He Refuses To Be Alone With Women... For Safety
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
- Ninja refuses to dm or be alone with women who arent his wife to protect himself. Some have critiqued his stance.
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I’ve seen women say how they don’t want to be alone in a room with a man and that’s ok. A man should be able to do the same. All it takes is one small allegation to ruined a man.
Fuck should. A man better do so.
Everyone is entitled to their boundaries :3 Especially in a professional environment!
Yeah I don't even see how this is even a controversy lol
@@Ninnjette- Because certain people want the best of both worlds. They want the ability to set the terms for others yet exempt themselves. That's why it's an issue
@@Blackobra614 That makes a lot of sense, couldn’t possibly be anything else. In my normal interactions with every day normal people, I’ve never been criticized because I didn’t want to be alone with a man. You would think it’s just common sense right? I’m starting to realize, common sense isn’t that common.
"If I dont know you, im not DMing you" in modern world that's a life-saver
Unless you're a trans woman or a minor -Dr disrespect
Real
Agreed. When did people forget women lie constantly? Like i knew this in grade school lmao
Im with him 100%. An accusation from a woman is enough to ruin a man's life. Just an accusation. You will go broke proving your innocence and after that she gets no punishment.
real talk
Forget no punishment she becomes famous. Even if it’s proven false she becomes infamous and makes money off it
Exactly, that believe all women bs people put out around the #MeToo movement made even an allegation get people cancelled and ruined their lives. It's not worth it if you have anything good going in life. One gold digger can say you assaulted her and you're done.
I was raped by a colleague and I lost my career and reputation. He didn’t.
It’s significantly worse for women than men.
@@chrismihigo3113 false statements aren't usually taken in account, its laughed at or those who are ready to fight for her without confirming facts
I’m with him 100% . This is NOT a “punishment “, women are NOT entitled to a man’s time & intimacy ….
So if a man decides to abstain from situations that put him in danger , that’s solid .
Truly nobody cares. Abstain and stay quiet
@@letgo4331😂
POV: a 12 year old rage baiting.
@@letgo4331 “Truly nobody cares” Except for all the feminists crying and calling him a misogynists but whatever lol
@@letgo4331People literally care. Thats why it’s a story, you tried.
Entitled is right, that’s what women are.
I am 100% with ninja. Story time. I work in healthcare. At one of the past hospitals i worked in, i needed to get something from a storage room. There was a female coworker that i knew pretty decent from working together who waved at me then went into said room for something. I stayed outside leaning against the wall opposite of said room. She came out after grabbing what she needed then asked why i waited for her to come out with a questioning smile. I smiled nervously and said nothing as she went on about her business. She didnt know that i had been accused of SA before. She didnt know how badly that messed with me mentally and the problems it caused me professionally. The accusations were later found to be false but that was almost a year later. The damage was done. If i can help it, I am never alone in a room with a woman if i dont trust her with my life through years of hard earned trust.
I’m so sorry to read that so many men have had experiences like this. Women have become so dishonest, deceitful and greedy. Most times they are the ones who make advances and maybe because of regret or being rejected or after money, or simply because they want to ruin a man’s reputation they make these horrible false accusations.
Men are also victims of crimes by women. So so sorry. Honestly there needs to be a new law that punishes women with imprisonment for falsely accusing a man. We will see these kind of cases drop in a heart beat!
Do the people who Accused you get fired?
@@riufq Nope. They never do.
God bless you brother 🙏 Sorry you had to experience that. 'Ave a lovely day innit!
Shes probably more scared of being in a closed space with a man than you're 😂. Stop.
He’s a famous married man, that is the smartest advice I have heard from a streamer.
Edit: Yo y’all dogpiled one person in the comments for disagreeing. Be chill. People will disagree, and that’s just so incredibly ok.
Statistics tell us he's more likely to be raped by a man than to be falsely accused of rape by a woman. He should be more worried about being alone in a room with a man rather than a woman. Everybody here saying many men's lives have been ruined by false accusations, can you tell me who exactly ? Have you really followed cases on real famous people who have raped people ? Most of the time, victims have been silenced at one point, people did not believe them, people knew and didn't say anything. He should be more scared of getting touched by another famous guy who has more influence and power than him... This is just misogyny at the end of the day, it's pathetic.
@@portuaireo9066 gurl what. U need to go outside and stop fearmongering. FatherIess
@@portuaireo9066Could you cite these stats, please?
@@portuaireo9066 Why are you so butthurt that someone has preferences and decides who he talks to and hangs out with?
So what if it's mysogyny. Did Ninja deciding not to work with other women negatively effect any woman on Earth?
Nothing of value was lost or gained. Stop making a big deal out of literally nothing.
@@portuaireo9066 your rage still aint gonna make him be in a room with you do better choose the bear drizzle drizzle
Love this take from Ninja. Any losers criticizing him ain’t the head of a family. Bro is being loyal and safe. Good man. Good husband. Know your limits.
90% of guys can't relate to this 😂 this is a famous/rich dude problem getting booty trapped by clout demons and minors looking for attention.
@@commissarkitty3553 Only rich/famous dudes get falsely accused of stuff?
I remember when CNN called Mike Pence weird because he said that he won't be alone in a room with a woman, lol. I've been married for 20 years, and I have the same policy. There's no "he said, she said" when no one can even place me in a room with someone alone.
@@commissarkitty3553women do this to all type of dude, broke or rich. How old are you?
This just shows how sad America is, not about the two genders. Yall can't restrain yourselves or are sueing / accusing everyone of something or straight up shooting eachh other for little reasoning. Your people have 0 sense of community and this is what yall created
Oh I know Canada has it too, but only in the cities. They eat up everything yall do.. minus gunning each other down
A male friend (married 22 years) recently informed that he will no longer be helping out with babysitting ANYBODY’S kids…no more. I HAD TO ask him why. He told me that he simply can’t reconcile the risk to his entire life. I get it. He also shoots music videos, and he absolutely does not shoot a woman alone. It is his policy. He has had this policy since FOREVER, because he hated how SCUMMY the industry was for women, and he wanted them to feel safe. Today, he is the one who doesn’t feel safe. I feel him.
This is a good conversation. Carry on…💅🏾
No it's pathetic. I'm not avoiding watching kids off some shit like that. Ima girl dad maybe I'm just built different. I also had my father there. Maybe I'm just a weirdo. Idk
@@jamesjenosyde3657kind of a mixed bag. I generally agree that not helping out with kids because you're afraid of accusations is a little wild. Either there's something you're hiding or you're actually letting some wild hypothetical stop you from helping other parents and being a good role model to children. Either way, it's selfish and a decision driven by news/fear instead of conviction/love.
@@bbbbbbb51 Assumptions like that is exactly why the dude ain't taking care of no one else's kids. You assume that he's hiding something just because he made a life decision for himself that had nothing to do with anyone. There's a reason why the gender roles for babysitters are significantly women over men, people naturally find all male species more predatory than females instinctually so that's why women are into more nurturing jobs like nursing and babysitting.
Saying he's selfish shows how selfish you are for not seeing the whole picture. He made the right decision to avoid a high risk, low reward job that isn't worth it in today's society. Aba, Preach and Ninja all expressed the gender dynamic and you're validating it with a bunch of assumptions about someone you've never met.
