Lazy Mum With Two Kids Can't Find Time to Clean | Episode 12 | Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners | Filth
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Why is she labelled as a “lazy mom” ??!…..but the husband doesn’t get labelled as anything. They all live there. They are ALL responsible for the mess.
i think they most likely said that because she’s the one that has the “sentimental attachment” to the boys stuff
People too judgemental and are quick to make personal insults about the hoarders.
Because women normally run the household and decide what to keep or throw and also when she wasn’t there it was evident the husband had no clue what to keep or throw away
Good comment, it’s everyone’s responsibility not just mum. Kids are older enough to help with packing toys away, taking the rubbish out and helping to wash up.
@@tpwkjess I know where, you're coming from. For me this still doesn't t justify the title of her allegedly being "too lazy to clean". Being a hoarder and being too lazy to clean are completely diffrent things. They really did her dirty with that title, as it puts certain harmful stereotypes on her and portrays her as the "bad mother"
First woman is dealing with unresolved childhood trauma. Second woman (who works) has no help from her husband and two children old enough to clean their rooms.
1st lady has OCD and is passing that down to her kid. She is excessive. And where she lives is more like a museum than a home.
The children have never been taught how to clean their rooms. Their mother is a slob with a disgusting bedroom. Please tell me how or why those boys should tidy while she does nowt?
Lazy!!! She spends all day at work and then has to deal with this!! Would say overwhelmed more than lazy!!!
L-A-Z-Y
Just get on with it
Many of us work, then come home & clean, or at the very least…clean on days off!
@GreatMindsSeekTruth
Yes which is why she’s on this programme and not u!
Absolutely born idol! I would be ashamed to be on camera!
Zara is totally OCD
One, labeling her a “Lazy Mum” is wild. The Dad lives there too. Two, that lady threw away one of the kids handprints-Insane! And three, they both need help-not just the one who’s house is getting organized and cleaned.
Yeah throwing away the handprint was too much
It's not wild if she's taking care of the house...
Who’s at the house more? Her or him? Who goes out to work to pay the bills? Him or her?
@gintonicx6
THEY ARE BOTH NOT STAY AT HOME PARENTS!!!!!
Did ppl don’t even watch this?!?!
@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij he took the day off. Gosh.
I see two parents that love their children, had lost their way and asked for help. Kuddos to them and I wish their family a healthy, productive life. ❤
Child, " You're like a robot mum!"
Brilliant observation
She also called her lunatic tough, and that's quite disrespectful from a child towards her mum
@@principessailaria Nope, basic honesty and it is lunatic bhaviour to dedicate more time for cleaning and priorities that than her child, children in generral bcz they need to bond with the parents and feel happy. Comfortable.
"I don't wanna be a lunatic"had me😂
Same 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The mother wasn’t impressed. 😂 kid did her dirty.
That little girl is was more self aware than most adults I know.
I work over 200 hours in a month and frankly some days I’m too drained to clean,u know what my husband does? He sends me to take a nap and helps as well!
What if you were single and lived alone?
@@johnmitchell2269 I'm assuming she would have only her own mess to look after and maybe a smaller place to live so less to clean? Or she would take a nap and clean the next day.
@@johnmitchell2269 A LOT easier to live alone than with a man.
@@johnmitchell2269There would only be half the mess to clean! Her point is they are a team. Duh…
...but she's not. Perhaps focus on the fact she has a kind considerate genuine husband! That cannot be purchased anywhere in this world!
What would you do if your partner was exhausted then?
I love the Daughters “I don’t want to be a lunatic”.
Maybe Mom gets lost in cleaning so she doesn’t have to think?
I hope both Moms can learn from each other.
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Personally, I think both obsessive cleaning and not being able to clean/hoarding is unhealthy behaviours. When growing up my grandmother was a rather anxious perfectionist that feared what other should think of her and it was almost never fun visiting her or she visiting us, because it always centered around cleaning or other household chores that had to be done. Not child friendly at all and I hate cleaning because of that 😢
OCD , cleaning it’s real , couples split up because of it , really becomes a mental compulsion, really sad.
