how to get unstuck in life and find yourself again :) (I MISSED YOU!!!)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2021
  • I missed you all so much! Give me some life updates in the comments :)
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    business email: rebecca@sparkmedia.la
    timestamps:
    1:32 chapter 1: why do we feel stuck in life?
    2:42 chapter 2: getting excited for the future!
    6:04 chapter 3: reevaluate the relationships in your life
    7:42 chapter 4: trying different experiences!
    inspired by/sources:
    breaktheframe.com/life-comes-...
    www.thementalhealthupdate.com...
    tinybuddha.com/blog/feel-stuc...
    www.huffpost.com/entry/psycho...
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    #motivation #stuck #selflove

Комментарии • 320

  • @RebeccaJayy
    @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +301

    I MISSED YOU GUYS SO MUCH!! bear with me as I get back into RUclips, constructive criticism is always appreciated and give me some life updates!! Reading all comments

    • @radhashrestha2963
      @radhashrestha2963 2 года назад +3

      Glad you are back

    • @esther-qh6fl
      @esther-qh6fl 2 года назад +1

      We love you!! Take your time love💓

    • @FulufheloN
      @FulufheloN 2 года назад

      We missed u too

    • @riakohee
      @riakohee 2 года назад +1

      Hope you are doing well missed you glad your back and take care❤️

    • @sofeafsl
      @sofeafsl 2 года назад

      I MISSED U SM 😭😭

  • @sunsetave5206
    @sunsetave5206 2 года назад +386

    Yes I’m stuck in a loop too. With social media, not taking care of myself well, not setting a routine and I’m disappointed in myself every time. But today I’ve decided it’s time to seriously take action.

    • @minfires7572
      @minfires7572 2 года назад +2

      @Kaylee edits ur on ur way to growing into a beautiful young girl proud of u :) enjoy ur childhood as it lasts

    • @kianamoore6850
      @kianamoore6850 2 года назад

      Same I feel like life is this loop of work and home and so unworthy of doing nothing more than what I do now I feel so stuck…. Hopefully soon I can break out of this funk or whatever… and start to go after my actual goals in life…

    • @aprilbyyy1705
      @aprilbyyy1705 Год назад +3

      Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from sin and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal

    • @RIYA-lc3ff
      @RIYA-lc3ff Год назад +1

      Same 😔😔

    • @mya.xoxo_
      @mya.xoxo_ Год назад

      same with me! especially now that i’m on summer break and am free to sit in my bed all day. it makes me feel extremely worthless, laying in my bed all hours of day & night, rotting my brain away to youtube, tiktok or netflix.

  • @angelafaith87
    @angelafaith87 2 года назад +64

    "I realized that since I'm the one creating these thoughts, I can be the one who creates new thoughts" - Tip of the day, thank you Rebecca for reminding me this ❤ I absolutely needed it.

  • @sarah_bk
    @sarah_bk 2 года назад +146

    I cried when you started talking about relationships; I just blocked a person that I could literally die for ; I am feeling stuck and regretting blocking him ; but it was a one side relationship which took all my energy ; I love you Rebecca thank you for helping ❤️🥺

    • @tisha77
      @tisha77 2 года назад +11

      Hope u are doing okay , you'll be more happier . Choose yourself everytime happy that u chose

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 2 года назад +6

      @@tisha77 I'm doing pretty good tysm for asking ❤️🥺 I wish you all the best in your life

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 2 года назад +4

      @Kaylee edits i don't even know you but u know what ; I love you so much have a great life my dear tysm for being kind ❤️🥺

    • @nadia-yx6re
      @nadia-yx6re 2 года назад +1

      No matter what happens, I'm proud of you. I mean that. I'm proud of you.

