to use you both on a daily. May God cover, keep and bless you both beyond measure in Jesus name amen 🙏🏽🧡🌱
I’ve never had a father or father figure in my life , most men in my life are not strong Godly men these videos have helped me sooo much I listen and it’s like Gods is using you as a vessel to speak the words of a father to me and everyone else on the channel thank you for your work God Bless..❤
This is an on-time message. I'm working on stewarding what God has given me by building a community-based business for women and I'm struggling through the growth phase. This message is reinforcing that I have to steward the little influence that God gave me before I can move forward into everything else He has planned.
Pastor Blakes, this word was EVERYTHING I needed in this season of my life! Thank you for your spiritual guidance and teachings ! Can’t wait to see you in New Orleans in August! Blessings!
I love you as a dad and although my dad was there in my life every day and never missed a special moment he never told me about men other than be their help mate and peace. That advice lead me into a very narcissistic and horrible relationship with a narcissistic man who told my dad she wanna be the man I will let her. He meant he would use me! I didn’t find this out until I was only a shell of myself and looking for answers. My dad had a conversation with me about it then. Apologized for not being more of a protector.
Thank you, thank you Bishop Daddy Blakes for teaching us Queens on how to keep adjusting our crowns!! So very important!! I did not know or grow up with my biological father, so I was deprived of proper relationships with men!! I have adopted you as my spiritual dad❤❤
Thank you very much for the video! Lots of love from Germany☺
Thank you for being a father to the fatherless by GODs SPIRIT- I love listening to your GOD-GIVEN lessons.
You have put so much perspective into my life. Never had a father figure never knew many things about life, men, dating, loving God above any & everything. Thank God good sound people like yourself for providing knowledge to us all. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Self-development self-awareness self-discovery self-knowledge self-love self discipline thank you RC and Lisa Blake my family I love you
This is so, so, so good. You are helping us today. Bless you, sir!
Such a wise man!! Thank you for giving us all homework!!
I love that I found your channel when I need it the most. It's crazy, before I saw this video, I told my friend. I repented to God and ask him to help me with my journey of working on me. And so far God is allowing me to do that and I feel so good knowing I'm working on me and know that future will look brighter because of my hard work on myself.
I thank GOD for your teachings Pastor Blakes , both you & Mrs. Blakes have been a blessing to my life. I watch you both & I’m truly grateful ❤❤❤❤
The intro song. Always hype me up! I love you RC Blakes!!!!
The music in your videos ❤. Thank you once again for the message in your videos. You respect us. Thank you 🙏🏾👏
The things you’re going to need most in life are from God through you 🙌🙌🙌
You are right can't no man make me happy I have realize that and now I am totally in love with myself and working and development me with God is first.
I love your channel. It's very empowering, and it's been helpful for my growth. You are a Godsent and I very much appreciate you. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏🩵🕊💙🙏🩵
I want to truly thank you for your lessons. I didn't grow up with a father and I've made lots of mistakes over the years. I've just come to the realization that the little girl inside of me has been driving my decisions. After coming to this realization, I started making changes and speaking up for myself and also making decisions that reflect the love that I have for myself. That's when I found your videos. Your messages really calm my soul and encourage me in a warming, fatherly way. I wish I grew up having a father speak to me like this but I'm grateful for my father above and earthly fathers like you who pour positivity and love with substance into us. You are necessary and appreciated 🥹
Wonderful message , much needed . thank you Bishop❤
YES YOU R DEFINITELY A KING BISHOP PASTOR RC BLAKE'S... YOU KEEP US GOIING STRONG IN OUR BELIEFS & OUR LAKES AND OUR DEDICATIONs THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES FOR USING THIS PLATFORM TO BUILD US TO TEACH US TO PREACH TO US TO HELP US UNDERSTAND ABOUT ALL THE THINGS IN LIFE THAT WE COULDN'T ASK OUR FATHERS BECAUSE WE DIDN'T KNOW OUR FATHERS OR MAYBE THE FATHER'S JUST WASN'T IN THE HOME OR SOME SITUATION CAME OUT TO WHERE THE FATHER'S JUST WASN'T PRESENT IN THIS IN THE SETTING OF A FAMILY. THANK YOU PASTOR THANKS FOR BEING THAT FATHER FIGURE ON THIS PLATFORM AND IN OUR HOMES BECAUSE WE KEEP IT THERE NOW. WE MAKE SURE YOU ARE PERMANENT FIXTURE IN OUR HOMES THANK YOU BISHOP PASTOR BLAKE'S YOU ARE OUR ANGEL THAT SHINE SO BRIGHT EVERYDAY WHEN WE WAKE UP IN THE MORNING. YOU ARE A PERMANENT FIXTURE IN OUR HOME. THANK YOU FOR BEING THAT SIMPLY AMAZING VOICE CONTINUING TO ELEVATE US WOMEN IRON MAN ALL AROUND WITH YOUR TROOPS AND CONSISTENT GUIDING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION SO OUR LITTLE GIRLS THE YOUNGER GENERATION OUR YOUNGER GIRLS AND YOUNGER MEN CAN DO BETTER BE BETTER AND STRIVE FOR THE BEST TO BE THE BEST JUST TO BE AWESOME AND TO HAVE YOU AS THEIR BISHOP IN THEIR,, WHO COULD ASK FOR MORE. 👑🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 THANK YOU BISHOP PASTOR BLAKES FOR BEING SIMPLY AMAZING. THANK YOU FOR BEING THAT DIAMOND HELPING US STAY POLISHED 🎤🙌🏾💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎 & FIRST LADY LISA BLAKES THANK YOU FOR BEING THE ROSE 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 THAT KEEPS BLOWING SO WE CONTINUED TO FLOURISH AND KEEP THEM IN AS WELL. THANK YOU JESUS 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 for both of these beautiful 💎💎🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🎤🎤🌹🌹🙏🏿🙏🏿
I needed to hear this. Thank you Bishop for this reminder.
JESUS- HEP US TODAY SIR- THANK YOU LORD 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
1. Women desperate due to society/family putting pressure on women when it comes wanting/needing a man. What you said was the truth.
2. I made sure to finish my education. I didnt think I would go to college or get a degree. I am here to say not only did I get my education but I obtained a Masters Degree. It took my years but I did it!
3. I think of the phrase "check yourself before you reck yourself".
I agree! I am thankful to God for working on myself. I studied for and passed the PMI CAPM exam. I constantly want to improve myself. All Glory to my God & King Jesus. 0:05
When we have God in our lives we need nothing else!!! He is the way, truth and the life!! Even though we lack human connection, we fill that lack with the wisdom and knowledge of God's word through the Holy Spirit! Stop looking for people to give you answers, look for it in Gods word for he never changes!!! People change all the time but God never will let you down!❤ I love you Lord❤❤
I learn this before I got remarried I had to learn to live by myself and love myself first and submit to Christ first before my husband came
You are amazing dear RC. God bless you❤. Thank you for all these words.
I appreciate you pastor, you have opened my eyes. God is amazing
Hello. I been working on myself. One day I was inside of a place called atlanta restoration house and I had been reading the bible. I went straight to proverbs about he who find's a wife.