Both woman need help. First one from a therapist, second one from her husband. If you both work, you both clean.
she doesn't work tho does she
@@Kenny124 Yes, she does! Listen before you judge.
Anytime I don’t feel like cleaning these vids get e moving. My home is clean and tidy but these guys make me feel like it a trash heap😅
Same love watching these for motivation
I wonder who their sponsors are?🤔
The husband asking where to put his own shorts... 😂
Proof he doesn't help tidy at all.
He was asking if they are in the keep or toss pile.
This jumped into my feed. I had no idea what I was expect. I was so pleasantly surprised at these two ladies class from both of them. What a world we would live in if this is how we lived every day Miss Joe was never once condescending and was graciously, helpful and kind and I say loving about helping and never once made the family feel horrible further situation and the family was so lovely and accepting her help. The family took what she said and was never once offended. I have a big birthday coming in a couple of days and I’m struggling with the way of the world right now thank you for this video, and I am gonna keep both of these families in my hearts
I think the ocd cleaners can learn more from spending time in a normal, clean home. I dont think seeing and being in a completely filthy home could help. My home is clean, in a normal way, but this show makes me want to clean more not less.
Why is she a lazy mum,what about the dad?she doesn’t seem lazy she seems like she works hard and doesn’t get any help!
I'm a dialysis patient, lives with my grown daughter who works full time. We keep our place tidy/clean by doing our shared responsibilities.It is not difficult to maintain an orderly and clean house if you always clean after your self.
You can write all that without mentioning you are a dialysis patient.
@@jackofalltrades1737Her point is that her energy is not as abundant as a totally healthy person. Yet, the house gets cleaned. Be kind!
Don't you realise that hoarding and being messy are mental health problems?
Both women need help. My mum is like the first woman. When a clean home becomes obsessive and stops you from enjoying your home and your life, it is a problem.
People don't enjoy mess. How can you enjoy a messy house?
@sh.4409 I never said they do. Cleanliness is important to me but I'm not so obsessed by it that it stops me enjoying my home for fear of making a mess.
@@sh.4409 The first lady cleans her house 4 hours a day (not to mention the 15 hrs/week on her kitchen with 8 bottles of bleach), I don't think her house could get messy if she didn't clean for 24 hours. Also, who has a show sofa, pillows and towels and doesn't use them? As Kelley said, both need help, especially therapy, and I hope they're getting it.
from one extreme to another
A sofa and towels you cannot use? What's the point? It would be like buying food with the intention of not eating any of it but it sure "looks" good.
If it's all for "show", you cannot call it a "home". Just like food just sitting there, it cannot be called a meal.
Feel sorry for her daughter.
I grew up in a for show home- cold and unwelcoming - it gave me OCD and anxiety
@@AngelaRothbauerI'm so sorry! ❤
Pretty sure she said she has "show olive oil" she doesn't use 😆🫒
Show sofa and towels?
Show for who? Coz I bet she ain't got no mates
I wouldn't go visit it her for sure
The maddest thing is the woman cleaning the house comes across more strange than the person with the mess.
Her kid putting her into place 😂
Yeah your like a robot who just has to clean 😂
Yes - totally love her.
She has OCD.
I was brought up on pledge and I’m fine.
No. No you’re not fine. I admire your commitment to a clean home, but you’re taking it way too far.
Thank you!! She is definitely not fine-she needs psychological help. Her poor daughter, brushing the shag rug and reading insane rules.
Apart from not being fine with this obsessive constant cleaning, imagine all the chemicals she sprays around in that house everyday. The poor child probably ends up with a respiratory problem!
8 bottles of bleach a week is insane😮
How her child is still alive is insane to me, that amount of bleach could easily kill a kid, let alone an adult.
Kim Woodburn would tell her it's well over the top, eight bottles a week.
It’s not very healthy either
They should call them the bleach Queens especially that one called Haley.
Forget the bleach, use white vinegar a lot safer and more effective.
So the mom who is stopping her daughter from even sitting in their own home is qualified to come and tell someone else how to do things in their home?