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 2 года назад +1

      @@nadia-yx6re you deserve the world i love you ❣️❣️ Thankyouu for saying this it means a lot 🥺

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 2 года назад +101

    Omgggg I missed your positivity sooo much, you’re like my favorite RUclipsr🤍

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +11

      So excited to be back ❤️

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 2 года назад +55

    I’ve been having some hard times and you uploading just helps me to keep going and work on myself🙈

  • @malozinha
    @malozinha 2 года назад +70

    omg Rebecca I am literally crying rn, I missed you SO MUCH GIRL.
    Sending so much love and peace from Brazil 🇧🇷 we love you

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +9

      sending you love from Canada 🥰🥰

  • @shd.7520
    @shd.7520 2 года назад +32

    I was checking ur account today, I love how u have an era of inspiration, self-reliance and beauty.. stay safe ♡⁩⁦⁦⁦

  • @bluerryliness
    @bluerryliness 2 года назад +66

    I'm so glad you're back!! I was literally thinking about you earlier today hoping you would come back soon

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +10

      The break was definitely refreshing ❤️ so glad to be back though

  • @izzymarkham5472
    @izzymarkham5472 2 года назад +6

    YAAYAYAYAY I MISSED YOU TOO!!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +2

      I MISSED U MORE

    • @izzymarkham5472
      @izzymarkham5472 2 года назад

      @@RebeccaJayy you are so cool and have got getting unstuck! You’re amazing, remember that

  • @curiousduck5652
    @curiousduck5652 2 года назад +14

    I started school three weeks ago and I'm already drowning in work. I was using your old videos to help myself get motivated, especially the ones where you spoke about a day not being ruined even if you're in bed until 2-3-4 pm on your phone! Wow, what a mindset change when I realized that the day wasn't wasted and I could still be productive! Thank you for the positivity and so happy you're back to posting :)

    • @taliw7736
      @taliw7736 2 года назад

      Im in that boat too. So far quotes are helping and starting to plan and be in the habit of taking breaks and when to work hard

  • @dreamers_success
    @dreamers_success 2 года назад +13

    Who else was refreshing the page cause you couldn't wait for her to post 😂

  • @catemarquezz
    @catemarquezz 2 года назад +2

    omg i missed you, so glad you posted❤️🥺

  • @elianemvuemba3586
    @elianemvuemba3586 2 года назад +2

    OMGG YES I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO MUCH , WELCOME BACK ILYSM

  • @hannah-rf9tq
    @hannah-rf9tq 2 года назад +3

    aaa i've been rewatching your videos in the 2 months and i'm so glad to watch a new video!! but ofc take a break whenever you need ! :) we are always still here for you no matter what

  • @aestheticluv3r697
    @aestheticluv3r697 2 года назад +2

    i missed u so muchhh, im so happy ur back :)

  • @erikahernandez8463
    @erikahernandez8463 2 года назад +1

    omg so happy you’re back!! ❤️❤️

  • @ellababz04
    @ellababz04 2 года назад +2

    I’m so happy you’re back! I’ve been rewatching all of your old videos to stay motivated haha! I can’t wait for the new content :)

  • @bayp930
    @bayp930 2 года назад +2

    aah I'm so happy to hear from you, I checked your social media like twice a week to see how you're doing. I'm glad you're back

  • @em-mv7le
    @em-mv7le 2 года назад +2

    U CANT IMAGINE HOW HAPPY UR NOTIF MADE ME😭😭💖 im so glad ur back i love u and im glad u took this time for u u deserve it so much♡♡♡ so so so happy to be watching one of ur videos again omg

  • @KaylaaShortaay
    @KaylaaShortaay 2 года назад +1

    YAY UR BACKKKK I MISSED YOU

  • @posey4993
    @posey4993 2 года назад +1

    I'M SO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK I LOVE YOU SO MUCHHHH

  • @constanzadavico1060
    @constanzadavico1060 2 года назад +2

    I’m so glad you are back! We will always be here for you, accompanying you in this process

  • @niveditan6374
    @niveditan6374 2 года назад +2

    Missed you so much, glad your back!!😍🥰

  • @blue_satin_sashes
    @blue_satin_sashes 2 года назад +3

    omg we missed you queen!!! this video is just in time for back to school and i'm pumped ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼

  • @andrhea309
    @andrhea309 2 года назад +2

    this video brought comfort to me as I watched it, I also felt safe with it. thank you and hope you're well and doing better🥺💖

  • @khyatitidke3929
    @khyatitidke3929 2 года назад +1

    yayyyyy omg youre back!!! loved the video aaa

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic 2 года назад +1

    Omg YOUR BACK !!! I misssed you !!