@@jamesjenosyde3657 act like " im built different" is so arrogant you can talk all you want. hope someday it hit you one day you babysitting other children then woman make ONE lie put you in jail for rest of your life
@@bbbbbbb51Newsflash. Everyone is selfish. Why would the guardian be selfish and assume some other guy should have to care for a child even if it makes him uncomfortable, that he should be willing to compromise himself? He has a right to be paranoid.
There was a reddit post by a woman who had a male coworker whom adopted this way and she claimed to be put off by it and was asking reddit if she should report him for making her feel uncomfortable because he was going out of his way to not talk with her and the other ladies. Which was hilarious because that is exactly why he is avoiding you lady. Guy must've been a hunk fr because she wanted the attention
No. He could have been butt ugly and get the same situation. Because women hate when they CAN'T.
Damned if you do. Damned if you don't.
There's no winning huh?
Most of the time, people go to work to make money not friends and nothing else.
Uncomfortable? A man is avoiding a woman so that should be the most comfortable she's ever been. Oh my God that woman is insane
Dude has $30M, you can't tell me there's no women ready to scream SA for a piece of that pie! Dude has to watch out!
its way more than $30m
@@zoulzopan no, thats unlikely
@@CyberCripX thats just from the mixer deal and not counting everything else
@@zoulzopan thats besides the point. 3m or 30m, the argument is the same
Im a guy and if this guy glance st me for 1 split of a second, im screaming SA
For a married man who is famous, it makes some sense.
Lmfao
It make no absolute sense how famous streamers with happy marriages will do this for no reason
For a man in general it makes complete sense
DUH
@@Diamondr11Blue not a happy marriage (also pleasure).
People made fun of Pence when he said the same thing, and that he always has meetings with women with his door open. Man saw the future for real.
Or he just respects others. Why would you need a door closed?
@@letgo4331- privacy. Not many people like being disciplined by their boss in front of everyone.
@@letgo4331Why do you close doors?? Privacy
The man definitely was a visionary. In the Spanish world we also have the Messi rule: when taking pictures never put your hands around women who aren't your wife (used to be common and not an issue back in the day).
@@ShaferHart I’m guessing the name of it tells me a guy named Messi had a scandal about that
As a male middle school teacher... I totally agree. Even if there's a girl slow to pack up her things at the end of class, I will step out into the hallway where there's a camera. Three male teachers at my school have had accusations against them in the last two years.
Well done brother.
How did the accusations go?
Off topic: I don’t attempt to talk to women at my job.
Accusations in a middle school is wild
@@shawn2004grad fax if i don't know you i ain't talking to you
One false statement can and will cause hell for a person. Sometimes in life, you have to play chess and not checkers.
I honestly can't blame him for doing this
Ya know who else was playing chess and not checkers….. the doc and he turned out to be a pdf
Yep I remember some politician saying the same thing that he won’t be alone in a room with a woman a few years ago. I think it was Mike Pence.
@@bullseyebulldog8001 lol he did not turn out to be a pdf you drooling lackwit. she was 17, perfectly legal, and not a child kid.
@@bullseyebulldog8001Playing chess imply your thinking steps ahead and know your actions will have consequences. Engaging in inappropriate behaviour with a minor while you're not a minor yourself contradict my first statement
He's got a wife leave him tf alone. If it was a woman stayin away from men because she's married nobody would give a shit.
You drop this 👑
"If it was a woman stayin away from men because she's married" - then people would still attack the man, he'd be called controlling and insecure because his wife makes such a personal choice, because in their minds women have no agency at all when it comes to relationships with men.
I would say most women would say I don't wanna be alone with a man due to my own safety
Stop being willfully ignorant.
This is an exact response to the new dating and relationship culture.
There is no point it get to know women outside of who you KNOW is safe.
Women lying about their age to straight up sexual assault cases.
This isn’t just “oh I have a wife”
No one here is doing anything to bother him lol, leave him alone from what?
My husband is a firefighter, him and most of the guys on his crew have an understanding of never being alone with a female patient, or co worker. I’ve personally witness a few women in my life blatantly lie about horrendous things and throw out accusations that are fully false just because they didn’t get their way, got their ego bruised, or sometimes, just because they’re a complete psychopath and seem to enjoy it. It’s sick. People can act naive and ignorant all they want, but the real world is full of women (and yes men too) that are sick in the head and love to manipulate and seek attention. When it comes down to a he said/she said scenario most times the men that have been falsely accused can never fully come back from it. Years ago my husband and his partner ran a call on a woman that was all kinds of erratic (drugs/alcohol idk) and she flat out threatened them and the cop that she’d report all of them for SA and sue because shes a women so she’d be believed and get paid. None of them had even gotten close enough to touch her. She was acting crazy and flailing around non stop. she wasn’t getting her way and is probably a completely horrible human being to her core. She quickly dropped her threats when she was made aware of body cam footage and then just went into full hysterics fight mode bawling about sexism and some other BS. Just an entitled evil individual. I’m a woman, idc what anyone says, people lie, people have nasty intentions and people can be so cruel. Always protect yourself and your family. It’s an easy small thing you can do in most work/professional/social situations.
I respect that policy for men. They should protect themselves.
I ain't readin allat 🤣
@@samuelc.9686 no one asked you too 🤷🏼♀️
Welcome to another episode of things that never happened.
When I got divorced my ex wife made all kinds of false allegations against me. Including infidelity. The thing that protected me against those rumors were the fact that I never allow myself to be alone with a female unless absolutely necessary. At work I leave the door open if I'm around a female, I carefully control who texts me personally, if I go to a friend's house I will never be alone with their girl whatsoever. I use to go to a friend's house to work out in his garage gym and if I got there before him I would not go inside. Him and his wife both said they trust me but that perception can be used by any one whose deceptive. And so covering all of my bases has protected me. These sort of claims can be so damaging that it's not worth your time to NOT protect yourself. I try to drive this into my nephews heads.
A former Mob Boss named Michael Franzese had the same idea when he was younger. He used to wait outside in his car if he had to go see another made man/boss. No matter what the weather was.
Do the women you work with get the same opportunities as the men? Are you in a high position? Because it's a nice and cool that you have these rules for yourself if you're at the bottom of some company, but if this means that you have more bonding time/mentoring opportunities with the men, and if that in turn leads to more promotions, it's not great.
@@Anna133199 you dont undestand shit: if a woman tell somenting to the police against a man, THEY BELIVE HER EVEN IF THERE IS NO PROOF! but the opposite dosent happen.
@@Anna133199 Lmao wow. You just completely disregarded everything he said and his experiences just so you could say "yea but what about women" in the most long winded manner possible. If you had actually read his comment with a bit more sympathy and understanding you would've found your answers right there. He literally said "he's never alone with a woman UNLESS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY", he also says even when he's alone with a woman, makes sure that the door remains open. But you were more concerned with your whataboutism than you were with this man's experiences, but I guess that's part for the cause with you people.
This is how my father is and I love it.
SDSU kicker was drafted by the Patriots. Girl accuses him of SA and the Patriots cut kicker. Video tape showed he was not there. He never got a second chance to make the NFL.
Fucked up
Drafted by the Bills
Are you talking about Matt Araiza? He's on an NFL roster, the Chiefs signed him.
Also to Trever Bouer, number one prospect in the mlb a few years ago, recently won a court case against the accuser, got her to admit he is 100% innocent, but he still hasn’t been called by an mlb team, and he’s still very good
@@burtreynolds8030and she has not been charged at all, last time I heard.