My mum had white rugs in the sitting room, we were only allowed in there at Christmas and special occasions. We spent time in the family room
This is no way to live… gonna turn her kid into an ocd,anxious mess
Yeah my thoughts too, its so sad
Or the opposite: with a deep aversion to tidy and clean.
The second woman has hoarding tendencies and needs therapy. Attachment to a clutter is a dangerous sign.
I keep my house clean and tidy. But I wouldn’t let it take over my life. I live with my husband and grown up granddaughter. I want them to feel comfortable. I don’t want them stressing, I want them to relax and feel comfortable in our home.
Same
Shes is a lovely mom and loves her chidren ,but everybody needs to pitch in to clean the house including the husband and every week of course to clean the house .I hope they will learn from each other .
It is really too much stuff. Very hard to clean when every surface is covered in stuff
I am so proud of her for getting the help she needs and cleaning her house
Mom is a hoarder and she acknowledge that she has a problem and needs help. I can understand that she is overwelmed and needs help to make a new start.
The OCD cleaning lady should probably spend some of that time with her daughter, just a thought. I don’t think anyone could feel comfortable or welcome in her house.
That is a lot of work. It takes a new outlook on what you need and what you want. Bring something home..take something out..not just the trash.
I howled laughing when Zara said the husband needed to reach in his pants and find his own balls LOL.
I abso loved the way Zahara took charge of the situation after Jo took the kids to school. Amazing seeing the two ladies working alongside each other. Well done 👏 👏
I'll say one thing, it's amazing the children of these Hoarders weren't taken away from them. I'm so happy for The Children.
It's messy but it's not a squalor. Kids are fed n loved
Yet it's the ocd ones daughter calling her.mum a lunatic robot? & Poisoning the home's air
Why would they be taken off their parents
@@becbell4913Yeah maybe so, but my heart breaks when I see what a mess the homes can be. You never know what's behind folks homes. 😊
Poor child at the start with a list of things she can't do in her own home. No happiness there thats abuse.
And mum seems so proud about it.
It's cruel really. Not much of a childhood for the little girl.
Yes I feel so sorry for that little girl.what a life not being able to enjoy her childhood in a comfy home.
Hardly...
The title “lazy mum” is so rude. “Depressed” mom or mom suffering from poor mental health would be more accurate.
Millions of depressed people they keep their place decent though. So you think that there are no more lazy people? She is definitely lazy and this is a place no child should live.
Agree. The way that the hoarders are belittled and have defamatory insults pointed at them are disgusting.
@@shiralleehaggart72the cleaners are equally belittled
Sometimes laziness is what is at play
@@aneleh78 I don't think so judging by the way that they talk to the hoarders like children. May an adult to adult talk from cleaner to the hoarder would be better instead.
She’s not lazy !!!!!!!! Come on. Maybe she have real issues. Don’t judge people who you don’t know.
@marilynwillett804well said
God bless you.. giving help to this overwhelmed mom
Was outstanding ❤
Her house looked incredible at the end. I thought that they did a fantastic job by working together. 😊❤
I have a sign on front door..."This house is protected by a coat of dust"... I'm in rural Aust with the last the topsoil ploughed constantly & flying away...
LOVE WATCHING THESE VIDEOS
This woman is not lazy she has hoarding issues. He husband needs to take more responsibility and speak up. Their children need to learn to clean up after themselves too. The woman with OCD is a nightmare to our beautiful earth. Bleach is poison and causes harm to our waterways and our earth. It hurts all living creatures and plants.
Both women have issues, but They're both wonderful women.
I get the impression Clive lacks direction and is willing to hand responsibilities over to his wife or anyone else. Maybe had a parent who did it all and never taught him. His wife seems anxious and overwhelmed. No confidence in either of them. Children need showing or they’ll carry this on.
Zara heard her daughter when she said the robot. It’s a trigger. It’s a defensive mechanism and being single means she probably left someone who made her never feel good enough.