  • @jewelmccrary4035
    @jewelmccrary4035 2 года назад +1

    so glad you're back !! hope you had a great break and start feeling more like yourself again !!

  • @leonoutstanding
    @leonoutstanding 2 года назад +1

    Welcome back!! I missed you! ❤️❤️

  • @sister-hood1992
    @sister-hood1992 2 года назад +2

    I'm sooo glad your back your one of my fav youtubers

  • @jordynbjohnson
    @jordynbjohnson 2 года назад +3

    you have inspired me so much! i cant imagine how many times i’ve found you at 12 pm, and just changed my whole day! we love you, and we believe in you 🤍

  • @arshiaanand7031
    @arshiaanand7031 2 года назад +1

    I missed your videos so much! I hope your break went well :)

  • @amyamrin6173
    @amyamrin6173 2 года назад +4

    Just wanted to come here and say that, dear Rebecca, you have a VERY big impact on my life! Thanks for being so real and making me realise that it's okay to not always be productive or hustle! A big hug to you! So glad that I discovered you on youtube! I was reaallyyy waiting for your video. Loads of love! ❤

  • @taeefann
    @taeefann 2 года назад +5

    I totally resonate with the re evaluate your relationships part. I feel like I'm holding on to things long gone, but I don't want to totally give up just in case someday something happens again 😣

  • @evoradipasquale4394
    @evoradipasquale4394 2 года назад +2

    I missed ur videos and I’m sooooo glad ur back 💜

  • @lizziebrowne4592
    @lizziebrowne4592 2 года назад +19

    I found you on RUclips a few weeks ago and I watched every video within a few days and found your positivity so inspiring

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 года назад +4

      ❤️❤️ i appreciate u

  • @selahcarper2159
    @selahcarper2159 2 года назад +356

    IM SO SO GLAD I'm not the only one who's been feeling like this. It's such a complicated feeling and sometimes you don't even know how to feel. TYSM for showing us your struggles and how u can improve one step at a time! 🤍

  • @lm9419
    @lm9419 2 года назад +1

    I literally needed this THANK YOU 😭💘

  • @rebekahtowerton9900
    @rebekahtowerton9900 2 года назад +2

    I missed you so much!! So glad that you were able to take a break, we all need one from time to time. I pray that you continue learning and growing and that you never stop pushing to be the best version of yourself that you could possibly be. Looking forward to watching future videos to come. ❤️

  • @thaysbarcelos9370
    @thaysbarcelos9370 2 года назад +2

    So glad that you're back!!

  • @Xo1keezy
    @Xo1keezy 2 года назад +1

    oml i was worried about you im so glad ur okay!

  • @leighs1nterlude
    @leighs1nterlude 2 года назад +1

    AHH I AM LATE BUT I SWEAE THE PAST WEEK I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING YOU UP TO SEE FOR A NEW VID ITS FINALLY HERE TY FOR FEEDING US

  • @kittykyra1809
    @kittykyra1809 2 года назад +2

    Omg , i really needed this video 💜

  • @xroshamariex
    @xroshamariex 2 года назад +4

    i literally needed this so much ive gave so much energy to others that ive literally lost myself :(

  • @hotgirlz7242
    @hotgirlz7242 2 года назад +2

    Yayyy ur back welcome back 🤧

  • @cikapramiswari6597
    @cikapramiswari6597 2 года назад +1

    yess finally!!! I MISS YOU SO MUCHHH, literally you inspire me so much, GO GO BECCA!!

  • @deeptivijavergia7675
    @deeptivijavergia7675 2 года назад +1

    Yayyy your video is here and I cant wait!!!

  • @jubiemyrsilvio9467
    @jubiemyrsilvio9467 2 года назад +2

    i missed you so much, my queen! you are my role model and i'm glad you're back ♥️✨

  • @rainnghell3683
    @rainnghell3683 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for making this video. I've been feeling like this for a few months and have been gaining so much weight from the fog of feeling stuck. Thanks for being real ✌

  • @graciegoose
    @graciegoose 2 года назад +1

    Omg you're back! This just made my weekend!