He's smart. Considering how easy it is for a woman to accuse a man of something with zero proof and that man is guilty until proven innocent. As a man, it's not worth it to take that risk.
they only do that to troll
Hard to believe when men that get convicted barely get time.
False. That man is guilty and then even if they are proved innocent they will always still be guilty in the minds of many. The damage is permanently done regardless of the official outcome.
@@NationXyeah because majority of the time they are guilty, there just wasn’t enough evidence to convict.
@@ogueyratogeyrat7448 ruining somebodys life to the point of them taking their life isnt trolling
I work the night shift at my job. If a woman wants something I make sure I’m always in frame of a security camera during our interactions. It’s literally me there by myself, who are people going to believe? It just makes sense to me. Not sexist, just covering my bases.
After all the careers I've seen get destroyed because of rumors, it's totally understandable to want to stay away from the opposite gender
That's so sad . Wish people could grow up and stop playing the boy vs girl nonsense. It should be man 🤝 woman
@@Diamondr11Bluewomen started it
@@Diamondr11Blueit's just the laws to over protect women who are bitter towards men just because they are too irresponsable
@@Diamondr11Blueit’s sad but that’s reality. There have been plenty of instances in which innocent people get in trouble simply because of rumors
@@CRAgamer 🤦♂️
1:44 "why should we all be punished just because there's a few bad apples out there" GOLLY WHERE HAVE I HEARD THAT BEFORE
"mEn aRe tRaSH!!!"
That's why.
I mean tbh I don't think most women would mind such an approach and men either. It could probably lower the SA stats as well. Every potential perpetrator would think twice about doing anything - goes for men and women.
@@crustybone??
@hjr228 especially the gay ones. 😉
@@Sene_-wf2py I meant harsh punishments for SA because right now they're not. So every person would think twice about doing anything.
As a Gay person I refuse to be alone with women too.
I had a few assume I was hitting on them because I was "too nice" to them. Than they got mad that I wasn't open about it or "tricked" them. Sorry my mom raised me to respect humans.
Women are terrible friends to gay men too. Women only use them as feigned besties, but talk mad ish about them behind their back. Seen it countless times.
They use gay man as a subconscious way to diminish The Patriarchy/Manhood of Men In General, which is why they only pretend to be besties with them. They love to see men emasculated and effeminate because it makes them as women feel more equal or more powerful than that man or the subconscious Patriarchy in their mind that they're diminishing.
I understand completely I have a gay male friend and the way women aggressively flirt with him to the point it's harassment and then say homophobic slurs to him is extremely unsettling
@@Chuck_EL The interaction between women and gay men needs to be studied, I seen the thing where women tout him around like an "accessory" cause he's the token "gay friend" and think they own or have a say in his other relationships
@@Chuck_ELhave you noticed women are in all support of the alphabet gang yet the moment they get angry they say things so homophobic religious fundamentalists would even get offended?
Married (to a guy), Bi male here, yeah....I've had women co-workers be soooo polite to me at first, then give me demonic looks and become super rude a week later, for.....well I guess coincidences...I was just being nice. Not normal behavior ngl, plus the women they hang around also mean mug me.
The "red pill" dogma is affecting guys like me for no reason I swear... (just my suspicion)
My husband says and does the exact same, and takes pride in having an ethical partition between him and immoral behavior. Ninja is 💯 right. It’s not worth putting your livelihood at risk.
Hell, I Was working as an IT guy at a hospital that treated teens with behavioral problems back in the 90s. One of the first things they told me when I started working there: "NEVER find yourself alone in a room with a female patient. Because they might possibly try to fuck you over."
So these sentiments aren't anything new.
Preachers, responsible ones, used to do this too, even before the internet. Never be alone with a lady: bring your wife, bring other church members, make sure there is no opportunity to gossip.
But tbh a lot of women do get SA. Just a small % are false accusations, the rest is pretty valid.
@@crustybonecommon L
@@anonymousfreedom1253yeah even to mention this in response to the OP’s comment doesn’t even make sense lmao. Man makes a comment that he was told at hospital he worked at to avoid being alone with female patients to avoid allegations. Commenter spazzes and croaks “BUT LOTS OF WOMEN ARE SA’d! FALSE ALLEGATIONS ARE RARE!”.
@@giovannimartin3239 These are the same females that say: “when talked about female issues don’t bring struggles that men go through” or “when we are talking about all men we mean some men” yet here we are maybe OP should take their own advice too.
I don’t think there’s any argument against this thought process. Women are having conversations about choosing a bear over a man. Men can have a conversation about not being in the forest at all as to not even be put in any situations.
"Women are having conversations about choosing a bear over a man." those are not "conversations" but exercises in verbal diarrhea, symptoms of severe mental delusion caused by lack of critical thinking and propaganda.
No I think the counterpart of ''bear vs men'' is ''tree vs women'' XD It's ridiculous.
Agreed. Thats why it annoys me when people get triggered by us choosing the bear. It shouldnt be an issue with you choosing not to be with us alone just like its not an issue for us to not want to be with you alone. You should understand but instead, they meme and cry about our choice. We're all just looking out for our safety and concerned because of things that actually have happened and can
@@izzygallagher5821 i dont really get the bear over man. But maybe you can help me!
I get that it comes from lived experience and very real fears women face on a fucking daily basis.
But I just don't comprehend why you would ever choose a bear, if it finds you it will eat you alive and it has a great sense of smell so good luck with that. A man could literally mean any man, a child; an elderly man; a man with a disability etc.
How could you possibly justify choosing bear from a survival point of view
@izzygallagher5821 you sound silly and privileged just like all the women that started that man vs bear bs.
Women: I choose a bear 👏
Men: I don’t wanna be alone with women not my wife “HOW DARE YOU?”
Women are permanent victims regardless of behavior
💯 What ever we do we are the Problem.
Literally!!!
Both sides are valid. There are situations women aren’t safe in when around men, and there’s situations where men’s lives can be ruined if they’re in the wrong space with the wrong female.
@@Tam-Ruh4856the problem with spaces where males thrive tends to create opportunity for upward mobility so when women want opportunity they enter it. The male space must change to be safe for them.
The thing that gets me is the level of _entitlement_ that comes from the outrage. As if women are _owed_ collaborations or private conversations with Tyler. Look, he's nowhere near as influential as he used to be, but even at his peak, he doesn't _owe_ any of these streamers or influencers his time. It's not his responsibility to be the springboard for the careers of others. Plain and simple.
So Tyler doesn't wanna know you. So what? There are hundreds of other creators out there with his level of popularity that would be happy to collaborate and branch out. Go hit one of them up instead of crying in front of a closed door. Let the man be and move on with your life.
Why catch a false allegation for no reason? Best to not put yourself in that situation.
Exactly and that is why I'm personally making a mental border wall and morally because shit's cracked these days.
It's not even about the false allegation, though that is a problem in and of itself as well. It's about what some third party will think and say.
@@baldhermit i mean u saw how many streamers /youtubers got baited into msging minors lol of minors saying they 18 none stop then go spread allegations that the guy knew they were underaged , hashinshin is a big example even the FBI cleared that he wasnt a pedo and yet hes still banned on twitch and people call him pedo
I am a woman, and I approve of this message. We are messy, and even though not ALL women/girls do this. Some of us do. It's not about us. Men need to protect themselves. Just like us women protect ourselves. It's only right. Good for them.