The compulsive, obsessive clean lady made me laugh when I saw her cleaning the leaves of that plant! For Heaven's Sake, that's a real plant! 🤣
I couldn't live like either family but yes, I wipe my house plant leaves over once in a while with a bit of water! They seem very happy, LOL
Don't you ever clean the leaves of your plants? It's not that much work, but it's much better for the plant! Twice a year is good enough to help the plant 'breathe'. Plus it looks weird, when everything is clean, but the plants are covered in a deep layer of dust.
And I'm not an obsessive cleaner by any account. I'm in the happy middle of these two. I keep things tidy and try to keep them reasonably clean.
I started watching hoarders and filth 4 days ago and been deep cleaning ever since 😂
I usually keep a tidy home but I feel like I have been exaggeratedly cleaning these past few days.
Cleaning, restoring furniture, painting and dusting 😂
Zara is OCD. No one could live with her. It is very lower class to have ‘show towels’ and ‘show furniture’. Use your stuff, and let others relax in your house.
Over clean can equal chaotic childhood.
Hoarding can equal loss.
If they could come together and support each other with the leg that’s not broken they could both learn to walk.
I watch stuff like this, to motivate myself to clean 😂.
This couple just wanted someone to clean their house, and not participate. Not much of teaching how to keep, donate, rubbish. This couple will go back to the way they were, as the couple still have not done a thing in their own room.
Got to love the way that people belittle others. Perhaps they didn't go back to square one.
@@shiralleehaggart72 This was nothing of the sort.
@@cinderblock2289 Do you know this couple personally then?
@@shiralleehaggart72 I just might‼️
@@cinderblock2289 Sounds that way to me!
1:17 Mom could spend some of the time she wastes cleaning the same area multiple times a day helping her eight year old spell correctly. I have a child the same age, and "evry fink hast" is pretty bad spelling at that age. Nothing against the child. Mom clearly doesn't have her priorities in order though.
People with a lot of money have less stuff, people with little have a lot of stuff.
There are "4" people in the home. They can all clean, and mum needs to get help with her hoarding, that us the biggest problem. Stop shopping.
Zara has beautiful home but needs to relax just a little but I am a lot like her.
I just think “show towels” are ridiculous. In fact I think they are vulgar. 😂
This hits completely differently now I'm disabledand struggling to walk.
Oh sod that I’d rather live life being happy with my cat Steve than hoover 4 times a day.
This was probably done ages ago. What needed was watching someone help her make decisions on what to keep and what to pitch and how to pitch it, charity, trash…
Not allowing anyone to sit on her lounge, why have it, just ridiculous
I love that these cleaners bring order. But, with so much bleach, are they worried about chemical residue? It’s the first thing I think of, especially with kids involved. Little bodies can soak up chemical residue just as much as germs. Balance is everything I suppose 🤷🏻♀️♥️
It’s great being neat and tidy but show towels & cushions you can’t lean on AND a sofa you can’t use! That’s bordering on the downright insane, that’s not a home.
Too much stuff makes cleaning hard.
Sign in my kitchen reads, A CLEAN HOUSE IS A SIGN OF A WASTED LIFE !!!!😂
Finally someone who is not single
Tearing off the kids stickers is insane. The stickers aren't even in the way of anything. They all have issues. Freak show.
Poor children,they’ve got a house not a home.
My elder sister got 6 kids, once i visited her, early morning she started to clean her whole house, but later around 10am the house again messed up because of the kids play. Physically it's difficult to clean up and make it look perfect. My brother in law working hard to feed his family so he can't help about to be clean. So now they're grown up kids and helping to my sister.
I think the anxious keeping things is a stress response. Feels safe and helps you hide from other feelings
But then ends up making things worse
Cushions you dont lean on 😂😂😂😂😂 sounds like a fun household
Both unhealthy in their own way. I feel for the little girl, not wanting to grow up as a lunatic herself.
Stand your ground, darling! You break that crazy cleaning cycle. Good enough = good enough. Vacuuming four times a day IS crazy.
If She is a "lazy Mom"the Husband is a "Extreme Lazy Dad"....
Exactly is they say lazy it should apply to both parents equally. They both work, so it is clearly no more mum's fault
Why are all these homes so fugly on the inside? The mix of colors and patterns is just dreadful and the use of wallpaper for a "pop" are always just way off and bizarre.