  • @notsokomal3146
    @notsokomal3146 2 года назад +1

    I'm glad you're back Rebecca💜

  • @giovannahuanca3130
    @giovannahuanca3130 2 года назад

    Finally queen!!!! I missed ur videos so much!! ♥

  • @alvarotamayo4168
    @alvarotamayo4168 2 года назад +3

    Really glad you’re back. :) Can’t wait for new videos!

  • @zainabfatema7601
    @zainabfatema7601 2 года назад +1

    Please i missed you so much..I was literally watching your previous videos and waiting for an update...Thank you so much for this..I missed you a lotttt ...

  • @Escalated401
    @Escalated401 2 года назад +2

    I've been waiting for you to post. I missed your content so much

  • @user-rf8lj6nl3j
    @user-rf8lj6nl3j 2 года назад +1

    omg soooo happy !! miss u girl ):

  • @cici9096
    @cici9096 2 года назад +2

    I’m so glad your posting again
    I’m stuck in life and having problems , especially with my friendship with people
    I feel tired and I just don’t wanna do anything ,I wanna lay down and let my problems disappear
    You make me try and think of getting up and being healthy
    I’m gonna start caring about my self more now thanks to you getting me up from my bed and couch

  • @aria98
    @aria98 2 года назад +4

    Hey, do you know how inspiring and touching your videos are? Thank you so much💜

  • @piya5023
    @piya5023 2 года назад +2

    the queen is finally back 😭😭😭😭 misssseddd youuu, yourr videoss wayyy tooo muchhh. sending you lots of loveee , positivity and hugsss

  • @bumblebea2795
    @bumblebea2795 2 года назад +2

    I can’t even put into words how much your videos help me. ❤️

  • @bogusia___
    @bogusia___ Год назад +1

    thank you,you helped me so much,i adore your content

  • @gimesegle
    @gimesegle 2 года назад

    I'm so thankful for your RUclips channel. Honestly, thank you for talking about mental health in such a real way. You're an inspiration to me :)

  • @kusstashyellow3031
    @kusstashyellow3031 2 года назад +1

    Hai, Becc!! Happy to see you back! Thank you for taking time for yourself and share with us here. Be happy, stay healthy too!

  • @thegirl3328
    @thegirl3328 2 года назад +1

    OMG I MISSED YOU, UR MOTIVATION, UR VIDEOS ALL!!
    also i thought i was the only one feeling like this. tysm for this video🤍 lysm

  • @katherinelowell220
    @katherinelowell220 2 года назад +1

    i completely understand taking time for yourself, take all the time you need, it’s hard to take your own advice when you can take the time you need. we’re here for you and i’m so glad to see you’re back :)

  • @mehakkhosa9034
    @mehakkhosa9034 2 года назад +2

    I missed you❤️ I was literally checking, like everyday if you posted something...

  • @pebbun3283
    @pebbun3283 2 года назад +4

    OMG YOU ARE BACKK SOOO HAPPY RN YOUR VIDEOS ARE ALWAYS THE BEST AND THE MOST RELETABLE😭😭❤

  • @ish5770
    @ish5770 2 года назад +1

    Thanks I really really needed this!

  • @thunderstorm204
    @thunderstorm204 2 года назад +1

    Here for you

  • @snehashree02
    @snehashree02 2 года назад +2

    Much needed video rn

  • @tigerlily5416
    @tigerlily5416 2 года назад +1

    I was so happy when I received the notification that you were back. I usually check your page to check if you posted and now it came as a suprise. Welcome back🥰🥰🥰

  • @millie-annebirchallx8225
    @millie-annebirchallx8225 2 года назад +1

    So happy you’re back, Take all the time you need to start feeling better!,

  • @beenmine
    @beenmine 2 года назад +13

    omg I missed u sm, I checked so many times to see if ur back, I hope ur break was good, love uu

  • @berrekarakus7208
    @berrekarakus7208 2 года назад +1

    Why did I just start crying at the beginning lol. Thank you for sharing this and I'm really glad you're doing well. I've been feeling stuck lately too but I just started to feel better yesterday and I'm really glad because I have been stuck for over 3 months now. I'm so excited for your future videos❤️

  • @krissing5228
    @krissing5228 2 года назад

    you have a beautiful peaceful soul glad to be apart of this family your so peaceful love your whole vibe