All in all, don't trust people you don't know.
All in all don’t trust people
Yesss best said!!! Never putting myself in a situation I don't want to be in ... Same goes for men I know and they feel messed up setting boundaries..but you know what ... Stay protected 🙏
@@bullseyebulldog8001 🙏 yup
I think ninja's position protects both parties. It protects women from potentially being uncomfortable and victimized and vice versa
Woman: Why do woman have to suffer for a few bad apples?
Guys:Don’t yall do this to us everywhere.
With or without evidence at that.
@@PrapalyFree instead of pulling this petty nonsense drop it and move on.
The bear
@@Diamondr11Blue And what about our protection?
@@Diamondr11Blue Men have just as much right and responsiblity to protect themselves as anyone. A woman should cross the street at night if men are walking towards them even though most men are good men. Likewise a man should avoid situtations where they can be hurt by a woman even though most women are good women.
100% with Ninja on this one. Hell, I work with the public and I have my own rules with women.
1.) No contact (Lie and say something about Covid concerns).
2.) No Isolated Situations.
3.) Call everyone by last name.
4.) No conversation that is not work related.
5.) Outside of work I don't know you.
It’s all about self preservation, keep the bubble large.
I'm with the overall sentiment except for 2 things. To #1, I'd rather them be honest up front so I know their boundaries and can respect them. Also... if someone is using covid as an excuse in 2024 I'm going to assume you are literally stupid and still wear your mask in the car while you drive alone. I will avoid that person at work man or woman, for the simple fact I now think they are actually a dumb human being. I can respect boundairies... but not stupidity 😂.
To calling them by last name.... this is not the military and anyone who uses my last name like that will know very quickly with my attitude they do not have that privilege. We are not children that need to talk to each other like we talked to our friend's parents. I have never had a coworker, male or female call me by my last name and even if they add a Miss, Ms, Mrs, in front of it... I'm bring the seriously frosty side out. To make things overly formal is a disrespect in and of itself in my personal opinion.
Overall I agree with protecting yourself and keeping a healthy distance to ensure you are not being misconstrued or going to be used an a bad example from some crazy out there.
Damn 😂
Damn, but it's true. I can't be with co-workers like that.
Almost as if Islam makes sense and is onto something...
After all these controversies and scandals what do you expect? Drizzle drizzle. 😂
dafuq does that have anything to do with this lol
🌧🌦🌂⛈☔
Drizzle Drizzle 💁♂️💅🏾
@@aladdout9454 A lot actually.
Drizzle drizzle ✨
I remember when former vice president mike pence said the same thing. When he's at meetings with females, he said his wife was always there. I also remember people lambasting pence, but now Ninja is a genius.
It’s so weird too like it makes it sound like he’s valid because why is there any pushback. Wym you have an issue with a man wanting to be around his wife
A lot have changed in men's consciousness over the last couple of years. This is not hypocrisy - things change.
To be fair VP Pence also calls his wife “mother”. That gives that a very different vibe 😂
Republicans can't say anything about women without it all being seen as unreasonable.
Thing is is that if you belong in a different party, the standards applied to you by the opposition will be astronomically high.
With how society doesn't want hold false accusations accountable, I don't blame him at all. It's actually crazy how ppl get mad when men want to protect ourselves. When we deny women access to us it's literally taken as misogyny etc. Literally I've seen ppl say this mentality harms women.
Men protecting ourselves, women most affected.
We need action taken for these. Its not good, wastes valuable resources and time and let's actual offenders get away with it
a lot of women are really quick to remind people that they aren't entitled to their attention, etc, and they're usually right. but when you don't give some women who want your attention what they want, they get sketchy and weird really quickly
Some women have a spirit of solipsism. They feel as they can do you whatever they want but you should not be able to. Ninja did nothing wrong, some of these chicks a bottomlessly disgusting.
@@Diamondr11Blue That will only start happening when men start seeking legal consequences for false accusations made against. Right now it doesn't happen due to gender stereotypes and the fact that the justice system doesn't want a chilling effect Towards women reporting. So they'd rather allow women the agency to make an accusation with impunity.
@@evandonnelly7982 I've dealt with that personally that's why I relate to where Ninja is coming from.
My former boss (male) would always have a witness in his office when a woman wanted to talk to him in "private" i used to think that was paranoid...but now i get it
The saying "just because your paranoid doesn't mean they aren't coming for you" exists for a reason.
Precaution is a sign of a man that has a lot to lose. I hope he's chilling.
“Why should we be punished?”
We aren’t punishing you. Remember you chose the bear over us, so we’re just protecting you from us ;) lmao
Bingo
Grizzle Grizzle
So y'all forgot about false allegations?? I say protect yourself regardless of your gender cause you never know!!
@@Cyber-Rain Grizzle Grizzle is the new thing? I'm all for it
@@dalia5474but now there is articles and videos of women complaining of men avoiding them in the workforce. Videos like ninjas only confirm what men have been doing. Just look at pictures of Messi and even Keanu reeves, they make sure they’re not touching.
Even if you're married and NOT famous, his outlook makes sense. I'm the same way, not gonna get me caught up.
Not punishing anyone, just protecting myself.
The women who are mad at his take are the ones making false accusations. It takes just ONE false claim and it'll spread like wildfire. I'm not a ninja fan but 110% agree, man loves his wife.
Some women are mad, not all because his reasons are valid 💯
Reminds me of the video y'all covered about women having a hard time finding mentors in a company that is predominantly made up of men. Another aspect of that was that they weren't able to get dates as easily since guys would flee as soon as a woman walked up to them at the water cooler.
At the end of the day you have to be mindful of how you conduct yourself but also the company that you keep. And to speak to Ninja's perspective, he's setting up boundaries to protect what he has. Not that I'd expect someone to target him, but just like with ransomeware, social engineering, it only takes one mistake to end your career or find yourself compromised online.
Because accusations exist. The ones who make them make it harder for others to be trustworthy
I would 100% expect someone to target Ninja lol he's got fame, money, and audience. All you'd have to do (if you wete someone who takes advantage of people, of course) is catch him slipping once. Literally all celebrities are under that microscope.
That’s the tricky thing about accusations. You don’t expect any particular person to be targeted until they are
Crazy how women think they're entitled to mens experience, wisdom and success. Why can't they just achieve things on their own without constantly needing men to supervise them?
"Why are women being punished?!"
Because too many women are out there throwing around false allegations and making claims to try and ruin a man's life as a way to punish him... and nowhere near enough women are standing up and calling it out. Look at the Amber Heard situation, plenty of women out there were publicly defending her despite the evidence that made it clear she was more perpetrator than victim. They chose "the sisterhood" over what is right.
You don't get to run around saying "Believe All Women!" then get upset when men, especially successful men that have a lot to lose, get wary and take steps to protect themselves. More than that, you don't get to passively sit by as those women yell and scream about how shit men are, and expect men to look at you any differently than they look at the ones causing a fuss. That's tacit acceptance of bad behavior and a lot of men take notice of that.
Until women start holding other women accountable, until they start putting what is right and moral and ethical over "the sisterhood", this kind of behavior is going to continue and become even more common than it already is.
My question is how does this "punish" women?
@@trence5exactly I find that so weird. I don’t know why these ‘innocent’ women think they’re entitled to be in ninjas presence. If dude doesn’t wanna be around you that’s his choice lol.