These programmes were filmed years before the 'grey plague' started. Also the mum of the two boys had a lovely looking home when everything was done.
@@shiralleehaggart72grey plague😂 In my country it’s ‘japandi’ a.k.a. sad beige.
Those stickers came off that wall far to easily. These were put on there last minute, just to make things look more cluttier.
They always do such things in those programs.
That poor kid lost all his ninjago stickers, he probably collected fir some time
People should go through everything and get rid of 80 percent of material stuff
And teach their children how to clean daily
And stop buying anything they don’t absolutely need
That poor child,show towels & not allowed to lean on cushions OMG.I love a clean & tidy home,but it's got to feel like home at the same time.
Yeah Jo’s car did not break down
That man is absurd. He is allowing his children to be neglected. It's not OK
His wife is ill- he is not stepping up.
Pathetic. You Must do right for your children if you have a wife or husband with mental health issues
Agreed, my sister has ADHD and slight autism she has 2 kids her husband works from home she also works from home on making things and writing shes always struggled with being a bit messy and dysfunctional but her her husband cleans the house top to bottom while she works and looks after the kids its all about give and take
I got so excited but then realized its a re-upload😢
Do U know how to do "where r they now" searches?!.....
@@PortraitoftheArtistasanOldDog8 ? That's not the point, I was excited for a new upload. Do you know how to read?!.......
"excited ABOUT" surely...not FOR Yes thanks I have an MA In English merely not familiar with how to search FB etc @@TwinBleaks
These women are two extremes - happy medium 😊
I love this show because it helps my ocd with cleaning and makes me want to clean my house more hahahaha❤❤❤❤it
I don't want anything in my home just for 'show'. But I don't want a mess either. And 8 bottles of bleach?
Don't give me "traumas".She's a slob. Zarah is my hero.Amazing lady!
So you're perfect?
Awr the big brother looked disappointed it wasn't his room that was done .
My mother had 4 children and our house was always lovely.And clean. Partly because we were disciplined , children and We did not make Unnecessary Mess. We played happily indoors in the winter and outdoors in the summer. Unfortunately these days, children are allowed to make a mess.And the parents clean it up. Stupidity.
Nobody needs to hoover 4 times a day.
One extreme to the other…..Just in between is just right! 4 hours a day cleaning in your house and nobody can sit on the white sofa?? A bit much OCD is not good either….LoL😝😂
First woman why have a sofa no one is allowed to sit on, how stupid
Mum is a hoarder, dad is a big baby. It can't work.
That poor little girl at the start, reading these insane rules with the OCD/controlling mom looking on smiling.
Lol you are not allowed to lean on the cushions 😅
my mom used to go nuts if I sat on my bedspread. wallerin' the bed... couldn't put feet up on couch or coffee table... I don't know why we had a living room
Awww that was a heart-warming episode
this is incredibly sad what she is doing to her daughter ..see no humor in that poor little girl developing OCD like her mother
It's necessary to get rid of most of the stuff
There’s no need for any mess everything should be in there place so know where everything is but I wouldn’t go that far to dust the plastic plants 😅
Children need to be taught to care for their things and looking after their rooms, it doesnt just happen, they need to be TAUGHT, this mom hasnt taught them a single thing, the OCD mom has passed stress about the need for perfection. 2 extremes. My mom was like the OCD mom, we still have ll our toys, 40+ years on, perfect coz we were barely allowed to play with them. My kid is allowed to play with his toys as he wishes, but no destructive behaviour (breaking them) and they need to be looked after but they arent ornaments, like ours were.
This kind of dirty home always is a home with to much things in it. It is hoarding and buying and then you cannot clean the spaces, get depressed and to get better, buy a new thing.
A few years ago I would have said throw everything away. But now everything is so expensive, try to find out what you need and what is worthless. Take care of the worthy things and if you want to buy, be aware it will clutter your house and not make you happy. I write just what I think and I must not be right at all.
You are right though. But nowadays one can try to sell the more expensive stuff on a social media platform. And one can make a donate box for all the cheaper items, that aren't worth the hassle.