  • @lisiamilheirosmarioti5536
    @lisiamilheirosmarioti5536 2 года назад +1

    Yaaaay!! So happy ure back! We really missed uuu

  • @maria-lr6eb
    @maria-lr6eb 2 года назад +2

    I was waiting so long for you to upload another videooo.....I actually love your content and it's really helped me get through a lot of stuff thank you 💖💖

  • @diananyaboke6811
    @diananyaboke6811 2 года назад +1

    Am glad you're back. Yay❤

  • @Anna-jn5pn
    @Anna-jn5pn 2 года назад +2

    omg! I missed you so much! love you girl

  • @dneferduarte6511
    @dneferduarte6511 2 года назад +1

    I missed you so much! I'm so glad you are back.
    A lot of love from Brazil ❤️

  • @margaux2871
    @margaux2871 2 года назад +5

    thankyou for looking like a real person. you look very healthy. we can get though this together. sending lots of love

  • @sammm7762
    @sammm7762 2 года назад +5

    I'm so demnnnnn happy you're back somehow the fact you weren't posting crossed my mind every week. How no other RUclipsr is able to make me feel motivated!!!! ILYSMMMM

  • @ysys9024
    @ysys9024 2 года назад +7

    YAYYY SHE'S BACK !!

  • @amruthaanand9339
    @amruthaanand9339 2 года назад +1

    This is like the right time to watch this video for me... I've been stuck because I want to accomplish a lot at the same time not wanting to lose the momentum or perfection...
    I really loved this video!!!
    Thank you for being back😘😘😘
    You are my online therapist!!!
    MISSED YOU SOOOOOO MUCH

  • @piya5023
    @piya5023 2 года назад +1

    the impact you've made in my life 🗣️🙇🙇

  • @nishararanasinghe7373
    @nishararanasinghe7373 2 года назад +2

    Welcome back Rebecca 💗 we miss you!!

  • @hajinot
    @hajinot 2 года назад

    I have been watching your videos in the past week because I haven't been feeling well at all. I always search this kind of videos in hard times, but I had never seen yours. I love them. I feel like u are very realistic and that helps me get back to reality and realize it will be okay. its been a struggle to motivate myself, but I am trying, and your videos are a boost. thank u

  • @ithil-maril9141
    @ithil-maril9141 2 года назад +5

    REBECCAAAAA WE LOVE YOU SM this video def made my day😌🥺🥺

  • @sumaiyahmawzoon8151
    @sumaiyahmawzoon8151 2 года назад +1

    I was so happy when I saw the video notification. So freaking happy you’re back. I’m currently on the same phase of learning to let go and reaching out to old ones. Sending so much love to you from you Sri Lanka❤️

  • @gtrz_71
    @gtrz_71 2 года назад +1

    Missed you too! Thank you for inspiring and helping me!

  • @thembimpemi2307
    @thembimpemi2307 2 года назад +1

    My frown went upside down when I saw your video 🥺🥺 welcome back

  • @sinchanaprashanth1966
    @sinchanaprashanth1966 2 года назад +1

    SO GLAD YOUR BACK, MISSED YOU SIS!!!!

  • @bellaelise2640
    @bellaelise2640 2 года назад +2

    hey !! welcome back queen hehe

  • @sarahghoniem7169
    @sarahghoniem7169 2 года назад

    I missed u so much girl! I hope ur good now

  • @glamgirl4728
    @glamgirl4728 2 года назад +1

    Finally......❤️ I was waiting for your video..... Missed u sooo muchhh 💖

  • @kaylamakomborero6468
    @kaylamakomborero6468 2 года назад +2

    Girl we missed youuuuu!!! ❤️

  • @JessicaLilly
    @JessicaLilly 2 года назад

    GIRLLL I MISSED YOU!!! so glad to see you again!!! hope you’re feeling okay!

  • @JustJulie
    @JustJulie 2 года назад +14

    You don’t know how much we missed you😭✨❤️you are such an inspiration ✨😆

  • @ynghr03
    @ynghr03 2 года назад

    Good to see you again! I needed you before my back to school lmao ^^
    Hope you'll be doing well in the future and thanks for helping us to improve our lives with your positivity, you're such a beautiful person and I wish you the best