@@trence5 The way it punishes women, is that it reinforces the "glass ceiling". Men no longer want to do the one on one mentoring or do networking, this limits women in the workforce.
@@simonwinn8757 and whose fault is that? Men have every right to not want to be around women cos it only takes one instance of a woman feeling ‘uncomfortable’ to destroy a man’s reputation.
Hear, hear
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As a black maintenance technician the people of my community have no idea how nervous I am whenever I have to go into a womans apartment and shes the only one there.
Slightly off topic, but just know as a white man, if you walk in my house all I see is a maintenance technician. Be safe out there 🫶🏼
@@JT-kv8pr yeah but alot of people don't
I can only imagine. I do.
Hot tub repair. And sometimes you have to go in the house to reset the breaker in the electrical panel. It's not something I do a lot.Just rarely every now and then. And I can't stand doing it.I hate being alone with somebody in their house.Because you got no idea what people could say
Also black guy, I deliver groceries for instacart always cautious delivering anywhere people often give me a "wtf you doing here" look or experience. especially nicer areas even just driving cause cops but you gotta work n go outside. Lol. It's levels but yea be safe out here.
Would it cover you if you could put a gopro on?
My dad is a pastor and since 1979, this was a rule he had for himself, deacons, and any male employed by the church. Bc of the Bible verse "avoid even the APPEARANCE of impropriety"
This guy is smart, he knows whats out there already
He's not smart, he's seen what can happen to men in many professions.
Never, ever believe unsupported testimony of a woman. Video or she's lying.
ain’t nothing good out there.
Yeah, he sees how easy it is to lose what he has worked so hard to get. I understand him. Do your thing my guy
@@netferno1the thing is in my opinion it’s really not that easy for him to lose it, it’s paranoia, saying you “don’t wanna make new friends” is just genuinely decreasing your opportunities, quality of life, and potential for positively impacting other people because of what? The idea that basic human interaction through the internet will lead to baseless, easily explainable accusations that will “ruin your career” it’s not realistic
@@bigballerdefault1054 not realistic until it happens. In this day and age an accusation is enough to ruin you.
biggest blackpill is that you don't even need to meet women for them to accuse you and you go to prison just like that black man who went to prison for 20 years because a woman *dreamed* that he r4p3d her.
"She said it came to her in a dream that the assailant was her neighbor, Clarence Moses-El. Based on that, Moses-El, who said he was innocent, was convicted of rape and assault. But last week, a Denver judge overturned the convictions and on Tuesday afternoon, after serving 28 years of his 48-year prison sentence, Moses-El was released on bond."
nah thats worst then what i heard about one where a woman accuse a black man of SA at a train station but when checked on cctv they were about 6 people wide apart from each other and dood never even looked in her direction once. i think it failed but i didnt check.
damn atp they just wanted to lock up a black dude. in most cases rapists dont even get prison time...
GTFO 🤬 in her dream ? And they locked up the sucka?!!?!?!?? Naaaaaahhh 💀💀💀I’m crashing out
Lol ikr @@JG-jz3wh
@@JG-jz3wh Don't forget that man who get the label of r*pist usually get tortured, attacked and poisoned in prison. So the women literally sentenced him to to torture
I remember in college there was a class and we got talking about women's safety and stuff and after the class ended I was walking and talking with a Afro-Hispanic guy and he said real quick "Trust me dude, I'm way more afraid to be in an elevator alone with a white girl than she is afraid to be in there with me".
I didn't get the comment at first but goddamn after metoo I totally get what he meant.
@@CTHR333💯
Smart chess move to cover your ass at all times. More people who are well known and have stuff to lose should adopt this mentality especially in todays day and age
Remember the gym videos from 2022 era? Oh man
A relative of mine is a teacher and they've told me earnestly they make it a point never to be alone with a child of the opposite gender for this very same reason. All it takes is one misunderstanding and someone's life is ruined forever. It's sad that we've gotten to this point in so many industries, but ultimately, it's better to be safe than sorry.
It's not even just misunderstandings, some girls will intentionally falsely accuse a male teacher because they know no one will believe him and she'll never get punished
@@sebaschan-uwu Yeah, that too
@@sebaschan-uwu in what world are women and girls believed?? only 1.3% of reported cases of SA result in a suspect being charged so a man could actually commit that crime and never go to jail
Most of the time what they're saying is true. I'd say 0,1% are false acusagu.
I remember about a year ago about Alice Sebold that was famous for writing “The Lovely Bones”. She got famous about writing her rape incident called “Lucky”. Dude spent like 16 years and jail. Come to find out, he was wrongly convicted
Did she get punished for it. If anything the death penalty would be the only appropriate punishment
Yeah she got a movie deal for her book but the producer became confused when comparing the books story and the court records and dug it up and it came out that the guy in prison was wrongfully accused and was released after years.
She gave a statement saying she was sorry the system wronged him. She had to have known it wasn't him, I doubt there was even an attack, but the biggest consequence she's facing is losing the movie deal. Her book is still published, no notes or redactions, and she has had to pay no damages for libel or slander.
You are not entitled to male attention or his time ladys. If he said i dont wan be around you that isnt a Invitation to try again.
Drizzle drizzle 😂
@@Diamondr11BlueSoft guy era activated 😂
If only no meant no.
@@Aaron-zt5ee we arnt sex machines you can put nice coins in and get what you want.
@@robertstone9988 yes exactly! Now men need to under that as well about women ✨
I didn't know Ninja was smart. Definitely surprised and found new respect.
lmao!
Me either. Nerdy streamers do not seem the socially savvy type.
"Sir help me please!"
Aba: "Call the fire department."
Im with him 100%. Accusations can ruin a mans life, a friend of mines in the Army got jailed for 2 mouths with no proof. The date lied and said she was raped. 2 months later she’s back in Georgia and she tells some friends she lied so she can get out of Korea. He friends were real ones and told her 1st sergeant and chaplain.
Pretty standard in corporate world now. Any meeting no matter how insignificant involving a woman has to have a witness. If you have to deliver a reprimand or any type of negative talk involving women now needs 2 witnesses. Having said that I also record all meetings with men as well. In Canada you're allowed to record conversations.
agreed isnt also safer for the women if someone else is always present?
@@zoulzopan It is but they view it as "sexist" and "misogynistic" for some reason.
@@thesugardaddy7037 tbf it can become sexist when some men are "paranoid" about being falsely accused by women. In reality the biggest threat to men isn't a woman accusing them, but another man SAing them. In the UK men are 230 times more likely to be SA'd than be falsely accused. This is why we should record meetings/ have additional safeguards for everyone regardless of gender
The women who are angry at Ninja for saying this are the same women who choose the bear in the woods.
Explain your point
@Soleil-vk9ts that they can see why they take precautions but they can't see why others take similar precautions, making them hypocrites? or maybe the conditions of their separations from men only bar instances that benefit them, making them less desirable to work with?
@@Soleil-vk9ts
Where's the confusion? It's pretty self explanatory.
@@chimpwimp9407 not to me. In most instances, I would choose the bear. But I'm not angry at the guy for saying what he is saying, if he had experiences that made him uncomfortable in the past and decides to stay away from being alone with women, well that's his choice. I don't see the issue
@@mmgvii8076 English isn't my first language so I don't think I'm understanding your point completely but i could say the same about men. The men who are angry at women for choosing the bear are the same men who will defend the choice of Ninja. That is hypocrisy as well. The conditions of your separations from women as a man only bar instances that benefit you as well in a sense, no ?
The "cant stop people from talking" is 100% real. I remember back when i was 15, we had a new family at our church, and they didn't speak a word of english, so i tried making friends with the kids. The daughter was my age and the brother was older so ig naturally we mingled with her cause of we were the same age. After some time of just hanging out at church events as normal friends, they told my mom that i was trying to manipulate the aughter to sleep with me. I was like ayoo wttfff?? It was a big scandal, and i even got disciplined at my church. I was a musician, so my 'punishment' was that i couldn't participate in anything, which sucked since i really enjoyed playing for worship. After that, i was like heeeelll naaah." I aint talking to girls, to be friends or to date. Screw that. Im 24 now, and i still hear people bringing that up.
Btw the mom claimed i was persistent and that her daughter "doesn't do those things"..... she became a single mother about a year later lol
Same thing happened to my little brother… the karma is ice cold when they later get pregnant by a random, the same way they projected that upon you 😢 (Irony at its finest 😂😂😂😂)
okay you like men congrats
I believed you up until that last sentence. The fanfic people write these days smh
AND if you WERE trying to Mac that’s non of their god damn business either way. Fucking righteous assholes.
@@Numb_ he legit said a year later which would be 16. how many girls get pregnant at 16 and dont end up single moms ? its way more common than you think. sadly
My pops is a pastor, and he always had a rule at our church, a man and a woman, especially if one or both were married, were not allowed to be alone in a room together for any extended period of time. It was for this exact reason. He was ahead of his time
This has been common practice amongst wise Christian leaders for decades! he will be called a “misogynist” for this. Not punished but protected. Love it.
🧢 wise "christian" leaders or most of the time part of the boott goon squad 🤡
Ew being christian has nothing to do with it lmao. If anything Christians and priests are the worst example you can give to try to make your point LOL how cringe.
They cared more about little boys.
@@NHatemNthen they weren’t wise
This and little boys were common practice for them
If women can say stupid stuff like i wOuLD cHooSe tHe bEAr then he is more than free to do that to not get falsely accused.
His take is 1000% more reasonable too
Men, is it time for us to choose the bear too?
@@MG-po6jc I'm choosing the sun bear. I like their eccentric vibes.
Telling women to go be with the bear should become a nice way to tell them to go away. They chose it, now go away and let men have some peace.
....are you saying that about the women who only use that statement to trash on other men, or the ones who ACTUALLY don't feel safe enough?
I’m a regular person with a regular person job and a family, I supervise about 15 people at any given time, but have been through hundreds, more than half of them have been women,
I’ve only ever been accused of something inappropriate by a woman (because I would reach out to her during work hours to ask for updates on her work & responsibilities since we worked independently, she felt I was reaching out too often, but she would not respond so I would have to follow up),
luckily for me there was nothing that gave her claims grounds but she made it a point to say I was holding my power over her head and being misogynistic, I was investigated by HR for these claims and had my interactions scrutinized because 1 person did not like being told what to do by a man,
I was found innocent of whatever I was being accused of, it only takes one person to cause this kind of chaos and by the nature of gender assumptions in the work place (and in personal life) you have a higher likely hood of that person being a woman, I would not stand in front of a loaded firearm and have no fear of being shot even if the person holding the gun had no intention of doing so.
I'm glad you're okay. We have to keep reciepts!
👑 Glad you were able to stay safe.
False accusations nearly cost me my job, my freedom, and my home. My forward planning and the backing of my ex-inlaws stopped that from happening.
Never ever letting myself be put in that situation ever again. When I get asked if im a scared man who got hurt I have one answer that im happy to give.
Yes and I'm one of the lucky ones.
I had a college professor who said if we have any questions feel free to come up to him and ask but he won't stay alone with anyone. I thought it was so sad he had to add that.
As a woman, I see no issue with this at all.
@@lalaismyalterego7444 I feel like most women don't see a issue at all with this.
it's actually safer for both parties. It protects the man from allegations, and it protects the women from men who really would use this opportunity to do harm.
@@oooiluvpancakesooo7781 true. it's crazy to see some men be so mad in the comments when women have been told to take precautions for hundreds of years. To be careful around men. I don't see the issue with men having to do the same thing, even if it's not for the same reasons.
As a woman, I have no issue & prefer this. A man who would go out his way to leave me alone vs one that feels entitled to have a conversation.
also if it's for job/career purposes, there's proper avenues to make contact. Not a DM.
That poster of Sneako getting punched is cracking me uppppp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂🤣
moral of the story: be broke, not attractive looking and not famous of any kind, then u wont have to fear being falsely accused of anything by woman since they dont even look in ur direction to begin with.
lol😂i love that
Based
Lmaoooo bro thinks its gonna save him.
@breadogi7118 no it works currently 32 , same situation as stated above. Women ignore me
Nah, imma make my money and enjoy my life😂
The lack of protection for reputational damage, women's primary form of vengence and aggression, has become insane.
Alyssa Mercante and Jessica proved his point on why he never allows himself to be alone with any woman who isnt his wife because its women like that that try to do everything in their power to turn a conversation with a man into something inappropriate to get him in trouble, he's just being smart and is reassuring faithfulness to his wife
oh god Alyssa Mercante has to be one of the most miserable, perpetually delusional online person I've never seen
I had an airhead manager who had a selective memory about people 'yelling' at her after SHE started an altercation with them, and she loved to run to upper management after each incident. I advised HR that I refused to do any interactions one-on-one with her, from in person to phone calls. HR and upper management accepted my terms (bc she was getting fired for too many complaints), and SHE would still try to call me alone! I had to learn to manage my manager to avoid these types of potential problems
Apparently it’s fine to not want to be alone in the woods with a man, but not a room with a woman. Why do they care unless they plan on making a false claim?
? because people not wanting to be around you can hurt?
@@michaelmitchel3471 why would someone not want to be around you because ninja didnt respond to your dm when you’ve never met the guy once. Kinda entitled to feel like you deserve a response and are somehow being wronged and socially slandered if you aren’t given a celebrities time of day.
@@michaelmitchel3471No one owes you their time. You are not entitled to it. If someone doesn't want to be around you then quite frankly, tough shit.
@@michaelmitchel3471well have a third person
Yeah, if a woman don't want to be alone in a room with a man, it's also fair that a man doesn't want to be alone with a woman. Is this really that controversial in America?
1:18 I totally agree
He refuses to be alone with women for saftey, I never had the option. We, are NOT the same!!
Lol
damn youre stone cold huh 😎
😂 🤡
Honestly, all things considered, Smart move.
once you become highly successful, you realize most people are a liability. You can do more for them, than they can ever do for you. you have to be selective of who is in your space whether man or woman.
While I understand, that's kind of a gross thing to say. If you're successful it's your duty to help out less fortunate people when and where you can. It's a fine balance. You don't want to get taken advantage of, but at the same time you don't want to be so cynical that you never give anyone a chance.
@@spracketskoochno I agree either way op f people most are liabilities
@@omens3403 is it confusing that a part of them are more liable than other liable people? Therefore, trying to push people down due to their differences like me, an autistic adult, trying to live as much as possible.
@@spracketskoochLifeguards are taught to approach a drowning person with their floatation tube between them and the drowning person. The reason you do this is because a drowning person is liable to push you under trying to save themselves. You are then instructed to push them off you and swim back using the tube as a tow.
Helping people requires a degree of caution, because even perfectly fine people change when money is involved. Being careful and kind in measured amounts creates the best outcomes for everyone involved.
@@drewgon13 You are correct, but the people who change most of all are the people with the money. I'm saying this guy is looking at other people through a lens of transaction. What can they do for me? That is not the correct way to approach interactions with other people. It brings to mind an image of a mole viciously protecting a pile of dirt while other moles bite and claw at him so they get a chance at taking some of his dirt.
I mean he's not wrong or misogynistic.
"I felt uncomfortable & unsafe"
That's what it take for someone life to be destroyed on every level
It's so crazy that all it takes is attending twitch con or similar *5 YEARS LATER* some woman/women says that sentence on stream or Twitter & just like that, your life is over.
What terrifies me the most is that, throughout the years, if you remember every single RUclipsr scandal... and genuinely ask yourself:
How many were legitimate?
@@UniCopsyo after watching this video I was thinking bout this
@@UniCops
Almost all of them.
@@tylersmith3139 almost none of them actually lol, this manufactured outrange is still normalized today.
@@tylersmith3139Doubtful
"feel punished"? Who? The girls wanting to be alone with him? Wtf
Bingo
Thats their hope anyway. I dont think anyones complaining.
But he's married. 😂
Women: "I don't wanna be alone with men 'cos they are known to attack women when alone"
Men: "I don't wanna be alone with women 'cos they are known to lie about harassments"
Two sides of the same coin and both justified.
well, sexual crimes towards women happen everyday in this county and thats only the reported ones. when men walk to close to women on a sidewalks the women speed up to get away, slow down to let them pass, or cross the street. men dont do the same when women are near by as there is not the same level of fear. men and woman walk through life very differently. ik for me perosnal im used to getting harassed, followed and put in dangerous situations with men from when i was a child. im used to having to prove i can do a task equally to a man, and im used to being see as somthing to save herself for a man rather than a human with her own aspirations.
men have a fear of being falsely accused is a valid fear, but i really don't think its the same side of the coin. the two just effett the general population so differently. men and women walk through life very differently. women almost never feel safe in public, your never not on gaurd.
I think its fine for both genders to have their reasons on why they don't want to be with the opposite sex cause there are those horrible people that will take full advantage of the situation.
@@lilaross-cz8zr thanks for speaking the truth.
I love this, and I encourage it actually. A division between sexes is a must in today's society; blokes should focus on their side and broads on theirs. I'm definitely all for a society where there is a public division from; transportation, work/job, videogames, hobbies, bands etc, where blokes should not mingle with broads and in vice versa.
@@lilaross-cz8zr Yeah, everyone has different challenges and obstacles to overcome. Doesn't take away from the original poster though, both reasons are valid for not wanting to be alone. Plus, it might not even just be for the fear of a false allegation. I know some men and women who simply don't want to be alone with the opposite sex just because they don't ever want there to be a situation or "temptation" to be unfaithful to their spouse. All good reasons
So i used to instruct in the MIL for an initial school. I learned that people love to lie, especially when they're on the chopping block. It was also written into training policy that IET (Initial Entree Trainees) never (in most situations) walk around by themselves. It was encouraged that you to never talk to the trainees without having an additional Instructor with you. Because (this has happened) what if you have a different story than the two trainees that you talked to. I've found that there are a lot of people out there who are willing to screw over another person's life (sometimes in significant ways) by making up a progressively worsening lie; and, they will feel no type of way about the harm they cause you. Lying is a very human thing to do even in the simplest of situations where its absolutely unnecessary and a lot of people have had society reinforce that instead of having integrity the best thing to do is to double/triple down when someone questions you or calls you out. People need to stop acting like this isn't common knowledge.
I like the “lying is a very human thing to do,” since it’s so common; yet, just like common sense, it’s almost like no one has it anymore. I’ve been mitigating between my friends’ relationship issues for ~2 years now. The girl in question finally wanting to move on since the guy mistreated her for too long, and she was done putting up with it. Now the guy finally wants to be with her or at least set things right. Recently, I was over his place to deliver tools, he said he needed to go see her as they set up a time to meet and she told him to turn off his location ( more than likely to keep me from knowing ). He then leaves. She turned off her location as well. Later some friends couldn’t get in touch with the guy, reach out to me about it worried over him; I used that as an excuse the next day to see if she would tell me they met up. Nope, she lied and said she had no clue where he was last night. That her location was off to keep her mom from knowing she “took out the trash.”
It’s a very small lie, and while I have no place in their potential future, she tries to keep me away from someone I had tried to be with not too long ago and in return she does the same- a small agreement. Yet when it comes to her, it’s all out the window
I agree 100%, I'm not even a public person and I don't EVER be alone with a woman. My MOMMA taught me that.
And to anybody saying "why should other women be punished for blablabla" then answer me this. Why should innocent men be punished by women being cautious of them on an empty sidewalk at night? You KNOW why, and I know why, and I don't blame any women for being cautious. I know me, I know I'm not gonna do anything, but THEY don't know me! Make sure you're safe. If the women can be cautious for their safety, us men can too, I'd rather be over-cautious than under-cautious.
It's only punishment, for women, if a man holds the keys to resources and opportunities she needs in the context of networking, in which case, you can meet in a public place, have someone with a pretense to be there act as a low-key chaperone and make sure your message traffic is professional and of unmistakable propriety.
You are completely right and your mom is a great mom for teaching you this.
@@Asenueh No one has to interact with anyone they dont want to. Sorry if ur networking opportunities are gone.
@@aristotle9243 If a man denies a woman professional networking opportunities he provides men, that's discrimination.
Women incur more risks from quid-pro-quo sexual harassment than men do from false allegations.
The reason false allegations can even be made is because of MEN'S pattern of exploitative behavior making allegations believable.
If you want to end false allegations, then you take the precautions that women have ALWAYS had to take for their own safety and you work to change the culture so women have no reason not to feel safe.
This is a male-created problem.
@@Asenueh Lol so false allegations destroying mens lives is all mens fault. Not its women who use the fact that they are often believed to manipulate peoples fault. No man owes u an opportunity to network because they are not ur employer LMAOOOO. Its not illegal to not network with women if they are not ur employee. Even so thats not what im advocating for if the network has to involve a private one on one convo no man is obligated to engage.
Even so ur not here to understand why men do what they do. U want them to engage in potentially harmful situations because u dislike men in general. I hope they continue to protect themselves regardless of if it means some women will lose opportunities. Stay mad.
I've seen time and time again, women will refuse to be in a room with men for feeling unsafe and its, understandably, socially reasonable. But a male who does this to women, for fear of danger is criticized and even ridiculed
They want everything their way and call the shots.. pathetic hypocrites. They only want everything their way so they can have power and control and to look like the victim
Statistically speaking men should be afraid of being left alone with other men. This argument gets ridiculed because men are 230 times more likely to be SA'd than falsely accused of SA. People should be cautious of who they spend time alone with regardless of gender
@@xenoshunn8965 siurces needed.
If he knows that being alone around women causes problems for his career due to him not being to know if they're up to something, then of course he is in the right. The whole argument here is "oh so you're saying that women are a problem? how can you say that?" when they know that when in this context the man is famous, then he now has some unknown person in his presence that is gonna do some weird shit like make accusations and lie.
Honestly it feels like people can’t see how shitty they can be🤦♂️
@@giovonniiclayton It's the blind defending of people that in this day and age makes zero sense. People will do some heinous shit for a bag.
I’m so happy more and more men are finally saying this out loud
"Why should all women be punished if some of them are bad apples?"
So should we jump in a pit of snakes because only one of them is poisonous?
Brother, that's the same rhetoric as the "man or bear" thing 😅
@phoenixgamer8957 No, my example is a choice of putting yourself in danger and not putting yourself in danger. Your rhetoric is in the context of you already being in danger.🤨
@2op4u41
Granted.
I guess my focus was your cosigning of punishing all women because some of them are bad apples with a metaphor(or analogy? IDFK 😅)
I'm just sure neither of us would like it if the genders were reversed. "All men till no men," for example.
I'm also positive that just being better people to each other will do just fine and will be best for us all.
@phoenixgamer8957 What I said is not only for men or women it's for both gender. You look at it as punishing the other gender. I look at it as putting yourself at less risk. Yes, treat everyone with respect, and everyone else should do the same to you. But you I both know that's not the case, which is why we are having these types of convo. Which fits perfectly to my rhetoric, you don't know who's good and who have bad intentions so therefore it's better to be safe.
@2op4u41
So that's THE solution you're implying? Alienation? Segregations? Self-imposed reservations 😅?
A great way to make intergender relations seem even more foreign and frightening to one another.
You have a tough case to push if you believe there is any merit to any division that'll help us _reasonably_ coexist better.
It's called boundaries and standards.
The common sense that is enforced by most federal laws for private and public spaces that also provide merit for us all that encourages reasonable engagement to each other. Most of us adhere to them to practice being better people to each other(yes, a practice) and, in turn, a better society.
What you're implying is that bad things could come with interacting and/or working with one another, which could lead to the worst-case scenario, so avoid needless intergender interactions.
Risks. Something that will weigh against you even on your best behavior.
That was and will forever be the case.
It, unfortunately, is collateral of the natural progression of humanity. Bad things will happen, which nothing short of death should stop us or has ever stopped our ancestors from reaching this point in society.
What I can't conceive with your reasoning is that intergender interactions are to be expected, not feared.
Which is a sentiment all of us should share.
I don’t know why but most peoples minds go straight to “oh they banged” when they see the opposite sex hanging out, as if people don’t have self control or types for that matter. My tattooist, posted a picture of the tattoo he did on his Facebook page and it blew up a bit and the things some people were saying, absolutely disgusting - this was over a picture of my tattoo and the tattooist posting his work. So yeah, people are going to say what they want to say regardless of context or logic, all simply because that’s where their thoughts and feelings landed to.
Bro I m not even saying or thinking about ur personal life because I don't know you personally n I don't have any information about ur experience but I can tell u , majority of cheaters or people who wants to hide something saying the same shit to the point people don't give a F about the story anymore
Cus they can't get any
They need to stay off the hub. Both genders can be friends
These are the types of people who can't have opposite gender friends. If they meet someone from their prefered gender, they want to bang them. It's unfathomable to them that not everyone is like that.
Depending on where that tattoo is, having that assumption would make more or less sense lol
I'm a girl that worked at a blue collar job with all men about three years ago. I completely understand why there were some guys who hadn't met me didn't want me as an apprentice. Unfortunately, men HAVE to be distrustful of being one on one with a woman. All of the guys I worked with were super respectful about giving me space. Just because I'm not someone who would make up horrible lies about a man to ruin his life, doesn't mean that they have a high level of trust in me. That is okay, and women need to understand that it's not personal, and it's about men protecting themselves.
When I was going to church, I was taught to never be alone with a girl when they were either a minor or married and if you had to talk with them then we asked another person to be a witness. If you were dating someone, the rules were slightly different, but there was always some form of accountability and I never heard any sort of rumors or accusations of any kind of assault.
i like how theres become an implication that a dm is always sexual. Do people not message each other normal things? like ever?
True, but a lot of times it is used to start something that could potentially be romantic
All my friends are from Instagram and discord
No Diddy stuff going on
But yeah we live in a freaky world
Stop victim blaming
It’s not just DMs. To many people, it’s impossible for any guy and woman to interact in any way shape or form without it having sexual implications
Context matters.
Men like Ninja are famous. Do you know how easy it is for some broad that he simply says hi to think "this is my moment to shine; he is SLIDING in my Dm?"
The context is that he is famous; there are gold diggers who will falsify the situation to get money either from him or the system (via punishing him).
This is why famous men like Mike Pence, Ninja, Lebron etc simply avoid interactions with women. They know how easy it is for some clown to misinteprete the situation and society will side with the clown.
So women are allowed to chose bears because they never know how the man could behave but Ninja can't avoid potential compromising situations since he does not know how the woman may act.
They always say untrue words can never hurt you but fail to see when it does it hits home
Ninja chose the bear lol
With the false accusations that are taken as immediate truth nowadays I dont blame any guy who does this now. While it might seem stupid its actually the right thing to do, which is sad we've gotten to this point in society against men.
Yes sad. Maybe y'all start to understand how women have felt for hundreds of years : having to take precautions and watch your every move ✨
@@Soleil-vk9tsFOH. It ain't about you
@@chisomibezim1481 sad that this is a comment section and I have every right to comment ✨if you have no point to make you can keep quiet.
@@Soleil-vk9ts aww look, the privileged class acting like its oppressed.. as usual.
Sybau gaslighting \/\/hore@@Soleil-vk9ts
Ninja could be a lot of things but at least he won't be called a PDF or a creep towards women 😂
I don’t know I feel like he’s gonna mess up somehow.
@@MarioMario-vy4biwhy you say that?
3:21 it’s not even being a public person. I used to work in a place where I became real cool with a female coworker (who had a man) through being artists and Dominican. We worked the same hours and went to the same train station after work. So naturally we started waiting for each other and parted ways once her train or mine showed up. After A MONTH of leaving together, there were rumors that we were sleeping together. I squashed that shit on the spot and told the people gossiping to grow the fuck up cause none of us were in high school at that place. After that I heard two more rumors about me sleeping with coworkers which again never happened. Rich or poor, famous or a nobody, someone is gonna talk.
This isn't even the first time he said this. Last time "people" had the same response.
Better to have women mad at you and be free than to have women at you and be in jail because of a lie.
Agreed
so basically to be with women at all is what i'm getting at here.
Men who actually commit SA don't go to jail in the majority of cases, less than 2% of reported cases result in a conviction. You're 230 times more likely to be SA'd than falsely accused so really your biggest threat is other men, not women
@@xenoshunn8965 it's not the jail we are afraid about, it's the reputation that we will permanently lose after such accusation
These days you can not even know that person and still be accused
That's scary.... you minding your bidniz and some 403 points you out and claimed you "touched" her...
No one would ever question a woman saying this exact same thing about men. If he feels uncomfortable being alone in the room with women that are not his wife then so be it, mind your business people.
Men shouldn’t be punished for women’s perceptions about them, but that’s the reality. You gotta protect your own behind. Can’t even holla at a girl anymore.
5:42 one of the wildest ones I've heard on this channel 😭 😭 😭
Women: We don't want to be near men, they're unsafe! We choose the bear!
This guy: That's cool, I don't want to be near you either for *my* safety.
Women: Wait, you can't do that that's hateful!